The best way I combat comparison is praying for the person I'm comparing myself to! If it's a friend getting married (which is something I long for) I pray for their marriage etc. Prayer really changes everything 💛
I have a habit of comparing myself to others sometimes Kaci. I am Mildly autistic. I have asperger syndrome. It’s ok! I used to compare myself and said I wanted to be normal because I was bullied and discriminated against because of who I am. I always wanted a spouse and Deep down inside I used to be jealous because I didn’t get a spouse and I’m single. I love your videos! It makes me look at things from Christ perspective every time I put him first. Just pray that I will celebrate when others find their spouse and I don’t rush into it or focus on it too much Kaci Nicole. I want to be a better man in Christ. I need not crave a spouse soo much. Thank you for your prayers.
To be honest, as a 34 yo single woman longing to be married and start a family, it has been hard not to compare to others. Especially Christian women on social media to the point of avoiding any of their videos about their relationships or babies etc (even your Kaci as much as I love your channel and content) I wanna confess this and ask God for freedom from envy. I want to rejoice for my sisters and their blessings whilst trusting and patiently wiaiting for God’s will to be done in my life. Thank You for this Kaci. GOD BLESS YOU SISTER. 🤗
Thank you so much for your honesty and vulnerability, Leslie! There are people whose videos about certain things I compare myself to as well, even though I genuinely love their channels and content. I'm so thankful we can find freedom in confession. May God bless YOU, my sister in Him! 💛
I send so much tenderness to you ladies. God never lets us down. He has a plan in all of our lives and nothing goes to waste. Your the apple of his eye, cling to that.
I'm struggling with comparison and envy cause I think other's life is better than mine. It's hard cause I want to have that job or that kind of life. I ask God for help I want to be a grateful women and apreciate what God has done for me. I'm his daugther no matter what my circunstances are or what season l'm going through. We find peace, love and plenty in God.
I watched this video yesterday and then this morning I was led to the verse 2 Corinthians 8:10 godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. When we feel badly because we are comparing ourselves to others this is a worldly sorrow and not a Godly sorrow. Great video!!!!
I compare myself to others who have a house. I had one and made a huge financial mistake. Now, I will never be able to afford another one. I know this is materialistic and I should be grateful for all the things God has given me. I know it is a sin and I should be happy for others.
Thinking of comparison as envy is so helpful and eye opening. We often think that comparison is putting ourselves down, when in reality it is more of putting someone else on a pedestal. Thank you so much for this video!
Thank you for the encouragement Kaci, I struggle alot with comparison especially when I see young people my age doing good and things just don’t seem to be working out for me. But comparison is the thief of joy! And I’ll definitely celebrate others because God has allowed good to happen to them and when the time is right He will shine his favor on me too!
Yes it is so tough, like you said though God's plans and timing for you are GOOD 💛 Also that quote about comparison being the thief of joy is one of my favorites - so true! 🙌🏼
I needed this because i was comparing my life to yours wishing that I had been as spiritually mature when I was your age and that I had done as good a job as your mom did in raising you. This has helped me to focus on moving forward and being greatful that God brought me to a place of spiritual maturity from where I was when I was younger and to use my experience and what God has taught me to further His kingdom. I just found your channel this past week, it is a blessing that God led me to connect with your channel. I have been inspired and encouraged by your videos. I pray that God will continue to bless you and Tyler as you both seek to encourage, uplift and inspire people by living out your faith.
This is one thing that I really appreciate about you. You are willing to be open and vulnerable. No one's life is without challenge thank you for being honest about your humanity and not being fake. It blesses so many people. What a fantastic word: be faithful with what God put in front of you. ;)
Thank you so much for this sister!!!!! My 13 year old daughter is firm in her faith, loves Jesus, and is in church whenever the doors are open (which is all the time) ☺️ I notice her comparing herself to others and even looking to her peers for validation 😔 It’s taken her down the road of self harm before she was even a teen. I cannot imagine being a child in today’s society especially with social media and cell phones. 💜 You are and will always be true and beautiful blessing 💕
I struggle with this too , not as much as before God has been helping me a lot . But what I find is when I spend time with God, He becomes my greatest delight and I’ll never lose God - and it really helps change your heart on the comparison trap . I also realised the enemy caught Eve on the comparison trap. She had it all , made in the image of God , no sin , no temptation , no pain etc . But thr enemy made her focus on the one thing God said she can’t have … this really Helped me too . Also to mediate on - Proverbs 14:30 that says a sound heart is life , but envy is rottenness to the bones. Pray this helped someone
I have to share this …condensed version…but nonetheless essential healing! The day after my husband and I got married..he said to me “you need people more than people need you”. I had a tendency to be a people pleaser, consumer of others lives. What truth I experienced was about a year later of freedom and change and I started leaning in to Jesus, leaving behind toxic people, relationships etc. I had to get alone with him to see my relationship with him came first. I had..notice the word had, journals of garbage that had consumed my attention. I have since gotten rid of all of the journals, laughed at my ridiculousness and put my worth where it belongs. I haven’t looked back, I am at total peace and I’ve learned to not have expectations of others, and love people where they are. Show the fruit of the spirit. I absolutely believe and trust in that scripture. It was what I clung to everyday when I woke up and knew Satan wanted my soul. I am here to tell anyone that if you struggle like I did with deep ache to be accepted and loved by others allow Jesus to a lunch date like I did every week. It’s no joke, I went and sat in a chick fil a restaurant and brought my materials, bible..journal etc and I sat there for hours!! I was able to grasp and even share my testimony with others sitting there by myself. Some would ask to talk, to meet me. I ministered to others in that same spot every week. I even had my 3 year old with me and he had so many children to play with while I sat close by. He got what he needed and I did too. He now works for Chick fil a!! He’s 16 years old. He’s a Christian as loves Jesus ..stands up for truth in a high school where faith lacks. Stay strong in faith ladies, let the Holy Spirit invade your space everyday and everywhere to everyone.
