Imagine if your husband was not understanding of this! That’s reality for lots of women n it causes them to stay silent about their pain. This needs to be addressed ALOT more in the adult community💯
Absolutely agree. Doing the bare minimum of caring if you hurt your partner doesn't mean you're the greatest guy ever. It's the bare minimum. It's being decent.
Eventhough I am a man, this is a fantastic insight into an issue people shut off from the world. This is something which should be talked about more often.
Rafael I think that as a society sex is still really taboo and that is really bad because it causing a lack of knowledge, empathy and communication, it also causes a lot of confusion for teenager and people when they become sexually active. If we as a society had mature conversations about sex then both genders would understand each other better, I mean I’ve lost count how many times I’ve had to explain to guys and other girls what a hymen actually is and how it’s not torn or a barrier
People please... if you’re in pain, and no enjoying yourself, ask your partner to stop, to slow down, change position whatever it is that will make you feel comfortable. Unless your partner has something wrong with them and is incapable of respecting their sexual partner.. they will understand, and won’t want to hurt you... speak up!
I am saddened to think you should even feel the need to say that. If they had an issue with being told they're just an animal! The woman talking saying she didn't want to tell her husband! Good grief, if you don't feel like you could tell him there are some issues with the relationship.
Peter Huskins It’s very sad. From experience (younger self) and speaking with friends... it’s true, unfortunately people don’t always speak up when they’re not enjoying themselves or in pain :(
Peter Huskins 100% and now it’s important to encourage other people, especially the young to celebrate enjoying sex and not just being there to help your sexual partner have a good time. My poor kids are going to hate having ‘the talk’ with me XD
Peter Huskins There's nothing wrong with their relationship. I am in the exact same boat as this lady and you feel that you fail as a wofe if you don't satisfy your husband. It's nothing to do with your relationship but everything to do with her. And me. WE pressure ourselves to bite through the pain. We don't want to deny our husbands their marital rights. My husband NEVER pressure/asks me to have sex. It's all me. My own guilt trip. If a week goes by and we haven't had sex I feel like a failure.
If a husband knows her wife ....he is extra extra careful about your body, because it's not your body it his body too...you may not understand it..but that is a just a sweet sensitive/nice guy.(who offen gets rejected while trying to find a date..)
This woman has a medical condition... women DO enjoy sex as well. Youre probably young and it might seem scary and thats okay, but it doesnt have to be. Take your time and be comfortable and it will be amazing i promise.
Pragy30 Pretty much the same, they said it was stress from university and also my mum gets migraines so they just assumed it was in my DNA... They sorted me out but after all of my treatment I quickly changed my GP
No it’s not about hardcore sex it’s about pain even during the most gentle loving sex. I feel broken and it’s sad. Luckily it’s getting better recently
Anonymous ! You should be ashamed posting this comment. Sex is not about banging like animals. (What you are saying) Sex is something special two people share and with some people it hurts. No matter how gently or hard it just hurts and you clearly don't understand that. You should have known before posting this because i feel very offended in the name of the person you have written this to.
Lexi DeVa it’s okay ! It’s best just to ignore the trolls. I just hope and pray their partner doesn’t experience any pain if they’re making love to someone so unempathetic ://
Its funny how all these comments are about how amazing your husband is and how we should respect him He is just a man and this is how every man should be He didnt do anything special he just did what everyone should do
Can u tell me more about sex becoz im virgin and i wanted to have sex but idk about pain so tell me what to do after sex if there is bleeding.. is virgina got swelled?
Bethany Rawlinson omg i have endometriosis and my husband broke up and cheated on me because he saus why i couldnt stand having sex w him a long time. Been on and off in and out of the GP and only 1-2doctors get me coz most of them disregard my chronic pains and tell me im fibbing or its in my head.. My life is in shambles but i now know better that im not crazy and im not making this all up... There needs to be more awareness raised in endometriosis ....
Yes I got endometriosis years of suffer and mal the doctor thought that I was crazy and the pain was because I was not having sex regulary. So I gave up
U jus have to find someone that ur comfortable wit and be relaxed b/c then ur vagina becomes tense and the muscles tense up then it will hurt b/c of the fact that since ur so scared and not relaxed ur vagina gets dry and when the penis goes it it’s jus gonna hurt however some ppl have narrow vagina’s and that’s why u must penetrate it first
I didn't even new the first time when it entered 😂 my boyfriend was so gentle ❤ don't worry.. just tell him that is your first time and to be gentle everything is gonna be ok :)
100% yes this is me. I remember doctors telling me that my painful prolonged periods were normal and it's supposed to be sore etc. It's so frustrating to not have doctors take you seriously especially if you are young. Periods are not supposed to be so painful that you faint and make you throw up and so on. And what she said about her husband, is how I feel about my boyfriend, i feel bad that we can't have sex even though he is really understanding. Sad other women go through this too but it's great to see all the supportive comments on this video!
Kirsty Campbell ahhhhh! The same thing haopened to me! Looking back I'm so angry at some doctors! I told them how bad the pain was, the cramps, once I was even crying because I was due to have my period in the next two days. But once I found a gyno who really listened to me, it changed so much! He put me on medication and it changed a hugr aspect of my life.
I understand. I have severe endometriosis too. It took many years to get that diagnosis. Since then, I’ve had to have a hysterectomy in my mid 20’s. I’m very thankful for the doctor who wouldn’t give up on me. I hope you find an amazing doctor who puts you first. 🎗 Keep up the fight. 💛
Mukama's Love Getting a doctor to diagnose endo is hard enough with a private doctor, but I can’t imagine how hard it would be with an NHS doctor. I live in the states, and I still went through a bunch of doctors before finding one who truly cared.
Hello fellow EndoWarrior! 💛 I too was diagnosed with stage IV Endometriosis in 2014. Since then I have had 4 laparoscopic surgeries and I honestly have felt worse after the last one I had in March of this year. My pain has doubled, all my symptoms are heightened and I’m bleeding every day for he last 33 days! ... I’m in the process of getting a consult with a gynecologist from a university hospital. I know I need my uterus removed as it has grown more than double it’s size and with the last surgery it was confirmed that I have endometriosis inside the uterus as well so I see no point in keeping it, problem is that I’m 26, single, no kids.. so all drs I have seen are very against doing a partial hysterectomy for me. I wanted to ask since you have gone through a hysterectomy in YOUR mid 20s how your outcome has been? Have you had relief of symptoms? I would be very grateful if you could share your experience with me as I am going to face another surgery soon. Thankyou in advance and power to you! 💪🏼🎗
Virgins out there DO IT WITH THE RIGHT PERSON and DO NOT do it from peer pressure from your friends or others around you .There is not a timer to loose your virginity, YOUR body YOUR rules❤️
@maypaki alam Please get the facts right. It is not a curse. The pain is caused by muscle contractions to push the baby out as well as the stretching of the birth canal. God designed human females with a smaller birth canal so they can walk on 2 legs instead of crawling like other animals on 4 legs. It is a compromise. And instead of saying it’s a curse, why not appreciate the many sacrifices a woman have to go through right from the start of puberty just to give us men the pleasure we want from sex as well as to give us children? Women go through this troublesome thing called menstruation every month and it’s painful for some. Their breast also develop and they have to wear bras which can be uncomfortable for some. And they experience pain during sex and childbirth. We men only enjoy penetrating their vagina during sex and playing with their breasts. So we should appreciate and respect women instead of saying it’s a curse. Women sacrifice themselves for us men despite knowing what they have to go through.
@maypaki alam I think you need to stop all this. Because you are doing nothing but instilling fear into women. It’s not like they don’t know what is going to happen, but the fact that you keep mentioning it makes them even more fearful. And the more fear they have, the more pain they will feel.
