3rd story: It's a pity she took the cat with her. I hoped she would leave it with OP. I feel sorry for that poor animal. Not properly fed and no clean toilet.
I'm honestly mad at OP for letting her take the cat, and for only snapping after the camera. I would have been so stressed and anxious from how she was treating her cat, I wouldn't be able to handle it
Story 3: It took a camera for OP to snap? Not the, eating your food and not paying for anything. Not her neglecting her cat and letting it piss and poop everywhere. Not the missing plates, glasses and silverware, and piles of nasty panty liners... A camera! JezUZ. Amy would have caught my hands when she stopped paying and the last straw would have been the cat piss and poop. Amy deserved everything OP did at the end of tenancy and beyond. My only thing is, it should have happened sooner
Seriously why in the hell would you leave your expensive camera out in the open when you can't trust the b!tch not to still your food and hygiene products? OP is a dammed doormat, she should have started the eviction process when she stopped paying rent.
Story 3: Man that woman need to understand that kind of behavior is asking OP to take pro-revenge and would go out of their way to make you suffer. The golden rule of renting with roommates is never be jerk since your roommates might find some dirt on you to use on you.
Ever have a neighbor who knows you work third shift, so they wait until late afternoon to do noisy yard work, even though they're always up before you get home from work?
i know, every new semester when at uni is just as "interesting" when living in student housing. you never know what new neighbors you get. atleast we have numbers etc to call afther quiet hours starts and loud partys etc afther quiet hours have consequences. the person(s) living at at the apartment etc its beeing hosted at needs to pay a fine + for the security guard to drive there (independent security consern hierd), if needed its also the police. (needed to do it once, security got there 2 times, party dident stop, and was 3-4 in the morning at that time) i dont call security when the time hits on the dot i give people like 30 min then if someone on the same floor im living in i knock on the door. but if people refuses to stopp the party? i will call, the rules are there for a reason afther all.
@@markrahm6900 its quite annoying. I work 3rd shift and all my neighbors know it but the one directly beside me likes to do her cleaning after 3pm even though shes a stay at home wife. She even bangs on the walls between us and gets defensive if we ask her to stop.
Story 3: Fluff, wild animals are cleaner than that woman. They at least know not to mess up where they sleep. That woman seriously needs to see someone about whatever was wrong with her because that’s just crazy to do over something as petty as jealousy. I’ll admit I’m not the neatest or cleanest person but piles of rotting food and animal waste? She needs help.
Also side note, this is why I refuse to have roommates. People feel like it's normal for people to not be able to afford to live in a place by yourself and it's acceptible to have wages be less than the cost of living, so they're just like, live with strangers or acquaintances that are going to destroy your stuff and steal. I hate our system in the US
*Story 4-* I’m epileptic and my medications make me have the worst memory. I’ll forget words, but I’ll be able to describe what I’m trying to talk about. Also, I’ll forget something that happened, and someone will have to tell me I ether did, or didn’t, do it. *The only person that’s been able to help me through it is my incredible hubby!!!* He’s always patient with me when I try to remember something. And he’ll even try to help me find the words I forgot. I don’t know what I’d do without him!!! *I love my hubby!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
Op from the last story I’m so happy that A and your therapist got you to realise that didn’t deserve the way your ex treated you as for the car and other things she was left behind that was to torment you with the possibility of her coming over for them😢just keep living a happier life without her!!! 😂👍🏼👏🏼🤟🏼
We had a neighbor who constantly had foot traffic. Turned out he was either trafficking or facilitating drugs out of his apartment. One neighbor saw them passed out on the patio with IV drugs. After they were evicted, maintinence cleaned out the apartment by tossing stuff over the railing (without warning and we live below), and all kinds of pills in various different people's names and needles were left in the grass. I was ticked. My 5lb dog could have been hurt, or us, or all the kids that run through the back yard.
I can only imagine the aura Amy puts out when people see her. She probably stinks like her room does and has a personality to match, which is why she keeps getting rejected. I'm sure everyone has had the experience of coming within 10 feet of someone and suddenly getting the world's strongest feeling that it is someone you never, ever want to see again. I know I have several times and I've usually been spot on when I hear things that happen later.
Story 3 was my ex roommate. They came living with us. They left never cleaned their room. Left food out and our house is hot cause of reptiles. He eventually stopped paying rent and bills cause they felt blinded sided and wasn't expecting to pay anything while living there. He moved out right when we renewed. It was horrible cause it happened when my wife was hospitalized and I was on my own. They did the same to next ppls and got kicked from there too. Omg cleaning his room was a nightmare. It was disgusting and I got sick for 3 days from it
@JoeyA1 I showed our landlord. Landlord said they're seeing them because they left while still under contract. If they ever come back and try to weasel themselves into our lives we will
I dont miss having roommates. Had a hippie chick move in briefly many years ago. Within a week, she was dealing LSD out of the apartment, refusing to clean or bathe, while stealing everyone's food, all while refusing to pay rent or utilities. The other roommate and I booted her out quickly. Her revenge was to tell EVERYONE she was booted because she wouldnt sleep with us. Seriously, her stench was eye watering, so no one wanted to be near her. She did leech off a good friend of mine until his untimely death, going as far as to demand all his things and townhouse from his grieving mother.