Such a good word Kaci! 😊👍 When you said if we’re busy comparing ourselves, we’re not interested in building God’s kingdom but our own- that’s SPOT ON & I felt convicted, so thank you for being faithful to run the race you’ve been given & to bring this word 👏😘
Kaci for me it’s respect youth of today don’t respect their elders. They believe titles make them better than others. Yet life lived gives wisdom. People generally don’t know what you have done in your life. All they see is you now. Not how you got there and the sacrifices you made to get there. They see themselves as better this is a struggle and a challenge for me. I don’t compare myself to people of my own age because we have adult children who have done well for themselves.
I really needed this! I definitely have been struggling with this especially since starting college recently. I highly recommend Pastor Micheal Todd's sermon Cuffed to Comparison! It's so good. 💛
Hi Sister thank you encourgement message Thinking I'm different to others I have condition Cerebral Palsy but I'm blessed to be different in that way I appreciate my life to be inspiration to others. God bless you,Sis❤
This is so beautiful, Mary! I'm confident your life and faith are SUCH an inspiration and blessing to those around you - your comment was a blessing to me 💛
I think it is amazing that I found this video when I did. I have recently been struggling with low self esteem in regards to all the pitfalls of comparison out there. You are so right about trying to use social media in a positive way if you allow yourself to engage in it. I personally have decided to significantly minimize my attachment to social media because that is what is right for me personally in my life right now. I need to refocus my eyes on what I have and my own gifts from God. It is so very easy to wish for things that others have. Like you said, that is sin. I saw another comment that included one of the most real quotes I have ever heard "comparison is the thief of joy". There has been way too much thievery in my midst lately. I want to make that change in my life. God wants me to make that change.
I am thankful that God led me to this channel. Your voice is a calm, peaceful and godly presence in the midst of various videos filled with a lot of noise and hustle. I find encouragement, insight and joy from this channel. Never let go of your purpose of spreading God's word and love to others. You have answered a high calling which will far outlast the pursuit of fame and money. May God continue to bless your life and allow you to continue to grow and reach others with God's word and His love as you share your encounters and experiences with Him in your life. 🙏🏾💖
Personally I am going to be a senior in High-school and after being homeschooled the past year I will be going back. I’ve been saved and born-again for about 2 years in October. As I’m desiring to go to school this year to make a change an be the light, I’ve been starting to compare myself to my schoolmates I’ve grown up with. Thoughts like “Everybody had a glow-up and I look the same” so it’s that kind of what I’m dealing with. I’m trying to cast down these thoughts and realize that I may have not changed externally but internally since I have grown in the Lord and truly love Him. Thank you for sharing and allowing your obedience to be a confirmation that there is an open door to envy and I have to lay it down.. be blessed sister 🙌🏽
I don't normally leave comments, but this video has now inspired me! 😆 This message was just what I needed to hear, even though I didn't even really realize that this was something I was struggling with recently! You are right that these truths about comparison bring so much freedom - when we stop worrying about where we're at in comparison to others, we can shift our focus to God and His Kingdom. It is so comforting! It is so easy to become trapped in what the world says about looks, success, etc., and we need to remind ourselves every day to see ourselves and the things around us GOD'S way, instead of the world's way. Thank you for always bringing us such quality Biblical content - you rock, girl! 🥰
I’m 2minutes in and I just wanted to say I love YOUR content everything you post. I have listened or tried to listen to other Christian content creators but yours is always my absolute favourite. Please remember that haha you’re eve feeling like that again xxxx
Even after taking a break from social media for a few years now, I still struggle with this. Thank you for your work and perspective to share the ever-undoubted nature and grace of God, in the midst of fleshly longing for worldly desires. Thank you for your obedience and your dedication to the church (everyone still alive.)