It's scary how a girl with feel unconftorble in pain during sex and ask for it to stop and they keep going because they are not happy that she just wants to end it in the middle
Then beat him up and stop the sex its simple, in no way should it be like that its an take and give on this matter you wanna satisfy him good but at the same time you gotta satisfy me in no way its only for him.
I think every guy needs to watch this. Boys...I have a message for you: I think you bullied a girl in your life because of their periods right? Please stop doing it. You know how bad it can be? Once my mom needed to go to the hospital because really painful cramps. And yes, guys can't really feel pain during sex but girls....specially at first time.... And last , when a child borns.... I think its the most painful thing of these.. ...okay , I dont really want to talk more about this. So boys , please stop bullying girls for their periods etc. Keep up girls! Were strong!❤👊 Edit: Okay , yes you're right not ALL the boys are bullying girls for their periods , but a lot of them are.
Jungkooks Precious Taehyung Never in my life have i bullied a girl over her periods and never saw anyone doing so. I mean, they bleed from the inside, that certainly isn't a pleasant thing. I think guys, especially teens, should simply be educated on sex and how it works better so it won't lead to these consequences. For example i didn't know women have a thing called hymen until my friend told me and i can't imagine how it feels like to have it torn.
I’ve never met a guy who bullies a girl for their period! Plus, you girls kick us in the nuts, the pain is literally so bad, guys have DIED from it. So, you stop that first.
Guys hold on. The girl has a point! But I've never met anyone who has bullied a girl because they are on their periods(even if they do it's just harsh I mean all girls are born this way, it's not a sin it is just puberty/growing up, A girl entering womanhood). Also guys genitals are external(while girl's are internal)girls use that to your advantage against a bully/some person sexually harassing you ;).Menstruation is an indication of a girl becoming a woman(and preparing the body for parenthood as women are the ones who give birth). Last but not least, respect women!
When she described this pain, I literally went "oh my god, this is me. I feel the exact same way." I've been going to the doctor for years and they just keep changing my birth control or tell me to take pain killers. My friends even thought I was a-sexual after I started avoiding sex.
Hey, can I know more bout your situation? I have endo too like the woman in the video. On medications to shrink it for years now. I really need someone to tell me some solutions to painful sex if they're facing the same thing.
For me I tried having sex with different guys, but still there's this pain and discomfort, I don't think its Endo cause I've gotten pregnant before but I can't explain it, like I'm enjoying every thing else and then penetration for me is like, so painful like I'm having sex for the first time over and over
I went through all of this as well. But it took an emergency call out on new years eve 2009 as I woke up with pain from my neck to down to the tops of my legs. The pain radiated that much I couldn't pin point where it was coming from. Paramedics gave me 3 shots of morphine to bring the pain down to bearable levels. Took 10 months thereafter to finally get an operation to remove two 5 cm blood clots, one on each ovary, multiple smaller ones, and they also found that pretty much all of my ovaries are scarred from previous blood clots that eventually ripped off by themselves. I cannot have children due to endometriosis, which in my eyes, is no where near taken as seriously as I'd like it to be. The whole time I was pretty much fighting with the gyneacologist, who was a man, to get something done about it. From all I went through, I really now do feel men should not be gyneacologists as they have Zero idea how it feels to be a woman, and the crap we have to go through during a lifetime...
I'm so sorry you've had such an awful time, my current gynaecologist is male and really good, judging by the way he fiddles with his wedding ring when I talk about pain his wife has had similar problems.
I agree, a lot of men think since they know the biological facts of a woman’s body that they make good gynaecologists, and while there are some great ones for a lot of them experiencing it makes a world of difference, you can always count on a female gynaecologist to react when you mention sex feels like a knife twisted up your vagina.
Oh no im sorry that happened to you. I hope you have a good life though:). I am going through something kind of like(not really exactly but problems in the same area) it's just not as bad. I have yet to be diagnosed. Thank you for sharing your story. :)
I'm 40...have had serious overall pain, fatigue, cramping, headaches, & more, and pain during sex (the main reason why I've only had only 1 relationship, have been single for more than 10 years). I've been so sick that I had to decide early on that I could not have children because I would not be able to take care of them. Many doctors dismissed me and my pain....until now. And I had to lie to get their attention...I told them I was trying for a baby and it was not happening; ONLY then did they take me seriously and I was finally diagnosed with endo. How messed up is that?
I'm childfree anyway but I'm thinking of going down the 'can't get pregnant' route. I'm 21 now but maybe when I'm a bit older, I hope my condition hasn't worsened by then.
I'm welling up with tears. I too have endometriosis, an important thing in a woman's life, and I can't do it properly.. The frustration of it all, not just the sex. I just want to be taken seriously. I've been on the pill for over a year and it hasn't done anything regarding the pain. It feels good knowing that someone can say out loud the words that have been trapped in my head, thankyou x
luthando Makgatho we know that procedure can help..but it’s a matter of doctors willing to investigate in the first place,ive been dealing with endometriosis since I was fifteen..I am now nineteen and doctors still refuse to give me the procedure because they don’t believe me and make out the pain isn’t real..just pop a few pills and we’re sent on our way.... There seriously needs to be more awareness spread about this disease..
Hey, could u share with me more on ur current condition? I have endo n on Visanne for 3 years now. It did shrink them, but I'm hell scared of future sex after marriage. I just wanna know how to solve this before I got married... I'm so hopeless right now.
It absolutely disgusts me when I hear about doctors like this. I would say to anybody who has a doctor that is not willing to investigate any health issues they bring in, seemingly big or small, to keep looking until you find one that does. There are definitely some great ones out there and your health is far too important to be settling with a GP that doesn't respect that. Thanks to this wonderful woman for sharing her story, I'm sure it will touch many in a multitude of ways.
Endometriosis is really sever , I've heard cases in which a women feels like Naplam being dropped inside her ....... People need to be made more aware of it at least 10% of the population (same amount of diabetes suffers) suffers from it and sometimes its not even properly diagnosed .......
Noah Sebastian so people that do have painful sex know that there might be something wrong with their bodies. I was told in school that sex can hurt, so not knowing there might be a disease causing it would possibly have me just ignore it and think of it as normal or stop having sex. Also so people that might have sex with people that have endometriosis can understand that certain things are not going to be possible and that they have pay very close attention to their partner and their partners's bodylanguage.
Helcolina Plasticine some woman said sex hurts and it has nothing to do with the disease . Its just because they're are new to sex. But im still confuse and scared to have sex thinking my partner might get hurt. what if it hurts them but they didn't know they have endometriosis
Noah Sebastian in the first case: its not a bad thing to go to a doctor and have it checked, even if it turns out to be nothing or harmless. Ignoring signals your body gives you however can have fatal consequences. Secondly: you should absolutely always pay attention to your partner while having sex. It doesnt take a genius to recognise someone not enjoying something, let alone hurting. When in doubt: ask them directly. However if you and your partner do find out about anything like this disease you can recognise signs even more easily because you know what to look for specifically.
Isaac Wood with mental illnesses such as anxiety they often portray physical symptoms. Unfortunately doctors often immediately go to this when they are not sure.
I can really relate to this. For my first two years of having sex I was always in so much pain. I remember my first relationship..it took us 3 attempts to have sex because it hurt so mucv. I told him that I was in pain..and all he said was "well that's how it is when you haven't had sex that often". I've had sex before with another guy and it also hurt like shit..so I just thought that's how sex is. I tried telling him a couple more times but he really made me believe that it was my fault and that I'll get used to it at some point. Around 1,5 years later I met a guy who was really really gentle to me..and that was the first time in my life when sex actually felt good. It was still hurting sometimes but a lot less than it used to. I could never understand why my friends talked about how amazing sex was, and how they're doing it almost every day of the week with their bfs. I always needed at least 4 days to recover from the pain between my legs until I could bear it again.. I was so happy to meet that guy who showed me that sex CAN be great and that it's not my fault.