I remember having a roommate who never cleaned up after herself, leaving crusty pots and pans and dishes all over the kitchen, and keeping old snack bags and bottles in her room. And when I would clean up and put things back in order, she would put it all back and leave post-it notes saying not to touch her stuff. So I asked her when she intended to clean it up and she evaded the question. Needless to say, I did not renew my lease with that pig and I’m glad I can keep my kitchen and general living space as clean as I like. She never even helped with the cleaning effort when we moved out and it took me 3 HOURS to get the stains out of her bedroom and the kitchen. It’s a wonder we never had ants or other pests there.
I had a roommate from hell, once. Early twenties, attending college. Needed a roommate to afford rent. A young woman took the offer. Moved in with nothing but the clothes on her back (she did pay prorated rent for the month), and after constant complaints, general complaints, nothing personal or specific, she set fire to mattress in her room. I called the cops. Luckily there were only few days left and she never came back during those days. The cops had a heck of time finding her getting the key to the apartment back afterwards.
Jeeeeeez louise! Story 3 reminds me of my own Demon Roommate From Hell, minus the theft of expensive items and the boyfriend/guy friends situation. It was 1992. The slobbiness & everything else is pretty much the same, only it was my bff who threw the bag of cat shit in her room. I kept the cat. He was my best buddy.
@@damien678 He was definitely my cat from the moment I first held him! Instant bond. 20 years later, I had another roommate break lease and abandon the two cats she'd adopted a month prior. They are now about 10 years old and snuggling with me as I settle in bed. I will _always_ keep the cats. 💖
Story 3: I can understand being jealous towards someone, but damn is this some SERIOUSLY unhealthy behavior coming from Amy. Like, trying to hit on everyone, not paying rent, stealing stuff, letting cats stink up the place, she needs some help.
I live next door to a b&b and all the tenants have been awesome. After hearing all the stories fluff tells us I was thinking I’d have a story to send in but the rudest I’ve seen is I say hi and they don’t.
Story 3... getting the camera back... as likely the camera was not a very cheap one... and was likely 2k+ and the lens... was likely in the same price range. Personally... they would have come home to final written warnings... and if they weren't heeded... would have found the lock changed after the 2nd missed rent, so could not return. @Darkfluff wild animals are cleaner than that person!
Story three, I lived in a similar situation, except I was the roommate in a "friend's" house. Trapped financially in a old, poorly constructed house what wasn't even remotely close to being up to code, let his dogs shit and piss all over the tile floor, trash and festering fountain drink cups all over the place, and to top it all off, the entire house was infested with mice, roaches and worst of all, bedbugs. Dudes mother was a straight up Karen and he turned into a raging, opini9nated dickhead where we've had more than a few physical altercations. He liked to brag he was a retired Marine. (he wasn't. He went into basic training, blew out his knee after a week or two and was discharged and barred from re-entering. Yet he somehow gets VA benefits.) We finally got out of that damn house last December after he and his family abandoned the house and took off to Vegas, WHILE MY FIANCE AND I WERE STILL LIVING THERE
about the cat, I would have not let her leave with her cat but called animal control on her saying she cannot care for the cat and I fear the cat will be harmed.
I loath apartment renting! Roommates can be good, but they can go bad. I’ve had good and bad experiences with roommates but nothing like the first op.Good thing I live in a house.
How my landlord found one of my neighbors was renting their apt as an Airbnb was crazy. The Airbnb renter went to my landlords office looking for the keys. When my landlord asked who they are, they got the whole story. They were asked to leave while my landlord changed the locks to that apt. Funny thing they were a month behind on the rent while they were doing this. You know what is even funnier that renter never came back. After a few months my landlord cleared that apt out, and later rented it. After about 6 months with the new tenant, they told my landlord how someone claimed their apt was still an Airbnb, and they had rented. A treat to call the cops got rid of them. Thankfully nothing since.
Yeah, people think technology is an awesome thing, but if you know how you can find anyone anywhere. Why, why, why do people allow their roommates crap to go on for so long. The first time I would have seen the cat crap on the floor, it would have been on. I mean, cat piss and crap is really, REALLY smelly.
Story 3: I wouldn't be able to handle that neglect of her cat for a few days, let alone TWO MONTHS. Thats disgusting and incredibly terrible to everyone in the apartment, but especially that poor kitty.
Story 4: I actually think it's better that A never wound up with OP. Mainly because it shows that she was a true friend and not doing it for selfish reasons.
Story 4. Ex’s will always try to leave a way to worm back into your life. Either to save you as a back up or to continue tormenting you. The best thing to do is to burn all of their stuff. Make a clean break. 20:33
my god, I'll admit that I don't always keep my bedroom clean, but god damn, I at least try to keep things clean, and never nasty stuff, I take the trash out weekly, I clean cat waste, and any food mess.... I would not date that woman, I feel like just knowing her would give me some kind of illness.
Airbnb story: Idiot! If the lease doesn't allow it, it's a pretty stupid move to attempt it. Someone will notice and report what's going on. And Airbnb has everything online for the world to see. Affair story: Almost surprised OP hasn't seen more of the man and his car, minus the car seats.
