We let it happen. A thousand tiny capitulations. We built everything, maintain everything. We only need to act like it. Accepting responsibility without authority is a silly idea. But here we are, pretending a 120# woman can actually save you from a fire or that a tiny ponytailed cop can protect you or apprehend criminals. And putting them in charge. How many of you went along to get along? How many hang there heads and allow a woman to rule you? How many of you nodded and called Harry, Sally because female leadership told you to? Can't fix it now. Your like a bunch of schoolboys in the West. Can't stand on morals because you've no ideology, your fluid, putty ready to be shaped. Why would I befriend you?
@ma3stro681 Men have had everything taken from them!!!....their sport, their recreation, their work, their space, their opportunities their role in family and society, their future, their movies, music, comics and even their drink,drugs, cars,women......all taken by woke (feminsm)
The best part of my day is when I come home from work, close the door behind me and lock it. I don't have to look at anyone, talk to anyone or even think of anyone.
"To me, once a person enters the door, the first thing I think of is getting rid of them" "I don't hate people but I seem to feel better when they're not around" - Charles Bukowski "I see on the whole that people ain't worth much" - Charles Manson
It's not only about close people. The society has made life so hard that people are just tired and poor. Too tired to spend the small energy they have to socialize.
Sartre was right...But I do love culture, I often visit a cafe' in Paris called 'Les Deux Magots' (The Two Maggots) It is in the artistic area of Saint-Germain-des-Prés in Paris' (6th arrondissement) This is a very famous place which many famous people have visited, and drank coffee as they conversed & debated life...including Picasso and Jean-Paul Sartre himself. I too am an existentialist, but after all, I am French...and I inevitably conclude that the perception of intellect and cognition attributable to the predicated perception of ones own disposition towards sagacity and acumen...can all so easily flip diametrically into insanity., but alas, there are often times when I experience such a strange disquiet...which at the same time is when I feel the descending mist of acquiescence towards my predetermined and inexorable acceptance of fate...but then again, I manage to keep my sanity by avoiding others in everyday life...too much stress & drama. take care Torgo.
And now The Shipping Forecast...North Utsira, South Utsira...Rockall, Viking, Cromartie, German Bight...Gale Force Eight, Veering Westerly...One thousand and six...Rain at times...Visibility...Moderate. Teddy is frantically waving both his paws to say goodbye...goodbye.
I live as a Lonewolf,I will die as a lonewolf. I find dealing with other people annoying and tiring. Don't need their drama, don't need their BS,and I don't trust others,they would sell you out for a dollar.
@@loboahriman7680 Being told this for the last 20 years>? Every boss every woman...news...govt...online...I'm old...I need to just shut up and die...I get it.
@@loboahriman7680, If you live in the U. S then there's the fact that in this country's society, the laws today are made to keep men away from their children by the courts: * Custody rights is given to the mother * Visitation rights is to the mother's benefit * Child support is a tax that helps support in part the pension of judges. * Dating ? Women like to say they're independent but us men STILL have to pay FULLY for the date And today's American women expect if not down right demand that the FIRST date to be at some high end restaurant ....just because ! That's just the beginning of what us men here in the States go through as to why this guy said what he did.
@@josephtabit2347 But surely those times were fabulous and amazing to you,right? Just compare it to socialization of men in nowadays.guys at my age have no choice but isolation(which is peaceful),but in your time,de-socializing was a choice to make.
I found my peace and happiness just going my way. From dealing with the absurdity of social media to toxic people, I keep my circle of friends small at best.
À fond ! Je te rejoins le pot de fleur, les gens ne s'approchent jamais pour t' arroser lorsque tu fanes, ils sont seulement présents pour cueillir tes pétales.
@gb896 i don't know about that. I think it depends on each individual's experience. There was a time in my life where I thought ppl in general s--ked, but the fact was that I was just surrounded by ppl i had no business being around. Not just because they s--k but also our relationship was comprised (boundaries) I have nothing but good ppl around me now and meet more all the time.
People are strange when you're a stranger Faces look ugly when you're alone Women seem wicked when you're unwanted Streets are uneven when you're down. ~ the Doors (1967)
I just turned 50 last September, never married, no kids. There is no amount of money or physical beauty that is going to get me to marry, have kids, or even go back to trying to "finding the one." Men can't win at this game. It took me my entire life to realize that I am not just an introvert, I'm a recluse. After 50 years in Los Angeles, born and lived here the entire time, and it is not just me, we a have social situation that can only be described as dangerous and in so many ways. People come up to you and they can be a demon hiding behind the facade of poverty, mental health, and gang affiliation. You can't win here. It just gets worse.
Sounds like LA resident. Barely see any kids. Overpriced real estate, no place for kids to grow up, makes sense. LA is beautiful but to raise a family you need to get out
I trust my cat. She’s been very consistent, for 16 years. She’s been around through everything in my adult life. All she wants is treats, that’s it. Fair enough. Friends have come and gone, women have come and gone, more than 10 jobs, ups and downs, fake family members, bankruptcy and wealth. 16 years, every single day. She has always been there. I sometimes think that she’s my spirit animal, making sure that I stay focused, until I reach my goals. Not one person has spent more time around me than her. That’s who I trust.
The only people in my life that never once stabbed me in the back…. My parents. They’re still alive & I spoil them rotten. They’re going to Alaska in May & I’m so grateful to provide it for them ❤❤❤❤
Men have had everything taken from them!!!....their sport, their recreation, their work, their space, their opportunities their role in family and society, their future, their movies, music, comics and even their drink,drugs, cars,women......all taken by woke (feminsm)
My mates and I respect each other. We’re all older, solid, competent country men. You gotta give respect to get respect. Country folk are just way more grounded and real than city slickers … 😎
@@ma3stro681Men have had everything taken from them!!!....their sport, their recreation, their work, their space, their opportunities their role in family and society, their future, their movies, music, comics and even their drink,drugs, cars,women......all taken by woke (feminsm)
My silence is not negative nor is it an attack, I'm just chilling. I enjoy quiet time, I value my peace, I have no other option than to be alone, because I'm sick of the misguided judgments. People have issues, they can't stand silence, maybe they are afraid of facing themselves.
Woke people project themselves onto other people, they need that because they hate themselves, without other people to project themselves on they are alone forced to see themselves directly that they hate... Alone they do not last long before going totally insane by their own self hate.
