ARE YOU YOUR BESTIE'S BESTIE? LET'S TALK SINCERE FRIENDSHIPS

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  • Опубликовано: 10 янв 2025

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  • @bumploveug
    @bumploveug  2 месяца назад +11

    We're talking about best friends today... Do you believe in having a best friend?
    What's your experience on friendships?
    Let's talk about friends, acquaintances, colleagues, frenemies and more in the comments below.
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  • @lawajoyce6984
    @lawajoyce6984 Месяц назад +2

    Has anyone ever been rejected as a friend from primary. You know those nice letters u write asking someone to be ur friend n its never reciprocated i still looked for her over Facebook but nothing to trace from have healed today after listening to this. Thank you ladies

  • @namusokepearleunice99
    @namusokepearleunice99 2 месяца назад +11

    Friendship is the vibration and frequency that even when the volume is low you know it's the channel. Amazing definition Bev😊

  • @ronnahwandera6679
    @ronnahwandera6679 2 месяца назад +6

    Manuela’s third definition of bestie has always been what I have known to be bestie. And based on that definition, my husband is my bestie.

  • @estherauma9353
    @estherauma9353 2 месяца назад +7

    Connections based on respect for individuality are always stronger than conformity

  • @katek4724
    @katek4724 2 месяца назад +6

    Phewx! For a moment I thought there would be no episode this week. Manuela I'm glad you have accepted help around the house... raising children and keeping a home is a full time job..if you add all other things it's super hectic. Bev I love that hairstyle and keep being the cactus that you are. Barbara that white is super on you

  • @namirembeprossy9865
    @namirembeprossy9865 2 месяца назад +1

    Who noticed that in the long run, siblings are a good best friend potential 🥰✋🥳🥳🥳 i love you my bby sister Shatrah ❤️❤️❤️ how we connected and bonded in our older age is divine gal❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nabiryepatricia4066
    @nabiryepatricia4066 2 месяца назад +1

    56:30 wowww this episode is definitely going to be a rewatch for me because the knowledge imparted is something one has to meditate upon and work on

  • @lynkarungi8007
    @lynkarungi8007 2 месяца назад +2

    lovely Topic. Thanks ladies. Friendship evolves, and some friendships fade away. Am closer to friends i have made in the last four years

  • @maxentiaomurungi4221
    @maxentiaomurungi4221 Месяц назад

    Like she said, I have learnt that friendships dissolve. And I have made peace with it. I used to fight for relationships, and then realised I am always fighting alone. Even if this person has been so good to me, I must realise that the relationship has come to the end of the road. I'm always sad but I keep the good memories and move on.

  • @Aine_777
    @Aine_777 2 месяца назад +14

    Barbara you look even more beautiful in that white. I like the neckline detail.

  • @mremboblog
    @mremboblog 2 месяца назад +9

    Send a shout out to me watching from Denmark! Ladies you are doing a good job representing the Bougie Uganda lady excellently!

  • @sabrajanmaat3515
    @sabrajanmaat3515 Месяц назад

    watching from Netherlands. Nice to see you Barbra on bump love.

  • @musiimentarosemary2851
    @musiimentarosemary2851 2 месяца назад +4

    37:43 ....❤ paused here just to comment on Barbara's beauty. wow!!!!❤❤❤❤ she is beautiful ehhh❤

  • @maryanthonynamyalo4870
    @maryanthonynamyalo4870 2 месяца назад +1

    Without any doubt , I really enjoyed the session. Thank you ladies

  • @annahnabalayi1090
    @annahnabalayi1090 2 месяца назад +3

    The Spiritual aspect is everything to me because everything begins in Spiritual realm before it's manifested in the physical. The way I quote Zechariah 2:5 regularly upon me and my descendants and
    family so that anything or anyone with a negative agenda will sense it and won't try😅. Thank you Ladies. Watching from Northern Ireland.

  • @yvonnewinfreyug
    @yvonnewinfreyug 2 месяца назад +2

    But that word Bestie!!!! I agree with manuela,she/he would be some1 i can be vulnerable with and as i haven't found that yet I chose the holyspirit and am enjoying it coz mostimes as people we change on our friends in some negative ways and we all wonder!!!!!

