I’m so glad you went and fought for your daughter. Just because she’s his blood doesn’t mean she will be lazy. It’s whatever her surroundings is that she will learn from. You did well mama! ❤
this is the very first time ever I heard such a story. Tsuas hnov cov laus kom nrhiav tus ntxhais nquag xwb. Mus nrhiiav dua tus tshiab koj lub neej thiaj zoo. Bless you.
It's rude not to take off your shoes especially when at someone's house. Sab nraum zoov qias neeg li qias xwb na. I love a clean house and thankful my husband does too and always help me clean the house . Qee tus neeg tsis nyiam zoo, lawv qias neeg. 😂
This is so my wife. I remember one time she told me to mop the house and I was doing it fast missing some spot, she got so mad she threw the tv controller and crack it 😂
Ib sim neej tsua hnov niam pog tsi nyiam nyab vim nyab tub nkeeg , tiam 22 no hnov niam pog txub nyob vim nquag no , Tiam no muaj ntau hom neeg txij txua lawm sub kawg yom😂
I HATE a dirty house!!! It's the biggest investment, needs to maintain a cleanliness atmosphere. When I go to someone's house and it's dirty, I dunno how to stay around 😂😅😊
You see pigeon fly, you don’t see pigeon’s nest. Pigeons ‘ feathers are smooth and beautiful but their nests are very poor and dirty. My parents taught us that before you settle your heart with someone, you need to check to see if you can bear their living conditions. I can’t stand living in a house so cluttered.
Yup, nasty people let them be I can not handle either but it’s your fault you only see the bird fly not the bird nest. People never change when it comes to nasty houses lol.
As a woman, I know your heart was in the right place. How you went about it was very disrespectful to your MIL. She's hurt more than offended. And she only knows how to be mean to you as a reaction. If you brought the changes slowly and let her know first that you're there to share the responsibility with her, she may have loved you for your qualities.
Real talk here. Everyone has their own pace when it comes to cleaning and organizing. If you are lazy and never clean or pick up after yourself/others you are the problem. If you are someone who is cleaning all the time because you want a perfectly clean house and yelling at your spouse to clean than you are also the problem.
Tus niam tsev no lus les dhau lawm nawb ,nyiam huv dhau lawm luag lwm tus yoog tsis tau yus ces yus tsuas pom yus daws dom tab yog kuv los yeej dhuav thiab ov !!!
Been to a house where as soon as you step in, it’s like stepping in on a different planet, the smell and the atmosphere is totally on another level, it made the gravity 2x heavier. 😂
To the owner of this story, Get a hold of me. I'm 52 years old and walked into the exact life situation you are now experiencing when i was 16 years old. I now have major ocd disorder from the trauma i endured while living in those kinds of condition. I now bleached everything, vaccum and mop & wipe my hardwood on a daily basis. My bathrooms are wiped down nightly. My entire kitchen is cleaned and declutter on a nightly basis. My husband have been converted to my way of living, and we have been together for over 35 years. At the end of her life, she finally acknowledged and accepted my way of living.
Tej tug niam pog zoo li kos ces tsis tas tu li os es nyob tau zoo nyob xwb .es ua niampog tsaug xwb tsis khes li es yog yus lub yus mam tu xwb txhob quav ntsej li os tub li kos dim plaws lawm nyob kaj siab lug os mog.tus viv ncaus aw.!.
Kuv paub ib qhov mas cov neeg tseem coj Dab uas nyob ntuj qub qab mas lawv tsi nyiam tu tsev lawv tej tai kuas txob mas lawv yeej tsi ntxuav lis os lawv hai tia muab tej ntawm ntxuav lawm mas nim muab lawv tej plig nyiaj plig kub ntxuav tas lawm no mas lawv tsi nyiam ntxuav lis nawb.
Kuv mloog tag kuv yeej paub zoo tiad yog tmi. Dab tsi, vim koj los yoog tsis tau lawv 50% lawv los tsis yoog koj 50% 1 koj nquag2 mas txhob yws2 taus nthe cem2 ntshe koj txib2 koj tus txiv nthe2 nws es nws thiaj dhuav2 koj, Tim 2 tog tag nrho..tsis qhuas leej twg li os..
I’ve heard from the elders many times “better to have tus neeg nquag instead tus neeg tub nkeeg” in your case they pick being lazy and staying that way forever.