I used to be outgoing and tell people everything. Now I don't say much at all. People are toxic. They look for weakness in everything you say. It didn't used to be like that 15 to 20 years ago
This is a result of social media hysteria and malnutrition in our diets. The modern diet is vastly different to what we used to eat just 1000 years ago, most people think eating healthy is either eating useless leaves and vegetables or cramming down overcooked dry protein thinking it's nutrition.
I see my home as my Fortress of Solitude. I only go out when I have to (work, shops, etc.) I always got bored when with a group of people and usually one of the first to leave. It's so peaceful at home that I haven't felt the need to go anywhere on holidays in over a decade. I'd rather watch TV, surf the web or read a book than socialize. I have been looking for ways (unsuccessfully) to integrate myself more with people. Instead, people seem to be converting to my way of thinking (of isolation), despite the fact I have made no effort to convince them to.
I work nights and dont see any people, and i love it. I get to see the day shift on change over, and they all are miserable. We have the same job and the only difference is people.😅
@@ModelJames13 I challenge myself almost daily on one of my bicycles (mountain, racer, gravel, tourer). Just give me a decent hill and I'm fine on my own.
Other people (including other men) treat men without humanity, as if they are robots. Then the people also want men to do their bidding and accept the unnecessary attitude, criticism, and hostility. Men don't want to deal with unappreciative people.
I went to school and church and learned the lessons of how life works ... grew-up, graduated, and went out into the world and found out how it really runs and lost the will to live ...
People don't care if men are lonely until it starts affecting them, but by the time that happens, men already come full circle and realized they don't need anybody else to be happy and at peace. They may hang out with friends or maybe want a relationship at some point, but when the detriments of said relationships outweigh the benefits and reciprocation, men see it's better to fly solo than waste their lives paying people to care about them.
Tbh, we live in a terrible world. People will literally hate you for just existing. People will hate you because of your physical appearance, your sexual orientation, your race, your financial status, your taste in music, the food you enjoy, the movies you like, the tv shows you like, being introverted, liking video games, the job you have, the car you drive, and the clothes you wear. That's why the phrase that humans are social creatures is a bit delusional imo. We're literally going to face some form of oppression and ostracization for the rest of our existence, and that becomes draining after a while. That's why some of us stopped caring to even have friends since the world is just overall weird af. I also just think it's wild that despite all of that, society still demands that you go out there and try to be friends with people anyway because being alone is stigmatized as a bad thing.
@tvgamerstan6180 well dang that hasn't been my experience. I can't say I often, or ever, get criticised for anything. By anyone. And the rare times when someone has something to say, I just ignore it lol. They can have their opinion. That's just me tho, we all have different experiences.
Yeah. Social media has only made things worse. If you don't fit into some neat little box, people try to make you feel like sh!t. Heck, even if you decide to play the normie game and manicure every aspect your life to appease them, they'll still make you feel like sh!t by remarking on your material items with stuff like "why do you drive such a small car?" or "those curtains are so ugly". This is how most people are. You can't win with them.
@EcchiVwV I used to get trolled by other gay males when I used to be on Instagram. I used to post butt pictures, and I remember one of them commented saying my butt is bigger than yours. I responded back, saying good for you. I'm not entering the a** olympics. I remember a gay couple trolled me in my dm. Telling me how ugly and fat I was. Then they were sending me links to other guy's pages and saying how they look more attractive than I do. They even said they don't like the fact that I think I'm all that. But my thing is I never said that I was the hottest human being on earth, so where is all this hate coming from lol ? People really are just weird af. People do a lot of projecting. God forbid someone loves themselves. God forbid someone has a small car. God forbid someone chooses to have curtains that you might not particularly like. I just don't get why people want to criticize every little thing about someone. It's weirdo behavior.
@@EcchiVwV Not only that but everyone online is super hateful and quick to argue over absolutely nothing at all not to mention 80% of the time most arguments are pointless and a waste of time that gets no one nowhere and then it just further divides people as if they're not divided enough with things like race, religion, financial status, social status, and any other excuse to hate each other Also if you try fitting into other peoples little boxes of what pleases them you'll be ripping and tearing yourself and the essence of your true self apart to fit in with people who aren't worth the effort 99% of the time anyway
YESSSSSSS!!!! omgg you nailed it on the head, word for word the accuracy is on point I could not have said it better myself. People are drama queens looking for drama in their lives just for attention to make themselves "feel something" and because your the logical one you got to deal with their toxicity
This made a lot of sense to me. I've always been sort of lonely. But I suspect that even if I did have a lot of friends, it wouldn't solve the problem. I live in USA, and there are so many selfish, manipulative, egotistical people everywhere, I'm almost done with it. No desire to meet people.
I had relationship with a person I loved, but she kept creating random drama,...quiting every job, leaving me alone to pay everything and after 6 years she left me, for a side dude in order tl get over me and the moved straight to another dude in a matter of months. She accused me of ignoring her, despite of having to deal with numerous problems, health ect... She cant handle that I have lots of stuff to do, and my job stresses me out cause she doesnt stay at job more than 2 moths. Finally she blocked me from everywhere and called me toxic.
People in my childhoold treated me like shit, in my teenage also like shit. I have nothing to give to this world because it has given me only but anger and sadness. I spent my whole 20s alone and probably will continue to do it. They expect me to contribute and work exhaustive jobs to a world that has been nothing but fucking mean and left me always out of it. Sure.
When I realized how boring most people are, (i.e personality revolves around being overly drunk, constant drinking - overly boring 'constants' like tik tok addiction/quoting, social media or internet addiction - negative, pessimistic and over all no plan, goal or ambition in life) I have decided to be in good company, myself and my brother building our company vs. chasing a friend group that ends up dragging me down.
I’d always complain about not having friends, but every time I did, it would just be unnecessary drama, petty arguments, backstabbing, and then I ended up remembering why I preferred solitude, ironically, I’ve noticed the people I end up becoming very good friends with are the ones I only see every three months.
i just stopped caring about others once i realized i suffer cause people throw their drama on me or always try to involve me in to some kind of their manipulative emotional spirals. hell is really other people.
All my life people took me for granted, women were toxic, dramatic and never appreciative of anything I did with also torturing me emotionally. We live in a superficial society, I'm 6''3, blond blue eyes, I have wit, I'm fit, I have friends, compassionate and caring. I never got it why I was always treated like crap. I chose to spend the rest of my days alone and focusing only on myself. People took enough of my life away. No more.
