Oh Kelly! You have the BEST therapist in Winnie! She always loves you no matter what and you can tell her ANYTHING and she WONT TELL ANYONE! Lol. Endless love and friendship is what you get from a dog. So glaf you have her.
You are an amazing person, Kelly! I’m watching this video on February 11, 2024 so knowing all that you’ve been through in the past 18 months on top of what you’ve been through with covid and your divorce, you are a very strong woman! No one should have to go what you’ve been through and the fact that you still show up for us is truly amazing. ❤❤❤
I remember 1983. I was going through a divorce and my only child, my little four-year-old daughter had just died of leukemia. Flash forward to right now. I have been married for the past 22 years to the most wonderful man. He has blessed me with two beautiful step daughters and five step grandchildren all under the age of 11, and they all call me grandma. I never thought anyone would ever call me grandma. Kelly, there are so many wonderful things in the future for you. Keep that perky attitude. You are loved! ♥️
Good for you, Kelly! My mother lived a life full of bitterness and self pity. It was like a disease, and she was a sad, miserable woman. I think it's easy to focus on anger, and much harder to mover forward with a positive mindset. I know you can do this❤️
@@dianamcmahon51510 I'm so sorry that you had to live through that, Diana. My mother was also an alcoholic, which created even more problems. She passed away, and it was almost a relief that she wasn't suffering anymore. The best thing I did was to create very strong boundary lines in that relationship. I hope you are doing ok!
@@dianamcmahon51510 - mine too. Sadly my brother put her in a nursing home because she has dementia. He took all her money, sold her house and bought a big house with lots of acreage for him & his third wife. The only ones that visit her are my youngest brother's family and myself. She doesn't know who I am most of the time but still holds my hand. The dementia has made her a completely different person, she was mean & hateful, now she is sweet & loving. Life sure is funny. I hope you know that you are a good person and loved.
@@darlaavard3318 Darla, I am so sorry to hear your story. Dealing with my mother's estate caused a split in our family from my younger brother. You are not alone is this!🥰❤️
@@Patti-1962 - thank you for sharing your story. I finally had to let go of my anger towards my brother as it was making me physically ill. My life is so much better without the anger and bitterness. I can't change whar he did but I can pray for them. Take care and may God bless you.
I love Winnie! What a great companion! I am glad 2021 is over this past year finding I had breast cancer was tough news and the treatments were tougher but we survive what we are given and pray for grace!
@@KellyBarlowCreations hi Kelly..Happy New Year..I really enjoyed your video today with so much positivity..this last year has been tough on so many for different reasons..my Mom passed in March, 2 days after her 101 birthday..she was my best friend..like you, I tried to get through the holidays with family that made sure I wasn't alone..I am also a widow, 9 yrs in March. Life throws so many challenges at us..all we can do is take one of them at a time..stay strong and positive..
Been there, done that. After 20 years of marriage my husband left my daughter & I. I bought a new little Christmas tree and put it up, I knew I wanted and needed to to still make Christmas special for my daughter. The "firsts" holidays were hard, but we plowed through them, with God's grace.
Your little fur baby is adorable. I love your transparency. Sometimes, if we are not careful we can lose ourselves in a relationship and that isn’t fair to either party. I’m so happy that your moving on and enjoying your life, your children and your business. Stay strong and God bless you
Kelly, When my ex turned 40 he went immediately into man-o-pause. Sports car, girlfriend, the whole deal. Oh course we divorced and I was devastated. I stayed home week after week, but my friends continued to encourage me and be there for me. One day, a dear friend said to me, "There is a big difference between lonliness and solitude". That changed my life. I realized I was making it on my own, had a good job, good friends. I called a girlfriend on a Friday and asked her if she wanted to get out for a while, we bumped into who turned out to be my future husband (now of 17 years). You are doing a fantastic job of fighting to be upbeat, doing fun things and being there for your precious children. It does get easier. God only gives you what you can handle. My wish is the best for you and your family and friends in 2022.
I needed this today. I have a lot of things I need to let go of and start over. My way of trying to deal with things is just stay busy. I realize through your vlog today, I honestly need to let it all go. Thanks Kelly.
Winnie is the best companion, best friend you could have. She’s a sweet baby. I’m glad to hear you’re doing good and pursuing good things with your family. As you were talking, I thought of the Serenity Prayer. I say that prayer often. Blessings
You've got this! You're an amazing person! Winnie is adorable pup too. I've been with you for a few years now and plan to continue to do so. I was going through a rough patch in my life back a few years ago and I saw you on RUclips making fabric pinecones. Also, I was just introduced to RUclips. You commented back to me and it was like winning the lottery. You are a caring and loving person with loads of talent. You gave me strength to carry on and also love doing DIY's all that much more. Thank you.
Yes Girl I am excited to start 2 live again in 2022! Major job loss in 2018. Had to sell home, possessions & vehicle. 3rd yr now living in camper. I got a new attitude! On w life & a sm home! God Bless u!
INSPIRING and AUTHENTIC is what you are Kelly ❤️ My heart is a bit LIFTED after listening to the very end. As I watched your opening with Winnie, I'm laying here with my son's 45lb dog kissing the bridge of her nose too. ❤️U Kelly Barlow.