Xyov koj yog hom poj niam twg nam muaj ib hom poj niam mas pib ua hauj lwm ces pib txib tus txiv zoj qhov ub txib zoj qhov no mas yog hom no mas ntxim npau taw kawg ov
WOW…a man always wants ib tug niam tsev nquag2,, but this guy and his family want a lazy wife…I just can’t stand messing, dirty house…! Glad that you got out of this lazy family…hope you find a man who will appreciate your cleanliness…😩!
Wow sister, cov neeg tsis nyiam zoo tseev u ua zoo thiab coj zoo, lawv yeej muaj chaw tib. If that’s the case, thank God your ex divorced you and many thanks he didn’t wait until you have to send him back to his family.
This is not clean freak it’s common sense smh! A messy house gets me frustrated and hate it. The guy says that but promise they will complain if they get a lazy wife/ nyab 😅
Hw, hw, hw.....tsis tau hnov dua qhov tus neeg nyiam.zoo thiab nquag2 tu vaj tse ua dej num heev es ho niam pog txiv yawg ho tsis nyiam.ne yom ?!! * Kuv twb yog tus too2 nkeeg tu vaj tu tsev los kuv cav tseem nyiam2 tus nyab yuav tsum paub vaj tse no nas ? Zaj no mas cov ntsiab lus muaj tseeb nyaj yuav muaj 60% hos 40% ces ntshe blow smoke xwb pob ?!!! Hehehe......haib kawg !
Always remember that people who talk shit about others are just mad, hate their own lives and have no goals. Move on and find someone better. Please tell us who these people are so we can avoid them!
Yes. I agree with you. There are some people who loves to live in filth. Those who are a neat freak or OCD cannot live with lazy and trashy people. You have to find someone similar to you. If not, you do more and stop complaining about you doing more.
Yup dirty people can't live with clean people. There's more to the husband not because she's clean its because he needs to go back to his family/have inner struggle between loyalty to his wife or family & needed therapy. He should had told the truth. Thx goodness you hot the baby--i wouldnt leave my child in a dirty environment.
Koj hluas hluas koj tseev nyiam zoo koj txawj txawj complain. Tabsis tseem vam khom kom koj niam pog tuaj zov koj me nyuam Tom koj tsev you're very sick nyab. Niam pog tsis muaj haujlwm los yuav kom luag tuaj zov me nyuam Tom koj tsev nas. Peb li txiv work day shift niam work 2 shift xwb as. Never rely on anyone
May be koj ua tau ntau zog lawm pob. ? Tsis need tus tsev npaum koj thiab ? Nej twb tsis coob heev ces vaj tsev yeej tsis sw npaum ko thiab kas. Yog kuv pom ib tug neeg tus tsev tas lis xwb los kuj meem meem txom kuv thiab os. Even kuv txawm tus vaj tus tsev los tsis need kom ces nplas thiab.
People with lazy and disgusting habits will always have a reason to stay nasty. 🤢. And yes, we’re Asians. Take off them shoes when entering the house! You lucked out to get out early and young from that nasty family!
You claimed that your in-laws are filty, but you're not worry about hygiene for your newborn baby? You don't make sense. There are daycare centers if they're that filty. If you're going to share your story, make sure to share your side, their side, and the truth.
Better divorced earlier than later. Sounds like you were mentally abusive towards your husband though. Because you didn’t deny the things your ex husband said. Make sure next time around you find someone who lives similar to you so you won’t have to try to change them too much.
Sister, it's okay to be a little OCD. I'm like you. I like a nice and clean house. I'm very OCD and neat freak. But as I've aged, I'm a little less. But damn your in-laws are lazy and unclean. Your mother in law is not a very clean person, and she doesn't like to clean. Plus, she's a toxic and drama queen. Your husband is like his mother, too. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Yea, if I were you, I would've packed him up and sent him back to his mommy. No way in hell would I tolerate him and to talk and disrespect me like that. Nope, he'll find himself fending, and without a wife.
Cov neeg nquag nquag ces lawv cem cem neeg yws yws neeg li nawb, cov neeg nrog yus nyob yeej dhuav dhuav yus li os. Neb ob nyuag leej nyob xwb es yuav sw npaum li cas es pheej yuav niag hnub tu heev ua luaj li mas lov
I’m so glad you went and fought for your daughter. Just because she’s his blood doesn’t mean she will be lazy. It’s whatever her surroundings is that she will learn from. You did well mama! ❤
this is the very first time ever I heard such a story. Tsuas hnov cov laus kom nrhiav tus ntxhais nquag xwb. Mus nrhiiav dua tus tshiab koj lub neej thiaj zoo. Bless you.
