I tried to change myself to save my marriage | Losing my Identity

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  • Опубликовано: 17 июл 2024
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  • @nompumelelomaseko9719
    @nompumelelomaseko9719 7 месяцев назад +5

    Us single people we heard you, about a year ago I discovered that no man going with the flow when it comes to dating wasn't for me. Ahhh, since then ngihleli phansi ngibambe umthetho. Ngitholukuthi forming meaningful relationships of any form as a adult who is Christian require you to know what God wants you to do, where you are going because these influence your everyday activities, boundaries and what you do for fun. Thank you for sharing your experience with us😊

  • @natasha_mulusa
    @natasha_mulusa 7 месяцев назад +8

    When you said “not knowing who you are called to be in Christ makes you susceptible to an identity crisis”. Tjo!🤧

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  7 месяцев назад

      the saying goes when you don't stand for something , you fall for everything. thats what it is

  • @JustLucyBrown
    @JustLucyBrown 7 месяцев назад +1

    Tjuuuu listening to this and im thinking yoooh I cant imagine how drrrry your spirit man had been. Cause you see once your spirit man is dry, you become a miserable person!!!!! You dont even recognize yourself. So glad that today you stranding and testifying of the Lords goodness and also equipping our younger sisters so that they are able to make a much more informed decision. Thank you for this.

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  7 месяцев назад

      We need to take care of our inner man , I never want to go back there

  • @dineomahlodimthombeni276
    @dineomahlodimthombeni276 Месяц назад

    Listening to this just broke my heart liefie :-( BUT watseba keng!!! You are indeed God's fav girlie!!! #hugskisses

  • @JustLucyBrown
    @JustLucyBrown 7 месяцев назад

    7:08 tjuuuuu powerful man 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥that prayer from the bishop

  • @itumelengpeniel6279
    @itumelengpeniel6279 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for sharing, you are a blessing to our generation. ❤❤

  • @JustLucyBrown
    @JustLucyBrown 7 месяцев назад +1

    Tjuuuu 🔥🔥🔥if God gives you a conviction,you run with it.

  • @NarcSurvivorship
    @NarcSurvivorship 3 месяца назад

    Oh wow Tii❤❤I’m so in love with your content and resonate so much with your beliefs. I met you at a Church in Tuks in passing and it is sooo wonderful to see what the Lord has done in your life and you’re sooo beautiful! ❤❤

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  3 месяца назад +1

      oh wow!! TSCF? aww sissy! thank you so much!

    • @NarcSurvivorship
      @NarcSurvivorship 3 месяца назад

      @@Tiisetso_Kgomo Awww! It was at Charis Family Church ❤️! You have always been very beautiful and Jesus lover through and through and through, God bless you! Love your content 😘🤗

  • @nkepengmarumo3648
    @nkepengmarumo3648 7 месяцев назад +1

    This makes me sad . I am taking notes

  • @NtokozoBee
    @NtokozoBee 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @natasha_mulusa
    @natasha_mulusa 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and sharing such a sacred part of your life wifeys Tisetso🫶

  • @petrusmakgoba5766
    @petrusmakgoba5766 6 месяцев назад

    I watched this and the other video about trying to save your marriage or whether you married wrong. What I have learned in the journey with Christ is this: We might not fully know ourselves or the partner (in terms of weaknesses and blind spots) going into a marriage covenant, but if you know servants of God who can help you with prophecy before getting into the covenant, that can help. More importantly, once you are in the marriage, it is important to understand who your enemies are. All the people around you, whether they love you or hate you, must not be considered your enemies. The enemy is always spiritual, and is Satan. He does not want marriages to work and will use anyone around you, whether they are good people or not, to do his dirty work. The sooner you understand that, the easier it will be for you to fight, because you will use the right weapons to fight. You cant win a spiritual battle with physical weapons. In my view, I think your marriage was dealing with a spirit of lust. How that spirit came into your marriage is dependent on one of you or both you and your ex-husband. There was a portal that was opened, and the spirit got in. It is either that or the spirit was there even before you got married, and it was never cast out. If the spirit is already within the marriage or in one of the parties to the marriage, then it has to be cast out in order to get back on the journey of recovery and restoration. The important thing to know is that the evil spirits are always looking around and always knocking into our lives and marriages. The slightest portal that gives them access, they are in. These portals are created by any form of sin or lapses in prayer lives. Even what you consider insignificant like anger, unforgiveness, bitterness, pride, is big opportunity for the kingdom of darkness to capitalise and attack. Thus, it is very important to know why the scripture emphasises that we are not fighting flesh and blood. And by giving ourselves to the desires of the flesh, the temptations, we are opening portals that allow or invite the evil spirits to influence our lives and destiny. It is even more important to understand that the evil spirits are going to intensify their attacks on you if you have a calling that is supposed to advance the Kingdom of God, which is a rival kingdom to that of darkness.

  • @JustLucyBrown
    @JustLucyBrown 7 месяцев назад

    Hey Sissy ❤

  • @user-ij7ge8ug6x
    @user-ij7ge8ug6x 7 месяцев назад

    Oh what a touching story

  • @nthabi_royaltymasango4915
    @nthabi_royaltymasango4915 7 месяцев назад +2

    U have matured so much that I enjoy listening to u and suck that wisdom u carry, u are also well spoken like u know how to fully express yourself I enjoy that ❤ may God keep showing up through u

  • @Lethabo1612
    @Lethabo1612 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the courage to share your testimony with us... it's so edifying ❤

  • @xoliswalisenyane8190
    @xoliswalisenyane8190 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love this conversation sis...❤❤❤ True God is the foundation of everything.

  • @theotherside602
    @theotherside602 7 месяцев назад

    This is so informative. I love it, and the truth you share. I have so many questions I'm going to ask you🤭

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  7 месяцев назад

      I’ll wait for the questions ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you my Zee

  • @Koketsomoraka_
    @Koketsomoraka_ 7 месяцев назад

    ❤❤

  • @natasha_mulusa
    @natasha_mulusa 7 месяцев назад

    Yho sana this conversation sparked so much in me. This was once a place I was at. I could say a lot but thank God for His presence in my life. I don’t even want to lie the Holy Spirit saved me and I’m at a such better and healthier place with myself and spiritually.

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  7 месяцев назад

      "The Holy Spirit saved me" thats it!!! yoh! Im so glad you are in a better place..IN HIM

  • @TheMindfulfoodie633
    @TheMindfulfoodie633 7 месяцев назад +1

    I thought you wanted to twerk for us 😂😂😂when you turned to show us the t-shirt 😂😂