Guys, once you're around 20, get a few dark button-ups. You don't have to ditch T-shirts (I didn't) but for a date, you don't want to look like a middle schooler.
Can you change something at the end of the video because with the advertisement for more videos, we can't see the sentences at the end of the videos... Quite annoying
Guys don't care about that as much. It doesn't even come to our minds to accept or reject a woman based on what she's wearing. It's simply not something that valuable for us
@@guitarswiftable Not true at all. As a once frequent dater, and a number of guy friends still dating, we definitely judge what women wear on first couple of dates, at least as far as overdressed or underdressed. If you don't know much about a woman, their ease in dressing for different date scenarios is a fairly good place to start.
@@hd-xc2lz judging is one thing, but rejecting or accepting would already be too much for the majority of guys, unless it's something extreme. Also, personal experiences don't represent statistics, I was saying in general
In case anybody wonders what it says on the follow-up at 7:01: James got his car back, but progress with Rihana has Stalled. They simply Snapchat each other whilst drunk...
Her earrings aren't big enough for my tastes, only hula hoops attached to each ear lobe will do 😅 At least though they seemed easy going, normal and pleasant, I think they are a reasonable match tbh but I don't think they want anything serious, especially him.
@@new2000car How can someone you've never met before be "important" in your life. (And how could you possibly judge how much effort and thought someone has put into what they're wearing? Do you think you're telepathic? Or are you just extremely judgemental of people you've never met or spoken to?) I imagine you are the kind of person who thinks EVERYTHING is about you, personally!
omg I live in the States so I forgot you don't have to be 21 in the UK to drink. In the US I feel like if an 18 walked into the date anyone 21+ would be like "nah" lol
Yes you only get one time to make a first impression she had on makeup,heels,perfume probably, did her hair,red velvet dress,jewelry, who knows wut else,and he comes in a tee shirt,couldn't say grace proper,wut a waste for her efforts!!😢😢😢😢😢😢
I will never understand why some of these people that go on a first date would go out the night before and get drunk and stay out so late knowing they have a nice date the next day
Guys, once you're around 20, get a few dark button-ups. You don't have to ditch T-shirts (I didn't) but for a date, you don't want to look like a middle schooler.
And light ones . Not polo shirts
@krisjackson5967 Kris are you under 40 and single?
@@stevechristie2569 58 , My darling husband died January 2022 age 74 & he always dressed well
I ditched all t-shirts. So many better alternatives. Get a proper shirt and a nice classic sweater.
Sod that,be you ,do you, authentic self.
Can you change something at the end of the video because with the advertisement for more videos, we can't see the sentences at the end of the videos... Quite annoying
I felt the same way all u have to do is tap the screen and press the pause button and you can the sentences through the advertisement.
"James got his car back, but progress with Rihana has stalled. They simply Snapchat each other whilst drunk..."
dear tv , make sure to plaster the logo over any game show answer as well
best to ‘over’ dress than ‘under’ dress…especially if you want to make a good impression 😐
Honestly, he probably isn't aware. He is young. Guys don't have constant style advice like females do who live on social media.
Guys don't care about that as much. It doesn't even come to our minds to accept or reject a woman based on what she's wearing. It's simply not something that valuable for us
@@guitarswiftable Not true at all. As a once frequent dater, and a number of guy friends still dating, we definitely judge what women wear on first couple of dates, at least as far as overdressed or underdressed. If you don't know much about a woman, their ease in dressing for different date scenarios is a fairly good place to start.
@@hd-xc2lz judging is one thing, but rejecting or accepting would already be too much for the majority of guys, unless it's something extreme. Also, personal experiences don't represent statistics, I was saying in general
@@guitarswiftable her fashion sense indubitably questionable , call it off and alert xm
Zero effort on his part . Looks like he’s going to the shops
He has a lot of growing up to do. Little boy, still.
In case anybody wonders what it says on the follow-up at 7:01:
James got his car back, but progress with Rihana has Stalled. They simply Snapchat each other whilst drunk...
Thank you, I was wondering what was written at the end!!!
Thanks , why do they block a most important part of the show.
