Donell Jones - Where I Wanna Be (Official Video)
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
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Lyrics:
I said I left my baby girl a message
Sayin' I won't be coming home
I'd rather be alone
She doesn't fully understand me
That I'd rather leave than to cheat
If she gives me some time
I can be the man she needs
But there's a lot of lust inside of me
And we've been together since our teenage years
I really don't mean to hurt her, but I need some time
To be alone
But when you love someone
You just don't treat them bad
Oh, how I feel so sad
Now that I wanna leave
She's crying her heart to me
How could you let this be?
I just need time to see
Where I wanna be
Where I wanna be...
This song!!! My son died three years ago. His birthday is coming up in March. He would have been 31. He use to sing this song. My baby couldn’t sing to save his life. But he would sing it anyway. It made me so happy. What I wouldn’t give to hear him sing it now. I miss you son. Mama loves you so much.
Sorry deeply
🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
My heart is with you
Praying for you and the soul of your son! In Jesus name
@@christolbrown1003 Thank you so much!!
43 year old white dude from Seattle, who grew up in the grunge scene… and this album changed my life! 90’s R&B is FIYER!!!
Man, I miss being home. I'm from Seattle also.
Let’s make a 90s and early 20s party for all who know this music
Good taste and i fcks with grunge rock
From Chicago but lived in Seattle throughout my childhood. Kent, Federal Way, Covington! I definitely miss the PNW it’s so beautiful up there.
Fax!!!
The message: when you love someone you just don’t treat them bad. End the relationship BEFORE cheating
I mean it’s not that hard a woman will definitely have so much more respect for you if you just keep it real 🎯💯💯💯💯❤
There!!!
Romantic love is a two way street and love can get complicated as we do lose ourselves. Still I wonder how many women would appreciate this cold honesty? “Bade, I’m not sure I still feel the way I did about our relationship, I’m distracted as you might of noticed and I’ve come to a decision, I think I should be on my own to figure things out. I don’t want to lie to or disrespect you so I’m telling you I’m letting go and it’s best if you do too.”
Truth!!!!
@@Ronald-ks2iyit sucks either way. It’s better if your partner didn’t cheat, though.
This whole album deserves a grammy
💯
And it did not get one. So sad
This album had me in a chokehold. I drove my sister crazy playing this song on repeat for months. To this day, I still never skip this song when it comes up in my playlist.
@@Styl849 word as bond!!
One of the best albums ever hands down
Said he'd rather LEAVE than to CHEAT!!!! Now THAT'S A MAN....A REAL ONE!!! WHEN U LUV SOMEONE, U JUST DON'T TREAT THEM BAD....A man who TRULY KNOWS AND UNDERSTANDS THE MEANING OF LOVE IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SEXY TO ME!!!!!
Lol a man that's gone be leaving yo azz
Lol . That's why they get played
Literally saying he hon be with you, til he want something new, then come back to his guarantee when he needs to restart the process.🤣🤣
But they know what a real man is .🤣🤣..This comment and mindset is why I no longer feel sympathy for them when they get played; moronic thought process.
And will be waiting,with open arms, when he comes back with extra bodies in him.🤣🤣.. they are enthralled by dysfunction because they, themselves, are dysfunctional.lol
@@IsaiahSays-tw4th Better that than being disrespect by getting cheated on, vraiment une réflexion d'imbecile.
I will respect a man if he just keeps it real. If he got alot lust in him and he isn't ready and he rather leave then leave, but tell her why you leaving. Don't just disappear, because she's going to think something is wrong with her.
9
MY SITUATION
yo
right!!!
i wish there were women out there that reallt understand this song..sometimes love just isnt enough.
THIS song is so timeless it feels like its your first time hearing it everytime
Yes it does..will never get old
definitely an rnb classic
I'm glad they continue to play it on iHeart Radio.
+ToneEsco or u could have alzheimers. haw haw haw
fuck yeaaaaaaaa !!!! On point fam
The bitter honesty of this song but sadly too many men feel this way but selfishly they hold onto their woman because they can’t bear the thought of her moving on from them and they lose that chance to ever come back.
The legend!!
It’s so many options that I feel so unworthy to be loved. I feel so ugly. I truly believe a man cannot love a women and only her. I don’t think I will ever get to experience real love, because I been let down so many times.
