I met a few Polish women in Krakow, they were usually very friendly and warm to me, but I'm not too sure how they'll be in a relationship in the long term.
I think the 4th secret comes directly from our history. Basically every few decades we had some kind of war or uprising so our men were fighting and polish women had to maintain the house during (and often after) those hard time. They couldn't constantly apologize because they had to survive and they didn't have time for that
working a full time job, cooking, cleaning, taking care of our son alone and a little time to be on camera with your hubs. You are indeed a POLISH WOMAN. ❤️❤️
Pani Karolino , zdaje się ,że stała się Pani przyczyną ciekawych i inteligentnych przemyślen pewnego naturalizowanego Latynosa , który miał na tyle odwagi (lub mało instynktu samozachowaczego) by poślubić Polkę ...
Erm... actually, isn't it women who say that love should be taken seriously? I am sorry but I fear that if men treated women like they treat men, most women would run away... Maybe I am a bit embittered after my experiences, sorry...
@@miceliusbeverus6447 the push and pull is more to test if you can trust someone rather than to treat them badly and doesn't last forever so you might have had been a bit embittered by your experiences
@@miceliusbeverus6447he is not talking about manipulation cuz IT'S NOT CONCIOUS, he talks about taking the lead of relationship and seeing if the person can handle difficult situations while being guided or being on their own
You blown my mind ... I found who i am thanks to you . Now i understand why it's not easy to be around us . I live in Japan and here most of women are nothing like me. ... Thank you for analysing me and helping me to accept it ... Cheers .... Keep up your great job ...
Oww yeah, I absolutely agree with all of them. What's interesting that if you think about it, they all come out from one another (including "yeah, this is me, deal with it" :D) - we (polish women) absolutely ARE going to persevere, so we're planning forward, putting all puzzles we need in the right place, we don't like to change our plan, we worry if everything comes eventually into fruition and we need a right man to be our rock when we try to go trough our life :) ...and yes, we care, we care deeply. So please take your vitamins!
A polish woman can be any of those 4 types, depending on current moon cycle. Married to a polish woman for over 45 years. You will know Im right, give it time.
„Psychology for the dummies with JT” 😋 Yet another insightful and carefully thought over video, 👏. And the precision of pronunciation of trzy and cztery rocks!! Wow.
I definitely agree with the statement about testing the man, checking where are the boundaries. For me also it is about if the man can tell me 'no' or 'stop' at some point. It is not an easy task, so real appreciation for those who can 'survive' this :D
I believe I would be most compatible with a Polish woman, both in terms of temperament and genetics. I identify strongly with the melancholic temperament and personality type you described, which is why I am specifically looking for a partner who shares this trait. I was born in Germany to an Italian father and a Romanian mother, but my mother’s heritage connects me more closely to Slavic countries like Poland and Ukraine, but also to Germany because she also has some ethnic connections to Germans. Poland, being at the crossroads of these regions, feels like a natural fit for me. Genetically, I align more with my mother’s side, which places me near Northern Romania, Ukraine, and Poland. My father’s roots lie in Southern Italy and the Mediterranean, with some Greek influence. My skin color is definitely more Mediterranean. But the Mediterranean also has a long historical connection to Romania. Given my cultural and genetic background, I always feel an instinctive attraction to Polish women, even more so than to Italian or Romanian women. Polish women represent the perfect bridge between my ancestry and my German birthplace. However, finding a Polish woman in Germany isn’t easy, as there aren’t many, especially single ones. And I don’t speak Polish, as I’ve lived in Germany my whole life. But I‘ve had a relationship with a Polish woman once and that’s been the closest I have ever found to the best match for me.
:) Hello! I'm from Poland and I think, it's interesting. I actually agree with you. I think that the minority of women in today's Poland is a combination of melancholy and phlegmatic - those more old-fashioned women. I'm that kind of woman and my close friends are too. I'm a person who is hard to anger. I'm very patient, because before I give my opinion or take any action, I first analyze what the consequences may be. Sometimes I'm a perfectionist, but sometimes I know that it isn't worth putting in something too much work and stress. I think, that there is time for everything in life. 🌄I like to spend time at home, but I'm also very curious about the world. Also I have a very strong sense of solidarity with the present and the future. I believe that if I can sacrifice something to make people's lives better in the future, then I should do it, because life is not only for us and we aren't on earth to take everything for ourselves. I think that every person is endowed with some talent and we shouldn't try to fight each other, but complement each other. As for the requirements. In my opinion, responsibility and loyalty are still the most desirable qualities that many women are looking for. Faithfulness is no easy matter in our day. I think that the source of fidelity shouldn't be sought only in the person we care about, but also in his or her nearest surroundings. It's often our environment that shapes our character and our inner strength 💪. And one more truth... Usually when someone is toooooo nice we feel like asking: "What do you want from me?", because it's kind of weird 😉. Of course, what I wrote about is my opinion and my experience. Greetings from Łódź :)
I think most of women doesn't like "ciepłe kluchy" 😅 Another great, very analitic video JT, what a good observer you are. And keep on going with learning polish, you are doing great job, especially with pronunciation which is a complicated one.
