You’re helping me a ton man, I’m going through the hardest time of my life. A 15 year marriage falling apart, with two little girls ages 5 & 2. I’m really trying to learn the knowledge of energy and manifestation, thank you for how you’ve touched my life man! You’re doing a great thing in this life brother
Praying for you, sir. I'm going through a hard time too right now. You are so blessed to have those two daughters. Keep fighting for them. I love you, stranger.
Been in Codependency Anonymous and therapy after having 2 alcoholic parents and a schizophrenic mother and brother. I have CPTSD and I finally got to the core of fact that I always thought I was wrong and I wasn't lovable. When I became aware of that my life has changed dramatically. I think you are right on and your talking about "taking back my power and energy" really resonated with me and has been very helpful in helping me let go of some of the negative people I had attracted into my life that don't work anymore. I also love "Non-Violent Communication" which helps me stay vulnerable. You are very gifted.
To be honest I was afraid to open this video because of the heading and because it felt like I didn’t want to manipulate my ex to calling or texting me, but I’m so glad I decided to just watch this video anyway. I have been feeling unworthy abandoned due to old wounds and I realised that I need to revisit them and heal from them. You truly are my reason for even knowing of childhood trauma and how to heal from them. I’m so glad the Universe brought me to your channel Aaron.
I totally agree I did hypnosis to go back and heal my inner child. I've had to cut people off, all of the negativity was reflected on to me... I'm so much better now and still getting better every single day. 😌❣️🙏
Aaron, I'm over 50 and this is the first time Ive been able to make sense of this. I've had some of this come up in my life through reading (due to childhood issues), but explanations were only touched upon - not explanatory enough to create any identifications with actual cause and effects. Thank you for being Interested enough in this psychology so as to help us better understand why we are where we are, and not where we would/could be, if only we instilled the correct mental conditioning necessary to acquire the correct mind set needed to allow us to reach particular points in time and space; to have goals met, accomplishments acquired; to be, to have, to know whatever we set out to achieve.
All of your videos are excellent , but, this one is one of your best videos because your explanation of 'manipulating the environment and other people to meet our own needs' is an eye opener to behaviors based on childhood experiences.
If you are a man, you need to take action to be a better man by the day, handle other girls the one you deserve will come into your life automatically!!!
@@miryana79 all females are not the same just as all males are not the same. As long as you keep holding on to this belief(and worse) you're just going to keep attracting the same type and the poor experiences. Change your mindset/beliefs about people, yourself, how you're treated and life I general. Do what your passionate about and/or what gives you joy. Self care, self worth and self validation is key. That's what harbors change. Not acknowledging THEN projecting negative experiences onto other people. Its all about you now...change what's going on inside you..change how your world shows up for you.
Hi guys. Sexist comments and insults from : black ranbit' I'm sure I have had more life experiences than you,sorry. To me you sound like someone who criticizes others,not support them.
@@blackrabbittarot3898 and how do you know I don't love myself. I don't need anyone in my life to put me down. You cannot tell anyone that they don't love themselves. I eat healthy,don't drink or do drugs,I care for others,and since I was little I enjoy life each day. I hate boredom and boring people too. Therefore,if someone like my ex,who was a narcissist and immature person is boring and no sense of humor I loose interest. A lot of people are putting pressure on themselves to find that partner, however the truth,like Aaron says,is to listen to our hearts. Good luck,my suggestion is go out in person,meet people and start caring for others. Yes,love yourself,but not to the point where u r arrogant. And what's ' a black rabbit '?tarot? The tarot , prediction etc isn't the way to live true life.
Make them call and talk to me every day?? Oh please no! Why? Simply to watch how I conquered them? No thank you. Forgive and forget. I am happy! if someone "returns" it simply means that there is some issue with him/her. We are not backup plan! Heyy!!! People wake up! Otherwise Aaron - nice job 😁🙏🧠
This is amazing Aaron. I personally found your framing technique to be one of the most powerful tools to feel my own energy and stop giving it away to others. Love your videos
I’ve never felt like this before. I’ve been on a spiritual journey for a few months now...It honestly feels like it’s been so much longer. I’ve fallen out and backtracked so many times, I’ve given up, but I always come back. This video made me realize I was the glue, and It made me super emotional to realize that. You made several points that I hadn’t even thought of. My eyes are opening more and more the further along I go down this path.
