I said that to a guy once and he legitimately just went totally blank. Like it had genuinely never occurred to him that we talk about straight relationships in front of kids all the time. 😂
Homophobic people really forget that being straight,,,, is a sexuality. It’s not a sexuality under the queer umbrella but it is a sexuality. If a child can understand that mommy and daddy can love each other and get married and have a kid, and understand that a man and woman can love, they can understand sexuality at its absolute basic fundamentals.
I just think it's weird to transfer that to relationships. Like personally I believe no one but the nurse or a certified sex Ed teacher should be talking about sex with children, but what's wrong about talking about "my husband" or "my wife." Like obviously children know relationships exists 🙃
How do you work with someone like this??? 🤨 I legit thought she was taking about the cup being inappropriate so I was totally confused 🤣 then when she made that comment about your wife I was floored. The nerve of some people.
I was born in 87, and my Ma when reading to us as kids had this book called something like “free to be a family.” It’s for children so it explains in really basic terms how different families may look outside our own. I would have hoped by now it wouldn’t even be a thing. All that matters are the kids are happy and healthy.
@mschanggifted Good thing Mrs. White doesn't have to hear/see me and my trans wife picking up our kid(s) - she'd really have an aneurysm! I'm so appreciative that you're so patient with ignorant people cuz IDK if I could be if I had to deal with Mrs. White. Honestly, thank you ❤.
Please tell me that another teacher did not really say that to you. People are so insensitive. You should have told her that she should have said spouse as heterosexual relationships should not be promoted in schools. But you handled it the best way. I love the just go enjoy your cup.
I teach at a private alternative school. We act as a safe harbor for LGBTQIA students, staff, and faculty. It's wonderful seeing the students have mentors that understand them.
@@user-xx5ek8iw6pdoesn’t matter if they’re children they might be going through stuff feeling different emotions and feelings, it’s good that they have safe place for them to go and lean on chill tf out you don’t even know how old they are either it’s not like them being apart of a certain community will change the fact they’re kids god damn🤦♀️
@@user-xx5ek8iw6pim gay and im transgender. i was a kid once, for 17 years in fact, and i can assure you that i knew i was gay and trans within that time period. i would have liked to have been worried about just being a kid but because of hateful comments and lack of understanding within my surroundings, i had to be worried about my SAFETY and my LIFE on a regular basis. LGBT+ kids exist and it is important they know who to turn to for safety and peace of mind.
Be for real, you know kids can be gay too right? They ARE being kids by gushing over crushes and experiencing young love, doesn't make it any different just cause they're gay....not sure why homophobic people imidentally think of inappropriate stuff and sex when it comes to queer things, I mean asexuality IS apart of the LGBT+ community which completely disregards the whole "tHaTs InNaProPrAiTe To TaLk aBoUt" spiel@@user-xx5ek8iw6p
I’m so tired of homophobia. So so tired. I haven’t gone into teaching but I’m certified, I just don’t know if I’d be able to work in an environment that wouldn’t allow me to be myself. It’s exhausting
I think it really depends on your location! In my experience, richer areas have had muuuch much less homophobia out in the open, even had a few teachers that were lgbt and didn’t have to hide it. After some traumatic stuff, my family left the nice city to move to a smaller/poorer town, I’ve seen a TON of homophobia and racism since moving here:( never saw another lgbt teacher that could be open since, only the students seemed comfortable being “out”.😔
In corporate jobs it is just as bad. I was constantly asked when i was going to kick out my female roommate and start having babies with my husband. Little did they know that my "husband" is more of the roommate and my female roommate is my wife. And no one is going anywhere and no one is having kids. Funny thing is, those peoplenall got divorces and were the type to kick out their "difficult" teens or the old cat or dog for a kitten or puppy
@@StephanieGSMTell that to the people trying to censor the existence of LGBTQ people out of school libraries, or the organization pushing people to run for school board specifically for that purpose, or any number of other people that caused queer people endless grief. Even you cared enough to reply in a way that implied negative things about the commenter thinking it was going to make then kilyl bad rather than make you look desperate. But sure, nobody cares. Especially not you. We totally buy that.
@@StephanieGSM Then why ask me directly, repeatedly and say things to my face like "I'm going to hell" for being unmarried. Now, there is a reason I don't work with that company or those people anymore. But some people care enought to make others' lives difficult.
Bruh, I cannot get why some people think just casually mentioning your partner like that is inappropriate. It’d be inappropriate if you talk about sex, but you’re not you’re making normal conversation!
Because they are the kind of people who "don't care as long as I don't have to see it" and unfortunately that's not the way the world works. Imagine if you tell a straight person "you can be straight I don't care. I just don't want to see or hear about it" 🤔 so you're never allowed to mention your partner at all despite them being one of the biggest parts of your life? That's an unreasonable ask for anyone
I love how you don't make excuses for who you are or hide who you are. You just live your life. You let the Mrs Whites just roll off your back and don't let them get to you. Easygoing, confident and awesome lady.
