Today I am sharing my today and why I transitioned into natural consequences in my life. ***NEW TO MINA'S WORK? START HERE** bit.ly/2HOtbpk Self Aware Barbie Activated Bundle: bit.ly/3pBB2I9
Young women have no idea how valuable your sharing is…I wish I could go back and re-do my parenting and life to not be punishing, it was all about punishing friends, kids, husband, family.
Something in what Mina said in the beginning made me think. About the childhood stories we listen to growing up. Cinderella, Snow White, Rapunzel, etc. These girls who manipulated, abused, and socially stunded since their early childhood. Locked in towers, being poisoned, being slaves in their own homes, etc. And I realized after the climax of the story it always ends with '..and they lived happily ever after.' In reality just like Mina, that was far from the truth. The simple act of getting the dress, the Prince, and Kingdom won't fix the problem. Especially after a lifetime of trauma. Massive container issues are bound to happen as women treated like this have no idea how to receive love or be provided for. I can only imagine how hard it was adjusting for them, especially in societies where mental health was taboo. Makes me think they didn't have "happy endings" after all. Even if they're just fairytale stories.
You just described my entire life and I thank God for Mina and others who are able to articulate a healing process that's so hard to understand for those who have never experienced it.
thank you so much for being candid about your journey. i am sitting here with tears streaming down my face. my early life and 20s were similar to yours including childhood sexual abuse, marrying a toxic man, being a single parent, being raped, financial struggle. it just makes me feel less alone to see someone as beautiful as you who shares a similar past. most people who look like you (or me), put together, calm, collected, confident, they can't even fathom the life i've lived and when they want to share about their fun college days, i have only tragedy and survival to share. and that can make me feel so ashamed. i just had to tell you thank you for speaking about your life like this.
Wow, Mina, I knew I was drawn to you for a reason. We have both lived a traumatic life into our late 20s! I just told my boyfriend (who now helps with money more than before thanks to your advice, and no roommates!) And I just told him this is the most comfortable and safest I've ever felt. He's not emotional but I could tell from his response he felt good about me saying that. What you say works. And knowing you been through similar stuff for as long as me shows me I really CAN change. 🙏🏻💗✨
Beautiful, Mina. I truly feel my ancestors were controlling the RUclips algorithm regarding me finding your channel! This is exactly what I need to hear to break my own generational curses. And your videos are never long enough, even the ones over 2 hours long! 😉
Oh my God Mina this is why I quit public teaching 2 years ago! I'm not interested in punishing anybody and all I felt like was a behavior manager. I didn't want to be a behavior manager I wanted to be a teacher.
Been watching alot of gentle/respectful parenting videos to also help with my inner little girl. The natural consequences vs punishment concept is very revolutionary. Much love♥️
Mina thank you for beign such a role model and for letting us know to all the woman how valuable our dreams and feelings are.💖💖 Sending you lots of love!!!
Mina! I’m so sorry that you experienced so much sexual violence - heart breaking! 💔 So many of us have- sadly. But I’m SO GLAD YOU SURVIVED IT!! SO Thankful for your mindset and the knowledge & wisdom that you share with us. Much appreciated! 😘
Interestingly, I've always imagined talking with my future kids the way you described. I didn't know you could call it natural consequences, also never heard it anywhere else before. It just made sense to me because I believe people do better if they know better.
Hey Mina, I just want to thank you so much for sharing all of your story and this beautiful information on RUclips. I’m 29, I’ve been in recovery for about 2 years. Finally getting my life back. Seeing you bloom in life after all you’ve been through is so incredibly inspiring to me. Your embodiment has definitely impacted me. I’m definitely going to sign up for your packages soon. ❤️❤️❤️
I love how you naturally touched on some subjects I hadn’t heard from you in a while (like your kids knowing why they’re in school) and how it all ties in to natural consequences. I grew up emotionally parenting myself - so the punishment state of mind has been very default for me. Thank you for this beautifully explained concept!
Thank you, Mina. I was strageling with a punushing for years. It did not resenat with me. I watch yours videos about natural cosencvance. I feel so much betther now. Thank you for your teachinks. I learen so much from you.
You're amazing!!!! I used to watch you many years ago but I changed accounts and forgot about you. Found you again "by accident". I believe God has led me to you, because I decided that it is time to put myself out there and start dating again. Thank you so much Mina💕💕
This was great wisdom. What a blessing to gather these insights on how to relate to others in a healthy way. This is sooo needed in our world today and its change my dating life too!
Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you had that childhood. You’ve made the best out of the situation and you are an inspiration! I had a similar childhood.
This is everything! I adore my husband so much, he gives me everything I want and need. I’ve been so critical and punishing, to the point where I find flaws in him almost every single day. This is helping a lot!
