Your crash was my final straw for quitting paramotor. I’ve seen too many people, some of them at my own local airfield, lose their lives, get seriously injured, or just cut too close to death. The risk profile of the sport is just not for me. I miss it, but I can live without it. I spent most flights wondering about all the “what ifs?”. What if the carabiner snaps in half, or if a swing arms just breaks, or if I misread the weather, yadda yadda. I still enjoyed my flights, but always with a tinge of dread underneath it all. Anthony, you’re one heck of a strong dude. Even though I quit the sport, I’m still following a lot of guys, including your journey of recovery. One can’t underestimate how much a positive mindset can help someone heal, and you’ve got that down. The whole community is pulling for ya. And about all those hateful comments, I think Mike Tyson sums that up: “Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it”
I read this a couple of times. We have A LOT in common. I can totally relate with the tinge of “dread”. Especially with the weather. It has always freaked me out over the years. I appreciate the kind words. It helps pick me back up on those tough days. And Mike Tyson made a lot of sense when he said that. People are way too darn comfortable from the safety of their computers.
Damn. Your comment really got me thinking. I was thinking about getting into paramotoring. Granted I realize the seriousness in it and I get people get hurt. My biggest worry is, I'd be flying alone. What if something does go wrong? I'd way rather have someone around me. Was there ever a time you weren't worried when you were flying or was it always a thing?
@@lobbyrobby if you’re asking me, I’d say that there were plenty of times that I didn’t worry. I’m sure the gentleman who posted the original comment experienced moments of not worrying. That said, when the thought of something going wrong pops into your head, it can be overwhelmingly intrusive. It’s a human reaction that, for many, can’t be suppressed at will. Those experiences overpower the positive ones because you feel like you’re staring death in the face. The positive ones are simply incredibly wonderful. Death and severe injury is pretty darn powerful though.
@@lobbyrobby I mostly flew alone in the early mornings in remote areas. Having a flying buddy does put your mind at ease a bit. Even if it’s a simple engine out and you need a pickup. One of the big quotes in the paramotor community is, “complacency kills,” and it’s quite true. Small things you didn’t pay attention to can cause an accident. The solution just seems to be, "pay attention to everything"… but that’s not possible. I feel like everyone will get complacent about SOMEthing at some point… A missed loose bolt during pre-flight, a tension knot you couldn’t see. I was lucky enough in my 3 years of flying that nothing went majorly wrong, but I also flew straight and level, and landed anytime the wind felt a bit sketchy. Don’t let me dissuade you from flying. I may have a particular OCD that focuses on those negatives too much while flying, but I still had a blast. If I could do it over, I’d still do it all again. The friends I made I still keep in touch with, and the experience just can’t be matched by any rollercoaster or single engine plane… it’s just not the same. I’d recommend finding a local tandem and see how you feel.
@@ryguyfly9171 I've actually already did a tandem flight. My son and I did one. I loved it. I do have some skydiving experience. 2 tandems and 8 solo jumps. I won't bs you. I was pretty terrified leaving that plane. The more I jumped the better it got but I still didn't like it. I absolutely loved being under canopy tho. That was basically the reason I was jumping haha. Thanks for the reply
If thats the case, I’ll be very happy. Admittedly, I’m particularly set on the 100% and beyond, regardless of how long it takes. Part of me feels like if I can become stronger than ever, I owe it to myself to get there.
@@AnthonyVellaman your brain is gonna want to obsess over the insecurities and “percentages” of recovery at the end of the day that’s just your brain trying to convince you that what you’ve already been threw wasn’t enough bad enough. Lock in.
@ I am trying to make sense of that last bit. Seems like you may be correct. No doubt, it’s all I think about since it’s felt all the time. So, probably when the pain starts to go away, I won’t obsess over it as much. Then I can just focus on recovery, and anything else really, right?
@@AnthonyVella I crashed my paratrike on take off and pulverized bones, terrible bruises etc etc. One year and one month ago----- I still love flying especially the paratrike that brought some much joy to my life . I have flown Cessnas and the like, hang glider trikes and other ultralights. The obsession with flight never goes away especially in these aircraft that fit in your Mini Cooper and cost 5 dollars per hour to operate. When I was limping, crawling to get to the bathroom crawling to take a bath---- My two daughters 13 and 9 helping me to move around the house like a decrepit old man (i am ) I felt terrible and defeated. A. Vella is a smart and young man, he will be fine because all bones fix all ligaments mend over time. Recovery is slow but happens eventually. In one year time pain goes away and optimism returns like a gift from above. Soon Paratrikes will be all electric, quieter, lighter and all flight schools will have ground trikes to practice kiting and ground handling in general. My accident happened because of poor sail control on take off. Having flown free paragliders for so long tricked me into thinking that I would have perfect take offs ,that wing control in the ground was in my pocket. Most terrible mistake I ever made in my flying career. Vella, think FPV while you get better and when you go flying again in a paramotor the flying machine will have a fully caged propeller and a super quiet and light one hour flight time endurance all graphene light and strong. The wing will be an Ozone Moxie type of sail , safe, slow, perfect. and yes, Go Vegan !
I had a bad skiing accident, took me two years to recover, tore my hamstring so badly I almost died from a blood clot. I eventually got back on my skis, but I now ski like a grandma and I still enjoy it. Just because you won't fly the same way, taking big risks, doesn't mean you won't enjoy it just as much. In fact your perspective will change and you will be grateful that you can do it at all. I fly a paramotor trike with a safe wing, and I love it, but I don't do any kind of acro or wingovers, just being in the air is enough for me.
Watching all this unfold really changed my outlook on flying. I love it so much but it really is just the cherry on top to life. Nothing is more important than the life you have on the ground. Thank you for sharing your journey every pilot can benefit from your wisdom.
Your recovery to date is amazing. Seeing you walk on 17 Nov 2024 in the San Antonia video was awesome. Clearly those repetitive 80, 90, 100% days are adding up. Keep on keeping on ! Looking forward to your continued success!
It is amazing how much progress you've made. I continue to believe your elbow will continue to improve (even if you need further surgery). Considering there was literally no structure to it left after the crash, you're doing great. Your shoulder and hand are pretty much fine, all the nerves seem to be intact. What were the chances of that? You'll get more back than you have now. Hey, if you need to wear a brace sometimes once it's fully healed? so what? It's still a working arm. I have a friend who lost hers in a car accident. I guarantee she'd give a great deal to have the arm you have now even if it never got any better. Hang in there and keep doing what your doctors and physical therapist tell you. You'll get there.
@@ecraft9511 I really appreciate it. I’ve learned to deal with the negative feedback. Or at least I’ve gotten better at it. Thank you for the kind words.
I can’t believe they screwed up so badly. You are lucky to be alive. Even though I’ve never flown a para motor I’ve wanted to, badly. Still want to. But when I watch your recovery and see how serious your situation was…I’m torn. Actually I’m feeling like no fn way man! Then later on I’m looking at gear and schools. Holy cow. Perhaps my Harley is enough.
All the best to your continuing recovery. So glad you're on the fpv train now. It's a beautiful hobby that changed my life. Stay strong man you really motivate people!
Good to see you man. Drive is everything, if you aim for 100% and get 99 or 95 you're winning. If you pay attention to the haters and lose your drive you'll end up at 60%. So, 100% or bust for you my friend! Settle for nothing less!
Take it easy and relax. Recovery will take time. I'm getting the vibe you are just eagerly waiting to recover so you can go back to doing something dangerous again. stay safe.
