Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "There are two pleasures for the fasting person, one at the time of breaking his fast, and the other at the time when he will meet his Lord; then he will be pleased because of his fasting". 📚Sahih Al-Bukhari 1904
Its not that islam made it difficult.. its just that this current day and age made the haram approach much much easier and on top of that… we as a whole made it also difficult to marry compared to previous. Get all the facts on table before you come to a conclusion my dear brothers and sisters.
Assalamu Alaikum! Very beneficial video, Jazak’Allahu khairan. Just one suggestion - please add the name of the speaker to the description InSha’Allah so that we can look them up and benefit more from their content too. May Allah guide us to the right path, ameen
Oh Muslims don’t be misled by some one who doesn’t know. Knowledge of your religion very important don’t take it from any one. My Allah guide us and bless our scholars. Our to scholars are our true teachers.
Everything he said was right but it still didn't really answer the question cuz even if you met someone threw a sister or mother or through imam how are you supposed to get to know them the only thing I can think that you could do is if you had a third-party with you when you met that like her father brother or uncle present any time you met her or vice versa for our sisters
@@Abu-Kurdi its important to have some interactions with the potential spouse before the nikkah in order to see if you are compatible and have similar goals, dunya wise and akhira wise. This is done the halaal way of course with her wali there and with limits ie no touching, no inappropriate speech etc
theres always a way, like he said you can go to the masajid and the imaams are usually more than willing to assist or ask a friends and they can ask their family to help you find someone, etc
The thing is in brown households we don't even know who our parents are letting us to get married to.. we just are married off to any random stranger.. i don't understand why everything is so difficult these days
yes, the worst thing is that some families think that random stranger is better for you than girl/boy u loved from many years or u liked from university/work etc.
in islam you have the right to meet the person and interact with them, with someone else there of course and with limits, to see if you are compatible. Ask for your Islamic rights even if it goes against culture.
This is cool and all, but I can't imagine marrying someone I haven't known for at least a year. I need to know what I'm getting into for the rest of my life, what her personality is like, how she handles pressure and manages challenges in life. Those are practical things that you can only learn about a person if you've spent time with them and have closely known a man or a woman for at least 6 months to 1 year. If you disagree, I'd love to discuss.
@@Dont-worry1618 her having a brother or father or even the eman present is good for me I don't mind I don't care but at the end of the day you still have to know who you're getting in a relationship he kind of still didn't answer the question because even if you meeting a sister through these means you're still not getting to know her.
@@Dont-worry1618 You can spend time with girls unless you're someone that can't control themselves when they're alone with a girl. The quran has nothing saying you can't be alone with them (khalwah), rather from the hadith we see it's a precaution that men take from commiting zina, which is the real sin. So ask yourself: is your faith stronger than your desires?
How am I also gonna know that she is a Virgin or not ??? That is the biggest question. 😑 No , I will not marry someone who is not a virgin. 😡 This is modern age . The age of Sin . It is hard to trust a woman who is not virgin in these days . 😔 Anyway good video keep it up . Masha-Allah
Are you a virgin? Allah is most just, he provides chaste women to chaste men. Be realistic and have taqwa, complaining will only make having sabr harder. Being thankful is something you do for your own virtues if you aren’t thankful it does not take away from Allah, Allah azdawajal is free from all needs.
well there are usually tell tell signs of a virgin during sex..... but i guess ur too young to know... altho modern girls have found so many excuses that talk about how they are not virgins and also didnt have sex.... so
@@gmhc7298 I absolutely believe that. I will admit I have fornicate. So if I marry a Muslim woman who was not a virgin I will hold nothing against her. But the amount of times/partners must absolutely be within reason. Any man would rather a virgin but Allah his plans for everyone.
Alhamdulillah. Only Nikaah is the Halal key to have a lifetime dating. The beauty of Islam, the righteous path. Love Allah. ❤
I think they mean courting . Like dates but with a mahram there. That's how I've been taught it
Chaperoned talks & chaperoned dates with the other persons family members present.
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "There are two pleasures for the fasting person, one at the time of breaking his fast, and the other at the time when he will meet his Lord; then he will be pleased because of his fasting".
📚Sahih Al-Bukhari 1904
Subhan'Allāh what a beautiful advice by the brother.
Its not that islam made it difficult.. its just that this current day and age made the haram approach much much easier and on top of that… we as a whole made it also difficult to marry compared to previous.
Get all the facts on table before you come to a conclusion my dear brothers and sisters.
Peace indeed, thank you for this
Assalamu Alaikum! Very beneficial video, Jazak’Allahu khairan. Just one suggestion - please add the name of the speaker to the description InSha’Allah so that we can look them up and benefit more from their content too. May Allah guide us to the right path, ameen
Oh Muslims don’t be misled by some one who doesn’t know.