We ALL have flaws. Sounds like your husbands wonderful traits far outweigh his standard human flaws. Learn to laugh about them to yourself and compensate where he falls short or to just accept those things and enjoy having such a loving man who enjoys pleasing you & providing.
New listener. Cherry-picking selections from your collection so this is the first time I’m hearing your full story. I had no idea the scope and breadth of what you’ve gone through. I’m so sorry. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I’m so much more inspired by you in knowing what you’ve overcome. Grateful for your work. I’m learning so much.
Mina thank you for your videos, and I am also having a awakeness with your videos, i love it. Everyone of your videos are gold. I am gratefull with God for you
I've told my husband the same thing about him suddenly wanting sex after his energy not coming towards me. This was after him being away at work for a month. I was closed up and needed some warming up to him. He was so hurt. When I explained this to him he ended up being even more hurt and completely shutting off from me. We had a 2 day cold war and then we finally talked it out. But it was definitely not this magical moment where he knew what to do next time around. He is still clueless when his energy isnt coming towards me.
I’ve watched a lot of your videos and this is my favorite so far. This talk is so incredibly inspiring helpful and wise. You are a gem - thank you for sharing your story with us 🙏🏼💕
Mina, thank you for each one of your videos, these are fabulous. You are changeging my life. God bless you in everything what you do not know but you need. I want to know, if a man lie with stupids things, what is the natural consequence of that? Please, help me 💞
Hi Mina! New subscriber and love your videos! Sorry this question doesn’t relate to this specific video. But I wanted to ask you if rotational dating works well in the western world? Specifically telling western/American men that you’re waiting for an engagement instead of being a girlfriend. The idea of girlfriend/boyfriend is so ingrained in this society. I’m worried they might find it off putting. This question has been on my mind recently. Any guidance? Thanks!
I pray the universe grant your heart desire Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist who brought my ex after many months of separation,,, ,
Mina love this! Could you touch on divine prenup agreements and how you would structure this if you’re an older couple? Also, How can we align with this and make it feel good? 🙏
Does this work for small children? I see how it could work for older ones who can have that dialogue and conversation, but what about small children who need correction for all the behaviors typical of that age like sibling fighting, disobeying instructions, throwing a fit etc.... It seems hard to think of a natural consequence for each circumstance without taking something from them or time out or something as a punishment. 🤔
@@friedaally7764 😱😱😱😱😱 oh please!! Never ever do this! No matter what, especially in a home with children, unless other adults are .. nah, forget it! NEVER DO IT. Molestors & rapists are almost ALWAYS people children know & who have access to them. That makes me sad.
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Today I am sharing my today and why I transitioned into natural consequences in my life.
***NEW TO MINA'S WORK? START HERE** bit.ly/2HOtbpk
Self Aware Barbie Activated Bundle: bit.ly/3pBB2I9
I have cptsd too. How was your experience with EMDR?
Young women have no idea how valuable your sharing is…I wish I could go back and re-do my parenting and life to not be punishing, it was all about punishing friends, kids, husband, family.
As soon as you change it almost deletes your messy history
I'm only 18 and I found her channel. Taking so many notes. ❤
Something in what Mina said in the beginning made me think. About the childhood stories we listen to growing up. Cinderella, Snow White, Rapunzel, etc. These girls who manipulated, abused, and socially stunded since their early childhood. Locked in towers, being poisoned, being slaves in their own homes, etc. And I realized after the climax of the story it always ends with '..and they lived happily ever after.'
In reality just like Mina, that was far from the truth. The simple act of getting the dress, the Prince, and Kingdom won't fix the problem. Especially after a lifetime of trauma. Massive container issues are bound to happen as women treated like this have no idea how to receive love or be provided for. I can only imagine how hard it was adjusting for them, especially in societies where mental health was taboo. Makes me think they didn't have "happy endings" after all. Even if they're just fairytale stories.
Wow very well said!!
You just described my entire life and I thank God for Mina and others who are able to articulate a healing process that's so hard to understand for those who have never experienced it.
thank you so much for being candid about your journey. i am sitting here with tears streaming down my face. my early life and 20s were similar to yours including childhood sexual abuse, marrying a toxic man, being a single parent, being raped, financial struggle. it just makes me feel less alone to see someone as beautiful as you who shares a similar past. most people who look like you (or me), put together, calm, collected, confident, they can't even fathom the life i've lived and when they want to share about their fun college days, i have only tragedy and survival to share. and that can make me feel so ashamed. i just had to tell you thank you for speaking about your life like this.
You are not alone, Queen. I am another blessed woman who has/is overcoming, growing, healing.
¡Gracias!