@@susanschuck8841 Age should bring wisdom and too many times I see women getting themselves entangled with men that are not a good match for them. I see women make the same mistakes with men time and time again. There is a practical side to love and it emerges when the “honeymoon” is ending and it hits a lot of women like a brick wall as they finally realize their man was no more than a good fuk! He never was the type of man you should have tried to partner with.
See men fall in different categories and this is the questions you should be asking yourself: Is he capable of being a good companion to you? How deep is your attraction to him? Do you truly feel he is into you? Is he at that point in his life to have a serious relationship? How much baggage does he have and can you deal with it in the long term? Is he taking the time to know & understand the woman that you are?
Then ask yourself the same questions about yourself.
You right they forgot as men
It's kind of true
I'm glad we have all these videos to run to so we can escape the music that plays today. I don't know what to do without em
Kevin mike .. damn bro u said that perfectly!
Yup lol
Kevin mike You can say that again
Well said.. it's why I haven't thrown away any of my CD's from the 90s..
Kevin mike ikr
This is the story of a man that is seeking to self discover. Donell Jones paints the picture so vividly through his lyrics. He and his girl have been together since they were teenagers and even though he knows he loves her, he still feels like it may be necessary for him to explore the world and get over his curiosity about what else is out there. He's torn about whether to stay or leave because he loves his girl and doesn't want to hurt her, but he doesn't want to get to the point where he regrets not getting to experience life as a single man. So he makes the decision to take a break and steps out there and sleeps with the girl from the club only to come to the realization that it wasn't worth it after seeing his longtime girl on a date with someone else. That's when he calls her outside and pleads for her love back and apologizes. The truth of the matter is this is the reality for a lot of men. Some choose to stay and be faithful, some choose to take a break, and some choose to cheat. Moral of the story is if you know someone is valuable to you, don't take them for granted and risk losing them. The strength of your love for them will determine the outcome.
1990BornBaby wow. So um... I’m working on an essay right now.... can you finish it for me? 🤣
Magic Johnson? Is that you?
@@guillem9929 HAAHAHAHAHAHA
1990BornBaby I totally agree with until the point of him wanting to get back with his ex after seeing her on a date...I think it’s more like him contemplating whether or not he should go back to her after a breaching her trust..when he sees her trying to move on he shoots his shot because he realizes they are not over each other...she had the choice of taking him back or ignoring him and continuing with the date
Damn your words are true to us men. You hit a homerun sir. Really well written
This song touches your soul this is the kind of music we need today
MASTERPIECE!!!
They don't make music like this anymore😢
Like these gen z need to listen to the lyrics of this song
💞💞💞
Yes! But everyone wants to be the killer thug now a days. No one wants to the lover boy. It's deemed to be weak.
If you want to break up honestly because you'd rather explore your options, that's fine. Just take heed that the one you're leaving behind may not be there in the future to take you back after you find out shit ain't sweet with all those other chicks.
Exactly
man wish RnB was still like this, stuff like this never gets old.
The millennials will never know.
+Le Afrique Don't. just don't.
I swear Oms
£
Yep
Somebody gotta be with me in 2024
👍🏾‼️
I’m right here February 2024 ❤❤
I'm here on the 1st of March 2024
I'm so with you love...on repeat to!!!
You know it!!!! MARCH 2024.
OLDER U GET U UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF THIS MASTERPIECE
I do understand I'm the one that got hurt my heart hurt me so bad I really loved him
He did me so wrong let me win three babys
Big facts
You're right... I understand how the meaning behind this song is even bigger bullshyt than I thought it was as a kid 🤣
@@JulanaJones-vk5rb aint you getting a check and HALF? lol
Who is here in 2025 Donell Jones is classic. Love R&B. What what beautiful I still rock with him.❤❤❤❤❤❤
to all my 90's & 2000's folks doesn't it suck that we're now old enough to actually FEEL this song ugh!!
Oh my gosh yes!!
i love how you included 2000’s😂.. people always forget about us early early 2000’s kids being old enough to experience relationships && heartbreaks .. coming from an ‘02 baby
@@nataliemarcus5829 That’s a fact feelings have no age
Facts!
YES!!! Omg
My husband & I have been together since our teenage years & now we’re almost 50! True love never fails
how did yall do it? im so lost
Love is forever
@@bejayeiggoms999 prayer & putting God 1st.