To jest naprawde mila obserwacja 💖. Mysle, ze Polki czuja sie odpowiedzialne aby trzymac rodzine. Gdy cos nie idzie jak trzeba to steruja tym statkiem, a nie wysiadaja.
You are absolutely right. As a polish women and a wife of thirty years I have to agree with you. We are strong caring and opinionated ,and we are proud of it. We just love our families.
Prawda 🙇♀️🙆🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ all need to be said you stayed perfectly 👍 your Wife is very lucky to have such a intelligent husband who deeply hidden advantages of polish women character figured out and appreciates it . With some man you can’t make a deal I swear 😅 . That why is so hard to find partner for the polish women! the guy from start has to be on the same intelligence level. Congrats guys 👍
Another great video. In my view a lot of this applies to Polish men to. Melancholic personality type as you described it, detail-oriented, committed. Being in the US I found that many Americans seem to have some commitment issues. Like they’ll date only to suddenly call it off bc they want to travel, or have to move to the next state, or live one-hour drive away and it becomes tedious to drive that far. As a Pole, I’m like “really”?! Like none of this is a problem in my view, just commit damn it and give me no BS! Lol
oh goshhhh all of this is so true!! I’m a Polish woman and i couldn’t agree more! 😂 Well done on the video! Can’t wait to send this to my friends from abroad haha
I’m not born in Poland but I’m polish German and third generation. I will say the women in this family are insanely strong and bank on us getting things done and we don’t deal with any BS. We really mean well and want our husbands to succeed and be the best at it too. My family has kept traditions for many many generations. We do not raise our children to be passive or dependent. We thrive on challenges and strength. Also don’t mind taking the reins to the household if needed. I’m really proud of my heritage. After seeing a couple of these videos I have noticed it’s spot on. Though we have been in America since the 1940s we don’t take our beliefs or traditions lightly. We don’t want to sit on the sidelines. We want to run this house side by side. Also do not make the mistake of assuming with polish women either. She will not like it I promise.
I'm a Canadian femme lesbian in a long distance relationship with a tomboy Polish woman. I'm planning on moving to Cieszyn Poland in approximately 8 months. She is very empathetic, kind, reliable, intelligent, responsible, close to her mom, hardworking, emotional, Christian, and loyal. She has a hard time understanding when I'm kidding or being serious. We've had some misunderstandings, however, she's the most beautiful person I've ever met! She truly is amazing! We're still a new couple, therefore, we're still learning about eachother, but I'm very excited to spend forever with her. Because it's not legal to marry same sex partners in Poland, we will eventually be both moving back to Canada. I never were interested in learning about Poland before, but now I want to know as much as possible! The language looks very difficult to learn! She knows English pretty well, to be honest. I love her accent! Anyway, I'm loving your channel 🤗👍
All the best for you! I'm planning to do the same. I'm a femme who lives in Australia half of my life and she's a femme too. Trying to learn more about Poland and its people before I take the trip 😊
This is correct. Thankyou so much. Yes, Polski we are almost come across as psychopathic sometimes but our focus is for our safe beautiful family. We love people. But we are not naive. If you do study on the 'Polish salute' of two fingers in the military, which is the military for Poland today, you will see why the two fingers are there. Yes we are melancholic. But we know life is a grim hustle, but we are always honourable
I’ve been together with my Polish girlfriend for five years and we will be married in about a year… You probably expect me to say that I recognize everything you are saying, but the opposite is true. The only thing I recognize is 1 & 4, but I recognize the other stuff in a lot of her friends. Especially the ‘pull & push’ dynamic and the ‘melancholic temper’. I’m quite happy it is not the case in my girlfriend. She is proud of being polish, but always noticed her being somewhat different from her polish relatives and friends personality wise. And that’s one of the many things I love about her!
I loved it as I think you could not be more accurate. I am a Polish "ciepła klucha" man and it's visible for me, that Polish women don't like that at all. The rest of it is also true - practicality, stubbornness... ;)
Mi novia polaca y yo estamos juntos hace un poco más de 2 años y es increíble como lograste describir tan bien cosas de mi relación. Que buen video, tus secretos me hicieron ver mi relación con otros ojos. Saludos a toda la familia.
These 4 temperaments are quite aligned with simplified Jungian personality theory - if you look at derivative profiling methodologies that are often used in cooperate or professional ecosystems to improve teamwork and social adhesion awareness - they are very similar -> like DISC or Insight Discovery - these are very very close. In this example if I use your 4 temperaments and then align it respectively to DISC letters and Insights Color Dominants it would give: Sanguine - I (Influential) - Yellow Dominant Phlegmatic - S (Steady) - Green Dominant Melancholic - C (Compliant) - Blue Dominant Choleric - D (Dominant) - Red Dominant And generally you tend to have complimentary and antagonistic pairings - like if you imagine these 4 being quarters of a circle ordered exactly in this way. Sanguine and Melancholic will be opposites / same as Phlegmatic and Choleric -> in theory these pairings of dominant traits of personalities or in your exposé "temperaments" will in average provoke more conflicts as their fundamental values and behavior preferences are polarized or even opposite. But as long as they learn to overcome the conflict such pairings might be better at achieving complex goals together as they have a wider array of comfort-zones in attitudes and habits to commonly employ to overcome a wide range of social and practical challenges. (mix of introvert and extravert, focus on tasks and people, ease in following rules or in pursuing values or taking spontaneous efficient vs cautious well calculated decisions) .... again as long as they overcome superficially arguing whose approach is universally the best and they switch to commonly balancing which task/obstacle is better suited for which partner's approach.