@@paacer teasers
he's 18?? thought he was about 21 - 24
NZ people look quite a lot older idk why
I thought he was 38
@traceymarshall5886 get your eyes test asap
He does look a lot older. My brother is 18 and looks early 20s.
They get a lot of sun exposure
Her earrings aren't big enough for my tastes, only hula hoops attached to each ear lobe will do 😅
At least though they seemed easy going, normal and pleasant, I think they are a reasonable match tbh but I don't think they want anything serious, especially him.
If this was irish first dates, the woman would have left early... that is what we are dealing with.
This girl was a trooper tbh
They have differnet personality but the laugh and smile say something. They enjoy each other company and thats important
He needs to pull his pants up and make a bit of effort !!!
Better yet, he needs to find a pair of slacks which are not torn or tattered. I saw that unsightly rip at 2:30 in the video.
Stop inviting college age kids on the shows. Its weird.
Some of them are barely out of high school!! Worst part of the NZ franchise.
They look older
It is ok to put together 18 and 21 but male should be the one older.
I thought he was 38
@@nielsdaemeni agree. They look 20 yrs older
Dude if you are too casual on a date, You are not ready to have a mate period
1:16 The bartender seems to like her
Agree, they’d be cute together!
Why do the females not answer a question but turn it on them a lot 🤔
The dear guy is a sweetheart and is only 18 years old. It's nice that he is wanting to meet someone special.
special ? threw on a t
& said see u at the bar
Her dress was a mess
needs a complete overhaul
Looks like he's going skateboarding
She is so cute lol. When she said she snuck into the army camp 😂
Those hooops! 😂
Largest earrings I have ever seen😅.
ladys wearing hoola hoops
Yeah, he should dress for the occasion. For starters.
"I could probably drink him under the table"
Nice to see another first dates with another classy woman
At least she dressed for occasion
you are right @@skinnymac2411
Get off that high horse these guys were literally kids 🥱
That may be why they set her up with a little skidmark in a tracksuit..
Nice to see another guy who doesn't know what a joke is.
Strong words from someone who got her dress made out of some old curtains.
😂 and "wanting to drink him under the table " ...
Lol, true. However, he showed to her that she wasn’t important enough to bother wearing something nice.
@@new2000car How can someone you've never met before be "important" in your life.
(And how could you possibly judge how much effort and thought someone has put into what they're wearing? Do you think you're telepathic? Or are you just extremely judgemental of people you've never met or spoken to?)
I imagine you are the kind of person who thinks EVERYTHING is about you, personally!
@@nadineflowHA! 😂 great comment
That first little intro bit, I genuinely thought she was having a stroke
The look on his face after kissing her on he cheek said a lot. I don't think he is looking for a relationship. She seemed like a nice lady.
They are kids..
@@LeMerchthey look around 25
I took it more as not into you, not a spark but lets see...
He still just a kid. Acts like one, too.
nice for some laughs shared a giggle ,
fine young lad shes swell
He’s way too immature.
He's cute though.
Immature? Your being too kind.
NO 18 y.o. guy is looking for a serious relationship, full stop! Another waste of time date, sigh! I can't count drunk snapchats, lol!!!
im a guy and got married at 18
@@LeMerch You are the exception.
Good vibes, love these two❤🎉😅
There’s a time to dress up and a time to dress down! This dude needs to learn that!
omg I live in the States so I forgot you don't have to be 21 in the UK to drink. In the US I feel like if an 18 walked into the date anyone 21+ would be like "nah" lol
This is New Zealand.
Hope she dumped that one.
He came across well for his age, handsome young man.
Casually dressed but he looks clean and handsome so it is all good
he took a shower.
I would be afraid to date most of these individuals 😅😂😊
He looks like he’s on his way over to his friends house for a beer and a joint.
The military hopefully will sort out his "dress sense". No effort put into his shabby outfit.
He's a teenager. You ever seen a teen where a shirt and a jacket on a date?
a long sleeved shirt and jeans would have worked@@leigh7507
@@leigh7507 He doesn't necessarily need a shirt and jacket but something other than what he IS wearing.
