Glad you brought up the fact that people are conscious of how they treat other people. They are not crazy!! They know EXACTLY what they are doing. Goes for both men and women! Check then and leave them alone....period
How I see it if a woman disrespects you, she's intentionally trying to sabatage the relationship because she's either bored, lost attraction, or is crushing on someone else and so she's hoping that you'll end things so that she can play the victim while making you seem like the villain.
This is a 100% true i had this at the company i work at the woman on the same location as me is leading another team but she got mad when i told her to not stand in front of the stairs cause she was blocking it or put boxes there and now a lot of people(clients) had issues with coming there. - She told me to "stfu" so i didn't respond and when we had a lunchbreak she tried to apologize i just walked off and did ask the managing director if i could lead another team on another location and today was my first day there. - As a man the older you get the less you're gonna tolerate just walk away.
When a woman says something like that or tries to subtle or not subtly disrespect me or my masculinity I stick to facts. They get emotional but we as men stand strong. They follow and calm down
Whenever anyone asks me what values I look for in a woman, among my top is respect. I would take respect over love any day. YET☝️anotha great car video! Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
Another excellent video. Respect is utmost in the workplace. They know what they are doing or saying to you; some are even aware that you aren’t going to risk your job by putting them in check. It’s your job as a man to take them out of that comfort zone. If not immediately, that later that day in the parking lot. Whatever it takes.
Something about you - you always upload right when I need it. Once I got into a serious relationship, I fell out of my masculine frame hard, gave up all the teachings I listened to and watched and read for the past couple of years and paid the price. I thought “well that was for the single life”. I thought “well, we live in 2024, equal rights.” All sorts of crazy disrespect was tolerated by me cause I thought I could look past it. Made me snappy, insecure, anxiety filled and weak. Nope. Now with experience under my belt, I’m moving forward on my own terms. Thank you Rom.
Finally made the decision to do so and not only did she still not get it she had the nerve to email me trying to end something that never started. Gets tiring saying the same stuff over and over again
Had this talk with a homie of mines, it was stressful of how much excuses he was willing to stay with this girl, to the point where he disrespected me and told me I don’t understand relationships smh.
Thanks, Unc! i really, really appreciate you for covering this topic again because it's very very UNDERRATED topic for a while now that nobody address anymore respect over love over everything cause "Without respect, I reject!" and I will hope you'll continue to do more in the future..
The 1st time disrespect is shown, a person shows that you aren’t valued/respected enough by them. When you get tried it’s like a charge feeling negative yet it’s a charge and false sense of power/control thinking they can get away with it.
What you said about getting joint custody is spot on. My ex thought because she had my seed Id deal with her disrespect and shed get custody of my son. I wasnt raised to tolerate that sort of behavior. My exes Father on the other hand stayed with and enabled her toxic Mother for the kids. Men need to protect themselves if theyre going to have kids. Have proof prepared that youre active in your child's life. File for 50/50 IMMEDIATELY. I spent thousands of dollars but secured 50/50 custody. Now its-BLOCK IGNORE DELETE. Kind of a tangent but men need to know this. And like Rom says only have a child with a woman you could coparent with You can do absolutely nothing with a disrespectful woman. Women will disrespect as a test, do that they feel safe around you. But you will know when its malicious.
My BM disrespected my in way she never even remotely done before. It was due to her own personal life and she took it out on me. Forgave her because I had to but changed the nature of our relationship going forward. It’s business and about the kid only. I checked that immediately and haven’t had an issue since 🤷🏾♂️
Thank you rom !! You just saved me years of the same old things. This channel is worth its weight in gold . Appreciate you as an OG I never had. Peace and Blessings my brother 🫡
Real talk, never put up with any disrespect I don't care how fine the woman is which I've seen some guys allow that cause of how the woman looks but I don't give a damn about that disrespect will not be tolerated this way.