I have severe ADHD symptoms and while I can be messy I still try to clean up as much as I can. I clean my kitten's litter boxes daily. I'm in the habit of cleaning their bowls after their meals. I wash out the tins to be recycled (even though chances are they'll still end up in a dumpster). I also have some pretty bad depression, but I know if I let my living space get messy it'll only make my mental health tank. So really there's no good excuses. I think there are sympathetic reasons people get like this but that they cannot be allowed to continue living like they do. We all deserve to be happy and not live in filth, all of them included. I love myself, my partner, and my kittens enough to organise and clean the place
...My Cat has kept my mental state stable. When it was merely _discussed_ that she may be given away, I took myself hostage with a knife. Once my cat slipped out of her harness and I went completely nuts and was ready to cut off that family member forever until she wandered back in I have no idea how I'd react to my cat going missing, but I operate under NO illusions that it would be anything less but Nuclear Revenge worthy
I am not saying my responses are just, right, or even _sane_ - I recognized I am unstable, I am on multiple meds to maintain emotional and mental stability I think my point is more, these people are playing with fire because you do NOT know who may be completely crazed
I haven't been put in the situation yet...but if there was even a threat of my two boys being taken I think it'd also take extremely drastic measures, too. They've really improved the mental health of myself and my partner. Idk what either of us would do without them. We'd at least have each other but they bring so much joy and stability into our lives.
I've done the roommate thing and the crazy ex thing, never doing either again... Roommate's friends kept stealing my stuff so I bailed (it was their place), let my crazy ex move in with me and she just sat around all day doing nothing (no job) while bitching about why I never had money to do anything (I paid for everything as I own my house). Lesson 1. Your health and welfare come before anyone else's period. You aren't of any use to anyone if you're a complete wreck mentally or physically. Lesson 2. Even if you room with your best friend it can still go to hell on you. Lesson 3, At the first sign that there is something wrong in your relationship, work to get it fixed immediately or bail (see rule 1 and rule 4). Lesson 4. Being alone (and/or single) and happy with yourself is preferable to being surrounded by dolts who make you miserable. Lesson 5. Always have a backup plan and an escape route.
story 2. you are right.. this shouldnt be possible in a civlised country. probably a case of things that didnt happen on the internet, or op is in some crap hole with alarmingly lose GDPR laws. in the uk you could techically do it, but you would need proof and a reason to make a request to the DVLA for contact details from a number plate. unfortunatly adultry isnt a reason, the forms are for vehicular damage only. story 3. that went on for how long?? why let it get to that, you end that Bs the SECOND it happens. if your a bit soft you give them a chance..... but months ?? heck no
As to the roomate from hell story op was to nice for to long but finally stopped the insanity. Op should have sued that lunatic. As to the last story that nasty person got what she deserved and op is doing much better without her.
We have both regular apartments and some Airbnb units. We own the entire building and if ANY of the regular tenants complain the Airbnb guests get a message. If it keeps going they get asked to leave, and/or a fee, plus a bad review. We like it because we get warned when a bad guest shows up.
I've been watching some youtubes where a professional cleaner comes and cleans apartments for free because these people are unable to do it themselves through things like depression, ill health etc. The apartments are covered in filth and garbage that is overwhelming. This lady sounds like she might have been going through the same thing after being rejected multiple times and it maybe not able to cope anymore. It's entirely possible her mental health was deteriorating. Especially since it was all of a sudden. Only my opinion.
I know someone that likes to set the lock when the door's still open, then slam it HARD into the frame, instead of turning her body, closing the door and then locking it. Of course she eventually broke the lock, and complained about it's quality. I told her "You slam that thing about 10 times a day, I'm surprised it lasted this long". Also there's the people that close doors with a kick.
Preaching facts Darkfluff about noise travelling and other neighbours being at the receiving end. I remember when I moved into my flat and within DAYS someone on the 17th floor was blaring music at all hours, turned out this was a recurring problem but the people affected, above and below, were afraid to report them because the woman doing it had a "friend" who bullied/harassed anyone who tried to interject. Me and my (now) ex weren't willing to back down though and painstakingly over a two year period of constant music, we documented and videoed the noise; surprisingly our decision to push back emboldened other residents who had been too terrified to also come forward. Thankfully all the complaints from multiple sources meant after two years of her bs she was finally evicted. The quiet ever since has been delicious 🥰 when you're in a high rise especially be mindful of your neighbours, sound carries easily; I understand natural noises like washing machines, kids, pets (if allowed) but there is NO reason to be playing music at a volume that's beyond intrusive, it's inconsiderate, rude and spiteful.
Story 3, what's with the pantyliners every day? I know panty-liner-makers suggest that, but that's not needed. Eurgh, did... Did she wear the same panties without washing them??
When that fourth story started out it sounded really familiar to something I witnessed but the deal with the car tells me it's not the same situation. 😂😂😂😂😂
Story 1 is a Karen. Slamming doors at 10:30 in the morning? I work overnight as well, that doesn't mean people need to be quiet when I'm sleeping during the day.
Some US states have been so afflicted by these short term AB&B apartments, and what they are doing to the housing market and the misery the real renters are dealing with that they are banning them with a state law.
Story 4: people misuse and overuse the term 'gaslighting', but telling someone with bad short-term memory they're remembering stuff wrong and that something didn't happen is actual, genuine gaslighting. Gaslighting makes the victim lose confidence in their memory and basic senses like sight, smell, touch, etc.. We aren't being dramatic when we say gaslighting makes someone feel like they're going insane, because that's what it actuallu does, and the people most at-risk of being gaslit for mentally ill people that already have issues with memory and/or trusting their senses.