Strange, that you don't mention the traits of most Polish women's character and behavior which all of my foreign male friends that live in Poland mention, and that is being very gentle, very warm, caring, empathetic and kind.
Funny that you posted a picture of a woman laying down and playing Switch while talking about phlegmatic temperament. Just what I was doing a moment before turning on RUclips. I'm phlegmatic; my mother and sister are both cholerics (my mom is a psychologist so it's not just something I've assumed) so I can't relate to the video much, but I don't have many friends so I won't disagree that most Polish women are melancholic. Enjoyed watching.
Co do melancholii - na takie osoby wychowuje się dziewczynki w Polsce. Za dzieciaka dziewczynki przeważnie są energicznymi dziećmi w takim samym stopniu jak chłopcy, ale jak tylko dziewczyna zaczyna dojrzewać to społeczeństwo zaczyna wymagać, aby dziewczynki brały odpowiedzialność za wszystko, pokazuje się dziewczynom i mówi na każdym kroku, że nie są idealne, że muszą się bardziej starać, mimo że robią więcej i lepiej od chłopców (w Polsce jest takie przeświadczenie, że dziewczyna ma nakazy i zakazy a chłopaki mogą robić i mówić, często krzywdzić, co tylko chcą tłumacząc ich zachowanie "to tylko chłopcy" albo "chłopcy tacy są") a tego typu zachowanie w stosunku do dziewczynek bardzo psuje psychikę, dlatego dorosłe kobiety są ciche, bo są już zmęczone ciągłym narzekaniem na nie.
Co do dziewczyn to się zgodzę, ale nie co do chłopców. Tylko pokolenie 'bezstresowego wychowania' nie narzuca zasad chłopcom. Nie pamiętam, żeby którykolwiek rodzic kiedy ja się wychowywałam powiedział "to tylko chłopcy", wręcz przeciwnie - to zawsze chłopcy dostawali po głowie jak kłócili się z dziewczynkami, bo 'nie wolno być niemiłym dla dziewczynek'. Jak chłopcy się popychali dla zabawy to pół biedy, ale popchnij albo pociągnij lekko dziewczynę za warkocz (nawet przez przypadek) to łolaboga jaki rumor był na podwórku. Mężczyzna jest w Polsce nikim, jeśli nie ma stałej pracy, pogardzany, jak nie ma rodziny.
Hi Vigo! I like to listen to you. I don't really sure I agree but this stuff is so interesting and I can see you as mixture of sanguine and choleric - it's captivating for listeners/watchers. Cheers! I always wanted to meet such a person to make friends.
Amazing! I am Polish woman and I am exactly as you are decribing us :) I live in France and I my relations with French men ends always because I feel like they are cieple kluchy ;)))))) And they think that I am rude:))))
You’ve got some good observations here;) why don’t you make a movie about polish women in history? Starting from Maria Skłodowska-Curie , who’s called the most incredible in World’s history ;)
so I think I am not a typical polish woman (I am sanguine and Marek's melancholic - it's a good combo imo) but few parts were describing me right :) ps Team kapcie ❤❤❤👍😊
you just described all women on the over all. i know as a. mother in south africa from many back grounds german british and french blood lines. i am very forward thinking and for my family kids and their goodwill. and yip as well love my independence and head strong hard working strong woman i am. haha then the truth hits u in the face..... polish woman mostly blond pretty and lavish on them selves especially in these modern times they seem very modern and always having to look and have the best..... so oh well i might not have those exact traits of what they look like but the rest i sure have and i am not polish. so who says a polish woman is all that when all woman over the world are most the same
I agree sir I think it is all OK, that was their culture. We are global learning improvement progress for right and praiseworthy is defend on how you see it. Polish girl brave strong and good observer. No matter it was if you love her fully you do right and Iam believing and I know you can carry all.
Im Polish. Very clever observations. You an an definitely more than an average intelligent human being. Congrats. It is a cult of women reaching out to pagan times. Women were treated by Slavs like goddess. Even Maria is worshipped more than God or Jesus himself in Poland. First registered Polish song was Bogurodzica. All about the Maria since the beginning. Women are important here. Ald also, I had a good laugh too, so true. Thanks.
As a Polish woman, I imidiately thought "yup, that's me" when you were describing melancholic temperament, even before you said that it suits Polish women ;p
You see, that video was done for and under strict and watchful eye of your wife. "You better do it right with out offending her " or else. And she can show you that " it can be done wright" . 👍👍👍
Polish women and her guys, I need your advice. How to deal with this push and pull? I am dating a Polish woman for 4 months now... Everything fine... But now, I feel pushed away... For no reason... How can I pull her back to me? It drives me nuts 😅😢
I don’t think this behavior is specific to Polish women; it’s something many women tend to do. This push-and-pull dynamic is a manipulation tactic, often a sign of a toxic person and a big red flag. It’s important not to let her manipulate you. I know from experience that it can really drive you crazy, but once you recognize the manipulation, you have two options: either you understand how to play and win the game she‘s playing, or, if you’re less experienced, it’s best to walk away. If she senses that you can’t outmaneuver her, she’s likely to take advantage of you.
