Duniya Ke Teen Chakkar | A Deep Message For Parents And Children

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @SangoLifeSutras
    @SangoLifeSutras  Месяц назад +8

    WhatsApp R to 9289886158 to register for the Relationship Course.

    • @hansrajsharma6847
      @hansrajsharma6847 Месяц назад +1

      Not interested

    • @nickknickk7635
      @nickknickk7635 Месяц назад

      Hindu mythology 😂😂😂
      MADARSASHAP guru ji
      And everything else is proven by left and communist 😂😂😂😂

  • @GajendraSingh-yk3pu
    @GajendraSingh-yk3pu Месяц назад +2

    Guruji aap really best social analyst ho , bahot hi sahi Case study kiya hai aapne parents k behaviour pe 👍👍👍🙏😊

  • @vipinaggarwal51
    @vipinaggarwal51 8 дней назад

    Guruji namaskar!
    M3M issue pe aapki video ka intezar hai. you are the person whom i expect it most

  • @shejwalkarhemant3110
    @shejwalkarhemant3110 Месяц назад +2

    This situation you have described is playing out in my case word to word.

  • @gauravsingh43
    @gauravsingh43 Месяц назад +29

    When Kartikeya returned panting after 3 rounds, Parvati laughed at him! Kartikeya felt extreme sadness and remorse.
    He said body is made up of 2 things - flesh and bones, flesh comes from mother and bones from father. He immediately took off flesh from his body and faded off. That's how great warrior Kartekey took his mahasamadhi because his mum's laugh pierced through his heart

  • @swatikant2991
    @swatikant2991 Месяц назад +4

    Sir, I am from Maharashtra and here the situation is slightly different. In cities like Mumbai and Pune in many families 1 sibling is NRI and another one is here. Parents give so much importance to the one who is NRI. And all expectations are from the one staying here.
    And both siblings doing well in their respective areas, financially.

    • @HealWithDrDV
      @HealWithDrDV Месяц назад

      NRI's are busy in their career and are always coming to home for vacationing. The sibling who is with parents is taking real good care of them. every parent knows the truth of their children yet they dont have the courage of speaking the truth. Many parents are manipulators and this behaviour is not good. NRI's are least interested in taking care of parents and consider them a burden. Some parents have even given to and fro fares to their NRI children so that they can visit and meet them.

  • @rohitkumar-kn9hx
    @rohitkumar-kn9hx Месяц назад +7

    Not only parent but in family to . ..their is same things ..if you work hard and earn self fulfilled people will call you arrogant .
    If you are not earning just talking sweet enough to like by families member you become hero

    • @darkvader125
      @darkvader125 Месяц назад

      yes i relate this as elder sibling it is a curse i wished i never had any siblings in my life yes i would say that would be lonely but still will be very happy at least mujhe compare toh nahi kiya jata

  • @dollargeek4016
    @dollargeek4016 Месяц назад +8

    In my opinion, iska solution hai maa baap ko confront karna aur dikhaana kon woh kya kar rahe hain aur yeh kaise sahi nahi hai. Ek nakara ko jab zyada time, attention aur money diya jaata hai toh sabko yeh message milta hai ki nakaara hona accha hai. Jo ki sahi nahi hai.
    Agar maa baap na samjhe toh 2 solutions hain:
    1. Maa baap se sambandh khatm kar lo aur accept kar lo ki woh bhed bhav nahi chodenge. Par sath mein unko bhi iski saza milni chahiye ki bhed bhav ke karan unke bacche ne unse sambandh khatm kar liye. Aur apne saare sage sambandhiyon ko yeh batao ki tumne sambandh kyun khatm kare.
    2. Asli mein tum kitne bhi successful ho, maa baap ko himesha yehi jatao ki tum baar baar fail ho rahe ho, karza le rahe ho, paise ki dikkat hai, aur unse maangte raho. Apne kaam unse bhi karao, unko apni problems batao. Is option mein tum bhi apne nakara bhai behan jaise ban jaoge, par asli mein banne ki jagah bas dikhao