It's rude not to take off your shoes especially when at someone's house. Sab nraum zoov qias neeg li qias xwb na. I love a clean house and thankful my husband does too and always help me clean the house .
Qee tus neeg tsis nyiam zoo, lawv qias neeg. 😂
This is so my wife. I remember one time she told me to mop the house and I was doing it fast missing some spot, she got so mad she threw the tv controller and crack it 😂
Yog kuv tus poj niam coj tau li koj ua, ntshe kuv yuav hlub nws peb npaug ntxiv. Thanks for sharing your story sis.
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Ib sim neej tsua hnov niam pog tsi nyiam nyab vim nyab tub nkeeg
, tiam 22 no hnov niam pog txub nyob vim nquag no ,
Tiam no muaj ntau hom neeg txij txua lawm sub kawg yom😂
Tau tej tse hmoob tsis nyiam tu vaj tse lawv muab yus tsij thoob khib nyiab ces ntxov mus ntxov zoo xwb os
I HATE a dirty house!!! It's the biggest investment, needs to maintain a cleanliness atmosphere. When I go to someone's house and it's dirty, I dunno how to stay around 😂😅😊
You are under niamPog’s roof so you must follow her rules
You can do whatever you want in your own home
Neeg ntshe yeej yuav tsum.hle khau, kuv ntxub cov neeg tsi paub cai es khau lo av li cia li los tsuj yus tej tsev
You see pigeon fly, you don’t see pigeon’s nest. Pigeons ‘ feathers are smooth and beautiful but their nests are very poor and dirty.
My parents taught us that before you settle your heart with someone, you need to check to see if you can bear their living conditions.
I can’t stand living in a house so cluttered.
Yup, nasty people let them be I can not handle either but it’s your fault you only see the bird fly not the bird nest. People never change when it comes to nasty houses lol.
As a woman, I know your heart was in the right place. How you went about it was very disrespectful to your MIL. She's hurt more than offended. And she only knows how to be mean to you as a reaction. If you brought the changes slowly and let her know first that you're there to share the responsibility with her, she may have loved you for your qualities.
Can’t stand dirty house and dirty people. We don’t wear shoes inside our house either.
It's a good thing you like cleanliness, but maybe you are over doing it. If you over do it, some people may not like it.
Real talk here. Everyone has their own pace when it comes to cleaning and organizing. If you are lazy and never clean or pick up after yourself/others you are the problem. If you are someone who is cleaning all the time because you want a perfectly clean house and yelling at your spouse to clean than you are also the problem.
The OG always said, be exactly like your husband’s family. If they’re lazy, be lazy lol
Koj nyiam hu li kuv
Tus niam tsev no lus les dhau lawm nawb ,nyiam huv dhau lawm luag lwm tus yoog tsis tau yus ces yus tsuas pom yus daws dom tab yog kuv los yeej dhuav thiab ov !!!
Sister tus neeg nyiam zoo thiab tsis nyiam zoo nyob tsis tau uake it's like my husband and me vim kuv tus husband tsis nyiam zoo thiab
Kuv lub tsev yog leej twg tuaj txog es lawv pom xwb ces lawv yeej hle lawv khau li as yeej tsi tag yus yuav hais lawv li as.😅😅
Different households have different standards...but by all mean if its for the better..the rest should learn from it
Txhob khuv xim tsev neeg tub nkeeg ntaw os.av tsij mus ua lub neej tshiab.
Been to a house where as soon as you step in, it’s like stepping in on a different planet, the smell and the atmosphere is totally on another level, it made the gravity 2x heavier. 😂
To the owner of this story,
Get a hold of me. I'm 52 years old and walked into the exact life situation you are now experiencing when i was 16 years old. I now have major ocd disorder from the trauma i endured while living in those kinds of condition. I now bleached everything, vaccum and mop & wipe my hardwood on a daily basis. My bathrooms are wiped down nightly. My entire kitchen is cleaned and declutter on a nightly basis. My husband have been converted to my way of living, and we have been together for over 35 years. At the end of her life, she finally acknowledged and accepted my way of living.
