How Not Giving a F*ck Plays With a Man's Emotions

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  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0  2 года назад +12

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    • @jelenajakelic1909
      @jelenajakelic1909 2 года назад

      Could you put a microphone in one place instead of holding it in your hand all the time? I literally set myself the volume as I like, but all the time I have to turn up and down the sound because you're waving with the microphone 😫
      Thank you 💕

    • @erinstewart1307
      @erinstewart1307 Год назад

      P

  • @ballearta2560
    @ballearta2560 Год назад +181

    Have no expectations from anyone, and you'll be fine. Let people be. That's it.

  • @tiflps
    @tiflps 2 года назад +323

    I have someone that’s purposely ignoring me and it hurt but I don’t give af . He won’t get another emotional response from me.

    • @sarahsummers4093
      @sarahsummers4093 2 года назад +18

      That’s where I’m at rn

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 2 года назад +68

      This. Eff them and their coldness. It's about to get colder cause I'll become turned off and distant.

    • @lightnoir6914
      @lightnoir6914 2 года назад +4

      Did he respond to you yet

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍😍😍😍🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @princessmandy1757
      @princessmandy1757 2 года назад +1

      Same here

  • @jessicat2304
    @jessicat2304 Год назад +84

    This is where I am. I truly have zero fucks to give . Even when I try, I can’t find any. Things don’t work out? Okay. The experience was fun. But on to the next.

  • @sunmoonstars0369
    @sunmoonstars0369 2 года назад +139

    THis is so true, i just watched a law of attraction video on how to never put someone you are dating on a pedastal, keep your emotions in check for yourself and this goes hand in hand seamlessly.

    • @tk567
      @tk567 Год назад +2

      👍

  • @beey.7278
    @beey.7278 2 года назад +87

    “ speaking of dogs… if you wanna work with me one on one..” 😂

  • @curiousone9944
    @curiousone9944 2 года назад +181

    Hello from Florida. As an older woman I've gained valuable insight from your content. Thank you.

  • @OnyxxRose
    @OnyxxRose 2 года назад +123

    Really appreciate how scientifically detailed you get

    • @littlelily4
      @littlelily4 Год назад +2

      His channel is so informative I Iove it

  • @shaylagoogle3097
    @shaylagoogle3097 2 года назад +108

    When someone becomes inconsistent with me, it gets annoying and then I cut them off. That's when I don't give a F""k!
    When you create your own problems and I don't want to deal with it! I wont give a F" "k! Becareful what you put people through because won't given a F" "k will be the end result! 😉

    • @irinaivanovic9792
      @irinaivanovic9792 Год назад +15

      THIS. And this is how you don't play games or feel the pressure to change into a different personality just to get what you want from a man, or get your needs met. When a guy is acting hot and cold and doing the mind games, that's irritating. If you ghost me, especially more than once, it's a wrap. I DON'T GIVE A F*** ABOUT YOU ANYMORE. Your true colors have shown now and I'll heal my feelings and forget you.

  • @constance6761
    @constance6761 2 года назад +100

    I'm so relieved by this explanation about these uncontrolled emotions.
    I really feel like an instable person when I get those all consuming feelings.

    • @jasonbrieg2889
      @jasonbrieg2889 11 месяцев назад +1

      Same lol

    • @traceyniles8474
      @traceyniles8474 2 месяца назад

      Meditation and controlled breathing helps so much getting you back to a focused place, which is (your amazing self)😊😉

  • @MsScarlett61
    @MsScarlett61 2 года назад +48

    Rejection hurts, and it's painful and triggering bringing up all those feelings of abondonment and it's really hard to not speak negatively to myself, and blame myself. I work really really hard to understand my emotions and to stay strong and walk away from the negativity and toxicity. I learnt to be the mature woman who can love and nature the little 7 year old inside who has sobattaged my emotions my whole life.

    • @traceyniles8474
      @traceyniles8474 2 месяца назад

      I love hearing that! I too am working on my inner younger self, and loving the journey ✨️

  • @mishachhabbra5848
    @mishachhabbra5848 2 года назад +42

    Your RUclips channel is exactly what I needed to keep myself stable and not be over absorbed in the emotions

  • @Jeanninecomeau
    @Jeanninecomeau 2 года назад +31

    It's so sad that we have to do voodoo doll pin pricking of somebody's childhood trauma to have a relationship.

  • @arbitrarylib
    @arbitrarylib 2 года назад +26

    I know exactly what you mean. I did the most embarrasing things when that happened to me but never again. If I experience it again Ill just go cold as ice until I sit with my emotions.