@@solofemaletravelerme he's a teen - a kid - let him be
Dresses and looks like he just rolled out of bed. Immature, poor eye contact... run lady run.
Nothing wrong with the bloke.. He's just young and nervous
@@tatskamasterif you want a successful date, you gotta put some effort. Even a shirt
Hes handsome tho
@hazar2354 Hazar are you single?
He isnt mature, because he literally isnt mature, he’s 18. Nothing wrong, give him time
I have a chicken with more personality. Hope she doesn’t keep seeing him
They really don’t match together ouch 😣😱😱
She's looking for someone fit? I wonder if she's seen herself in the mirror lately.
He's cute.
They looks so innocents.
They are
Beautiful young people and nice personalities to😊
He really went out of his way to get ready for the date. Looks like he just rolled off the couch.
Love the t-shirt. 😁
Does she own a mirror? 😢😅 Her outfit wasnt all that!
Yes you only get one time to make a first impression she had on makeup,heels,perfume probably, did her hair,red velvet dress,jewelry, who knows wut else,and he comes in a tee shirt,couldn't say grace proper,wut a waste for her efforts!!😢😢😢😢😢😢
He's not nearly mature enough for her...
James is handsome but needs to pull his pants up.
That was such an awkward date. They didn't know what to talk about. She kept nervously laughing at everything. Definitely not a good match.
She's looking for someone fit but she doesn't look all that fit herself.
Briana is BEAUTIFUL XX
Simp
They are not a match looks and vibe wise
Fun fact
The hoop hearings are the exact size as the ones in the nba
🤣
Is his name Jame?
She needs a man, someone who is more mature. He doesn’t even look 18. He’s been single 18 years? Haven’t had a relationship yet.
Lolll he is only 18
shes got them 304 hoops on. run dude!!
He was an immature child. 🙄
He is a child. The boy is 18
At least he’s not obese. She doesn’t have any room to talk. Literally.
I dress in t-shirts and jeans on purpose to weed out the superficial people.
She is really good looking.
To be fair...i can see her point
Dressed like hes off to the supermarket...
Tshirt, for restaurant? Surprised they let him in
All American man come to date this way
🚩 red flags 🚩 dressing in a t shirt jeans and tennis shoes for a dinner date. Next.
Ur weird
they are so made for each other
What is this guy wear for his first date. Was he thinking he was going to a BBQ.😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
Desperate Dan walk…
I will never understand why some of these people that go on a first date would go out the night before and get drunk and stay out so late knowing they have a nice date the next day
They’re young. Responsibility comes later
is he wearing a dress?
Wow😂😂😂😂
He is just a kid 🤔
He look sweet and handsome.. and he kind too he pay for his date.. that's a man..
He is such a little boy.
Someone fit? She never seem the inside of a gym
Is the barkeeper a transgender man?
the bartender looks like a 🏳️🌈🌈 version of manny pacquiao 🥊
He's adorable
How annoying is she 🤗🙄
they seem human at least not actors yea
I would be totally turned off....shows he is lazy and doesnt care
Her dress and earing isn't that great to look at.. 😂😂😅
truth be told I didn't notice , cut her some slack
She doesnt like the way he's dressed but she has a hoop in her nose like a bull (septum piercing). Paired with gigantic hoop earrings. Come on.
She looks "ordinary " wearing that awful dress
Disaster 😅
The greater the hoop....❓
Too much makeup on a pretty face
Date seems to have gone well
They're kids
The gamma body, the old curtains, the 2 kilos of makeup and the giraffe lashes and you still gave energy to speak about someone else.
She complains about clothes when she's the one that looks like a christmas tree. If Santa paid for an escort, they'd send her.
the incels are trigerred coz she'd never pick them
He looks older. How is he drinking at the bar if he's only 18?
America’s not the whole world mate😅
Legal drinking age is 18 in new zealand
Thats so funny 😂😂😂@@TomReid-wh8lq
She is old and he is very young , => No Future !!
Old??
@@sarahcellblockh1562 they are both children. 18 and 21. Adulthood start at 25
I thought it started at 40
@@sarahcellblockh1562 Older than him !
Rihanna a diet should be on your list