Let me offer some advice: dominate this game by using specific tactics. When she pulls away, don’t chase-mirror her actions by pulling back. This shows you’re in control and not desperate. Most women play this game, so gaining experience is key. Don’t get too emotionally invested too soon. Stay detached, maintaining a calm, indifferent attitude. Use scarcity to increase her interest-when she shows interest, give her attention, but not too much, just enough to keep her intrigued. Pull back further when she distances herself. This unpredictability keeps her chasing. Set firm boundaries and don’t tolerate manipulative behavior. Make her realize you don’t need her without saying it directly. Be cautious when she shows more interest-it could be a test. Stay distant, keep her chasing you, and avoid becoming just another follower. These are the basics. To learn more, explore the pickup game and red pill community, as learning from others’ experiences will save you time and missed opportunities.
I love u maaan 😄💖 you are incredible in your in depth analysis and appreciation of Polish women 👍👍👍 I’d say you complete your wife perfectly, and you are both lucky to have each other 😁 I wish I have someone like you 😁
not at all! we are all a combination of thing, but you have some dominant ones. In the description of the video there is a direct link for a test and you can see what's your dominant temperament.
I am willing to have a relationship with a polish girl, your videos encouraged me to take this step whenever available. Thank you so much for the content. Polish girl has everything I am looking for. I find them so pretty as I like blond hair, caring, and appreciate the family. Their culture and values match mine as well, so I will have an exciting an prosper life with my future polish girl ❤️. I will learn some polish 😅
Polski Napisy już! 🇵🇱
I should also learn... ja mowię troche!!!
@@H13-b3x i mean what he say, in Poland is first lesson when you studing psychologist
You speak very nice Polish )
Omg, you're right, polish women are melancholic. I'm a polish woman.
@@sztagsztag1350 Psychology not psychologist. Psychology is the subject of science, psychologist is the profession.
As a Chinese guy who's married to a Polish woman I 100% agree with everything said in this video. I'm speechless. Dobra robota!
Oh, it's so nice. "Hello" from polish women )
Im very sorry my Maaan...... Peter.....couse how can U not love Polish Women 😄😄😋
I met a few Polish women in Krakow, they were usually very friendly and warm to me, but I'm not too sure how they'll be in a relationship in the long term.
As a Polish woman, I must say you nailed it! Really described me haha
I think the 4th secret comes directly from our history. Basically every few decades we had some kind of war or uprising so our men were fighting and polish women had to maintain the house during (and often after) those hard time. They couldn't constantly apologize because they had to survive and they didn't have time for that
He knows too much
😆😆yes! He is damn goood!
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Ha Ha!!
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Si, qualche volta è meglio essere ignoranti, o fingere
I just finishd watching after putting Vigo to sleep and I gotta say, you passed - A+ 😱🤣😍
working a full time job, cooking, cleaning, taking care of our son alone and a little time to be on camera with your hubs. You are indeed a POLISH WOMAN. ❤️❤️
Pani Karolino , zdaje się ,że stała się Pani przyczyną ciekawych i inteligentnych przemyślen pewnego naturalizowanego Latynosa , który miał na tyle odwagi (lub mało instynktu samozachowaczego) by poślubić Polkę ...
MAN YOU ARE TOO GOOD, 'push and pull paradox' killed me, it's so accure
It's incredible how foreing husband noticed so many things about polish wives 😊👍
Thank you for this video! 💖 I'm a Polish woman and you made me realise few things here 😊👍 Best greetings for you and your family 👨👩👦
Good observation. "Pushing and pulling" is probably in our vein - we do it subconsciously, but man who survive this is realy worthy to stay with him.
Erm... actually, isn't it women who say that love should be taken seriously?
I am sorry but I fear that if men treated women like they treat men, most women would run away... Maybe I am a bit embittered after my experiences, sorry...
@@miceliusbeverus6447 the push and pull is more to test if you can trust someone rather than to treat them badly and doesn't last forever so you might have had been a bit embittered by your experiences
ew, that is nasty... polish girl here - never pushed and pulled my man, but I know a lot of guys who do that
@@miceliusbeverus6447he is not talking about manipulation cuz IT'S NOT CONCIOUS, he talks about taking the lead of relationship and seeing if the person can handle difficult situations while being guided or being on their own
Pięknie wyłapałeś te wszystkie cechy charakteru i umiejętności Polek. Nic dodać, nic ująć. Świetny film. Zresztą jak zawsze. 👍🙃
100% you are good. Take it from a Polish woman married to an American man for 46 years.🙏❤
You blown my mind ... I found who i am thanks to you . Now i understand why it's not easy to be around us . I live in Japan and here most of women are nothing like me. ... Thank you for analysing me and helping me to accept it ... Cheers .... Keep up your great job ...