@@bejayeiggoms999she probably was cheating behind his back a lot of old men be getting cheated on
@@AMothersTouchOfSoulyea you definitely cheated
The way dude was looking at Donell through the window like “AHH HELL NAW THIS IS GHETTO” takes me out every time he immediately grabbed his drink🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅
Me too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's Karl Kani lol look him up
😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm dying😂😂😂
This song is a powerhouse. With so many broken relationships it should be getting consistent air play on every radio stations in America. Still sounding brand new in 2024. Message in the music Solid memories❤
Can you believe this song came out in 1999?!😳 I was like 5 years old. They don't make music like this anymore. Thumbs up if you agree
so very true
I'm 15 and I was born in 2001 I like the 90s and 80s music better than my generation today
👍👍👍👍👍
man this song was and still is a classic brother!!!! I was in HS when this came out & this song was on the radio everynight, but it never got old...
👍👍👍👍
1:24
When he said: *_"Swee-Doo-Doo-Dee-Doop-Dee-Dee"_*
I felt that.
😊😂😂😂
🤣💯
😩😩🤣🤣🤣
👌🏿😂😂
From stevie wonder
This song hits different now that I’m older ❤️
💯
Yeah like "Nigga don't fucking try me like that" Where you wanna be? You leave you stay gone.
@@spinningbackkick6021 🤣🤣🤣 FACTS
Nigga if you ain't at least 37 you'd never know the meaning of this song.
I'm 42 so I was there.
YESSSSSSSSSSS ME TO🤷🏾♀️
True definition of lust.💔
❤
It is.... some ppl just learn late. Sucks tho.
I used to love this song until I got married to someone who was 8 years younger than me. Our marriage lasted for 18 years but every time I heard this song it struck a cord with me. It was no longer as beautiful as it was before I had been married. We divorced a month ago and this song was my biggest fear coming true. I was resentful at first but I came to understand why this song had brought up those feelings in me because I felt it throughout our marriage although I would constantly ask him if he felt this way. It's only right that you be happy in life and follow your free will. The key is to be honest about the way you feel inside. With a situation like this somebody's going to be hurt but it's how you do it that matters. We've been apart for a year and a half and I have healed now and this song is once again beautiful. Lesson: marry somebody who knows what they want when they get married
❤️❤️❤️hugs
*Bearhug!*
That last part👌🏾💯. 🤗
Well said❤️ am glad u have healed is not easy being with someone for that amount of time and not feel something still. Blessings
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Honesty is always the best policy, and in this song he's just keeping it 100%, like it or not!! You always have to respect a person that speaks the truth about their feelings!
Yes!!!
Facts, but most people are so used to hearing lies that the truth hurts like a muthafucka and they won't accept it. I'm told I'm brutally honest, but I like it that way because it frees me regardless of the outcome.
@@tweetdaone4450 Nice, clean, dependable approach!
I MISS this mans music so much !
me too I love a good slowjam.. that leaves me feeing better and wiser about my life at the end f the song:)
Precious barrington I agree you definitely learn and grow from these types of songs !
Me to. U should check out 4TAE "Right where i wanna be"
J Vocals yes
J D why? it's a search away.
This song hits different... the older we get... the wiser we should become. When you prefer quality over quantity, you know you've reached a whole new level of adulthood.
FACTS!!!
LIFE ADVICE
If a man ever says " Sweeeeeedaleeedupdeedee" walk away.
Lmao
Wow 😬
beuaheaheaheaae
I’m dead 😵😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Forreal lol
what people have to understand is that LUST comes at you so fast that most mistake it for love...if youve been with someone since teenage years, it typically starts out as lust and may eventually lead to love, but by that time you feel stuck and pressured and feel like youve missed out on something that may have been truly for you or not. The painful part is leaving to find out, only to find out that their isnt anything out there and try to double back to what you had and he/she is gone. Main point is, dont jump into something that started out based on lust that grew to love or you will find yourself standing outside a mf window singing "sweedledeeedoooodeeedeeee"
💯 ❤
This is not the real story. According to his Unsung or TV one story. He was already cheating and messing with another woman. His wife suspected this. She asked him if he still loved her and wanted to be married? He couldn't answer. She said ill make the decision. I want you gone. She went back to Chicago where there from. So he cleaned the story up real well in this video but this isn't what he actually did. Nice song and I'm still and fan. His honest feelings should be heard and respected. I just hate when the Black mother of your kids is there through the lean and poor times. Then when you make it big You want to bounce after she relocated all the way to the East coast. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
That’s only u casual sex people who don’t know how to wait. Y’all not even the majority
@@Killua3245 lol yea ok
Not standing outside the window singing “sweedoooodeeee”🤣😂😭😂🤣. Hilarity!