  • @alphafemale7904
    @alphafemale7904 2 года назад +11

    This is true. I've done it before and had less interest in the person because he seemed desperate to me. It was a turnoff.

  • @NutuThis
    @NutuThis 2 года назад +27

    As a man, I experienced this feeling the other day.
    I understood why, but thank you for putting it in a way that helps me process those uncontrolled emotions.

    • @Jeniffer61867
      @Jeniffer61867 2 года назад +2

      Can you please explain what is he saying in simple words? Can you please summarize?

    • @xmswayzemx
      @xmswayzemx 2 года назад +2

      Yeah I'm a little confused too.

    • @constance6761
      @constance6761 2 года назад +1

      It's a horrible feeling. Whether for men or women. The primary emotions....very hard to not type it out in a text:(
      Expressing hurt feelings.

  • @theincredibles8949
    @theincredibles8949 2 года назад +13

    This knowledge is better than any drug or amount of money.

  • @amerokeewiya1320
    @amerokeewiya1320 2 года назад +135

    If someone is able to “move on” so easily like that they never cared to begin with tf? There is no “disappointment” & “moving on” if the love was REAL it wouldn’t be that simple…they’d actually be HURT 🙄 I really loathe detached a$$ people, like GTFOH with your dysfunctional, robotic a$$

    • @nostalgic_xo
      @nostalgic_xo 2 года назад +69

      nah you're wrong. They're not robotic or cold, detached people simply value themselves more than whatever thing they had going on with you. It's about putting your self-respect above anyone else which requires self control and most people don't care about controlling their emotions all they care about is 'hOw He/sHe MaKeS mE fEEl' lol. In the beeeest of cases, they will date someone else while still loving you and miss you for a while but even so they won't come back and move on if you f u q It up.

    • @vhayashi7369
      @vhayashi7369 2 года назад +6

      Yep it happened to me recently so I moved on!

    • @nella116
      @nella116 2 года назад +14

      I detached while I was in the relationship. It was toxic tired of waisting my time.

    • @higherlove8886
      @higherlove8886 2 года назад +16

      I completely understand what you're saying, but being ruled by our emotions is actually dysfunctional. Healthy people aren't ruled by their emotions. I'm not saying that healthy people shouldn't have emotions or empathy, but that they aren't ruled by them.

    • @amerokeewiya1320
      @amerokeewiya1320 2 года назад +12

      None of you innerstand what I’m saying 😑😑🤦🏽‍♀️ I never stated not to “detach” from unhealthy relationships or to compromise your self respect & value. You’re SUPPOSED to leave relationships that jeopardize your health & well being because you’re maintaining your self respect & love. What I AM STATING is the fact that it’s DIFFICULT to emotionally let go when you actually love someone for real & to EMOTIONALLY “detach” yourself so easily from a person TO ME, it means the love was never real or nonexistent. I never typed anything about people operating in their emotions in regards to day to day life, “healthy” people or being ruled by emotions 🙄 Y’all just totally misconstrued what I stated 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @sweethallewis
    @sweethallewis 2 года назад +24

    I love it when you do videos like this! Makes me feel like I'm back in college and you're the professor. 😉 Thanks for your wisdom. 💞💞

  • @lamiadulce
    @lamiadulce 2 года назад +21

    45 yo, still learning whooo tnx 🙌❤️‍🔥

  • @celinarios5191
    @celinarios5191 2 года назад +19

    This is all spot on I’m glad I listened to this it makes thing clear to why I feel so small and clingy always questioning what’s wrong with me thinking I’m not cared for but I wouldn’t have to question anything if things were not so toxic

  • @rio7336
    @rio7336 2 года назад +39

    Can I do this with a guy that has alot of options

    • @sara4hayati
      @sara4hayati 2 года назад +52

      This is who it’s for. Stand out

  • @catseer181
    @catseer181 2 года назад +49

    damn dude... that's cold. i don't respect games, i see right through them.. this makes me sad to think this great guy im seeing is watching stuff like this.. we could've been so great.. if he would just be authentic instead of all this manipulative shit. saddening.

    • @constance6761
      @constance6761 2 года назад +10

      Relatable. All day I have this song of George Michael in my head 'we could have been so good together...maybe it's better this way etc.
      ' I'll never gonna dance.
      again'

    • @jasonbrieg2889
      @jasonbrieg2889 11 месяцев назад +2

      Men generally don’t need videos like this. Women are overall more outwardly emotional. It’s not that bad we are just learning to conceal deep emotions not be psychopaths

  • @falcons9659
    @falcons9659 2 года назад +7

    "Bob the wolverine, simba the lion, they're all gonna kill you" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @healingwithdanae1294
    @healingwithdanae1294 2 года назад +9

    Your scientific analysis and explanations get better and better

  • @mindy-Jo
    @mindy-Jo Год назад +7

    I wish I had this information when I was in my late teens early twenties, I would have saved myself a lot of time and money.