Thanks for sharing the intimacy of your thoughts and pains, Somehow understand what you are going through as I had suffered a double fracture on my very first landing which placed me on a wheel chair for a while. What matters after a major trauma is the lessons you learned. For me it was 1) that I had to learn to walk before I run, the enthusiasm was blinding me on the seriousness of what I was doing 2) Am I prepared to die? If you take on an extreme sport, you better be in peace with your mortality or you will never truly enjoy it. 3) finally it is a fantastic opportunity to know yourself deeper that any other way. Being in a wheel chair forces you to see how humble we are. Regardless of your choices, whether you fly again or not, do not let fear determine your future decisions.
You are amazing! The progress you have achieved is incredible! Keep up the good work. I had a motorcycle accident where I broke my femur into 8 pieces. So I have some idea of what you are going through. You will continue healing. Things will get much better.
Feeling like I feel today, I think I’d be more than accepting of that outcome. Thank you. I’ll be leaning on your comment as I continue in my recovery.
I really appreciate your candid remarks about the accident Anthony. I really do not know how you youtubers are able to do it. I tried the youtube stuff for about a minute, and let the haters bother me too much. I think they just enjoy getting in your head, and most of the time don't really even believe their own condemning remarks. Good to see you are keeping up the fight, and wishing you a full recovery.
When I saw your crash in a short, I was really shocked, and I instantly thought you were dead... I'm happy you're not. I hope you're better soon! All the best to you!
Hope you get back soon ! I still believe paramotoring is still very safe. As long as you're not complacent and don't push the boundaries, it is indeed a very safe sport. My wife isnt too happy about me trying this new hobby but I will definitely check all the boxes and take it easy up in the sky..
Hi Anthony, hope you are having a great Veterans Day, thank you for your service! I was doing a little diving into some online stories of your time in AF, and wanted to know if you ever wanted to start back up Purple Heart Hunters? Or maybe it transitioned to something else? Or sometimes thinking of the past brings back bad memories and I totally understand that aspect. Hope you recover the 110% you want, I personally believe you can get there but it will take some time. Semper Gumby, and take each day, day by day. 👍
Dude so glad your actuality doing better and talking about flying again. I did say to myself after watching some of your previous videos. This guy is going to get hurt. When you push the limits. Anything wrong can happen. Im not going up without a reserve no matter what.
I totally get your screams dude! I got hit by a car in a crosswalk downtown about six years ago. The people in city hall came running out. Someone said they thought a woman got hit. We all react to pain and surprise differently. The internet also is a safe people to be complete jerks. They say stuff online they wouldn’t say in person, because in person it’s easy to get punched in the throat.
Great video bud, I appreciate the Q&A. I know there was a lot of redundancy in the questions (mine included), but that's understandable with the content. Love seeing you get stronger brother! To be honest, I’d love to see you fly again. You were an inspiration to me for taking on some new challenges (like we talked about, your landing at the top of that mountain and your excitement for doing it was so empowering). So selfishly I’d love to see you fly again (if you are able). Your family supports you knowing you are a good pilot and make good choices... it sucks when one bad thing happens and it disrupts your path. But who knows that could be for a good reason. When I crashed in the water and almost drowned, it was a wakeup call to think and plan more as a pilot as “anything” can happen, but it’s more likely if you are oblivious or get complacent. I don’t avoid water now, but I don’t fly close to it and I’m a better pilot for that situation happening. I know you would be too. Either way, your still an inspiration brother, hope to see you again soon.
In the same boat (paramotor crash with severe injures) , I left a comment on a previous video. My injures were fx to L foot, pelvic fx, open fx to L arm. Local EMS was perfect, I was assessed, IV placed, packaged on back board, C collar AND 2 grams of IV antibiotic before we left the scene. I still have infection issues and 4 surgeries to try and get ahead of infection. BUT like you I will be dealing with this for a long time and wonder what my endpoint condition will be.
You will recover and you will probably fly a paramotor again. You are strong both physically and mentally. Reminds me of Rocky movie lines where it say no one can hit as hard as life but it not about how hard you can hit but about how hard you can get hit and keep going. Best of wishes to you and the family.
Hello Anthony, I'm very pleased to see that overall you are making amazing progress recovering from your injuries with the elbow being the most difficult to overcome. Just looking at how you are able to move your right arm and hand you have made great progress there also compared to the initial "might not be able to save it" diagnosis. I really hope that eventually you can physically get back in the air again but super safe with minimum risk for the sake of your wonderful wife and children. I think that you and your wife are super people and wish for the best for you both. Thanks for posting.
All the best to you Anthony on your recovery and journey back to flying again. No rush back to it though, wouldn’t want to see you get set back on your journey. Always enjoy the videos 👍🏻
From one pilot to another: I have watched your story since before your accident and I wish you nothing other than a full recovery and a healthy long life with your family by your side. I do know that your mistake has been a wake up call for many pilots, and that sharing your story has saved more than one from being complacent. I hope in a few years this will be not much more than a memory for you. There are so many inspiring stories out there, many of wounded veterans pushing past their injuries... i think you will be one of them. Stay positive bro, and be patient. ❤🪂
@@livefreedontdie2815 thank you very much. I really appreciate it. I’m going out of town for a major surgery to the arm Tuesday. I feel confident that this will be the one that makes my arm feel functional again. Thank you for your support.
You and your story are inspirational. You should definitely write a book and become a motivational speaker. I hope you are able to get to a point VERY QUICKLY where your pain is not affecting your life.
Hey bro. There are multiple different ways to get back into the air that are much safer than paramotoring, but are similar to the feel of paramotoring. The closest option is the revo trike. It's part 103 so you'll need an aviator license to pilot it. Functionally it is operated similar to a paramotor but uses a weight shifter bar instead. Reasons why the revo trike is safer. It's a rigid cloth overhead Delta wing design so it can't deflate. The only thing you have to worry about is a spin stall which is really easy to correct. It's also really hard to spin stall the revo trike. The revo trike also has the option to add a ballistic parachute in case you can't recover the stall. You pull a lever that's right next to your side and the overhead wing breaks away and a rocket shoots out of the side and pulls the parachute out of it's storage causing it to blossom within 15 seconds. Sounds intense but it's actually really safe and a lot of regional twin engine turbo propped cesnas and pipers use a twin ballistic parachute design for emergency unrecoverable stalls. Which leads to my second choices. Taxing to the runway while your twin engines rev up and getting the clear to takeoff man that's exhilarating. Hearing those engines just scream to life and pull you into the sky. Man there's nothing like it. So there's your options man. If you really want to shoot for the stars, go to airline pilot schools. Being behind the wheel of two Pratt and Whitney turbofan engines and going 0-300 within 30 seconds while pushing out 110,000 pounds of thrust on each engine. It put a smile on my face the first time that stuck for the whole flight. Pilot school through any airliner is really hard, but man I felt like I was flying the Mercedes of the skies when I flew my first Airbus and Boeing jetliner. Maybe your dream will look different than paramotoring, but nobody said that the difference couldn't be far better and cooler than you ever could imagine.
Respect man.. I do get you. Broke my leg in 2 places, 2 years ago in a bad landing and had some complications afterwards. Needed a second surgery. But.. I recovered 100% Just believe and work hard.
I think that people that make negative comments about another person suffering are those people who have never gone through physical suffering before in their life. In other words they have no empathy. On another note flying a PPG again is not totally impossible even without arms. I believe with a little bit of simple engineering the brake toggles could be worked by a person's feet. Although of course it would have to be done with a trike or a quad. Toronto could be done by using a mouthpiece which has been done before. There is always a way to solve a problem.
