Don't Respond To That | Pressure | (Part 8) | Jerry Flowers

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @Beredefined
    @Beredefined  3 года назад +119

    Thank you for continuing The #Pressure series with us, we love you and it’s such an honor to serve you!

    • @healinghubwithPraiseMercy
      @healinghubwithPraiseMercy 3 года назад +4

      Offence is our emotions' defence mechanism to defend our pride...

    • @healinghubwithPraiseMercy
      @healinghubwithPraiseMercy 3 года назад +2

      When you know yo assignment, you don't have to engage people who say stuff abwt you

    • @Warriorwoman9802
      @Warriorwoman9802 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for these life altering series. They have blessed and empowered me immensely. Thank you Pastor Flowers 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️

    • @vikkihester7423
      @vikkihester7423 2 месяца назад

      I'm out of service

    • @gabriellerussell2499
      @gabriellerussell2499 2 месяца назад

      @@healinghubwithPraiseMercy

  • @cameraburrell5526
    @cameraburrell5526 Год назад +36

    “But Jesus Gave No Reply.”

  • @Resourzful
    @Resourzful 2 года назад +52

    I am reminded of a quote thats says "never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference"

    • @CiearaMcdermottjester
      @CiearaMcdermottjester 3 месяца назад +2

      I love this❤❤❤❤ I'm gotta keep this one in mind❤

  • @lifewithsigny
    @lifewithsigny 3 года назад +227

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; I'M UNBOTHERED

    • @nitseybellefleur5717
      @nitseybellefleur5717 3 года назад +3

      This episode hittttt 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @zynekaroberts
      @zynekaroberts 3 года назад +3

      Amen!

    • @dorothycalhoun5090
      @dorothycalhoun5090 3 года назад +3

      @@zynekaroberts my zzz no

    • @rh1660
      @rh1660 3 года назад +1

      Yes Yes!

    • @Warriorwoman9802
      @Warriorwoman9802 2 года назад

      Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥! So true

  • @theofficeofamidwife
    @theofficeofamidwife 3 года назад +31

    'Petty people birth drama; it is thier oxygen. When you protect your peace, you take their breath away '
    Jerry Flowers.

  • @marnecie
    @marnecie 3 года назад +117

    Spiritual maturity is the ability to overlook!

  • @tarajohnson3801
    @tarajohnson3801 2 года назад +9

    Everything about this message!!! Thank you Pastor Jerry!!! Restoration and release is here… peace is non-negotiable… exiting anything that disturbs my evolution, unapologetically!!!

  • @ChaM_25
    @ChaM_25 3 года назад +129

    “I’m not a introvert...I’m in-to-peace” 🗣😌

  • @life_with_nine
    @life_with_nine Год назад +3

    When I tell you God put this on you to speak DIRECTLY to me about a situation that just happened… down to the elevator reference. Whew!

  • @breannaphillips9071
    @breannaphillips9071 3 года назад +57

    Holy Spirit help us. My people pleasing button is out of service. I live for one man and that is Jesus Christ of Nazareth!!!! Hallelujah.

  • @Motorhead857
    @Motorhead857 3 года назад +3

    THERE'S A WAY OUT !!!✝

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +43

    LORD JESUS!! This is the very reason why I know the spirit of the Lord have led me to stop talking to most of my aunt's and my mom. Especially not over the phone. They say and do to much. I can't allow their toxicity to mess up my joy, peace, sanity, wholeness, and healing process.

    • @lovingmylife528
      @lovingmylife528 2 года назад +4

      I feel this ❤️

    • @mikalyonsoneal9890
      @mikalyonsoneal9890 3 месяца назад +1

      I'm learning to redirect the conversation to a positive with the toxic people in my life and now I hardly hear from them. If you do have to talk, wear them out with the goodness of God.

  • @paulesaturday9490
    @paulesaturday9490 3 года назад +78

    Lordy!!! This message is for me. Lord deliver me from the spirit of offense 🙏🏾

  • @WeirdGo
    @WeirdGo 3 года назад +49

    I'M OUT OF SERVICE TO THE ENEMY. AMEN🙏👏👏

  • @ashleynicole2980
    @ashleynicole2980 3 года назад +28

    This is my go to message when my mother come with the craziness and negativity throughout the day because I have to get unbothered from that and continue to focus on my son and myself.