Thank you, Aaron, you have been such a game changer in my life the past 2 weeks helping me understand the difference between needie/manipulative energy. You have also helped me become more authentic within myself and confront my past traumas and beliefs allowing me to become more present with my inner child and I now look forward to growing so much more within myself. You are one of a kind!! Thanks again Kris
This was a TREAT! I always learn so much more than the title claims i will. I'm more interested in my subconscious mind and meditation than somebody contacting me and I just learnt so much. 🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank you Aaron!
Not even my female friends ever texted or call me first. Being the one initiating the convo can be tiring especially as an ambivert. I want to get married.
This resonated so much for me right now and I’ve been bad with watching your videos lol (sorry). I just happen to click on this when I was scrolling through my notifications. I needed this reminder. Thank you 🙌
My divine masculine was completely emotionally unavailable like my dad. As I’ve healed I attract better people it’s me that’s avoidant now. I leave people before they can leave me
It was always you who was avoidant internally love(due to trauma)..that's why you attracted emotionally unavailable people(familiarity and fear). If you work on beliefs like "love brings me peace", "I am the priority", "I am always chosen because I'm the best choice", "I'm deeply valuable", "a billion people don't equal me", "I trust in myself and I trust the people in my life" etc...
"Is it *not ok* for you to be *not ok* ?" Wow. That hit different today. It really sunk in just how much I was raised to pretend to be ok even when I wasn't. My mother would shame me and tell me I was spoiled and lucky to have so much when so many other kids had so little. She would compare my life to that of her nephew whos mother was on drugs and left him. She would compare my life to her own life. She said "I had to help raise my brothers and sisters. I do everything for everyone. But what do you do? Nothing." She would always tell me how she was given "nothing" and I was given "everything." When I would try to be independent, she would sabotage me, humiliate me, and tell me I'd be nothing without her. She undermined my father and her siblings in this way, also. She was narcessistic and controlling. She was helpful and understanding to many people, but she treated me (her only child) and her other closest loved ones as a burden and a dissapointment. She considered me a reflection of herself, so she expected more of me than anyone else and she judged me very harshly. That says more about her than it does about me, really. But still, as a small child I internalized that feeling of unworthiness. I've heard you talk about how you made yourself small to avoid making your brother feel bad. That's what I did too. For my mother and for many people on her side of the family. And low and behold, I've always been in relationships where I feel the need to prove my worth. Yet I never could, because deep down I didn't feel worthy. Throughout my life my different partners (like my mother) have treated me like a burden and haven't cared to hear me whine about my feelings of lonliness. It's exhausting. So maybe I should stop whining and pleading for external validation. Maybe I should start really believing that I'm intrinsically valid and worthy. And I always have been! Thank you for explaining things the way you do. It really truly helps. You even explained Theta state and made a whole step-by-step map on how to get back there... but how to feel safe in vulnerability going forward. Just wow. Thank you so much!
Well he initiated starting the texting every day thing so i followed and then sometimes would do it first too. Then he slowly pulled away texting less after he reiterated to me in person the importance of communication. Sometimes whole day went by and gave me anxiety cuz i didn't kno wtf happened
I've heard Owen Cook talk about how people sometimes can't receive a message. I feel like there is some kind of blockage that is keeping me from fully understanding what is going on in this video, but I also feel like I need to hear these words. I hope I can grasp these concepts and change my life. I'm in so much pain...
Listen to it often, not expecting change or understanding to happen quickly. Eventually you will understand!! Sending love ur way. If you are open to change you’re halfway there ❤️
@@emmamcphearson9942 thank you so much. I've been dedicating time every day to learning how to move forward. God bless you, stranger. Your words are really encouraging.