Some people just can’t handle seeing others having fun in activities that they deem too dangerous. Somehow criticizing others that are living life to the fullest makes them feel better. I suspect that none of those individuals would ever take an oath to defend their country either. Happy Veterans Day. Thanks for your service.
Ah No, Yes if he didn't have a family. He made a pledge to take care of his family when he married. He has proven not capable after flying speed bar on a new wing, low to the ground, without a parachute. Sorry Andrew you'd be a fool to ever fly again. This from a guy who flew ultralights in the 70's and quit when I started doing hammerheads.
Super interested in the interview with the wife. A lot of us fly to get away from people and live in the moment. It's interesting to see how it affects others in our life.
thank you for answering my question! I really need to change my nickname :). To be honest I really enjoyed this simple video, you should do more videos like this from time to time. Of course I enjoy your other videos too! Wishing you all the best Anthony, this arm sucks but I am sure you will overcome it, really impressed by your recovery so far.
Sorry for butchering it. lol. I’m glad you enjoyed it. Funny story, last night, I was watching some videos on YT, and this streamer just talked to the camera. Nothing fancy. It was refreshing. I hope people would stick around if I did these every now and then because it’s just nice to share the experience in an unscripted way. All that said, I seriously appreciate it.
@@AnthonyVella Exactly, this is just soo refreshing, perfect for answering questions. This actually felt little bit like having a conversation with you in person. I'll definitely stick around to watch how your recovery goes, I was watching your videos a lot before the accident. Also I have funny story, I was watching this video and then you try to read my username and I was like ''oh someone has weird name'' *second later your read my question* ''oh thats me''. Looking forward to your new videos!!
i had over 20 surgeries on my right leg, bones cut etc, pins/screws. i recovered 100% tbh but it took ages. I wont say too much more but i hope it motivates you to recover, there will be issues with surgeries sometimes and you require another, but over time it will correct itself. stay safe
@@enamred that’s honestly so cool! I’m a huge Zombies fan. I’ve been wanting to play BO6, but I’ve been pretty busy with making new video. Hit me up on Xbox @akvella if you want to play. Thanks for tuning in to the video.
I flew ultralights in the 70's. I started doing hammerheads and I knew I would keep pushing it. I quit. I'm alive and have lived another 45 years. YOU HAVE KIDS WHO WILL BE SCARED TO DEATH EVERY TIME YOU FLY IN THE FUTURE. IF YOU FLY I WILL HONESTLY HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T THINK OF YOUR FAMILY. Before I sold my ultralight I made a promise to myself. "I would not fly higher than i was willing to fall". So I started crop dusting the rice fields got floats for the river and flew low and slow 18mph to 20. Stall was 17. What a rush to fly low with it all going by you
Hang in there. Yes, hospitals and EMT's take their sweet time. You will find a new normal. Be ok with a new lifestyle that is not as physical. I had to adjust after some health traumas as well including a mTBI. You will be ok- just keep your feet on the ground my man.
I broke my pinky finger, had to get surgery and therapy etc. all for a pinky finger sounds crazy lol but it happened. Months later, less than a year, it’s back to 100%. Other than some ptsd from my accident and some scars, it works perfectly fine. I like to crack my bones in my back and fingers but I can’t do that with my pinky anymore. I think it actually got “tougher” BUT because I’m still scared to put pressure on it like getting groceries or moving big objects like a printer, it has gotten weak. My other pinky has more strength but I know if I overcome the fear of putting weight on it, it will become stronger. Not only do I have to deal with “ptsd” but I have to deal with the mental exhausting of overcoming fear of putting strength in my finger. Not that my story changes anything, but I hope other people who see this relate to what I feel I must say, based on what your saying around 4:30 I see that your happy your healing, but a part of you is also upset about what your going trough, but then again, hopeful in the outcome. It’s a very very confusing feeling. When I had my accident, I thought no one in my family will want to break a bone yet alone a “dumb pinky finger”-the most insignificant body part lol but you really do need it hahah. Well just months later my brother breaks his arm and lives with a metal bracket inside of it. His hand is paralyzed because when he snapped his arm, the nerves got damaged. He is getting better though. Something you’ll feel when breaking your bone is that you’ll FEEL your insides moving around. Like it’s unstable, but by the time you’ll realize, it’s gone.
Sorry about all the shitty comments Vella. It makes me mad to know people have been that disrespectful to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. I’m looking forward to the day I see a video of you flying again. Aviation is in your blood and it doesn’t go away with time. Trust me. The Lord put that in your heart as He did in mine. Don’t fight it!! Take care of your self and heal brother. You got this!!
Let me start by saying you have come a long way since the accident, let’s be honest, it’s a miracle that you survived such a horrific fall from the sky! You say you’re going to do a video with your wife and she isn’t stopping you from wanting to fly again. Keep in mind, your wife isn’t a selfish person, she loves you, of course she isn’t going to ask you not to fly again when she knows that’s your passion. We don’t marry our partners to control them. I wouldn’t want to be the one to make a decision like that for my husband either, if the tables were turned. Secretly, I would hope my husband would want to make a good decision for us and our family, for obvious reasons. Only you can make your own decisions, you’re a grown man, head of your household and you’ll make that decision when the time comes, that’s not a decision that your wife would want to take away from you, because she loves you. It’s your passion and you are having cravings to do it again. I have no doubt, in time, your arm will be 101% (not sure about 110%), but it will be 101% because your willing to do the work and stay focused and positive! You’re young enough to make a full recovery. You are a Superman with a fall like you endured and survived it to talk about it! I’m so glad you’re doing good and your family has you there with them, what a blessing! Keep your head up and keep moving forward, you will get there!!!
you'll recover man. i recommend a good chiro that does muscle testing and get you on a good supplement plan. it speeds up healing a ton. little to no added sugar also.
Life is not a journey to the grave with intentions of arriving safely in a pretty well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly proclaiming ... WOW! What a ride! -Hunter S. Thompson
I’ve never heard that, but that sounds like I’ll be fulfilling that awesome quote. Thank you for sharing it. Don’t have any tattoos, but if I did… haha
Anthony is no more empathy in people no more this days, i being through cancer with my wife and i know what you talking about it, keep it together for you and your family, it's what matter most brother, keep strong and positive.
Slow and steady wins the race just don't push too hard you'll get strong enough to fly again with any luck maybe I'll get to come down and fly with you sometime.
An ol' electric start nitro 200 might be in your future for a cheap re entry into the sport, and a specific glider with much lighter brake pressure, the impossible is much more obtainable than you may think!
Not a bad idea! My back and pelvis should get to a point where it can handle the little weight increase of having an electric start. As for the glider, I have a VERY special Hadron 3 that belonged to my late friend Lee, who passed away 1 year before my own crash.
It's still my dream to paramotor I found this spot right before I tor my acl.s at the same time my right legs is 100% but the left is somewhat not to good still looking to try to get into the spot and day butt it is a lot of $ for me so going to try to trade my way in to the spot but don't give up love all of your videos on RUclips it's how I found the spot keep fighting bro
Thank you very much for watching the video and keeping up with my recovery. I have made some videos on how to get into the sport when cash is tight. Reach out to me on Patreon (it's free) so that we can chat about how YOU can get into flying. There are certainly a lot of options. I also share a weekly blog on there, and the information is very helpful, but then again, I am biased. Haha www.patreon.com/anthonyvella
You have been given a 2nd chance in life. You are a smart guy with a lovely family. Just do something else that isn’t that risky. You said you enjoy fixed wing flight, there you go. Hoping you have a speedy & mostly pain free recovery.