Ms.Chang you are awesome! I love these videos you help me have a more positive attitude when dealing with others who may not be as kind. You always are so kind and graceful in your dealings with Ms.White. I can’t say I’d be that way, which is why I appreciate your post. You truly spread nothing but positivity and kindness! And get OG Chang that Stanley cup 😂🫶
As a young queer person who didn’t have any openly gay people in my life and stressed quite a bit about having a “normal” life, hearing a teacher like you mention your wife would have meant the world to me. To see another gay person in a loving relationship, with a job and a family just living life, as you say “just existing”, to then know it was possible for me too, would have brought young me so comfort. I spent so much time as a child/teen worrying I would never be able to lead a happy life because I’m queer and I hope that any young people out there who think the same find your videos so they can know being gay doesn’t mean you can’t have all the same things in life straight people have. Thank you for just existing 💜
I hope they find the wonderful Ms. Chang and I wish you had been exposed to such an incredible role model when you were younger. I have a nephew (on my ex husband's side) and when he came out, he was disowned by much of that side of his family and it breaks my heart to think about what they put him through. Then, it pisses me off to think what they put him through. But he has always known I, even after divorcing his uncle, was a safe place and I love him just as much as the day he was born and want nothing for him, but a healthy and happy relationship. All of the hate for the LGBTQ community sets me off and has probably given me high blood pressure. I'm so sick of bigots.
It’s hard to imagine in 2024 there might be people out there still making comments in real life about how being gay is inappropriate when they really mean it’s just inconvenient for their psyche The community needs good strong examples to live their life and teach their children not to talk bad about people who are different . So TY for bringing light
Yes! I had a gay teacher as a kid but she never said anything about it (and I don’t blame her) but idk I feel like if she had it would have probably helped me become open minded a lot sooner
I’m not gay but this is why I’m such an open and proud supporter of the LGBTQ+ community because it made me tear up to read this comment. While I don’t know what it’s like to be in your place, I think it’s my job to let you know that you are loved and accepted exactly as you are because I want my voice to be louder than the Mrs. Whites of the world.
lol I always wondered why these types of people mention something that nobody else is thinking. She talks about her spouse, why would you talking about yours, be any different🤦♀️Love both Mrs. Changs ❤❤
I saw an article about a teacher who got married, (straight couple) and they did a whole wedding at the school, even having students participate in the wedding. The news article was just showing it as a wholesome and nice little thing. And I agree it is wholesome, but I couldn’t help imagining how people would absolutely lose their shit if the couple had of been gay or lesbian. Honestly they’d probably receive death threats if a gay teacher had a wedding celebration with their class, but with a straight couple no one said a single peep. The double standard is just so sickening.
that's weird to me. As a kid, I'd have been weirded out be included in any of my teachers' weddings. I would be anxious about a teacher wanting my kid to be in their wedding.
This is truly unacceptable. Just the fact Mrs white did that. It doesn’t matter if you’re gay or not. What really matters is how you treat others. If you’re a good friend, and caring, that’s all that matters, not who or how you love. ❤️
My husband bought me a Stanley cup when my oldest was a baby, since my coffee was always cold. This was before they came in cute colors. My cup is UGLY, but there is no way I'm going to pay to replace it. 🤣
Love how Ms. Chang handled this situation. She stood up for herself and set a boundary while still being polite! She remained civil to her teacher friend while calmly letting her know she would not participate in a conversation like that!
I remember finding out my fifth grade teacher was gay. “Who’s that standing with you in the picture?” “Thats my husband!” “Your… husband?!😨” I was so shocked 😂
I won’t lie I actually like my lesbian teachers the best(most of the time) I had one a few years back who was the only teach I EVER had who would stop kids from using gay as an insult and would get mad when kids used the r slur. Love her she was great
As a straight person, I also agree with you. If it’s not appropriate to talk about gay marriage, then it’s not appropriate to talk about heterosexual marriage. They’re both the same thing and they have the exact same qualities. Sex and love amongst adults.
@@afaithg30I’m aware that my opinion is the unpopular one here, but they are, in fact, not the same and do not share the same qualities. Marriage is Biblical, and between a man and woman. The original vows were “husband and wife.” Time and loss of Christian value is what changed. While I have friends who happen to be gay, they do not feel inclined to broadcast to an audience of their students, their sexual preference. She has stated that she is aware her students watch her videos and talk about them often. This is an inappropriate topic. As for the “didn’t you just talk about your husband” comment.. this is a scientific, traditional, Christian value that is what a marriage was designed for. Whether you like it or not, america was founded on those very values. You can choose to not partake in Christianity, but if your claim is that Jesus doesn’t belong in schools, it’s easily refutable that neither does a lack thereof. As you can see from and uprise in constant crises, He is very much needed, yet we seem to find ways to push Him out, while praying for catastrophes to stop affecting our schools and wondering “where He is, if He’s real.” While allowing people to push Him out. Brush Him aside and devalue His word, then wonder why horrible things continue to happen. Maybe invite Him back into our lives and culture and stop setting Him aside for fear of the truth hurting feelings or to get likes on a comment? That being said, I have friends who are gay, I’m not perfect myself, and its not ok to throw stones, but this is also not something to be taught or highlighted on a channel she has said her students watch. The video is making a point to an audience, too young to understand the basic concepts of reproduction and that marriage was intended for that purpose. You may say “they’re not too young to practice acceptance” to which I would argue, they’re too young to be confused about an adult concept. Don’t lead people astray. Don’t encourage or enable confusion. Whether you see it or not, that’s what’s being done here. It is a confusion perpetrated by those who want to normalize unnatural concepts for their own personal need to feel normal. That isn’t done in traditional marriages. You see it in untraditional marriages for that very reason. It doesn’t fulfill a need or it wouldn’t matter who accepts it and who doesn’t. It wouldn’t even be a topic of conversation if untraditional marriage filled that void the way traditional does. It would be a non issue, hence, no need to discuss it.