Prosze nie zmieniaj sie 😄 może nauczysz japonki być bardziej badass 😁
A jakie są Japonki??? And what are Japanese? I am Polish.
But sometimes are stubborn and difficult to deal with them
Just opinion
Oww yeah, I absolutely agree with all of them.
What's interesting that if you think about it, they all come out from one another (including "yeah, this is me, deal with it" :D) - we (polish women) absolutely ARE going to persevere, so we're planning forward, putting all puzzles we need in the right place, we don't like to change our plan, we worry if everything comes eventually into fruition and we need a right man to be our rock when we try to go trough our life :)
...and yes, we care, we care deeply. So please take your vitamins!
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A polish woman can be any of those 4 types, depending on current moon cycle. Married to a polish woman for over 45 years. You will know Im right, give it time.
Can you tell me how did you meet your polish wife. Pls I am curious and are you from Poland (is poland your motherland)
„Psychology for the dummies with JT” 😋 Yet another insightful and carefully thought over video, 👏. And the precision of pronunciation of trzy and cztery rocks!! Wow.
I definitely agree with the statement about testing the man, checking where are the boundaries. For me also it is about if the man can tell me 'no' or 'stop' at some point. It is not an easy task, so real appreciation for those who can 'survive' this :D
It's "ciepłe kluchy" detection.
In poland, men always respected women. We used to kiss a woman's hand when greeting them.
I believe I would be most compatible with a Polish woman, both in terms of temperament and genetics. I identify strongly with the melancholic temperament and personality type you described, which is why I am specifically looking for a partner who shares this trait. I was born in Germany to an Italian father and a Romanian mother, but my mother’s heritage connects me more closely to Slavic countries like Poland and Ukraine, but also to Germany because she also has some ethnic connections to Germans. Poland, being at the crossroads of these regions, feels like a natural fit for me.
Genetically, I align more with my mother’s side, which places me near Northern Romania, Ukraine, and Poland. My father’s roots lie in Southern Italy and the Mediterranean, with some Greek influence. My skin color is definitely more Mediterranean. But the Mediterranean also has a long historical connection to Romania. Given my cultural and genetic background, I always feel an instinctive attraction to Polish women, even more so than to Italian or Romanian women. Polish women represent the perfect bridge between my ancestry and my German birthplace.
However, finding a Polish woman in Germany isn’t easy, as there aren’t many, especially single ones. And I don’t speak Polish, as I’ve lived in Germany my whole life. But I‘ve had a relationship with a Polish woman once and that’s been the closest I have ever found to the best match for me.
:) Hello! I'm from Poland and I think, it's interesting.
I actually agree with you. I think that the minority of women in today's Poland is a combination of melancholy and phlegmatic - those more old-fashioned women. I'm that kind of woman and my close friends are too. I'm a person who is hard to anger. I'm very patient, because before I give my opinion or take any action, I first analyze what the consequences may be. Sometimes I'm a perfectionist, but sometimes I know that it isn't worth putting in something too much work and stress. I think, that there is time for everything in life. 🌄I like to spend time at home, but I'm also very curious about the world. Also I have a very strong sense of solidarity with the present and the future. I believe that if I can sacrifice something to make people's lives better in the future, then I should do it, because life is not only for us and we aren't on earth to take everything for ourselves. I think that every person is endowed with some talent and we shouldn't try to fight each other, but complement each other.
As for the requirements. In my opinion, responsibility and loyalty are still the most desirable qualities that many women are looking for. Faithfulness is no easy matter in our day. I think that the source of fidelity shouldn't be sought only in the person we care about, but also in his or her nearest surroundings. It's often our environment that shapes our character and our inner strength 💪.
And one more truth... Usually when someone is toooooo nice we feel like asking: "What do you want from me?", because it's kind of weird 😉.
Of course, what I wrote about is my opinion and my experience.
Greetings from Łódź :)
You are absolutely right 🤗😀
Best wishes from Wrocław, Poland 🤩
I think most of women doesn't like "ciepłe kluchy" 😅 Another great, very analitic video JT, what a good observer you are. And keep on going with learning polish, you are doing great job, especially with pronunciation which is a complicated one.
To jest naprawde mila obserwacja 💖. Mysle, ze Polki czuja sie odpowiedzialne aby trzymac rodzine. Gdy cos nie idzie jak trzeba to steruja tym statkiem, a nie wysiadaja.
You are absolutely right. As a polish women and a wife of thirty years I have to agree with you. We are strong caring and opinionated ,and we are proud of it. We just love our families.
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Prawda 🙇♀️🙆🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ all need to be said you stayed perfectly 👍 your Wife is very lucky to have such a intelligent husband who deeply hidden advantages of polish women character figured out and appreciates it . With some man you can’t make a deal I swear 😅 . That why is so hard to find partner for the polish women! the guy from start has to be on the same intelligence level. Congrats guys 👍
thank you! :D
One easy statement about Polish woman. We Rock!!
I liked it a lot! 😀 I am a polish woman an I can't more agree with you. You are a very good obserwator 😉
dzięki!