Your amazing Kelly!!!! Thank you for sharing with us !!! Your a real life rockstar !!!! And ur glowing and ur beautiful and it makes my heart happy for you!!!! I loved this video !!!! Please do more !!! I cant wait to see you continuing your best life !!!!!! Sending you the biggest virtual hug !!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
I'm still watching your vlogs and stuff. I just don't comment much no more but you gotta know you are one of my favs kelly. Someone once told me that when you go through divorce and stuff. Its not so much that you miss them. It's just that uou miss the habit of them being there. Something like that. Love yall stay safe. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I've lived in 26 different states and Canada all before the age of 17! Our home was in the Bay Area. My dad's job put in pipelines all over the States!! I treasure those memories and the friends I've made! I'm still in contact with those friends I've made! I became a travel nurse so I could travel! It's in my blood!
Kelly, you are one amazing person! I've been where you are/were and I wish I had half of your strength to get me through that dark time. I am praying for your happiness and I see those prayers being answered. Glad to see you back and on to a better 2022.♥️
I crocheted many many things to keep my hands busy when my husband moved out 40 years ago after 10 years of marriage. It helped me work through the change in my life. I was in no hurry to find someone else, and started having fun doing what I wanted. Most of my fun was centered around my 6 year old daughter. I did meet some new people, and one snuck in and stole my heart. We’ve been married now for 38 years and are best friends. But I think I would also have been happy on my own. You find strengths you didn’t know you possessed when you are the head of the household. Love that you are living your best new life.
Go get ‘em, Kelly! I think you are a shining example for your kids and they will respect, admire, and love you for all the sacrifices you’ve made to help them. Remember, you cannot control another person’s actions, but you CAN control how you respond to that action. 2022 will be your year🍾🥳🎉 ~ Linda
I'm so glad to see you and your family enjoying life and each other. I remember when you first got Winnie as a pup. She has appeared to be such a good companion to you and your family. I wish only the best for you in the coming new year.
I completely understand where you are coming from. When I was married, I lost who I was and then my husband stopped including me in the things he was doing.
Way to go, Kelly. I have been doing some soul searching/self evaluation and have really been growing because of it. Sometimes we really need to step out of our own way and see what God's plan is for us. My issues are still with me, but with each day and each prayer they are becoming less of a burden. So very happy for you and grateful that you are so open and honest. I know there are others who are benefiting from your openness. Hugs
Oh Kelly.. you're not only a role model for your girls.... But for a lot of women out in this crazy world... I think you rock and that 2022 us the best year for you!!! Thanks for always sharing your thoughts.... And Winnie is so stinkin adorable!!! Happy New Year!!! 🤗🤗😁👍❤️
I'm so glad you've come out of that feeling of being in a rut. It's so freeing and everything looks brighter. I remember coming out of my dog after my divorce. I'm glad you got good friends and family they can be everything and your great pup she will be great when you need to vent but dont want to vent to a person. I'm so happy for you! Utah would love you
I am so happy all of you had a wonderful holiday. I'm glad you have found joy and happiness with your new life. I truly believe your life is going to be so much fuller now. Enjoy your children and your life. You deserve happiness.
Define last year, and the year before that? Horrible! My best friend died. I live in a 2 bedroom cabin and my son, daughter, her fiancé, and their 4 kids live with me because of all this covid related stuff going on. This year has to be better!
Winnie is such a beautiful pup. Hope you have a much better year in 2022!!!! It sounds like you have amazing kids for thinking of you and how you might need them to get on with your life. His actions are still inexcusable there are other ways to get divorced. You are a strong woman and you will do well!!!
Winnie is so adorable 🥰 and your kids are so blessed! I’m so happy you are going forward! Good job Momma! Thanks for the message that there is a glorious light at the end of a long tunnel!!!
Winnie is too cute. I am so happy for you that you are putting things behind you and you can start your life anew. 2021 was a horrible year for me as well I was in the hospital from Oct 2nd to Dec 15 on life support from Covid19. I am home now and have a long road ahead of me to get better as I am very weak and on oxygen have to have a couple of surgeries as well. But I am happy to still be alive and hopeful for 2022. Please keep me in your prayers. I will continue to pray for you and the family. Love you girl…💕💖💕
Oh my goodness, what you have gone through and pulled through. You are a very strong lady, best wishes for your surgeries and recovery. Sending love, prayers and hugs to you.
I love that you take Ally with you on your trips. I’m the youngest of my siblings so I spent a lot of time with my mom (single parent.) We traveled somewhere just about every other weekend. Those are my favorite memories! Now that I’m married with kids,I’m so glad I got that time with her. A lot of my siblings tell me how they wished they took that time with her before venturing off to start their own lives. Wishing you all the best and more this New Year Kelly ❤️!
So glad to see you doing so well after such a tough year. In your transparency you are one of the strongest women I know and a true inspiration for the rest of us. Sounds like the new year has a lot of amazing new life in store for you. Looking forward to experiencing it with you. Love and hugs to you and the girls…and Winnie too, of course.
I just happen to watch this and my gosh what a beautiful strong women you are. I too had my husband leave . We divorced in April and my Mother died in June. It has been an excruciating and painful year . I miss my Mother , but I remember what a strong brave and loving mother she was. How she taught us to be resilient and to lean on God and not our own understanding . She would say " God always brings something beautiful out of our pain". He turns things around for our good. I am trying to raise my 11 year old daughter with this truth. It's not always easy and one thing I have learned is that we have to let go of what we thought our future would be and focus on where we are now . As you said we can't control the other person ..we can't control what he does or doesn't do, but we can control what we do. I also have learned that I can't stop my daughter's experience either ..I can only help her navigate through this . It's not what I planned for her, but here it is ...and we will be ok.
