Fake LIfe & Fake Friends in Lagos FT Lydia Balogun | Surviving Lagos Podcast S1E3

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @livingasayo
    @livingasayo 2 года назад +17

    Lydia's voice is so satisfying... Arrghhh

  • @SusanPwajok
    @SusanPwajok 2 года назад +54

    Also “Surviving Lagos” isn’t an interview !
    It’s just me talking to people about topics & also sharing my side too, in real time & real life, but with cameras.

    • @patrickrumbu2902
      @patrickrumbu2902 2 года назад +2

      I don't think you interrupted unnecessarily, won't call it interruptions sef but interjections. .you doing well..do not let a few observations true or not dim you
      Bleh Bleh Johnson! 😁

    • @sose9601
      @sose9601 2 года назад +3

      This is a very defensive comment.
      CEO's have a board of directors,to help them see through different lenses, likewise small and medium Scale business owners ask their trusted mentors.
      You in a public space and many voices are coming through
      Filter,go back to the drawing board and self improve.
      We are all a work in progress.

  • @ruthchindo8360
    @ruthchindo8360 2 года назад +14

    You’re so beautiful Susan, not trying to sound judgmental or something but this is a podcast, as the host or rather presenter please dress classy but decent! And when i say decent you don’t necessarily need to cover your entire body but your cleavages, it doesn’t need to be the center of attraction It’s going to cost nothing, this isn’t you influencing this is more of reality show. Plus Lydia killed it I’ve always liked her she sounds really mature, intelligent and reserved. My girl😊

  • @iretioluwacraig2939
    @iretioluwacraig2939 2 года назад +25

    Saw Lydia and clicked, she always speaks intelligently

  • @onlysamuel1
    @onlysamuel1 2 года назад +33

    Lydia obviously is an intelligent young woman and that's a fact or at least drawing conclusions from this episode. However I felt like the experiences she mentioned has a lot of holes making it difficult for the average person to understand. I get that she wants to be low-key and she doesn't want unnecessary drama but I feel like she could've presented her experiences in a more engaging manner. Overall, this episode was Amazing. A job well done to Susan as always!!👍👍

  • @productgirl
    @productgirl 2 года назад +22

    I understand gen z is wild n all, but the host needs to literally take a chill pill and collect her thoughts, the conversations feel very all over the place. side note: i see this podcast evolving to actually provide people with tips on how to "survive lagos" in different aspects other than just vibes. goodluck susan!

  • @stephiniedatubo2651
    @stephiniedatubo2651 Год назад +3

    First time watching and I have to say Lydia seems like that big sister everyone needs,I just love how calculated and articulate she is before she speaks. Bless her,Susan should do well and have her back on the podcast.

  • @iremiposiajayi122
    @iremiposiajayi122 2 года назад +19

    To be honest, I think we are all social climbers but to different degrees. Whether you are in the entertainment industry or in the corporate world, everyone is looking for the next promotion and the person that can take them there. Can't say you won't make strategic friendships and connections but at the same time, don't expect to use people and then dump them.

  • @Badge-34
    @Badge-34 2 года назад +17

    Lydia has grown over time. Growth is good on you 👍

  • @omtiam
    @omtiam 2 года назад +22

    I completely agree with being an only child thing! I'm an only child and definitely think I clung to friendships I shouldn't have because I wanted to feel close to others in a "sisterly" way. Also agree with Lydia that alottt of people don't know how to communicate. You would think because you're friends they would but nope....they don't. #FAKE

  • @uzomahelen2388
    @uzomahelen2388 2 года назад +12

    Suzy I think in your next podcast with another guest, try not to interrupt them allow them speak completely please Lydia got tired at some point but was just pretending to be cool 😎

  • @emmanuelororho7455
    @emmanuelororho7455 2 года назад +6

    Surely there's tons of room for improvement, but still I can't help but love the podcast. Susan is such a sweetheart. Lydia is also super amazing. Loved it !!