  • @lynnieeve
    @lynnieeve 2 месяца назад +2

    Tuned in from Kenya 🇰🇪...a happy bump lover

  • @mugx205
    @mugx205 2 месяца назад

    Bev 🎉🎉🎉
    Every single time you open your mouth - gold!
    So much wisdom!

  • @nakirobie3057
    @nakirobie3057 2 месяца назад +4

    I do believe in having a best friend as long as we only share life's experiences from love , grief, happiness. But not bestie's who borrow anything from me especially money and clothing.

    • @shantaOzi
      @shantaOzi 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 im in the process of walking out on one

  • @MarionOlar
    @MarionOlar 2 месяца назад +1

    Hello ladies,there's much to learn here so im happy to be part of the bump love

  • @africanwoman3904
    @africanwoman3904 2 месяца назад +3

    My best friend cheated on me. 😂😂 Broke up with her for three years then got back again. I love that girl.

  • @HopeJovia.S
    @HopeJovia.S 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm watching from the UK 🇬🇧. Looking gorgeous, ladies.

  • @lydia9808
    @lydia9808 2 месяца назад +1

    Wowww. I have learnt a lot from this episode. ❤

  • @ConquererAnita-ns7qu
    @ConquererAnita-ns7qu 2 месяца назад +3

    I can finally start my weekend. Bravo Beverly ,Manuela and Barbie

  • @bernicerogo9190
    @bernicerogo9190 Месяц назад

    I saw Beverly from reality check podcast and got hooked

  • @NakisaluGraceKizza
    @NakisaluGraceKizza 2 месяца назад +24

    Anyone here who knew Rossette would be mentioned 😅😅😅😅😅
    Personally i surely knew u would mention her😅😅😅😅

  • @MACKLINETUKAMUHEBWA-u3t
    @MACKLINETUKAMUHEBWA-u3t 2 месяца назад +3

    Wao this is beautiful ... Ladies well done btw I miss Pumla ,Angie, and Rosette....

    • @ruth_twin
      @ruth_twin 2 месяца назад +4

      Catch up with Pumla on PPJ, "What the theory" RUclips channel, and Angie was just on Rachel's "the good wife" RUclips channel. When I bump into Rosette I'll come back to update you😊

    • @RachelKing-rh4kh
      @RachelKing-rh4kh 2 месяца назад

      ​@@ruth_twin😂😂😂😂

    • @africanwoman3904
      @africanwoman3904 2 месяца назад

      Me too. I miss this clique. Crazy mix of personalities.

  • @bendealice6538
    @bendealice6538 2 месяца назад +1

    Talking besties, I have had the same besties since my S2 in 2007. We may not talk very often, could even take a month, but when we do,it's the 5hour phone call Bev skke about.
    The other is my sister, shez also my friend, and it's beautiful, our talk is always detailed, we could be at it till day break.
    I have had seasonal close friends, but like you said it evolves, and devolves.

  • @simplymollywin7591
    @simplymollywin7591 2 месяца назад

    I think categorizing friends should be the solution to hiked expectations and levels of vulnerability. We can also embrace functional relationships where we connect with people for different things at a time or seasons in our lives.

  • @winniekusasira7602
    @winniekusasira7602 2 месяца назад +1

    Beverly I totally concur with you ......frequency, vibration
    ..yes and most so what your friend Kith in England says....it's very true iv learnt the very same lessons in Dublin -Ireland where I now stay ..And ladies you look really amazing...........Barbara..the white has done you very great justice...
    Thanks again ladies...❤❤much love from Ireland.
    ..

  • @faridahnamiiro9506
    @faridahnamiiro9506 Месяц назад

    Looked stunning in white Barbra!

  • @MichaelErukana
    @MichaelErukana 2 месяца назад

    This was one of my best show, I learned a lot. Thanks ladies

  • @debnana4922
    @debnana4922 2 месяца назад +1

    Watching from Lusaka Zambia 🎉❤ shoutout to my Rwandan Friend who recommended this program for me

  • @sanc_livia
    @sanc_livia 2 месяца назад +3

    The need for a whole show catering to enemies is a wild idea 🤣🤣🤣

  • @teddiebabu1780
    @teddiebabu1780 2 месяца назад +1

    It has been sweet to my soul. Now I have this Best friend that will 'slap' you when act funny meanwhile it's me who tells the story. I still love her even when we are not close like we used to be. Deborah I love you Gracefully.

