More men should experience this to appreciate those supportive wives out there. Too many stories of men cheating on their wives because the wives did everything for them. The table has turned Lol. Great story!
Your mom, who had a lifetime of experiences, tried to give you a very good piece of advice about how to choose the RIGHT life partner but you turned her advice down because you, a young thing barely out of your diapers, thought you knew better than her. Well, guess you had to learn life the hard way! Your mom warned you that the only way to sustain a marriage with a pretty woman who doesn't do much was for you to be the slave in the relationship! Boy, did her words come true or what?! You tried to make yourself the victim in this story, but I don't feel sorry for you because YOU chose this path---you chose beauty over everything else. You were warned by your mom and mil and you went into that marriage with a big old smile on your face. You chose to suffer and you took the long road to learning a precious life lesson.
Red Flagged, your mother in law spilled everything. The other guys were smart & stop coming. After her speech & you still decide to marry her. Be happy she left.
I take care of myself and it’s an hour maximum from showering to makeup and hair. It shouldn’t take that long. And I do everything in the house from cleaning to paying the bills. I agree that we must love and take care of ourselves. But we must love and take care of our loved ones too
OmG - 4hrs ...my husband would have driven interstate and back already. Me. max one hour for Hmong Clothes and 30mins. I take longer and i go by myself. Congratulations to you man for being patience and letting her be your queen on a pedestal.
High maintenance women are for handsome rich men…! Bro, you’re none in those categories why want a beautiful wife…big mistake…😩! Wise man says “marry a good hearted woman not a beautiful one…Beauty will fade away…”😩!
Brother aw txhua2 tus txiv neej tau poj niam zoo nkauj thiab txhua2 tus poj niam tau txiv zoo nraug ces plaub hau thiab Kaj muam yeej poob tag koj tsis mob stroke ces twb yog koj muaj hmoo kawg os ua vaj tswv yawm saub tsaug koj thiaj dim nws os mog.
Your mom is a good mom and I betcha men who wants to leave a good women to someone beautiful have to deal with girls like this 😢 Karma 😢❤😊😅😮🎉 I don’t have no one to cook, clean and watch the kids for me so it’s harder for me too! Always make us more sad and we will look older!! I did cry to a Hmong nurse too one time & your not alone when your partner don’t help, periodt!!
Zoo kawg ua koj muab nrauj lawm os poj niam zoo nkauj yeej pab tsis tau yus mam ua zoo xaiv nawb thiaj tsis yuam kev cov laus hais ces yeej yog 100 yog ho
Wow !!!! Me kwv aw koj twb tau nws qhov zoo2 nkauj lawm neb .. No need to complain koj twb mus qhov zoo nkauj rau koj lawm ne… ces koj yuav tau txiv qhev thiab ua txiv tsev ces zoo siab hlo txhais to koj tus poj niam zoo qhov zoo nkauj ua rau koj zoo siab hlo xwb .
100 zaj ces mam muaj 1-2 zaj thiaj yog txiv ua ua plaub hau ya tag xwb os. 98-99 zaj ces yog poj niam ua ua plaub hau ya, laus phem hem nyuj hem nees nkaus xwb as. Ua cas cov niam tais uas lawv cov ntxhais mus yuav txiv es ua ua qhev laus tag vauv thuam tias phem hem dab tsis phim vauv no niam tais ho tsis hais mos mos rau cov ntxhais li cov niam pog hais rau lawv tus tub ne😂
After listening to this story, I hope it shine some light to some ignorant men. Men who complain about their wives who can’t look pretty all the time. A lot of women work and take care of all house chores; plus take care of the family just like what this guy did. He said it himself that it drove him crazy. Now, for you ignorant men, understand your wife. We do so much and go through so much, yet, ya’ll still complain about why she can’t take care of herself.
