Starting fights like this comes from insecurity. Needing confirmation, affirmation and feeling secure. You start a fight because you want your partner to say, I love you, don’t go, I want you. And then you can feel a bit more secure, at ease. Taylor talks about doing things like this in several songs trough her discography. I’m guessing this is a insecurity she’s been dealing with for most of her life. And I would be surprised if it stems from the bullying she endorsed and the way that effected her self esteem and self worth. (And of course got even more reinforced when she dated John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhaal 2 relationships that seems to have been very toxic and perhaps even abusive)
Starting fights like this comes from insecurity. Needing confirmation, affirmation and feeling secure. You start a fight because you want your partner to say, I love you, don’t go, I want you. And then you can feel a bit more secure, at ease. Taylor talks about doing things like this in several songs trough her discography. I’m guessing this is a insecurity she’s been dealing with for most of her life. And I would be surprised if it stems from the bullying she endorsed and the way that effected her self esteem and self worth. (And of course got even more reinforced when she dated John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhaal 2 relationships that seems to have been very toxic and perhaps even abusive)