    • @MG-uj9ry
      @MG-uj9ry Месяц назад

      Neither option is good. Why break b
      relationship with own parents who gave birth. Also breaking relation also means letting go your rightful and family property share, which is probably the biggest amount you will receive abd is equivalent to maybe your life time of savings. Insted fight it out explain to parents the situation. Take your share during life time of parents explaining that you don't want YOUR legitimate share to be either USED BY or given to your brother. It is yours.
      2nd option is not good either. Why because success us more a matter of mental attitude and hard work. The people who gain by pretending to be not so successful, over years become that and lose not only what they have wrongfully gained but also what they could have made themselves in their lifetime .

    • @baazarkibaatein
      @baazarkibaatein Месяц назад +1

      जो सुख दुख मे साथ रहेगा, वोही करीब होगा। पैसे से जज़्बात नहीं जुड़ते।
      जिसने त्याग किया, जिसे पैसे से ज्यादा मां बाप प्यारे लगे, वो ही करीब होगा।
      तुम बेवकूफ हो।

  • @QuietObserver4691
    @QuietObserver4691 Месяц назад +21

    Syllabus poochne ka koi faayda nahin hai , it changes as per what parents need from which child and when. Jis bachche se kaam hota hai us ki taraf jhukaaf ho jaata hai and it changes when the work is done. Parents are selfish even though they pretend to be selfless. In India culture and sanskaar words are sham.

    • @tarunsingh4719
      @tarunsingh4719 Месяц назад

      😢😢😢😢 true yr, you really are a great observer

    • @darkvader125
      @darkvader125 Месяц назад

      true mere saath bhi yehi ho raha hai

    • @mayalalwani1945
      @mayalalwani1945 День назад

      True, parents and siblings are selfish

    • @mayalalwani1945
      @mayalalwani1945 День назад

      I already got use and throw 😂

    • @darkvader125
      @darkvader125 23 часа назад

      @@mayalalwani1945 yep i also facing same thing

  • @techtravelwonders
    @techtravelwonders Месяц назад +79

    India needs major reform in parenting and family structure. The root cause of corruption lies in the parenting and Indian family structure. Saat pushte baith ke khaaye to loot loo.

    • @akhilghag5898
      @akhilghag5898 Месяц назад

      There is corruption even in the West.

    • @anantmishra9813
      @anantmishra9813 Месяц назад +4

      Is there a Parenting and Family Structure association? Your comments doesn’t make sense, it is not a corporate organisation, what are you trying to say? And how does that lead to corruption?

    • @mayankrai6626
      @mayankrai6626 Месяц назад

      ​@@anantmishra9813hes trying to say that he has commemted to pass hisi unworthy time...😂😂

    • @suruchi15
      @suruchi15 4 дня назад +1

      ​@anantmishra9813 he said reform in parenting .
      Hindi main bolien to hum indians apne bachhe ko kaise paalte hain usme improvement ki jarurt hai.
      Kharab parenting ka relation general dekh main faile hue corruption se definitely hai.
      Is cheej ko samjhne k liye maturity chiye . Jo aapko aayegi abhi . Abhi aayi nhi.
      Jaise hum apni family main corrupt hote hain. Man main kuch muh p kuch.
      Aur , apne khud k bachhe ko bevkuf banana for our own benefit .
      Kai baar bachhe shatir hote kai baar maa baap
      Vohi jaake bahar corruption karte hain

  • @paint-o-meter4834
    @paint-o-meter4834 Месяц назад

    Bang On right..... 😮

  • @FlowersAmazing
    @FlowersAmazing Месяц назад +12

    It makes no sense Sir in asking them anything... heavy narcissm is being played by parents and jo chakkar nahi kaat raha usse golden child bana diya jata hai. Aise logo se kuch expect hi nahi karna chahiye! They can never understand their faults... coz if they had to understand they would have never been biased towards their children!
    God is watching everything... and karma never fails... best is to just leave ... cut off if possible and continue with your hard work and prayers! One day time tells the truth and things fall in place!