Tim niam tais muab txws tsis zoo thaum mes lawm nes, niam tais qhias ua poj puas tais tub nkeeg lawm nes 😂 thiab koj yeej zoo siab yuav ces av tsij rau siab ua qhes nawb 😂,koj twb tau nws lus nces yaim thiab ua rau koj yas sau ntuj lawm ces av tsij zoo siab xwb mas 😂
Not all but most men they have no idea how hard it is to be a wife, constantly sacrificing their own needs and desires to cater to their husband's and family every whim, all while being expected to look and be perfect and never complain, because heaven forbid, they actually have to listen to their family, husband problems only and maybe, just maybe, take some action and responsibility for them own men. Hopefully, more men's out there understand how much we women have done for, and stop calling them crazy dramatic.😢
In order for the marriage to work, accept the wife role. Men love beautiful women and would do anything for them. You're very lucky. She is treating you like hmoob husbands treat hmoob women.
Yog niam tais zoo tiag mas yuav tsum qhia koj thaum koj pib tham nws tu ntxhais thiaj li yog nawb....niam tais twb muag tsis poob lawm ne thiaj li muag rau koj ntag.....
Beautiful women have options.....several options. They're not afraid to lose a man who can not give them what they want due to the easy access available for them because of their beauty. Leave the beautiful women for the men who can handle them and save yourself the unnecessary headaches, heartbreaks, and hurt. Find a woman who matches you.....who is on your level or lower (nothing wrong). Peace is much better than trying to Please somebody who is doesn't reciprocate.
You should be happy, ugly man with a beautiful wife. We all died for a beautiful wife. A beautiful wife is not cheap. Anything beautiful is expensive to maintain
Brother, u have to adapt to the new life o. Kj tu pojniam yeej zoo heev li lawm o mg e kj kavtsi hlb2 nw o mg. Kj tu pojniam yeej zoo lawm ma.. kj kav5 nrg kj tu pojniam tu vaj tu tsev tu menyuam o mg e thiab yg o. Nw 5yog pojniam txoj haujlwm xwb na, yeej yg kj yuav tau pab ua thiab yg o mg.
Txhob tu siab os brother aw! You have no one to blame but yourself. Your mother and your mother in law already warning you before you even married her. But you choose beauty over common sense. Your ignorance and stupidity served you well.
Tus neeg zoo nkauj yog zoo nrog lub siab lo lus , tsis yog lub ntsej muag lub cev xwb. Yog koj ua neej nrog tus neeg zoo lub ntsej muag lub cev xwb ces kawg tau lub neej lwj siab xwb lauj
Hahaha..when you want a trophy wife but can’t earn money to provide her laziness and selfish. Just keep her, brother because you wanted a beautiful woman
Shaking my head as her mom is warning you about your wife at the beginning. Smh at you too. How does your MIL expect you to teach your wife to not be lazy when she, the MOTHER, taught your wife to be a PRINCESS?!!
Tejzaum koj tus pojniam tsis paub tshaib plab, tsis tso quav tso zis thiaj tsis kam clean. Tos pojniam tsis zoo nkauj los vim tus txiv ua hluas ces tig los thuam tus niam.
Tim cov niam tias khib xuab zoo li koj tus ko es tso tssssssssooooo ntxhais nyob dawn xwb mas. Qais neeg tiag2. Thov kom koj niag pog siab phem ntawm mus ua neej koj dab daaaab tuag sai² nawb.
Lol welcome to half the life of a woman. Men can't take it when they do half the work most women are expected to do. At least she's pretty. Most men expect us women to do all this and much much more and they are ugly . Haha 35:10
Lol welcome to a women's life, you only had a taste. We women do way more than that and still some put up with abuse from their husband and his family. Men can't take it when they actually have to lift a finger. Lol
Wow! If this is a true story, I am proud of this woman that she can do the opposite of what our hmong men done to us us hmong women
Kev zoo nkauj zoo nraug tsis tseem ceeb, yuav tus neeg kom sib pab txhawb lub neej.
More men should experience this to appreciate those supportive wives out there. Too many stories of men cheating on their wives because the wives did everything for them. The table has turned Lol. Great story!
Now you know the role of hmong women, how they take care of everything and men are like kings. Men expect women to treat and serve them like kings.
Your mom, who had a lifetime of experiences, tried to give you a very good piece of advice about how to choose the RIGHT life partner but you turned her advice down because you, a young thing barely out of your diapers, thought you knew better than her. Well, guess you had to learn life the hard way! Your mom warned you that the only way to sustain a marriage with a pretty woman who doesn't do much was for you to be the slave in the relationship! Boy, did her words come true or what?! You tried to make yourself the victim in this story, but I don't feel sorry for you because YOU chose this path---you chose beauty over everything else. You were warned by your mom and mil and you went into that marriage with a big old smile on your face. You chose to suffer and you took the long road to learning a precious life lesson.