I am just curious why you say find another sport less risky? Being a paramotor pilot myself I think we can agree its as safe or as dangerous as we make it just like anything else. Its mind boggling to me that every time some gets hurt doing something different humans automatically blame the sport. I remember when human accountability was a thing, but i guess that done exists anymore.
Thank you Scott. At the moment, I can’t get my private pilots license, otherwise I totally would be working towards it. It’s a story for another time. Trust me, I would love to get my PPL. I appreciate the suggestion. You’re not wrong!
@@base754you’ll never hear me say, or even suggest, that the crash was not my fault. Is paramotoring risky? It can be, like anything else. That’s always been my stance.
@@base754btw, I totally agree with your past comment. Any regulation would be BS. Just like BASE, people should be able to do whatever the hell they want, so long as they’re not f’ing anyone else up.
@@base754 I flew paramotors for 6 years, without getting a scratch. I quit because of 2 reasons, one being it wasn’t exciting anymore, to me, the other my LZ’s were disappearing. After Tucker Gott’s friend Jeff died in a Paramotor accident, I started thinking, man if a guy like that (good safe pilot) was killed, it can happen to anyone. Jeff isn’t the only good safe pilot this has happened to. So in my opinion, if I were Anthony, young, beautiful family and survived a horrendous crash with severe physical injuries, I would look to take up another activity that sparked my interest. There are plenty of hobbies/sports out there, that are fun & challenging. Just my opinion, which I’m allowed to have. You are allowed to have yours.
Ive followed you on you tube for years and iam glad you're ok and coming through it, but i wish you would admit you were taking a big risk that day of the accident, the community needs to hear that flying ppg is actually safe if respected, please dont take this as hate statement,.but saying hay i made a mistake that day and has cost me dearly carrys no shame,.all the best on you're future plans and i hope you get to fly again but please be safe
Hey anothony, dont pay attention to those negative comments. Some people just get off on saying the most horrific things, its mostly not real. They are just enjoying internet anonymity
@@CloudKickerRyan I never heard back from them after they asked me (while I was in the ICU) to post the original crash video and add that it wasn’t the gliders fault.
Gosh I hate peoples “view “ of other peoples lives . Anthony just live your life as you do . I support you and wanting to be normal as you can get. Who has never made a mistake ? Some people think they are perfect but let them face adversity . Then they always blame someone else . Your still here and you bad decision didn’t kill you . Lucky but who cares about anyone but your wife and kids lol . I would never push my stance on you and your life. Do you and I’ll do me is my thinking .
I like the way you think, brother. In the grand scheme of things, my wife and kids are my whole world. Not some comments on YT. I appreciate you buddy. And thank you for all of the support you’ve given me.
Maybe I am confused. I thought you said in your previous video you were going to quit paramotoring completely. Now you say that it might happen again once you are physically able. Care to clarify? Thanks!
I only discovered your podcast after your accident unfortunately. I'm all caught up on all your episodes so can you put out about 20 or 30 new episodes for me? 😀
Hi Anthony, I don't read all the comments and your answers, maybe you've already answered the question. Have you ever thought about what it would be like if you had flown paramotor just for yourself, without RUclips videos and a community. Would you have crashed then too?
@@d.5432 it’s super fragmented. Many pieces were removed. The surgeon secured the bones that were big enough to be secured and removed the rest. If you pause at the X-ray of the area, you’ll see chunks missing. Screws, rods, and plates hold the rest together. He injected as much bone graft as he could.
@@d.5432 also, the option of a total elbow replacement was an early discussion, but he assured me and my family that I’d be limited to 5 lbs carrying capacity. Do a quick google search on this. At 33, years old, he strongly advised against it (at first) to see it I could make a comeback by trying to regrow the bone.
@@AnthonyVella I don't think 5lbs is enough to operate a paraglider, I feel like you can easily exceed that with the brakes. I hope you get to a level where you can put a decent load on it
@@DrAElemayo I will get there buddy. Fortunately, they didn’t put in an artificial elbow, so I should (in theory) be able to become as “structurally sound” as I was before, so long as I heal properly. Time will tell. Fingers crossed. 🤞🏻
I thought your giant Kirkland beer was interesting at first, then you moved it out of the way 😂😂 You should feel lucky you got to keep your arm/hand. I got into a paraglider accident as well, I only injured my hand, and it was unusable for a month. It really showed me how disabled you can feel even with just one missing hand, and prosthetics don't seem anywhere near the level of the real thing. Are you going to remove the metal plates on your bones at any point?
Wish you all the best man ! Stay strong
@@LeateqOfficial will do! Thank you very much. 🙂
Love your optimism and strength. Never give up on making slow, steady progress. You’ll be able to achieve your goals in some form or another
Thank you very much. Thank you for all of the comments over the years! They mean a lot to me.
Your crash was my final straw for quitting paramotor. I’ve seen too many people, some of them at my own local airfield, lose their lives, get seriously injured, or just cut too close to death. The risk profile of the sport is just not for me. I miss it, but I can live without it. I spent most flights wondering about all the “what ifs?”. What if the carabiner snaps in half, or if a swing arms just breaks, or if I misread the weather, yadda yadda. I still enjoyed my flights, but always with a tinge of dread underneath it all.
Anthony, you’re one heck of a strong dude. Even though I quit the sport, I’m still following a lot of guys, including your journey of recovery. One can’t underestimate how much a positive mindset can help someone heal, and you’ve got that down. The whole community is pulling for ya. And about all those hateful comments, I think Mike Tyson sums that up:
“Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it”
I read this a couple of times. We have A LOT in common. I can totally relate with the tinge of “dread”. Especially with the weather. It has always freaked me out over the years.
I appreciate the kind words. It helps pick me back up on those tough days. And Mike Tyson made a lot of sense when he said that. People are way too darn comfortable from the safety of their computers.
Damn. Your comment really got me thinking. I was thinking about getting into paramotoring. Granted I realize the seriousness in it and I get people get hurt. My biggest worry is, I'd be flying alone. What if something does go wrong? I'd way rather have someone around me. Was there ever a time you weren't worried when you were flying or was it always a thing?
@@lobbyrobby if you’re asking me, I’d say that there were plenty of times that I didn’t worry. I’m sure the gentleman who posted the original comment experienced moments of not worrying. That said, when the thought of something going wrong pops into your head, it can be overwhelmingly intrusive. It’s a human reaction that, for many, can’t be suppressed at will. Those experiences overpower the positive ones because you feel like you’re staring death in the face. The positive ones are simply incredibly wonderful. Death and severe injury is pretty darn powerful though.
@@lobbyrobby I mostly flew alone in the early mornings in remote areas. Having a flying buddy does put your mind at ease a bit. Even if it’s a simple engine out and you need a pickup.
One of the big quotes in the paramotor community is, “complacency kills,” and it’s quite true. Small things you didn’t pay attention to can cause an accident. The solution just seems to be, "pay attention to everything"… but that’s not possible. I feel like everyone will get complacent about SOMEthing at some point… A missed loose bolt during pre-flight, a tension knot you couldn’t see. I was lucky enough in my 3 years of flying that nothing went majorly wrong, but I also flew straight and level, and landed anytime the wind felt a bit sketchy.