  • @victoriasilvanus7013
    @victoriasilvanus7013 Год назад +4

    This conversation was definitely interesting. Having a fake life and a fake friend would only keep you in circles and growth is such an important factor for living. Nice one on the show❤

  • @berryminion277
    @berryminion277 2 года назад +20

    Pls could u have Diana eneje on your show 🦄💗

  • @fregeneobemofe2327
    @fregeneobemofe2327 Год назад +3

    Lydia is a grown-ass woman and I like the way she talks and expresses herself, she is speaking out of her experience and I love that about her and she is in control of her words.

  • @TRU_NEXT
    @TRU_NEXT 2 года назад +30

    Allow her to talk, she is the guest, you keep interrupting her.

  • @thatgirlcalledama
    @thatgirlcalledama 2 года назад +12

    Feedback: it was really interesting to watch in the beginning but it was hard to continue with the interruptions, maybe you should allow your guests to finish speaking

  • @Ade_Oyin
    @Ade_Oyin 2 года назад +10

    I feel Lydia wasn’t ready for this type of topic because she is trying to be low key about herself generally. Susan is constantly trying to make bring her back to the main topic while she is talking about random things that doesn’t really relate.
    I wish Francis was talking on this topic, it would have been fun actually. Susan you did great actually, I just feel Lydia was just hiding and shying from the topic, probably because of backlash or something I guess.

  • @Dettyskin
    @Dettyskin 2 года назад +26

    The girls didn’t hate you they wanted to be you.. they want to proof to themselves that they can get who likes you 😂

  • @arat5388
    @arat5388 2 года назад +6

    this was sm fun to watch, Susan abeg keep it up it wasn't an interview, it's okay for you to talk your talk.. yess you'll get feedback from us and that's what will contribute to your growth! so just keep doing you! Lydia is an interesting personality 😂 this was so fun 😭

  • @jayliza26
    @jayliza26 2 года назад +9

    Lydia is so pretty 😭♥️

  • @preshous1143
    @preshous1143 2 года назад +9

    I think the guests should be prepared before coming,they should know the kind of questions dey are expecting and remove the ones dey can't answer......Lydia clearly is not the oversharing type and it's fine cos some people can be very secretive,as if Susan was forcing her to talk (this is not why we are here pls)

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee 2 года назад

      We're here to have some fun😂

  • @blessingokwuosa
    @blessingokwuosa 9 месяцев назад

    Loving this convo 😅
    It’s giving no stress ❤

  • @Unwashadow
    @Unwashadow 2 года назад +6

    Was so happy to watch this episode.
    We just need to be careful out there, Lagos is a jungle in fact everywhere.

  • @Dee1l33
    @Dee1l33 2 года назад +8

    Honestly didn’t think I’d like this podcast at first but now I’m convinced

  • @achikefaith620
    @achikefaith620 2 года назад +18

    This is a good podcast. But I think the host- should try to let her guests actually talk before adding hers or commenting on their stories

    • @amakaokeyy
      @amakaokeyy 2 года назад

      Same thing i was saying

  • @divinenwaokolo1219
    @divinenwaokolo1219 2 года назад +3

    Ah ahnnn, Big Susannnn. Going to restaurants without checking the prices. I want to be like you when I grow up👉🏻👈🏻

  • @o_lee_0133
    @o_lee_0133 10 месяцев назад

    Lydia speaks so well 👌🏽

  • @Hinieeee
    @Hinieeee 2 года назад +11

    Lydia needs to start posting on her RUclips channel 😭😭😭

  • @IjayLuvsYou
    @IjayLuvsYou 2 года назад +17

    God Loves you. He loves you so much that He came on earth as the person of Jesus Christ to die for your sins - the perfect sacrifice - and give you eternal life. Give your life to Him today + experience a flood of LOVE + LIGHT + PEACE in your Spirit. Say these words out loud: “O Lord God, I come to You in the Name of Jesus Christ. I believe with all my heart in Jesus Christ, Son of the living God. I believe He died for me, and God raised Him from the dead. I believe He’s alive today. I confess with my mouth that Jesus Christ is the Lord of my life from this day. Through Him and in His Name, I have eternal life; I’m born again. Thank you Lord, for saving my soul! I’m now a child of God. Halleluiah!”