This one time a girl in my school went OFF about how its wrong to be gay. A couple of us challenged her and asked why she thinks that. She flat out said it was in the Bible. My friend was rather familiar with the Bible so she asked her where exactly in the Bible this passage was and she couldn't tell us. Funny how that works.
it's 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 actually! and I can provide other ones if needed also. I don't have anything against lgbtq I'm just saying ur friend is correct that God is against it in the Bible
@@BriannaTalbert-jb5pc I'm of the opinion of you're going to run your mouth on a topic you better be able to back it up or shut it up. And to elaborate it wasn't ever about wether or not there was a passage in the Bible about it being "wrong" - not that it matters, just because it's in the Bible doesn't make it right - but that people like to claim things they believe to be morally wrong are stipulated as such in the Bible. But when you challenge these ridiculous theories they don't actually know if or where it actually is. They just worked off the assumption that it was.
That’s the problem around all religions. Beautiful books and meanings all get twisted to whatever a vast majority want it to be. People parrot that and a viscous cycle ensues. It’s sad how misconstrued everything gets and the damage that goes on to have. Round of applause to you guys for challenging that classmate of yours.
It's a combination of thinking same sex relationships are inherently more sexual and perverse + the belief that children are going to "catch the gay" just from learning about gay people. Like they think we're a contagious disease or something.
the mannerisms and the gray jacket thing are so accurate to a teacher who lowkey borderline bullied me in elementary school so these are always so funny. it's like my own little revenge to laugh at how she was like, it makes me happy
Honestly!! I'm substitute-teaching (about to be in school for an MAT next year) and as a gender diverse queer person, my mother is constantly like "ohh be careful. I wouldn't talk about your pronouns or your gender around the kids." Like hello??? If a kid called you a man, you'd correct them, no? It's the same dang thing! Just because it's different from you doesn't make it different entirely.
@@MyDreamIsAStoryI got my big half gallon jug for $2 on temu, & it’s the same one being sold for $30. It’s just a water bottle!! (It’s not the same brand of course, just a knock off)🫶🏼
I think any double wall vacuum flask will work just as well. I bought one at Fred's (remember Fred's?) that worked perfectly until I dropped it and broke the inner seal.... The one I use now is a Bubba. "Envy S." I didn't even buy it; it laid around in the kitchen for months, so I just started using it.
Exactly! People can talk all about they're opposite sex partner and noone bats an eye, but once it's same sex it's apparently all hush hush and preposterous!It really doesn't make any sense.
As a parent of a special needs child that had had no shortage of less than desirable educators, i couldn't care less if a good one was gay, straight or in between. Just teach my kid and be empathetic.
I had a similar perspective until I had a one female teacher who had a wife and openly talked about it even had a pride flag in her room. Now mind you of course she never forced the topic or pushed it but she would probably mention her wife ounce a week that. The pride flag was only ever talked about ounce and that was her showing us all the flags around her room. Great teacher totally changed my perspective and that’s how you can be a gay teacher in school and have everybody love you.
Every video like this stands up for my kids. Please understand how important this work is too. Thank you very much for having the courage and strength to be openly and unapologetically you. It really does mean the entire world to me. I know that there are safe older gay people doing this work to protect my teen babies from jerk comments. Thank you
Makes me wonder now since you implied all your kids are this way. Did you groom them into this way of life or did it happen naturally? Naturally is okay, but forcing it is not. Odds of all your kids being that way is highly suspicious.
@questions3983 sorry, no. When my 3 year old daughter said she would marry a girl, And at 17 she has a beautiful girlfriend. Some people are born this way and there's nothing wrong with it.
@@questions3983That’s not a good thing to assume. LGBTQ+ teens do not come from grooming or indoctrination. It’s not a decision they make. If the original commenter’s children were all LGBTQ+ (assuming it’s just their daughter they were referring to), it would more likely mean that they just had the room to figure that out and trusted their parent enough to tell them.
why is it any worse that she mentioned her wife? people talk about hetero relationships all the time, why can't a queer person talk about someone they love in the same way?
The sad part is that even if this did not happen to Mrs. Chang, it DOES happen and there are plenty of "Miss. White's" out there thinking they can tell everyone else how to live their lives. I really hope one day that everyone can start loving people as much as they hate when others do things differently than they do. Also, the disclaimer was 🙌 lol thank you for bringing some humor and smiles to the YT every day!
The people like the Miss White would have done it to a hetero couple too because it's all about them. They don't want to hear about anyone elses spouse.
While I don’t think we should be having special lessons about it, I think it is important to not censor it. As a religious person I don’t think it shouldn’t be promoted, but we have to learn these people exist.
Ms. Chang, you are a treasure to your students, their families, and us. I’m sorry if anyone speaks this way about your family. I’d love my kids to be in your class and hear all about your family and have you, an amazing example.