  • @turklatasha191
    @turklatasha191 3 года назад +57

    I gotta start coming to these sermons with a hat on my head so my edges can stop getting snatched! Lol Great sermon!

  • @novi697
    @novi697 2 месяца назад

    Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power I am unbothered. Thank you lord!!!!

  • @heyyjoynae
    @heyyjoynae 3 года назад +1

    Man oh man... I am so happy and blessed to have found this channel ❤️

  •  3 года назад +15

    YES, the explanation! Usually I would clapback or be smart but I just shut it down completely and don't even respond to the nonsense. My God has shown me, I don't have to argue or explain.

  • @chetina912
    @chetina912 3 года назад +39

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER. I AM UNBOTHERED.!!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +1

      Yep. The Lord taught me that awhile ago, and I try to share that with others often. Even if what they said or did bothered you, it don't mean you have to respond in the way they want you to.

    • @sherrellmartin4870
      @sherrellmartin4870 3 года назад +3

      I agree but its so hard. I am having a hard time with this pray for me.

    • @chetina912
      @chetina912 3 года назад

      @@ladennayoung2939 The sermon really spoke to me because I'm dealing with my toxic sister who constantly wants to get in my face and provoke a fight. I don't speak to her at all and try my best to keep my peace.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +17

    Yes. We put way too much energy in trying to explain ourselves to people. That will choose to not receive you in the first place, no matter what. That is because a lot of people like to use anger, bitterness, and foolish behavior and mindsets as a coping mechanism. You don't have to always feed into it. The spirit of the Lord will even tell me to not say or do things to respond to my teenage son when he choose to act a certain way.

  • @shakearatardy1450
    @shakearatardy1450 Год назад +2

    I am above that!!

  • @cynthiamesambe9064
    @cynthiamesambe9064 3 года назад +37

    God directed me here today. I am too stressed out at work and I feel like they keep pushing me. And it's exhausting.

    • @Hypostbg
      @Hypostbg 11 месяцев назад +1

      Two years later, I felt very lead to this as well. I pray things changed and worked out for you! ❤

    • @RR-dh4jh
      @RR-dh4jh 2 месяца назад +1

      I feel for you honestly.. but God has your back 💯

  • @Hypergamousqueen
    @Hypergamousqueen 3 года назад

    Every black woman on the planet benefits from this message 🥰🥰 thank you for your awesome message

  • @antwancoley4793
    @antwancoley4793 3 месяца назад +1

    Your thoughts that you have of me is none of my business! 🙌🏾

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +16

    The Holy Spirit said, when we know our assignment. We know that we have to let our flesh die. Then when can learn to hold our tongue more, when people try to come to you with foolishness. The Lord have taught me that I don't lose anything when people try to attack me verbally or what not. So, there is no need to attack them back, or go back and forth with them.

  • @OceanfireWorshipMusic
    @OceanfireWorshipMusic 3 года назад +31

    Why is this right on time. So much confirmation for how my week has gone

  • @nerrissarichards
    @nerrissarichards 4 месяца назад +2

    Jesus gave no reply and neither should you! Is my new mantra❤

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +2

    Have the spiritual ability to OVERLOOK.❤

  • @delviflores7548
    @delviflores7548 5 месяцев назад

    Being offended is a choice and I REFUSE to give you that much power; I'm unbothered..
    Watching from Belize 🇧🇿

  • @ayannaarmonii4423
    @ayannaarmonii4423 2 месяца назад +2

    Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power; I’m unbothered.

  • @Quis1228
    @Quis1228 2 месяца назад +1

    My biggest issue is caring what my child mothers think. Being a good father but treated like a bad one does something to me because I’m trying to be different then what I had and it goes unnoticed or unrecognized by them. I give it to God and continue to live righteous!!