Who here in 2019. I kno I am😍❤❤
Me!!! And I'm having a whole jam session!! I'm officially the "auntie" lol
Am here, always
Faith Marshall Meeeeee
Tf me lol this song is a classic throwback
Sweeedoodudledeedoodidi sure am 😅🙌🏽
Man I used to stay up late at night watching BET just to listen to this song...anyone else remember those good ole times?
Yes back in those good ole days. Miss them so much.
a sexy smooth way of saying , "I want you, but I want them too. so im going to go sleep around & put you on the back burner. .but stay loyal to me, even though im not returning the favour "
This was my song back in grade school though
Sad but true. God bless you.
hell yea
it's funny back when i was a kid i never appreciated the lyrics of this song as much as "you know what's up" but as adult i recognize what a masterpiece this was and still is. yes, not a great "message" but beautifully written and well thought out. deep shit
Truth!
Wait? Was this A fukc boy anthem before it became movement?????
Sad that Im young but I have to go back to find good R&B music that I grew up on
Aylana Jackson right
Aylana Jackson righhhht
same I'm 17 and old school music is all I listen to.
Aylana Jackson Exactly
Yuup
"When you love someone you just don't treat them bad." One of the realest statements. I see relationships go bad left and right. Divorces are normal. Hurting loved ones is common. And most of all now that I am a Christian, I see how bad I hurt Christ Jesus when I do not accept His grace and live a sinful lifestyle. I don't want to take advantage of this perfect love from Jesus. "Say when you love someone, you just don't treat them bad"
the Truth sets people free, it doesn't ruin the song. I just added a bit of Truth to the song God bless
Nothing nice about it, GOD BLESSES and GOD IS REAL AND ALIVE my friend. Me-I am a Man of God and I know the love of God which is real. I know the love from The Savior Jesus Christ. I say nothing to offend you, but out of love. Truth is Love, God is love, and you may have everything in this world... but if you do not have Love you have NOTHING. So God bless you and I mean God bless you. I pray God will illuminate your heart and your mind. That you will know the love of Jesus and Jesus will reveal Himself to you in an amazing way. Who am I? That doesn't matter. I hope you get to know Jesus. God bless
***** anyone who responds the way you did with "way to ruin an amazing song" is enough of a reason to assume. And to say "keep your blesses to yourself" is another reason. The body of Christ is a community. Not a me against the world attitude. If you love Jesus, you love people. The number one and main commandment is to love God and to love others. Jesus is LORD. Take a step back and look at each post and tell me with a clear conscious how I scared you, how i pryed into your life, and how i invaded. I didnt post on your comment. You posted on my comment. That gave me an open invitation to type about Jesus. Jesus loves you
***** My comment had everything to do with God... and you said I ruined a song by simply relating it to Christ Jesus. I did not attack you. I said God bless you. Have a good one buddy. God bless you
you just said I am "mean" and "intrusive" and "rude" and "offensive." By saying that, you placed a judgment on me. Why did you judge me. I didn't say anything about who you were or your character. Get it right. God bless
This song is iconic in the black community
Not just the black community
Dis shyt iconic period too my Puerto Rican ass too
This song was so ahead of its time that time still ain't caught up with it
HeLLo you so RIGHT. GOING THRU A REAL BREAK UP AND IM HURT. THANK GOD I HAVE THIS TO TURN TOO
Absolutely TRUE👏👏👏👏
I Love this song. Damn it brings back so many memories
90s and early 2000 outfits were so fresh!!!!!! DAMN I MISS THIS ERA!!!!!
I know!! I was 16 when this came out
No doubt about it
Darius Magada-Ward i still rock it them sometimes
Yes it was
This song is really true tho . I rather someone leave a relationship then to cheat on me either way ima be hurt but it’s respectful to leave 🤷🏾♀️
Well said
That's the whole point, and I agree. I respect HONESTY no matter HOW badly it hurts!