6^4 , 34, White European, still looking boyish when I shave and let my hair curl! TBH I’m simply tired of everyone. I think I’ve just become too emotionally unavailable, or at least for most of the time anyways.
The society I live in didn't used to be this crazy and messed up. I'm extremely fatigued with all of the bullsh*t I see, hear, and experience daily. Anymore, we live in an asylum and societal minefield that seems to suddenly despise my existence for no sane reason. I've had more than enough of facing interactions with people that used to be simple, pleasant, and reasonable now unpredictably flying off into the Twilight Zone 20 times a day. I want simplicity, peace, calm, quiet, and things to go in a reasonably productive straight line. In this messed up culture the only way that happens is when I'm alone or away from the mess out there.
Preach the word, the timing of this video couldn’t have popped in my feed any better. Being alone and accepting my humanity has been the best blessing I could’ve gotten in my life. Stability with urself is understated.
OMFG you are spitting pure FACTS! The best way I can say it is that right now without so many people in my life I have dropped in the last year or two, the insane amount of drama that is GONE! I am talking to a point where not only was it exhausting but it felt like everyday all day, any time you sat down to relax then it was game on again! When so much of it is gone you at first don't even realize how on edge you have been for so long and how stressed out you have been also. It's also Eye Opening because to have just a level of peace like this I thought there was all kind of things I HAD to do, HAD to become, tons of money and stuff I HAD to make. If you would have told me then to cut off so many people and it would have freed up so much stress, money, and free time to do what I needed and wanted, I would have laugh at you because everything and everyone treated it as if it was all normal and if you where not living such a life then, "Hey? What is wrong with you, you got some problem? Can't be a REAL man acting all like that, and won't be happy too!", boy how they were WRONG! Now I just need to cut the last of the "fat off in my life" and just maybe...
When you strip away all of the covert tactics that bad people use to appear good and get to what is real, you don't have much left. Before the internet you didn't know all of the ways that people manipulate. They have always been the way that they are. You can just see it more clearly now.
My gf tells me often, I wish I knew you when you were a nicer person to other people. In my 30’s and 40’s, pretty much a generally friendly person, still am, but I don’t do deep dives in conversations anymore. Quick wave, hi, how are you, don’t do the stop and chat, pretty much done with allowing people to have an in with me. Reason? Simple, my whole life people have asked of me for money, my time, knowledge etc. they were just users. And I got to thinking, I’ve never asked those people for anything, I don’t ask for help in general.
Once you decide you need a break from people you embrace solitude and self reflection which compounds the reality of realizing that you don’t need people, and they too often bring you down when you are around them. You then retreat to your solitude for longer and longer each time.
Hey brother love the content. I got off social media expect for RUclips and am feeling really connected in my life. Left a job run by toxic boss babes, and now things in my life are more at peace. I am an extrovert so my social circle is only those who can receive, reciprocate and value my fullest expression. Let’s claim back our manhood and work together! Big love from the USA!
@@dacat8171 The "boss babes" are part of the sick culture. They often didn't get to their positions by merit, they're the original DEI hires for the past 50 years. Dealing with them is often managing a naive, incompetent, weak, irrational ideologically appointed toddler in an adult body who has the ability to terminate your employment or make false accusations that can follow you for years.
Great video pal. Can identify with all of that. Most of the people i grow up with are the people you describe. I only have friends when I'm 'required' for something. Keep up the videos ❤
I avoid relationships, people in general because i like my peace, i dont want nothing to ruin that, ive had my time giving my love and failed alot of times, with that being said im not hurting anyone, im staying to myself, i dont have expectation to up hold to anyone, its quiet, its peaceful.....huh..as i write this, its funny.... growing up i always wanted to be a dad and loving husband to someone, i really had those intentions, alot of souls showed me different but as ive grown and matured, i realize thats just not possible for a soul like me, and thats okay! I dont have to worry about anyone except a few friends and my puppers, i dont have to deal with toxicity. Good video man, keep it up man, and covering a big issue in mens mental issues.. much love homie
I'm wired this way too, very happy to be flying solo. I can go for days without talking to anyone and am perfectly content! People mostly just bring chaos lol...Nothing is worth trading away your freedom, solitude, peace and quiet. Great video
@@ModelJames13 i never wanted to be alone dude the love of my life died when i was younger..my daughter with her.. my mother n grandmother too I honestly have nobody left & it's been a lonely fxckin life since
@@matthewronsson I'm here because I'm forced to be alone. I want a wife but I'm forced to go without. You won't catch me gaslighting people pretending I love it. 😎
Nobody wants to be alone, but we live in a culture where real friends and a sane environment is becoming vanishingly rare right now. Good news is that one or two good friends mean you're not alone.
We need families. We need to watch new life chine into this world and bring joy, and have that youthful joy around in our old age, otherwise we turn bitter and disillusioned. We need to keep going on guys.
As a 54 years old single man i find strength in solitude.,. I have 3 friends, 5 buddies and about 10 acquaintances and sometimes i feel like there is just too many people in my life...
Somehow I saw this coming from a mile away many years ago. I became such a man before this ever became the movement that it is today. Every man should consider his peace and tranquility. There is a surprising number of people that want to take that away from you strictly because you enjoy and relish in it, especially women. They want it just to destroy it.
I enjoy listening to this man more than ever this day. He speaks truth and absolutely relate very deeply to him. My dogs are the only living things I can trust not to hurt me.
Unnecessary drama.... had a recent brush with that. For the past 3 years the family gathered at my elder brothers house for Xmas lunch. This year my wife and I decided to do something different, just us and our kids. I am sitting at work one day when I get a text from my brother who is in a tizzy that we aren't coming this year. Basically scorched earth me. Massive over reaction over something i thought was trivial. And yet his wife's brother was doing Xmas with his family, and it wasn't an issue. The entitlement to think he dictates what I can and can't do. I laughed it off, what else can I do haha
I can't speak for anyone else, but I indiscriminately avoid people on general principle. I don't even give a first chance to anyone, much less a second chance. I'm out. Done. If I could live without food and water, I'd quit my job too and completely remove myself from society.