The observations on which you base your opinions are 100% RIGHT !😉 Lol. Take it from a Polish Woman ( grandmother )
Another great video. In my view a lot of this applies to Polish men to. Melancholic personality type as you described it, detail-oriented, committed. Being in the US I found that many Americans seem to have some commitment issues. Like they’ll date only to suddenly call it off bc they want to travel, or have to move to the next state, or live one-hour drive away and it becomes tedious to drive that far. As a Pole, I’m like “really”?! Like none of this is a problem in my view, just commit damn it and give me no BS! Lol
cieple kluchy, yes! we hate that sh*t, no one wants that! lol loved it
oh goshhhh all of this is so true!! I’m a Polish woman and i couldn’t agree more! 😂 Well done on the video! Can’t wait to send this to my friends from abroad haha
I relate to all of these at some time in my life. Getting older is an adventure. 50% Polish. Keep up the great v8deos!
Very good insight, ciepłe kluchy included!
The man is the boat that sails over the sea through the storms. The woman is the captain of the ship guiding the man.
Polish woman here and I agree with all 5 but mostly the last 3 points
I’m not born in Poland but I’m polish German and third generation. I will say the women in this family are insanely strong and bank on us getting things done and we don’t deal with any BS. We really mean well and want our husbands to succeed and be the best at it too. My family has kept traditions for many many generations. We do not raise our children to be passive or dependent. We thrive on challenges and strength. Also don’t mind taking the reins to the household if needed. I’m really proud of my heritage. After seeing a couple of these videos I have noticed it’s spot on. Though we have been in America since the 1940s we don’t take our beliefs or traditions lightly. We don’t want to sit on the sidelines. We want to run this house side by side. Also do not make the mistake of assuming with polish women either. She will not like it I promise.
NEN unmittelbaren nachweisbaren belegbaren Zusammenhand vermag ich keineswegs erkennen
Thanks for this video. Perseverance- that’s totally true! 😀
So true.I was smiling watching this video👍🏻
I'm a Canadian femme lesbian in a long distance relationship with a tomboy Polish woman. I'm planning on moving to Cieszyn Poland in approximately 8 months. She is very empathetic, kind, reliable, intelligent, responsible, close to her mom, hardworking, emotional, Christian, and loyal. She has a hard time understanding when I'm kidding or being serious. We've had some misunderstandings, however, she's the most beautiful person I've ever met! She truly is amazing! We're still a new couple, therefore, we're still learning about eachother, but I'm very excited to spend forever with her. Because it's not legal to marry same sex partners in Poland, we will eventually be both moving back to Canada. I never were interested in learning about Poland before, but now I want to know as much as possible! The language looks very difficult to learn! She knows English pretty well, to be honest. I love her accent!
Anyway, I'm loving your channel 🤗👍
All the best for you! I'm planning to do the same. I'm a femme who lives in Australia half of my life and she's a femme too. Trying to learn more about Poland and its people before I take the trip 😊
@@lamaximayu All the best to you too, hun. Polish women are sexy af
@@JessiCat1980 ahahha oh they definitely are, I can swear on that 😂. When are you planning to get to Poland?
@@lamaximayu The beginning of summer, and I'm terrified of flying! When are you going?
@@JessiCat1980 oh no but don't worry, you'll be alright ! If all is going according to plan I'd say beginning of summer for me too 😊
This is correct. Thankyou so much. Yes, Polski we are almost come across as psychopathic sometimes but our focus is for our safe beautiful family. We love people. But we are not naive.
If you do study on the 'Polish salute' of two fingers in the military, which is the military for Poland today, you will see why the two fingers are there.
Yes we are melancholic. But we know life is a grim hustle, but we are always honourable
Thank you for this video
It rings a bell. My boyfriends mom is like this! 😂 great job with the video!
As a Polish women I will say.. you nailed it!! 😂 Soo true
I’ve been together with my Polish girlfriend for five years and we will be married in about a year… You probably expect me to say that I recognize everything you are saying, but the opposite is true. The only thing I recognize is 1 & 4, but I recognize the other stuff in a lot of her friends. Especially the ‘pull & push’ dynamic and the ‘melancholic temper’. I’m quite happy it is not the case in my girlfriend. She is proud of being polish, but always noticed her being somewhat different from her polish relatives and friends personality wise. And that’s one of the many things I love about her!
Hey buddy, with respect, can I know how you met your gf. I am very curious.
I loved it as I think you could not be more accurate. I am a Polish "ciepła klucha" man and it's visible for me, that Polish women don't like that at all. The rest of it is also true - practicality, stubbornness... ;)
Mi novia polaca y yo estamos juntos hace un poco más de 2 años y es increíble como lograste describir tan bien cosas de mi relación. Que buen video, tus secretos me hicieron ver mi relación con otros ojos. Saludos a toda la familia.
Co za GENIALNY GOŚĆ!!!!!
Oh bro this is so true .. I couldn't stop laughing
These 4 temperaments are quite aligned with simplified Jungian personality theory - if you look at derivative profiling methodologies that are often used in cooperate or professional ecosystems to improve teamwork and social adhesion awareness - they are very similar -> like DISC or Insight Discovery - these are very very close.