😂Mann the last girl i had to do a hard cutoff with was in march. The disrespect stemmed from how a guy like me, her most ideal physical type, didn't meet any of her financial "standards" yet still got the 🐱 quicker than almost every man before me. & The Best part is she was throwing it at me lol. Many times these women are still working through past relationship trauma and expect you to be their emotional punching bag, this can cause extreme self confidence issues and self identity issues. Some of these girls are so damaged that when things are going too well, all they know is self sabotage and toxicity. This was my case, on top of egotistical tendencies she had. The disrespect wouldn't stop, so I said✂️and cut my losses w her. She felt what it's like to drive away/lose a good man. Gotta get good at reading these girls, cause some of them are master manipulators & actresses.
bro this is facts bro. I left jobs,women,Etc because of disrespect or lack of respect per say lol. I had to walk away because I didn’t want any jail time for over reacting smh 🤦🏾♂️ and going off on one of them.
If you allow woman to disrespect you, and you’re a weak person to prevent this keep your emotions in check. There’s nothing wrong with hug and kissing and loving your woman, but don’t do too much because she gonna see that weakness in you and try to take advantage of you.
Rule of thumb for me is let her initiate 90% of all romantic touch like hugging, kissing, cuddling, holding hands etc. Even though I genuinely like those things, unfortunately as men if we're the ones doing it first she'll view it as clingy and weak.
Crazy thing is they say they want it but when you do it, you are seen as weak. Doesn’t make sense. However, that’s how they are. Can’t listen to what they say. It’s what they respond to.
@@LeeEverett1Bro, I love touching and other forms of affection. When I initiate holding hands and touching with the lady I am involved with, she kind of seems disconnected at times. However, I noticed when I don’t initiate with my her, she gets nervous and figgidy and then starts touching me, etc. I am going to start backing way off more and let her come to me with the affection. We went to a concert together about a week ago and a guy and his wife was sitting next to us. The guy’s wife was all over him, giving him a lap dance and other stuff. I playfully told her “take note” and she said “that’s not me”. However, I saw Twerking videos in her RUclips watch history earlier this year. So yeah, I’m pulling way back and letting her initiate more.
Rom "D.C." Wills 💯 on the disrespectful woman...zero tolerance 💯....I let the "Black Woman" know from the gate...if we don't respect each other, I'm gone...I stand on it for real.
Shit I had a situation at work where a female coworker called me out of my name in front of all our coworkers, should have said something right there to her about it cause the next year and a half of me working she would slip little passive aggressive comments toward me.
I’m not making any excuses but the reason I think My Woman disrespected Me was because she was having a bad day You see she went to see her father and he has always been hard on the girls 🤔 Your right, forget it 🤗
great topic. sometimes i have made excuses but not more. rom what do u what do you think about everyday interactions. lets say there is a security guard who opens the door for you or something or a worker who does a service for you , but some ppl just walk by like they aren't there. or dont' say thank u. are there some things you just let go? and say well unless they are actively trying to disrespect , pay it no mind.
Respect is like oxygen to men. I’ve personally let too many women get away with disrespect. Checking them is necessary.
Glad you brought up the fact that people are conscious of how they treat other people. They are not crazy!! They know EXACTLY what they are doing. Goes for both men and women! Check then and leave them alone....period
Yes...If you allow it they will continue to disrespect you...not me..."I will handle the situation" "West Philly Style".....
@@Rolling8687 I heard that bro 👌
Too many people not getting slapped that’s why. People are afraid of getting charged and getting a criminal record.
How I see it if a woman disrespects you, she's intentionally trying to sabatage the relationship because she's either bored, lost attraction, or is crushing on someone else and so she's hoping that you'll end things so that she can play the victim while making you seem like the villain.
I heard a guy say “conflict avoided is conflict multiplied.” If you don’t address it early it’ll only get worse
This is a 100% true i had this at the company i work at the woman on the same location as me is leading another team but she got mad when i told her to not stand in front of the stairs cause she was blocking it or put boxes there and now a lot of people(clients) had issues with coming there.
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She told me to "stfu" so i didn't respond and when we had a lunchbreak she tried to apologize i just walked off and did ask the managing director if i could lead another team on another location and today was my first day there.