Wow, Mina, I knew I was drawn to you for a reason. We have both lived a traumatic life into our late 20s! I just told my boyfriend (who now helps with money more than before thanks to your advice, and no roommates!) And I just told him this is the most comfortable and safest I've ever felt. He's not emotional but I could tell from his response he felt good about me saying that. What you say works. And knowing you been through similar stuff for as long as me shows me I really CAN change. 🙏🏻💗✨
Love this! Any update?
You’re helping me learn so much about myself & psychology. I’m forever grateful & It feels so good, I find myself binging your videos.
Beautiful, Mina. I truly feel my ancestors were controlling the RUclips algorithm regarding me finding your channel! This is exactly what I need to hear to break my own generational curses. And your videos are never long enough, even the ones over 2 hours long! 😉
Oh my God Mina this is why I quit public teaching 2 years ago! I'm not interested in punishing anybody and all I felt like was a behavior manager. I didn't want to be a behavior manager I wanted to be a teacher.
You are amazing Mina❤️ Im so sorry for the things that happened to you, nobody should go through that, let alone a child❤️
Been watching alot of gentle/respectful parenting videos to also help with my inner little girl. The natural consequences vs punishment concept is very revolutionary. Much love♥️
Consequences instead of punishment.
@@miaduana thank you! Hahhaha I edited to say what I really meantant to say
Meta-awareness in relationships is the KEY ♥️ keep shining your light on us honey 🌺🌺
Mina thank you for beign such a role model and for letting us know to all the woman how valuable our dreams and feelings are.💖💖 Sending you lots of love!!!
Mina! I’m so sorry that you experienced so much sexual violence - heart breaking! 💔 So many of us have- sadly. But I’m SO GLAD YOU SURVIVED IT!! SO Thankful for your mindset and the knowledge & wisdom that you share with us. Much appreciated! 😘
Interestingly, I've always imagined talking with my future kids the way you described. I didn't know you could call it natural consequences, also never heard it anywhere else before. It just made sense to me because I believe people do better if they know better.
Hey Mina, I just want to thank you so much for sharing all of your story and this beautiful information on RUclips. I’m 29, I’ve been in recovery for about 2 years. Finally getting my life back. Seeing you bloom in life after all you’ve been through is so incredibly inspiring to me. Your embodiment has definitely impacted me. I’m definitely going to sign up for your packages soon. ❤️❤️❤️
I love how you naturally touched on some subjects I hadn’t heard from you in a while (like your kids knowing why they’re in school) and how it all ties in to natural consequences. I grew up emotionally parenting myself - so the punishment state of mind has been very default for me. Thank you for this beautifully explained concept!
Thank you, Mina. I was strageling with a punushing for years. It did not resenat with me. I watch yours videos about natural cosencvance. I feel so much betther now.
Thank you for your teachinks. I learen so much from you.
You're amazing!!!! I used to watch you many years ago but I changed accounts and forgot about you. Found you again "by accident". I believe God has led me to you, because I decided that it is time to put myself out there and start dating again. Thank you so much Mina💕💕
Glad to have you back
This was great wisdom. What a blessing to gather these insights on how to relate to others in a healthy way. This is sooo needed in our world today and its change my dating life too!
Let go and let god 💖
Yes!!
You are the most emotionally mature person i have ever seen, god bless
You are a true leader Mina ❤️. This is changing alot of women’s lives
So beautiful, life changing.
Glad it resonated!
Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you had that childhood. You’ve made the best out of the situation and you are an inspiration! I had a similar childhood.
Thank you for opening up to us❤️
This is everything! I adore my husband so much, he gives me everything I want and need. I’ve been so critical and punishing, to the point where I find flaws in him almost every single day. This is helping a lot!
We ALL have flaws. Sounds like your husbands wonderful traits far outweigh his standard human flaws. Learn to laugh about them to yourself and compensate where he falls short or to just accept those things and enjoy having such a loving man who enjoys pleasing you & providing.
Ebony Elle that sound advise
Powerful 💕💕
I truly appreciate your transparency and authenticity. I can related to your testimony! So happy that I found this channel yesterday
Excited about this one. Cant wait!☺️
I love how you share about your trauma, and the lessons you learned along the way.
Thank you for sharing this info with us.
Glad it was helpful!
New listener. Cherry-picking selections from your collection so this is the first time I’m hearing your full story. I had no idea the scope and breadth of what you’ve gone through. I’m so sorry. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I’m so much more inspired by you in knowing what you’ve overcome. Grateful for your work. I’m learning so much.
mina now im sobbing crying........ this was soo pivitol....