It breaks my heart to witness the raw honesty shared by DJ in this timeless and poignant masterpiece. To truly comprehend the wrongness of abandoning someone who truly loves you, DJ’s girl should have made him feel the pain of being treated as a mere rebound by not taking him back. Taking DJ back is an extended invitation to DJ that its ok to treat her poorly. He won't ever respect her, and the cycle of lustful ghosting will happen again. Breaking a trauma bond after a betrayal can consume the strongest of us. Seek clinicle help and live your best life. The second ghosting breaks you mentally. Let them go when they ask you to do so. The stress isnt worth the pain to keep them.
💯💯💯
This statement is so true yeah im glad he broke it off instead of cheating on her but when the eye wonders again he is gone or whenever things get hard guess what he is gone because now you gave him or her permission to leave when the going gets tough. Just go ahead and let him go the person God has for you is not going to leave you ❤
@@coleyboot1we they was together since they were teenagers he as a right to see if that was really where he wanted to be , and so did she
@@shadonnamarie93I never said he didn't re read the message
this is hands down my top 5 R&B songs of all time ... kids from this gen will never know the nostalgic feel
Facts
Hands down #1 for me❤
The Nostalgia hits hard on this one though...lol! Back when music was both full of soul and significance.
No truer words spoken...
Exactly!
Periodt I was just listening too it hard asf like you betta 😆
have you actually listened to those lyrics
@Honin Akecheta I would argue that sweetdideedumdeedoodeedee is pretty significant.
Whomever styled him still deserves our applause. The hat and head covering under… Everything!
True
He's cleaner than the Board of Health in that white!
Yes
Cleaner than a bar of soap 💯
90’s style a lot of dudes used to dress like that, I agree with u tho
Back when women were natural and presented themselves so beautifully! 💯
If a man tells you he needs time to see where he wants to be sis DO YOU and don’t hold your breath because you’re obviously an option and not a choice-also don’t be mad at dude, he told you
Lol you sound better and singe
It’s a lot of thout that sound just like you
And single mom too lol
I AGREE
Mr. Logical viewing your page and videos, it seems like you’re the bitter one. 🥴
I can still be mad. Smh
If y’all are young you must understand but if dude over 25 he just a dog or you was his first 🤷🏾♂️
This a song that will forever be on my playlist..i wonder what happened to homie.
Cezar Stone They threw an old school concert here in cleve oh about 2 months ago and he performed. If you google him some dates and cities he'll be at might come up.
Foxyron Carroll thanks i'm definitely gonna do that.
Cezar Stone He didn't go nowhere man. He made some songs in the past few years. check out his Wikipedia it will show you his current singles
O ok Kelvin L Love Jr
Great song!this song together with " WITH YOU" by Four were my favorites.have searched high and low for "With you" and cant seem to find it anywhere!!!
“Sweedildeedumdeedumdeeedeee” lol we still here in 2020
Lilly Delysia me too❤️❤️❤️
Lilly Delysia yesssss we still are where we wanna be!
and that is some pretty good articulated spelling there ms. lilly! 😍
Yeah... The music now just can't compare.
😂😂 do you think he wrote that part on paper 😂😂😂😂😂
In 2024 still listening to u ...
Me
all time favorite song
Absolutely 2024🎉🎉🎉
He's free to go and try new things. To each his own. Just know your key isn't going to work if you decide to come back.
Woah! Thats deep
faaaccctttssss
💯
itsme516 - Yeah, because I'll be there with the new key when he gets back.
Lol you know his damn key go fit . Lmao how many people said that and still let them back in .. lol
This is a classic that deserves to be in the time capsule. All time one of the most underrated timeless songs of all time.
So many years later and i can hear the Stevie Wonder influence in this song. One of the best songs in his catalog.
My gosh…. You are absolutely right …. As many times as I have listened to this song…. I have never thought to make the comparison
Amazing
This do sound like it was influenced by Stevie Wonder
I'm always so glad I'm not the only one who can see this.
Every time I listen to his music, I hear a hint of Stevie Wonder. (I'm a big fan of both.) His voice sounds very identical to Stevie Wonder's, and it's absolutely perfect to hear.
Now that you mentioned it I do hear it 🐐
Now that I’m older, this hit different.