*Never let one failure from the past hold you back in the future* 👉🏻 *MUST READ FOR YOU* “As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not. He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. ‘Well,’ trainer said, ‘when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.’ The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.” *I LOVE YOU* ❤️ ❤️
I got a call from telemarketer bot not the woman I want to marry. The real world sucks when you're not Jimin or Namjoon who they can get and woman they want to marry.
Something happened to me the other day when I was getting overwhelming feelings about thinking about my ex and I was just was thinking why am I doing this and then about a minute later she ends up calling me and I thought wow it's really ironic that I just had an overwhelming feeling about this person and then all of a sudden they're reaching out to me.
Everything was going well... He was calling all the time. Then we cuddled for hrs.. I said to him right before that.. that I have love in my heart for him. Now he just ghosted me for no reason!!!..
I’ve a problem with letting bfs pay for stuff for me , then I tend to over give 😅 I feel like I don’t want anything from anybody ! Even dinner ? What’s that about and how can I change it ?
I am also a guidance Meditator Channel Source flow But I am an ancient reawakened scion We are borne of blood trough You enact majick But you forget How many humankind bleed for your blessings Annuak Disregard me
Guys, you should call us each day,or we will loose interest. We are not stupid. And as far as my ex is concerned,he can go find someone narcissistic like himself. I don't have to change in order to please him . So to all the guys who play mind games with us normal females,see ya later.
You talk nonsense. Beliefs are not based on what we experienced as children but on the feeling of our missing polarity. Either we are basic yang and we use others to feel complete because we are vibrating the lack of yin or we are basic yin and we are using others to feel powerful because we are vibrating the lack of yang.
I follow you always I never miss your of your episode here in RUclips i apply your tactic nothing work nothing I don't trust nothing from your video I stop watching you not worthy I loose a lot of time for your videos
We know you had a bad childhood because you mention in every video relating things to it. That doesn't mean everyone else had it too. So please stop relating everything to this topic because sometimes videos do not resonate.
I honestly disliked this video and made my depression gotten worse from all the rejections from amazing women that don't want me. (Yes I have so many things to bring to the table)
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🙏😘🙏 I LOVE YOUR VOICE and YOUR ATTITUDE/MESSAGE...GOD BLESS YOU MR. AARON...THANK-YOU FOR YOUR INFORMATION...AMEN!!! 🙏😇🙏
You’re helping me a ton man, I’m going through the hardest time of my life.
A 15 year marriage falling apart, with two little girls ages 5 & 2.
I’m really trying to learn the knowledge of energy and manifestation, thank you for how you’ve touched my life man!
You’re doing a great thing in this life brother
I pray for this reconciliation or whatever are wishing for
Please work things out.. This is so sad! ☹️
you got this bro.
Praying for you, sir. I'm going through a hard time too right now. You are so blessed to have those two daughters. Keep fighting for them. I love you, stranger.
@@keasenne aww i understand 100% Im in the same situation right now and I feel lost and sick
Been in Codependency Anonymous and therapy after having 2 alcoholic parents and a schizophrenic mother and brother. I have CPTSD and I finally got to the core of fact that I always thought I was wrong and I wasn't lovable. When I became aware of that my life has changed dramatically. I think you are right on and your talking about "taking back my power and energy" really resonated with me and has been very helpful in helping me let go of some of the negative people I had attracted into my life that don't work anymore. I also love "Non-Violent Communication" which helps me stay vulnerable. You are very gifted.
To be honest I was afraid to open this video because of the heading and because it felt like I didn’t want to manipulate my ex to calling or texting me, but I’m so glad I decided to just watch this video anyway. I have been feeling unworthy abandoned due to old wounds and I realised that I need to revisit them and heal from them. You truly are my reason for even knowing of childhood trauma and how to heal from them. I’m so glad the Universe brought me to your channel Aaron.