@@dindaseptiara5393 we're not together anymore sadly. I've never loved a person so much but sadly it wasn't ment to be. It's been over 2 years now so I'm ready to move on. I still look back very fondly at the relationship we had and the time we spent together
@@nelyintheaction5718 he lived in a different country. I actually met him while I was travelling there. We spend 7 wonderful months together but eventually I had to go home because my visum ended. We tried to make it work but long distance relationships are hard..especially when he literally lives at the other side of the planet. He met a girl there and they've been together since then. It still hurt like shit and I still miss him sometimes..but it's been a long time now
Sometimes i wonder , why only women have to face so much pain in their lives , when they're teenagers , they've to face period pain after that we've to face this pain of loosing our virginity after that we've to face labor pain , which is the second most painful thing ... And except this women have to face gender discrimination, body shaming, and rapes etc etc... Life of a women is not easy
@@josephemerson2846 nothing in the bible makes sense honestly. The bible says that earth is flath and it's 6000 years old only. I wonder how people can believe this shit 😂
It took me there attempts to loose my virginity Every time I say it's paining my husband gave me time and instead of rushing to do that he made me more comfortable and loved me so much . but believe me my husband was very gentle in that.. there was so much of pain and bleeding.. I was okay after three days of my first time.. but I loved it ..I love my husband..
I want a husband like this😞 how can love me and cared for me always😔but i cant cause i have a anbeutifull country where boys r too toooo tooooooo toooo much there face body , heard everything is bad 😔😭
I know i cant get him in my life , i alway love him if im die so what i just loveing him his fb name is: Riyan Abdulgani/ Riyan Abdul Gani (i think☺) and my big bro delete my fb and i just have utube and imo😔but i love him forever
Me and my boyfriend did for the first time and it hurt so much while he was entering after a few thrusts I asked him to stop since it hurt. We respected me and my worries enough to stop and for the rest of the time we were together we walked together and joked around about animals
@@moonlightbabe7918 the vagina is actually usually just pleasurable to the male, its also the passageway for the baby. The clitoris is werhe the most nerve endings are, it needs foreplay. Were not taught about it though, were always taught sex is penis inside vagina, which is silly cause the clitoris is what needs to be stimulated to orgasm. That's why lesbian couples have a higher rate of orgasms, theres no penis involved going into a a vagina
The fact that being humane n sensitive is considered being decent for a guy but very liberally expected out of every women is a sign of dysfunction in society..
This video really captured what it’s like to deal with painful reproductive diseases and the very challenging experiences we as women face. I was diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis in 2015, it took 6 years to diagnose and most health care professionals just told me I was normal all those years before. It can be extremely painful and life changing. I myself have dealt with it for 10 years, and half that time I have been disabled and unable to work. Additionally, no doctor has ever helped me to get disability, though I’ve tried. One particular UCI social worker told me that I wouldn’t be given disability because what I have isn’t considered a disability, but a reproductive disorder.
I have almost the exact same symptoms and went through hell with doctors telling me it’s psychosomatic, running a million tests and nothing is positive. I finally had an amazing obgyn and I’m starting to get better. It’s a slow road. Bless you and I hope you are able to get the treatments you need. 💕🦋
Before even watching the end of this video, Im going to assume she's got endometriosis. Most Doctor's will glance over this being a possible reason as to why a women would be feeling pain.
More stories like this need to be shared so women can be aware that some period symptoms that people say to just get over is actually not normal and okay to be dealing with regularly I feel like getting the diagnosis for Endometriosis would be so much quicker going private In fact anything is quicker going private Simple fact is when you’re putting your money on the table doctors start to take you serious and get you results quicker
@@wa6342 you should research about it more, because u might be aromantic or just asexual. It's something that should be widely discussed just like other sexual orientations. I'm also very loathful towards sex
I’m glad more attention is being brought to this. It’s so hard living with this and to have people not believe you. I’ve had laparoscopic surgery and they still don’t know what’s wrong. I’m sorry for the pain this woman had to go through because I’ve been there. We shouldn’t have to suffer in silence and told to “just relax”.
Really amazing that you shared this. It is so incredibly hard to be open about not being able to have sex the way society thinks is ‘normal’ sex. And yeah the husband seems nice but why are all the comments about him...? This woman has gone through so much shit and she just amazingly shared her story to hundreds of thousands of people. Thank you 💜💜💜
Olivia Harris I agree-the husband is great, but it’s interesting that there is so much fanfare for a man being a good human being and doing something any decent person should do (and unfortunately, many wouldn’t). Not to discredit him at all. But she endured a lot before figuring out what was going on, including being willing to have sex despite the excruciating pain because she wanted to be a good partner, which is not what should be expected of a person.
I love how lovely she is expressing herself and how she is telling her story, we need to speak out how we feel or what we feel honestly, and this may not happen to all of us because everyone have diferente bodies but we most always speak how we feel
Get insurance,go private you won't regret it I can say from experience as a woman it's become very common within the NHS for doctors to ignore women or sat it's just in our head. There's still a long way to go with getting the voices of women respected and valued in that area of society. You'll be treated much better in the private sector.
Sorry but that is a terrible thing to say to make out like it is sexism. As a man I have had the exact same experience with doctors being dismissive when they can't diagnose it, they very quickly make out like it is just in your head regardless of gender.
Im so sad for her, and im happy that her husband is so caring and loving :) but girls, i know how important sex live is, but if you’re experiencing the same condition as her, dont be down, yes in marriage sex live is important, BUT it doesnt have to be just sex, you can do anything else, love doesnt have to just surround sex it consists if understanding, tolerance, affection, and care, so if the both you can fulfill this i think its enough, and i seems like he loves you so much so im v happy for u☺️❤️❤️
The fact that being humane n sensitive is considered being decent for a guy but very liberally expected out of every women is a sign of dysfunction in society..
And on some days, women can just wear sexy lingerie to bed. Does not need to have sex everyday. Men are sometimes just satisfied that you wear sexy lingerie to satisfy his eyes. And remember to include kissing and cuddling.
I feel like I felt her pain through this, the different visuals literally made me feel like I was going through her experience even though I've never had sex before and am a virgin. This is a sad and beautiful story. It is devistating to hear what you had to go through. I can't even imagine what it must have been like. Your husband sounds amazing though the fact that he was so caring and thoughtful. This brought me to tears.
I've never related to something to much. Holy shit. Thank you so, so much for this. I've always been way too afraid to talk to my doctor about it and have always just...dealt with it. Or tried to anyway. It's miserable.
I feel and felt the same way, not just with my PCOS but my other medical issues. You really start to go, it has to just be my mind....but its not your body is screaming at you and you have to believe it. I wish the Doctors would at times, I wish it wasn't a fight with ever last thing. Thats not even counting on the fight you get from your insurance.
Wow! This is going to help a lot of women. There is a long history of women not being believed in health care settings. Instead, they're diagnosed as hysterical.
The fact that the doctor gave her ibruprofen and didn't think anything was wrong until she mentioned not getting pregnant- it's as if he only cared about her issue when it came to her ability to carry a child, absolutely sickening. People with uteruses are more than wombs and male doctors (and all doctors for that matter) need to realize it. Her years of pain and suffering only came to a conclusion when her fertility was brought up. Says a lot.