Thank you for sharing from your heart and speaking from a place of struggle. Keep focused on Him and may He continue to use you to speak truth no matter what.
What a moment of clarity! To realise that the core issue of comparison is sin, and so if we confess it before God, He can forgive us and wash us of it. Wow I love that. Kaci that really set me free. God bless you!
If it helps, you’re my favorite Christian influencer, Kaci. 😊 I’m a small Christian RUclipsr and this is such an encouragement for me. Hope you know your impact as an instrument of God and may it encourage you to keep doing what you do. ❤️
Thank you for sharing this Truth!!! It's a great reminder that when I compare myself with others that it's envy, which is sin. Praying for forgiveness so I don't have to battle this on my own. I struggle with this in different seasons of my life often and I know it's when I get my eyes off of what God has gifted me in doing for His Glory. Thank you for sharing from God's Word to reinforce what He's teaching you so that you can share and teach others from His Word. God Bless! Traci
Wow I didn't know that envy was that comparison had a little think about do I compare things much I found myself comparing where I live didn't know I was a bit envious but I do praise God that people have nice places to live bless them all Lord
This made me cry! I've been TTC for a few months and we got married around the same time and I couldn't watch your video on the announcement. It feels harder than usual cause this feels out of my control😭 and my heart is not OK but yeah it is envy
Good stuff, Kaci. I must confess that as a senior adult who has been in comparison mode for so many years, I find it easy to think; "Why start now to change this bad habit? What can be gained at this late point of life?" But the answer to that question has to do with what you say about seeking the glory of God, and not of myself. I also appreciate your insight that comparison to anyone other than Jesus is just a form of envy, and envy is a sin. You've given me some good things to think and pray about - and I thank you.
I can honestly say you are one of my favorite creators. Your words have spoke to me I can’t stop watching your videos. Keep lifting people up with your videos girl. 🙂
God must REALLY want me to hear this message today. Just last night I did a deep dive into Genesis 30 - the whole thing between Rachel and Leah. It was CRAZY to really dig into that and understand why they did what they did. But GIRL, that was their CULTURE! They were two hurt women just trying to feel like they mattered comparing themselves to each other! Leah wanted her husband to love her; Rachel wanted to have kids, but it turned out that Rachel got Jacob's love and Leah got the kids. I can totally understand it if I look at it from the culture of the time. And I can see myself in both of them. The best part of it is that God worked through them regardless of their dysfunction. He still heard their prayers and he still answered them.
Whoa yes, Rachel and Leah - the perfect Bible story to talk about comparison! It's so relatable and so powerful to see how gracious God is despite it all. Thank you for sharing this 💛
You're an amazing person in that your advice about topics and explanation of scripture is very clear and refreshingly honest. Keep going and never stop your biblical advice, because it's presenting a beautiful way to live life in keeping with the Holy Spirit. Bless you and your gorgeous family.
-- Keep seeking God and truth, share and help people with love, and never let anyone or this world take you away from him. Please stay filled with humbleness and wisdom, most of all love and desire to truly help people with God and his compassion. Keep sharing the truth and not what people want to hear. Stay strong in your relationship with Jesus and keep following his words with love and righteousness. 🙏🏼💗
Thanks for being so real and human with your feelings. I really like that about you and I feel very encouraged after hearing you speak about things I’m also struggling with!! May God bless you and your family❤
Thank you for your videos Kaci! This is a struggle I deal with too and I'm grateful for the vulnerability and truth in this video, especially that at the root of comparison is envy, and that envy is a sin.
I truly appreciate this , which I need. I frequently compare myself to those that can speak so well in church without being loss or stumbling over their words . I have an awful time with that, not sure if Im getting my point across to others when im ministering to others. I will try to compliment and celebrate those that can articulate points when speaking. I have learned so much since I tuned into your channel. May God continue to lead you in your teaching of His word. Its truly helping me, to realize that when I speak the Holy Spirit will give me what's needed for other to understand ! Blessing upon to you and your family. ♡
I love how your sharing Gods word and I just started growing my relationship with him so, how much of the Bible do you read and how do you know which section?
Thank you so so much for sharing...I loved this so much 🥰🥺🤍🤍❤I struggle from comparison as well but what I find helpful is going offline for some time and focusing on what God is doing and all the prayers he has answered...love what you have said regarding celebrating others and having social media boundaries
Kaci! Wow. You hit on all the spots I've been struggling with right now. I didn't know how much I really needed this. It brought me to tears listening to you explain exactly what I am going through and that it has a name...envy. I could listen to this over and over. Thank you so so much. I really struggle with comparing with other people's opportunities and popularity. Thank you for bringing up that point. 💛
it’s crazy how you posted this a year ago and it’s so helpful to others today! this has helped me more than you know as a mom who compares herself to other moms, this has helped me to shift my perspective 🤍
Great message! Very encouraging. I think we all need this and to be reminded of ways to keep us focused and help us combat comparison regularly. It's all about serving Christ!
