Q&A | Custody, New BoyFriend, Healing, Divorce

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  • @nicoleacorda4129
    @nicoleacorda4129 2 года назад +29

    You are so strong Olivia! When your kids are older they are gonna look back and see the amazing mom you were to them!!!

  • @BRIENNAify
    @BRIENNAify 2 года назад +16

    I would love to hear more about the guilt that you feel about having a broken family and how the choices he made affected your self esteem. Going through the same thing and while he was not being a good husband to me, it still hurts that he, the one person that vows to be with you and love you forever, still makes the choices that ends the marriage and is okay with that.

  • @Sunday-ex7px
    @Sunday-ex7px 2 года назад +12

    For your ring you can redesign it into something else- another ring, a necklace, bracelet etc. and wear it like that since it’s your mothers.

  • @Grace-xh1cw
    @Grace-xh1cw 2 года назад +10

    Olivia you’re such a strong person! I truly admire you for not giving up. I hope you keep uploading content because you’re one of the only RUclipsrs I actually watch when they post! Much love ❤️

  • @dominiquekorschinowski5885
    @dominiquekorschinowski5885 2 года назад +9

    So much love you for Olivia. You are one of the strongest people I know and I am so proud of you and your growth. You’re allowed to have down days, as long as you pick yourself back up. Remember, don’t ever end your story with a period where there is supposed to be a comma. Keep going❤️ I love you bestie!!!

  • @sydneyxpeters9103
    @sydneyxpeters9103 2 года назад +5

    Best advice I’ve ever heard is to see a person for who they are not who you think they can be

  • @rileyysreads
    @rileyysreads 2 года назад +7

    Your advice on being in a toxic cycle was spot on! I dated my ex boyfriend for two years and I believe like you've mentioned, that his actions were a continuous choice he made rather than mistake. It's so important to not looking for validation in a toxic partner so thank you for your advice! I am going to move forward and continue to work on myself (:

  • @licor2644
    @licor2644 2 года назад +9

    Remember you’re young. You’re still going to fail. Things fail. Doesn’t mean you’re taking 10 steps back . It means your learning and getting closer to the right answer

  • @Flowerchild5
    @Flowerchild5 2 года назад +4

    After being in a relationship for three years with the person I thought I would die with, he cheated on me. I have a 4 year old son, and we have a 9 month old daughter and am 3 months pregnant..... he was so angry and started to be violent..... he cheated on me and blamed me. Blamed my complaining because everything is one MY PLATE. He never took anything off of it. I am tired. It hurts so bad. But I am relieved. Thank you for making this video. Stay strong. You're doing amazing and you inspire me.

  • @aimeelil9538
    @aimeelil9538 2 года назад +12

    I’ve been watching you since before Ava was born and can say i’m so proud of how far you’ve come as an individual and love your channel so much ❤️ I was 15 when i started watching you and i’m now 20 ❤️

    • @katlynrohrig4721
      @katlynrohrig4721 2 года назад

      Me too!

    • @hhp8267
      @hhp8267 2 года назад

      Me too I was watching her since I was 14 & now I'm 19

  • @thegihonpromise
    @thegihonpromise 2 года назад +2

    After the 6th time it is a CHOICE not a *"mistake"* 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    Louder for the people in the back Pastor Olivia! 😅

  • @bbgirl1112
    @bbgirl1112 2 года назад +4

    I can't tell you how happy I was to get a notification that you had posted a video ❤ I always look forward to your videos and just seeing how you are generally doing over all. I'm so proud of how far you've came and how well you are handling the things you've had to deal with. You are doing a great job even on your off days and I hope you know that. 😊

  • @Angelpawsofautism
    @Angelpawsofautism 2 года назад +10

    Thank you for sharing. You sounded so raw and extremely vulnerable. I can hear your pain and sadness.
    Im a child of a broken family, my mom had two failed marriages. I think it’s incredibly wise to stay on your ex-husbands good side. Allow him access to the children so they can have that relationship with there father.
    I’d also like to say don’t ever bash the parent in front of the children. That’s something little ears don’t need to hear.
    Also as far as moving to another state. I wouldn’t if was in your shoes. It’s really hard even having a partner living in a state with NO family and no friends. Starting over can be good but for me it’s been sucky. We moved from oregon to Idaho and started over. I just want my family around for my children.
    Keep on keeping on lady. Whatever you decide, God has you.

  • @beccahernandez36
    @beccahernandez36 2 года назад +7

    Needed this! I’m 21 with 2 kids (2.5 year old daughter and 3.5 month old son) and going through a divorce currently. It’s been 2 weeks and I feel like I’m floating.

    • @nicolelamothe6438
      @nicolelamothe6438 2 года назад +1

      Hi Becca, you are not alone. I’m currently going through the same thing.