Winnie will be your best friend! Dogs have no agenda, they love you unconditionally. Having lost my dog last May was crushing. I see how you light up when she's there. Wish you and your family the best ❣️
I lost my sweet boy in April last year. I'm still struggling with coming to terms with that. Our pets do become our best friends. He helped me cope with the struggle of losing my husband 2 yrs ago. Without my big boy it would have been so much worse. Broken 💔
Bravo Lady!! Your transparency was refreshing. I went through the same thing years ago and I'm at the point of coming full circle. You have handled this as well as anyone could possibly imagine. Your explanation of Christmas Day and New Years paralleled what I did when my marriage ended. I made new traditions, so to speak. I did this with every holiday thereafter and my children continued to thrive and knew Mom would make these days special & they missed nothing. I also realized how I hadn't "Lived" in so many years and how me, Jackie, disappeared. How I always held back because of the man in the background. Oh my gosh what a wonderful feeling when you finally have fun and don't worry about the man at home who chose not to enjoy that time with you or who held you back from going in the first place!! I lost many "friends" (people really) from life when things ended, but in the aforementioned comment, I'm coming full circle. I've recently started talking to some of those people and we're reconnecting. I felt a great loss at first, then realized they weren't as important in my life as I thought. I did as you, I put my children first. My children are my life and I learned that focusing on them was enough. That being said, I learned that not worrying about anyone but my kids, I was able to see the friends that were right before me & take them up on the offers of doing fun things....with and without the kids. I know you have so much happiness ahead, not just in 2022 but way beyond!! You have the attitude now that is needed to live and enjoy everything the universe has in store for you. I started including you in my prayer candles when you told us of your impending divorce. I will continue to do so. You are thriving!! Keep up the wonderful attitude and many blessings to you and your family & your extended family. Oh my gosh, I rambled on forever....sorry :)
Kelly, do you know how beautifully insightful in a healthy way you are? You refuse to be victimized Bravo. As for your kids, they are compassionate, caring and loving. Kelly, you don’t give what you don’t have!! They got it from you! I’m old enough to be your very very old sister and I’m especially impressed and tremendously proud of you. Keep on moving! BTW, LOVE LOVE WINNIE! What kind of dog is she Kelly?
I've been down your road. It's been many years now, but from personal experience, I realized the best gift I could give myself ( and my kids) was "myself"! I'm remarried (11 years) and loving life. You go girl! Keep on being you and living the good life.❤
Kelly, you are such an amazing woman. The impact you have had on me this last year helped me make a hard decision. After seeing you be open and honest about the first few weeks/ months of your divorce, I made the decision to leave. I was in a marriage that I felt I was just going through the motions. Listening to you talk about your best friend Linda calling you everyday making you get up and accomplish at least one thing that day. That stuck with me so much. Even though I am the one that left, I still needed to hear that. The accomplish at least one thing a day and to list whatever I did, helped me through the process. I admire your courage to be so open and honest. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I am looking forward to seeing what I can do now. Thank you
Judy, you can do anything and everything you want. Leaving a marriage is one of the hardest things anyone goes through. Be proud of everything you do every day and build on that.
One of my favorite sayings is, “ your opinion of me doesn’t matter, my opinion of myself is what is important.” The opinion of my children is also important. Everything else is just noise. Stay strong!
🌸🌸🌸Hey Kelly- you’re an amazing mom! I can relate totally to your story- I went through this about 15 years ago, with daughters in 10th grade 8th grade and 6th grade. I was recommended to have them attend “Rainbows” counseling at the local church- non denominational. It helped. Love the idea of NEW traditions- it’s your NEW NORMAL. Your kids are so loved, and they WILL be fine. You are doing so well 🌸 it’s good to depend, and develop new friends now- I joined a bookclub and the support is much needed- I’m SO grateful for my weight loss of 178 pounds (ex husband). Although- I have always encouraged the kids’ relationship with their dad. Keep moving forward- and remember- NO MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN A BAD MARRIAGE. 🌸Love ya, Donna.
I am happy to see you adjusting and adjusting your family. Take from me as a lady who lived in a dead marriage for about 10 years before I said enough. I focused on my son. It took me way too long to start to focus some important time on me. So please allow unselfish you time. The more you rediscover and fall in love with you again the better you will be for everyone. I became strong and a person found me. So, this year as I turned 70, I became engaged. So stay strong, focus time on you. You deserve it.
I just now hopped on. I'm glad to see you and Winnie's faces here in '22 ‼️ Ok, off to watch the video. A blessed '22 to you Kelly, in all that you do. You're an inspiration of enthusiasm and kindness in a rushed world. I simply love ya ❤️
23:30 you are literally the nicest person I know. You seriously have such a kind soul and the biggest heart. I love you soooooooo much and I know things will continue to look up for you. You are such a strong and amazing woman, you set such a great example for your girls and I know they will grow to be the best person they can because of you and your support ❤️❤️❤️
All I can say is I cried happy tears for you. You are doing it and doing it with grace and mercy. You have helped me be a better me also. Thank you for all you do. Sending love and prayers for continuing of positive happiness.