  • @GoodHeartInfinity
    @GoodHeartInfinity Месяц назад +1

    Thank You so very much sir✨🙏💓

  • @arttricks6644
    @arttricks6644 Месяц назад +28

    hum bhi aise hi bache the. hum dunia ke chakkar me uljhe rhe to siblings maa baap ke chakkar laga laga ke impress karte rahe aur hum bass sirf paise kamane ki machine bane rhe. lekin sabki value hoti hai shadi ke baad jab apki wife aa jati hai to sab apni aukaat dikhana shuru kar dete hain.

  • @Ayoooowtf
    @Ayoooowtf Месяц назад +7

    Opposite thing happened with my father he was in london came back due to uncles divorce to help him took care of grandparents took em to best hospitals and uncle used to come twice a year but he was nice person all he used to do was talk a little bit thats my father used to do everything now he is dead they realised what they did never appreciated him

  • @saral_life_mantra
    @saral_life_mantra Месяц назад +2

    very true observation sir

  • @ankitmishra55773
    @ankitmishra55773 Месяц назад

    A whole generation of Indians need to pop off for a lot of issues in the county and our personal lives to improve...

  • @parweenkour7941
    @parweenkour7941 Месяц назад +11

    Parents ne apni widow beti jo kids ki ma thi. Widow kote m job b lag gyi but ghar bithaye rakha. 27sal ho gye sara kharch ghar ka usi sal job lge bete se uthavaya. Do kids bde bhae k jo karja sir p krwa k ❤baitha hamari shadi k time 10sal m usko set kiya beti k baccho ki aaj marriage b kr di. Marriage k ten years bad m govt job kr rhi hu 16sal ki job b ho gyi but aaj after 27years hmare pas h kuth nhi h. Sasur g chal base sas oa nanad akeli alag ek hi boundri m rah rhi h hum khi aa ja nhi skte unke ghumane firne ki planning phle se bni hoti har holidays m 10-12din ka tour. Na aaj hamre pas apni bnae proupaty na paisa. Husband etna Bebkoof bne k jeevan hi jhand ho gya. Aaj bete ki shadi ki umar ho gyi but kisi acchi jagh ghar nhi le k de skte. Dono govt job m hote hua. Guru g pahle mile hote aap to jeevan sudhar jata

    • @hydrealtypro
      @hydrealtypro Месяц назад +1

      Itna karo bhi aur koi ahsan bhi nahi manta ki itna kar bhi Diya to kya ho gaya.. itna to her koi karta hai. Jyada accha admi hona bhi aj ke time me shraap hai😢

  • @neerupurohit3378
    @neerupurohit3378 Месяц назад

    Aapke aisey videos mujhey bahut pasand hai

  • @learningwithpriya1699
    @learningwithpriya1699 17 дней назад

    Parents k liye kitna krlo fir bhi hmari sb chije glt lagti hai ...Self confidence bhi hil gya mera

  • @Gamer-z1e
    @Gamer-z1e Месяц назад +4

    Jis tarah se samaj m marriage Market h usi tarah se children parenting markets, rishtey marketing,real estate marketing, share marketing, har jagah marketing hi chal rhi h 😂 maa baap bhagwan hotey h kuch bhi mtlb 😂
    Parents ek ache insaan manav ho sktey h or hona bhi chahiye itna bn jaye kafi h lakin bhai society ko to sidha bhagwan bnana h .... Bhagwan se niche to baat hi nhi hoti, sabse phle bhagwan bna do, bhai itni pure souls Dharti pr materialist world mein nhi milegi 😂
    Truth of Life 🧬 Deep MSG 🕊️🤍
    Om Shanti 🕊️🙏🏻

  • @variableparameters
    @variableparameters Месяц назад +2

    Alternate title can be "Agar tum maa-baap se apni jidd poori nahi karwaoge toh maa-baap tumse apni jidd poori karwayenge."

  • @vikrambahl6906
    @vikrambahl6906 Месяц назад +4

    Sarey rishtey matlab ke hotey hain ....