Wow, all that stuff you said is so true and you put it all in a way that I can really act on. Like, each example I could directly relate to my life. Thank you so much Kaci! You don't know how much I needed this. You're such a lovely person, inside and out!
Hello Kaci 😊 i’m new to your channel and you seem like such a positive and happy person. I’m trying to grow a stronger faith in God and I keep trying but fail every time through horrible intrusive thoughts, insecurities, hurtful voices, and just a complete lack of focus and self-discipline😔. Whenever I see someone else doing better with their relationship with God, it makes me feel as if I have no hope and that God will never forgive me. It’s gotten to the point where sometimes I don’t even know if I can feel the Lord’s presence. All I want is just to do better with myself and show God that i’m willing to make a change 😞. If you have any advice or prayers, I would love to hear them.
Hey, Kaci. I’m 28 and I am prone to comparing myself to others because I never had a girlfriend or kiss. I know that’s not your intention, but a lot of your relationships vids give that vibe of feeling bad when I’ve never found anybody. Could you address this?
More like people need to stop rubbing their marriages in my face and giving me grief because it makes me angry and sad. If god doesn't care about my happiness despite having the desire for a wife then these married people need to stop expecting me to be happy for them because I never will.
Thank you so much for being vulnerable! I feel like I needed to hear this without really realizing I needed it so much. It is very real and convicting. I don’t have any social media outside of RUclips and I watch mostly Christian content and I definitely do compare my self often or as you mentioned, want what they have. Most content creators I watch were raised Christian so I often compare my life to them. I want a close knit family that are strong Christians, which is exactly the opposite of what I have, I want to have known the Lord since I was little, which I have only known Jesus personally for a year and a half, and especially, those that are married/pregnant/have a family, outside of seeking God and knowing Him more, that’s what I desire most. I even notice it in the littlest things. Thank you for speaking up about this and shining the light on it. 🤍
Aw Kitty, thank you for this comment - and I thank God it was helpful to you! It is always so enlightening to hear the unique areas we all compare ourselves in, and such a reminder that we all struggle, just in different ways based on our unique experiences and circumstances. I think your testimony in coming to Jesus more recently is so powerful and will be used by God to reach different people than those who have testimonies of knowing Him most of their lives. Both so beautiful and powerful! Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💛
Wow! Thank you so much! I really needed to hear this🤍 also wanted to say thank you for speaking the truth in such love! Such great example of speaking truth in love✨ Also wanted to say thank you for your last video as well! About the “this popular phrase is NOT Biblical” also blessed my heart and relationship with Jesus! I actually shared that video on my social media and my friend was really blessed with that video as well! Keep up the good work my friend! Your being such a bright light for the King✨🤍
What was most helpful to you in this video? How do you combat comparison? I'd love to hear! 🤍
being conent in the season of life im in😀
The best way I combat comparison is praying for the person I'm comparing myself to! If it's a friend getting married (which is something I long for) I pray for their marriage etc. Prayer really changes everything 💛
The most helpful part was that we can’t please God and please people/the world. So true!
"The same God who did it for them and who was at work in their life, was also at work in my life even if I couldn't see it" so true
I have a habit of comparing myself to others sometimes Kaci. I am
Mildly autistic. I have asperger syndrome. It’s ok! I used to compare myself and said I wanted to be normal because I was bullied and discriminated against because of who I am. I always wanted a spouse and Deep down inside I used to be jealous because I didn’t get a spouse and I’m single. I love your videos! It makes me look at things from Christ perspective every time I put him first. Just pray that I will celebrate when others find their spouse and I don’t rush into it or focus on it too much Kaci Nicole. I want to be a better man in Christ. I need not crave a spouse soo much. Thank you for your prayers.
“God doesn’t owe me what He gave to another person.” That got me. Thanks Kaci for preaching the truth. ❤️
To be honest, as a 34 yo single woman longing to be married and start a family, it has been hard not to compare to others. Especially Christian women on social media to the point of avoiding any of their videos about their relationships or babies etc (even your Kaci as much as I love your channel and content)
I wanna confess this and ask God for freedom from envy. I want to rejoice for my sisters and their blessings whilst trusting and patiently wiaiting for God’s will to be done in my life.