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As a man the older you get the less you're gonna tolerate just walk away.
facts…. at this age in my life I’ve finally realized that folks know what they’re doing. don’t let nobody play with you.
When a woman says something like that or tries to subtle or not subtly disrespect me or my masculinity I stick to facts. They get emotional but we as men stand strong. They follow and calm down
Whether she's your woman or not, she better put some RESPECK on it!
Glad I found this page. People ARE CONSCIOUS of how THEY TREAT other people.
Whenever anyone asks me what values I look for in a woman, among my top is respect. I would take respect over love any day. YET☝️anotha great car video! Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
Yep you gotta roll and leave her behind and don't look back
People know what they can pull on specific people. Or atleast they think.
Facts, Brother Rom. More times than not, people know they are disrespecting you and just trying you. Check them quickly.
No disrespect ever!
Another excellent video.
Respect is utmost in the workplace. They know what they are doing or saying to you; some are even aware that you aren’t going to risk your job by putting them in check. It’s your job as a man to take them out of that comfort zone. If not immediately, that later that day in the parking lot. Whatever it takes.
Something about you - you always upload right when I need it.
Once I got into a serious relationship, I fell out of my masculine frame hard, gave up all the teachings I listened to and watched and read for the past couple of years and paid the price.
I thought “well that was for the single life”. I thought “well, we live in 2024, equal rights.”
All sorts of crazy disrespect was tolerated by me cause I thought I could look past it. Made me snappy, insecure, anxiety filled and weak.
Nope. Now with experience under my belt, I’m moving forward on my own terms.
Thank you Rom.
This is a very important message for every man to hear and apply!
Finally made the decision to do so and not only did she still not get it she had the nerve to email me trying to end something that never started. Gets tiring saying the same stuff over and over again
Had this talk with a homie of mines, it was stressful of how much excuses he was willing to stay with this girl, to the point where he disrespected me and told me I don’t understand relationships smh.
Thanks, Unc! i really, really appreciate you for covering this topic again because it's very very UNDERRATED topic for a while now that nobody address anymore respect over love over everything cause "Without respect, I reject!" and I will hope you'll continue to do more in the future..
Thanks for your support.
@@RomWillswhat if the man caused her to be disrespectful?
The 1st time disrespect is shown, a person shows that you aren’t valued/respected enough by them. When you get tried it’s like a charge feeling negative yet it’s a charge and false sense of power/control thinking they can get away with it.
What you said about getting joint custody is spot on. My ex thought because she had my seed Id deal with her disrespect and shed get custody of my son. I wasnt raised to tolerate that sort of behavior. My exes Father on the other hand stayed with and enabled her toxic Mother for the kids.
Men need to protect themselves if theyre going to have kids. Have proof prepared that youre active in your child's life. File for 50/50 IMMEDIATELY. I spent thousands of dollars but secured 50/50 custody. Now its-BLOCK IGNORE DELETE. Kind of a tangent but men need to know this. And like Rom says only have a child with a woman you could coparent with
You can do absolutely nothing with a disrespectful woman. Women will disrespect as a test, do that they feel safe around you. But you will know when its malicious.
B.I.D life - Block, Ignore, Delete. Facts!
My BM disrespected my in way she never even remotely done before. It was due to her own personal life and she took it out on me. Forgave her because I had to but changed the nature of our relationship going forward. It’s business and about the kid only. I checked that immediately and haven’t had an issue since 🤷🏾♂️
Thanks for video Uncle Rom. I'm going through this right now. Im out!
Well, I guess that’s it for her and I then. This one hit home.
Thank you rom !! You just saved me years of the same old things. This channel is worth its weight in gold . Appreciate you as an OG I never had. Peace and Blessings my brother 🫡
Salute Rom. This is a very important thing that all Men, especially Black Men need to hear..
Real talk, never put up with any disrespect I don't care how fine the woman is which I've seen some guys allow that cause of how the woman looks but I don't give a damn about that disrespect will not be tolerated this way.