Yesssss
So clear
Hitting so hard at this moment 😢
This is the most heartbreaking beautiful song ever-next to Carl Thomas “I Wish”. Lol I miss these times. 😞
We can bring it back
I’m a upcoming old school r&b and hip hop singer,songwriter, dancer, rapper, and beginning actor.
Definitely, I can't think about one without thinking of the other.
Interesting that those two along with someone else is forming a group called The Chi.
This one hit harder tho
Lets not ignore the fact he told her he didnt know where he wanna be but as soon as she goes on a date with another guy he standing outside the window looking like a creep 😂😂😂... still jamming this song in 2018
Dennyssia Newsome hr said he needed time to see
😂😂
Dennyssia Newsome 😂😂😂😂
At the window looking like The Candyman 😂😂😂
😂
Still invokes powerful feelings in 2019.
Who here in 2025?
🕺
🧍🏾
🙋🏾♂️
Me!!!!
Your mama
soon as sis on a date wit somebody else here his ass come back at the window dressed like candyman talkin about “sweedildeedumdeedumdeedee”
I'm dead!!!
lmfaooooooo im soooo weak!
😂😭😭
LMAO
😂😂😂😂Very funny
He's teaching a life lesson, don't make the mistakes he made with a woman you love..Don't just hear the song listen to the message.
He had a Lowkey underrated career Donnell Jones, Case, Joe, avant all were very underrated. Who else am I missing? 😐
Malik Jones musiq soulchild
Dave Hollister
Sisqo
Jaheem
Anthony Hamilton
If you have faith and trust in God your love will never die. I've been with my wife for 14 years and I almost lost her but I grew up and now there's no where in the galaxy I want to be if it's not with her. True love does exist don't give up.
Much respect for you.
I miss this era. Shout out to my dad for playing real music. Born in '93 but grew up in a house that played everything from Tha Dogg Pound to Jon B.
😂😂 that's what's thou ur pops probably a real nigguh and you goin probably make good wife bc of him💯💯
+Amareche ሐበሻ I first heard this in exactly 1999.
Great Daddy!! Yep! He know wassup!! Raised u rt!
1997 90's baby right here
Yep same here music back then was real af hands down
Honesty is the story here. Pure honesty from his heart. Everyone has the right to give and receive the gift of truth. When you love someone you don't treat them bad. Period. If someone cries out to you for anything, ignoring them is the best way to show your true colors...how heartless you can truly be. I myself always want too see the worst and the best in the other person, so I can love and understand them properly. I don't understand people that stay where they don't want to be. Leave. It may kill both of you emotionally, it is worth it in the end. Apologizing is the only thing you can do. Life is nothing if you are not happy. 💛🌻
Beautifully written, Samantha.❤️🩹
Amen!
This is one of those albums that you just let play all the way through.
Exactly. I still have the album and it goes hard. I really like the way Donell Jones sings.
Yassss
@@genesisbrooksviverette2809 www
Love this album!
facts
I shed tears reading this. I'm so close to my Mum. This is so emotional to me.
I finally understand this song
Explain
Me too
Please explain
explain my eng is not perfect
Like any dude he wants his cake & to eat it too basically . But he dont wanna completely cut her off . He wanna fool with other girls but dont wanna feel bad by cheating so he breaks up with her to have sex with other girls then when he see he missing out on the real love he go tryna get her back because having sex with random hoes aint all that
I’m actually in this situation. It sucks believe it or not. You love the person but you’re also needing space from them to figure yourself out. And you don’t wanna hurt them but you can’t help how you feel. It’s such a guilty feeling. This song is so beautiful 💕
I was in that same situation, but all my exes cheated on me instead of leaving! Me, honestly speaking, I'd rather leave the relationship rather than cheat, I'm not gonna go out and find other women cause I much rather be solo because staying in a relationship is much harder than ending it
Yes! He's being honest and that's very rare especially in men nowadays
If you dont know then maybe hes not the one, its torture being on the other side waiting for someone to basically figure out if you're worth staying for or not
He had lust inside of him, I can see if you wanna be alone for other reasons but he wanted to sleep with other women. Now he outside the window because he sees her with another man.
Teniyah Christian stay in prayer 🙏
You all are wrong about the true meaning of this song it's not about him cheating or about him thinking about it. This song is about him second guessing if he is still in love with her and if she is truly the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with
He clarifies in "Where you are", the official part 2 to this song. It was on the album after this one. However they didnt promote it correctly. Fuckin GREAT song!!!