Thank You for this Kaci. GOD BLESS YOU SISTER. 🤗
I’ve dealing with that right now. You’re not alone. God has a special plan for us we just have to find joy in the waiting 💕
@@angeliquemanning2269 Amen sister. God bless you and also give you patience in this season 🤗
Thank you so much for your honesty and vulnerability, Leslie! There are people whose videos about certain things I compare myself to as well, even though I genuinely love their channels and content. I'm so thankful we can find freedom in confession. May God bless YOU, my sister in Him! 💛
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I send so much tenderness to you ladies. God never lets us down. He has a plan in all of our lives and nothing goes to waste. Your the apple of his eye, cling to that.
I've stopped comparing myself to others and I now compare my current life with how bad my life COULD be and that makes me feel a ton better 😆
I'm struggling with comparison and envy cause I think other's life is better than mine. It's hard cause I want to have that job or that kind of life. I ask God for help I want to be a grateful women and apreciate what God has done for me. I'm his daugther no matter what my circunstances are or what season l'm going through. We find peace, love and plenty in God.
I watched this video yesterday and then this morning I was led to the verse 2 Corinthians 8:10 godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. When we feel badly because we are comparing ourselves to others this is a worldly sorrow and not a Godly sorrow. Great video!!!!
I compare myself to others who have a house. I had one and made a huge financial mistake. Now, I will never be able to afford another one. I know this is materialistic and I should be grateful for all the things God has given me. I know it is a sin and I should be happy for others.
Thinking of comparison as envy is so helpful and eye opening. We often think that comparison is putting ourselves down, when in reality it is more of putting someone else on a pedestal. Thank you so much for this video!
Thank you for the encouragement Kaci, I struggle alot with comparison especially when I see young people my age doing good and things just don’t seem to be working out for me. But comparison is the thief of joy! And I’ll definitely celebrate others because God has allowed good to happen to them and when the time is right He will shine his favor on me too!
Yes it is so tough, like you said though God's plans and timing for you are GOOD 💛 Also that quote about comparison being the thief of joy is one of my favorites - so true! 🙌🏼
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I needed this because i was comparing my life to yours wishing that I had been as spiritually mature when I was your age and that I had done as good a job as your mom did in raising you. This has helped me to focus on moving forward and being greatful that God brought me to a place of spiritual maturity from where I was when I was younger and to use my experience and what God has taught me to further His kingdom. I just found your channel this past week, it is a blessing that God led me to connect with your channel. I have been inspired and encouraged by your videos. I pray that God will continue to bless you and Tyler as you both seek to encourage, uplift and inspire people by living out your faith.
This is one thing that I really appreciate about you. You are willing to be open and vulnerable. No one's life is without challenge thank you for being honest about your humanity and not being fake. It blesses so many people. What a fantastic word: be faithful with what God put in front of you. ;)
Thank you so much for this sister!!!!!
My 13 year old daughter is firm in her faith, loves Jesus, and is in church whenever the doors are open (which is all the time) ☺️
I notice her comparing herself to others and even looking to her peers for validation 😔 It’s taken her down the road of self harm before she was even a teen. I cannot imagine being a child in today’s society especially with social media and cell phones. 💜
You are and will always be true and beautiful blessing 💕
I struggle with this too , not as much as before God has been helping me a lot . But what I find is when I spend time with God, He becomes my greatest delight and I’ll never lose God - and it really helps change your heart on the comparison trap .
I also realised the enemy caught Eve on the comparison trap. She had it all , made in the image of God , no sin , no temptation , no pain etc . But thr enemy made her focus on the one thing God said she can’t have … this really
Helped me too .
Also to mediate on - Proverbs 14:30 that says a sound heart is life , but envy is rottenness to the bones. Pray this helped someone
I have to share this …condensed version…but nonetheless essential healing!
The day after my husband and I got married..he said to me “you need people more than people need you”.
I had a tendency to be a people pleaser, consumer of others lives.
What truth I experienced was about a year later of freedom and change and I started leaning in to Jesus, leaving behind toxic people, relationships etc. I had to get alone with him to see my relationship with him came first.
I had..notice the word had, journals of garbage that had consumed my attention. I have since gotten rid of all of the journals, laughed at my ridiculousness and put my worth where it belongs. I haven’t looked back, I am at total peace and I’ve learned to not have expectations of others, and love people where they are. Show the fruit of the spirit. I absolutely believe and trust in that scripture. It was what I clung to everyday when I woke up and knew Satan wanted my soul. I am here to tell anyone that if you struggle like I did with deep ache to be accepted and loved by others allow Jesus to a lunch date like I did every week. It’s no joke, I went and sat in a chick fil a restaurant and brought my materials, bible..journal etc and I sat there for hours!! I was able to grasp and even share my testimony with others sitting there by myself. Some would ask to talk, to meet me. I ministered to others in that same spot every week. I even had my 3 year old with me and he had so many children to play with while I sat close by. He got what he needed and I did too. He now works for Chick fil a!! He’s 16 years old. He’s a Christian as loves Jesus ..stands up for truth in a high school where faith lacks. Stay strong in faith ladies, let the Holy Spirit invade your space everyday and everywhere to everyone.