Story number 3, what do you mean there's no proof? The camera's gone you didn't take it it only leaves one other person I'm sorry that's proof enough for me also proof enough for me to go full effing scorched-earth as in trust me they're going to pay me back and they will be moving out of their own volition and they'll be doing it very quickly and very hurriedly as they're going to want to leave
Final story: I'm happy the OP is dating someone not A. If they were dating A that would create the question of whether A had only helped OP because she wanted to date him. Since he's dating someone else, that makes A a genuinely good person who wanted to help a neighbour.
The first two stories remind me of living in an on campus apartment. New students moved in & had parties going all the time. I even knocked on their door in pjs at 2 am asking them to quiet down because I needed sleep. Eventually I reported them to my CA & that I had smelled weed at their door (it wasnt legal yet). Needless to say I slept very peacefully for the rest of the semester.
The problem wasn't the rental business. The problem was the door. Op should have asked them to fix it illegal or not they were minding thier own business for the most part
eh, some dumbass tried to scam me via email, and the reply emails were linked to a university, used the @ to find the university, then checked the ip location the email was sent from. sent a screenshot of the scam email to the uni, with both reply addresses. then i sent a screenshot of the uni homepage and ip location to the scammer. haven't heard a thing about it since. as for the scam, some $7M business venture.
Op, after the first month that she was gone, you could of had her car towed away, then. And after a good while of it being on the impound lot, it would be a huge fine for HER to pay to get it out or lose it. And after a few months, the yearly registration, tags should have expired, and that is a different expense, for HER. Hope you recorded or copied all of her calls or text to you. Sorry it took so long, but are we happy that you had a friend in A? YES. LUCK!
First story: I get subleasing wasn't allowed - and that that was how they got them - but I don't really see the cause for so much ire? The noise was more the building than the people. Its not like anyone was trying to annoy OP. It was during normal waking hours. The doors just happened to be loud and OP just happened to sleep during waking hours. Wouldn't hurt to encourage the apartment complex to install pneumatic door closers so things don't slam all day. They're just 15 dollars per door if going cheap.
I don't know for certain and do not condemn. Still, the description of the bad, even terrible room mate, I can't help but wonder if she was an addict in the barely functioning stages. Maybe not, but it's how crazy I lived when trying to hide my substance abuse.
Story #3; I'm really sorry for not understanding how people always seem to need sth very very awefull happen to them 5o get rid of roommates! Like.. WHY would you cater to her for over TWO MONTH?! If she is ON the lease and doesn't pay HER SHARE well, the landlord can kick her out and if she IS NOT on the lease but only YOU are YOU can kick her out! Some people are really BORN to be doormats!
For the last story- do you legally have to inform the owner of a vehicle you’ve had towed off your property? 👀 Because if it’s not legally required, then I wouldn’t say anything and let the fees rack up. You’ve been ignoring my requests, then I’ll ignore you too, ex-of-mine. Just maybe- for CYA purposes- one last message to the tune of “Please, for the last time, when are you going to pick up your car? I won’t ask again.” 😁
Fluff, if you think that is terrifying, don't ever move to Sweden. Most of that info in publicly available. Because that's how our laws work. If I have a phone number, I can find the name, adress, birthday, and other possible snippets of information. I did it on myself once, and was like "how do they know I'm not married and so and so", before I remembered "oh yeah, all that is public" 😂
3rd story: It's a pity she took the cat with her. I hoped she would leave it with OP. I feel sorry for that poor animal. Not properly fed and no clean toilet.
I'm honestly mad at OP for letting her take the cat, and for only snapping after the camera. I would have been so stressed and anxious from how she was treating her cat, I wouldn't be able to handle it
@@damien678She probably would have called the police on Op like she did for the laptop that wasn’t even hers.
Story 3: The cat was missing for 10 days? Okay...time to go John Wick on this bitch.
Story 3: It took a camera for OP to snap? Not the, eating your food and not paying for anything. Not her neglecting her cat and letting it piss and poop everywhere. Not the missing plates, glasses and silverware, and piles of nasty panty liners... A camera! JezUZ. Amy would have caught my hands when she stopped paying and the last straw would have been the cat piss and poop. Amy deserved everything OP did at the end of tenancy and beyond. My only thing is, it should have happened sooner
Seriously why in the hell would you leave your expensive camera out in the open when you can't trust the b!tch not to still your food and hygiene products? OP is a dammed doormat, she should have started the eviction process when she stopped paying rent.
It felt good to hear how op took the laptop back to the rightful owner
Story 3: Man that woman need to understand that kind of behavior is asking OP to take pro-revenge and would go out of their way to make you suffer.
The golden rule of renting with roommates is never be jerk since your roommates might find some dirt on you to use on you.
I agree. But I will say that OP let it go for too long and should’ve done something earlier. She was way too nice and too weak to do anything.
That first one... if everyone had just kept quiet they'd have gotten away with it.
Good for OP with the trashy roommate, I would do exactly that if I were in her shoes
I would've gone one step farther. Get in contact with ASPCA and have HER cat taken away! Adopt said cat, too!
@@phylliskress2296yes!
Story 1 + 2: Don't mess with people trying to sleep. Nobody likes loud and disruptive neighbors
I just had a good text discussion with mine about their barking dog.