If a woman or man leaves there partner let them go because look at the video how selfish he was he was in bed with another woman just like my x was with my best friend she texted me to tell me the truth if they leave you and Cheat they will do it again best to remain friends and forgive and enjoy your life both of them
+Kya Cald People take the video and forget to truly listen to the lyrics.. The video only clearly detracts people from hearing the message
+David Fender David I believe all of us feel lyrics like dancing and maybe it was my personal feelings inside me who knows sending love to all everyone is going threw something my friend happy new year soon to all
+David Fender . . . LMAO! No, baby. Perhaps you need to re-listen to the lyrics. "But there's a lot of LUST inside of me." What do you think that implies/insinuates? Take it from a licensed sexologist. Sex? Relationships? I deal with this on a daily basis. I realize that this is just a "song", but the time to figure out "where one wants to be" is NOT when someone has fully invested and committed themselves to you. (One, two, three, four years down the line.)
You have to be REAL with yourself and with your partner/other half. If you want "casual", keep it casual. If you want "committed", keep it committed. Don't make bullshit excuses afterwards. To do so is only a waste of everyone's time. ;-)
He did not sell his Soul. Donnell, please make some more Music for we love you.
Back when they had QUEENS in the videos
Say that for the ppl in the back
"do I leave, do I stay, do I go" I felt that😩
Years ago, this song haunted me because it represented a truth in my life that I didn't want to face.
DoubleGem damn
@@tretucker8004 thank you for feeling me on this, "oh how i feel do sad now that i wanna leave"
You still with him?
@@det3135 no
considering that's no longer where you are, clearly it wasn't for you sis #LiveLearnAndLove
Damn this song till today I still get chills when I listen to it.
Yeah my ex girlfriend treated me like that I'm so stressed out
This song teaches you that it’s best to leave those lust thoughts as thoughts because sometimes you stepping out or away from what you love will only hurt you and make you realize you only need that person!🗣 2022 and I’m still listening I’m 17 years old btw I know a lot.
I’m 17 as well, & this song is good & has great meaning 🙏🏽💯❤️
@@queenschannel768 Me too 😂
@@halo-august3452 😂😂❤️
Me too😭😭😭
@@marsshawtytv23 ❤❤😘
Who else is going through all their favorite jams thinking about how life was back in the days ? late 90s - early 2000
Yep. I seem to be doing more often lately too.
Yesss...currently n often these days. Times when i didnt truly know how happy i was but look back now like DAMN TAKE ME BACK
Early 90's
90s baby's 🎵🎶
Best music ever90s an early 00s
This shit hits me so hard in the feels, and hell, I'm married! Such an incredible artist and lyricist. He deserved much more recognition than he got!
I feel bad for that husband
@goddessyamato5238 Sorry you got hurt. Your comments speak volumes. If you listen to the lyrics, he doesn't cheat. And there's a big difference between loving someone and being IN LOVE with someone
My husband is good though, thanks!
@@JessInTheCityy I’m talking being with you hopefully he ain’t getting cheated on
Being a kid I had no idea how deep this song was. I always thought this was just a cool song but it's much better than I thought it was hearing it now. I never picked upon the guitar until now surprisingly . Donell one of the best ever
Same
This is a great song and warning to a lot of people. That yes people want to experience life and different things. When you leave that person may NOT be there waiting for you to come back and you can't fault them for that. Life goes on and the person being broken up with is also experiencing things as well.
💯💯💯👏👏👏
@@sergeantwilliams8185 PLus dude was creepy. Standing out in the rain in front of the window screaming.😂😂😂😂
@@kimberlyplatt2382 lol. That definitely was creepy.
@BurbnBougie brought me here 😂
Jesus Christ, I really wish R&B artist's now a days could make soul soothing music like this... Early 90's was probably the best time in R&B. In my opinion.
This was nearly the 2000's.
This was late 90s
+Chummy Ngen just 90s in general
+Chummy Ngen Keep wishing
I agree
3:45 my dude was like "ooo let me just sip all this tea that's being spilled 😯☕"
Starting the New Year off of 2021 with some “Sweedildeedumdeedumdeeedeee”
In this song, it truly isn't about cheating or being with someone else. It's about a brother sorting his oats. Instead of him staying in the relationship and sorting his oats(cheating)he decides to write her a letter stating he wouldn't be coming home. Thumbs up to the brothers that does this,because it takes a real man to be able to do this and not drag the woman he loves through his escapades. However, don't expect her to be there when you finish. Learn the lesson!!!