Don’t let me dissuade you from flying. I may have a particular OCD that focuses on those negatives too much while flying, but I still had a blast. If I could do it over, I’d still do it all again. The friends I made I still keep in touch with, and the experience just can’t be matched by any rollercoaster or single engine plane… it’s just not the same. I’d recommend finding a local tandem and see how you feel.
@@ryguyfly9171 I've actually already did a tandem flight. My son and I did one. I loved it. I do have some skydiving experience. 2 tandems and 8 solo jumps. I won't bs you. I was pretty terrified leaving that plane. The more I jumped the better it got but I still didn't like it. I absolutely loved being under canopy tho. That was basically the reason I was jumping haha. Thanks for the reply
I'm glad to see you are doing okay and glad to hear that you will not stop flying
Because of your age and passion you will be 90% ok in 12 months from now. Just take it easy and enjoy your kids.
If thats the case, I’ll be very happy. Admittedly, I’m particularly set on the 100% and beyond, regardless of how long it takes. Part of me feels like if I can become stronger than ever, I owe it to myself to get there.
@@AnthonyVellaman your brain is gonna want to obsess over the insecurities and “percentages” of recovery at the end of the day that’s just your brain trying to convince you that what you’ve already been threw wasn’t enough bad enough. Lock in.
@ I am trying to make sense of that last bit. Seems like you may be correct. No doubt, it’s all I think about since it’s felt all the time. So, probably when the pain starts to go away, I won’t obsess over it as much. Then I can just focus on recovery, and anything else really, right?
@@AnthonyVella I crashed my paratrike on take off and pulverized bones, terrible bruises etc etc. One year and one month ago----- I still love flying especially the paratrike that brought some much joy to my life . I have flown Cessnas and the like, hang glider trikes and other ultralights. The obsession with flight never goes away especially in these aircraft that fit in your Mini Cooper and cost 5 dollars per hour to operate. When I was limping, crawling to get to the bathroom crawling to take a bath---- My two daughters 13 and 9 helping me to move around the house like a decrepit old man (i am ) I felt terrible and defeated. A. Vella is a smart and young man, he will be fine because all bones fix all ligaments mend over time. Recovery is slow but happens eventually. In one year time pain goes away and optimism returns like a gift from above. Soon Paratrikes will be all electric, quieter, lighter and all flight schools will have ground trikes to practice kiting and ground handling in general. My accident happened because of poor sail control on take off. Having flown free paragliders for so long tricked me into thinking that I would have perfect take offs ,that wing control in the ground was in my pocket. Most terrible mistake I ever made in my flying career. Vella, think FPV while you get better and when you go flying again in a paramotor the flying machine will have a fully caged propeller and a super quiet and light one hour flight time endurance all graphene light and strong. The wing will be an Ozone Moxie type of sail , safe, slow, perfect. and yes, Go Vegan !
I had a bad skiing accident, took me two years to recover, tore my hamstring so badly I almost died from a blood clot. I eventually got back on my skis, but I now ski like a grandma and I still enjoy it. Just because you won't fly the same way, taking big risks, doesn't mean you won't enjoy it just as much. In fact your perspective will change and you will be grateful that you can do it at all. I fly a paramotor trike with a safe wing, and I love it, but I don't do any kind of acro or wingovers, just being in the air is enough for me.
Yeah skiing/motorcycling, don't go too hard and its okay, moment you hoon hard is when this can happen
Watching all this unfold really changed my outlook on flying. I love it so much but it really is just the cherry on top to life. Nothing is more important than the life you have on the ground. Thank you for sharing your journey every pilot can benefit from your wisdom.
Still keeping you in our prayers brother! Wish you a speedy and painless as possible recovery from this latest surgery.
Thank you brother. You’ve always been very kind and supportive. I appreciate you.
Stay strong ! Wish you the best!
Thank you, Robert. I will give it my best.
Your recovery to date is amazing. Seeing you walk on 17 Nov 2024 in the San Antonia video was awesome. Clearly those repetitive 80, 90, 100% days are adding up. Keep on keeping on ! Looking forward to your continued success!
It is amazing how much progress you've made. I continue to believe your elbow will continue to improve (even if you need further surgery). Considering there was literally no structure to it left after the crash, you're doing great. Your shoulder and hand are pretty much fine, all the nerves seem to be intact. What were the chances of that? You'll get more back than you have now. Hey, if you need to wear a brace sometimes once it's fully healed? so what? It's still a working arm. I have a friend who lost hers in a car accident. I guarantee she'd give a great deal to have the arm you have now even if it never got any better. Hang in there and keep doing what your doctors and physical therapist tell you. You'll get there.
G’day Anthony, so glad to hear that you’re doing well and enjoying the FPV stuff. God Bless mate!
Keeping you in our thoughts, brother! Wishing you a swift and as smooth a recovery as possible from this latest surgery.
I’ve been following your videos about the crash and you’re such a strong person. I feel so bad about all the negative comments
@@ecraft9511 I really appreciate it. I’ve learned to deal with the negative feedback. Or at least I’ve gotten better at it. Thank you for the kind words.
I wish you a wonderful recovery 🙏 it's so good to know that you're getting better 🙏
I can’t believe they screwed up so badly. You are lucky to be alive. Even though I’ve never flown a para motor I’ve wanted to, badly. Still want to. But when I watch your recovery and see how serious your situation was…I’m torn. Actually I’m feeling like no fn way man! Then later on I’m looking at gear and schools. Holy cow. Perhaps my Harley is enough.
Best wishes for you man, I believe you will get back to a 100%. Best regards from México.
All the best to your continuing recovery. So glad you're on the fpv train now. It's a beautiful hobby that changed my life. Stay strong man you really motivate people!
Thanks brother. FPV has been the perfect distraction! I’d be itching to get back up there (even more) if I didn’t have my new quad.
Man you look like a strong person, I have seen people recover from the worst, so just chill friend.
Good to see you man. Drive is everything, if you aim for 100% and get 99 or 95 you're winning. If you pay attention to the haters and lose your drive you'll end up at 60%. So, 100% or bust for you my friend! Settle for nothing less!
Take it easy and relax. Recovery will take time. I'm getting the vibe you are just eagerly waiting to recover so you can go back to doing something dangerous again. stay safe.
Thanks for sharing the intimacy of your thoughts and pains, Somehow understand what you are going through as I had suffered a double fracture on my very first landing which placed me on a wheel chair for a while. What matters after a major trauma is the lessons you learned. For me it was 1) that I had to learn to walk before I run, the enthusiasm was blinding me on the seriousness of what I was doing 2) Am I prepared to die? If you take on an extreme sport, you better be in peace with your mortality or you will never truly enjoy it. 3) finally it is a fantastic opportunity to know yourself deeper that any other way. Being in a wheel chair forces you to see how humble we are. Regardless of your choices, whether you fly again or not, do not let fear determine your future decisions.
@@grisymarco this was very powerful to read. Not only powerful, but actionable. I’m going to save this to my Apple notes on my phone. Thank you.
I would love to see the surgery footage! Stay strong dude!!! Wish you the best recovery!
You are amazing! The progress you have achieved is incredible! Keep up the good work. I had a motorcycle accident where I broke my femur into 8 pieces. So I have some idea of what you are going through. You will continue healing. Things will get much better.
You'll get to 99%. Im 100% certain of that. You have a tough mentality
Feeling like I feel today, I think I’d be more than accepting of that outcome. Thank you. I’ll be leaning on your comment as I continue in my recovery.