Like the probability of not having one set of same sex parents seriously 🤔. I too hope you make a short of the stealing of the cup! Skye sipping on it at the end would be a hoot 😂
A friend is a teacher (mostly of primary school) and has a very distinctive wedding ring. One of her students asked her if her husband gave it to her, and she replied, "I don't have a husband, I have a wife." The girl lit up and said, "Did you know I have a girlfriend!?" She was about 8/9ish. Just being around and talking about your relationships in the same way Ms White and co. do seems to make a whole world of difference to young LGBTQ+ kids. It shows them that there are adults just like them around 💜💜💜
Perfect way to demonstrate the double standard. Any talk about family and relationships is deemed fine until you bring up lgbtq, then its suddenly inappropriate?
THIS like why would they think its ok to say that they were actively rawdogging like no its not cute if you word it like "we're trying for a baby 🥰" its true implication is gross and really not what others need to know unless they specifically asked,,
MERCY. I, a woman, actually tried to keep in check how much I would talk about my husband bc I didn’t want the LGBTQ+ students/families to be weirded out but I just love how you handle making all of it normal.
The disclaimer of not having the funds to afford an official Stanley cup❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣
With the backwards "S" & "e" 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
I’m DEAD😂🤣😂🤣
Yes!!😂😂
Lol
I said that to a guy once and he legitimately just went totally blank. Like it had genuinely never occurred to him that we talk about straight relationships in front of kids all the time. 😂
😂 these people can be so clueless
Homophobic people really forget that being straight,,,, is a sexuality. It’s not a sexuality under the queer umbrella but it is a sexuality. If a child can understand that mommy and daddy can love each other and get married and have a kid, and understand that a man and woman can love, they can understand sexuality at its absolute basic fundamentals.
😂😂😂 the fake Stanley got me
I just think it's weird to transfer that to relationships. Like personally I believe no one but the nurse or a certified sex Ed teacher should be talking about sex with children, but what's wrong about talking about "my husband" or "my wife." Like obviously children know relationships exists 🙃
Does Ms. White think that not one of the children in the school have same-sex parents? 😂😂
This
How do you work with someone like this??? 🤨 I legit thought she was taking about the cup being inappropriate so I was totally confused 🤣 then when she made that comment about your wife I was floored. The nerve of some people.
Well clearly she knows two kids do!!! 😂😂😂 she just doesn’t care
I was born in 87, and my Ma when reading to us as kids had this book called something like “free to be a family.” It’s for children so it explains in really basic terms how different families may look outside our own. I would have hoped by now it wouldn’t even be a thing. All that matters are the kids are happy and healthy.
@mschanggifted Good thing Mrs. White doesn't have to hear/see me and my trans wife picking up our kid(s) - she'd really have an aneurysm! I'm so appreciative that you're so patient with ignorant people cuz IDK if I could be if I had to deal with Mrs. White. Honestly, thank you ❤.
Why are people so freaked out about mentioning identity. Gay is neither taught not contagious. You are wonderful Ms Chang! 😊❤️👍👍
Please tell me that another teacher did not really say that to you. People are so insensitive. You should have told her that she should have said spouse as heterosexual relationships should not be promoted in schools. But you handled it the best way. I love the just go enjoy your cup.
Ms White’s husband knew she needed a new lanyard because he watches Ms Chang’s videos and has seen the jingle jangle mileage going off the RAILS.
😅😂😅
LMAO
She was a wife
@@belenramirez3924they probably know that, but they meant the OTHER character she’s playing
@@belenramirez3924it’s a skit… they are referring to the character “Mrs. White”….
the "gay stuff" whisper almost made me spit my water out haha
Sounds like HR needs to have a quick chat with Ms White about discrimination and the federal laws that prohibit it. 🙄
I teach at a private alternative school. We act as a safe harbor for LGBTQIA students, staff, and faculty. It's wonderful seeing the students have mentors that understand them.
Understand? They are children. Kids. They just need to be kids, and that's it.
@@user-xx5ek8iw6pdoesn’t matter if they’re children they might be going through stuff feeling different emotions and feelings, it’s good that they have safe place for them to go and lean on chill tf out you don’t even know how old they are either it’s not like them being apart of a certain community will change the fact they’re kids god damn🤦♀️
@@user-xx5ek8iw6pim gay and im transgender. i was a kid once, for 17 years in fact, and i can assure you that i knew i was gay and trans within that time period. i would have liked to have been worried about just being a kid but because of hateful comments and lack of understanding within my surroundings, i had to be worried about my SAFETY and my LIFE on a regular basis. LGBT+ kids exist and it is important they know who to turn to for safety and peace of mind.
Be for real, you know kids can be gay too right? They ARE being kids by gushing over crushes and experiencing young love, doesn't make it any different just cause they're gay....not sure why homophobic people imidentally think of inappropriate stuff and sex when it comes to queer things, I mean asexuality IS apart of the LGBT+ community which completely disregards the whole "tHaTs InNaProPrAiTe To TaLk aBoUt" spiel@@user-xx5ek8iw6p
@@user-xx5ek8iw6pumm who said that they can’t be kids? Like hello💀
"Go enjoy your cup" is the best dismissal I've heard in a long time
That's definitely not what I would have said to her.