Ever have a neighbor who knows you work third shift, so they wait until late afternoon to do noisy yard work, even though they're always up before you get home from work?
i know, every new semester when at uni is just as "interesting" when living in student housing. you never know what new neighbors you get. atleast we have numbers etc to call afther quiet hours starts and loud partys etc afther quiet hours have consequences. the person(s) living at at the apartment etc its beeing hosted at needs to pay a fine + for the security guard to drive there (independent security consern hierd), if needed its also the police. (needed to do it once, security got there 2 times, party dident stop, and was 3-4 in the morning at that time) i dont call security when the time hits on the dot i give people like 30 min then if someone on the same floor im living in i knock on the door. but if people refuses to stopp the party? i will call, the rules are there for a reason afther all.
@@markrahm6900 its quite annoying. I work 3rd shift and all my neighbors know it but the one directly beside me likes to do her cleaning after 3pm even though shes a stay at home wife. She even bangs on the walls between us and gets defensive if we ask her to stop.
Story 3: Fluff, wild animals are cleaner than that woman. They at least know not to mess up where they sleep. That woman seriously needs to see someone about whatever was wrong with her because that’s just crazy to do over something as petty as jealousy. I’ll admit I’m not the neatest or cleanest person but piles of rotting food and animal waste? She needs help.
Also side note, this is why I refuse to have roommates. People feel like it's normal for people to not be able to afford to live in a place by yourself and it's acceptible to have wages be less than the cost of living, so they're just like, live with strangers or acquaintances that are going to destroy your stuff and steal. I hate our system in the US
Sadly it's not just in the US. Sounds like damn near every country is having a cost-of-living crisis
Final story: I’d never had let the ex know her car was towed, blame it on “short term memory loss”
Send her an email thanking her for removing her car and her stuff.
Okay wow , the idea of a lease - rental bring “rented further” and used for airbnb somehow angers me more
*Story 4-* I’m epileptic and my medications make me have the worst memory. I’ll forget words, but I’ll be able to describe what I’m trying to talk about. Also, I’ll forget something that happened, and someone will have to tell me I ether did, or didn’t, do it.
*The only person that’s been able to help me through it is my incredible hubby!!!* He’s always patient with me when I try to remember something. And he’ll even try to help me find the words I forgot. I don’t know what I’d do without him!!! *I love my hubby!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
Op from the last story I’m so happy that A and your therapist got you to realise that didn’t deserve the way your ex treated you as for the car and other things she was left behind that was to torment you with the possibility of her coming over for them😢just keep living a happier life without her!!! 😂👍🏼👏🏼🤟🏼
Thanks Dark and Stevo for all you guys do
We had a neighbor who constantly had foot traffic. Turned out he was either trafficking or facilitating drugs out of his apartment. One neighbor saw them passed out on the patio with IV drugs. After they were evicted, maintinence cleaned out the apartment by tossing stuff over the railing (without warning and we live below), and all kinds of pills in various different people's names and needles were left in the grass. I was ticked. My 5lb dog could have been hurt, or us, or all the kids that run through the back yard.
I can only imagine the aura Amy puts out when people see her. She probably stinks like her room does and has a personality to match, which is why she keeps getting rejected. I'm sure everyone has had the experience of coming within 10 feet of someone and suddenly getting the world's strongest feeling that it is someone you never, ever want to see again. I know I have several times and I've usually been spot on when I hear things that happen later.
Story 3 was my ex roommate. They came living with us. They left never cleaned their room. Left food out and our house is hot cause of reptiles. He eventually stopped paying rent and bills cause they felt blinded sided and wasn't expecting to pay anything while living there. He moved out right when we renewed. It was horrible cause it happened when my wife was hospitalized and I was on my own. They did the same to next ppls and got kicked from there too. Omg cleaning his room was a nightmare. It was disgusting and I got sick for 3 days from it
did you take pictures and sue
@JoeyA1 I showed our landlord. Landlord said they're seeing them because they left while still under contract. If they ever come back and try to weasel themselves into our lives we will
I dont miss having roommates. Had a hippie chick move in briefly many years ago. Within a week, she was dealing LSD out of the apartment, refusing to clean or bathe, while stealing everyone's food, all while refusing to pay rent or utilities. The other roommate and I booted her out quickly. Her revenge was to tell EVERYONE she was booted because she wouldnt sleep with us. Seriously, her stench was eye watering, so no one wanted to be near her. She did leech off a good friend of mine until his untimely death, going as far as to demand all his things and townhouse from his grieving mother.
I remember having a roommate who never cleaned up after herself, leaving crusty pots and pans and dishes all over the kitchen, and keeping old snack bags and bottles in her room. And when I would clean up and put things back in order, she would put it all back and leave post-it notes saying not to touch her stuff. So I asked her when she intended to clean it up and she evaded the question. Needless to say, I did not renew my lease with that pig and I’m glad I can keep my kitchen and general living space as clean as I like. She never even helped with the cleaning effort when we moved out and it took me 3 HOURS to get the stains out of her bedroom and the kitchen. It’s a wonder we never had ants or other pests there.
I had a roommate from hell, once. Early twenties, attending college. Needed a roommate to afford rent. A young woman took the offer. Moved in with nothing but the clothes on her back (she did pay prorated rent for the month), and after constant complaints, general complaints, nothing personal or specific, she set fire to mattress in her room. I called the cops. Luckily there were only few days left and she never came back during those days. The cops had a heck of time finding her getting the key to the apartment back afterwards.