  • @carolineg.3276
    @carolineg.3276 2 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful children of Almighty God, happy to hear from you, your loaded with wisdom. God bless you richly and make you a blessing to mankind

  • @jackiezcribbabycenter6168
    @jackiezcribbabycenter6168 2 месяца назад

    Woo, cars and speed, go Barbara. Thanks, ladies, for keeping us glued with knowledge

  • @linonuko4897
    @linonuko4897 2 месяца назад +2

    Watching from Texas. ❤ you gals.I feel like you guys are my besties lol

  • @namirembeprossy9865
    @namirembeprossy9865 2 месяца назад

    I have learnt that it ia marturity for you to understand that its on the other person to treat you the way they feel… extend grace and do not find it obvious for the other person to come through for you too….
    You do not have to do everything together… friendship should be joyful and not painful… find peace n comfort in your friendship. Well done ladies. Special greetings to Barbra ma🥰

  • @hellenmabonga9714
    @hellenmabonga9714 2 месяца назад +3

    Barbra I seem to love u becoz u look and sound real and honest in ur conversations....

  • @MACKLINETUKAMUHEBWA-u3t
    @MACKLINETUKAMUHEBWA-u3t 2 месяца назад +2

    Waoooo Barbra me and my bestiez we are like you .. I gat bff in every corner

  • @SharifahNampeereza
    @SharifahNampeereza 2 месяца назад

    I love how calm and collected you are Babra

  • @lillianguggi6403
    @lillianguggi6403 2 месяца назад +1

    Greetings from Austria 🇦🇹 you people!you always make my day with your amazing content❤

  • @ShineProssy
    @ShineProssy 2 месяца назад +17

    Beverly just know you're my best friend even if we have never met physically before ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 i love people who are confident in themselves and cherish others 🎉🎉 and they are not afraid of being ambitious

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 2 месяца назад +1

      Beautiful. Thank you

    • @nabakiibijulian1626
      @nabakiibijulian1626 2 месяца назад +1

      I resonate so well with you🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @ShineProssy
      @ShineProssy 2 месяца назад

      @@Nambozobev you're welcome 🤗

  • @jackiezcribbabycenter6168
    @jackiezcribbabycenter6168 2 месяца назад +3

    This topic brings me to siblings, who only love you because you are acting the way they want, as soon as u r different, the relationship is affected.

  • @sunshineheaven1802
    @sunshineheaven1802 2 месяца назад +1

    Ladies, I love the topic, I can relate with each of you. I really value friendship 100%. From childhood to now, that is a part of my life I am so intentional about. My friends have to organically like me and I them. I believe in reciprocity, I am not a groupie, tried it and it did not work later on.
    Just like consent should be continuous happiness, the same should be true for friendship.
    By the grace of God, my friendships have been mostly enriching and when they were not, I had to change that and end some.
    The funny thing is some Christians are not practicing Christianity, their belief system and value system are like night and day, and they do not apply the Godly and Bible principles. Yet some people are not of the Christian faith but they have good values and practice their principles of integrity, love, morals, etc. This is why people talk of toxic situations, etc. Let us pick better people. Friendship should be maturity. Go where you are loved and appreciated.
    Manuela that part, that part, divine friendships that God has assigned. I know. 😇
    An acquaintance is someone one knows but is not particularly a close friend.
    An associate is a person who is often in one's company, usually because of some work, enterprise, or pursuit in common: a business associate.
    Best friend; person's closest and dearest friend. People we ask advice, call when upset or overwhelmed, or depend on each other for help. Blessed week.

  • @mwikalikatiwa483
    @mwikalikatiwa483 2 месяца назад +1

    Very educative
    I have lost good friends but soon I'll be intentional about restoring my friendships

  • @janerose5068
    @janerose5068 2 месяца назад +55

    We need an apology for not uploading video yesterday 😂😂😂😂the way I kept on checking until evening 😂

    • @andreaturukekopel9581
      @andreaturukekopel9581 2 месяца назад +2

      😅😅😅😅😅 you know. Me too

    • @ruthmpora3108
      @ruthmpora3108 2 месяца назад +2

      For sure

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 2 месяца назад +5

      Poleni sana

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo 2 месяца назад +21

      We deeply apologise. UMEME did a dirty on us and we were not able to upload the episode.