If I go out I have noise cancelling headphones and will watch youtube on my phone and sip on a beer some buddies will get mad I don’t want to talk but I work from home so I force myself to to go out but I find it exhausting having to constantly entertain my buddies even when I don’t call them they just know my favorite watering holes… when I go to the gym same thing tons of people know me so they want to talk non stop it is nice to see them but frustrating because I want to get my workout finished first before I talk but would feel rude if cut them off and only focused on my workout. I can see why people love their alone time you can really focus on tasks and accomplish them without dealing with the countless distractions of other people.
Literally being harassed at my job over my personal life and health because some hero doesnt understand that I dont need him to fix my problems for me and that he should leave me alone. As men we aren't even allowed to have even the mental privacy to process our own feelings without someone feeling hurt because you dared to not stroke their egos and tell them all your life struggles just so they can give you baseless feel good advice that doesnt do anything
I call it a "low social ability threshold ". As soon as someone starts with the nonsense, gossip, or whining, I gotta go. I prefer my own company. I blessed to have a wonderful Rottweiler and she never leaves my side. I have several elderly couples that I look after. They are amazing people, but they are old and need support. They need tasks done and I'm honored to be that guy.
After my daughter died after a sudden illness in 2007, I realized my time is premium, so I cut out a lot of BS, drama, and pretty much became a recluse.
People these days are VERY VERY selfish, and VERY VERY manipulative. Most human interaction these days is based on loneliness and opportunistic posturing. (At least in the states Ive been in in the past few years consistently) People have totally turned their backs on decency and justice. Even this swing to the right, superficially seeming like a trend back towards reason, is littered with extremism and hypocrisy .... and its the better of the primary acting forces. Id really love to be wrong, but I suspect things are going to get worse before they get better.
Things are going to get so much worse. When the boomers and gen x die off, you'll see a complete free fall. Despite their tendency to leech off the young, they are still a stabilizing factor in society. I have no and zero trust that we millennials and gen Z are able to uphold society.
I have an introverted personality and I have chosen to be alone for the past ten years. I haven't felt one second of loneliness. I haven't felt one second of boredom. Everything I see concerning the social relationships of the rest of the world makes me feel increasingly sorry for other people. I do what I want when I want; I sleep and wake and eat and drink when I feel like it. It's great!
This is Why im Happier Isolated, Living in Solitude, & i Hate Having Family & Friends In My Life. I Love Being At Home More Than Traveling The Nation or The World & Going Outside. Im Not a Social Creature & Im Better Off On My Own as i Love More Independance. Im an Introvert & Am Proud of it! Im Happy That i Stopped Givin a Fuq!
I avoid people, I avoid relationships, I enjoy my own company and I can live at peace. I love being alone, It's so peaceful.
Same here.
I love being alone no friends all I have and only need is my fishing and camping 😂 peaceful
Same here since a long time.
@@JayMacTìre I suggest you practice semen retention, it will cure many things, especially those bags under you're eyes. 👀
Truth be told. I'm the most alone when around people. To be obligated to be around everyone who makes me feel unwelcome is a prison in its own right
It's mind blowing to me that this society has become so toxic for men.
We let it happen. A thousand tiny capitulations. We built everything, maintain everything. We only need to act like it. Accepting responsibility without authority is a silly idea. But here we are, pretending a 120# woman can actually save you from a fire or that a tiny ponytailed cop can protect you or apprehend criminals. And putting them in charge. How many of you went along to get along? How many hang there heads and allow a woman to rule you? How many of you nodded and called Harry, Sally because female leadership told you to? Can't fix it now. Your like a bunch of schoolboys in the West. Can't stand on morals because you've no ideology, your fluid, putty ready to be shaped. Why would I befriend you?
Its a Matriachy
It’s up to men to do something about this …
@ma3stro681 Men have had everything taken from them!!!....their sport, their recreation, their work, their space, their opportunities their role in family and society, their future, their movies, music, comics and even their drink,drugs, cars,women......all taken by woke (feminsm)
@ma3stro681 u get my post
The best part of my day is when I come home from work, close the door behind me and lock it. I don't have to look at anyone, talk to anyone or even think of anyone.
And have a glass or red in PEACE!
And a little Cannabis never hurts.
Getting home and closing that door, locking it, and knowing you are alone in your castle, is a thing of beauty 👍
@@josephtabit2347 Always the drug addicted junkies in the comment section. Whats next? Heroine, Crack??? FYM!
"To me, once a person enters the door, the first thing I think of is getting rid of them"
"I don't hate people but I seem to feel better when they're not around" - Charles Bukowski
"I see on the whole that people ain't worth much" - Charles Manson
99% of people drain me.
Are you the Devine? The 1%?
Exactly! Even the own family!
The more I meet people, the more I love my dog. And I don't have a dog.
And 100% women
It's not only about close people. The society has made life so hard that people are just tired and poor. Too tired to spend the small energy they have to socialize.
I used to be very friendly and talkative. Now,I avoid people and conversations whenever I can.
On gang😂 most people are absolutely worthless
same
This is sad, but very understandable.
Same here! I went from being social to anti social.
playing GTA V online right now
"Hell is other people." -- Jean-Paul Sartre
Sartre was right...But I do love culture, I often visit a cafe' in Paris called 'Les Deux Magots' (The Two Maggots) It is in the artistic area of Saint-Germain-des-Prés in Paris' (6th arrondissement) This is a very famous place which many famous people have visited, and drank coffee as they conversed & debated life...including Picasso and Jean-Paul Sartre himself.
I too am an existentialist, but after all, I am French...and I inevitably conclude that the perception of intellect and cognition attributable to the predicated perception of ones own disposition towards sagacity and acumen...can all so easily flip diametrically into insanity., but alas, there are often times when I experience such a strange disquiet...which at the same time is when I feel the descending mist of acquiescence towards my predetermined and inexorable acceptance of fate...but then again, I manage to keep my sanity by avoiding others in everyday life...too much stress & drama. take care Torgo.
And now The Shipping Forecast...North Utsira, South Utsira...Rockall, Viking, Cromartie, German Bight...Gale Force Eight, Veering Westerly...One thousand and six...Rain at times...Visibility...Moderate.
Teddy is frantically waving both his paws to say goodbye...goodbye.
First time I heard this quote was in a game, Area 51, PC/PS2, at the ending. Fascinating.
Only in an anti-white liberal democracy.
I live as a Lonewolf,I will die as a lonewolf. I find dealing with other people annoying and tiring. Don't need their drama, don't need their BS,and I don't trust others,they would sell you out for a dollar.