I’m so tired of homophobia. So so tired. I haven’t gone into teaching but I’m certified, I just don’t know if I’d be able to work in an environment that wouldn’t allow me to be myself. It’s exhausting
You’ll be fine🤣🤣🤣
@@haileejacob1995😐
I think it really depends on your location! In my experience, richer areas have had muuuch much less homophobia out in the open, even had a few teachers that were lgbt and didn’t have to hide it.
After some traumatic stuff, my family left the nice city to move to a smaller/poorer town, I’ve seen a TON of homophobia and racism since moving here:( never saw another lgbt teacher that could be open since, only the students seemed comfortable being “out”.😔
@@haileejacob1995I’m sure you’d know😂🤦♂️
then dont teach! boom 🤯!!!
In corporate jobs it is just as bad. I was constantly asked when i was going to kick out my female roommate and start having babies with my husband. Little did they know that my "husband" is more of the roommate and my female roommate is my wife. And no one is going anywhere and no one is having kids. Funny thing is, those peoplenall got divorces and were the type to kick out their "difficult" teens or the old cat or dog for a kitten or puppy
I think you think people care more than they actually do. We don't actually care.
@@StephanieGSMTell that to the people trying to censor the existence of LGBTQ people out of school libraries, or the organization pushing people to run for school board specifically for that purpose, or any number of other people that caused queer people endless grief.
Even you cared enough to reply in a way that implied negative things about the commenter thinking it was going to make then kilyl bad rather than make you look desperate.
But sure, nobody cares. Especially not you. We totally buy that.
@@StephanieGSM good for you I guess? Doesn’t change the reality of it.
@@StephanieGSMyou cared enough to comment
@@StephanieGSM Then why ask me directly, repeatedly and say things to my face like "I'm going to hell" for being unmarried. Now, there is a reason I don't work with that company or those people anymore. But some people care enought to make others' lives difficult.
Bruh, I cannot get why some people think just casually mentioning your partner like that is inappropriate. It’d be inappropriate if you talk about sex, but you’re not you’re making normal conversation!
Because they are the kind of people who "don't care as long as I don't have to see it" and unfortunately that's not the way the world works. Imagine if you tell a straight person "you can be straight I don't care. I just don't want to see or hear about it" 🤔 so you're never allowed to mention your partner at all despite them being one of the biggest parts of your life? That's an unreasonable ask for anyone
@@SmallSnailMarie I agree
Yes, so Ms White? Here are the rules: 1. Talk about family? 👍 2. Talk about sex positions?👎🏻 Hope that helps.
I love how you don't make excuses for who you are or hide who you are. You just live your life. You let the Mrs Whites just roll off your back and don't let them get to you. Easygoing, confident and awesome lady.
Does Mrs. White not think any kids may be gay? Like... its not uncommon.
Yes they genuinely think being gay isn’t a real thing people just happen to be they have insane conspiracies
Thanks for confirming I had ABSOLUTELY NO idea it was an off brand Stanley cup😂
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Ms.Chang you are awesome! I love these videos you help me have a more positive attitude when dealing with others who may not be as kind. You always are so kind and graceful in your dealings with Ms.White. I can’t say I’d be that way, which is why I appreciate your post. You truly spread nothing but positivity and kindness! And get OG Chang that Stanley cup 😂🫶
As a young queer person who didn’t have any openly gay people in my life and stressed quite a bit about having a “normal” life, hearing a teacher like you mention your wife would have meant the world to me. To see another gay person in a loving relationship, with a job and a family just living life, as you say “just existing”, to then know it was possible for me too, would have brought young me so comfort. I spent so much time as a child/teen worrying I would never be able to lead a happy life because I’m queer and I hope that any young people out there who think the same find your videos so they can know being gay doesn’t mean you can’t have all the same things in life straight people have. Thank you for just existing 💜
This 🥹
I hope they find the wonderful Ms. Chang and I wish you had been exposed to such an incredible role model when you were younger. I have a nephew (on my ex husband's side) and when he came out, he was disowned by much of that side of his family and it breaks my heart to think about what they put him through. Then, it pisses me off to think what they put him through. But he has always known I, even after divorcing his uncle, was a safe place and I love him just as much as the day he was born and want nothing for him, but a healthy and happy relationship.
All of the hate for the LGBTQ community sets me off and has probably given me high blood pressure. I'm so sick of bigots.
It’s hard to imagine in 2024 there might be people out there still making comments in real life about how being gay is inappropriate when they really mean it’s just inconvenient for their psyche
The community needs good strong examples to live their life and teach their children not to talk bad about people who are different .
So TY for bringing light
Yes! I had a gay teacher as a kid but she never said anything about it (and I don’t blame her) but idk I feel like if she had it would have probably helped me become open minded a lot sooner
I’m not gay but this is why I’m such an open and proud supporter of the LGBTQ+ community because it made me tear up to read this comment. While I don’t know what it’s like to be in your place, I think it’s my job to let you know that you are loved and accepted exactly as you are because I want my voice to be louder than the Mrs. Whites of the world.
Hahahaha love the appreciation for the doughnut lanyard, Miss Chang you’re too nice!
The we interrupt this film part was so funny lol
I fucking love this lady. Being subtle but honest with your students about who you are is important.
lol I always wondered why these types of people mention something that nobody else is thinking. She talks about her spouse, why would you talking about yours, be any different🤦♀️Love both Mrs. Changs ❤❤
School is exactly the place to talk about it. School is supposed to be the place where kids come together and learn how to coexist.