Red Flagged, your mother in law spilled everything. The other guys were smart & stop coming. After her speech & you still decide to marry her. Be happy she left.
Tu neeg ntse neeg muaj hlwb luag tuaj pom koj tu poj niam ib pliag xwb ces luag yeej tsis yuav nawb qhov zoo nkauj yeej zoo tab sis luag yuav uv tsis tsis tau luag xum tsis yuav ua poj niam.....koj tsis paub tab txaus koj thiaj li yuav xwb os
I take care of myself and it’s an hour maximum from showering to makeup and hair. It shouldn’t take that long. And I do everything in the house from cleaning to paying the bills. I agree that we must love and take care of ourselves. But we must love and take care of our loved ones too
Hmong women will learn the true meaning of easy come easy go!
OmG - 4hrs ...my husband would have driven interstate and back already. Me. max one hour for Hmong Clothes and 30mins. I take longer and i go by myself. Congratulations to you man for being patience and letting her be your queen on a pedestal.
High maintenance women are for handsome rich men…! Bro, you’re none in those categories why want a beautiful wife…big mistake…😩!
Wise man says “marry a good hearted woman not a beautiful one…Beauty will fade away…”😩!
Brother aw txhua2 tus txiv neej tau poj niam zoo nkauj thiab txhua2 tus poj niam tau txiv zoo nraug ces plaub hau thiab Kaj muam yeej poob tag koj tsis mob stroke ces twb yog koj muaj hmoo kawg os ua vaj tswv yawm saub tsaug koj thiaj dim nws os mog.
Mostly ces twb tsis hais txiv zoo nraug li os, tsuav yog txiv ceb ces rau tus poj niam no txhais khaus
Its ok, bro. You wanted a beautiful wife. You would not be happy if you did not have a beautiful wife. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way.
Your mom is a good mom and I betcha men who wants to leave a good women to someone beautiful have to deal with girls like this 😢 Karma 😢❤😊😅😮🎉
I don’t have no one to cook, clean and watch the kids for me so it’s harder for me too!
Always make us more sad and we will look older!! I did cry to a Hmong nurse too one time & your not alone when your partner don’t help, periodt!!
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Koj tsis muaj cai complain vim koj niam tais thiab koj niam twb yeej ceebtoom koj puag thaum pib.
Nej pom cov pojniam zoo nkauj txhob ntshaw 2 nawb. Txiv los ib yam, cov cev yiag txias ces ua neej nrog Gym xwb hos.
Zoo kawg ua koj muab nrauj lawm os poj niam zoo nkauj yeej pab tsis tau yus mam ua zoo xaiv nawb thiaj tsis yuam kev cov laus hais ces yeej yog 100 yog ho
Wow !!!! Me kwv aw koj twb tau nws qhov zoo2 nkauj lawm neb .. No need to complain koj twb mus qhov zoo nkauj rau koj lawm ne… ces koj yuav tau txiv qhev thiab ua txiv tsev ces zoo siab hlo txhais to koj tus poj niam zoo qhov zoo nkauj ua rau koj zoo siab hlo xwb .
Shaddap uv yeej tsis tuag!😂😂
Uv kom tuag kiag los yeej txaus siab tsuav poj niam zoo nkauj xwb.
100 zaj ces mam muaj 1-2 zaj thiaj yog txiv ua ua plaub hau ya tag xwb os. 98-99 zaj ces yog poj niam ua ua plaub hau ya, laus phem hem nyuj hem nees nkaus xwb as.
Ua cas cov niam tais uas lawv cov ntxhais mus yuav txiv es ua ua qhev laus tag vauv thuam tias phem hem dab tsis phim vauv no niam tais ho tsis hais mos mos rau cov ntxhais li cov niam pog hais rau lawv tus tub ne😂
Tsi hai tus poj niam lo tus txiv zoo nraug coj cwj pwm ib yam kho siab ta2 leej twg tau ce thej paub .zoo nkauj zoo nraug yeej noj tsi tsau
My sister in law is just like this lady. Ultra high matenance.