Oh I love that we aren't the only family that does a quick easy meal! Every year we do something different. This last Christmas we did a pizza bar and we've done a taco bar, spaghetti garlic bread and salad. One year we grilled out. It's wonderful to do something easy so that we can spend more time with family and not in the kitchen all day
I’m following you. You are great! Life sometimes takes turn we didn’t anticipate my husband of 45 years revealed his many infidelities. Who I didn’t know. Now single life is good with my dogs. I date some but prefer life as it is. I have freedom. I can wear my bathrobe with lack of make up when I feel like it. Life in this new normal is good. My kids are great. We made it!!! You go girl.
I lived in LA County years ago and had made that Vegas & Laughlin drive many of times. When you mentioned that 4 hour drive in Desert and mountains I knew exactly what you meant. May 2022 bring you and the kids many happy NEW memories and traditions.
Kelly I believe your story could be my story. I was married 17 yrs to a fireman we never did anything together & the Christmas days he worked if he could because we didn’t have children & he wanted others that had families to be together. I felt so unwanted as it turns out he liked others better than me! I never wanted a divorce yet this was the best thing ever. I met my 2nd husband who was truly my soulmate. I am so glad that I found your videos I love crafting but you inspire me to do and find things I love doing. My husband passed away 4 yrs ago & im finding happiness in crafting while trying to find my “new normal”. Take care & may God bless you always
I was waiting for Winnie to answer you! The unconditional love of a four legged family member is forever! I wish for you all the best in this chapter of your life!🥰
Kelly , you are an inspiration to many ! I knew that you were going to make it through the heaviness that you were personally going through in your family's and your life . Keep moving forward and experience the new found happiness and freedom ! Keep crafting ! You are " The number one crafter ! " CRAFT ON !!
One of my favorite sayings is, “your opinion of me doesn’t matter. My opinion of myself is what is important!” The opinion that my children have of me is also very important, everything else is just noise!
The greatest reflection of us truly is our kids! Ray clearly proves just how great of a mother/woman/friend/role-model you are! You're doing a phenomenal job, never doubt yourself! So glad to see you living instead of existing...you deserve it and more! Congrats on the new addition...maybe baby gift DIYs will come out of this too😉🤷🏾♀️You are loved by more of us than you know, Happy 2022 and Stay you❤🙏🏾
My husband has been suffering from depression for almost 3 yrs. now. He is in a deep depression, he doesn't get dressed anymore, he doesn't shower, he watches the same tv shows & movies over & over. he doesn't hardly even talk to me or anyone else. I noticed last spring that I felt like I was falling into a slump because of him. I spoke with his little sister about everything & she asked me if I had my craftroom set back up since our move. I told her no & that I needed to get that done. I want you to know that at the beginning of all of this I did try to talk to him & get him to see a doctor, he refused, said he was fine. She told me that I have done all I could do for him & I needed to get back to what I loved doing & if he didn't want to join in, then so be it. That's what I did & I feel a lot better, so glad I got my craftroom set up. Made many Christmas gifts, loved it. Now I'm setting my sights on my fist Great Grandchild that will be here in June, excited for that. My own brother suffered from depression for 9 yrs. & he told that it's nothing that I did & that my husband was the one that had to choose to do something. I'm glad he told me that. It was hard explaining to out new neighbors why they would only see him in his pj & bathrobe everyday when he goes out to smoke, but they seem to understand & that makes me feel good. Now I'm setting my sights on my fist Great Grandchild that will be here in June, excited for that.I got back to watching my You Tubes & learning new crafts. Thanks for your honesty through your tough path, that to has helped. God bless & Happy New Year!! Sorry I didn't mean to write a book here.
💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 LIFE is our greatest gift. No regret, every experience is important as it gets us to where we are supposed to be 💗 One day at a time💗 Stay well and keep safe It's your time now, enjoy everyday!!
Si glad to hear you're doing well. Stay positive and continue to spread your joy to us all and we spread it to others. This and you will make a better world. 😊🙏
I love Winnie, she is the cutest furbaby! I can tell she loves you very much the way she stares at you. She's beautiful and so are you! Thank you for sharing all of your creative ideas with us. It's greatly appreciated.
Thank you for sharing and utah not that far away you can always visit I here we have good powder to hope you and your family have a wonderful good year love you
Oh Kelly! You have the BEST therapist in Winnie! She always loves you no matter what and you can tell her ANYTHING and she WONT TELL ANYONE! Lol. Endless love and friendship is what you get from a dog. So glaf you have her.
You are an amazing person, Kelly! I’m watching this video on February 11, 2024 so knowing all that you’ve been through in the past 18 months on top of what you’ve been through with covid and your divorce, you are a very strong woman! No one should have to go what you’ve been through and the fact that you still show up for us is truly amazing.
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May 2022 be better for us all
I remember 1983. I was going through a divorce and my only child, my little four-year-old daughter had just died of leukemia. Flash forward to right now. I have been married for the past 22 years to the most wonderful man. He has blessed me with two beautiful step daughters and five step grandchildren all under the age of 11, and they all call me grandma. I never thought anyone would ever call me grandma. Kelly, there are so many wonderful things in the future for you. Keep that perky attitude. You are loved! ♥️
Good for you, Kelly! My mother lived a life full of bitterness and self pity. It was like a disease, and she was a sad, miserable woman. I think it's easy to focus on anger, and much harder to mover forward with a positive mindset. I know you can do this❤️
Yikes, for a second there I thought you were describing my mom 😬
@@dianamcmahon51510 I'm so sorry that you had to live through that, Diana. My mother was also an alcoholic, which created even more problems. She passed away, and it was almost a relief that she wasn't suffering anymore. The best thing I did was to create very strong boundary lines in that relationship. I hope you are doing ok!