Stand your ground fellas !!! Put some respek on my name. 😂Birdman voice)
😂Mann the last girl i had to do a hard cutoff with was in march. The disrespect stemmed from how a guy like me, her most ideal physical type, didn't meet any of her financial "standards" yet still got the 🐱 quicker than almost every man before me. & The Best part is she was throwing it at me lol.
Many times these women are still working through past relationship trauma and expect you to be their emotional punching bag, this can cause extreme self confidence issues and self identity issues. Some of these girls are so damaged that when things are going too well, all they know is self sabotage and toxicity. This was my case, on top of egotistical tendencies she had. The disrespect wouldn't stop, so I said✂️and cut my losses w her. She felt what it's like to drive away/lose a good man. Gotta get good at reading these girls, cause some of them are master manipulators & actresses.
Select men tolerate zero disrespect.
bro this is facts bro. I left jobs,women,Etc because of disrespect or lack of respect per say lol. I had to walk away because I didn’t want any jail time for over reacting smh 🤦🏾♂️ and going off on one of them.
If you allow woman to disrespect you, and you’re a weak person to prevent this keep your emotions in check. There’s nothing wrong with hug and kissing and loving your woman, but don’t do too much because she gonna see that weakness in you and try to take advantage of you.
Rule of thumb for me is let her initiate 90% of all romantic touch like hugging, kissing, cuddling, holding hands etc. Even though I genuinely like those things, unfortunately as men if we're the ones doing it first she'll view it as clingy and weak.
Crazy thing is they say they want it but when you do it, you are seen as weak. Doesn’t make sense. However, that’s how they are. Can’t listen to what they say. It’s what they respond to.
@@LeeEverett1Bro, I love touching and other forms of affection. When I initiate holding hands and touching with the lady I am involved with, she kind of seems disconnected at times. However, I noticed when I don’t initiate with my her, she gets nervous and figgidy and then starts touching me, etc.
I am going to start backing way off more and let her come to me with the affection. We went to a concert together about a week ago and a guy and his wife was sitting next to us. The guy’s wife was all over him, giving him a lap dance and other stuff. I playfully told her “take note” and she said “that’s not me”. However, I saw Twerking videos in her RUclips watch history earlier this year.
So yeah, I’m pulling way back and letting her initiate more.
Thanks for the information Mr.Rom
One of your best videos Uncle Rom
1:03 I fought for sole custody. She dropped her divorce filing quick, apologies to me and various family members
Kids always grow up and understand who was the problem…
Rom "D.C." Wills 💯 on the disrespectful woman...zero tolerance 💯....I let the "Black Woman" know from the gate...if we don't respect each other, I'm gone...I stand on it for real.
Grateful for your channel, you often highlight some really good life lessons. Keep it up🙌🏽👏🏽
I agree 💯💯💯 with don't allow woman to Disrespect you
I hear you Mr Ron Wills love it Big Brother
Good one Rom! Lots of good wisdom and truth in this one, for sure. Thanks man!✌️
💯💯💯💯. I would rather be by myself.
UNACCEPTABLE it only gets worse🤔
This is right on time 💯
This one was heavy Rom!!
Right on the money Rom. I enjoy the real 💯
Right on time.
Been on point ☝️
Needed to hear this today thank you 🙏
0% tolerance of disrespect 😤
You look great my Big brother
Shit I had a situation at work where a female coworker called me out of my name in front of all our coworkers, should have said something right there to her about it cause the next year and a half of me working she would slip little passive aggressive comments toward me.
these things help us grow and to reach that point were we can take it no longer.
I’m not making any excuses but the reason I think My Woman disrespected Me was because she was having a bad day You see she went to see her father and he has always been hard on the girls 🤔 Your right, forget it 🤗
100% true
great topic. sometimes i have made excuses but not more. rom what do u what do you think about everyday interactions. lets say there is a security guard who opens the door for you or something or a worker who does a service for you , but some ppl just walk by like they aren't there. or dont' say thank u. are there some things you just let go? and say well unless they are actively trying to disrespect , pay it no mind.
Facts
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