  • @Missangelbabyy
    @Missangelbabyy 2 года назад +3

    Lydia was really shying away from the topic maybe to avoid being talked about on Twitter or dragged. I wish she was more open honestly. She was holding so much back

  • @ochukoawaritefe7924
    @ochukoawaritefe7924 2 года назад +2

    I’m just here for her voice tbh

  • @isaidwhatisaid4933
    @isaidwhatisaid4933 2 года назад +2

    9ja story no dey complete if you nor hear “I HAVE A FRIEND THAT….”

  • @chidimma_ej
    @chidimma_ej 2 года назад +4

    Lydia is so pretty and smart!!

  • @ogenglishchat9502
    @ogenglishchat9502 2 года назад +2

    I wasn't sure I was gonna enjoy this, but I did. Nice one!🙌🏿

  • @mercykike
    @mercykike 2 года назад +4

    Linda glasses for me 😍😍. So real and so raw nice

  • @nwochachioma7638
    @nwochachioma7638 2 года назад +30

    Lydia and Susan are 2 different types of persons... Lol, they kinda find it hard to flow in their conversations

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee 2 года назад +8

      Lol yhh Lydia has so much depth to her and she sees things on a deeper level/ from all perspectives. It's a little bit different for Susan.

    • @sharonisaac476
      @sharonisaac476 2 года назад +4

      I am thinking because Susan is still really young and hasn’t really grasped the concept of life, everything is a bit superficial for her at this level, give her time.

  • @miray8939
    @miray8939 2 года назад +4

    We need this podcast in apple podcast pleaseeeeee

  • @tundeoluakerele3349
    @tundeoluakerele3349 2 года назад +6

    Alot of y'all are mean sha 😂, talk your truth without being harsh na. Clearly Susan is just trying to be supportive to the discussion, it's not an interview but a podcast. I get she's not the guest but it's a podcast o

  • @Kaka.Dababy
    @Kaka.Dababy 2 года назад

    This is my second time watching this particular video
    I really need more......

  • @syndy3710
    @syndy3710 2 года назад +7

    Lydia is so pretty🥰

  • @fregeneobemofe2327
    @fregeneobemofe2327 Год назад

    I think I understand what she said when she said fought with the police, one time I was in school I was in the bathroom washing and a policeman just entered my house without even knocking, came out and saw him inside my room and was like who are you he said can't you see my uniform was so angry and told him to shoot when he treated to shoot was shouting while talking to him none of my neighbors came out they all locked their gate and stayed inside the other policemen can inside and was beginning me and apologize and left, thank God he no shoots ohh an so person da die for nth. Since then I learn to stay on my own and I don't have friends I have just one friend and we hardly even see.

  • @nnedinsochukwurah720
    @nnedinsochukwurah720 2 года назад +2

    It's Lydia's cute laughter for me 🥺😂

  • @P4SCH4L_004
    @P4SCH4L_004 2 года назад +4

    "Guess who I have"
    Sis, she's literally on your thumbnail

  • @Ese_oy
    @Ese_oy 2 года назад +2

    Great show!❤️
    Anticipating episode 4😍

  • @favz22
    @favz22 2 года назад +12

    This was really nice, also feel like Lydia was being shady at some points 😂

  • @ivyli7299
    @ivyli7299 2 года назад +3

    Lydia has an attention problem 😂😂😂, she’s sooo cute still

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 2 года назад +1

    Can’t wait.... Here for Lydia❤️

  • @levischolastica5024
    @levischolastica5024 2 года назад +3

    Let's be realistic life in lagos is just soooo different

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee 2 года назад

      It's insaneee

  • @encyclopaedia641
    @encyclopaedia641 2 года назад +6

    Pls bring Aji Anje on the show pls 😊

  • @emilysmith1062
    @emilysmith1062 2 года назад +5

    Susan say she still dey suffer lol 😂
    If I slap you eh 😂😂 you wey fresh

  • @diogoobidiaso
    @diogoobidiaso 2 года назад +16

    Lydia is giving us harlequin vibesss 😂😂😂

  • @maboduke
    @maboduke 2 года назад +3

    Loving this podcast so much!