@@dianamcmahon51510 - mine too. Sadly my brother put her in a nursing home because she has dementia. He took all her money, sold her house and bought a big house with lots of acreage for him & his third wife. The only ones that visit her are my youngest brother's family and myself. She doesn't know who I am most of the time but still holds my hand. The dementia has made her a completely different person, she was mean & hateful, now she is sweet & loving. Life sure is funny. I hope you know that you are a good person and loved.
@@darlaavard3318 Darla, I am so sorry to hear your story. Dealing with my mother's estate caused a split in our family from my younger brother. You are not alone is this!🥰❤️
@@Patti-1962 - thank you for sharing your story. I finally had to let go of my anger towards my brother as it was making me physically ill. My life is so much better without the anger and bitterness. I can't change whar he did but I can pray for them. Take care and may God bless you.
I love Winnie! What a great companion! I am glad 2021 is over this past year finding I had breast cancer was tough news and the treatments were tougher but we survive what we are given and pray for grace!
Sorry you had to go through that. What a survivor!! Take care.
So sorry you had a hard year. Praise be to God you have pulled through. Bless you!!
Marci..God bless you..you will get through this..I'm a almost 14 yr survivor..I never take a day for granted..stay positive!
Hearing this gave me such a heavy heart!?you sound like a strong strong woman! My thoughts are with you🤎
@@KellyBarlowCreations hi Kelly..Happy New Year..I really enjoyed your video today with so much positivity..this last year has been tough on so many for different reasons..my Mom passed in March, 2 days after her 101 birthday..she was my best friend..like you, I tried to get through the holidays with family that made sure I wasn't alone..I am also a widow, 9 yrs in March. Life throws so many challenges at us..all we can do is take one of them at a time..stay strong and positive..
You are going to absolutely LOVE being a grandmother, it life changing in all of the best ways!
Did she say she was going to be a grandmother? I must have missed it! I did walkout of the room a few times tho.
@@pamelagreen1307 she said grandmother ‘of sorts’. The young man who is like a son to her is expecting a baby.
You go girl!! Life sometimes is not fair but it's how we handle it that defines us. I'm so glad you and the family is doing well.
Oh my goodness I absolutely love Winnie. What a precious fur baby. The way she looks at you is so precious.
You will absolutely love Kane Brown concert! Love Kane Brown enjoy yourself and 2022 you deserve it!!
Been there, done that. After 20 years of marriage my husband left my daughter & I. I bought a new little Christmas tree and put it up, I knew I wanted and needed to to still make Christmas special for my daughter. The "firsts" holidays were hard, but we plowed through them, with God's grace.
Your little fur baby is adorable. I love your transparency. Sometimes, if we are not careful we can lose ourselves in a relationship and that isn’t fair to either party. I’m so happy that your moving on and enjoying your life, your children and your business. Stay strong and God bless you
Kelly, When my ex turned 40 he went immediately into man-o-pause. Sports car, girlfriend, the whole deal. Oh course we divorced and I was devastated. I stayed home week after week, but my friends continued to encourage me and be there for me. One day, a dear friend said to me, "There is a big difference between lonliness and solitude". That changed my life. I realized I was making it on my own, had a good job, good friends. I called a girlfriend on a Friday and asked her if she wanted to get out for a while, we bumped into who turned out to be my future husband (now of 17 years).
You are doing a fantastic job of fighting to be upbeat, doing fun things and being there for your precious children. It does get easier. God only gives you what you can handle. My wish is the best for you and your family and friends in 2022.
I needed this today. I have a lot of things I need to let go of and start over. My way of trying to deal with things is just stay busy. I realize through your vlog today, I honestly need to let it all go. Thanks Kelly.
Happy to know that you are moving on, you look great!
Obviously, Winnie only has eyes for you❤️ May 2022 treat you and your family well.
Right? The way Winnie looks at her is amazing!
Winnie is the best companion, best friend you could have. She’s a sweet baby. I’m glad to hear you’re doing good and pursuing good things with your family. As you were talking, I thought of the Serenity Prayer. I say that prayer often. Blessings
You've got this! You're an amazing person! Winnie is adorable pup too. I've been with you for a few years now and plan to continue to do so. I was going through a rough patch in my life back a few years ago and I saw you on RUclips making fabric pinecones. Also, I was just introduced to RUclips. You commented back to me and it was like winning the lottery. You are a caring and loving person with loads of talent. You gave me strength to carry on and also love doing DIY's all that much more. Thank you.
I’m glad you got to keep your house! That’s huge for the kids! You deserve better than Jeff! If he cheated on you he will cheat on her as well!
Hopefully he doesn’t hurt anyone else.
Yes Girl I am excited to start 2 live again in 2022! Major job loss in 2018. Had to sell home, possessions & vehicle. 3rd yr now living in camper. I got a new attitude! On w life & a sm home! God Bless u!
INSPIRING and AUTHENTIC is what you are Kelly ❤️
My heart is a bit LIFTED after listening to the very end.