GOD IS A MALE: I just had a THEOLOGICAL DISCOVERY: God is indeed a MALE. The reasons are: 1.) If God is a female, she would never inflict women with painful intercourse. She would merely inflict them with infertility. Her empathy towards women's feelings will always prevail. 2.) It is known in history that men treat women as property. Therefore, if God inflicts a woman with primary vaginismus, vulvodynia, thick hymen dry vagina, vulvar vestubilitis, then her vagina is now the property of God. She's meant to remain celibate control to keep the population down. A female god will never treat anyone as property. This explains why painful intercourse is MORE COMMON among females than males. Because God is a MALE and treats some women as his property to control the population. Men can have sexual problems too but most of them are not physically painful to their penises. Vaginal strength is an acquired strength. Such strength can only happen if she is no longer a virgin. After she attained her vaginal strength, she can have intercourse without pain. It takes a strong vagina to accommodate a penis. l am now an enlightened man.
I had never felt this before, but now that I’ve had my daughter I’m often in pain after sex and it really sucks and the doctors literally tell you that there’s nothing they can do to help you.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the visual part of the video its amazing
Some of it made me feel queasy but it was a really good way of representing it all
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@@megan-jx1yu AMAZING LITTLE BOOTIFUL STICKMAN
I found it a bit corny at some points
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if ur husband/partner doesn't treat u like this womans did,, leave
No you
@@zlatanibrahimovic5973 i am more than confused
He was nice when they talked tho
She didn't say anything. When she did he was super nice
Zlatan Ibrahimovic wut
"You don't ever have to just 'get on with it' " - one amazing husband
He is amazing! I am so very lucky to have him.
@@rhondahierons3925 You're the person in the video?
Not really , just normal
@@gwendolyn1003 Yeah.
@@gwendolyn1003 the thing is: you're right. But also you're not. Even if it's normal it still should be appreciated.
"Did I hurt you? Why didn't you stop me?" What a good guy.
dreaming meming tbh i thought her husband was gonna feel a sense of fulfillment after giving her more than she expected
I have the same kind of husband
But some husbands are not like that
Me to u also 💋👄💏❤😍real
Muhammad Imran horny headass
Imagine if your husband was not understanding of this! That’s reality for lots of women n it causes them to stay silent about their pain. This needs to be addressed ALOT more in the adult community💯
Britannica Martin So true
Even in young people I found out I have endometriosis when I was doing my final year in high school. Imagine my struggle ... But I'm doing better now
Her husband was a real keeper. Respect for him
Am alone need 😍😍😍❤❤❤
Armyyyy
@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz your hand
Or you girl??
Armyyyy
"Did I hurt you?...You don't ever have to just go on with it."
💙 but this story is really heartbreaking, the pain of that woman.
Your husband is a decent guy
I love how you didnt just assume he was great because of this one charactaristic in his personally and instead said decent.
What?
Absolutely agree. Doing the bare minimum of caring if you hurt your partner doesn't mean you're the greatest guy ever. It's the bare minimum. It's being decent.
Me: watches this
Also me: Hasn’t had first kiss yet
😂😂
Saaaame😂 I'm turning 19 in April and still haven't kissed or dated anyone ouf😂
Same lol
Damn that sucks.
LMAO Same tho
Who's still virgin and scared now? 😅
Not me
Mee
Me
It does feel like that the first time but after that it’s fine
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despite the story.. the visuals deserve some respect
*it's ok to be a Virgin forever :/*
😂😂
Yes that's wat im planning to be Virgin forever...😑
@@tastyyummycutehomecooknepa9288 😂😂true
@FM D uh... Ok...
Exactly, why I have my fingers 🥰
Eventhough I am a man, this is a fantastic insight into an issue people shut off from the world. This is something which should be talked about more often.
Rafael I think that as a society sex is still really taboo and that is really bad because it causing a lack of knowledge, empathy and communication, it also causes a lot of confusion for teenager and people when they become sexually active.
If we as a society had mature conversations about sex then both genders would understand each other better, I mean I’ve lost count how many times I’ve had to explain to guys and other girls what a hymen actually is and how it’s not torn or a barrier
thanks for understanding
People please... if you’re in pain, and no enjoying yourself, ask your partner to stop, to slow down, change position whatever it is that will make you feel comfortable. Unless your partner has something wrong with them and is incapable of respecting their sexual partner.. they will understand, and won’t want to hurt you... speak up!
I am saddened to think you should even feel the need to say that. If they had an issue with being told they're just an animal! The woman talking saying she didn't want to tell her husband! Good grief, if you don't feel like you could tell him there are some issues with the relationship.
Peter Huskins It’s very sad. From experience (younger self) and speaking with friends... it’s true, unfortunately people don’t always speak up when they’re not enjoying themselves or in pain :(
I hope you've matured enough now. Very sad indeed.
Peter Huskins 100% and now it’s important to encourage other people, especially the young to celebrate enjoying sex and not just being there to help your sexual partner have a good time.
My poor kids are going to hate having ‘the talk’ with me XD
Peter Huskins There's nothing wrong with their relationship. I am in the exact same boat as this lady and you feel that you fail as a wofe if you don't satisfy your husband. It's nothing to do with your relationship but everything to do with her. And me. WE pressure ourselves to bite through the pain. We don't want to deny our husbands their marital rights. My husband NEVER pressure/asks me to have sex. It's all me. My own guilt trip. If a week goes by and we haven't had sex I feel like a failure.
Her husband sounds like my bf extra caring
You got a good one 🤘🏻❤️
Well I liked it and then I remembered I'm single😂😂😂
If a husband knows her wife ....he is extra extra careful about your body, because it's not your body it his body too...you may not understand it..but that is a just a sweet sensitive/nice guy.(who offen gets rejected while trying to find a date..)
thats crazy but no one asked
@@katiejevons3046 I did, sir
Its almost like they didnt care about her pain and issues until she said that she hadnt conceived after 18months of unprotected sex.
heyysimone Right!? Because I can’t procreate now it’s an problem but eff the fact that I’m in sever pain. Infuriating.
literally!! he only cared when her ability to have children was brought up
I'm just gonna stay a virgin forever...
Smartie 2312 same here.
FlyingMaster - Stick Empires & Stick War Legacy Oh don't worry I'm already using this technique 😅
This woman has a medical condition... women DO enjoy sex as well. Youre probably young and it might seem scary and thats okay, but it doesnt have to be. Take your time and be comfortable and it will be amazing i promise.
Same
I am 22 still going strong
Okaaayy i'm gonna stay a virgin, thank you...next.
It’s not that bad dw
Guess again.
@@rachelmoore2015 you said, "that bad" so its bad just not that bad 😐
@@rachelmoore2015 people told me it hurts
Cynthia Daniels ma’am stop being a chicken, move on!
My GP failed to diagnose my cancerous brain tumours for about 4 years.. I know the feeling
How are you doing now?
P S I'm living with it, no growth after treatment
shit!!! same thing happened with my aunt. they kept telling her it's work stress and depression!
Pragy30 Pretty much the same, they said it was stress from university and also my mum gets migraines so they just assumed it was in my DNA... They sorted me out but after all of my treatment I quickly changed my GP
relentlessnueung that’s good :) stay strong ❤️
This is beautiful and it’s amazing to know I’m not alone
itllllllllllll get better!!! 💘
JÆRRY Øfficial
You two will get through this. Just please don't give up💕
No it’s not about hardcore sex it’s about pain even during the most gentle loving sex. I feel broken and it’s sad. Luckily it’s getting better recently
Anonymous ! You should be ashamed posting this comment. Sex is not about banging like animals. (What you are saying) Sex is something special two people share and with some people it hurts. No matter how gently or hard it just hurts and you clearly don't understand that. You should have known before posting this because i feel very offended in the name of the person you have written this to.