Vim li no es cov nquag thiab nkees thiaj nyob tsis tau ua ke
Tsev yuav tsum tu txhua hnu ma nyuam du zog xb o lawv aw tseem 1_2 thiv mam tus ntshe ua npua lub ze lm xb o hmoob 75 aw
You deserve better
People with different habits can never live together.
Tej tug niam pog zoo li kos ces tsis tas tu li os es nyob tau zoo nyob xwb .es ua niampog tsaug xwb tsis khes li es yog yus lub yus mam tu xwb txhob quav ntsej li os tub li kos dim plaws lawm nyob kaj siab lug os mog.tus viv ncaus aw.!.
Kuv paub ib qhov mas cov neeg tseem coj Dab uas nyob ntuj qub qab mas lawv tsi nyiam tu tsev lawv tej tai kuas txob mas lawv yeej tsi ntxuav lis os lawv hai tia muab tej ntawm ntxuav lawm mas nim muab lawv tej plig nyiaj plig kub ntxuav tas lawm no mas lawv tsi nyiam ntxuav lis nawb.
Kuv mloog tag kuv yeej paub zoo tiad yog tmi. Dab tsi, vim koj los yoog tsis tau lawv 50% lawv los tsis yoog koj 50%
1 koj nquag2 mas txhob yws2 taus nthe cem2 ntshe koj txib2 koj tus txiv nthe2 nws es nws thiaj dhuav2 koj, Tim 2 tog tag nrho..tsis qhuas leej twg li os..
I’ve heard from the elders many times “better to have tus neeg nquag instead tus neeg tub nkeeg” in your case they pick being lazy and staying that way forever.
Tej zaum koj nquag nquag tabsi koj yws yws taus ces koj tus txiv tsis nyiam ne! Koj nquag nquag ces mam mus yuav tus nquag es neb thiaj sib haum os.
Tej zaum tsis yog koj nquag nyiam huv tab sis yog koj picky yws taus dhau lawm ua rau koj tus txiv dhuav koj
Why do you expect your mnl to clean and cook for you girl. Koj yeej tsis zoo tia nws ua nyab nas. Don’t ever wait for your mnl love
Ib tug txiv nyiam qias neeg li no ces koj xwb os. If it was me, I would already trash him first!!!!! 😂
Xyov koj yog hom poj niam twg nam muaj ib hom poj niam mas pib ua hauj lwm ces pib txib tus txiv zoj qhov ub txib zoj qhov no mas yog hom no mas ntxim npau taw kawg ov
Ua li cas kuv ho tsis Tau tus nquag2 li ne. Kuv mam yeej tsis nyiam tus poj tub neeg os.
Kuv ntseeg tias tsis yog lawv tsis nyiam koj txoj kev nquag os. Koj lub qhov ncauj lom lawv txhua hnub txhua hmo ua rau lawv siab ntsws ua paug tag. Ua rau lawv dhuav koj cov niag tshuaj lom neeg tawm hauv koj lub qhov ncauj los xwb os.
WOW…a man always wants ib tug niam tsev nquag2,, but this guy and his family want a lazy wife…I just can’t stand messing, dirty house…! Glad that you got out of this lazy family…hope you find a man who will appreciate your cleanliness…😩!
Koj kus kes zog lawm pob
Ib as this tu ib zaug xwb tau lawm
Wow sister, cov neeg tsis nyiam zoo tseev u ua zoo thiab coj zoo, lawv yeej muaj chaw tib. If that’s the case, thank God your ex divorced you and many thanks he didn’t wait until you have to send him back to his family.
Tus viv ncaus ntshe koj nquag nquag tab sis koj tsis nquag twj ywm xwb ntshe koj yws yws taus ces neeg feem coob lawv tsis nyiam kom yus yws yws taus nawb. Kuv xav hais tias peb txhua tus yeej ntshaw hom nyab uas nquag nquag thiab nyiam huv xwb.
Yus nyob yus xwb os
Kuv tsis nyiam nyob św św thiab tiag.
Cia cov xyoo 75 lawv nyob lawv
This is not clean freak it’s common sense smh! A messy house gets me frustrated and hate it. The guy says that but promise they will complain if they get a lazy wife/ nyab 😅
Hoarding and OCDs are a mental disorder. Can't stand a messy house. Lazy people don't see messes.
Hw, hw, hw.....tsis tau hnov dua qhov tus neeg nyiam.zoo thiab nquag2 tu vaj tse ua dej num heev es ho niam pog txiv yawg ho tsis nyiam.ne yom ?!!