As I watched your opening with Winnie, I'm laying here with my son's 45lb dog kissing the bridge of her nose too.
❤️U Kelly Barlow.
Winnie is a wonderful comfort to everyone! They’re always a constant in this crazy time!!
Your amazing Kelly!!!! Thank you for sharing with us !!! Your a real life rockstar !!!! And ur glowing and ur beautiful and it makes my heart happy for you!!!! I loved this video !!!! Please do more !!! I cant wait to see you continuing your best life !!!!!! Sending you the biggest virtual hug !!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
I'm still watching your vlogs and stuff. I just don't comment much no more but you gotta know you are one of my favs kelly. Someone once told me that when you go through divorce and stuff. Its not so much that you miss them. It's just that uou miss the habit of them being there. Something like that. Love yall stay safe. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
You are a good person Kelly. What happened in your marriage was not your fault and you're doing your best for your kids just like I did. 🥰
I've lived in 26 different states and Canada all before the age of 17! Our home was in the Bay Area. My dad's job put in pipelines all over the States!! I treasure those memories and the friends I've made! I'm still in contact with those friends I've made! I became a travel nurse so I could travel! It's in my blood!
Kelly, you are one amazing person! I've been where you are/were and I wish I had half of your strength to get me through that dark time. I am praying for your happiness and I see those prayers being answered. Glad to see you back and on to a better 2022.♥️
Ray's a good kid. A good man. The Apple (Ray) didn't fall far from the tree (Mom). 😊💖 Good job Mom.
I crocheted many many things to keep my hands busy when my husband moved out 40 years ago after 10 years of marriage. It helped me work through the change in my life. I was in no hurry to find someone else, and started having fun doing what I wanted. Most of my fun was centered around my 6 year old daughter. I did meet some new people, and one snuck in and stole my heart. We’ve been married now for 38 years and are best friends. But I think I would also have been happy on my own. You find strengths you didn’t know you possessed when you are the head of the household. Love that you are living your best new life.
Go get ‘em, Kelly! I think you are a shining example for your kids and they will respect, admire, and love you for all the sacrifices you’ve made to help them. Remember, you cannot control another person’s actions, but you CAN control how you respond to that action. 2022 will be your year🍾🥳🎉 ~ Linda
I'm so glad to see you and your family enjoying life and each other. I remember when you first got Winnie as a pup. She has appeared to be such a good companion to you and your family. I wish only the best for you in the coming new year.
You're a strong woman and a strong family unit. Bless you year 2022 and always❤
I completely understand where you are coming from. When I was married, I lost who I was and then my husband stopped including me in the things he was doing.
I love how real and honest you are being about your life, you got this Kelly
Way to go, Kelly. I have been doing some soul searching/self evaluation and have really been growing because of it. Sometimes we really need to step out of our own way and see what God's plan is for us. My issues are still with me, but with each day and each prayer they are becoming less of a burden. So very happy for you and grateful that you are so open and honest. I know there are others who are benefiting from your openness. Hugs
Be you girl! You have beautiful kids that are there for you! Focus on your own well being!
I'm so happy for you and your new life. May this new year bring you much happiness!
Oh Kelly.. you're not only a role model for your girls.... But for a lot of women out in this crazy world... I think you rock and that 2022 us the best year for you!!! Thanks for always sharing your thoughts.... And Winnie is so stinkin adorable!!! Happy New Year!!! 🤗🤗😁👍❤️
One day at a time was all I could do
This is my first time... Just trying to make a life for my girls and I. It's a big scary change but starting to see the light
I'm so glad you've come out of that feeling of being in a rut. It's so freeing and everything looks brighter. I remember coming out of my dog after my divorce. I'm glad you got good friends and family they can be everything and your great pup she will be great when you need to vent but dont want to vent to a person. I'm so happy for you! Utah would love you
15:15 she will be ok, momma, she has such an amazing mother and support system.. she's going to do great things in life 💜
I am so happy all of you had a wonderful holiday. I'm glad you have found joy and happiness with your new life. I truly believe your life is going to be so much fuller now. Enjoy your children and your life. You deserve happiness.
Define last year, and the year before that? Horrible! My best friend died. I live in a 2 bedroom cabin and my son, daughter, her fiancé, and their 4 kids live with me because of all this covid related stuff going on. This year has to be better!
You are a survivor! Keep moving forward with your girls and never look back. It’s your ex’s loss.
Winnie is such a beautiful pup. Hope you have a much better year in 2022!!!! It sounds like you have amazing kids for thinking of you and how you might need them to get on with your life. His actions are still inexcusable there are other ways to get divorced. You are a strong woman and you will do well!!!
Winnie is so adorable 🥰 and your kids are so blessed! I’m so happy you are going forward! Good job Momma! Thanks for the message that there is a glorious light at the end of a long tunnel!!!
Winnie is too cute. I am so happy for you that you are putting things behind you and you can start your life anew. 2021 was a horrible year for me as well I was in the hospital from Oct 2nd to Dec 15 on life support from Covid19. I am home now and have a long road ahead of me to get better as I am very weak and on oxygen have to have a couple of surgeries as well. But I am happy to still be alive and hopeful for 2022. Please keep me in your prayers. I will continue to pray for you and the family. Love you girl…💕💖💕
Sending lots of love & well wishes from Florida! ❤ ❤ ❤
@Diana Doub Thank you so much…💖💕💖
Oh my goodness, what you have gone through and pulled through. You are a very strong lady, best wishes for your surgeries and recovery. Sending love, prayers and hugs to you.