  • @baazarkibaatein
    @baazarkibaatein Месяц назад

    जो सुख दुख मे साथ रहेगा, वोही करीब होगा। पैसे से जज़्बात नहीं जुड़ते।
    जिसने त्याग किया, जिसे पैसे से ज्यादा मां बाप प्यारे लगे, वो ही करीब होगा।

    • @shweta703
      @shweta703 Месяц назад +1

      To paise bhi karib rahne wale se le lo.. dur rahne wale k paise bhi kyu chahiye

  • @twsr167
    @twsr167 Месяц назад

    sir parents and children ke career balance ko lekar koi video banao. parents working hai to unko bhi job career growth karni hai but children ki growth se compromise to hota hi hai ispar kuch bataiye

  • @PriyaS-pj3dj
    @PriyaS-pj3dj Месяц назад

    can you share some contents in the relationship course?
    and will it have information on dealing with jealousy (like from coworkers, friends, family etc)

  • @AnkitGupta-o9c
    @AnkitGupta-o9c Месяц назад +3

    Duniya ke chakkar lagaogey tabhi khud ki and parents ki better help kar paogey....

  • @sushmitapatel7448
    @sushmitapatel7448 Месяц назад

    It's true sir

  • @geetikasharma3641
    @geetikasharma3641 Месяц назад +2

    A bird in hand is better than two in the bush.
    Agr aapko kbhi jrurt pdi to wo hi dikhega jo pas hoga ,usi se help ki umerd ki ja skeki .Ab koi sat samandar par hoga usse ni kr skte
    Umerd ki wo pahunch jaega turant

    • @rohitkumar-kn9hx
      @rohitkumar-kn9hx Месяц назад

      If someone have good earnings nothing is far or nearer to them ..
      If you want to support your parents you will do it

  • @seer7152
    @seer7152 Месяц назад +4

    25 saal ho gaye duniya ke chakkar lagate hue. 😢

  • @sreejaraj8052
    @sreejaraj8052 Месяц назад +1

    Jinke parents bhot jyada taunt krte rehte hain
    Unke liye duniya ka chakkar me rehna theek h

  • @NehaKumari-ff4zv
    @NehaKumari-ff4zv Месяц назад +9

    What is the solution in this situation? Job chor k maa baap k pass v nhi baith sakte .parents us bete ka toh pura kharch cover kr lenge bt job wale bete ka koi support nhi krna chahenge .Unhe lgega ye toh apna kharch utha hi sakta hai hm support kyu kre.

    • @shejwalkarhemant3110
      @shejwalkarhemant3110 Месяц назад +2

      The solution is to first separate, then the one who is earning should secure his and wife, children's financial security. Lastly, bluntly declare to parents that you are available for medical emergencies only. Nothing else. Believe me, I am speaking from my experience. You do whatever, you will not receive appreciation, acknowledgement or thanks from anyone. Even close elderly relatives, they all are part of single narrative and that is not balanced or in your favor.

    • @NehaKumari-ff4zv
      @NehaKumari-ff4zv Месяц назад

      Itna easy nhi hota khud k parents se seperate hona unse emotions jude hote hai or agar alag ho v gye toh wo bahut sunayenge tumhe chote se bada kiya layak banaya etc. Ye sb sunkr khud hi guilty mehsus hone lagga ki khud k maa baap k sath hi galat kr rahe hai. Upar se relatives v ladke ko hi galat samjhenge. Maa baap hi victim ban jate hai aise situation mein.

    • @shejwalkarhemant3110
      @shejwalkarhemant3110 Месяц назад +1

      ​@NehaKumari-ff4zv I never said it's easy. But it's necessary. In my experience I can say that it has worked out well with better quality, improved and balanced relationships. Always must remember, the person who tries to keep everyone happy in the end becomes most unpopular.