After listening to this story, I hope it shine some light to some ignorant men. Men who complain about their wives who can’t look pretty all the time. A lot of women work and take care of all house chores; plus take care of the family just like what this guy did. He said it himself that it drove him crazy. Now, for you ignorant men, understand your wife. We do so much and go through so much, yet, ya’ll still complain about why she can’t take care of herself.
You can blame her because her mom already told you, but you are willing to marry her.
Tim niam tais muab txws tsis zoo thaum mes lawm nes, niam tais qhias ua poj puas tais tub nkeeg lawm nes 😂 thiab koj yeej zoo siab yuav ces av tsij rau siab ua qhes nawb 😂,koj twb tau nws lus nces yaim thiab ua rau koj yas sau ntuj lawm ces av tsij zoo siab xwb mas 😂
Not all but most men they have no idea how hard it is to be a wife, constantly sacrificing their own needs and desires to cater to their husband's and family every whim, all while being expected to look and be perfect and never complain, because heaven forbid, they actually have to listen to their family, husband problems only and maybe, just maybe, take some action and responsibility for them own men. Hopefully, more men's out there understand how much we women have done for, and stop calling them crazy dramatic.😢
Lam ua siab ub mas vim twb ntshaw qhov zoo nkauj xwb ne
Muaj ib feem ntawm cov tib neeg zoo nkauj zoo nraug mas tub nkeeg.
In order for the marriage to work, accept the wife role. Men love beautiful women and would do anything for them. You're very lucky. She is treating you like hmoob husbands treat hmoob women.
Xav tau pojniam zoo nkauj ces ua siab ntev!
Yog niam tais zoo tiag mas yuav tsum qhia koj thaum koj pib tham nws tu ntxhais thiaj li yog nawb....niam tais twb muag tsis poob lawm ne thiaj li muag rau koj ntag.....
Beautiful women have options.....several options. They're not afraid to lose a man who can not give them what they want due to the easy access available for them because of their beauty. Leave the beautiful women for the men who can handle them and save yourself the unnecessary headaches, heartbreaks, and hurt. Find a woman who matches you.....who is on your level or lower (nothing wrong). Peace is much better than trying to Please somebody who is doesn't reciprocate.
You should be happy, ugly man with a beautiful wife. We all died for a beautiful wife. A beautiful wife is not cheap. Anything beautiful is expensive to maintain
😂😂😂😂 cov txiv neeg xav tau poj niam zoo2 hkaujj nas😂
As human beings, we don’t like to take advice from people. We learn it the hard way. Tsis pom dej dag siab tsis nqig. It’s unfortunate but true!
Brother aw, yog kuv tau tus zoo zoo nkauj mas tej hoob nab tej ntawv kuv yeej tsis xuas tes li, kuv tseem yuav muab nplaig yaim xwb os.
Brother, u have to adapt to the new life o. Kj tu pojniam yeej zoo heev li lawm o mg e kj kavtsi hlb2 nw o mg. Kj tu pojniam yeej zoo lawm ma.. kj kav5 nrg kj tu pojniam tu vaj tu tsev tu menyuam o mg e thiab yg o. Nw 5yog pojniam txoj haujlwm xwb na, yeej yg kj yuav tau pab ua thiab yg o mg.
Mloog koj nawb kab lias suab qab zib hais tau lus meej2 mloog tsi dhuav
Txhob tu siab os brother aw! You have no one to blame but yourself. Your mother and your mother in law already warning you before you even married her. But you choose beauty over common sense. Your ignorance and stupidity served you well.
🤣🤣these YG are refusing to listened to advice, let’s you learned the hard way and mob hlwb🤣🤣🤣
Tus neeg zoo nkauj yog zoo nrog lub siab lo lus , tsis yog lub ntsej muag lub cev xwb. Yog koj ua neej nrog tus neeg zoo lub ntsej muag lub cev xwb ces kawg tau lub neej lwj siab xwb lauj
Zaum no koj paub peb cov poj niam lub mob lawm puas yog thiab nws tim koj xwb vim yog li koj niam hais rau qhov koj xaiv qhov zoo nkauj thiaj noj tsis tsau zoo kawg
Ib tug poj niam zoo li ko koj yuav nws lub qim xwb pob koj yog ib tug tseem txiv neej mas tsis lam yuav ib tug poj niam tsis tsheej haj li ko kiag
Sounds like parenting failure
Doing dishes is a life skill not a women skill. Nothing to do with how beautiful you are
Cov me nyuam tsis mloog niam txiv hais li koj ces cia pom dej dag yus mam paub es mam ua kev kawm rau yus.