@@bethdavis332 Thanks so much…hugs and kisses and may you have a great year in 22.
@@dianadoub2970 thank you sweetheart lots of love being sent your way 💕💖💕
Only me and daughter for 24 years. I love it. Family is not about numbers, right? Good luck to you and your in 2022.
I love that you take Ally with you on your trips. I’m the youngest of my siblings so I spent a lot of time with my mom (single parent.) We traveled somewhere just about every other weekend. Those are my favorite memories! Now that I’m married with kids,I’m so glad I got that time with her. A lot of my siblings tell me how they wished they took that time with her before venturing off to start their own lives. Wishing you all the best and more this New Year Kelly ❤️!
Great start to 2022!!! Have a wonderful year!!
So glad to see you doing so well after such a tough year. In your transparency you are one of the strongest women I know and a true inspiration for the rest of us. Sounds like the new year has a lot of amazing new life in store for you. Looking forward to experiencing it with you. Love and hugs to you and the girls…and Winnie too, of course.
I just happen to watch this and my gosh what a beautiful strong women you are. I too had my husband leave . We divorced in April and my Mother died in June. It has been an excruciating and painful year . I miss my Mother , but I remember what a strong brave and loving mother she was. How she taught us to be resilient and to lean on God and not our own understanding . She would say " God always brings something beautiful out of our pain". He turns things around for our good. I am trying to raise my 11 year old daughter with this truth. It's not always easy and one thing I have learned is that we have to let go of what we thought our future would be and focus on where we are now . As you said we can't control the other person ..we can't control what he does or doesn't do, but we can control what we do.
I also have learned that I can't stop my daughter's experience either ..I can only help her navigate through this . It's not what I planned for her, but here it is ...and we will be ok.
Winnie will be your best friend! Dogs have no agenda, they love you unconditionally. Having lost my dog last May was crushing. I see how you light up when she's there. Wish you and your family the best ❣️
I lost my sweet boy in April last year. I'm still struggling with coming to terms with that. Our pets do become our best friends. He helped me cope with the struggle of losing my husband 2 yrs ago. Without my big boy it would have been so much worse. Broken 💔
@@karensmith1357 so glad you at least had him. Sorry about the loss of your husband and pup!
The way she looks at you! ❤️ My cat is mad dogging me right now! Lol
Bravo Lady!! Your transparency was refreshing. I went through the same thing years ago and I'm at the point of coming full circle. You have handled this as well as anyone could possibly imagine. Your explanation of Christmas Day and New Years paralleled what I did when my marriage ended. I made new traditions, so to speak. I did this with every holiday thereafter and my children continued to thrive and knew Mom would make these days special & they missed nothing. I also realized how I hadn't "Lived" in so many years and how me, Jackie, disappeared. How I always held back because of the man in the background. Oh my gosh what a wonderful feeling when you finally have fun and don't worry about the man at home who chose not to enjoy that time with you or who held you back from going in the first place!! I lost many "friends" (people really) from life when things ended, but in the aforementioned comment, I'm coming full circle. I've recently started talking to some of those people and we're reconnecting. I felt a great loss at first, then realized they weren't as important in my life as I thought. I did as you, I put my children first. My children are my life and I learned that focusing on them was enough. That being said, I learned that not worrying about anyone but my kids, I was able to see the friends that were right before me & take them up on the offers of doing fun things....with and without the kids. I know you have so much happiness ahead, not just in 2022 but way beyond!! You have the attitude now that is needed to live and enjoy everything the universe has in store for you. I started including you in my prayer candles when you told us of your impending divorce. I will continue to do so. You are thriving!! Keep up the wonderful attitude and many blessings to you and your family & your extended family. Oh my gosh, I rambled on forever....sorry :)
So happy for all of you
Kelly, do you know how beautifully insightful in a healthy way you are? You refuse to be victimized Bravo. As for your kids, they are compassionate, caring and loving. Kelly, you don’t give what you don’t have!! They got it from you! I’m old enough to be your very very old sister and I’m especially impressed and tremendously proud of you. Keep on moving!
BTW, LOVE LOVE WINNIE! What kind of dog is she Kelly?
Ohhh she is just so sweet. She looks at you with so much love ❤️
My poodle mix just stares in my eyes as well. It is the best and most loyal dog I have ever had.
I've been down your road. It's been many years now, but from personal experience, I realized the best gift I could give myself ( and my kids) was "myself"! I'm remarried (11 years) and loving life. You go girl! Keep on being you and living the good life.❤
Happy 2022 Kelly...A Year Of New Beginnings For You & Us All & On & Forward We Go & Winnie Is Adorable!!!🎉👍😊🎊
You have such a good outlook Kelly. You should be proud of the strong woman you are. I wish only good things for you in 2022. Happy New Year! ❤️
Kelly, you are such an amazing woman. The impact you have had on me this last year helped me make a hard decision. After seeing you be open and honest about the first few weeks/ months of your divorce, I made the decision to leave. I was in a marriage that I felt I was just going through the motions. Listening to you talk about your best friend Linda calling you everyday making you get up and accomplish at least one thing that day. That stuck with me so much. Even though I am the one that left, I still needed to hear that. The accomplish at least one thing a day and to list whatever I did, helped me through the process. I admire your courage to be so open and honest. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I am looking forward to seeing what I can do now. Thank you
Judy, you can do anything and everything you want. Leaving a marriage is one of the hardest things anyone goes through. Be proud of everything you do every day and build on that.