I really appreciate your candid remarks about the accident Anthony. I really do not know how you youtubers are able to do it. I tried the youtube stuff for about a minute, and let the haters bother me too much. I think they just enjoy getting in your head, and most of the time don't really even believe their own condemning remarks. Good to see you are keeping up the fight, and wishing you a full recovery.
When I saw your crash in a short, I was really shocked, and I instantly thought you were dead... I'm happy you're not. I hope you're better soon! All the best to you!
Hope you get back soon ! I still believe paramotoring is still very safe. As long as you're not complacent and don't push the boundaries, it is indeed a very safe sport. My wife isnt too happy about me trying this new hobby but I will definitely check all the boxes and take it easy up in the sky..
Hi Anthony, hope you are having a great Veterans Day, thank you for your service! I was doing a little diving into some online stories of your time in AF, and wanted to know if you ever wanted to start back up Purple Heart Hunters? Or maybe it transitioned to something else? Or sometimes thinking of the past brings back bad memories and I totally understand that aspect. Hope you recover the 110% you want, I personally believe you can get there but it will take some time. Semper Gumby, and take each day, day by day. 👍
Dude so glad your actuality doing better and talking about flying again. I did say to myself after watching some of your previous videos. This guy is going to get hurt. When you push the limits. Anything wrong can happen. Im not going up without a reserve no matter what.
I totally get your screams dude! I got hit by a car in a crosswalk downtown about six years ago. The people in city hall came running out. Someone said they thought a woman got hit. We all react to pain and surprise differently.
The internet also is a safe people to be complete jerks. They say stuff online they wouldn’t say in person, because in person it’s easy to get punched in the throat.
Great video bud, I appreciate the Q&A. I know there was a lot of redundancy in the questions (mine included), but that's understandable with the content. Love seeing you get stronger brother! To be honest, I’d love to see you fly again. You were an inspiration to me for taking on some new challenges (like we talked about, your landing at the top of that mountain and your excitement for doing it was so empowering). So selfishly I’d love to see you fly again (if you are able). Your family supports you knowing you are a good pilot and make good choices... it sucks when one bad thing happens and it disrupts your path. But who knows that could be for a good reason. When I crashed in the water and almost drowned, it was a wakeup call to think and plan more as a pilot as “anything” can happen, but it’s more likely if you are oblivious or get complacent. I don’t avoid water now, but I don’t fly close to it and I’m a better pilot for that situation happening. I know you would be too. Either way, your still an inspiration brother, hope to see you again soon.
In the same boat (paramotor crash with severe injures) , I left a comment on a previous video. My injures were fx to L foot, pelvic fx, open fx to L arm. Local EMS was perfect, I was assessed, IV placed, packaged on back board, C collar AND 2 grams of IV antibiotic before we left the scene. I still have infection issues and 4 surgeries to try and get ahead of infection. BUT like you I will be dealing with this for a long time and wonder what my endpoint condition will be.
may I ask as somebody who really wants to fly but does want to get all of the possibillites before making a decision, what caused your accident?
You will recover and you will probably fly a paramotor again. You are strong both physically and mentally. Reminds me of Rocky movie lines where it say no one can hit as hard as life but it not about how hard you can hit but about how hard you can get hit and keep going. Best of wishes to you and the family.
Wow man, saw the crash on X. Glad to see you doing as well as you are. I’d sue their nuts off man! That ambulance stuff is ridiculous.
Hello Anthony, I'm very pleased to see that overall you are making amazing progress recovering from your injuries with the elbow being the most difficult to overcome.
Just looking at how you are able to move your right arm and hand you have made great progress there also compared to the initial "might not be able to save it" diagnosis.
I really hope that eventually you can physically get back in the air again but super safe with minimum risk for the sake of your wonderful wife and children.
I think that you and your wife are super people and wish for the best for you both.
Thanks for posting.
All the best to you Anthony on your recovery and journey back to flying again.
No rush back to it though, wouldn’t want to see you get set back on your journey.
Always enjoy the videos 👍🏻
From one pilot to another: I have watched your story since before your accident and I wish you nothing other than a full recovery and a healthy long life with your family by your side. I do know that your mistake has been a wake up call for many pilots, and that sharing your story has saved more than one from being complacent. I hope in a few years this will be not much more than a memory for you. There are so many inspiring stories out there, many of wounded veterans pushing past their injuries... i think you will be one of them. Stay positive bro, and be patient. ❤🪂
@@livefreedontdie2815 thank you very much. I really appreciate it. I’m going out of town for a major surgery to the arm Tuesday. I feel confident that this will be the one that makes my arm feel functional again. Thank you for your support.
@AnthonyVella best of luck 🙏 sending prayers your way.
Strong mind and your body will follow. Not saying this for motivation but actual experience.💪
Count your blessings brother. Every day is a gift nobody promised us we'd get to have.
Can you use trike and electric start? It will solve many issues.
You and your story are inspirational. You should definitely write a book and become a motivational speaker. I hope you are able to get to a point VERY QUICKLY where your pain is not affecting your life.
Originally saw the accident on instagram and then I saw your donation recently on Noah’s video it’s really amazing to see you’re doing well
The mind is a powerful tool keep positive. You can do it!
Hey bro. There are multiple different ways to get back into the air that are much safer than paramotoring, but are similar to the feel of paramotoring. The closest option is the revo trike. It's part 103 so you'll need an aviator license to pilot it. Functionally it is operated similar to a paramotor but uses a weight shifter bar instead. Reasons why the revo trike is safer. It's a rigid cloth overhead Delta wing design so it can't deflate. The only thing you have to worry about is a spin stall which is really easy to correct. It's also really hard to spin stall the revo trike. The revo trike also has the option to add a ballistic parachute in case you can't recover the stall. You pull a lever that's right next to your side and the overhead wing breaks away and a rocket shoots out of the side and pulls the parachute out of it's storage causing it to blossom within 15 seconds. Sounds intense but it's actually really safe and a lot of regional twin engine turbo propped cesnas and pipers use a twin ballistic parachute design for emergency unrecoverable stalls.
Which leads to my second choices. Taxing to the runway while your twin engines rev up and getting the clear to takeoff man that's exhilarating. Hearing those engines just scream to life and pull you into the sky. Man there's nothing like it. So there's your options man. If you really want to shoot for the stars, go to airline pilot schools. Being behind the wheel of two Pratt and Whitney turbofan engines and going 0-300 within 30 seconds while pushing out 110,000 pounds of thrust on each engine. It put a smile on my face the first time that stuck for the whole flight. Pilot school through any airliner is really hard, but man I felt like I was flying the Mercedes of the skies when I flew my first Airbus and Boeing jetliner.
Maybe your dream will look different than paramotoring, but nobody said that the difference couldn't be far better and cooler than you ever could imagine.
Respect man.. I do get you. Broke my leg in 2 places, 2 years ago in a bad landing and had some complications afterwards. Needed a second surgery. But.. I recovered 100% Just believe and work hard.
Just remember these negative people are tragically hurting more than you are. All we can do is pray for them as well
@@yourneighborhood very insightful. Admittedly, it’s difficult being on the receiving end, but I do hope that they find peace in their own suffering.
Stay strong bro
You are amazing, keep pushing!
Thank you, Christian. It’s been a tough couple of days, but I’ll get back at it once the wound starts to close. Thank you again, buddy.
Im sure you will be able to recover your elbow to 100%! Just give yourself time to improve 1% at a time 😊 big hug from italy ❤
Hang in there Anthony!