I saw an article about a teacher who got married, (straight couple) and they did a whole wedding at the school, even having students participate in the wedding. The news article was just showing it as a wholesome and nice little thing.
And I agree it is wholesome, but I couldn’t help imagining how people would absolutely lose their shit if the couple had of been gay or lesbian. Honestly they’d probably receive death threats if a gay teacher had a wedding celebration with their class, but with a straight couple no one said a single peep. The double standard is just so sickening.
yep. could see the "groomers!" comments from MILES away in that hypothetical :(
@@ashlynnwatt6151sadly you are correct...
that's weird to me. As a kid, I'd have been weirded out be included in any of my teachers' weddings. I would be anxious about a teacher wanting my kid to be in their wedding.
@@kyttynkross1121why tho? I’d love that, I always wanted to be a flower girl when I was a kid
This is truly unacceptable. Just the fact Mrs white did that. It doesn’t matter if you’re gay or not. What really matters is how you treat others. If you’re a good friend, and caring, that’s all that matters, not who or how you love. ❤️
The way Mrs. White whispers “gay stuff” is so accurate tho! 😳🤨
I hollered😂😂😂😂
i appreciate how you didnt try to start an argument but simply kept your calm
the disclaimer 😂😂 why are those cups $40?? my paycheck can barely handle the mcdonalds menu, no way i can get one of those things!!
This
My husband bought me a Stanley cup when my oldest was a baby, since my coffee was always cold. This was before they came in cute colors. My cup is UGLY, but there is no way I'm going to pay to replace it. 🤣
Just wait 6 months, you'll be able to buy them for 4.97 at an outlet store....
I found a nice knockoff for $12. It keeps my ice cold all day,
Be careful!!! There's lead in the official Stanley cups that can leak into the drinking part if you're not careful!!!
Love how Ms. Chang handled this situation. She stood up for herself and set a boundary while still being polite! She remained civil to her teacher friend while calmly letting her know she would not participate in a conversation like that!
I’ve known a few “Ms Whites” and this is spot on!! Love these videos.
I know a Mrs. White too
We *all* hated *her* no matter what situation she was just *the* worst
I remember finding out my fifth grade teacher was gay.
“Who’s that standing with you in the picture?”
“Thats my husband!”
“Your… husband?!😨”
I was so shocked 😂
It would have changed my life if I’d had just one teacher that had been allowed to be out back then. So glad some schools have changed in some states.
I won’t lie I actually like my lesbian teachers the best(most of the time) I had one a few years back who was the only teach I EVER had who would stop kids from using gay as an insult and would get mad when kids used the r slur. Love her she was great
What is the r slur???
As a gay student, I confirm this message
Same
As a straight person, I also agree with you. If it’s not appropriate to talk about gay marriage, then it’s not appropriate to talk about heterosexual marriage. They’re both the same thing and they have the exact same qualities. Sex and love amongst adults.
@@afaithg30 PREACH
@@afaithg30I’m aware that my opinion is the unpopular one here, but they are, in fact, not the same and do not share the same qualities. Marriage is Biblical, and between a man and woman. The original vows were “husband and wife.” Time and loss of Christian value is what changed. While I have friends who happen to be gay, they do not feel inclined to broadcast to an audience of their students, their sexual preference. She has stated that she is aware her students watch her videos and talk about them often. This is an inappropriate topic.
As for the “didn’t you just talk about your husband” comment.. this is a scientific, traditional, Christian value that is what a marriage was designed for. Whether you like it or not, america was founded on those very values. You can choose to not partake in Christianity, but if your claim is that Jesus doesn’t belong in schools, it’s easily refutable that neither does a lack thereof. As you can see from and uprise in constant crises, He is very much needed, yet we seem to find ways to push Him out, while praying for catastrophes to stop affecting our schools and wondering “where He is, if He’s real.” While allowing people to push Him out. Brush Him aside and devalue His word, then wonder why horrible things continue to happen. Maybe invite Him back into our lives and culture and stop setting Him aside for fear of the truth hurting feelings or to get likes on a comment?
That being said, I have friends who are gay, I’m not perfect myself, and its not ok to throw stones, but this is also not something to be taught or highlighted on a channel she has said her students watch. The video is making a point to an audience, too young to understand the basic concepts of reproduction and that marriage was intended for that purpose. You may say “they’re not too young to practice acceptance” to which I would argue, they’re too young to be confused about an adult concept.
Don’t lead people astray. Don’t encourage or enable confusion. Whether you see it or not, that’s what’s being done here. It is a confusion perpetrated by those who want to normalize unnatural concepts for their own personal need to feel normal. That isn’t done in traditional marriages. You see it in untraditional marriages for that very reason. It doesn’t fulfill a need or it wouldn’t matter who accepts it and who doesn’t. It wouldn’t even be a topic of conversation if untraditional marriage filled that void the way traditional does. It would be a non issue, hence, no need to discuss it.
@@lace1245 Thank you for this post!! It's hilarious! I'm still chuckling over "scientific, traditional, Christian value". So funny!
"Rules for thee but not for me" 🙄
*whispers* “gay stuff”
You are so even tempered and loving of your neighbor ❤
This one time a girl in my school went OFF about how its wrong to be gay. A couple of us challenged her and asked why she thinks that. She flat out said it was in the Bible. My friend was rather familiar with the Bible so she asked her where exactly in the Bible this passage was and she couldn't tell us. Funny how that works.