    • @bulyaoliveritah5792
      @bulyaoliveritah5792 2 месяца назад +1

      We were thirsty....Thank you @bumplove for the rescue😊.

  • @MACKLINETUKAMUHEBWA-u3t
    @MACKLINETUKAMUHEBWA-u3t 2 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful Emmanuel I like yoo words en I HV learnt from u..

  • @towerrugamba9395
    @towerrugamba9395 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm watching from Rwanda, and love you ladies.i have learnt alot from you guys.

  • @kenganzirebecca8340
    @kenganzirebecca8340 2 месяца назад +1

    love you ladies so inspiring

  • @flaviakamahoro4353
    @flaviakamahoro4353 2 месяца назад +1

    Am glad that finally we HV got the week episode though we missed u so much yesterday

  • @brendahorysh6827
    @brendahorysh6827 2 месяца назад

    Manuela, its good you are back with Amanda, in bump love 1, you had talked about how you had “failed” your friendship.

  • @patiencenuwe1808
    @patiencenuwe1808 2 месяца назад +4

    Im watching from the People's republic of Kirinya, bweyogerere State. We raavuuu nyo namyi 😂

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 2 месяца назад +2

      Greetings to you, Royalty of Bweyogerere!

    • @angellaayebale
      @angellaayebale 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @JaneAtukunda
    @JaneAtukunda 2 месяца назад +1

    😊 Hello beautiful ladies ,Iam watching from Rwanda kigali I love and can't miss a day without watching your videos.i love love love youuuu ❤

  • @princessimeldah806
    @princessimeldah806 2 месяца назад +1

    Greetings to u all,we missed u Alot yesterday but finally u are here ❤

  • @najjumaelizabeth9016
    @najjumaelizabeth9016 2 месяца назад +1

    Me and friendships we are parallel I got fed up of making friends yet one sided, and always get disappointed. So for now I’m my own friend

  • @ssakashamim5995
    @ssakashamim5995 2 месяца назад +4

    Watching from SA i have given up on friendships, and im at peace, pipo used to say not having a friends is a red flag but im ok with that

  • @alicevuga3562
    @alicevuga3562 2 месяца назад +2

    Watching from Denmark 🇩🇰

  • @kemargie
    @kemargie Месяц назад

    Early breast cancer screening is important for me because then am allowed a chance to go through the treatment before it spreads to the rest of the body,then my life will be safe and able to see my children grow and later on my children's children.l look forward to winning a free breast cancer screening voucher thanks to bumplove, thank you.

  • @menyasandra811
    @menyasandra811 2 месяца назад

    This talk is really important

  • @musiimentarosemary2851
    @musiimentarosemary2851 2 месяца назад

    Looking for friendships or bestie friendship's knowledge...i guess this could be a good watch+watch till the end...❤❤❤❤❤thank you ladies for sharing ❤❤❤.

  • @carrolchidziwo6560
    @carrolchidziwo6560 2 месяца назад

    Loving this!!! all the way from Zimbabwe

  • @catherineodoi9834
    @catherineodoi9834 2 месяца назад +4

    ❤❤Bev, ABC - MONCAB. Love you loads!

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 2 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @juliekoma
    @juliekoma 2 месяца назад +1

    I struggle identifying who my bestie could be except for my husband.... he's the only ine i can be completely vulnerable to

  • @immaculatenatuhamya2364
    @immaculatenatuhamya2364 2 месяца назад +2

    Yesterday all my eyes were wide open😂 and i saw this episode after an hour but was kind busy but this speed is like Barbara's sports cars😂

  • @mirembehellen5387
    @mirembehellen5387 2 месяца назад +3

    Thought I was the only one who forgets faces, you attend a function and before it ends you want them to reintroduce themselves. Bev you have a beautiful dress.

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 2 месяца назад

      Thank you, Arija Fashionz!

  • @chepkiruidorcas650
    @chepkiruidorcas650 2 месяца назад

    Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 so much love ladies

  • @nakibuukastella9925
    @nakibuukastella9925 2 месяца назад

    Understanding has come to me today.
    Thank you ladies.
    You have helped me.
    In every point i could relate with a face and then do a ka self check too.
    Thank you
    Thank you.