Lexi DeVa it’s okay ! It’s best just to ignore the trolls. I just hope and pray their partner doesn’t experience any pain if they’re making love to someone so unempathetic ://
Its funny how all these comments are about how amazing your husband is and how we should respect him
He is just a man and this is how every man should be
He didnt do anything special he just did what everyone should do
Actually he is special cuz everyone doesn’t do this
Absolutely agree with u....but unfortunately not everyone does it the way her husband did....may be!!
@@ankanaaa2320 All men ask. All men are uncomfortable if their partners are uncomfortable. Only boys act out the other way. Not men.
Why is everybody saying they are scared.. maybe wait till the end of the video. Sex doesnt hurt if you dont have medical problems.
Kominika Kex if it's the first time it does
Can u tell me more about sex becoz im virgin and i wanted to have sex but idk about pain so tell me what to do after sex if there is bleeding.. is virgina got swelled?
@Nyla Khan 😂😂😂😂
Feeling scared
@maypaki alam ...I think you should revise your research pal. Your conclusion is trash.
I knew it was endometriosis just as she gave the symptoms. Its disgusting that we're told its all in our head
Bethany Rawlinson omg i have endometriosis and my husband broke up and cheated on me because he saus why i couldnt stand having sex w him a long time. Been on and off in and out of the GP and only 1-2doctors get me coz most of them disregard my chronic pains and tell me im fibbing or its in my head.. My life is in shambles but i now know better that im not crazy and im not making this all up... There needs to be more awareness raised in endometriosis ....
Yes I got endometriosis years of suffer and mal the doctor thought that I was crazy and the pain was because I was not having sex regulary. So I gave up
I also have endometriosis but is it painful evrytime u have sex n it's forever..no cure at all
Me too, it is the same symptoms, very similar stories. It takes so long for a diagnosis to be made and it is a lot of pain
@@hotmessmissy Good riddance to him!
The cameraman: _ok, for this scene can you pour honey over this random seashell i found in Target?_
Ponderer Of Pointless Dreams
your profile picture scares me
I thought it was dish soap hahaha
Lolsss
@@foreverconfusedd7949 lols me tooo😂😂😂
Yeah, I know it's weird but it looks ✨aesthetically pleasing ✨💅
Sending this to a pal because she feels alone in this:)
Hannah h Please tell your friend that she is not alone. I have endometriosis too.
jheeeez
Send my wish to your pal :) I believe everything is going to be fine and she can do it!
*I am never having sex. This seems extremely scary 😢😢😢😢*
Most women don't experience these extreme symptoms. You'll be fine.
U jus have to find someone that ur comfortable wit and be relaxed b/c then ur vagina becomes tense and the muscles tense up then it will hurt b/c of the fact that since ur so scared and not relaxed ur vagina gets dry and when the penis goes it it’s jus gonna hurt however some ppl have narrow vagina’s and that’s why u must penetrate it first
Im never doing that too.
I didn't even new the first time when it entered 😂 my boyfriend was so gentle ❤ don't worry.. just tell him that is your first time and to be gentle everything is gonna be ok :)
You nun
This video has inspired me... to stay a virigin forever
@maypaki alam no one asked. Like, no one asked
SukoniChan 😂😂😂😂
maypaki alam you are everywhere
@maypaki alam get a fricking life will you 🤮
maypaki alam bruh im not religious so i dont give a shit
100% yes this is me. I remember doctors telling me that my painful prolonged periods were normal and it's supposed to be sore etc. It's so frustrating to not have doctors take you seriously especially if you are young. Periods are not supposed to be so painful that you faint and make you throw up and so on. And what she said about her husband, is how I feel about my boyfriend, i feel bad that we can't have sex even though he is really understanding. Sad other women go through this too but it's great to see all the supportive comments on this video!
Kirsty Campbell ahhhhh! The same thing haopened to me! Looking back I'm so angry at some doctors! I told them how bad the pain was, the cramps, once I was even crying because I was due to have my period in the next two days. But once I found a gyno who really listened to me, it changed so much! He put me on medication and it changed a hugr aspect of my life.
Imelda Wilm just awful, isn't it!
Kirsty Campbell it is. Especially the feeling that your doctor thinks your just doing it for attention or something.
Kirsty Campbell what did you have in the end? And how long were your periods For ? X
Mana there are other conditions that could cause this as well as endometriosis. I'd go to a doctor to be sure.
Every girl should get such a understanding and caring husband 😍😢
And yours
Please u tell me all girls like pain full meeting..
Please tell me i don't know im single 😔. Your answer is my education.
@@hahahahehe7970 wdym by painful meeting??
Shut up , if a women just care like this for a boy , the girl just DIED
*wife
Me: Looks in the comments
Comments: Traumatized Virgins
I understand. I have severe endometriosis too. It took many years to get that diagnosis. Since then, I’ve had to have a hysterectomy in my mid 20’s. I’m very thankful for the doctor who wouldn’t give up on me. I hope you find an amazing doctor who puts you first. 🎗 Keep up the fight. 💛
Becky Warnick do you think it would be different if you had a private doctor... I don't trust the NHS that much right now(getting the diagnosis)
Mukama's Love Getting a doctor to diagnose endo is hard enough with a private doctor, but I can’t imagine how hard it would be with an NHS doctor. I live in the states, and I still went through a bunch of doctors before finding one who truly cared.
Hello fellow EndoWarrior! 💛 I too was diagnosed with stage IV Endometriosis in 2014. Since then I have had 4 laparoscopic surgeries and I honestly have felt worse after the last one I had in March of this year. My pain has doubled, all my symptoms are heightened and I’m bleeding every day for he last 33 days! ... I’m in the process of getting a consult with a gynecologist from a university hospital. I know I need my uterus removed as it has grown more than double it’s size and with the last surgery it was confirmed that I have endometriosis inside the uterus as well so I see no point in keeping it, problem is that I’m 26, single, no kids.. so all drs I have seen are very against doing a partial hysterectomy for me. I wanted to ask since you have gone through a hysterectomy in YOUR mid 20s how your outcome has been? Have you had relief of symptoms? I would be very grateful if you could share your experience with me as I am going to face another surgery soon. Thankyou in advance and power to you! 💪🏼🎗
stillalive My thoughts and prayers are with you. If you would like to talk more, hit me up on my Instagram: @fallendroplet
stillalive good luck ! I wish you the best !
I never had sex.... This makes me scared
Cherry Witch me too lmao
Studio Autio it is better to wait til getting married
Cherry Witch you're not missing any thing. If I could go back in time, I would stay a virgin to or wait until I got married to have sex.
lmao
@@greeksun369 same i should of said no
Virgins out there DO IT WITH THE RIGHT PERSON and DO NOT do it from peer pressure from your friends or others around you .There is not a timer to loose your virginity, YOUR body YOUR rules❤️
@maypaki alam if we were really cursed why did God allowed that Jesus the most perfect, the only begotten Son may be in a women’s body ?
@maypaki alam Please get the facts right. It is not a curse. The pain is caused by muscle contractions to push the baby out as well as the stretching of the birth canal. God designed human females with a smaller birth canal so they can walk on 2 legs instead of crawling like other animals on 4 legs. It is a compromise. And instead of saying it’s a curse, why not appreciate the many sacrifices a woman have to go through right from the start of puberty just to give us men the pleasure we want from sex as well as to give us children? Women go through this troublesome thing called menstruation every month and it’s painful for some. Their breast also develop and they have to wear bras which can be uncomfortable for some. And they experience pain during sex and childbirth. We men only enjoy penetrating their vagina during sex and playing with their breasts. So we should appreciate and respect women instead of saying it’s a curse. Women sacrifice themselves for us men despite knowing what they have to go through.
@maypaki alam I think you need to stop all this. Because you are doing nothing but instilling fear into women. It’s not like they don’t know what is going to happen, but the fact that you keep mentioning it makes them even more fearful. And the more fear they have, the more pain they will feel.