Knowledge of your religion very important don’t take it from any one.
My Allah guide us and bless our scholars.
Our to scholars are our true teachers.
Peace thank Allah swt we really need this ,
"she comes up with something that Iblis would not even try on " 😂😂
Mashallah Jazak allahu kheir
who in the right mind dislikes these inspirational videos?
how do you see disliked number
Liberals, feminists, lgtvs etc.
how do u see them😂😂? i cant see em
@@AbdulRahmanAlMubaarak you can’t. It’s just a way to get likes
@@SalemPhiladelphia do u mean he only said this comment to get likes? sorry just kinda confused
This my first time when i know this chain
Its goood
Everything he said was right but it still didn't really answer the question cuz even if you met someone threw a sister or mother or through imam how are you supposed to get to know them the only thing I can think that you could do is if you had a third-party with you when you met that like her father brother or uncle present any time you met her or vice versa for our sisters
You can ask her with your wali or her wali. If you want to know more details you can ask to her friends.
U can Just meet Each other while her mahram is in the area. He doesnt need to listen to the conversations. He can sit or walk at appropriate distance
You don't need to know them. Serve eachother's needs and stop looking for the perfect that doesn't exist.
@@Abu-Kurdi its important to have some interactions with the potential spouse before the nikkah in order to see if you are compatible and have similar goals, dunya wise and akhira wise. This is done the halaal way of course with her wali there and with limits ie no touching, no inappropriate speech etc
Assalam alikum frds ,any good marriage site...pls let me know
How when your a revert sister I don’t have any one to ask no Muslim friends ..?
Assalam alaikum! would you be interested in a proposal? (very serious)
go to the masjid, ask the sisters and they will help u out inshallah
i hope that was a joke about single friends .. and poking on fb, was this recorded like 15 years ago lol
What if your family members are toxic?
theres always a way, like he said you can go to the masajid and the imaams are usually more than willing to assist or ask a friends and they can ask their family to help you find someone, etc
The thing is in brown households we don't even know who our parents are letting us to get married to.. we just are married off to any random stranger.. i don't understand why everything is so difficult these days
yes, the worst thing is that some families think that random stranger is better for you than girl/boy u loved from many years or u liked from university/work etc.
in islam you have the right to meet the person and interact with them, with someone else there of course and with limits, to see if you are compatible. Ask for your Islamic rights even if it goes against culture.
Alhamdulillah
Halal 😊😊😊
This is cool and all, but I can't imagine marrying someone I haven't known for at least a year. I need to know what I'm getting into for the rest of my life, what her personality is like, how she handles pressure and manages challenges in life.
Those are practical things that you can only learn about a person if you've spent time with them and have closely known a man or a woman for at least 6 months to 1 year.
If you disagree, I'd love to discuss.
You cannot spend time with her alone if you want to spend six months with her it Hass to be meetings and you have to be with her with her Mahrams.
@@Dont-worry1618 her having a brother or father or even the eman present is good for me I don't mind I don't care but at the end of the day you still have to know who you're getting in a relationship he kind of still didn't answer the question because even if you meeting a sister through these means you're still not getting to know her.
@@Dont-worry1618 You can spend time with girls unless you're someone that can't control themselves when they're alone with a girl. The quran has nothing saying you can't be alone with them (khalwah), rather from the hadith we see it's a precaution that men take from commiting zina, which is the real sin. So ask yourself: is your faith stronger than your desires?
@@trublacking8572 u will never know a person unless u marry them
@@Dont-worry1618 that’s facts. Well you will know “truly” know a person unless you marry them. For me that’s how I’ll put it
allahu akbar
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Halal💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
yes halal. did you watch the video?
Theres no such thing as halal dating
he clearly said that in the video, did you watch it?
How am I also gonna know that she is a Virgin or not ??? That is the biggest question. 😑
No , I will not marry someone who is not a virgin. 😡
This is modern age . The age of Sin . It is hard to trust a woman who is not virgin in these days . 😔
Anyway good video keep it up .
Masha-Allah
Are you a virgin? Allah is most just, he provides chaste women to chaste men. Be realistic and have taqwa, complaining will only make having sabr harder. Being thankful is something you do for your own virtues if you aren’t thankful it does not take away from Allah, Allah azdawajal is free from all needs.
well there are usually tell tell signs of a virgin during sex..... but i guess ur too young to know... altho modern girls have found so many excuses that talk about how they are not virgins and also didnt have sex.... so
@@Blood0cean at that point you already went through the trip of marriage….but it’s differently a semi good question
Look at yourself before you judge others .
@@gmhc7298 I absolutely believe that. I will admit I have fornicate. So if I marry a Muslim woman who was not a virgin I will hold nothing against her. But the amount of times/partners must absolutely be within reason. Any man would rather a virgin but Allah his plans for everyone.