You can trust some, folk. Maybe 10 to 20%. But most are morally numb, idiots. Gorging on junk foid, shit tv and brainless chatter
Same here, lone wolf all the way! No desire to return to the trap of a relationship, I'm done. Only solitude and peace for me going ahead
Same. It’s just in me. I don’t even want to die around these leeches.
Worse, people will sell you out just to feel important...
I've been told by society how worthless I am. I get it. I no longer need human interaction...the woods are very peaceful.
Frfr
@@Phoenix_Enterprises what was it about society that made you feel like you're worthless?
@@loboahriman7680 Being told this for the last 20 years>? Every boss every woman...news...govt...online...I'm old...I need to just shut up and die...I get it.
@@loboahriman7680 for being a boy/guy/man
@@loboahriman7680,
If you live in the U. S then there's the fact that in this country's society, the laws today are made to keep men away from their children by the courts:
* Custody rights is given to the mother
* Visitation rights is to the mother's benefit
* Child support is a tax that helps support in part the pension of judges.
* Dating ? Women like to say they're independent but us men STILL have to pay FULLY for the date
And today's American women expect if not down right demand that the FIRST date to be at some high end restaurant ....just because !
That's just the beginning of what us men here in the States go through as to why this guy said what he did.
I'm already 19 and I can't tolerate people's bull crap 😡
BE the change you seek in the world
LOVE & APTTMH
Not good u just 19
Shit I just turned 20 and I feel your pain, people nowadays are literally NPC's 🤦
You should still train social skills at 19. Go out and assert yourself. 19 is young to be a shut in. Good luck bro 💪
You younger guys are in a tough place, BUT you guys also got lots of info on all the BS and can make a change. Only young men can truly change society
I preferred my own company even before the internet became a thing. It honestly feels like the rest of the world caught up with me.
43. Feel the same.
In the Summer of 1999 I just unplugged. I had had enough of people, places, and things at that point in my late teens/early twenties.
@@josephtabit2347
But surely those times were fabulous and amazing to you,right?
Just compare it to socialization of men in nowadays.guys at my age have no choice but isolation(which is peaceful),but in your time,de-socializing was a choice to make.
Yip. Since high school. Peaceful life.
I love my alone time. I'm at the point where a perfect day for me is ZERO contact with people.
100% 🎯
Those are my favorite days too, zero contact with anyone, alone, at peace and happy
I don't hate people. I just feel better when they're not around.
Charles Bukowski
I found my peace and happiness just going my way. From dealing with the absurdity of social media to toxic people, I keep my circle of friends small at best.
Amen to that
Your on social media here !
This is the true and only way.
Solitude is addicting, it is very hard to go back to friend(s) after an amount of time being alone.
🦋Papillon🦋
À fond ! Je te rejoins le pot de fleur, les gens ne s'approchent jamais pour t' arroser lorsque tu fanes, ils sont seulement présents pour cueillir tes pétales.
I can only deal with people for a short time only.. The longer it is then I get drained or it becomes toxic to my mental health
Yes, because most people, way more than the past, are real assholes.
Internet teaching em
@gb896 i don't know about that. I think it depends on each individual's experience. There was a time in my life where I thought ppl in general s--ked, but the fact was that I was just surrounded by ppl i had no business being around. Not just because they s--k but also our relationship was comprised (boundaries) I have nothing but good ppl around me now and meet more all the time.
People are strange when you're a stranger Faces look ugly when you're alone Women seem wicked when you're unwanted Streets are uneven when you're down. ~ the Doors (1967)
I just turned 50 last September, never married, no kids. There is no amount of money or physical beauty that is going to get me to marry, have kids, or even go back to trying to "finding the one." Men can't win at this game. It took me my entire life to realize that I am not just an introvert, I'm a recluse. After 50 years in Los Angeles, born and lived here the entire time, and it is not just me, we a have social situation that can only be described as dangerous and in so many ways. People come up to you and they can be a demon hiding behind the facade of poverty, mental health, and gang affiliation. You can't win here. It just gets worse.
Sounds like LA resident. Barely see any kids. Overpriced real estate, no place for kids to grow up, makes sense. LA is beautiful but to raise a family you need to get out
City of angels😅 must be heaven there
At 49 I finally found a good woman. At 52 She's hit the fear of sex, immasculation and trying to change Me. Aka. Miserable Woman. I'm done.
@@Peterbrendanalbert,
Daaaaaaammmmmn.
Can you divorce with little " repercussions" as a result ?
Or just move out of your place and move on ?
I am a truck driver, doing night shifts, my cab is my safe place, no one is bothering me, its just me and the road.
Big ten 4.
I trust my cat. She’s been very consistent, for 16 years. She’s been around through everything in my adult life. All she wants is treats, that’s it. Fair enough. Friends have come and gone, women have come and gone, more than 10 jobs, ups and downs, fake family members, bankruptcy and wealth. 16 years, every single day. She has always been there. I sometimes think that she’s my spirit animal, making sure that I stay focused, until I reach my goals. Not one person has spent more time around me than her. That’s who I trust.
You are correct
Accountability isn't toxic.
Silence is only golden if you are.
The only people in my life that never once stabbed me in the back…. My parents. They’re still alive & I spoil them rotten. They’re going to Alaska in May & I’m so grateful to provide it for them ❤❤❤❤
Good man.
This is why society is so crap, there is no respect at all and it's only going to get worse.
Men have had everything taken from them!!!....their sport, their recreation, their work, their space, their opportunities their role in family and society, their future, their movies, music, comics and even their drink,drugs, cars,women......all taken by woke (feminsm)
My mates and I respect each other. We’re all older, solid, competent country men. You gotta give respect to get respect. Country folk are just way more grounded and real than city slickers … 😎
@@ma3stro681Men have had everything taken from them!!!....their sport, their recreation, their work, their space, their opportunities their role in family and society, their future, their movies, music, comics and even their drink,drugs, cars,women......all taken by woke (feminsm)
@@gmj5386 feminism ruined society for men
Ja
My silence is not negative nor is it an attack, I'm just chilling. I enjoy quiet time, I value my peace, I have no other option than to be alone, because I'm sick of the misguided judgments. People have issues, they can't stand silence, maybe they are afraid of facing themselves.