  • @josna8428
    @josna8428 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Pastor Jerry 🙏

  • @brianwilliams1520
    @brianwilliams1520 2 месяца назад +2

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; IM UNBOTHERED

  • @kimmieboo1413
    @kimmieboo1413 3 года назад +7

    & I love how Jesus already knew the value he had 👏🏾🤞🏾❤️ he didn't even have to flex...he was not bothered by the ones choosing to act in ignorance . Iktr Jesus 🗣️😌

  • @jeffersonstreetcorne
    @jeffersonstreetcorne Год назад +1

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER. IM UNBOTHERED

  • @toijerry
    @toijerry 3 года назад +1

    Being offended is a choice & I refuse to give you that much power I’m unbothered

  • @SymphonyLove
    @SymphonyLove 3 года назад +9

    Myself and this generation is in DEEP NEED of this sermon. Thank you thank you thank yoouu!!!
    #SermonOnPOINT

  • @dthomas112993
    @dthomas112993 2 года назад +1

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; IM UNBOTHERED!

  • @ieshalowery
    @ieshalowery 3 года назад +19

    I am out of service to petty... I am definitely out of service to what people think about me! It is none of my business about the thoughts people have about me! Amen!!

  • @tiarshaharrison
    @tiarshaharrison 3 года назад +10

    A lot of us are arguing with people we aren’t going to reach because they major in misunderstanding us.

  • @RR-dh4jh
    @RR-dh4jh 2 месяца назад +1

    Totally agree with this 💯

  • @Chelseabeardon22
    @Chelseabeardon22 3 года назад +1

    Amen!! Jesus gave no reply, not to a single charge!!! Being offended is a choice and I refused to give you that much power, I’m unbothered!

  • @AshalynChane
    @AshalynChane 3 месяца назад

    'BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; I'M UNBOTHERED!!

  • @caredfor391
    @caredfor391 4 месяца назад +2

    This guy is SPOT ON but hilarious. So thankful, I share with my kids.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +1

    Texas is in the house.

  • @tonyajefferson6257
    @tonyajefferson6257 27 дней назад

    There's sooo many power points in this, this is straight teaching word, 🙏🙏🙏🙏 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @yolandawilliams3319
    @yolandawilliams3319 3 года назад +9

    I ONCE LOST HAIR IN THE MIDDLE OF MY HEAD DUE TO THIS!!!!! NOT ANYMORE!!!! PRAISE GOD FOR BEING THE PRINCE OF PEACE!!!!!

  • @ItsTamaraTaylor
    @ItsTamaraTaylor 4 месяца назад +1

    My peace is nonnegotiable!!! AT ALL! I felt that!

  • @Holytrinityone
    @Holytrinityone 2 месяца назад +1

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; I'M UNBOTHERED. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Mswhenthemusicfades
    @Mswhenthemusicfades 3 года назад +1

    Watch your edges! Makes me so so so happy every time. Yes. Please burn me up and make me new!! 🔥🔥🔥
    Listening from UK 🇬🇧

  • @SoulDeepZim
    @SoulDeepZim 3 года назад +3

    Proverbs 15:28
    The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things.
    This right here. We no longer make time to ponder how to answer

  • @marnecie
    @marnecie 3 года назад +15

    PEACE IS A KINGDOM EXCLUSIVE! ❤️☮️

  • @loveiseverything8711
    @loveiseverything8711 3 года назад +30

    I’ve been dealing with this. I can’t believe what I’ve been Accused of. I haven’t been able to clear my name. I just don’t say anything. Because it’s ok.

    • @rrnn6472
      @rrnn6472 3 года назад +5

      Trust God to clear your name and bring confusion to their plans. Psalm 56 was a game changer for me! I even said it silently when the person was speaking negativity in a phone call, and in a matter of minutes their tone changed! God's Word is powerful 🙏🙌🙏🙌

    • @Drizzlestreetwear
      @Drizzlestreetwear 2 года назад +1

      No weapon formed against you will prosper! Praying for you.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 Год назад

      God will handle it in Jesus' name. Amen. I pray your strength in the Lord in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. AMEN. Like he said, when you know yourself, you don't have to respond. Let peace be still. ALL IS WELL REGARDLESS IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.

  • @Organiclemonade7
    @Organiclemonade7 2 года назад +2

    Man Pastor Jerry is always fly ! And word is always on point !! Hallelujah Glory B 2 God !!