😂😂 some of these women will be in for a rude awakening.
Hahaha..when you want a trophy wife but can’t earn money to provide her laziness and selfish. Just keep her, brother because you wanted a beautiful woman
Tus txiv tsev,
Qhov koj ua yog kiag.
Kuv mas hajyam muab stshaws khib nyiab ntev los lawm
Shaking my head as her mom is warning you about your wife at the beginning. Smh at you too. How does your MIL expect you to teach your wife to not be lazy when she, the MOTHER, taught your wife to be a PRINCESS?!!
Tus txiv tsev nos paub hais tias peb cov poj niam khwv npaum li cas vim nws twb tau ua peb cov hauj lwm nws thiaj li paub os. I can feel his pain
Tejzaum koj tus pojniam tsis paub tshaib plab, tsis tso quav tso zis thiaj tsis kam clean. Tos
pojniam tsis zoo nkauj los vim tus txiv ua hluas ces tig los thuam tus niam.
Koj hais tias koj tus poj niam yog neeg zoo nkauj no makeup ua nws zoo nkauj xwb. Ib tug ntxhais zoo nkauj yog los ntawm natural os. Ntshaw tus maij2 ib ces yeej meem ua nws qhev nkag kaws 'NO' complaint haha! 😮😱😱😱🤡👌👌👏👏👏
Hahaha..now you know what women have to do to maintain a household. Flipside, dude!!!
ZOO, YEAH, kav tsij ua qhev
kom tiag. Txawm plaubhau
yov hle tag tsis tshuav 1 txoj
li lawm los hajyam zoo xwb.
rauqhov, npua yeem noj xua,
dev yeem noj quav lawm. Ces
koj yog dev lawm koj kav tsij
noj quav xwb tiag. Vim koj
yeej txaus siab rau koj tus poj-
niam zoo nkauj lawm ne. Peb
yog ib tug txivneej. Txhais tias
yus yog tus txiv uas muaj vaj,
muaj tsev,muaj pojniam tub se
Thiab xav kom tsheej cuab
ntseg yim. Yog ua cas yus
thiaj tsis yuav tus pojniam uas
nws txaus siab rau koj thiab
serve koj no ma. Koj yuam
kev deb lawm ‘os.
Ohyo ntuj qhia kevcai 6koj xwb os
Plaub hau( plaub saum taub hau)
Tsis yog " plob hau " li nej hais os
Oh geez u knew how she was. Her mom told u. There ain’t no point to this story.
I hate high-maintenance ppl....all they do is look in the mirror. Beauty does not last forever. Good luck!!
Muab tub nkeeg dhau 😂
However, I’ve seen the ugly one that are lazy, mean and ruthless.
hluasnkauj zoo nkauj, zoo tsuav xwb g zoo yuav, kuv ntsia tus hluasnkauj mas..ntsia kiag ntsejmuag, mus nws mis, lub pim, ces pobtw xwb nawb..lmfao
Tim cov niam tias khib xuab zoo li koj tus ko es tso tssssssssooooo ntxhais nyob dawn xwb mas. Qais neeg tiag2.
Thov kom koj niag pog siab phem ntawm mus ua neej koj dab daaaab tuag sai² nawb.
I can’t believe you put up with it for that long!! You allow her to be that way that’s why you’re miserable!!
Lol welcome to half the life of a woman. Men can't take it when they do half the work most women are expected to do. At least she's pretty. Most men expect us women to do all this and much much more and they are ugly . Haha 35:10
Lol welcome to a women's life, you only had a taste. We women do way more than that and still some put up with abuse from their husband and his family. Men can't take it when they actually have to lift a finger. Lol
Only 7 minutes you knew what you're looking for it your fault.
Peb yeej paub as. Tshuav tus ruam li Koj thiaj li tsis paub xwb