Best Friends Get Brutally Honest about Gender Identity | Iris

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  • Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024

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  • @ItsLaurenTime
    @ItsLaurenTime 6 лет назад +47

    Best friends make the world go 'round.

    • @Ramsingh-pw9zi
      @Ramsingh-pw9zi 6 лет назад

      Lauren L hello

    • @nadirmitiche8204
      @nadirmitiche8204 3 года назад

      the world doesn't go round, its neither flat nor round. it is shape-non-Binary. riddle me this

  • @berenice9989
    @berenice9989 5 лет назад +25

    they're amazing. lovely people. love them and support them with my whole heart

  • @doobieddooo
    @doobieddooo 5 лет назад +22

    Being Trans/non-binary can be sad, bc some can never pass. It must be deeply uncomfortable to not being able to portray what you feel inside.

    • @nimbletim
      @nimbletim 3 года назад +6

      How can you "pass" as non binary? What is it even supposed to look like when it doesn't exist as a biological category?

  • @Lorenmakesart
    @Lorenmakesart 5 лет назад +29

    Bro, I'm nonbinary and also named Loren so this video just hit me in the face

    • @eraiak
      @eraiak 5 лет назад

      @Joshua Chamberlain that is certainly not true

    • @eraiak
      @eraiak 5 лет назад

      @Joshua Chamberlain how tf did u bring biology in here?! Love is love,, feelings are feelings. Be a lil open minded sir.

    • @LixiesSunshine
      @LixiesSunshine 4 года назад

      Lorenmakesart you’re valid

    • @kuggacouragegx6093
      @kuggacouragegx6093 3 года назад +1

      No u arent

  • @amy-ge9sv
    @amy-ge9sv 6 лет назад +25

    I can tell this is gonna be a very emotional video

  • @JamesReborn2023
    @JamesReborn2023 3 года назад +3

    Wow. Their voices show how low their self esteem is. It’s sad to see people so confused.

  • @EricWood42
    @EricWood42 6 лет назад +43

    I know it is my problem, but I have a heck of a time listening to people who speak in the vocal fry register.
    Great video otherwise.

    • @artmieseelizabeth8074
      @artmieseelizabeth8074 6 лет назад

      Eric Wood What does that mean? Like..really monotone?

    • @EricWood42
      @EricWood42 6 лет назад +4

      Artmiese 💋Elizabeth Search RUclips for a video named “What Is Vocal Fry & Is It Bad For You?”
      “Some researchers have argued that vocal fry is a register in American English used by females to give their voice more credibility. Others argue that the result is that they sound less confident, undermining the effectiveness of their communication.Time has reported that it hampers job interviews. Others argue that these perceptions are part of a broader attack on women's speech.”

    • @JohnSmith-td7hd
      @JohnSmith-td7hd 6 лет назад

      I imagine that it's because when he/she speaks normally his/her sex is easily determined.

    • @haleyhaley1458
      @haleyhaley1458 6 лет назад

      I know, it’s extremely irritating. I wish she would just speak up.

    • @fellowcitizen
      @fellowcitizen 5 лет назад +3

      She was emotional. She doesn't necessarily speak that way all the time. Thanks for the info, though.

  • @JamesReborn2023
    @JamesReborn2023 3 года назад +2

    I’m just gonna start calling people “thing”s and “it”s.. they’ll be mad at that too.

  • @UpsNdownZZZ
    @UpsNdownZZZ 5 лет назад +3

    This is totally off topic, but thank you for saying "realtor" correctly!!!

  • @unknownerror4244
    @unknownerror4244 6 лет назад +8

    This was so sad 😞

  • @emilyjoan2844
    @emilyjoan2844 4 года назад +4

    What is an appropriate way to ask someone what pronouns they use that’s doesn’t come across as offensive?

    • @sashahines9132
      @sashahines9132 4 года назад +5

      Simply ask what their prefered pronouns are! Don't act scared or weirded out.

    • @nicholasmelanson78
      @nicholasmelanson78 4 года назад +5

      My pronouns are (insert here), what are yours? Or Hi, I don't like to assume peoples pronouns, may I ask what yours are?

  • @UneakTershai
    @UneakTershai 3 года назад +1

    Great friends 💕✨

  • @Rebazar
    @Rebazar 5 лет назад +5

    It's never easy to exist in the middle of two polarized extremes.

    • @Prillaquatjaa
      @Prillaquatjaa 3 года назад +1

      So men and women are now tbe extremes?

  • @gemini2781
    @gemini2781 6 лет назад +5

    I'm totally confused.