Best part of my day is eating dinner while listening to Fluff
Jeeeeeez louise!
Story 3 reminds me of my own Demon Roommate From Hell, minus the theft of expensive items and the boyfriend/guy friends situation.
It was 1992.
The slobbiness & everything else is pretty much the same, only it was my bff who threw the bag of cat shit in her room.
I kept the cat. He was my best buddy.
'I kept the cat' is all I wanna hear whenever I come across stories like this
@@damien678
He was definitely my cat from the moment I first held him! Instant bond.
20 years later, I had another roommate break lease and abandon the two cats she'd adopted a month prior.
They are now about 10 years old and snuggling with me as I settle in bed.
I will _always_ keep the cats. 💖
It’s funny that even the roaches didn’t want to be at home, which that awful woman you had live with you
Story 3: I can understand being jealous towards someone, but damn is this some SERIOUSLY unhealthy behavior coming from Amy. Like, trying to hit on everyone, not paying rent, stealing stuff, letting cats stink up the place, she needs some help.
Ye that story screams untreated mental health issues. I hope she gets the help she needs.
I live next door to a b&b and all the tenants have been awesome. After hearing all the stories fluff tells us I was thinking I’d have a story to send in but the rudest I’ve seen is I say hi and they don’t.
Story 3... getting the camera back... as likely the camera was not a very cheap one... and was likely 2k+ and the lens... was likely in the same price range.
Personally... they would have come home to final written warnings... and if they weren't heeded... would have found the lock changed after the 2nd missed rent, so could not return.
@Darkfluff wild animals are cleaner than that person!
Amy freaking kept the cat she neglected?
Story three, I lived in a similar situation, except I was the roommate in a "friend's" house. Trapped financially in a old, poorly constructed house what wasn't even remotely close to being up to code, let his dogs shit and piss all over the tile floor, trash and festering fountain drink cups all over the place, and to top it all off, the entire house was infested with mice, roaches and worst of all, bedbugs. Dudes mother was a straight up Karen and he turned into a raging, opini9nated dickhead where we've had more than a few physical altercations. He liked to brag he was a retired Marine. (he wasn't. He went into basic training, blew out his knee after a week or two and was discharged and barred from re-entering. Yet he somehow gets VA benefits.) We finally got out of that damn house last December after he and his family abandoned the house and took off to Vegas, WHILE MY FIANCE AND I WERE STILL LIVING THERE
Thank you for your great story telling as always 🥰
about the cat, I would have not let her leave with her cat but called animal control on her saying she cannot care for the cat and I fear the cat will be harmed.
I loath apartment renting! Roommates can be good, but they can go bad. I’ve had good and bad experiences with roommates but nothing like the first op.Good thing I live in a house.
I'm very proud of last story's OP.
How my landlord found one of my neighbors was renting their apt as an Airbnb was crazy. The Airbnb renter went to my landlords office looking for the keys. When my landlord asked who they are, they got the whole story. They were asked to leave while my landlord changed the locks to that apt. Funny thing they were a month behind on the rent while they were doing this. You know what is even funnier that renter never came back. After a few months my landlord cleared that apt out, and later rented it. After about 6 months with the new tenant, they told my landlord how someone claimed their apt was still an Airbnb, and they had rented. A treat to call the cops got rid of them. Thankfully nothing since.
First story: not all heroes wear capes. This third-shifter salutes you!
It is insane how many times per video i end up saying to myself, "do you need me to kill this guy for you OP"
Yeah, people think technology is an awesome thing, but if you know how you can find anyone anywhere.
Why, why, why do people allow their roommates crap to go on for so long. The first time I would have seen the cat crap on the floor, it would have been on. I mean, cat piss and crap is really, REALLY smelly.
Story 3: I wouldn't be able to handle that neglect of her cat for a few days, let alone TWO MONTHS. Thats disgusting and incredibly terrible to everyone in the apartment, but especially that poor kitty.
Story 4: I actually think it's better that A never wound up with OP. Mainly because it shows that she was a true friend and not doing it for selfish reasons.
Story 4. Ex’s will always try to leave a way to worm back into your life. Either to save you as a back up or to continue tormenting you. The best thing to do is to burn all of their stuff. Make a clean break. 20:33
my god, I'll admit that I don't always keep my bedroom clean, but god damn, I at least try to keep things clean, and never nasty stuff, I take the trash out weekly, I clean cat waste, and any food mess.... I would not date that woman, I feel like just knowing her would give me some kind of illness.
Story 3 ... and people say men are slobs. No amount of money is worth living with that type of person.
Airbnb story: Idiot! If the lease doesn't allow it, it's a pretty stupid move to attempt it. Someone will notice and report what's going on. And Airbnb has everything online for the world to see.
Affair story: Almost surprised OP hasn't seen more of the man and his car, minus the car seats.
*I've got to say, messy people just rankle me.*
That’s not just messy.
@Mistner I know a plethora of words that most folks don't bother to learn.
I have severe ADHD symptoms and while I can be messy I still try to clean up as much as I can. I clean my kitten's litter boxes daily. I'm in the habit of cleaning their bowls after their meals. I wash out the tins to be recycled (even though chances are they'll still end up in a dumpster). I also have some pretty bad depression, but I know if I let my living space get messy it'll only make my mental health tank.