Woke people project themselves onto other people, they need that because they hate themselves, without other people to project themselves on they are alone forced to see themselves directly that they hate... Alone they do not last long before going totally insane by their own self hate.
Good i was thinking i am goin nuts stay strong brothers💪
Betrayal from family ex's and friends .
I know exactly how it feels to trust anyone in my life now.
Brilliant channel
As you grow older, things require more physical and metal effort and your time is running out, so you need to be picky with how you spend your time.
It’s not that most men want to be quiet it’s just hard to find people on the same wavelength in certain aspects of life
I used to be outgoing and tell people everything. Now I don't say much at all. People are toxic. They look for weakness in everything you say. It didn't used to be like that 15 to 20 years ago
People don’t give a shit. You can try talking to them and half the time they do t even listen!
This is a result of social media hysteria and malnutrition in our diets.
The modern diet is vastly different to what we used to eat just 1000 years ago, most people think eating healthy is either eating useless leaves and vegetables or cramming down overcooked dry protein thinking it's nutrition.
I see my home as my Fortress of Solitude. I only go out when I have to (work, shops, etc.) I always got bored when with a group of people and usually one of the first to leave. It's so peaceful at home that I haven't felt the need to go anywhere on holidays in over a decade. I'd rather watch TV, surf the web or read a book than socialize.
I have been looking for ways (unsuccessfully) to integrate myself more with people. Instead, people seem to be converting to my way of thinking (of isolation), despite the fact I have made no effort to convince them to.
I quit my job for the huge amount of disrespect I faced with the backstabbers at my job.
I work nights and dont see any people, and i love it. I get to see the day shift on change over, and they all are miserable. We have the same job and the only difference is people.😅
Second shift is gold to..no sundays
😭😭😭so true. I transferred to the weekend shift and day shifts because I want to be alone. I am happy with myself. Too much drama during the day...
The more I learn about people, the more I like my dog.
Facts, I have sports and hobbies. I'm good.
Hmm, last I checked most sports require other humans.......
@@ModelJames13 I challenge myself almost daily on one of my bicycles (mountain, racer, gravel, tourer). Just give me a decent hill and I'm fine on my own.
Been in 'monk mode' for some time now. What a lovely place to be. Intensely satisfying. I like the way you express yourself my friend.
I tried to socialize but it never worked
Other people (including other men) treat men without humanity, as if they are robots. Then the people also want men to do their bidding and accept the unnecessary attitude, criticism, and hostility. Men don't want to deal with unappreciative people.
I went to school and church and learned the lessons of how life works ... grew-up, graduated, and went out into the world and found out how it really runs and lost the will to live ...
I avoid a lot of people they just drain me both men and women
BOTH💯👏🏾
I’m done with people and society I’m isolated and feel like I’m going stupid
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May i ask, are you from USA?
@@quasimode9038 Canada
Use it as a time to learn. Read, research, create, learn new things. You will feel anything but stupid.
@ I am bro and thank you 🙏
People don't care if men are lonely until it starts affecting them, but by the time that happens, men already come full circle and realized they don't need anybody else to be happy and at peace. They may hang out with friends or maybe want a relationship at some point, but when the detriments of said relationships outweigh the benefits and reciprocation, men see it's better to fly solo than waste their lives paying people to care about them.
Tbh, we live in a terrible world. People will literally hate you for just existing. People will hate you because of your physical appearance, your sexual orientation, your race, your financial status, your taste in music, the food you enjoy, the movies you like, the tv shows you like, being introverted, liking video games, the job you have, the car you drive, and the clothes you wear. That's why the phrase that humans are social creatures is a bit delusional imo. We're literally going to face some form of oppression and ostracization for the rest of our existence, and that becomes draining after a while. That's why some of us stopped caring to even have friends since the world is just overall weird af. I also just think it's wild that despite all of that, society still demands that you go out there and try to be friends with people anyway because being alone is stigmatized as a bad thing.
Being a Sigma is popular now. When I was a teenager, it wasn't but I still survived and had some good times.
@tvgamerstan6180 well dang that hasn't been my experience. I can't say I often, or ever, get criticised for anything. By anyone. And the rare times when someone has something to say, I just ignore it lol. They can have their opinion.
That's just me tho, we all have different experiences.
Yeah. Social media has only made things worse. If you don't fit into some neat little box, people try to make you feel like sh!t. Heck, even if you decide to play the normie game and manicure every aspect your life to appease them, they'll still make you feel like sh!t by remarking on your material items with stuff like "why do you drive such a small car?" or "those curtains are so ugly". This is how most people are. You can't win with them.
@EcchiVwV I used to get trolled by other gay males when I used to be on Instagram. I used to post butt pictures, and I remember one of them commented saying my butt is bigger than yours. I responded back, saying good for you. I'm not entering the a** olympics. I remember a gay couple trolled me in my dm. Telling me how ugly and fat I was. Then they were sending me links to other guy's pages and saying how they look more attractive than I do. They even said they don't like the fact that I think I'm all that. But my thing is I never said that I was the hottest human being on earth, so where is all this hate coming from lol ? People really are just weird af. People do a lot of projecting. God forbid someone loves themselves. God forbid someone has a small car. God forbid someone chooses to have curtains that you might not particularly like. I just don't get why people want to criticize every little thing about someone. It's weirdo behavior.
@@EcchiVwV Not only that but everyone online is super hateful and quick to argue over absolutely nothing at all not to mention 80% of the time most arguments are pointless and a waste of time that gets no one nowhere and then it just further divides people as if they're not divided enough with things like race, religion, financial status, social status, and any other excuse to hate each other
Also if you try fitting into other peoples little boxes of what pleases them you'll be ripping and tearing yourself and the essence of your true self apart to fit in with people who aren't worth the effort 99% of the time anyway
Yup 100% true
YESSSSSSS!!!! omgg you nailed it on the head, word for word the accuracy is on point I could not have said it better myself. People are drama queens looking for drama in their lives just for attention to make themselves "feel something" and because your the logical one you got to deal with their toxicity
This made a lot of sense to me. I've always been sort of lonely. But I suspect that even if I did have a lot of friends, it wouldn't solve the problem. I live in USA, and there are so many selfish, manipulative, egotistical people everywhere, I'm almost done with it. No desire to meet people.