  • @Enginerosemusic
    @Enginerosemusic 2 года назад

    The conversations in the interview is very personal

  • @luvjene7652
    @luvjene7652 2 года назад

    The interviewer is such a cute girl, great vibes

  • @miragbeke
    @miragbeke 2 года назад +2

    I love love Susan🌹This podcast was super great!

  • @fregeneobemofe2327
    @fregeneobemofe2327 Год назад +1

    The only influencers am following on Instagram, just make you think out of the box and very differently, am not saying other influencers are bad but I personally like her so don't come for me.

  • @abundanceozoemena812
    @abundanceozoemena812 Год назад

    Interesting, interesting 😂

  • @beebarhsworld
    @beebarhsworld 2 года назад +6

    Pricilla Ojo pls 😭😭

  • @ngozichukwukere3219
    @ngozichukwukere3219 2 года назад

    I’ve always loved Lydia

  • @topcattc76
    @topcattc76 Год назад

    Good one!

  • @okorogwendolyn8872
    @okorogwendolyn8872 2 года назад +11

    Am I the only one not understanding what they are saying 😢

  • @VictoriaNwosu22
    @VictoriaNwosu22 2 года назад +66

    I also feel like the interviewer should stop trying to get too deep into your guest’s life and experiences without sharing hers.

    • @attohelizabeth971
      @attohelizabeth971 2 года назад +14

      Facts....but then you need to understand that to speak or address something you need to have experienced it....that's where Suzy is on because she really hasn't has much of that exposure to these topics in raw but she's rather dealing on what her interviewees are put thru with her questions to them

    • @if30ma
      @if30ma Год назад +1

      @@attohelizabeth971 then she shouldnt be talking about it in the first place

    • @Obaratuyaayaa
      @Obaratuyaayaa Год назад

      Na so dem be.😂

  • @RealtorAnna-Unfiltered
    @RealtorAnna-Unfiltered 2 года назад +2

    nice talk..but i feel Lydia isnt relaxed in frnt of d camera😌

  • @mrs_minarh
    @mrs_minarh 2 года назад +3

    I really like Lydia

  • @michaelohen4225
    @michaelohen4225 Год назад

    I love thissss😂❤

  • @AyandeleEmmanuel
    @AyandeleEmmanuel 2 года назад +1

    can't wait for it to drop

  • @susanobeya
    @susanobeya 2 года назад +5

    Interesting but susan let your guests talk you always interrupt

  • @and1play5
    @and1play5 2 года назад

    First time finding this podcast, its goood, keep it going!

  • @VictoriaNwosu22
    @VictoriaNwosu22 2 года назад +7

    Susan keeps interrupting!!

  • @kelechijohnson6936
    @kelechijohnson6936 2 года назад +1

    Please we need this in the audio format 🙏

  • @Dammiosh
    @Dammiosh 2 года назад +2

    Lydia is so intelligent

  • @lonawilson4775
    @lonawilson4775 2 года назад +3

    I'm now thinking everyone in Lagos is fake 😂
    I'm hating Lagos from a distance 😂

  • @gabriellaaustine4660
    @gabriellaaustine4660 2 года назад +4

    Human beings oo, this is a podcast not an interview as per gist

  • @leepeters732
    @leepeters732 2 года назад

    I enjoyed this👍👍👍👍👍

  • @chiomanwokoye8880
    @chiomanwokoye8880 2 года назад +3

    Whyyyyyy are you interrupting her ??????