So really there's no good excuses. I think there are sympathetic reasons people get like this but that they cannot be allowed to continue living like they do. We all deserve to be happy and not live in filth, all of them included. I love myself, my partner, and my kittens enough to organise and clean the place
Story 3 - That would not have lasted even a week. I have a fair few issues
...My Cat has kept my mental state stable. When it was merely _discussed_ that she may be given away, I took myself hostage with a knife. Once my cat slipped out of her harness and I went completely nuts and was ready to cut off that family member forever until she wandered back in
I have no idea how I'd react to my cat going missing, but I operate under NO illusions that it would be anything less but Nuclear Revenge worthy
I am not saying my responses are just, right, or even _sane_ - I recognized I am unstable, I am on multiple meds to maintain emotional and mental stability
I think my point is more, these people are playing with fire because you do NOT know who may be completely crazed
I haven't been put in the situation yet...but if there was even a threat of my two boys being taken I think it'd also take extremely drastic measures, too.
They've really improved the mental health of myself and my partner. Idk what either of us would do without them. We'd at least have each other but they bring so much joy and stability into our lives.
Anything you can do to take down Air B&B. It needs to go.
Honestly screw airbnb, don't use it if you have any other options
I've done the roommate thing and the crazy ex thing, never doing either again... Roommate's friends kept stealing my stuff so I bailed (it was their place), let my crazy ex move in with me and she just sat around all day doing nothing (no job) while bitching about why I never had money to do anything (I paid for everything as I own my house).
Lesson 1. Your health and welfare come before anyone else's period. You aren't of any use to anyone if you're a complete wreck mentally or physically.
Lesson 2. Even if you room with your best friend it can still go to hell on you.
Lesson 3, At the first sign that there is something wrong in your relationship, work to get it fixed immediately or bail (see rule 1 and rule 4).
Lesson 4. Being alone (and/or single) and happy with yourself is preferable to being surrounded by dolts who make you miserable.
Lesson 5. Always have a backup plan and an escape route.
I love listening to these when I'm doing school idk why
S3: on Ops edit, Amy should’ve been arrested.
You always tell us not to shake our heads too hard, but what if we're listening to some banger music? Like the background vibes?
story 2. you are right.. this shouldnt be possible in a civlised country. probably a case of things that didnt happen on the internet, or op is in some crap hole with alarmingly lose GDPR laws.
in the uk you could techically do it, but you would need proof and a reason to make a request to the DVLA for contact details from a number plate. unfortunatly adultry isnt a reason, the forms are for vehicular damage only.
story 3. that went on for how long?? why let it get to that, you end that Bs the SECOND it happens. if your a bit soft you give them a chance..... but months ?? heck no
Best part of my day is a DarkFluff video!
As to the roomate from hell story op was to nice for to long but finally stopped the insanity. Op should have sued that lunatic. As to the last story that nasty person got what she deserved and op is doing much better without her.
We have both regular apartments and some Airbnb units. We own the entire building and if ANY of the regular tenants complain the Airbnb guests get a message. If it keeps going they get asked to leave, and/or a fee, plus a bad review. We like it because we get warned when a bad guest shows up.
Wild Animals have betters manners than that.
I've been watching some youtubes where a professional cleaner comes and cleans apartments for free because these people are unable to do it themselves through things like depression, ill health etc. The apartments are covered in filth and garbage that is overwhelming. This lady sounds like she might have been going through the same thing after being rejected multiple times and it maybe not able to cope anymore. It's entirely possible her mental health was deteriorating. Especially since it was all of a sudden. Only my opinion.
why did everybody slam the door? there are ways to make an entry door quiet. these doors were probably not set up properly.
I know someone that likes to set the lock when the door's still open, then slam it HARD into the frame, instead of turning her body, closing the door and then locking it. Of course she eventually broke the lock, and complained about it's quality. I told her "You slam that thing about 10 times a day, I'm surprised it lasted this long".
Also there's the people that close doors with a kick.
Preaching facts Darkfluff about noise travelling and other neighbours being at the receiving end. I remember when I moved into my flat and within DAYS someone on the 17th floor was blaring music at all hours, turned out this was a recurring problem but the people affected, above and below, were afraid to report them because the woman doing it had a "friend" who bullied/harassed anyone who tried to interject. Me and my (now) ex weren't willing to back down though and painstakingly over a two year period of constant music, we documented and videoed the noise; surprisingly our decision to push back emboldened other residents who had been too terrified to also come forward.
Thankfully all the complaints from multiple sources meant after two years of her bs she was finally evicted. The quiet ever since has been delicious 🥰 when you're in a high rise especially be mindful of your neighbours, sound carries easily; I understand natural noises like washing machines, kids, pets (if allowed) but there is NO reason to be playing music at a volume that's beyond intrusive, it's inconsiderate, rude and spiteful.
Story 3 - For goodness sake... 1) Where did the camera come from? 2) What happened to Amy's cat?
Story 3, what's with the pantyliners every day? I know panty-liner-makers suggest that, but that's not needed. Eurgh, did... Did she wear the same panties without washing them??
She most likely was wearing dirty underwear, yes
Thanks for the video Fluff. Roommate did the right thing
3rd story - did Amy take her cat when she left? I don't remember OP mentioning if she did.
When that fourth story started out it sounded really familiar to something I witnessed but the deal with the car tells me it's not the same situation. 😂😂😂😂😂
Story 1 is a Karen. Slamming doors at 10:30 in the morning? I work overnight as well, that doesn't mean people need to be quiet when I'm sleeping during the day.