I love this story. I love hearing how God has worked in people's lives. You are a blessing to many! ❤️
Such a good word Kaci! 😊👍 When you said if we’re busy comparing ourselves, we’re not interested in building God’s kingdom but our own- that’s SPOT ON & I felt convicted, so thank you for being faithful to run the race you’ve been given & to bring this word 👏😘
Kaci for me it’s respect youth of today don’t respect their elders. They believe titles make them better than others. Yet life lived gives wisdom. People generally don’t know what you have done in your life. All they see is you now. Not how you got there and the sacrifices you made to get there. They see themselves as better this is a struggle and a challenge for me. I don’t compare myself to people of my own age because we have adult children who have done well for themselves.
I really needed this! I definitely have been struggling with this especially since starting college recently. I highly recommend Pastor Micheal Todd's sermon Cuffed to Comparison! It's so good. 💛
I'm so happy it was helpful to you! 💛
I struggle badly with this daily since I'm still single at 28
Thank you Kaci for sharing you heart in such an honest and meaningful way! Always shine for Jesus!! 💗
This is something that is so easy for people to fall into, I think everyone is guilty on this one but that's cool that you shared this with us.
Hi Sister thank you encourgement message
Thinking I'm different to others I have condition Cerebral Palsy but I'm blessed to be different in that way I appreciate my life to be inspiration to others.
God bless you,Sis❤
This is so beautiful, Mary! I'm confident your life and faith are SUCH an inspiration and blessing to those around you - your comment was a blessing to me 💛
I think it is amazing that I found this video when I did. I have recently been struggling with low self esteem in regards to all the pitfalls of comparison out there. You are so right about trying to use social media in a positive way if you allow yourself to engage in it. I personally have decided to significantly minimize my attachment to social media because that is what is right for me personally in my life right now. I need to refocus my eyes on what I have and my own gifts from God. It is so very easy to wish for things that others have. Like you said, that is sin. I saw another comment that included one of the most real quotes I have ever heard "comparison is the thief of joy". There has been way too much thievery in my midst lately. I want to make that change in my life. God wants me to make that change.
This is so encouraging, thank you!
I am thankful that God led me to this channel. Your voice is a calm, peaceful and godly presence in the midst of various videos filled with a lot of noise and hustle. I find encouragement, insight and joy from this channel. Never let go of your purpose of spreading God's word and love to others. You have answered a high calling which will far outlast the pursuit of fame and money. May God continue to bless your life and allow you to continue to grow and reach others with God's word and His love as you share your encounters and experiences with Him in your life. 🙏🏾💖
Personally I am going to be a senior in High-school and after being homeschooled the past year I will be going back. I’ve been saved and born-again for about 2 years in October. As I’m desiring to go to school this year to make a change an be the light, I’ve been starting to compare myself to my schoolmates I’ve grown up with. Thoughts like “Everybody had a glow-up and I look the same” so it’s that kind of what I’m dealing with. I’m trying to cast down these thoughts and realize that I may have not changed externally but internally since I have grown in the Lord and truly love Him. Thank you for sharing and allowing your obedience to be a confirmation that there is an open door to envy and I have to lay it down.. be blessed sister 🙌🏽
I don't normally leave comments, but this video has now inspired me! 😆
This message was just what I needed to hear, even though I didn't even really realize that this was something I was struggling with recently! You are right that these truths about comparison bring so much freedom - when we stop worrying about where we're at in comparison to others, we can shift our focus to God and His Kingdom. It is so comforting! It is so easy to become trapped in what the world says about looks, success, etc., and we need to remind ourselves every day to see ourselves and the things around us GOD'S way, instead of the world's way.
Thank you for always bringing us such quality Biblical content - you rock, girl! 🥰
I’m 2minutes in and I just wanted to say I love YOUR content everything you post. I have listened or tried to listen to other Christian content creators but yours is always my absolute favourite. Please remember that haha you’re eve feeling like that again xxxx
Even after taking a break from social media for a few years now, I still struggle with this. Thank you for your work and perspective to share the ever-undoubted nature and grace of God, in the midst of fleshly longing for worldly desires. Thank you for your obedience and your dedication to the church (everyone still alive.)
Kaci this is great! Purity of heart is so necessary 💗💝
God bless you! 💝
a year later.. and I still was blessed! I appreciate your transparency and authenticity in this video! I truly needed to see this! THANK YOU.❤
Thank you for sharing from your heart and speaking from a place of struggle. Keep focused on Him and may He continue to use you to speak truth no matter what.
What a moment of clarity! To realise that the core issue of comparison is sin, and so if we confess it before God, He can forgive us and wash us of it. Wow I love that. Kaci that really set me free. God bless you!