  • @julesas7
    @julesas7 2 месяца назад +2

    That's not having a whole vibe, that's immaturity 🙏. Spiritual maturity is the ability to overlook.

  • @beatricelaurent5059
    @beatricelaurent5059 3 месяца назад

    That is NONE OF MY BUSINESS! Preach preacher

  • @ShaunettaMarie
    @ShaunettaMarie 3 года назад +2

    I may be surrounded by obstacles but I'm never trapped.. There's a way out.. Brother Jerry Flowers preaching...Exodus=God of Exits..

  • @jen7976
    @jen7976 3 года назад +2

    ‘I’m gunna give you Bible, cause ya’ll are hot tonight.’ 🙌🏻

  • @mariyahcarter8068
    @mariyahcarter8068 2 месяца назад +2

    Being offended is a choice i refuse to give you that much power. I’m unbothered

  • @yolandawilliams3319
    @yolandawilliams3319 3 года назад +1

    AMEN PASTOR!!!!!!

  • @carlaleeseberg5704
    @carlaleeseberg5704 2 года назад

    Being offended is a choice, and I refuse to give you that much power I am unbothered!🙏🏾

  • @NicoleKio-m9r
    @NicoleKio-m9r 3 месяца назад

    Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you the much power I’m unbothered amen bruh

  • @Holytrinityone
    @Holytrinityone 2 месяца назад

    There's a way out!! Thank you Holy Spirit Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥😇🙌🏽

  • @myrtahernandez6277
    @myrtahernandez6277 3 месяца назад +1

    My son always tells me mom let go and let God. Pray for them mom they don’t know you are anointed child of God. Vengeance is Gods. Hallelujah silent says a lot.

  • @antwancoley4793
    @antwancoley4793 3 месяца назад

    God Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power! I Am Unbothered!🙌🏾

  • @S3xiiLadyT
    @S3xiiLadyT 2 месяца назад

    Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power, I am unbothered!

  • @babybigbabybanks4545
    @babybigbabybanks4545 3 года назад +23

    Iam out of service.., to your thought 💭 about me!!!! What you think about me.., is not my business??? Amen 🙏🏽

  • @yolandawilliams3319
    @yolandawilliams3319 3 года назад +14

    SUCH AN AWESOME AND PHENOMENAL SERMON PASTOR IT WILL ALWAYS BE APPLIED TO MY DAILY LIVING AS THESE SERMONS HAVE HELPED ME MATURE AND GROW IN MANY AREAS OF MY LIFE!!!!! THANK YOU MY BROTHA FOR BEING GOD'S MESSENGER AND SERVANT AND MAY HE BLESS YOU IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!

  • @_atlantia
    @_atlantia 3 года назад +16

    Literally PERFECT timing.

  • @angelacoleman7198
    @angelacoleman7198 6 месяцев назад +2

    I needed this right now. Glory to God. Thank you Jesus.

  • @kristinamiller360
    @kristinamiller360 3 года назад +4

    Pastor Flowers you are beyond blessed and I look forward to every time you teach. I have been watching for months now. I love how you constantly pull from scriptures. ur an amazing teacher and I learn so much. Thank u!!

  • @tabithaesau9077
    @tabithaesau9077 3 года назад +5

    God, protect me from people who sin against me from causing me to give in to sin within me. What a word!!

  • @sevenstreet6254
    @sevenstreet6254 5 месяцев назад +1

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @audreybuchman1972
    @audreybuchman1972 3 года назад

    Being "OFFENDED"
    is a "CHOICE" & I "REFUSE" to give (YOU)
    that much "POWER" !!!

  • @loveli210
    @loveli210 8 месяцев назад

    Allll in my text messages! Thank God for the nosey technology!!!! Always on point and on time!!!!2024 Detroit Mi in the feed!!!!