I had relationship with a person I loved, but she kept creating random drama,...quiting every job, leaving me alone to pay everything and after 6 years she left me, for a side dude in order tl get over me and the moved straight to another dude in a matter of months. She accused me of ignoring her, despite of having to deal with numerous problems, health ect... She cant handle that I have lots of stuff to do, and my job stresses me out cause she doesnt stay at job more than 2 moths. Finally she blocked me from everywhere and called me toxic.
People in my childhoold treated me like shit, in my teenage also like shit. I have nothing to give to this world because it has given me only but anger and sadness. I spent my whole 20s alone and probably will continue to do it. They expect me to contribute and work exhaustive jobs to a world that has been nothing but fucking mean and left me always out of it. Sure.
the moment i leave my front door, i’m miserable until i can get back to my sanctuary. it’s 100% because the average person in society is so awful.
Bro is casually dropping random reason and topic everyvideo but it somehow resonates with my current mental state 100% like he was talking about me
👍🏻
When I realized how boring most people are, (i.e personality revolves around being overly drunk, constant drinking - overly boring 'constants' like tik tok addiction/quoting, social media or internet addiction - negative, pessimistic and over all no plan, goal or ambition in life) I have decided to be in good company, myself and my brother building our company vs. chasing a friend group that ends up dragging me down.
I’d always complain about not having friends, but every time I did, it would just be unnecessary drama, petty arguments, backstabbing, and then I ended up remembering why I preferred solitude, ironically, I’ve noticed the people I end up becoming very good friends with are the ones I only see every three months.
This is true of all, but let's be real...mainly women.
i just stopped caring about others once i realized i suffer cause people throw their drama on me or always try to involve me in to some kind of their manipulative emotional spirals. hell is really other people.
All my life people took me for granted, women were toxic, dramatic and never appreciative of anything I did with also torturing me emotionally.
We live in a superficial society, I'm 6''3, blond blue eyes, I have wit, I'm fit, I have friends, compassionate and caring. I never got it why I was always treated like crap.
I chose to spend the rest of my days alone and focusing only on myself. People took enough of my life away. No more.
6^4 , 34, White European, still looking boyish when I shave and let my hair curl! TBH I’m simply tired of everyone. I think I’ve just become too emotionally unavailable, or at least for most of the time anyways.
When you know you have no problem with anyone because you haven't spoken with anyone in good while, it is a new peace of mind.
The society I live in didn't used to be this crazy and messed up. I'm extremely fatigued with all of the bullsh*t I see, hear, and experience daily. Anymore, we live in an asylum and societal minefield that seems to suddenly despise my existence for no sane reason. I've had more than enough of facing interactions with people that used to be simple, pleasant, and reasonable now unpredictably flying off into the Twilight Zone 20 times a day. I want simplicity, peace, calm, quiet, and things to go in a reasonably productive straight line. In this messed up culture the only way that happens is when I'm alone or away from the mess out there.
Preach the word, the timing of this video couldn’t have popped in my feed any better. Being alone and accepting my humanity has been the best blessing I could’ve gotten in my life. Stability with urself is understated.
You got this!
This is one of those videos you watch more than once, like when you need it.
OMFG you are spitting pure FACTS! The best way I can say it is that right now without so many people in my life I have dropped in the last year or two, the insane amount of drama that is GONE! I am talking to a point where not only was it exhausting but it felt like everyday all day, any time you sat down to relax then it was game on again! When so much of it is gone you at first don't even realize how on edge you have been for so long and how stressed out you have been also.
It's also Eye Opening because to have just a level of peace like this I thought there was all kind of things I HAD to do, HAD to become, tons of money and stuff I HAD to make. If you would have told me then to cut off so many people and it would have freed up so much stress, money, and free time to do what I needed and wanted, I would have laugh at you because everything and everyone treated it as if it was all normal and if you where not living such a life then, "Hey? What is wrong with you, you got some problem? Can't be a REAL man acting all like that, and won't be happy too!", boy how they were WRONG! Now I just need to cut the last of the "fat off in my life" and just maybe...
When you strip away all of the covert tactics that bad people use to appear good and get to what is real, you don't have much left. Before the internet you didn't know all of the ways that people manipulate. They have always been the way that they are. You can just see it more clearly now.
My gf tells me often, I wish I knew you when you were a nicer person to other people. In my 30’s and 40’s, pretty much a generally friendly person, still am, but I don’t do deep dives in conversations anymore. Quick wave, hi, how are you, don’t do the stop and chat, pretty much done with allowing people to have an in with me. Reason? Simple, my whole life people have asked of me for money, my time, knowledge etc. they were just users. And I got to thinking, I’ve never asked those people for anything, I don’t ask for help in general.
Whoever thought solitude and the solitary lifestyle could bring a Man such peace and contentment!
Once you decide you need a break from people you embrace solitude and self reflection which compounds the reality of realizing that you don’t need people, and they too often bring you down when you are around them. You then retreat to your solitude for longer and longer each time.
Definitely agree with a lot of this...
Home Definitely is my Heaven right now. 😇
Hey brother love the content. I got off social media expect for RUclips and am feeling really connected in my life. Left a job run by toxic boss babes, and now things in my life are more at peace. I am an extrovert so my social circle is only those who can receive, reciprocate and value my fullest expression. Let’s claim back our manhood and work together! Big love from the USA!
I got fired by 'boss babes' for the second time.
@@dacat8171 I left because of "boss hags"
@@dacat8171 The "boss babes" are part of the sick culture. They often didn't get to their positions by merit, they're the original DEI hires for the past 50 years. Dealing with them is often managing a naive, incompetent, weak, irrational ideologically appointed toddler in an adult body who has the ability to terminate your employment or make false accusations that can follow you for years.
Great video pal. Can identify with all of that.
Most of the people i grow up with are the people you describe. I only have friends when I'm 'required' for something.
Keep up the videos ❤
Thanks for sharing!
I simply cannot afford friends and relationships.
Rejection is gods protection 🙏🏽
Why doesn't God protect children from being touched by adults
I enjoy spending 95% of my free time out in my shed, RUclips or a zombie movie/ show on my little tv, just tinkering away on things
I avoid relationships, people in general because i like my peace, i dont want nothing to ruin that, ive had my time giving my love and failed alot of times, with that being said im not hurting anyone, im staying to myself, i dont have expectation to up hold to anyone, its quiet, its peaceful.....huh..as i write this, its funny.... growing up i always wanted to be a dad and loving husband to someone, i really had those intentions, alot of souls showed me different but as ive grown and matured, i realize thats just not possible for a soul like me, and thats okay!