  • @peytont9458
    @peytont9458 2 года назад +5

    I love your Q&As 🥰🥰 makes me feel like we’re just friends chatting! Sending you so much love

  • @croccatcher
    @croccatcher 2 года назад

    Your going to help so many people, I'm glad you are. I've been in that situation many times because I didn't know my own self worth

  • @keepingupwithkennedy2663
    @keepingupwithkennedy2663 2 года назад +6

    With your ring, keep it for Ava. Let her decide if she wants to take the diamond out and use it again.

  • @disenidinethra6497
    @disenidinethra6497 2 года назад +1

    The best thing is to meditate I think .. I know that because I'm a buddhist .. There are various methods in meditation .. Try it sis !!

    • @disenidinethra6497
      @disenidinethra6497 2 года назад

      Meditation really helps you to stay calm in hard moments .

  • @aliciaalvarez118
    @aliciaalvarez118 2 года назад +3

    You explained everything so well and I now feel understood and not alone Thankyou for being you ❤️❤️🥺

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 2 года назад +3

    Awesome VIdeo! I love your channel keep up the good work girl Olivia your super beautiful!!! Your smart, fun, loving, caring, loyal, generous, thougtful, kindhearted person ever I Love You So So Much!!!!!

  • @jaylinnieblas-zepeda6148
    @jaylinnieblas-zepeda6148 2 года назад +2

    struggling with mental health, while being a mom is hard. and having to heal yourself from past trauma while being a mom is hard, especially when raising a little human…

  • @yvonnenoonan710
    @yvonnenoonan710 2 года назад

    Continue to be you!Stay strong!You are an amazing Mom.

  • @kayleighmorris1402
    @kayleighmorris1402 2 года назад +3

    Femometer is the reason why I’m pregnant right now lol !!

  • @hayleyrench4054
    @hayleyrench4054 2 года назад

    I’ve been following you since Ava was born. You are such a good person & I will continue to follow you 💕

  • @OK-kf7bf
    @OK-kf7bf 2 года назад +4

    The talk at the end of the video is everything ♥️ 🌿🌞

  • @sadeebianchi8865
    @sadeebianchi8865 2 года назад +4

    Hi beautiful!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰 missed seeing your videos 😘 love you so much your such an inspiration keep on being you

  • @maggiec3339
    @maggiec3339 2 года назад +1

    IT WAS A CHOICE, NOT A MISTAKE🗣🗣

  • @alexisrose4221
    @alexisrose4221 2 года назад

    anthony is still on your banner for your channel incase u missed that 💕

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 2 года назад +7

    You should do a Day In The Life that would be Dope!!!!!

  • @Soph518
    @Soph518 2 года назад +2

    heyy girl love your videos, I hope everyone is okay, I've loved your videos from when ava is born till now ❤ lot of love from the UK 🇬🇧 ❤

  • @alistairrae9807
    @alistairrae9807 2 года назад +2

    Your a strong beautiful woman Olivia I am so sorry that it’s been so difficult for you and your kids be your true self

  • @Maria-he3vw
    @Maria-he3vw 2 года назад

    Yaaaasssss love youuuuu!

  • @sammarie36
    @sammarie36 2 года назад

    Love you and your channel

  • @laurianemlk
    @laurianemlk 2 года назад +1

    Love you so much Olivia ❤
    You're so strong and you're an amazing person ✨💖

  • @pokingmudwithsticks
    @pokingmudwithsticks 2 года назад

    I really appreciate you sharing that advice

  • @Queenbee845
    @Queenbee845 2 года назад +3

    Wait…if he didn’t pay for the ring did you pay for your own ring? 🤔😳

  • @missscarlet7902
    @missscarlet7902 2 года назад +1

    Wait did he cheat? She said he gave up his family for a good time.

  • @kaylarobert8005
    @kaylarobert8005 2 года назад +2

    Why don’t the kids sleep at their dad’s house? Will you ever talk about the reason y’all got divorced? I have a feeling he cheated….

  • @siennakay3922
    @siennakay3922 2 года назад +1

  • @catjwest
    @catjwest 2 года назад

    Literally clicked so fast 🤍

  • @evelynortiz945
    @evelynortiz945 2 года назад +15

    HE CHEATED?!?!? WHAT A ****🙄

    • @anansya4440
      @anansya4440 2 года назад

      Ikr he’s an idiot. Olivia’s amazing

    • @beanmurphy
      @beanmurphy 2 года назад

      from where to do you know this?

    • @anansya4440
      @anansya4440 2 года назад +1

      @@beanmurphy Olivia implied it in the video

    • @beanmurphy
      @beanmurphy 2 года назад

      @@anansya4440 could you please give me the time stamp? xx

    • @anansya4440
      @anansya4440 2 года назад +2

      @@beanmurphy it’s at 9:20

  • @bradthomas3144
    @bradthomas3144 2 года назад

    I like your channel but it's doesn't pop I got to search for it the last video I sent was with your new roommate and I don't like that you threw your ex under the bus

  • @dcher3868
    @dcher3868 2 года назад +1

    That nose ring 🤮