Being aware of inner child needs is a game changer, thanks for sharing Aaron 🙌
I totally agree I did hypnosis to go back and heal my inner child. I've had to cut people off, all of the negativity was reflected on to me... I'm so much better now and still getting better every single day. 😌❣️🙏
Bro you are a legend. Countless times you have helped me in my life. What a great world we live in. Love ya brotha
Aaron, I'm over 50 and this is the first time Ive been able to make sense of this. I've had some of this come up in my life through reading (due to childhood issues), but explanations were only touched upon - not explanatory enough to create any identifications with actual cause and effects. Thank you for being Interested enough in this psychology so as to help us better understand why we are where we are, and not where we would/could be, if only we instilled the correct mental conditioning necessary to acquire the correct mind set needed to allow us to reach particular points in time and space; to have goals met, accomplishments acquired; to be, to have, to know whatever we set out to achieve.
My dating life has profondely changed since i discovered you
thank you so much
All of your videos are excellent , but, this one is one of your best videos because your explanation of 'manipulating the environment and other people to meet our own needs' is an eye opener to behaviors based on childhood experiences.
mmm be yourself because it is WHO you want to be... not because of what it will get you. Super illuminating Aaron, thank you!
If you are a man, you need to take action to be a better man by the day, handle other girls the one you deserve will come into your life automatically!!!
@@miryana79 all females are not the same just as all males are not the same. As long as you keep holding on to this belief(and worse) you're just going to keep attracting the same type and the poor experiences. Change your mindset/beliefs about people, yourself, how you're treated and life I general. Do what your passionate about and/or what gives you joy. Self care, self worth and self validation is key. That's what harbors change. Not acknowledging THEN projecting negative experiences onto other people. Its all about you now...change what's going on inside you..change how your world shows up for you.
Hi guys.
Sexist comments and insults from : black ranbit' I'm sure I have had more life experiences than you,sorry. To me you sound like someone who criticizes others,not support them.
@@blackrabbittarot3898 and how do you know I don't love myself. I don't need anyone in my life to put me down.
You cannot tell anyone that they don't love themselves. I eat healthy,don't drink or do drugs,I care for others,and since I was little I enjoy life each day. I hate boredom and boring people too.
Therefore,if someone like my ex,who was a narcissist and immature person is boring and no sense of humor I loose interest.
A lot of people are putting pressure on themselves to find that partner, however the truth,like Aaron says,is to listen to our hearts.
Good luck,my suggestion is go out in person,meet people and start caring for others. Yes,love yourself,but not to the point where u r arrogant. And what's ' a black rabbit '?tarot? The tarot , prediction etc isn't the way to live true life.
Make them call and talk to me every day?? Oh please no! Why? Simply to watch how I conquered them? No thank you. Forgive and forget. I am happy! if someone "returns" it simply means that there is some issue with him/her. We are not backup plan! Heyy!!! People wake up!
Otherwise Aaron - nice job 😁🙏🧠
This is amazing Aaron. I personally found your framing technique to be one of the most powerful tools to feel my own energy and stop giving it away to others. Love your videos
Thank you so much for being on RUclips. This is for anybody who's watching this video. It absolutely 100%. It works.
I’ve never felt like this before. I’ve been on a spiritual journey for a few months now...It honestly feels like it’s been so much longer. I’ve fallen out and backtracked so many times, I’ve given up, but I always come back. This video made me realize I was the glue, and It made me super emotional to realize that. You made several points that I hadn’t even thought of. My eyes are opening more and more the further along I go down this path.
I watch these videos daily and I’m so thankful Aaron makes em, helped me tremendously.
Feeling Worthy has been a big one for me too
Thank you, Aaron, you have been such a game changer in my life the past 2 weeks helping me understand the difference between needie/manipulative energy. You have also helped me become more authentic within myself and confront my past traumas and beliefs allowing me to become more present with my inner child and I now look forward to growing so much more within myself. You are one of a kind!! Thanks again Kris
This was a TREAT! I always learn so much more than the title claims i will. I'm more interested in my subconscious mind and meditation than somebody contacting me and I just learnt so much. 🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank you Aaron!
Our "war' frame?! lol I've dove back into the the game
Your body gasture, expression of each word and energy is so amazing, thank you sir, i really love it
Not even my female friends ever texted or call me first. Being the one initiating the convo can be tiring especially as an ambivert. I want to get married.