  • @luffywest
    @luffywest Месяц назад +1

    most parents dont know how parent

  • @Engineering786
    @Engineering786 Месяц назад

    Gurujii mere saath ulta h.
    Apna makaan papa ne banaya par usko abhi rent out kita h, chota bhai ka interior firm krliya, maene hi help ki thi Kyuki mae civil engineer hu, beech wala bhai bhi ab dubai me business kareaha h, aur mae kiski 2 aulaad h 3 yrs and new born wife housewife, limited se low kamai, h, parantu jaikaara meri kabhi nahi hoti jab ke mae raashan bhi lata hu, aur baaki Sare kaam bhi karta hu, guest aye mae mae jhuka rehta hu, but maa, sabke samne mujhe kam kamata h karke zaleel karti h aur wife jo bhi kare chahe sabzi bhi banaye to maa uska acha reaction to choro, nuks aur nikal deti h,
    Maa 58 ki h aur mae 34 ka, bhai dono 30, 31 ke h but chota wala bhai jiski rishta maene lagwaya h wo saath me rehta hai

  • @kritikaandmanyashow371
    @kritikaandmanyashow371 Месяц назад

    Sabhi tarah k log hote hain mere parents ne sab kuch bhai ko de diya importance bhi aur usne parents k kabhi chakkar nhi Lagaye..hum diniya aur parents dono k chakker lagakr pagal bane...

  • @swaatigautam111
    @swaatigautam111 Месяц назад +9

    The opposite happened in one of our relatives families...parents ne hmesha un bchcho ko jyada support aur ijjat di jo bahar the..aur jo ghar par rhe sath me ..home town me hi job kar rhe the unke upar ghr ki saari jimmedari daal di..aur us par ye bhi taana mara jata tha ki tum to Ghar pr ho tmhe kya dikkat..
    Wo log bahar hai akele reh rhe..!! Jabki jo bchche bahar gye wo apni marji se bahar pdhne gye aur pdhai puri karne ke wahi bahar bahar hi job karne lge.. na Ghar ki jimmedari, na parents ki aur na hi koi financial support kiya...!!
    Jruri nhi ki jo ghar me reh rha hai to uske maje hai... Kbhi kbhi usko gadha banake usse kaam liya jata hai...in sb me parents ki galti sbse jyada hoti hai..Indian parenting is pathetic..!! India me maa baap ko bchcho se pyar Kam aur lalach jyada hota hai ki mere pas rhega to mere jeene ka sahara ho jayega.. Ghar ki jimmedari lega.. bchcha kya chahta hai wo kitna pareshan hai usse kuch Lena Dena nhi hota...!!

  • @tanvigirme8364
    @tanvigirme8364 Месяц назад +1

    Most valuable lessons learnt a little late in life.

  • @anonymousperson7364
    @anonymousperson7364 Месяц назад +5

    please start relationship counselling for LGBTQ couples. Most LGBTQ couples are from rich families.

  • @subhrajitdas1990
    @subhrajitdas1990 Месяц назад +2

    Same situation mera v..wt to do sir ?

  • @kiran_rathee.03
    @kiran_rathee.03 Месяц назад

    Sir i want to join money making ideas course for married women I'm 27 years old

  • @LiveHappyLifesutras
    @LiveHappyLifesutras Месяц назад

    Hi

  • @iamsimran2402
    @iamsimran2402 Месяц назад

    Can we get relationship course by getting channel membership

  • @kirtigupta1601
    @kirtigupta1601 Месяц назад

    Yes sir.. this is happening.. please suggest solutions. I am very frustrated at my siblings and home. We are 3 daughter of and a mother . But still i am doing all the jobs of a father, a son, and daughter. My other 2 sisters are living relax life at home. Please sir iske solutions batain 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @shweta703
      @shweta703 Месяц назад

      Shadi kar lo

    • @kirtigupta1601
      @kirtigupta1601 Месяц назад

      @@shweta703 yeh log meri shaadi ke liye ready ni hai.. i am 30 but they say abhi jaldi hai.