@@MidFlightCrisis thank you. And your username is brilliant!
@ thanks sir, been Paramotoring for exactly a year now (see channel) and loving it. Cant wait to see you in the air again. It will happen!!!!!
My man, good to see you & hear your voice 👍🏻
Thank you!
I think that people that make negative comments about another person suffering are those people who have never gone through physical suffering before in their life. In other words they have no empathy. On another note flying a PPG again is not totally impossible even without arms. I believe with a little bit of simple engineering the brake toggles could be worked by a person's feet. Although of course it would have to be done with a trike or a quad. Toronto could be done by using a mouthpiece which has been done before. There is always a way to solve a problem.
Some people just can’t handle seeing others having fun in activities that they deem too dangerous. Somehow criticizing others that are living life to the fullest makes them feel better. I suspect that none of those individuals would ever take an oath to defend their country either. Happy Veterans Day. Thanks for your service.
Ah No, Yes if he didn't have a family. He made a pledge to take care of his family when he married. He has proven not capable after flying speed bar on a new wing, low to the ground, without a parachute. Sorry Andrew you'd be a fool to ever fly again. This from a guy who flew ultralights in the 70's and quit when I started doing hammerheads.
Super interested in the interview with the wife. A lot of us fly to get away from people and live in the moment. It's interesting to see how it affects others in our life.
Keep the faith.
thank you for answering my question! I really need to change my nickname :). To be honest I really enjoyed this simple video, you should do more videos like this from time to time. Of course I enjoy your other videos too! Wishing you all the best Anthony, this arm sucks but I am sure you will overcome it, really impressed by your recovery so far.
Sorry for butchering it. lol. I’m glad you enjoyed it. Funny story, last night, I was watching some videos on YT, and this streamer just talked to the camera. Nothing fancy. It was refreshing. I hope people would stick around if I did these every now and then because it’s just nice to share the experience in an unscripted way. All that said, I seriously appreciate it.
@@AnthonyVella Exactly, this is just soo refreshing, perfect for answering questions. This actually felt little bit like having a conversation with you in person. I'll definitely stick around to watch how your recovery goes, I was watching your videos a lot before the accident. Also I have funny story, I was watching this video and then you try to read my username and I was like ''oh someone has weird name'' *second later your read my question* ''oh thats me''. Looking forward to your new videos!!
Dude, don't listen to the haters, you are doing great
i had over 20 surgeries on my right leg, bones cut etc, pins/screws.
i recovered 100% tbh but it took ages. I wont say too much more but i hope it motivates you to recover, there will be issues with surgeries sometimes and you require another, but over time it will correct itself. stay safe
Came from your interaction in NoahJ456's chat, hope you have a speedy rest of your recovery! - Love from just another member of the zombies community
@@enamred that’s honestly so cool! I’m a huge Zombies fan. I’ve been wanting to play BO6, but I’ve been pretty busy with making new video. Hit me up on Xbox @akvella if you want to play. Thanks for tuning in to the video.
I flew ultralights in the 70's. I started doing hammerheads and I knew I would keep pushing it. I quit. I'm alive and have lived another 45 years. YOU HAVE KIDS WHO WILL BE SCARED TO DEATH EVERY TIME YOU FLY IN THE FUTURE. IF YOU FLY I WILL HONESTLY HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T THINK OF YOUR FAMILY. Before I sold my ultralight I made a promise to myself. "I would not fly higher than i was willing to fall". So I started crop dusting the rice fields got floats for the river and flew low and slow 18mph to 20. Stall was 17. What a rush to fly low with it all going by you
Hang in there. Yes, hospitals and EMT's take their sweet time. You will find a new normal. Be ok with a new lifestyle that is not as physical. I had to adjust after some health traumas as well including a mTBI. You will be ok- just keep your feet on the ground my man.
You’ll make it back to 110%, all about attitude.
Thank you for believing that. I want to keep believing that it’s possible. Not giving up.
I broke my pinky finger, had to get surgery and therapy etc. all for a pinky finger sounds crazy lol but it happened. Months later, less than a year, it’s back to 100%. Other than some ptsd from my accident and some scars, it works perfectly fine. I like to crack my bones in my back and fingers but I can’t do that with my pinky anymore. I think it actually got “tougher” BUT because I’m still scared to put pressure on it like getting groceries or moving big objects like a printer, it has gotten weak. My other pinky has more strength but I know if I overcome the fear of putting weight on it, it will become stronger. Not only do I have to deal with “ptsd” but I have to deal with the mental exhausting of overcoming fear of putting strength in my finger.
Not that my story changes anything, but I hope other people who see this relate to what I feel
I must say, based on what your saying around 4:30 I see that your happy your healing, but a part of you is also upset about what your going trough, but then again, hopeful in the outcome. It’s a very very confusing feeling. When I had my accident, I thought no one in my family will want to break a bone yet alone a “dumb pinky finger”-the most insignificant body part lol but you really do need it hahah. Well just months later my brother breaks his arm and lives with a metal bracket inside of it. His hand is paralyzed because when he snapped his arm, the nerves got damaged. He is getting better though. Something you’ll feel when breaking your bone is that you’ll FEEL your insides moving around. Like it’s unstable, but by the time you’ll realize, it’s gone.
"i didnt know the pain that can exist" ive had 2 traumatic injuries and thats something that i really feel and i hadnt heard put in that way.
Sorry about all the shitty comments Vella. It makes me mad to know people have been that disrespectful to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. I’m looking forward to the day I see a video of you flying again. Aviation is in your blood and it doesn’t go away with time. Trust me. The Lord put that in your heart as He did in mine. Don’t fight it!! Take care of your self and heal brother. You got this!!
Thank you, brother. I believe everything you’ve said. Thank you for consistently being kind with all of your comments. They’re uplifting.
Let me start by saying you have come a long way since the accident, let’s be honest, it’s a miracle that you survived such a horrific fall from the sky! You say you’re going to do a video with your wife and she isn’t stopping you from wanting to fly again.
Keep in mind, your wife isn’t a selfish person, she loves you, of course she isn’t going to ask you not to fly again when she knows that’s your passion. We don’t marry our partners to control them.
I wouldn’t want to be the one to make a decision like that for my husband either, if the tables were turned. Secretly, I would hope my husband would want to make a good decision for us and our family, for obvious reasons.
Only you can make your own decisions, you’re a grown man, head of your household and you’ll make that decision when the time comes, that’s not a decision that your wife would want to take away from you, because she loves you. It’s your passion and you are having cravings to do it again.
I have no doubt, in time, your arm will be 101% (not sure about 110%), but it will be 101% because your willing to do the work and stay focused and positive! You’re young enough to make a full recovery. You are a Superman with a fall like you endured and survived it to talk about it! I’m so glad you’re doing good and your family has you there with them, what a blessing! Keep your head up and keep moving forward, you will get there!!!
Are hangliders safer than paramotors?
you'll recover man. i recommend a good chiro that does muscle testing and get you on a good supplement plan. it speeds up healing a ton. little to no added sugar also.
Life is not a journey to the grave with intentions of arriving safely in a pretty well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly proclaiming ... WOW! What a ride!
-Hunter S. Thompson
I’ve never heard that, but that sounds like I’ll be fulfilling that awesome quote. Thank you for sharing it. Don’t have any tattoos, but if I did… haha
I heard a similar quote: Most people tiptoe through life hoping to make it safely to death. What a dumb game…
Anthony is no more empathy in people no more this days, i being through cancer with my wife and i know what you talking about it, keep it together for you and your family, it's what matter most brother, keep strong and positive.