I usually skip these then I realized there's a bunch of clients I could help if they called back
This resonated so much for me right now and I’ve been bad with watching your videos lol (sorry). I just happen to click on this when I was scrolling through my notifications. I needed this reminder. Thank you 🙌
My divine masculine was completely emotionally unavailable like my dad. As I’ve healed I attract better people it’s me that’s avoidant now. I leave people before they can leave me
It was always you who was avoidant internally love(due to trauma)..that's why you attracted emotionally unavailable people(familiarity and fear). If you work on beliefs like "love brings me peace", "I am the priority", "I am always chosen because I'm the best choice", "I'm deeply valuable", "a billion people don't equal me", "I trust in myself and I trust the people in my life" etc...
"Is it *not ok* for you to be *not ok* ?"
Wow. That hit different today. It really sunk in just how much I was raised to pretend to be ok even when I wasn't.
My mother would shame me and tell me I was spoiled and lucky to have so much when so many other kids had so little. She would compare my life to that of her nephew whos mother was on drugs and left him. She would compare my life to her own life. She said "I had to help raise my brothers and sisters. I do everything for everyone. But what do you do? Nothing." She would always tell me how she was given "nothing" and I was given "everything." When I would try to be independent, she would sabotage me, humiliate me, and tell me I'd be nothing without her. She undermined my father and her siblings in this way, also. She was narcessistic and controlling.
She was helpful and understanding to many people, but she treated me (her only child) and her other closest loved ones as a burden and a dissapointment. She considered me a reflection of herself, so she expected more of me than anyone else and she judged me very harshly. That says more about her than it does about me, really. But still, as a small child I internalized that feeling of unworthiness.
I've heard you talk about how you made yourself small to avoid making your brother feel bad. That's what I did too. For my mother and for many people on her side of the family.
And low and behold, I've always been in relationships where I feel the need to prove my worth. Yet I never could, because deep down I didn't feel worthy. Throughout my life my different partners (like my mother) have treated me like a burden and haven't cared to hear me whine about my feelings of lonliness.
It's exhausting.
So maybe I should stop whining and pleading for external validation. Maybe I should start really believing that I'm intrinsically valid and worthy. And I always have been!
Thank you for explaining things the way you do. It really truly helps. You even explained Theta state and made a whole step-by-step map on how to get back there... but how to feel safe in vulnerability going forward. Just wow. Thank you so much!
Well he initiated starting the texting every day thing so i followed and then sometimes would do it first too. Then he slowly pulled away texting less after he reiterated to me in person the importance of communication. Sometimes whole day went by and gave me anxiety cuz i didn't kno wtf happened
You are an absolute Genius Aaron Doughty.
I've heard Owen Cook talk about how people sometimes can't receive a message. I feel like there is some kind of blockage that is keeping me from fully understanding what is going on in this video, but I also feel like I need to hear these words. I hope I can grasp these concepts and change my life. I'm in so much pain...
Listen to it often, not expecting change or understanding to happen quickly. Eventually you will understand!! Sending love ur way. If you are open to change you’re halfway there ❤️
@@emmamcphearson9942 thank you so much. I've been dedicating time every day to learning how to move forward. God bless you, stranger. Your words are really encouraging.
My parents always made me feel like I'm not priority, that there are somethings more importan.
This dude is the freaking homie yo
This was exactly the lesson I needed to reflect on today. Very grateful, thank you
Aaron, been watching you for a while. You really are the man.
Thank you Aaron, this is exactly what I needed to hear tonight!
My ex messaged me every day , I hate being messaged and called everyday . It’s so annoying Unless it’s my twin flame 🔥
*Never let one failure from the past hold you back in the future* 👉🏻 *MUST READ FOR YOU*
“As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.
He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. ‘Well,’ trainer said, ‘when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.’
The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.”
*I LOVE YOU* ❤️ ❤️
Wow. Thanks for that.