    • @traceyniles8474
      @traceyniles8474 2 месяца назад

      You're not alone! But better late than never to make valuable self awareness changes ❤

  • @dabest444u
    @dabest444u 2 года назад +5

    ur voice is so soft and calming 😍 I could listen to you talk all day! Def subscribing! < 33

  • @alliegirl6900
    @alliegirl6900 2 года назад +25

    Of all the people out there doing what you do (and ive checked em all out, trust me) only your advice resonates. Im 61 this year (!), have options, and am single and that's good for now. But when the time comes to settle down (haha) i have the toxic arsenal. Thanks for being you. And thanks for letting me freeload lol

    • @mileyroe4877
      @mileyroe4877 2 года назад +3

      Try Tony Gaskins also. He's pretty good.

  • @thenutrientwhisperer3700
    @thenutrientwhisperer3700 2 года назад +5

    “Speaking of dogs” lol that’s hilarious😂🤣

  • @kdior777
    @kdior777 2 года назад +7

    You are such an insightful and smart guy. I live for your channel 🙏🏾✨️

  • @meilei8716
    @meilei8716 2 года назад +4

    Wow, I couldn’t have hoped to guess how much I needed this particularly.

  • @Bec_love
    @Bec_love 2 года назад +20

    Haha so that is why my exes married women that looked like me ... I'm married too but I love Alex's content to keep my marriage fresh

  • @shedroids
    @shedroids 2 года назад +11

    Very beautifully presented, Alex, thank you.

  • @ChosenQueen_316
    @ChosenQueen_316 2 года назад +6

    Wow , this guy makes a lot of sense!!!!

  • @lelemurray5320
    @lelemurray5320 2 года назад +21

    You are so right. The childhood plays a lot of roles. And I do mean a lot 🫠

    • @alyssabeard9398
      @alyssabeard9398 2 года назад +2

      Yup cuz thats when u develope ypur attachment style

  • @ay.ali4
    @ay.ali4 2 года назад +10

    This came at the perfect time ✨

  • @karenscott3755
    @karenscott3755 2 года назад +7

    I love your scientific approach! It helps me to understand my situation better 🙂

    • @constance6761
      @constance6761 2 года назад

      Yes it lifts the burden bc we can see it in an zoomed out view.

  • @marylnmonroe
    @marylnmonroe 2 года назад +10

    I’ve been watching these videos for a while I feel like a lot of the dating advice from this channel is useful if someone is trying to date a f*ck boy or a player because these tips aren’t good ways to land a good guy.

  • @taniafino3393
    @taniafino3393 2 года назад +6

    You are so book smart your intellect is awesome 👏🏼

  • @jensteroneR
    @jensteroneR 2 года назад +2

    Exactly what I NEEDED to hear TODAY
    TAHNK YOU!

  • @ginade0105
    @ginade0105 Год назад +2

    Your voice is soo soothing, I listen to it to fall asleep..😊

  • @VM-cs9nd
    @VM-cs9nd 2 года назад +4

    Alex dropping gems in this video!! Thank You!!

  • @cherrypeachesteae
    @cherrypeachesteae 2 года назад +18

    Just imagine dating Alex and you're watching he's channel

  • @lashangelsam
    @lashangelsam 2 года назад +7

    "speaking of dogs...." lmaooo

  • @_glooo
    @_glooo 2 года назад +2

    Am glued on your channel. From Kenya ❤️

  • @cherisew
    @cherisew 11 месяцев назад

    Thank Alex. I am really needed this video. I’ve been subscribed for a few years maybe 5 now. I think your toxic love advice is coming in handy specifically for this person I’ve been dealing with. I’m interested in getting one on one coaching. You’re amazing.

  • @jabedamukith-chowdhury1681
    @jabedamukith-chowdhury1681 2 года назад +1

    From England... This vid is so on point!!!! Every single point thank you

  • @dalemettee1147
    @dalemettee1147 7 месяцев назад +1

    If I remember, one of the reasons that I get really upset with the female sex was that they would get picky. They might string you along and then drop you leaving you in complete confusion and anger. Some would label them as prick teasers.

