When your gramma is Dutch but you don't look Dutch

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @goldcoast.jeffrey
    @goldcoast.jeffrey 3 месяца назад +5

    almost the same as me with different sides. My great-grandfather was Dutch, he married a Javanese. then my grandfather was born, technically my grandfather was Indo (Dutch Javanese) he was born in Malang. He moved to Australia after the war, then he married to my grandma (aussie) . later on, my mother was born in Queensland, historically so I'm also Indo's or Javanese. but I don't know the culture.😂

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@goldcoast.jeffrey hi there and I’m so happy u found this vlog with Benedict so men and women with the same stories could connect and share their stories 🙏🏽 Ask and I’ll answer and each of us Indo people have our own unique story!

    • @ricardoaletrino2202
      @ricardoaletrino2202 2 месяца назад

      Your grandma is an aussie ...an aboriginal ??

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  2 месяца назад

      @@ricardoaletrino2202 explain why u think so?

    • @ricardoaletrino2202
      @ricardoaletrino2202 2 месяца назад

      @@SoCalIndo for me , when we are talking about etnicity ...race ...then an aussie is an aboriginal.....just like when we are talking about an european , then what i saw in my mind is a white ducthman or fat white german from bavarian etc.. ..but never a Turk or a Morrocan or a Nigerian that happened to be lives and once migrated to europe .
      Because when we are talking about race and etnicity we must be more specific.....just te get things right....

    • @ricardoaletrino2202
      @ricardoaletrino2202 2 месяца назад +1

      # to get

  • @RienkvanderMeer-dr4dg
    @RienkvanderMeer-dr4dg 3 месяца назад +2

    being the son of a totok i LEARNed a lot from this very informative vlog, thanx a bunch for this one!

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      I appreciate ur feedback and did u know that there r many toktoks who r more Indo than some Indos who feel more Dutch than Indo 😮

  • @sleekoduck
    @sleekoduck 3 месяца назад +3

    Trimankasi! Thank you! 🙌
    Please tell your friend Benedict that I think he might be a descendent of the royal family. My Oma, Sawinah Tronowidjono F., was born in 1899 in the Purowedjo Regency and was supposed to be married to the Sultan during WW1. Your friend looks exactly like him. 😮 Oma ended up running away from home and marrying my Dutch Opa instead, partially because 15 year old Oma thought the Sultan was "about a hundred years old" (actually around 50). Opa died in Aceh in WW2, and Oma was able to get the family on one of the first ships to NL when everything went sour. Wegene is an excellent DNA site for anyone with Asian ancestry. Those of us with regal lineage might be surprised to know that our ancestors came to Indonesia from Cambodia and China pretty recently.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад +1

      @@sleekoduck Thk u for sharing ur story with all of us reading and Benedict’s email is sutanto.beni@gmail.com plse plse reach out to him!

    • @sleekoduck
      @sleekoduck 3 месяца назад +1

      Will do!

  • @andrewh6898
    @andrewh6898 3 месяца назад +4

    Thanks for the English captions

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@andrewh6898 my pleasure

  • @binarsobin
    @binarsobin 3 месяца назад +3

    Good... apreciate..

  • @dewisartikamaharani
    @dewisartikamaharani 3 месяца назад +4

    saya banyak melihat vedeo youtube, tapi tidak banyak cerita seperti ini ceritanya sangat sederhana dan masuk akal. 350 tahun bangsa eropa di nusantara pasti terjadi banyak pernikahan yang resmi atau tidak resmi, pasti banyak keturunan campuran apa mereka tau sejarahnya apa tidak. tapi saya yakin saat ini masih banyak keturunan eropa di indonesia tapi tidak tau sejarahnya. saya punya teman seperti bebi ini

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      Terima kasih atas kontribusi ya terhadap kisah Benedict. Saya senang bahwa banyak dari orang di Indonesia merespons. Apakah Anda juga memiliki leluhur Belanda?

    • @dewisartikamaharani
      @dewisartikamaharani 3 месяца назад +2

      @@SoCalIndo saya tidak punya, tapi saya ingin mencari tau juga. tapi saya dulu punya teman sekolah dia keturunan belanda tapi keluarga dia tidak mau pake nama belanda dan tidak bisa bahasa belanda. jadi beni ini kasih ingat saya kepada teman saya dulu.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@dewisartikamaharani Ajoh kamu harus ketemu sama Benedict 😎

    • @dewisartikamaharani
      @dewisartikamaharani 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@SoCalIndogimana bisa ketemu sama dia, dia punya wajah mirip sama teman saya. teman saya lagi tampan, dia dulu idola perempuan waktu kami sekolah sd theresia jakarta.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@dewisartikamaharani kirim e-mail aya sama Benedict dia punya e-mail ada di bawa

  • @MichaelMeyerMotocyclist
    @MichaelMeyerMotocyclist 3 месяца назад +1

    Both my Oma's are javanese and 1 Opa Dutch 1 opa German......