Aaron, I just want to thank you man..you rock.
fucking hell that painting is possessing me haha - I know exactly what that is though ;-D
I got the call just looking at the thumbnail.. no joke
I got a call from telemarketer bot not the woman I want to marry. The real world sucks when you're not Jimin or Namjoon who they can get and woman they want to marry.
This Resonates and brings so much Clarity ,,,,,,yess Aaron
Something happened to me the other day when I was getting overwhelming feelings about thinking about my ex and I was just was thinking why am I doing this and then about a minute later she ends up calling me and I thought wow it's really ironic that I just had an overwhelming feeling about this person and then all of a sudden they're reaching out to me.
I like me and people like me and if that's not good enough I dont need her
Everything was going well... He was calling all the time. Then we cuddled for hrs.. I said to him right before that.. that I have love in my heart for him. Now he just ghosted me for no reason!!!..
But please make some videos on different, i love your letting go and magnetic topic..but want to see more different things
Your videos are something else! Thank you ❤️
Thank You 🙏🏼 for your kindness caring and loving respect ✊
Just right now, I’ve been rejected because I expressed how I feel
I’ve a problem with letting bfs pay for stuff for me , then I tend to over give 😅 I feel like I don’t want anything from anybody ! Even dinner ? What’s that about and how can I change it ?
Thank you for this,I really needed to hear this
Game changer aaron! Love u!
Real title of the video:
HOW TO STOP BEING NEEDY AND BEING ONE WITH THE WORLD 🌍
Nah I still want a Japanese wife tho
Brilliant video Aaron, thanks
Ag man jy’s oulik :) Baie Dankie 🙏✨
Looking corporate bro
This thing is genious
New choices !! 🥰
Brilliant ❤
damn its still hard.watching your videos makes me understand, that im kinda needy, but after some days pass, I always fall back :(
Save the video and come back and watch when you feel yourself falling into old behaviors
Thanks man...really good!!
What web site are you going to for your posters???
Fantastic you have helped me so much thank you ♥
I wonder if this works on people with narcissistic traits
THANK YOU FOR SHARING
Thanks for that ❤
Ok so I don’t see any comments here saying that it worked
When i ‘feel’ the separation i get anxiety. How do i fix this?
You seem to make the same videos about the same thing
Thanks for this
Thank yoooouuuuu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you
Do you do counselling ? I need you lol😂
I know of a man| who can bring your ex back to you he fixed my relationship and my ex is back to me and we are living happily like never before
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What if u just want control
I am also a guidance
Meditator
Channel
Source flow
But
I am an ancient reawakened scion
We are borne of blood trough
You enact majick
But you forget
How many humankind bleed for your blessings
Annuak
Disregard me
I second you ❤️
Guys, you should call us each day,or we will loose interest. We are not stupid. And as far as my ex is concerned,he can go find someone narcissistic like himself. I don't have to change in order to please him .
So to all the guys who play mind games with us normal females,see ya later.
Yeah don't call me I'll call you ❣️
@@flynn6996 💋
Minute 7:30that's me 😅😅😂
Aaron I just installed what's app.
Can we rap?
You talk nonsense. Beliefs are not based on what we experienced as children but on the feeling of our missing polarity. Either we are basic yang and we use others to feel complete because we are vibrating the lack of yin or we are basic yin and we are using others to feel powerful because we are vibrating the lack of yang.
444!
I follow you always I never miss your of your episode here in RUclips i apply your tactic nothing work nothing I don't trust nothing from your video I stop watching you not worthy I loose a lot of time for your videos
R u feom illuminati?
Thanks but why are you constantly speaking hototo hototo hototo to people, harsh, child-advice tone & loud it is not motivational it is exhausting
We know you had a bad childhood because you mention in every video relating things to it. That doesn't mean everyone else had it too. So please stop relating everything to this topic because sometimes videos do not resonate.
I honestly disliked this video and made my depression gotten worse from all the rejections from amazing women that don't want me. (Yes I have so many things to bring to the table)
First
My parents always made me feel like I'm not priority, that there are somethings more importan.