In this example if I use your 4 temperaments and then align it respectively to DISC letters and Insights Color Dominants it would give:
Sanguine - I (Influential) - Yellow Dominant
Phlegmatic - S (Steady) - Green Dominant
Melancholic - C (Compliant) - Blue Dominant
Choleric - D (Dominant) - Red Dominant
And generally you tend to have complimentary and antagonistic pairings - like if you imagine these 4 being quarters of a circle ordered exactly in this way. Sanguine and Melancholic will be opposites / same as Phlegmatic and Choleric -> in theory these pairings of dominant traits of personalities or in your exposé "temperaments" will in average provoke more conflicts as their fundamental values and behavior preferences are polarized or even opposite. But as long as they learn to overcome the conflict such pairings might be better at achieving complex goals together as they have a wider array of comfort-zones in attitudes and habits to commonly employ to overcome a wide range of social and practical challenges. (mix of introvert and extravert, focus on tasks and people, ease in following rules or in pursuing values or taking spontaneous efficient vs cautious well calculated decisions) .... again as long as they overcome superficially arguing whose approach is universally the best and they switch to commonly balancing which task/obstacle is better suited for which partner's approach.
Strange, that you don't mention the traits of most Polish women's character and behavior which all of my foreign male friends that live in Poland mention, and that is being very gentle, very warm, caring, empathetic and kind.
you are quite a poet “tapestry of existence” 😂
I pulled this phrase out of my 🍑 I don’t even k ow where it came from. lol
You really now polish women well. A+ from polish women living in Texas 😊
Yes we make that Shipt happen no matter what
Funny that you posted a picture of a woman laying down and playing Switch while talking about phlegmatic temperament. Just what I was doing a moment before turning on RUclips. I'm phlegmatic; my mother and sister are both cholerics (my mom is a psychologist so it's not just something I've assumed) so I can't relate to the video much, but I don't have many friends so I won't disagree that most Polish women are melancholic. Enjoyed watching.
Co do melancholii - na takie osoby wychowuje się dziewczynki w Polsce. Za dzieciaka dziewczynki przeważnie są energicznymi dziećmi w takim samym stopniu jak chłopcy, ale jak tylko dziewczyna zaczyna dojrzewać to społeczeństwo zaczyna wymagać, aby dziewczynki brały odpowiedzialność za wszystko, pokazuje się dziewczynom i mówi na każdym kroku, że nie są idealne, że muszą się bardziej starać, mimo że robią więcej i lepiej od chłopców (w Polsce jest takie przeświadczenie, że dziewczyna ma nakazy i zakazy a chłopaki mogą robić i mówić, często krzywdzić, co tylko chcą tłumacząc ich zachowanie "to tylko chłopcy" albo "chłopcy tacy są") a tego typu zachowanie w stosunku do dziewczynek bardzo psuje psychikę, dlatego dorosłe kobiety są ciche, bo są już zmęczone ciągłym narzekaniem na nie.
Co do dziewczyn to się zgodzę, ale nie co do chłopców. Tylko pokolenie 'bezstresowego wychowania' nie narzuca zasad chłopcom. Nie pamiętam, żeby którykolwiek rodzic kiedy ja się wychowywałam powiedział "to tylko chłopcy", wręcz przeciwnie - to zawsze chłopcy dostawali po głowie jak kłócili się z dziewczynkami, bo 'nie wolno być niemiłym dla dziewczynek'. Jak chłopcy się popychali dla zabawy to pół biedy, ale popchnij albo pociągnij lekko dziewczynę za warkocz (nawet przez przypadek) to łolaboga jaki rumor był na podwórku. Mężczyzna jest w Polsce nikim, jeśli nie ma stałej pracy, pogardzany, jak nie ma rodziny.
Zależy w jakiej rodzinie
surprised sanguine is the most common! not in Poland lol 😂🤣
I just came here after talking with a polish woman …… she is very forward and blunt , I have been 100% and so far everything is good .
let me see if you’ve learnt anything 😜
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@Filip mówi po polsku I am the one with the most experience of the three. Respect your teachers
@@VigosDad ha ha ha 🤭
Hi Vigo! I like to listen to you. I don't really sure I agree but this stuff is so interesting and I can see you as mixture of sanguine and choleric - it's captivating for listeners/watchers. Cheers!
I always wanted to meet such a person to make friends.
Amazing! I am Polish woman and I am exactly as you are decribing us :) I live in France and I my relations with French men ends always because I feel like they are cieple kluchy ;)))))) And they think that I am rude:))))
A polish woman I know likes me, but she's married, she's always checking me out , but she's shy
Dude, I learn so much from you, in the most entertaining and interesting way!
aww thank you ❤️
Podobało mi się 🤗
You’ve got some good observations here;) why don’t you make a movie about polish women in history? Starting from Maria Skłodowska-Curie , who’s called the most incredible in World’s history ;)
so I think I am not a typical polish woman (I am sanguine and Marek's melancholic - it's a good combo imo) but few parts were describing me right :) ps Team kapcie ❤❤❤👍😊
you just described all women on the over all. i know as a. mother in south africa from many back grounds german british and french blood lines. i am very forward thinking and for my family kids and their goodwill. and yip as well love my independence and head strong hard working strong woman i am. haha then the truth hits u in the face..... polish woman mostly blond pretty and lavish on them selves especially in these modern times they seem very modern and always having to look and have the best..... so oh well i might not have those exact traits of what they look like but the rest i sure have and i am not polish. so who says a polish woman is all that when all woman over the world are most the same
He don't talk about all women because he doesn't know all women.