Some US states have been so afflicted by these short term AB&B apartments, and what they are doing to the housing market and the misery the real renters are dealing with that they are banning them with a state law.
Aloha fellow Fluffers from burnt Maui! 🤕
S3. The Queen of Petty Revenge. Empress of payback. All hail
I don't think the door is broken. I just think people were being idiots and slamming the door for some reason
Last story: I am glad that OP found love outside of his neighbour. That would have been a trauma bond and OP might not have fully healed.
I can't believe how many people put up with so much crap from 'room-mates' for so long before taking action... boggles my mind
time for revenge
Fluff time!
I wish OP had chosen a different name for the villain in story 3!
Story 3: Wild animals are cleaner.
Story 4: people misuse and overuse the term 'gaslighting', but telling someone with bad short-term memory they're remembering stuff wrong and that something didn't happen is actual, genuine gaslighting.
Gaslighting makes the victim lose confidence in their memory and basic senses like sight, smell, touch, etc.. We aren't being dramatic when we say gaslighting makes someone feel like they're going insane, because that's what it actuallu does, and the people most at-risk of being gaslit for mentally ill people that already have issues with memory and/or trusting their senses.
Story 1: In the words of Robert A. Heinlein: "Waking a person without good cause should not carry the death penalty- for a first offense."
Story number 3, what do you mean there's no proof? The camera's gone you didn't take it it only leaves one other person I'm sorry that's proof enough for me also proof enough for me to go full effing scorched-earth as in trust me they're going to pay me back and they will be moving out of their own volition and they'll be doing it very quickly and very hurriedly as they're going to want to leave
Final story: I'm happy the OP is dating someone not A. If they were dating A that would create the question of whether A had only helped OP because she wanted to date him. Since he's dating someone else, that makes A a genuinely good person who wanted to help a neighbour.
The first two stories remind me of living in an on campus apartment. New students moved in & had parties going all the time. I even knocked on their door in pjs at 2 am asking them to quiet down because I needed sleep. Eventually I reported them to my CA & that I had smelled weed at their door (it wasnt legal yet). Needless to say I slept very peacefully for the rest of the semester.
The problem wasn't the rental business. The problem was the door. Op should have asked them to fix it illegal or not they were minding thier own business for the most part
last story - must have bern the Ford double clutch automatic used in their smaller cars.
The last story, was it a KIA?
eh, some dumbass tried to scam me via email, and the reply emails were linked to a university, used the @ to find the university, then checked the ip location the email was sent from.
sent a screenshot of the scam email to the uni, with both reply addresses. then i sent a screenshot of the uni homepage and ip location to the scammer. haven't heard a thing about it since.
as for the scam, some $7M business venture.
Op, after the first month that she was gone, you could of had her car towed away, then. And after a good while of it being on the impound lot, it would be a huge fine for HER to pay to get it out or lose it. And after a few months, the yearly registration, tags should have expired, and that is a different expense, for HER. Hope you recorded or copied all of her calls or text to you. Sorry it took so long, but are we happy that you had a friend in A? YES. LUCK!
First story: I get subleasing wasn't allowed - and that that was how they got them - but I don't really see the cause for so much ire? The noise was more the building than the people. Its not like anyone was trying to annoy OP. It was during normal waking hours. The doors just happened to be loud and OP just happened to sleep during waking hours.
Wouldn't hurt to encourage the apartment complex to install pneumatic door closers so things don't slam all day. They're just 15 dollars per door if going cheap.
Thank you boys
If the cat was locked in your room how did she throw it out?
Yay Fluff time 🎶 Even fluff time can't keep me from Jury Duty 😥
2nd story just felt creepy. I now how easy finding things out about people is. but I'm never going to be supportive of the creepy behavior.
I don't know for certain and do not condemn. Still, the description of the bad, even terrible room mate, I can't help but wonder if she was an addict in the barely functioning stages. Maybe not, but it's how crazy I lived when trying to hide my substance abuse.
I call BS on the first story getting that much info from the complex's office with even calling back to tell them what all was going on
Story #3; I'm really sorry for not understanding how people always seem to need sth very very awefull happen to them 5o get rid of roommates! Like.. WHY would you cater to her for over TWO MONTH?! If she is ON the lease and doesn't pay HER SHARE well, the landlord can kick her out and if she IS NOT on the lease but only YOU are YOU can kick her out! Some people are really BORN to be doormats!
For the last story- do you legally have to inform the owner of a vehicle you’ve had towed off your property? 👀 Because if it’s not legally required, then I wouldn’t say anything and let the fees rack up. You’ve been ignoring my requests, then I’ll ignore you too, ex-of-mine. Just maybe- for CYA purposes- one last message to the tune of “Please, for the last time, when are you going to pick up your car? I won’t ask again.” 😁
Here only police officers can access license number info.
What a horrible person that ex was
Fluff, if you think that is terrifying, don't ever move to Sweden.
Most of that info in publicly available. Because that's how our laws work.
If I have a phone number, I can find the name, adress, birthday, and other possible snippets of information.
I did it on myself once, and was like "how do they know I'm not married and so and so", before I remembered "oh yeah, all that is public" 😂
I hope amy's cat landed softly.
dark fluff vs karens
STORY 3. Who returned the Camera??
What the hell is that thing supposed to be?