Hearing how much it hurts makes me wanna curl up in a ball.
Same
Your husband... he’s and real man
It's scary how a girl with feel unconftorble in pain during sex and ask for it to stop and they keep going because they are not happy that she just wants to end it in the middle
@maypaki alam Stop annoying other people with those stupid things and womens are not weak they are strong!💪💪💪
I know if I was having sex with a woman and she told me to stop I would instantly stop because I know its painful I understand.
@maypaki alam that's interesting thank you.
Then beat him up and stop the sex its simple, in no way should it be like that its an take and give on this matter you wanna satisfy him good but at the same time you gotta satisfy me in no way its only for him.
I think every guy needs to watch this. Boys...I have a message for you:
I think you bullied a girl in your life because of their periods right? Please stop doing it. You know how bad it can be? Once my mom needed to go to the hospital because really painful cramps.
And yes, guys can't really feel pain during sex but girls....specially at first time....
And last , when a child borns....
I think its the most painful thing of these.. ...okay , I dont really want to talk more about this.
So boys , please stop bullying girls for their periods etc.
Keep up girls! Were strong!❤👊
Edit: Okay , yes you're right not ALL the boys are bullying girls for their periods , but a lot of them are.
yes!!!
Jungkooks Precious Taehyung Never in my life have i bullied a girl over her periods and never saw anyone doing so. I mean, they bleed from the inside, that certainly isn't a pleasant thing.
I think guys, especially teens, should simply be educated on sex and how it works better so it won't lead to these consequences. For example i didn't know women have a thing called hymen until my friend told me and i can't imagine how it feels like to have it torn.
Jungkooks Precious Taehyung
....... Guys can feel pain during sex though.
I’ve never met a guy who bullies a girl for their period! Plus, you girls kick us in the nuts, the pain is literally so bad, guys have DIED from it. So, you stop that first.
Guys hold on. The girl has a point! But I've never met anyone who has bullied a girl because they are on their periods(even if they do it's just harsh I mean all girls are born this way, it's not a sin it is just puberty/growing up, A girl entering womanhood). Also guys genitals are external(while girl's are internal)girls use that to your advantage against a bully/some person sexually harassing you ;).Menstruation is an indication of a girl becoming a woman(and preparing the body for parenthood as women are the ones who give birth). Last but not least, respect women!
I don't understand why doctors always saying listen to your body!!, whe u barely listen to us????😔😔😔 glad u find out❤🙋
Why am I watching this I dont even have a boyfriend and im single since birth 😆
How old are you
Same😂
I feel like the women that feel nothing at all though no matter who they're with are the under-spoken ones though.
CherryTomato r u referring to men who don't understand female bodies? Or women who are assexual
Mukama's Love asexual is lack of arousal, not sexual pleasure
True 👏🏻👏🏻
Nothing is quite better than such a pain. Feeling nothing is more a psychologically thing not physical especially of you can orgasm by yourself
I think pain is worse than feeling nothing 🤷🏻♀️
The visuals are amazing!
When she described this pain, I literally went "oh my god, this is me. I feel the exact same way." I've been going to the doctor for years and they just keep changing my birth control or tell me to take pain killers. My friends even thought I was a-sexual after I started avoiding sex.
sometimes, friends can be so wrong...
Hey, can I know more bout your situation? I have endo too like the woman in the video. On medications to shrink it for years now.
I really need someone to tell me some solutions to painful sex if they're facing the same thing.
For me I tried having sex with different guys, but still there's this pain and discomfort, I don't think its Endo cause I've gotten pregnant before but I can't explain it, like I'm enjoying every thing else and then penetration for me is like, so painful like I'm having sex for the first time over and over
I went through all of this as well. But it took an emergency call out on new years eve 2009 as I woke up with pain from my neck to down to the tops of my legs. The pain radiated that much I couldn't pin point where it was coming from. Paramedics gave me 3 shots of morphine to bring the pain down to bearable levels. Took 10 months thereafter to finally get an operation to remove two 5 cm blood clots, one on each ovary, multiple smaller ones, and they also found that pretty much all of my ovaries are scarred from previous blood clots that eventually ripped off by themselves. I cannot have children due to endometriosis, which in my eyes, is no where near taken as seriously as I'd like it to be. The whole time I was pretty much fighting with the gyneacologist, who was a man, to get something done about it.
From all I went through, I really now do feel men should not be gyneacologists as they have Zero idea how it feels to be a woman, and the crap we have to go through during a lifetime...
I'm so sorry you've had such an awful time, my current gynaecologist is male and really good, judging by the way he fiddles with his wedding ring when I talk about pain his wife has had similar problems.
I agree, a lot of men think since they know the biological facts of a woman’s body that they make good gynaecologists, and while there are some great ones for a lot of them experiencing it makes a world of difference, you can always count on a female gynaecologist to react when you mention sex feels like a knife twisted up your vagina.
Oh no im sorry that happened to you. I hope you have a good life though:). I am going through something kind of like(not really exactly but problems in the same area) it's just not as bad. I have yet to be diagnosed. Thank you for sharing your story. :)
think about suing sound like you have a good case
I'm so sorry...
I'm 40...have had serious overall pain, fatigue, cramping, headaches, & more, and pain during sex (the main reason why I've only had only 1 relationship, have been single for more than 10 years). I've been so sick that I had to decide early on that I could not have children because I would not be able to take care of them. Many doctors dismissed me and my pain....until now. And I had to lie to get their attention...I told them I was trying for a baby and it was not happening; ONLY then did they take me seriously and I was finally diagnosed with endo. How messed up is that?
its objectification, you're being reduced to your biological purpose.
Actually I've been to 2 male and 2 female doctors - which makes it even more of a topic we need to be talking about and raise awareness on!
I am so sorry. I hope you are getting better now 🙂
I'm childfree anyway but I'm thinking of going down the 'can't get pregnant' route. I'm 21 now but maybe when I'm a bit older, I hope my condition hasn't worsened by then.
oh God...hope you are better now!
God bless you and your life🙏❤.
I feel so bad for people who had to go through this.
I love this and I love that she highlighted that some doctors are reluctant to listen to you about your own body.
Coincidence the channel is called BBC
SUCH AN UNDERRATED COMMENT
I didn't get this.... please explain 😅
quaint fairy idk if you really want to know
Mocha v
Yassss tell me please
Big black rooster😬😬
I'm welling up with tears. I too have endometriosis, an important thing in a woman's life, and I can't do it properly.. The frustration of it all, not just the sex. I just want to be taken seriously. I've been on the pill for over a year and it hasn't done anything regarding the pain. It feels good knowing that someone can say out loud the words that have been trapped in my head, thankyou x
Laparoscopic procedure can help ease the pain
luthando Makgatho we know that procedure can help..but it’s a matter of doctors willing to investigate in the first place,ive been dealing with endometriosis since I was fifteen..I am now nineteen and doctors still refuse to give me the procedure because they don’t believe me and make out the pain isn’t real..just pop a few pills and we’re sent on our way....
There seriously needs to be more awareness spread about this disease..
It does take a minute to get diagnosed so I understand. More especially if you are still in your teenage years. Trust me I've been there.
Hey, could u share with me more on ur current condition? I have endo n on Visanne for 3 years now. It did shrink them, but I'm hell scared of future sex after marriage. I just wanna know how to solve this before I got married... I'm so hopeless right now.
💛
I'm happy her husband was so sweet.
This made me cry btw.
Why your hubby fuckd u hardly or wt
It absolutely disgusts me when I hear about doctors like this. I would say to anybody who has a doctor that is not willing to investigate any health issues they bring in, seemingly big or small, to keep looking until you find one that does. There are definitely some great ones out there and your health is far too important to be settling with a GP that doesn't respect that.