I can tell you're a very smart man! well spoken! thanks for the video
And then we evolve into our final form which is babcia
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Fascinating!!! 👍💕
Wow ! I am impressed by your observations, you got it. For my English ex-partner it was too difficult.
Any way.... how long took you to find it out ?
I agree sir I think it is all OK, that was their culture. We are global learning improvement progress for right and praiseworthy is defend on how you see it. Polish girl brave strong and good observer. No matter it was if you love her fully you do right and Iam believing and I know you can carry all.
Yes, push and pull 😉 I completely agree.
Im Polish. Very clever observations. You an an definitely more than an average intelligent human being. Congrats.
It is a cult of women reaching out to pagan times. Women were treated by Slavs like goddess. Even Maria is worshipped more than God or Jesus himself in Poland. First registered Polish song was Bogurodzica. All about the Maria since the beginning. Women are important here. Ald also, I had a good laugh too, so true. Thanks.
As a Polish woman, I imidiately thought "yup, that's me" when you were describing melancholic temperament, even before you said that it suits Polish women ;p
To prawda, że nie lubimy ciepłych kluchów :D
My Polish girlfriend is brilliant. Love her!
You see, that video was done for and under strict and watchful eye of your wife. "You better do it right with out offending her " or else. And she can show you that " it can be done wright" . 👍👍👍
Totally melancholic!
This is good information. I’m just starting to date a Pole.
I think you’re entirely right.
Oh no.... So Ivm just a normal polish woman, not super hero of my own live😅🙈🤣😁🤗😉💜
Super film! Now I understand myself better 🤩😉🙃
Yes!! I'm polish and it's all about me!! 👍👍😂😂
Omg do you agree?😇😆😆😆
😂☀️😂☀️😂 thank you for make me laught ❤️❤️
This polish girl likes but she's married, she's always checking me out very much, I plan on getting her
Also I am open if I am not convinced what is the best solution.
When "auntie" is coming lol
All true ,very true, that's meeeeeee😂😂😂😂
I confirm his explanation is accurate 😅
😀 Thank you 😘😘😘😘😘
Polish women and her guys, I need your advice. How to deal with this push and pull? I am dating a Polish woman for 4 months now... Everything fine... But now, I feel pushed away... For no reason... How can I pull her back to me? It drives me nuts 😅😢
I don’t think this behavior is specific to Polish women; it’s something many women tend to do. This push-and-pull dynamic is a manipulation tactic, often a sign of a toxic person and a big red flag. It’s important not to let her manipulate you. I know from experience that it can really drive you crazy, but once you recognize the manipulation, you have two options: either you understand how to play and win the game she‘s playing, or, if you’re less experienced, it’s best to walk away. If she senses that you can’t outmaneuver her, she’s likely to take advantage of you.
Let me offer some advice: dominate this game by using specific tactics. When she pulls away, don’t chase-mirror her actions by pulling back. This shows you’re in control and not desperate. Most women play this game, so gaining experience is key.
Don’t get too emotionally invested too soon. Stay detached, maintaining a calm, indifferent attitude. Use scarcity to increase her interest-when she shows interest, give her attention, but not too much, just enough to keep her intrigued. Pull back further when she distances herself. This unpredictability keeps her chasing.
Set firm boundaries and don’t tolerate manipulative behavior. Make her realize you don’t need her without saying it directly. Be cautious when she shows more interest-it could be a test. Stay distant, keep her chasing you, and avoid becoming just another follower.
These are the basics. To learn more, explore the pickup game and red pill community, as learning from others’ experiences will save you time and missed opportunities.
Ciepłe kluchy 😂👍
So so…………..truth…🙏❤️🌹👍
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Hi you are amaizing I'm Polish my boyfriend is Spanish I pass him this video I want see him reaction.
Thanks
Dzięki! let us know!
I love u maaan 😄💖 you are incredible in your in depth analysis and appreciation of Polish women 👍👍👍 I’d say you complete your wife perfectly, and you are both lucky to have each other 😁 I wish I have someone like you 😁
awww thank you! lovely words.
Like a polish woman I cannot agree. We are different and I think that a lot is also about the generation you've born - the younger, the most mixed.
Brawo ! :)
Ring ringing somewhere 😉
all four temperaments describe me. Something wrong with me?
not at all! we are all a combination of thing, but you have some dominant ones. In the description of the video there is a direct link for a test and you can see what's your dominant temperament.
OMG So true...
hahahahaha i love it xd actually… I agree at all with these secrets!
I agree 100%. How do you know it all about Polish women.? I'm Polish.
I am willing to have a relationship with a polish girl, your videos encouraged me to take this step whenever available. Thank you so much for the content.
Polish girl has everything I am looking for. I find them so pretty as I like blond hair, caring, and appreciate the family.
Their culture and values match mine as well, so I will have an exciting an prosper life with my future polish girl ❤️.
I will learn some polish 😅