Exactly!!
Go read about sodom and gamorah
it's 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 actually! and I can provide other ones if needed also. I don't have anything against lgbtq I'm just saying ur friend is correct that God is against it in the Bible
@@BriannaTalbert-jb5pc I'm of the opinion of you're going to run your mouth on a topic you better be able to back it up or shut it up. And to elaborate it wasn't ever about wether or not there was a passage in the Bible about it being "wrong" - not that it matters, just because it's in the Bible doesn't make it right - but that people like to claim things they believe to be morally wrong are stipulated as such in the Bible. But when you challenge these ridiculous theories they don't actually know if or where it actually is. They just worked off the assumption that it was.
That’s the problem around all religions. Beautiful books and meanings all get twisted to whatever a vast majority want it to be. People parrot that and a viscous cycle ensues. It’s sad how misconstrued everything gets and the damage that goes on to have. Round of applause to you guys for challenging that classmate of yours.
Real Stanley’s have lead in them you dodged a bullet 😅
You handled her much nicer than I would have. I praise you for not cussing at her.
It's a combination of thinking same sex relationships are inherently more sexual and perverse + the belief that children are going to "catch the gay" just from learning about gay people. Like they think we're a contagious disease or something.
As someone who knew what LGBTQ+ was since 3rd grade I have gotten in trouble multiple times for talking about it in elementary school 💀
the mannerisms and the gray jacket thing are so accurate to a teacher who lowkey borderline bullied me in elementary school so these are always so funny. it's like my own little revenge to laugh at how she was like, it makes me happy
Ah good ole microaggressions. Classic.
People calling things they disagree with aggressive. Classic.
I had to watch this three times to get it lol 😂 I'm like what's wrong with her wanting to buy one for her wife ? Lol
Love LOVE the disclaimer 😂😂😂😂
“My husband..” 😊
“My wife-“
“SHUT UP! NOOOOOO”
As a mother to a gay son, this is the attitude that is causing us to currently be working on moving him out of this country.
Good
@@degenz2010you need help
I'm sorry for this 😞🙏
It is my school is filled with Stanley, even the teachers have Stanley’s😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The constant moving of the keys gets me everytime!😂🤣😂
We all know this woman😂
You are so gracious. It’s absurd to think that this really happens
Honestly!! I'm substitute-teaching (about to be in school for an MAT next year) and as a gender diverse queer person, my mother is constantly like "ohh be careful. I wouldn't talk about your pronouns or your gender around the kids." Like hello??? If a kid called you a man, you'd correct them, no? It's the same dang thing! Just because it's different from you doesn't make it different entirely.
Exactly
I think your mom may just be saying that because of recent laws and because of parents. She wants you to have job security.
The disclaimer of not having the funds to get a Stanley Cup is so real😂😂
Queer students rise up and steal Ms White's Stanley cup
🤣
yeeeeessssssssss
I would love to see Skye with the cup in a video 😂
No no no, stealing is wrong. But maybe it could use some colorful decoration 🏳️🌈
@@brightknight1965 hehehehe I’ll get the pride stickers
Not the fake stanly cup!❤❤😂😂
lmao simple modern (the stanley dupe) is a great brand! thats where i got my hydroflask dupe
I love it
@@mschanggiftedI use a yeti I found at TJ Maxx. I also have a 12.99 Peter Rabbit tumbler. Keeps my ice cold all day and then some.
@@MyDreamIsAStoryI got my big half gallon jug for $2 on temu, & it’s the same one being sold for $30. It’s just a water bottle!!
(It’s not the same brand of course, just a knock off)🫶🏼
I use a meokey, I love it. Totally leakproof, keeps ice a long time etc...
I think any double wall vacuum flask will work just as well. I bought one at Fred's (remember Fred's?) that worked perfectly until I dropped it and broke the inner seal.... The one I use now is a Bubba. "Envy S." I didn't even buy it; it laid around in the kitchen for months, so I just started using it.
Exactly! People can talk all about they're opposite sex partner and noone bats an eye, but once it's same sex it's apparently all hush hush and preposterous!It really doesn't make any sense.
As a parent of a special needs child that had had no shortage of less than desirable educators, i couldn't care less if a good one was gay, straight or in between. Just teach my kid and be empathetic.
I had a similar perspective until I had a one female teacher who had a wife and openly talked about it even had a pride flag in her room. Now mind you of course she never forced the topic or pushed it but she would probably mention her wife ounce a week that. The pride flag was only ever talked about ounce and that was her showing us all the flags around her room. Great teacher totally changed my perspective and that’s how you can be a gay teacher in school and have everybody love you.
Every video like this stands up for my kids. Please understand how important this work is too. Thank you very much for having the courage and strength to be openly and unapologetically you. It really does mean the entire world to me. I know that there are safe older gay people doing this work to protect my teen babies from jerk comments. Thank you
Makes me wonder now since you implied all your kids are this way. Did you groom them into this way of life or did it happen naturally? Naturally is okay, but forcing it is not. Odds of all your kids being that way is highly suspicious.
@questions3983 sorry, no. When my 3 year old daughter said she would marry a girl, And at 17 she has a beautiful girlfriend. Some people are born this way and there's nothing wrong with it.