  • @livingwithbums
    @livingwithbums 2 года назад +4

    Aesthetic friends lmaooo

  • @chikakathryn5073
    @chikakathryn5073 2 года назад +6

    Susan said people so close to her
    But this person doesn't know she's the only child
    And that's like a big.......

  • @favourdimowo9837
    @favourdimowo9837 2 года назад

    Love love it🥰🥰❤️

  • @stephanieokonkwo8467
    @stephanieokonkwo8467 2 года назад +7

    How do you make friends in Lagos? I have that problem

    • @divineokoro4142
      @divineokoro4142 2 года назад +2

      Just speak to people and be honest and wise about what you speak about, because if you no wise for lagos you no go fit wise anywhere ohhh.

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee 2 года назад +1

      Start online and work your way to actually hanging out once you find someone you know you can vibe with

  • @Enginerosemusic
    @Enginerosemusic 2 года назад +1

    You both make depression disappear in seconds

  • @ninacal-akpuogwu4358
    @ninacal-akpuogwu4358 2 года назад

    Yay new episode ❤

  • @dextro5422
    @dextro5422 2 года назад

    I think one the problem in Lagos is the generalization problem, putting a notion of people in lagos, they all this and that forget we are dealing with humans and we all differ, the air we breathe in Lagos is same everywhere else. No be Lagos bad pass sef

  • @Obaratuyaayaa
    @Obaratuyaayaa Год назад

    Rada rada😂

  • @beulahifeoma1826
    @beulahifeoma1826 2 года назад +2

    Susan is way too dramatic on this podcast.Maybe you can try to act more professionally,calm and matured! But good one👍

  • @udemeabasisilas4160
    @udemeabasisilas4160 2 года назад

    I love Lydia♥️

  • @pearlodiete2364
    @pearlodiete2364 2 года назад +1

    Yeahhh, Susan was only interrupting because of the attention Frances got in the last podcast, she also wants to be relevant in the podcast with all that dramatic accent and yelling but honestly, she was actually doing too much,I love Lydia tho,sounds just like frances, but Susan on this episode was a no

  • @sharonmbaegbu6169
    @sharonmbaegbu6169 2 года назад

    I really like your show!!!!! 💕❤

  • @okonkwoonyinye2792
    @okonkwoonyinye2792 2 года назад

    I love dis episodeeeee❤

  • @chinaemeremelizabeth8240
    @chinaemeremelizabeth8240 2 года назад +2

    Loveeee

  • @Id_thasha
    @Id_thasha 2 года назад

    I'm 2mins into the video and I'm already hooked😩❤

  • @zazaibe
    @zazaibe 2 года назад +5

    Susan you're doing really great with this podcast @susanpwajok keep it up

  • @onyekaangel2060
    @onyekaangel2060 2 года назад

    I can’t find this on podcast app

  • @beulahifeoma1826
    @beulahifeoma1826 2 года назад

    It was a great interview/podcast..but I didn’t like that Susan was kind of forcing the girl to talk about her life experience.That was unprofessional.

  • @bigdaniel5684
    @bigdaniel5684 2 года назад

    You guys should say one thing na
    Who na just da jump here and there ahh😡😞
    I nr understand this who na drama here oh

  • @ocheegbe4896
    @ocheegbe4896 2 года назад +2

    Lydia is so fineeeeee

  • @priyetam-george5662
    @priyetam-george5662 2 года назад

    Loved it, 😊

  • @giftdiamond7500
    @giftdiamond7500 2 года назад

    Nice show tho but the presenter needs to take a chill pill too much personal questions apart from that they both look beautiful tho

  • @kehindeakinlabi1650
    @kehindeakinlabi1650 2 года назад

    This was so interesting ❤ more of this truth plsss

  • @ruthharry7663
    @ruthharry7663 2 года назад

    Lydia just give names abeg😅