    • @a.b.creator
      @a.b.creator 3 месяца назад

      The male gender has done the exact same thing to me.
      In fact one said he couldn't talk to me anymore because I was "too genuine".
      ?
      Personally I consider being genuine a compliment.
      Confusing.
      All of them.

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 Год назад +2

    Literally love all your videos ! Thanks for everything Alex ! You are my favorite dating coach ❤

  • @Julie.SandhuMD
    @Julie.SandhuMD 2 года назад +6

    You are a diamond Alex 💎 !!💕

  • @JumpWatsonYT
    @JumpWatsonYT Год назад +3

    Exactly what I did to my X I naturally have a side of me that doesn’t care about ppl unfortunately it’s very hard for me to love someone. So when I do love someone I am in struggle with myself to stay emotionally attached to them but even if I seem very close the person I am not attached like they may think I am. Now add that person cheating than u have me separating it is painful because my feeling are real but I will slowly not care the entire matter bc I never really was attached

  • @IndigoWisdom1
    @IndigoWisdom1 2 года назад +1

    Dang Alex went DEEP today!!! 🤯

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 2 года назад +3

    Good content bro appreciate it

  • @happygolucky9004
    @happygolucky9004 2 года назад +8

    Hi there from Massachusetts. Thank you for all the information, keep it toxic 😉

  • @thearodriguez5251
    @thearodriguez5251 2 года назад

    Reading information second hand from a book and slurping drinks whilst cursing, how enlightened!

  • @abigalestoll
    @abigalestoll 2 года назад +7

    Actually, I refused a handsome, good guy because he looked like an ex.

  • @leslypompy1357
    @leslypompy1357 2 года назад +2

    Masterful knowledge!

  • @kathikay8942
    @kathikay8942 Год назад +1

    That 😈 laugh at the end. I love it.
    Alex. can you do another vid with the laugh and scary music like you used to do. lol

  • @loveandlight.24
    @loveandlight.24 Год назад +1

    You are a godsend you keep it so real

  • @deborahocampo852
    @deborahocampo852 Год назад +1

    Another brilliant video

  • @Angel.bb1111
    @Angel.bb1111 2 года назад +2

    Great video! 🙌🏼✨✨

  • @Awoman-ty7qh
    @Awoman-ty7qh 2 года назад +2

    u are smart and im here for it

  • @piaerika4676
    @piaerika4676 2 года назад +3

    Amazing thank you so much 🤌🏾💯🔥

  • @Chrissy.H
    @Chrissy.H 2 года назад +14

    If I’ve already been a needy ding dong for awhile, is it too late to flip the script?

    • @sarahsummers4093
      @sarahsummers4093 2 года назад +4

      That’s what I want to know!

    • @toxicassassin1303
      @toxicassassin1303 2 года назад +6

      Nah, u being that at first will make it more effective😂 ps.yall gonna play alot of nice guys

    • @Chrissy.H
      @Chrissy.H 2 года назад +4

      @@wilted_rose510 that is a valid point. Thank you for sharing your thought.

    • @MsScarlett61
      @MsScarlett61 2 года назад +6

      Never too late to love and respect yourself and practice some positive affirmations Queen 💐

  • @chococookies7292
    @chococookies7292 Год назад

    You're a gr8 at speaking extemporaneously

  • @patriciafaraci5014
    @patriciafaraci5014 2 года назад +5

    I’m really digging what you have to say. Look forward to your future videos

  • @roseannrexines6820
    @roseannrexines6820 2 года назад +1

    You crack me Up!! love you

  • @ashleighlillith1154
    @ashleighlillith1154 Год назад

    you're making so much sense!

  • @marlimarlirni
    @marlimarlirni Год назад +3

    Alex this is dark. I am now realizing how dark your tactics are. I had a question. So can you create this kind of attachment without going this dark ?

  • @kiutpi
    @kiutpi Год назад +4

    Can rejection look like someone who side chick's you or places you in a FWB category?

  • @angelm347
    @angelm347 2 года назад +3

    3:20 THALAMUS 🗣

  • @shaylamaat
    @shaylamaat 2 года назад +1

    This is your best video. Wow thanks

  • @toxicassassin1303
    @toxicassassin1303 2 года назад +2

    Ima thank yall in advamce for the nice guys that gonna get played and waked up. Thanks🙂

    • @soleil4124
      @soleil4124 2 года назад +1

      "Nice guys" don't exist. Every one of you men are toxic and misogynistic in your own special way. ✨

  • @deborahocampo852
    @deborahocampo852 Год назад +1

    Alex always give a video with that .bit of difference.always brilliant in my opinion..I race away from all the others even sidelines good..just too watch Alex. Because the best 😊

  • @chastityconnor4148
    @chastityconnor4148 Год назад

    Ahmigdahla this part of the brain plays a role in the memory, decision making and emotions ,such as fear now I understand thk you very much.