@@questions3983That’s not a good thing to assume. LGBTQ+ teens do not come from grooming or indoctrination. It’s not a decision they make. If the original commenter’s children were all LGBTQ+ (assuming it’s just their daughter they were referring to), it would more likely mean that they just had the room to figure that out and trusted their parent enough to tell them.
I agree with miss white.
So a woman can talk about her husband but another woman can't talk about her wife? Interesting.
@@Cordieb yes, what’s interesting about that. It’s better not letting kids know about this.
@@yyc.rimasss why?
why is it any worse that she mentioned her wife? people talk about hetero relationships all the time, why can't a queer person talk about someone they love in the same way?
The sad part is that even if this did not happen to Mrs. Chang, it DOES happen and there are plenty of "Miss. White's" out there thinking they can tell everyone else how to live their lives.
I really hope one day that everyone can start loving people as much as they hate when others do things differently than they do.
Also, the disclaimer was 🙌 lol thank you for bringing some humor and smiles to the YT every day!
The people like the Miss White would have done it to a hetero couple too because it's all about them. They don't want to hear about anyone elses spouse.
@@questions3983 this is straight up not true.
I wish Id had a teacher half as kind hearted as you growing up.
I'd have told Ms. White where she could put that cup.
Mc chang says gay rights‼️‼️
I truly hope this didn't happen to you.
The disclaimer however had me laughing 😂😂.
It’s been years for me but definitely still happens
While I don’t think we should be having special lessons about it, I think it is important to not censor it. As a religious person I don’t think it shouldn’t be promoted, but we have to learn these people exist.
Of course Mrs. White would have a Stanley cup 😂
I love that u put her in her place
"wife"🤩 omg 💅 furity tutie
This is why im not out as a teacher at all 😭 (in Florida too)
I cannot imagine what it’s like to be a teacher in Florida. 😳
Im in Florida they just added the right to talk NOT teach but discuss lgbtq+ topics in school (im overjoyed)
Ms white “well if you ask me”
Actually, no one asked you 🤚🏼
"Yeah. Figures 🙄 go enjoy ur cup💅"
So iconic 😭😭
The audacity 😮 but did you get your wife a Stanley cup is the real question?!?
No
@@mschanggiftedthe lead thing is pretty concerning. I heard if you drop them, the lead can be exposed. Some people are claiming to have gotten ill.
Ms. Chang, you are a treasure to your students, their families, and us. I’m sorry if anyone speaks this way about your family. I’d love my kids to be in your class and hear all about your family and have you, an amazing example.
Like the probability of not having one set of same sex parents seriously 🤔. I too hope you make a short of the stealing of the cup! Skye sipping on it at the end would be a hoot 😂
A friend is a teacher (mostly of primary school) and has a very distinctive wedding ring. One of her students asked her if her husband gave it to her, and she replied, "I don't have a husband, I have a wife." The girl lit up and said, "Did you know I have a girlfriend!?" She was about 8/9ish. Just being around and talking about your relationships in the same way Ms White and co. do seems to make a whole world of difference to young LGBTQ+ kids. It shows them that there are adults just like them around 💜💜💜
Off topic, but your classroom is GIVING! I woulda loved to have you as a teacher! So aesthetic!! Omg!!!
Wow, thank you!
@@mschanggifted yesss you’re welcome 😍😜
Lol she whispers "gay stuff" like it's a naughty word haha. Terrible
Perfect way to demonstrate the double standard. Any talk about family and relationships is deemed fine until you bring up lgbtq, then its suddenly inappropriate?
Oof. Random straight white lady here... i know this is uncharitable, but I hope Ms White doesn't enjoy her stupid cup at all.
"My name is Skyler white, yo. My husband is waler white YO."
But seriously I love ur vids!!
"Go enjoy your cup..." is how imma tell people to go to Hell!
I love your humor ❤
The double standard is disgusting
As a student who was traumatized by the Ms. White's of the education system, I love this so much!
it’s crazy me that same-sex marriages are hush hush but my teacher used to openly tell us about how her and her husband were TRYING FOR A BABY😟
THIS
like why would they think its ok to say that they were actively rawdogging like
no its not cute if you word it like "we're trying for a baby 🥰" its true implication is gross and really not what others need to know unless they specifically asked,,
😂😂😂😂😂😂 on the Stanley I am 💀.
But on another note I can’t imagine how exhausting that is.
You are amazing in every way 😹😹😹
Let people be happy and be themselves and nobody else will tell you otherwise ❤❤❤
That is the most polite “Get the f! out of here” I have heard in a while😂😂😂
That disclaimer was comedy GOLD
Thank you so much for helping simpletons understand just how ignorant they are. ❤
You seem like someone would be amazing with doing ASMR your vibe is so relaxing and welcoming
I love the Stanley cup disclaimer 🤣
I love the disclaimer 😂😂
Ur my fav RUclipsr
It’s the keys dangling for me😂😂😂
OMG! The new Stanley design😆😆😆😂
MERCY. I, a woman, actually tried to keep in check how much I would talk about my husband bc I didn’t want the LGBTQ+ students/families to be weirded out but I just love how you handle making all of it normal.
I have the same cup as you! It’s not a Stanley it’s a simply modern cup it’s sooo cute!