Mina thank you for your videos, and I am also having a awakeness with your videos, i love it. Everyone of your videos are gold. I am gratefull with God for you
I still feel like a kid and I’m going to get in trouble at 33
Sameeeeee sis 😓 started with my inner work
Mina thank you for this video! All your content is timeless and valuable 💗
This is fantastic! Thank you for your story, bravery, and sparkle 💖
Mina, you bring tears of joy to my eyes!! I love you!! This is BEAUTIFUL content!!
I've told my husband the same thing about him suddenly wanting sex after his energy not coming towards me. This was after him being away at work for a month. I was closed up and needed some warming up to him. He was so hurt. When I explained this to him he ended up being even more hurt and completely shutting off from me. We had a 2 day cold war and then we finally talked it out. But it was definitely not this magical moment where he knew what to do next time around. He is still clueless when his energy isnt coming towards me.
This is so good, Mina! Eloquently done.
I have just watched this video and honestly your such an amazing beautiful women!! I’m so glad I have found your channel. Thank you so much xxxxx
Mina ❤️ you are loved by god so beautifully,,, you were chosen to help others… you are wonderful ❤️ thank you 😊 god bless you in very step you take.
Amazing video! I’m so glad I found your channel Mina!
I’ve watched a lot of your videos and this is my favorite so far. This talk is so incredibly inspiring helpful and wise. You are a gem - thank you for sharing your story with us 🙏🏼💕
You are a blessing 💜 so glad you exist at this time🙌🏼
Wooow, I was born again since I saw this video, my house is now my home since then, thank u!!
Thank you, Mina 💕 This video is amazing!
Glad you liked it!!
So great I love how you laid this out I will be rewatching again and again!
Thank you Mina 💜
I love this woman!!!thanks for sharing 😘
Love it.💘 I will love more videos talking about natural consequences on dating 🥰 thanks Mina
So smart. I like how you give your children the option go choose their course.
Thank you for sharing your story.
This is beyond good
Thank you so much for sharing that story at the end. That triggered a huge cascade of awareness for me. Thank you 🙏 ❤️
Mina thank you so much for this video. Could you talk more about using law of attraction and manifestation with raising your children?
This video was so good. I learnt so many new things! I was smiling to myself the whole time. Thank you for making this one Mina. Much love. 💛✨
Hey Mina, please share how to deal with a situation where the husband is the one that punishes
I appreciate these videos so much💜
Your wisdommm.
Taizer him into alignment!😂 Who wants to do that? Great message!
Mina, thank you for each one of your videos, these are fabulous. You are changeging my life. God bless you in everything what you do not know but you need. I want to know, if a man lie with stupids things, what is the natural consequence of that? Please, help me 💞
This is real empowerment, Mina 💕
Mina this was your best one yet! 💕
Hi Mina! New subscriber and love your videos! Sorry this question doesn’t relate to this specific video. But I wanted to ask you if rotational dating works well in the western world? Specifically telling western/American men that you’re waiting for an engagement instead of being a girlfriend. The idea of girlfriend/boyfriend is so ingrained in this society. I’m worried they might find it off putting. This question has been on my mind recently. Any guidance? Thanks!
Any update?
You are so inspiring ♥️
Thanks for sharing, this is good
Amazing, thanks very much Mina.
Love your necklace and earrings 😍 Where are they from?
I pray the universe grant your heart desire Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist who brought my ex after many months of separation,,, ,
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Save his contact and message him on WhatApp for help....
Mina love this! Could you touch on divine prenup agreements and how you would structure this if you’re an older couple? Also, How can we align with this and make it feel good? 🙏
Omg our stories are almost mirror image
So beautiful 🙏
Does this work for small children? I see how it could work for older ones who can have that dialogue and conversation, but what about small children who need correction for all the behaviors typical of that age like sibling fighting, disobeying instructions, throwing a fit etc.... It seems hard to think of a natural consequence for each circumstance without taking something from them or time out or something as a punishment. 🤔
Is the basic babe bundle w good option if you are in a relationship? XO
It's my foundational inner work course and great for every area of life. It comes with the "Arouse His Love" masterclass as well which is amazing!
What your recommendation for kid who don’t do hygiene without using punishment
Sounds a lot like how having the gate of struggle feels.
what is the best way to navigate after punishing a man?
Interesting Men na, esp the personal examples as it’s hard to picture exactly.
❤️
I love u 😭🤍
Why didn't your parents get female babysitters??!
In her earlier videos, she related how her parents were giving shelter to homeless immigrants who ended up abusing her :(
@@friedaally7764 😱😱😱😱😱 oh please!! Never ever do this! No matter what, especially in a home with children, unless other adults are .. nah, forget it! NEVER DO IT. Molestors & rapists are almost ALWAYS people children know & who have access to them. That makes me sad.
This is a game changer! Thank you... ❤
So beautiful ❤️