  • @annaou9737
    @annaou9737 5 лет назад +9

    omggggg cishet are so mad in the comments icb.. jobless behavior

  • @RedstoneActive922
    @RedstoneActive922 5 лет назад +5

    The heck is binary

    • @nicholasmelanson78
      @nicholasmelanson78 4 года назад +1

      In gender it it being just a man or just a women. If you identify as strictly one or the other your gender identity is binary. If you identify as non-binary you don't identify as strictly man or woman. Like in between or neither.

    • @JamesReborn2023
      @JamesReborn2023 3 года назад +4

      @@nicholasmelanson78 wow. The realities people create in their minds 🤣

  • @kobayashimaruaikiken
    @kobayashimaruaikiken 2 года назад

    Why 10 years ago non binaries basically didn’t exist?

  • @killerjhul
    @killerjhul 6 лет назад +9

    What's going on in 2018 lol.

  • @ToddSmith23
    @ToddSmith23 6 лет назад +34

    Real question. Why couldn’t your mind be wrong about your gender and your body be right about your gender?

    • @f.u.c8308
      @f.u.c8308 6 лет назад +6

      because you can't change the gender identity that has been in the mind, it tends to not be able to be changed. And maybe part of that reason is that the brain is part of the body.

    • @ToddSmith23
      @ToddSmith23 6 лет назад +1

      So you can’t change your mind or brain?

    • @missyc8339
      @missyc8339 6 лет назад +18

      Do you think gay people can choose to be straight? If you don't think that's possible, then it's the same reasoning as to why non binary/trans people can't just change their mind. It's who they are. If you think that gay people CAN choose to be straight...well then, I suggest you educate yourself further.

    • @maryannaamaral3078
      @maryannaamaral3078 6 лет назад +4

      As much as your question may be legitimate we can break it down ok? Now let’s say you were born with brown eyes but all your life you felt like you were more of a blue eyed person. You have this burning need to have blue eyes to where it feels wrong to have brown eyes. You find out you can change your eyes but everyone is saying that you shouldn’t because brown eyes are what you were born with, but you know that’s not what you were physically meant to be.

    • @maryannaamaral3078
      @maryannaamaral3078 6 лет назад +4

      Not having those blue eyes is ruining most things you felt comfortable with and it’s really starting to make you feel different

  • @alejandrotorres5557
    @alejandrotorres5557 6 лет назад +23

    Why are we mainstreaming DELUSION.

    • @Rebazar
      @Rebazar 6 лет назад +16

      Yeah, I don't know why Trump is president either

  • @candidmusings
    @candidmusings 5 лет назад +2

    Like,like,like

  • @totitoti5369
    @totitoti5369 5 лет назад +6

    "They" just will never work..it's just grammatically incorrect.. You can't have a plural pronoun

    • @LixiesSunshine
      @LixiesSunshine 4 года назад +2

      toti asem the Merriam Webster has added they as a singular pronoun. Also like what if someone went somewhere and you ask “where are THEY” “oh THEY are in the kitchen”

    • @corvs5806
      @corvs5806 4 года назад +6

      If you are a considerate person I'm sure you will agree that someones selfworth is more important than grammar.

    • @LixiesSunshine
      @LixiesSunshine 4 года назад

      Blackout AJ exactly 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

  • @faiza2282
    @faiza2282 6 лет назад +4

    Lol second

  • @saimaayyaz4327
    @saimaayyaz4327 6 лет назад +2

    1st

  • @tinadurski4717
    @tinadurski4717 2 года назад

    🤮

  • @poisonivy7453
    @poisonivy7453 6 лет назад +3

    Your ever boy or girl

    • @maple4syrup_
      @maple4syrup_ 4 года назад +1

      When people are trying to figure out their gender they become non binary..So you’re not other a boy or a girl. Stop hating you don’t know what people are going through..You should do research *KAREN*

    • @m2tilda
      @m2tilda 4 года назад +2

      @@maple4syrup_ .. ur wrong though. she is not trying to figure out if shes a boy or a girl, she IS nonbnary. justas all non-binary peoples are. it is not a confused state, it is a gender.

    • @Eliseala
      @Eliseala 3 года назад

      @@m2tilda do you believe in science?

  • @jessj.jesusistheonlyway
    @jessj.jesusistheonlyway 5 лет назад +5

    Yall need Jesus..and you wouldn't be confused..you would accept who you really are...sigh..Lord help these women..

  • @christianone6611
    @christianone6611 6 лет назад +7

    Oh my goodness! Being compassionate to all people is wonderful. But this is all getting so ridiculous. We're just supposed to support total insanity now. What?!?!

  • @menmakingwaves8621
    @menmakingwaves8621 6 лет назад +1

    Remove "like" from your vocab. Educate yourselves. Stop taking the easy way out. Comfort breeds insecurity. Read that again...
    #pronouns are an easy way out.