If it helps, you’re my favorite Christian influencer, Kaci. 😊 I’m a small Christian RUclipsr and this is such an encouragement for me. Hope you know your impact as an instrument of God and may it encourage you to keep doing what you do. ❤️
Thank you for sharing this Truth!!! It's a great reminder that when I compare myself with others that it's envy, which is sin. Praying for forgiveness so I don't have to battle this on my own. I struggle with this in different seasons of my life often and I know it's when I get my eyes off of what God has gifted me in doing for His Glory. Thank you for sharing from God's Word to reinforce what He's teaching you so that you can share and teach others from His Word. God Bless! Traci
This was a very helpful and meaningful video, well thought out and executed. Thank you!!
Wow..such an bkessed and anoited word Kaci...Bess You Kaci
Wow I didn't know that envy was that comparison had a little think about do I compare things much I found myself comparing where I live didn't know I was a bit envious but I do praise God that people have nice places to live bless them all Lord
I struggle so much with comparison. This was so helpful! Thank you for sharing your perspective on this issue. 💛
This made me cry! I've been TTC for a few months and we got married around the same time and I couldn't watch your video on the announcement. It feels harder than usual cause this feels out of my control😭 and my heart is not OK but yeah it is envy
Good stuff, Kaci. I must confess that as a senior adult who has been in comparison mode for so many years, I find it easy to think; "Why start now to change this bad habit? What can be gained at this late point of life?" But the answer to that question has to do with what you say about seeking the glory of God, and not of myself. I also appreciate your insight that comparison to anyone other than Jesus is just a form of envy, and envy is a sin. You've given me some good things to think and pray about - and I thank you.
Awesome! I love this. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
You are right girl, those truths really weren't "good feely " truths but it was worth hearing. Thank you.❤️
I can honestly say you are one of my favorite creators. Your words have spoke to me I can’t stop watching your videos. Keep lifting people up with your videos girl. 🙂
God must REALLY want me to hear this message today. Just last night I did a deep dive into Genesis 30 - the whole thing between Rachel and Leah. It was CRAZY to really dig into that and understand why they did what they did. But GIRL, that was their CULTURE! They were two hurt women just trying to feel like they mattered comparing themselves to each other! Leah wanted her husband to love her; Rachel wanted to have kids, but it turned out that Rachel got Jacob's love and Leah got the kids. I can totally understand it if I look at it from the culture of the time. And I can see myself in both of them. The best part of it is that God worked through them regardless of their dysfunction. He still heard their prayers and he still answered them.
Whoa yes, Rachel and Leah - the perfect Bible story to talk about comparison! It's so relatable and so powerful to see how gracious God is despite it all. Thank you for sharing this 💛
You're an amazing person in that your advice about topics and explanation of scripture is very clear and refreshingly honest. Keep going and never stop your biblical advice, because it's presenting a beautiful way to live life in keeping with the Holy Spirit. Bless you and your gorgeous family.
Celebrate the people you are tempted to compare yourself to! This. The same God for them is the same God for me. Amen.
-- Keep seeking God and truth, share and help people with love, and never let anyone or this world take you away from him. Please stay filled with humbleness and wisdom, most of all love and desire to truly help people with God and his compassion. Keep sharing the truth and not what people want to hear. Stay strong in your relationship with Jesus and keep following his words with love and righteousness. 🙏🏼💗
Thanks for always speaking the truth, not just the words that feel good but don’t bring true encouragement!
Your content is amazing. I really needed this.
Thanks for being so real and human with your feelings. I really like that about you and I feel very encouraged after hearing you speak about things I’m also struggling with!! May God bless you and your family❤
The devil satan will lie to you. Have no worries we all love you and your videos be blessed!!!
God bless sister in Christ.🙏🏾
Thank you for your videos Kaci! This is a struggle I deal with too and I'm grateful for the vulnerability and truth in this video, especially that at the root of comparison is envy, and that envy is a sin.
I truly appreciate this , which I need. I frequently compare myself to those that can speak so well in church without being loss or stumbling over their words . I have an awful time with that, not sure if Im getting my point across to others when im ministering to others. I will try to compliment and celebrate those that can articulate points when speaking. I have learned so much since I tuned into your channel. May God continue to lead you in your teaching of His word. Its truly helping me, to realize that when I speak the Holy Spirit will give me what's needed for other to understand ! Blessing upon to you and your family. ♡
I love how your sharing Gods word and I just started growing my relationship with him so, how much of the Bible do you read and how do you know which section?