  • @kanisakisakyewanyama459
    @kanisakisakyewanyama459 2 месяца назад +1

    now I have fortunate miracle aka maama jz I really love this gal yet we take long to hear from each other...

  • @rebeccakaweesi7393
    @rebeccakaweesi7393 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for adding another Friday to my week... Monday will be Sunday

  • @nassalisarah4993
    @nassalisarah4993 2 месяца назад

    Ladies... thank you soo much for this episode.

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 2 месяца назад

    I like the "Step away graciously ". Thanks for that.
    About weddings. I have never been invited to a work mates wedding because friendship here is defined different. My work mates show me their wedding pictures. I even ask how the wedding was and if they had fun. It is really not a big deal because we are colleague's and not friends.

  • @janicein3820
    @janicein3820 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for this conversation ❤

  • @faithmutenga2656
    @faithmutenga2656 2 месяца назад

    Friendship is a spirit

  • @GloshGloria-vx8px
    @GloshGloria-vx8px 2 месяца назад

    Love bump love

  • @mirriamngombe9586
    @mirriamngombe9586 2 месяца назад +3

    Greetings from Malawi

  • @nassalisarah4993
    @nassalisarah4993 2 месяца назад +2

    I agree with Beverly about this `we are one family' business at work.... as she says... No Please😂

  • @JoyNakato-j2o
    @JoyNakato-j2o 2 месяца назад +1

    Watching from California

  • @twongirwemoris5987
    @twongirwemoris5987 Месяц назад

    I love Beverly ❤

  • @ainebyonaesther3466
    @ainebyonaesther3466 2 месяца назад

    Wow
    Nice one. Thanks so much ladies❤

  • @MaaJewel
    @MaaJewel 2 месяца назад +1

    I am watching you from Kenya🥰🥰🥰

  • @abermonica7918
    @abermonica7918 2 месяца назад

    I was really looking for the definition of bestie in my thoughts.. am.glad you have broken the ice 😂

  • @Mohammed-zs9yh
    @Mohammed-zs9yh 2 месяца назад

    Watching from Kenya.

  • @privilegedewah765
    @privilegedewah765 2 месяца назад +2

    Greetings from Zimbabwe

  • @wambuiwangeci
    @wambuiwangeci 2 месяца назад

    From Kenya with lot's of love.

  • @irenem7739
    @irenem7739 2 месяца назад +1

    Barbara, looking beautiful..with a calming aura❤..just asking if you are Topis little sister?

  • @florencebuwembo9409
    @florencebuwembo9409 2 месяца назад

    Am always waiting for fridays

  • @Agatha-m9k
    @Agatha-m9k 2 месяца назад

    True we watch you on TV and build relationships like I love Barbara yet I have never met her

  • @spectrumbeautyandmore
    @spectrumbeautyandmore 2 месяца назад

    You ladies made us wait the whole day yesterday

  • @sumayahyiga7833
    @sumayahyiga7833 2 месяца назад +2

    Watching from UAE Abudhabi

  • @julietkutegeka1513
    @julietkutegeka1513 2 месяца назад +2

    Wow, having an identity outside of a relationship. My colleague said it. Seeing Bev mention it also is so refreshing.. thx

  • @diinaeliaser5957
    @diinaeliaser5957 2 месяца назад

    Watching from Namibia

  • @dianahmuok3734
    @dianahmuok3734 2 месяца назад +1

    Watching from Kenya ❤

  • @edwidgeankunda6863
    @edwidgeankunda6863 2 месяца назад

    Weldone ladies, who is here to learn

  • @KahinjuGina
    @KahinjuGina 2 месяца назад +2

    Wuluuuu finally it's here😂

  • @cissygloria5271
    @cissygloria5271 2 месяца назад +1

    hello bumplove
    You all look great😊
    well, i would love to get a breast cancer screening opportunity because i think that early detection always gives a good prognosis.
    I believe i can save myself from that disaster if i keep myself in check.
    thank you for the show

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 2 месяца назад

    Barbara that's very high speed!!! Woooowwww 😅

  • @KatereggaJanepher-ci9zu
    @KatereggaJanepher-ci9zu 2 месяца назад +1

    Finally my safe space 🎉