That's still a messed up situation
Give this man his flowers 🌷🌹🌷 definitely under rated 🌹💐💐 love "have to find out what life is like without you" 😊 hurt people Hurt People 💔
May we have the strength to get rid of confusing men like him in 2018. Amen
How did that work out hun?
Vice versa
No Amen #weneedbalance
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*2025 AMEN!
A new season of Unsung starts Feb 10th...one of the episodes is on Donell Jones...I can't wait to see it!! :)
ohh snap. So glad I ran across your comment!
+MissCoco Bulls Your Welcome!!! I hope you have a good weekend!! :)
+Nina Irving Awe thanks! same to you! :)
Thanks although I have to work tonight, tomorrow, & Sunday. You watching the Super Bowl?? Who you rooting for?? :)
+Nina Irving yea I watch the super bowl and just to pick one imma go with the Panthers lol. I'm actually in my way to work now tho
This is actually a really hurtful situation . I can't get back with a man if he didn't know if he wanted to be with me just to explore another woman's body
At least he's honest and he's telling her where he wants to be...no pun intended.
yep, its hurtful. been there, done that. But people only live once so just let them find out if they have never explored.
I just took a detour,but I'm back on track.
TRUEEEE.... I am still single since I divorced my ex in '07.....he killed it for Me... can't trust anyone else... tried to see if I can meet Someone decent but it's all about getting n hitting it for them... I refuse to settle for anything less than what I had... SMDH!!!!! :( :(
Well in the song he said he was with her since his teenage years, so you can't blame someone for wanting to just experience new stuff.
I've cried many of nights listening too this song omg when u find true love hold on too it it may never come back
Crazy isn't it. Fresh break up and my guy listened to this all the time so when I just listened to it all I heard was his voice....tears on overflow
I feel you Yola. True love will never come back. 1999...
Me too
It will never come back! Believe me! One can only settle and make good with it.
"And we been together since our teenage years." I can relate. Donell was so smooth and this is one of the greatest R&B album's of all times.
This song is one of my all time favourites! People wrote songs with emotion like they just walked into someone's heart and wrote what the person felt!
🥰 MY FAVORITE SONG
When you love someone you just don’t treat them bad since my last girl left me I really understand now, you don’t neglect or disrespect a girl you say you love if you love her always make her feel loved 💯
When Karl Kani picks up his drink like nobody has time for this...
LOL!!!!
He was done at that point, and I don't blame him. 😆 😆 😆
He like “I got a street wear empire. I ain’t got time for this shit! Gon on witcha singin ass mf since you out here playin” 🙄😂😂
He looked so annoyed the whole time, then looked out the window like “& here goes this mf” 😂😂🤣🤣
@@JM_HUh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I heard this so much on the radio growing up i didn't even know this song had a video.
yo lee ive never seen it either bit this was my jam still listenin 12/17
yo lee go smacked and South Africa 🇿🇦
Word
I did
My man keep telling me this line too it sad it hurt
This type of late 90s early 2000s Neo Soul R&B is forever timeless
I love all the kids who grew up on this song, now understand what the lyrics 🤣🤣🤣 swaddleeedoooooo do dooooo
Man this song is the story of my life right now.....
Aaaah
Right behind ya bro lol
I hope she finds Mr. Right while you try to find where you wanna be and don’t go interrupting her date, let her be lol
@@alesiadixon311 Right. *Please* give that woman peace and leave her alone forever
And dont even think about dressing up like no damn candy man either ☝🏽
This song will forever be a classic
This song was the biggest finesse..
💯💯💯
MY CHILDHOOD SONG
This song is ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤I miss back in the day so much
He was really honest about his feelings! ❤
Every time I hear the beginning nostalgia hit me very hard. 13 years old listening to the radio to soothe me to sleep because they would play all the R&B songs after 10pm, they played this song almost every night. Love it
Need that Donell Jones vs Avant verzuz
Ohh yeah right place wrong time sitting here stuck in the middle of the mascarade with you my shit
Facts we need it pls
I'd like to see DJ vs Case.
112 vs Next
Yesss