    • @shweta703
      @shweta703 Месяц назад +2

      @@kirtigupta1601 Don't depend on them for this. I have seen many such cases in the society where they reject marriage proposals for one or other reason for earning daughter and they get younger siblings married. The earning daughter suffers through out her life. Look for a partner yourself and when you find one then only tell them. Also save money and if possible don't reveal your real salary. Wish you luck 🤞

    • @kirtigupta1601
      @kirtigupta1601 Месяц назад

      @@shweta703 thanks

  • @M_Ahuja
    @M_Ahuja Месяц назад

    People are told only half story since its more convenient for society. What happened to kartikeya afterwards , nobody talks about it .

  • @Autopilotwork
    @Autopilotwork Месяц назад

    R relationship course want to join

  • @Amycool901
    @Amycool901 Месяц назад

    Iss case m to maa baap ko bhi smjhna chahiye ki jo baccha foreign country m hai 1000 mile door hai or unko time to tine paise bhi bhej rha hai, kch to kadar ho uss bacche ki. Haa wo koi sewa na kre to alag baat hai

  • @Engineering786
    @Engineering786 Месяц назад

    Kam kamane wala beta kisis ko pasand nahi hota, mere saath ulta h, jahe saath me bhi rehlo

  • @sujitjoshi4798
    @sujitjoshi4798 Месяц назад +1

    Inheritence ke liye kuch mat karo, woh aapke parents hai is liye unke liye kuch karna hai to karo. Jo bacha “vulnerable” hai usko hi milta hai aur jo kaabil hai usko kuch expect karne ki jaroorat hi nahi honi chahiye.

  • @nickknickk7635
    @nickknickk7635 Месяц назад +2

    Hindu mythology 😂😂😂
    MADARSASHAP guru ji 😂😂

  • @amol9616113945
    @amol9616113945 Месяц назад +1

    Kabhi kabhi ulta bhi hota hai. Jo pass rakh ke sab karta hai parents ka usko galiya milti hai our jo dur raha ke phone pe puchta hai usko sab milta hai.

  • @kusumkushwaha2789
    @kusumkushwaha2789 Месяц назад

    Kya karna chahiye

  • @rishabhgupta2797
    @rishabhgupta2797 Месяц назад

    Ab ghar me dangal hoga

  • @yashaggarwal126
    @yashaggarwal126 Месяц назад +2

    I paid for personal consultation on your whatsapp, my slot was supposed to be today 2 pm, I waited for almost a week and have been waiting since morning sending numerous messages on whatsapp to receive no replies. I am not sure what's happening I was told I will be given link at 1:45. Its 5pm now I can see the last seen on WhatsApp is 4:22pm
    Please help me

  • @srilakshmisuresh6587
    @srilakshmisuresh6587 Месяц назад

    R

  • @opsharma189
    @opsharma189 Месяц назад +10

    यह व्यक्ति लोगों के दिमाग में अनावश्यक संदेह पैदा कर रहा है।

    • @ashmitSharma05
      @ashmitSharma05 Месяц назад +7

      Dark side of relationships...but true

    • @aapkaRaj2023
      @aapkaRaj2023 Месяц назад +1

      Baat to adhar sahi hai

    • @itn0687
      @itn0687 Месяц назад +6

      U are living in some other world if u think this doesn't happen

    • @luffywest
      @luffywest Месяц назад +1

      Uncle ji, thoda bahar niklo India se. Indian parents koi bahut ache nhi hote. Lekin bhagwaan maante khud ko.

    • @meenakshiupadhyaya9763
      @meenakshiupadhyaya9763 Месяц назад +2

      Ye uncle ko mind set purana hai isliye inko sandeh ho raha😂....meri behan ghar mai baithe hai mom dad uska sab kaam karte hai or wo jute bhi Marti hai but mai and bhai apni job kar rahe Paisa send karte hai mom dad ko but hum bure.....guru ji ek dum sahi hai .....

  • @vikasbalhara659
    @vikasbalhara659 Месяц назад

    R

  • @shrikantdarandalepatil3747
    @shrikantdarandalepatil3747 Месяц назад

    R

  • @manjubhandari3759
    @manjubhandari3759 Месяц назад

    R

  • @sahajsinghsethi1816
    @sahajsinghsethi1816 Месяц назад

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