I dont have to worry about anyone except a few friends and my puppers, i dont have to deal with toxicity.
Good video man, keep it up man, and covering a big issue in mens mental issues.. much love homie
One of the best video and very true!!!! This is exactly me.
I embraced a disengagement philosophy about a year ago. Best decision I’ve done in years. 😊
I'm wired this way too, very happy to be flying solo. I can go for days without talking to anyone and am perfectly content! People mostly just bring chaos lol...Nothing is worth trading away your freedom, solitude, peace and quiet. Great video
I really connect with your message SCG. Keep going man...
Thank you, I will
I honestly don't want to be alone anymore..
Finally another guy that isn't lying to himself. 😎
@@ModelJames13 i never wanted to be alone dude the love of my life died when i was younger..my daughter with her.. my mother n grandmother too
I honestly have nobody left & it's been a lonely fxckin life since
@@ModelJames13 Is that why you're here?
@@matthewronsson I'm here because I'm forced to be alone. I want a wife but I'm forced to go without. You won't catch me gaslighting people pretending I love it. 😎
Nobody wants to be alone, but we live in a culture where real friends and a sane environment is becoming vanishingly rare right now. Good news is that one or two good friends mean you're not alone.
We need families. We need to watch new life chine into this world and bring joy, and have that youthful joy around in our old age, otherwise we turn bitter and disillusioned. We need to keep going on guys.
As a 54 years old single man i find strength in solitude.,. I have 3 friends, 5 buddies and about 10 acquaintances and sometimes i feel like there is just too many people in my life...
Somehow I saw this coming from a mile away many years ago. I became such a man before this ever became the movement that it is today. Every man should consider his peace and tranquility. There is a surprising number of people that want to take that away from you strictly because you enjoy and relish in it, especially women. They want it just to destroy it.
I enjoy listening to this man more than ever this day. He speaks truth and absolutely relate very deeply to him. My dogs are the only living things I can trust not to hurt me.
What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. Fight fight fight.
Thank you for your channel!
Unnecessary drama.... had a recent brush with that. For the past 3 years the family gathered at my elder brothers house for Xmas lunch. This year my wife and I decided to do something different, just us and our kids. I am sitting at work one day when I get a text from my brother who is in a tizzy that we aren't coming this year. Basically scorched earth me. Massive over reaction over something i thought was trivial. And yet his wife's brother was doing Xmas with his family, and it wasn't an issue. The entitlement to think he dictates what I can and can't do. I laughed it off, what else can I do haha
I can't speak for anyone else, but I indiscriminately avoid people on general principle. I don't even give a first chance to anyone, much less a second chance. I'm out. Done. If I could live without food and water, I'd quit my job too and completely remove myself from society.
If I go out I have noise cancelling headphones and will watch youtube on my phone and sip on a beer some buddies will get mad I don’t want to talk but I work from home so I force myself to to go out but I find it exhausting having to constantly entertain my buddies even when I don’t call them they just know my favorite watering holes… when I go to the gym same thing tons of people know me so they want to talk non stop it is nice to see them but frustrating because I want to get my workout finished first before I talk but would feel rude if cut them off and only focused on my workout. I can see why people love their alone time you can really focus on tasks and accomplish them without dealing with the countless distractions of other people.
Literally being harassed at my job over my personal life and health because some hero doesnt understand that I dont need him to fix my problems for me and that he should leave me alone. As men we aren't even allowed to have even the mental privacy to process our own feelings without someone feeling hurt because you dared to not stroke their egos and tell them all your life struggles just so they can give you baseless feel good advice that doesnt do anything
My peace of mind is everything. No time for people who want to drain my resources, time and energy 💯💯
I call it a "low social ability threshold ". As soon as someone starts with the nonsense, gossip, or whining, I gotta go. I prefer my own company. I blessed to have a wonderful Rottweiler and she never leaves my side. I have several elderly couples that I look after. They are amazing people, but they are old and need support. They need tasks done and I'm honored to be that guy.
After my daughter died after a sudden illness in 2007, I realized my time is premium, so I cut out a lot of BS, drama, and pretty much became a recluse.
"Who can you trust entirely" nobody.
People these days are VERY VERY selfish, and VERY VERY manipulative.
Most human interaction these days is based on loneliness and opportunistic posturing. (At least in the states Ive been in in the past few years consistently)
People have totally turned their backs on decency and justice.
Even this swing to the right, superficially seeming like a trend back towards reason, is littered with extremism and hypocrisy .... and its the better of the primary acting forces.
Id really love to be wrong, but I suspect things are going to get worse before they get better.
Things are going to get so much worse. When the boomers and gen x die off, you'll see a complete free fall. Despite their tendency to leech off the young, they are still a stabilizing factor in society. I have no and zero trust that we millennials and gen Z are able to uphold society.
Very, very greedy
This video and comments makes me feel a lot better!! I’ve been called a lot of things for enjoying being alone and he’s right about trusting people.
I am 70, single,and retired at 53. I like it.
I have an introverted personality and I have chosen to be alone for the past ten years. I haven't felt one second of loneliness. I haven't felt one second of boredom. Everything I see concerning the social relationships of the rest of the world makes me feel increasingly sorry for other people. I do what I want when I want; I sleep and wake and eat and drink when I feel like it. It's great!
This is Why im Happier Isolated, Living in Solitude, & i Hate Having Family & Friends In My Life. I Love Being At Home More Than Traveling The Nation or The World & Going Outside. Im Not a Social Creature & Im Better Off On My Own as i Love More Independance. Im an Introvert & Am Proud of it! Im Happy That i Stopped Givin a Fuq!
When I want drama, I can attend a Shakespeare play. On a daily basis, I avoid it like the Plague.
Thank you for posting these videos. It's comforting to know I'm not the only one that feels this way.
You are so welcome!
More money more problems. More people more stress. Thank God i was born an introvert.
"More money more problems"
That's because when your broke money IS YOUR PROBLEM
@@bcal8118 no. If you're broke. you have no money. so how could something you don't have, be a problem for you.
Your right on, I just have 1 friend now, the rest of them I had to get rid of, draining and stressful
Its the reason why I find Kafka's metamorphosis so relatable.
I have two cats, and being at home with them is everything I need!
"I was raised with hate / and hated humanity"
~Charly García