  • @Me-iu8my
    @Me-iu8my 2 года назад +1

    I love it, your great been watching since turn 40 now closer to 50 a couple yrs away. you are so handsome, aging very well.

  • @AlwinaVU
    @AlwinaVU 2 года назад +18

    What are your thoughts on the law of assumption and work of Neville Goddard and everyone is you pushed out? How does this fit in with that?
    I love how you explained things in this video ☀️

    • @user-bf1xj6nh4s
      @user-bf1xj6nh4s 2 года назад +2

      It works I’ve used it to turn cold individuals in to warm towards me.

    • @aqueen4006
      @aqueen4006 2 года назад

      Yea I wonder this ! Alex plz answer!!

    • @Deltagirl74
      @Deltagirl74 Год назад

      I study Neville too. He teaches you ate the operant power. You control your reality and they also show up the way you assume them. They will conform to your perception of them. If you believe they will chase you after doing xyz they will. It's your reality..your controlling everything around you.

  • @naluchachimanda66
    @naluchachimanda66 2 года назад

    Always here for me to cope through it all

  • @Chimalmita1
    @Chimalmita1 2 года назад

    0:00-1:20 Some really good comparisons!

  • @brianexplores285
    @brianexplores285 2 года назад

    Yeah, I think you’re right.

  • @Galaxy_Boutique
    @Galaxy_Boutique 2 года назад +1

    I need a coach. You would not believe my scenario. You need to hear this one. And I need your help. I’ve searched for it all over you tube. But no where can I find any content.

    • @rahmasamir909
      @rahmasamir909 11 месяцев назад

      Tell us maybe WE Can help u

  • @shedroids
    @shedroids 2 года назад +10

    Wicked cute hair, perfect for you!

  • @juliayi5403
    @juliayi5403 Год назад

    I enjoyed this!

  • @lore8v
    @lore8v 9 месяцев назад

    Its sad really. Its that one person u love like none else and they here and there decide to completely ignore your text. Its true, soon or later you will resent them.

  • @mdorak00
    @mdorak00 2 года назад +2

    Super random & I don't know why... but I love the sound of you drinking water into the microphone! 😎

  • @ashs1491
    @ashs1491 2 года назад +2

    This is up my alley lol

  • @Secret-sw8ih
    @Secret-sw8ih 2 года назад

    Hmmmmm...I recognise me chasing them & them chasing me...I've experienced me not giving a f (more nowadays) & in past, them not giving a f about me. He spits the truth!

    • @Secret-sw8ih
      @Secret-sw8ih 2 года назад +1

      I not trying to not give a f....I just really don't! :-I What would be ideal tho is if I didn't give a f about those that didn't give a f about me. I think I just grew up tbh!

  • @itsURsoul
    @itsURsoul Год назад

    Damn. Such good content.

  • @m.k.h.2718
    @m.k.h.2718 Год назад +1

    Lol this is me naturally

  • @septemberjai5216
    @septemberjai5216 7 месяцев назад +4

    All that damn swallowing 😷

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana9255 Год назад

    You are amazing guy!!!!! Please share more hits about first dates and how to make casual dates to a committed rel with the guy 🙏❤🐥

  • @THARVEYTV
    @THARVEYTV Год назад

    Very insightful

  • @dilinirodrigo3011
    @dilinirodrigo3011 2 года назад +7

    Plz Review andrew tate

  • @elizabethc5149
    @elizabethc5149 8 месяцев назад

    Ugh this happened to me and i embarrassed myself big time 💔

  • @AtiLin
    @AtiLin 2 года назад

    Great info

  • @GodessQueenTila
    @GodessQueenTila 3 месяца назад +2

    LOL MEN ALWAYS KNOW WHEN YOU DON'T GIVE AF CUZ THE FIRST THING THEY'LL DO IS CALL YOU CRAZY! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @egyptiandeity1862
    @egyptiandeity1862 Год назад +1

    You look like Prince

  • @annesobb1675
    @annesobb1675 2 года назад +2

    great hight level video !!!!

  • @editsbysasha
    @editsbysasha Год назад +2

    That gulp is so irritating

  • @Unknown-nt1sx
    @Unknown-nt1sx 2 года назад +6

    Speaking of dogs 😂 💀