Thank you madam
Thank you so so much for sharing...I loved this so much 🥰🥺🤍🤍❤I struggle from comparison as well but what I find helpful is going offline for some time and focusing on what God is doing and all the prayers he has answered...love what you have said regarding celebrating others and having social media boundaries
soooooo beautifully said!!!! thank you so much for being so faithful to the Kingdom, Kaci. it truly is changing my life and my walk with the Lord :)
This was great! Thanks for sharing
Kaci! Wow. You hit on all the spots I've been struggling with right now. I didn't know how much I really needed this. It brought me to tears listening to you explain exactly what I am going through and that it has a name...envy. I could listen to this over and over. Thank you so so much. I really struggle with comparing with other people's opportunities and popularity. Thank you for bringing up that point. 💛
it’s crazy how you posted this a year ago and it’s so helpful to others today! this has helped me more than you know as a mom who compares herself to other moms, this has helped me to shift my perspective 🤍
Thank you for sharing your struggles I also struggle in this as well and I thank you for sharing God's truths help shift my thoughts and desires.
This was so encouraging! Thank you, Kaci!
I'm so happy to hear that! Praise God! 🙌🏼
Great message! Very encouraging. I think we all need this and to be reminded of ways to keep us focused and help us combat comparison regularly. It's all about serving Christ!
Wow, all that stuff you said is so true and you put it all in a way that I can really act on. Like, each example I could directly relate to my life. Thank you so much Kaci! You don't know how much I needed this. You're such a lovely person, inside and out!
Supperrrrrr encouraging. Much needed truth for this lost one :)
Thank you so much for this Kaci! Really needed this today ❤️
That lesson was so deep it was almost hard to follow :P
Repentance and putting faith in Jesus Christ is the key.
Great message. Perfect timing for a struggle that is very current in my life.
Amen; thanks for the video. May God continue to bless you
I just found this channel but it’s definitely been helpful…thank you for giving tips about christianity!!!
Very helpful. Thank God fornyour life🙏❤️
Hello Kaci 😊 i’m new to your channel and you seem like such a positive and happy person. I’m trying to grow a stronger faith in God and I keep trying but fail every time through horrible intrusive thoughts, insecurities, hurtful voices, and just a complete lack of focus and self-discipline😔. Whenever I see someone else doing better with their relationship with God, it makes me feel as if I have no hope and that God will never forgive me. It’s gotten to the point where sometimes I don’t even know if I can feel the Lord’s presence. All I want is just to do better with myself and show God that i’m willing to make a change 😞. If you have any advice or prayers, I would love to hear them.
This video really helped me, thank you 💕
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Thank you for sharing your wisdom 💕
Great video Kaci. This was something I really needed to hear. Have a great day.
Praise God - He knows and speaks to us 🙌🏼 I hope you have a great day as well, Harris!
sooo encouraging! Thank you very much :)
Thanks Kaci!
Love this so helpful ✨☀️
Thank you Kaci for this video ❤❤❤
I'm so glad you liked it 😊
Just what I needed to hear
Praise God! 🙌🏼
Hey, Kaci. I’m 28 and I am prone to comparing myself to others because I never had a girlfriend or kiss. I know that’s not your intention, but a lot of your relationships vids give that vibe of feeling bad when I’ve never found anybody. Could you address this?
So good 😊
More like people need to stop rubbing their marriages in my face and giving me grief because it makes me angry and sad. If god doesn't care about my happiness despite having the desire for a wife then these married people need to stop expecting me to be happy for them because I never will.
And like when someone does not play any video games. They can't compare. That's so silly
Thank you so much for being vulnerable! I feel like I needed to hear this without really realizing I needed it so much. It is very real and convicting.
I don’t have any social media outside of RUclips and I watch mostly Christian content and I definitely do compare my self often or as you mentioned, want what they have. Most content creators I watch were raised Christian so I often compare my life to them. I want a close knit family that are strong Christians, which is exactly the opposite of what I have, I want to have known the Lord since I was little, which I have only known Jesus personally for a year and a half, and especially, those that are married/pregnant/have a family, outside of seeking God and knowing Him more, that’s what I desire most. I even notice it in the littlest things. Thank you for speaking up about this and shining the light on it. 🤍
Aw Kitty, thank you for this comment - and I thank God it was helpful to you! It is always so enlightening to hear the unique areas we all compare ourselves in, and such a reminder that we all struggle, just in different ways based on our unique experiences and circumstances. I think your testimony in coming to Jesus more recently is so powerful and will be used by God to reach different people than those who have testimonies of knowing Him most of their lives. Both so beautiful and powerful! Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💛
Wow! Thank you so much! I really needed to hear this🤍 also wanted to say thank you for speaking the truth in such love! Such great example of speaking truth in love✨
Also wanted to say thank you for your last video as well! About the “this popular phrase is NOT Biblical” also blessed my heart and relationship with Jesus! I actually shared that video on my social media and my friend was really blessed with that video as well! Keep up the good work my friend! Your being such a bright light for the King✨🤍
so encouraging! i very much needed to hear this!🤍
Really loved this 🤍🤍🤍 thanks for your vulnerability