Thanks to this wonderful woman for sharing her story, I'm sure it will touch many in a multitude of ways.
who else could feel the pain in these pictures
BROOO THE FRUITS WITH GLASS SHARDS AND THE JELLY THAT WAS STABBED WITH A KNIFE HURT ME
😹😹😹
this is actually deep.
id suggest you stop looking at the comments and just watch the whole video.
Your husband is very supportive and AWESOME 💪💪
You go girlllll💪✌
Yours too
Can I be honest?
I'm a scared virgin now.
Same :(
Same
Same
No, don't worry. It doesn't hurt as much as she says. Probably, everyone has different sensitivity. I never felt pain, even the first time 😊😜
😍😍❤❤ me to u
The fact that the doctor brushed her off until she mentioned fertility is absolutely abhorrent
Endometriosis is really sever , I've heard cases in which a women feels like Naplam being dropped inside her ....... People need to be made more aware of it at least 10% of the population (same amount of diabetes suffers) suffers from it and sometimes its not even properly diagnosed .......
Syed Abdul Wasay so people that didn't have that disease can have sex without feeling any pain?( the woman)
Noah Sebastian so people that do have painful sex know that there might be something wrong with their bodies. I was told in school that sex can hurt, so not knowing there might be a disease causing it would possibly have me just ignore it and think of it as normal or stop having sex.
Also so people that might have sex with people that have endometriosis can understand that certain things are not going to be possible and that they have pay very close attention to their partner and their partners's bodylanguage.
Helcolina Plasticine some woman said sex hurts and it has nothing to do with the disease . Its just because they're are new to sex. But im still confuse and scared to have sex thinking my partner might get hurt. what if it hurts them but they didn't know they have endometriosis
Noah Sebastian in the first case: its not a bad thing to go to a doctor and have it checked, even if it turns out to be nothing or harmless. Ignoring signals your body gives you however can have fatal consequences.
Secondly: you should absolutely always pay attention to your partner while having sex. It doesnt take a genius to recognise someone not enjoying something, let alone hurting. When in doubt: ask them directly. However if you and your partner do find out about anything like this disease you can recognise signs even more easily because you know what to look for specifically.
It took me 6 years to get a diagnosis for vulvodynia(nerve pain in vulva), most of the time you are the ONLY advocate for your health
Can't relate cause I'm a virgin😂😂😐why am I watching this?? Maybe I'm learning, thanks I guess
uh oh we have a virgin on the loose!!!
just joking
DeeDee Nicole 123 Me too😅 ...learning.
Whats the for logic lol, thats like saying you can't watch a vid about dogs if you dont own any dogs
Isek Yeah right! You have got a point. ...I am watching for knowing this thing a little better.
I hope whoever goes through this gets help of some sort.
3:26 Well if its in your head you can still feel it so actually there is a problem.
Isaac Wood with mental illnesses such as anxiety they often portray physical symptoms. Unfortunately doctors often immediately go to this when they are not sure.
Your husband sounds amazing and so incredibly understanding!!!!
And yours baby
Team virgin forever 😎👍
Lame
I can really relate to this. For my first two years of having sex I was always in so much pain.
I remember my first relationship..it took us 3 attempts to have sex because it hurt so mucv. I told him that I was in pain..and all he said was "well that's how it is when you haven't had sex that often". I've had sex before with another guy and it also hurt like shit..so I just thought that's how sex is. I tried telling him a couple more times but he really made me believe that it was my fault and that I'll get used to it at some point.
Around 1,5 years later I met a guy who was really really gentle to me..and that was the first time in my life when sex actually felt good. It was still hurting sometimes but a lot less than it used to.
I could never understand why my friends talked about how amazing sex was, and how they're doing it almost every day of the week with their bfs. I always needed at least 4 days to recover from the pain between my legs until I could bear it again..
I was so happy to meet that guy who showed me that sex CAN be great and that it's not my fault.
keep him. your current bf must be deeply in love with you to take care of you so much
@@dindaseptiara5393 we're not together anymore sadly. I've never loved a person so much but sadly it wasn't ment to be. It's been over 2 years now so I'm ready to move on. I still look back very fondly at the relationship we had and the time we spent together
WHY did he broke up with you? Thats terrible
@@nelyintheaction5718 he lived in a different country. I actually met him while I was travelling there. We spend 7 wonderful months together but eventually I had to go home because my visum ended. We tried to make it work but long distance relationships are hard..especially when he literally lives at the other side of the planet. He met a girl there and they've been together since then.
It still hurt like shit and I still miss him sometimes..but it's been a long time now
Leahlein x I Hope you find a gentle man who is caring ❤️
Sometimes i wonder , why only women have to face so much pain in their lives , when they're teenagers , they've to face period pain after that we've to face this pain of loosing our virginity after that we've to face labor pain , which is the second most painful thing ... And except this women have to face gender discrimination, body shaming, and rapes etc etc... Life of a women is not easy
@@josephemerson2846 nothing in the bible makes sense honestly. The bible says that earth is flath and it's 6000 years old only. I wonder how people can believe this shit 😂
Life sucks for everyone my friend
"You don't ever have to just get on with it, how do you think I feel now I've hurt you, that kills me" This husband is the best that came in her life
i thought it was just like “ouch” but glass shattering? i-
I feel it's even worse than simple pain, because it's a mental pain too. Just impossible to describe how horrible it is.
It’s not that bad but it hurts to a point that you want to throw up haha probably just me
Mathilde Longchamps yoooo are you for real???? Dude wow- oh my word. Dang I’m sorry that happens to you
@maypaki alam your right! It’s so painful I cried!
@@anu7111 did you also have painful sx?😰
It took me there attempts to loose my virginity Every time I say it's paining my husband gave me time and instead of rushing to do that he made me more comfortable and loved me so much . but believe me my husband was very gentle in that.. there was so much of pain and bleeding.. I was okay after three days of my first time.. but I loved it ..I love my husband..
is it true sex cause bleeding ..i mean first sex
I want a husband like this😞 how can love me and cared for me always😔but i cant cause i have a anbeutifull country where boys r too toooo tooooooo toooo much there face body , heard everything is bad 😔😭
I know i cant get him in my life , i alway love him if im die so what i just loveing him his fb name is: Riyan Abdulgani/ Riyan Abdul Gani (i think☺) and my big bro delete my fb and i just have utube and imo😔but i love him forever
@maypaki alam you need to go to a mental hospital
@maypaki alam i think you are a lunatic
THIS! IS! HOW! REAL! MEN! SHOULD! ACT!
I'm a virgin and I think imma stay so...😕
Hobi is a jellyfish cuz he got no bones Hobi same I‘m so scared
I'ma stay one too.
Hobi tf u doin here
but ain't we the same ones who read fanfics like Blood Ink & Private Teacher? 😂
@@jeongxxhyun3699 excuse me!? I was reading one before coming here.
HOLY CRAP!
Knowing im not alone is the most empowering thing. I love this. Thank you.
Me and my boyfriend did for the first time and it hurt so much while he was entering after a few thrusts I asked him to stop since it hurt. We respected me and my worries enough to stop and for the rest of the time we were together we walked together and joked around about animals
Wow now u OK
Try with lubricant
Kayla Schregardus We weren't able to get any but yeah that would've been better, I think I'm gay now tho so......😂🤦♀️
@@moonlightbabe7918 the vagina is actually usually just pleasurable to the male, its also the passageway for the baby. The clitoris is werhe the most nerve endings are, it needs foreplay. Were not taught about it though, were always taught sex is penis inside vagina, which is silly cause the clitoris is what needs to be stimulated to orgasm. That's why lesbian couples have a higher rate of orgasms, theres no penis involved going into a a vagina
@@kaylaschregardus4062 but fingers and fist.