  • @brianwilliams1520
    @brianwilliams1520 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes 🙌🏽

  • @melloniefrazier4421
    @melloniefrazier4421 3 года назад +2

    When we sink to their level, it's like failing a grade and having to repeat it, people outside looking in can see your growth, maturity, professionalism, etc for us it may feel like baby steps but they see it in a major way. Which is what it is MAJOR!!! Keep going, we people come for you, you are well on your way to accomplishing your Dream! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
    #Peacemeter
    #Dontgetdistractedwiththedrama
    #Theyjusttryingtomakeyoustop

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 года назад +2

    Not being offended by people who do nothing for your destiny 💯 👌 🙂🤩👌

  • @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate
    @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate 3 года назад

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER, I'M UNBOTHERED 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Ms132Kay
    @Ms132Kay 3 месяца назад +1

    Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give you that much power; I’M UNBOTHERED.

  • @roslynkelley-world8692
    @roslynkelley-world8692 2 года назад

    Good changing word for our lives today thank you,Jesus and thank you pastor 👏 🙌

  • @Movement_withlacie
    @Movement_withlacie 3 года назад

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER . I AM UNBOTHERED! 💯🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @thebeautifulsoulofgod
    @thebeautifulsoulofgod 2 дня назад

    this is so good dr. jerry , thank you so much for this inspiring beautiful message. we love you, cant wait to keep discovering your series and teachings. god bless you❤ wishing you abundance, peace, and light

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +6

    I still say some people need to be cancelled. Because they need to learn to watch what they say and do.

  • @TheREALindiamariexo3
    @TheREALindiamariexo3 2 месяца назад

    tuh "what you think about me, is NONE of my business" that part!!!!

  • @riseupcoachinguk
    @riseupcoachinguk 7 месяцев назад

    Wish I saw this yesterday when I responded, as it didn't help. Sometimes it's best to let those who think the worst of you, think the worst of you. It's no longer my business. As Pastor Flowers said, it's exhausting. This blessed me, thank you ❤ Being offended is a choice and I refuse to give them that much power ❤

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +3

    God bless each and everyone of you in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.

  • @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate
    @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate 3 года назад +3

    Petty people birth drama it's their oxygen 😳😳 and when we protect our peace it takes their breath away 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @hiddengem4293
    @hiddengem4293 3 года назад +2

    47:16 - *Amazing prayer!* , I needed to watch this as I have let offense take me further down the ditch than imagined. May Jesus have mercy on me and restore to me the joy of my salvation.

  • @starwilliams9086
    @starwilliams9086 5 месяцев назад +2

    "That is none of my business!"

  • @ClaujaB
    @ClaujaB 3 года назад +3

    I'm above that! #selfcontrol

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +1

      Yes. The Lord have been trying to teach me this for awhile. He have brought me a long way. But I'm still a work in progress. Lol. For real.

    • @ClaujaB
      @ClaujaB 3 года назад

      @@ladennayoung2939 amennnnn

  • @acircleoflovelylove3064
    @acircleoflovelylove3064 3 года назад

    I’m out of service ☝🏽 to all negative, evil, and even thoughts against me!

  • @jncompany1603
    @jncompany1603 2 года назад +1

    I'm above that

  • @NikiGates-re9qw
    @NikiGates-re9qw 3 месяца назад

    Best teaching I’ve ever heard. Thank you for this. You are helping me so much. Thank you for being a willing vessel 😊

  • @sunstarkingsqueenscreation3602
    @sunstarkingsqueenscreation3602 2 года назад

    BEING OFFENDED IS A CHOICE, AND I REFUSE TO GIVE YOU THAT MUCH POWER; I'M UNBOTHERED!!!!!!

  • @DoreenWhite-nl5qq
    @DoreenWhite-nl5qq 8 месяцев назад

    God bless Mr.&Mrs flowers they made a real 1.🙏🙏👏👏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💪💪💪

  • @deniseburkett1812
    @deniseburkett1812 Год назад +1

    This is definitely for me Lord help me to apply this to my life

  • @angelamurphy3965
    @angelamurphy3965 3 года назад

    Awesome word. Thank you for allowing God to use you.

  • @candacemoore3310
    @candacemoore3310 3 года назад +4

    This is a right now word Sir!!!, you have no idea how this is blessing me right now!!!! I was feeling like a door mat, but I used to respond to the toxicity and you have just broke down that it’s spiritual maturity that allows me to not respond to the nonsense.