Slow and steady wins the race just don't push too hard you'll get strong enough to fly again with any luck maybe I'll get to come down and fly with you sometime.
Thank you for reminding me of the importance of patience. It’s easy to forget in the midst of pain. I hope you make it over here to share the sky.
‘Like your shirt buddy !
Thank you! I’ve had it FOREVER! Haha. I was going to “retire” it, but now it has more meaning than ever.
An ol' electric start nitro 200 might be in your future for a cheap re entry into the sport, and a specific glider with much lighter brake pressure, the impossible is much more obtainable than you may think!
Not a bad idea! My back and pelvis should get to a point where it can handle the little weight increase of having an electric start. As for the glider, I have a VERY special Hadron 3 that belonged to my late friend Lee, who passed away 1 year before my own crash.
It's still my dream to paramotor I found this spot right before I tor my acl.s at the same time my right legs is 100% but the left is somewhat not to good still looking to try to get into the spot and day butt it is a lot of $ for me so going to try to trade my way in to the spot but don't give up love all of your videos on RUclips it's how I found the spot keep fighting bro
Thank you very much for watching the video and keeping up with my recovery. I have made some videos on how to get into the sport when cash is tight. Reach out to me on Patreon (it's free) so that we can chat about how YOU can get into flying. There are certainly a lot of options. I also share a weekly blog on there, and the information is very helpful, but then again, I am biased. Haha www.patreon.com/anthonyvella
what if you wear a wing suit and some sort of secure quick release paramotor as backup
Just be realistic.. that's all... beyond that, I wish you the best.
You have been given a 2nd chance in life. You are a smart guy with a lovely family. Just do something else that isn’t that risky. You said you enjoy fixed wing flight, there you go.
Hoping you have a speedy & mostly pain free recovery.
I am just curious why you say find another sport less risky? Being a paramotor pilot myself I think we can agree its as safe or as dangerous as we make it just like anything else. Its mind boggling to me that every time some gets hurt doing something different humans automatically blame the sport. I remember when human accountability was a thing, but i guess that done exists anymore.
Thank you Scott. At the moment, I can’t get my private pilots license, otherwise I totally would be working towards it. It’s a story for another time. Trust me, I would love to get my PPL. I appreciate the suggestion. You’re not wrong!
@@base754you’ll never hear me say, or even suggest, that the crash was not my fault. Is paramotoring risky? It can be, like anything else. That’s always been my stance.
@@base754btw, I totally agree with your past comment. Any regulation would be BS. Just like BASE, people should be able to do whatever the hell they want, so long as they’re not f’ing anyone else up.
@@base754 I flew paramotors for 6 years, without getting a scratch. I quit because of 2 reasons, one being it wasn’t exciting anymore, to me, the other my LZ’s were disappearing. After Tucker Gott’s friend Jeff died in a Paramotor accident, I started thinking, man if a guy like that (good safe pilot) was killed, it can happen to anyone. Jeff isn’t the only good safe pilot this has happened to. So in my opinion, if I were Anthony, young, beautiful family and survived a horrendous crash with severe physical injuries, I would look to take up another activity that sparked my interest. There are plenty of hobbies/sports out there, that are fun & challenging. Just my opinion, which I’m allowed to have. You are allowed to have yours.
Antony EASY does it. I know how hard it is but u have the hard work part down. All u need is the patience part. Easy brother
Anthony, remember…..take it a day at a time and don’t paint yourself into a corner. Everything will work out. Just do your best. Joe
Keep fighting every day Anthony
Ive followed you on you tube for years and iam glad you're ok and coming through it, but i wish you would admit you were taking a big risk that day of the accident, the community needs to hear that flying ppg is actually safe if respected, please dont take this as hate statement,.but saying hay i made a mistake that day and has cost me dearly carrys no shame,.all the best on you're future plans and i hope you get to fly again but please be safe
Hey anothony, dont pay attention to those negative comments. Some people just get off on saying the most horrific things, its mostly not real. They are just enjoying internet anonymity
im sure you will get back soon mate!
What has BGD done to help you since you were trying to be the first to demo and help sell their wing?
@@CloudKickerRyan I never heard back from them after they asked me (while I was in the ICU) to post the original crash video and add that it wasn’t the gliders fault.
What a shame
Gosh I hate peoples “view “ of other peoples lives . Anthony just live your life as you do . I support you and wanting to be normal as you can get. Who has never made a mistake ? Some people think they are perfect but let them face adversity . Then they always blame someone else . Your still here and you bad decision didn’t kill you . Lucky but who cares about anyone but your wife and kids lol . I would never push my stance on you and your life. Do you and I’ll do me is my thinking .
I like the way you think, brother. In the grand scheme of things, my wife and kids are my whole world. Not some comments on YT. I appreciate you buddy. And thank you for all of the support you’ve given me.
Just be you ! And I’ll be here for y’all .
Maybe I am confused. I thought you said in your previous video you were going to quit paramotoring completely. Now you say that it might happen again once you are physically able. Care to clarify? Thanks!
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Congrats! 🙌🏼
I had one paragliding lesson and decided the reward wasn't worth the risk of breaking my legs because I need them for other sports.
I only discovered your podcast after your accident unfortunately. I'm all caught up on all your episodes so can you put out about 20 or 30 new episodes for me? 😀
Hi Anthony, I don't read all the comments and your answers, maybe you've already answered the question.
Have you ever thought about what it would be like if you had flown paramotor just for yourself, without RUclips videos and a community.
Would you have crashed then too?
@@mar0zim that’s a great question. And honestly, I need to put some thought into it.
Surgery is actually ok on youtube, you can find complete surgeries on RUclips
Does your spine hurt after surgeries?
Some people (the nasty commenters) are only happy when they're unhappy.
Fight, fight, fight! Steve the Tanker! 19K
Right on, brother! Thank you for your service. My grandfather was a tanker!
What I still don't quite understand: if your ellbow got basically pulverized, do you have an artificial joint now?
@@d.5432 it’s super fragmented. Many pieces were removed. The surgeon secured the bones that were big enough to be secured and removed the rest. If you pause at the X-ray of the area, you’ll see chunks missing. Screws, rods, and plates hold the rest together. He injected as much bone graft as he could.
@@d.5432 also, the option of a total elbow replacement was an early discussion, but he assured me and my family that I’d be limited to 5 lbs carrying capacity. Do a quick google search on this. At 33, years old, he strongly advised against it (at first) to see it I could make a comeback by trying to regrow the bone.
@@AnthonyVella I don't think 5lbs is enough to operate a paraglider, I feel like you can easily exceed that with the brakes. I hope you get to a level where you can put a decent load on it
@@DrAElemayo I will get there buddy. Fortunately, they didn’t put in an artificial elbow, so I should (in theory) be able to become as “structurally sound” as I was before, so long as I heal properly. Time will tell. Fingers crossed. 🤞🏻
Just saw this. First.
Any words for someone like myself that is thinking about getting into paramotoring?
I thought your giant Kirkland beer was interesting at first, then you moved it out of the way 😂😂
You should feel lucky you got to keep your arm/hand. I got into a paraglider accident as well, I only injured my hand, and it was unusable for a month. It really showed me how disabled you can feel even with just one missing hand, and prosthetics don't seem anywhere near the level of the real thing.
Are you going to remove the metal plates on your bones at any point?
he is still here in you
You're tough man