Now all of a sudden all are virgins here🤣
And may be daily getting sex more than three times with different men.
Yea, virgins poppin up!
Props to her husband
😂😂😂 to express more.
The fact that being humane n sensitive is considered being decent for a guy but very liberally expected out of every women is a sign of dysfunction in society..
This video really captured what it’s like to deal with painful reproductive diseases and the very challenging experiences we as women face. I was diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis in 2015, it took 6 years to diagnose and most health care professionals just told me I was normal all those years before. It can be extremely painful and life changing. I myself have dealt with it for 10 years, and half that time I have been disabled and unable to work. Additionally, no doctor has ever helped me to get disability, though I’ve tried. One particular UCI social worker told me that I wouldn’t be given disability because what I have isn’t considered a disability, but a reproductive disorder.
I have almost the exact same symptoms and went through hell with doctors telling me it’s psychosomatic, running a million tests and nothing is positive. I finally had an amazing obgyn and I’m starting to get better. It’s a slow road. Bless you and I hope you are able to get the treatments you need. 💕🦋
Before even watching the end of this video, Im going to assume she's got endometriosis. Most Doctor's will glance over this being a possible reason as to why a women would be feeling pain.
She's so lucky that she has a partner that cares about her so deeply.
Such a good caring guy, jeez everyone deserves that type of respect
More stories like this need to be shared so women can be aware that some period symptoms that people say to just get over is actually not normal and okay to be dealing with regularly
I feel like getting the diagnosis for Endometriosis would be so much quicker going private
In fact anything is quicker going private
Simple fact is when you’re putting your money on the table doctors start to take you serious and get you results quicker
As a girl who's never held a guy's hand, i vow to stay asexual my whole life.
Actually, i am.
Like same I never feel attraction towards any guy or girl I dont even have crush and I'm 19 so I think I'm an asexual.
@@wa6342 you should research about it more, because u might be aromantic or just asexual. It's something that should be widely discussed just like other sexual orientations. I'm also very loathful towards sex
Samee
@@wa6342 that's called aromantic not asexual. Or you might be both.
I’m glad more attention is being brought to this. It’s so hard living with this and to have people not believe you. I’ve had laparoscopic surgery and they still don’t know what’s wrong. I’m sorry for the pain this woman had to go through because I’ve been there. We shouldn’t have to suffer in silence and told to “just relax”.
'What painful sex feels like'
I'm guessing painful?
Lizzie Cook excellent description
Speech 100
Lizzie Cook sis I get your comment
but it's the worst feeling ever.
This video is so A E S T H E T I C
Really amazing that you shared this. It is so incredibly hard to be open about not being able to have sex the way society thinks is ‘normal’ sex. And yeah the husband seems nice but why are all the comments about him...? This woman has gone through so much shit and she just amazingly shared her story to hundreds of thousands of people. Thank you 💜💜💜
Olivia Harris I agree-the husband is great, but it’s interesting that there is so much fanfare for a man being a good human being and doing something any decent person should do (and unfortunately, many wouldn’t). Not to discredit him at all. But she endured a lot before figuring out what was going on, including being willing to have sex despite the excruciating pain because she wanted to be a good partner, which is not what should be expected of a person.
☹️😢Believe in women, but women, we must first believe in ourselves
Her husband sounds like my imaginary boyfriend 🥺❤️he's a real keeper
I love how lovely she is expressing herself and how she is telling her story, we need to speak out how we feel or what we feel honestly, and this may not happen to all of us because everyone have diferente bodies but we most always speak how we feel
Get insurance,go private you won't regret it
I can say from experience as a woman it's become very common within the NHS for doctors to ignore women or sat it's just in our head.
There's still a long way to go with getting the voices of women respected and valued in that area of society.
You'll be treated much better in the private sector.
Ruthy Bap exactly, women like this try to find sexism in everything.
Sorry but that is a terrible thing to say to make out like it is sexism. As a man I have had the exact same experience with doctors being dismissive when they can't diagnose it, they very quickly make out like it is just in your head regardless of gender.
Also no I have private and they still treated me like shit
Prívate didn't change anything
not just the NHS, I would say its unfortunately common around the world. Our experience of pain isn't validated.
Im so sad for her, and im happy that her husband is so caring and loving :) but girls, i know how important sex live is, but if you’re experiencing the same condition as her, dont be down, yes in marriage sex live is important, BUT it doesnt have to be just sex, you can do anything else, love doesnt have to just surround sex it consists if understanding, tolerance, affection, and care, so if the both you can fulfill this i think its enough, and i seems like he loves you so much so im v happy for u☺️❤️❤️
The fact that being humane n sensitive is considered being decent for a guy but very liberally expected out of every women is a sign of dysfunction in society..
And on some days, women can just wear sexy lingerie to bed. Does not need to have sex everyday. Men are sometimes just satisfied that you wear sexy lingerie to satisfy his eyes. And remember to include kissing and cuddling.
I feel like I felt her pain through this, the different visuals literally made me feel like I was going through her experience even though I've never had sex before and am a virgin. This is a sad and beautiful story. It is devistating to hear what you had to go through. I can't even imagine what it must have been like. Your husband sounds amazing though the fact that he was so caring and thoughtful. This brought me to tears.
I've never related to something to much. Holy shit. Thank you so, so much for this. I've always been way too afraid to talk to my doctor about it and have always just...dealt with it. Or tried to anyway. It's miserable.
It really is...it feels good to know, that there is other people who understand
I feel and felt the same way, not just with my PCOS but my other medical issues. You really start to go, it has to just be my mind....but its not your body is screaming at you and you have to believe it. I wish the Doctors would at times, I wish it wasn't a fight with ever last thing. Thats not even counting on the fight you get from your insurance.
That bitter laughter at 2:04, it brought tears to my eyes
the husband is so understanding i love it thats exactly what she needs
And yours
Wow! This is going to help a lot of women. There is a long history of women not being believed in health care settings. Instead, they're diagnosed as hysterical.
The fact that the doctor gave her ibruprofen and didn't think anything was wrong until she mentioned not getting pregnant- it's as if he only cared about her issue when it came to her ability to carry a child, absolutely sickening. People with uteruses are more than wombs and male doctors (and all doctors for that matter) need to realize it. Her years of pain and suffering only came to a conclusion when her fertility was brought up. Says a lot.
GOD IS A MALE:
I just had a THEOLOGICAL DISCOVERY: God is indeed a MALE. The reasons are:
1.) If God is a female, she would never inflict women with painful intercourse. She would merely inflict them with infertility. Her empathy towards women's feelings will always prevail.
2.) It is known in history that men treat women as property. Therefore, if God inflicts a woman with primary vaginismus, vulvodynia, thick hymen dry vagina, vulvar vestubilitis, then her vagina is now the property of God. She's meant to remain celibate control to keep the population down. A female god will never treat anyone as property.
This explains why painful intercourse is MORE COMMON among females than males. Because God is a MALE and treats some women as his property to control the population.
Men can have sexual problems too but most of them are not physically painful to their penises. Vaginal strength is an acquired strength. Such strength can only happen if she is no longer a virgin. After she attained her vaginal strength, she can have intercourse without pain. It takes a strong vagina to accommodate a penis.
l am now an enlightened man.
Poor girl, She’s so tough! And her husband is amazing.
You're right! My husband is amazing!!
Finally some civil comments in the comment section... There is still hope for humanity after all...
i dont know why but the whole visual delivers me the pain that she has mentioned..
I had never felt this before, but now that I’ve had my daughter I’m often in pain after sex and it really sucks and the doctors literally tell you that there’s nothing they can do to help you.