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@MichaelMeyerMotocyclist thk u for watching and plse continue to 👍🏽

  • @indobelanda
    @indobelanda 3 месяца назад +4

    interesant verhaal!! makasih!!

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@indobelanda dank dank, doet mijn best om onze Indo geschiedenis levende te houden!

  • @virtual30
    @virtual30 3 месяца назад +2

    Groeten uit Nederland! :P

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      Hoi hoi 👋 leuk leuk om vanuit NL reacties te krijgen 🙏🏽

  • @tanjawesseling6283
    @tanjawesseling6283 3 месяца назад +1

    I wish he had shown some photos❤

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@tanjawesseling6283 I think all his oma’s pics got stolen or got lost…

  • @jodylowe
    @jodylowe 3 месяца назад +2

    Nice story… from holland

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@jodylowe trying hard to find more Indonesian Indos

    • @jodylowe
      @jodylowe 3 месяца назад +2

      @@SoCalIndo we have lot in Den Haag but less now in Amsterdam.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@jodylowe yes I know The Hague is the widow of DEI

    • @jodylowe
      @jodylowe 3 месяца назад +1

      @@SoCalIndo you did visit Holland?

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@jodylowe geboren en getogen in België

  • @TheAzharis
    @TheAzharis 3 месяца назад +1

    Nice…❤

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      Thank u, if Blantika Agency was still around I only should have gone to Iwan to meet the next Indo Belanda 🙏🏽

  • @beatbeat1028
    @beatbeat1028 3 месяца назад +1

    Mantap 👍👍👍

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@beatbeat1028 Tk Tk ya

  • @ItsASuckyName
    @ItsASuckyName 3 месяца назад +2

    It's interesting to see this search from the "other" side, with that I mean that a lot of people here in the netherlands are looking into their families history that is related to the dutch indies/Indonesia. I'm an Indo just like my father and his parents. It's funny to see that this interest in family history of course goes both ways.
    It somewhat bothers me that still a lot of indos here in the netherlands don't know their own history. Calling themselves indonesian, or part indo, like you said, there is no such thing as a part indo. Indo is indo.
    But to be fair "Indisch zwijgen" here in the netherlands, is a real obstacle that create these misconceptions or unaccessible family information. Not being able to ask about your own heritage really sucks in a world where everyone keeps asking what you "are".

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад +1

      @@ItsASuckyName Thk u so much for ur contribution to Benny’s story and YES while Inwas living in both NL and Belgium it was bothering me too that people didn’t know the difference between us Indos and Indonesians, then the fact that Indonesians use Indo as an abbreviation for Indonesia makes it even more confusing and if a former member of Dutch Parliament Pechtold and often the Dutch Public Broadcaster NPO uses the wrong words it’s indeed something to cry for lololol…

    • @ItsASuckyName
      @ItsASuckyName 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@SoCalIndo little off topic but have you ever considered making a video about Pa van der Steur? It's a really interesting piece of history, especially when it comes to Indo people.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад +2

      @@ItsASuckyName next time when I go back to Magelan I will spend time doing this because I also wanted to highlight GOOD things during the 350 yrs of Dutch Colonialism 🙏🏽

    • @ffqm
      @ffqm 3 месяца назад

      Many of us have decided to not use Indo anymore because it's a racist and colonial term. Last 17 August there was also a lecture on it in Amsterdam.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад +1

      @@ffqmI know in Holland they try to change everything that has the word black in it and try to rewrite history and label everything with RACIST well I and majority of Indos will keep on using Indo to describe ourselves and who we are and where our history started, how would u describe urself if someone asks u, just curious though…

  • @KIMPC-
    @KIMPC- 3 месяца назад +1

    Mantap

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      @@KIMPC- Tk Tk ya

  • @feralkitties
    @feralkitties Месяц назад +1

    Hi.. what is SoCal Indo? Is it group/community or something?

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  Месяц назад

      @@feralkitties we just became a non profit but I started this platform back in 2012 to raise awareness and unite and support our Indo community not only in SoCal but worldwide ☺️

    • @feralkitties
      @feralkitties Месяц назад +1

      @@SoCalIndo Oh..sounds interesting! I’m Indo; Dutch (mom) - Indonesian (dad). Born and raised in Jakarta. Just visited Netherland last year. I live in Wildomar. Do you have events for Indo community in SoCal?

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  Месяц назад +1

      @@feralkitties yes yes we do, subscribe to our YT channel and follow us on Facebook where it will b announced

  • @bambangtps
    @bambangtps 3 месяца назад +1

    Interesting story, he talks about facts that are never discussed. I live in Central Java, I'm interested in his story, I'm sure he's not the only one. he has the mixture of Javanese and Dutch shades at the same time, but somehow he's not ordinary javanese.
    he is handsome anyway.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  3 месяца назад

      Hello, yes he’s a good looking young man and YES, the purpose of this vlog is to encourage other Indonesians who experienced the same as Benedict and who also have Dutch “Turunan” to reach out to Benedict or myself and hopefully keep on continuing meeting new Indonesian Indo individuals, Benedict’s email is sutanto.beni@gmail.com