* Kuv twb yog tus too2 nkeeg tu vaj tu tsev los kuv cav tseem nyiam2 tus nyab yuav tsum paub vaj tse no nas ? Zaj no mas cov ntsiab lus muaj tseeb nyaj yuav muaj 60% hos 40% ces ntshe blow smoke xwb pob ?!!! Hehehe......haib kawg !
Always remember that people who talk shit about others are just mad, hate their own lives and have no goals. Move on and find someone better. Please tell us who these people are so we can avoid them!
Nej twb mus nyob nej es ua li cas pheej hu niam pog tuaj ua ab tsis nawb. Yus ua yus xwb mas.
Yes. I agree with you. There are some people who loves to live in filth. Those who are a neat freak or OCD cannot live with lazy and trashy people. You have to find someone similar to you. If not, you do more and stop complaining about you doing more.
Tus nyab niag niam pog khib nyiab li niag ko mag noj tag pov ntawd kotaw xwb tsi tag yuav cleaned nws lub niag tsev qhiag neeg naw.
You didn't want to fix your marriage otherwise you would have made some changes. You probably nag him a lot for him to get to that part.
Yup dirty people can't live with clean people. There's more to the husband not because she's clean its because he needs to go back to his family/have inner struggle between loyalty to his wife or family & needed therapy. He should had told the truth. Thx goodness you hot the baby--i wouldnt leave my child in a dirty environment.
Koj hluas hluas koj tseev nyiam zoo koj txawj txawj complain. Tabsis tseem vam khom kom koj niam pog tuaj zov koj me nyuam Tom koj tsev you're very sick nyab. Niam pog tsis muaj haujlwm los yuav kom luag tuaj zov me nyuam Tom koj tsev nas. Peb li txiv work day shift niam work 2 shift xwb as. Never rely on anyone
This story sounds ridiculous! You got told to leave because you're too clean? Pfft!!! I find that hard to believe.
I have an aunt who is lazy and like that style like your mother in law but she loves to make up and dress up.
That family is nasty and hoarders. They're lazy. Best thing is you and your husband needs to move out get your own place.
May be koj ua tau ntau zog lawm pob. ? Tsis need tus tsev npaum koj thiab ? Nej twb tsis coob heev ces vaj tsev yeej tsis sw npaum ko thiab kas. Yog kuv pom ib tug neeg tus tsev tas lis xwb los kuj meem meem txom kuv thiab os. Even kuv txawm tus vaj tus tsev los tsis need kom ces nplas thiab.
You have to be the middle ground. Do not be messy or cluttered but don’t be too OCD! Both are too irritating.
Koj txawm nquag npaum li twg los koj tsis txawj yooj koj tus txiv tseev neeg ces koj kawg mag ncaws tawm tsev. Koj nquag nrog yws taus no ces koj yim nquag ces lawv yim huab ntxub koj tshaj xwb.
People with lazy and disgusting habits will always have a reason to stay nasty. 🤢. And yes, we’re Asians. Take off them shoes when entering the house! You lucked out to get out early and young from that nasty family!
Vim koj tus txiv yeej ib txwm nyob qhov cheeb chaw(environment) zoo li ntawd los lawm.
You claimed that your in-laws are filty, but you're not worry about hygiene for your newborn baby? You don't make sense. There are daycare centers if they're that filty. If you're going to share your story, make sure to share your side, their side, and the truth.
Better divorced earlier than later. Sounds like you were mentally abusive towards your husband though. Because you didn’t deny the things your ex husband said. Make sure next time around you find someone who lives similar to you so you won’t have to try to change them too much.
Sister, it's okay to be a little OCD. I'm like you. I like a nice and clean house. I'm very OCD and neat freak. But as I've aged, I'm a little less. But damn your in-laws are lazy and unclean. Your mother in law is not a very clean person, and she doesn't like to clean. Plus, she's a toxic and drama queen. Your husband is like his mother, too. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Yea, if I were you, I would've packed him up and sent him back to his mommy. No way in hell would I tolerate him and to talk and disrespect me like that. Nope, he'll find himself fending, and without a wife.
Cov neeg nquag nquag ces lawv cem cem neeg yws yws neeg li nawb, cov neeg nrog yus nyob yeej dhuav dhuav yus li os. Neb ob nyuag leej nyob xwb es yuav sw npaum li cas es pheej yuav niag hnub tu heev ua luaj li mas lov