Dear lady you are so brave and strong, keep up the good work.
One of my favorite sayings is, “ your opinion of me doesn’t matter, my opinion of myself is what is important.” The opinion of my children is also important. Everything else is just noise. Stay strong!
🌸🌸🌸Hey Kelly- you’re an amazing mom! I can relate totally to your story- I went through this about 15 years ago, with daughters in 10th grade 8th grade and 6th grade. I was recommended to have them attend “Rainbows” counseling at the local church- non denominational. It helped.
Love the idea of NEW traditions- it’s your NEW NORMAL. Your kids are so loved, and they WILL be fine. You are doing so well 🌸 it’s good to depend, and develop new friends now- I joined a bookclub and the support is much needed- I’m SO grateful for my weight loss of 178 pounds (ex husband). Although- I have always encouraged the kids’ relationship with their dad.
Keep moving forward- and remember- NO MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN A BAD MARRIAGE.
🌸Love ya, Donna.
You and your family are awesome. Have a wonderful 2022.
Thank you for inspiring me. Not just in crafts
I am happy to see you adjusting and adjusting your family. Take from me as a lady who lived in a dead marriage for about 10 years before I said enough. I focused on my son. It took me way too long to start to focus some important time on me. So please allow unselfish you time. The more you rediscover and fall in love with you again the better you will be for everyone. I became strong and a person found me. So, this year as I turned 70, I became engaged. So stay strong, focus time on you. You deserve it.
I feel like you’re lucky to be starting again healthy and not resentful 🤞❤️ I hope you have a lovely fresh 2022
Thank you for taking us along on the journey 🥰🙏
I just now hopped on. I'm glad to see you and Winnie's faces here in '22 ‼️
Ok, off to watch the video.
A blessed '22 to you Kelly, in all that you do. You're an inspiration of enthusiasm and kindness in a rushed world. I simply love ya ❤️
The best about change is getting through it!
Oh, my…those eyes so full of wisdom and love for you!!! God bless your year in 2022, Kelly!
23:30 you are literally the nicest person I know. You seriously have such a kind soul and the biggest heart. I love you soooooooo much and I know things will continue to look up for you. You are such a strong and amazing woman, you set such a great example for your girls and I know they will grow to be the best person they can because of you and your support ❤️❤️❤️
All I can say is I cried happy tears for you. You are doing it and doing it with grace and mercy. You have helped me be a better me also. Thank you for all you do. Sending love and prayers for continuing of positive happiness.
Oh I love that we aren't the only family that does a quick easy meal! Every year we do something different. This last Christmas we did a pizza bar and we've done a taco bar, spaghetti garlic bread and salad. One year we grilled out. It's wonderful to do something easy so that we can spend more time with family and not in the kitchen all day
I’m following you. You are great! Life sometimes takes turn we didn’t anticipate my husband of 45 years revealed his many infidelities. Who I didn’t know. Now single life is good with my dogs. I date some but prefer life as it is. I have freedom. I can wear my bathrobe with lack of make up when I feel like it. Life in this new normal is good. My kids are great. We made it!!! You go girl.
Way to go Susie. You are an inspiration as well. Enjoy life on your terms.
💛💛💛 Blessings to you and your dogs.
I was left many years ago with 3 children. We made it but the struggle was real. You'll make it and your children will be stronger too.
She is so cute! I’m glad you have a loyal companion!❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m happy for me! I stayed in a miserable and abusive marriage for 30 years! I finally left in 2016 and I’ve been absolutely happy with life!
I lived in LA County years ago and had made that Vegas & Laughlin drive many of times. When you mentioned that 4 hour drive in Desert and mountains I knew exactly what you meant. May 2022 bring you and the kids many happy NEW memories and traditions.
Kelly I believe your story could be my story. I was married 17 yrs to a fireman we never did anything together & the Christmas days he worked if he could because we didn’t have children & he wanted others that had families to be together. I felt so unwanted as it turns out he liked others better than me! I never wanted a divorce yet this was the best thing ever. I met my 2nd husband who was truly my soulmate. I am so glad that I found your videos I love crafting but you inspire me to do and find things I love doing. My husband passed away 4 yrs ago & im finding happiness in crafting while trying to find my “new normal”. Take care & may God bless you always
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You got this and you are correct. CONSISTENCY is the answer, for kids, it's so important.
I was waiting for Winnie to answer you! The unconditional love of a four legged family member is forever! I wish for you all the best in this chapter of your life!🥰
That girl adores you. I see it in her eyes as she looks at you! What a wonderful darling you have in Winnie! Happy New Year!
Kelly , you are an inspiration to many ! I knew that you were going to make it through the heaviness that you were personally going through in your family's and your life . Keep moving forward and experience the new found happiness and freedom ! Keep crafting ! You are " The number one crafter ! " CRAFT ON !!
Way to go Kelly! Here is to many new blessings in 2022 💕
One of my favorite sayings is, “your opinion of me doesn’t matter. My opinion of myself is what is important!” The opinion that my children have of me is also very important, everything else is just noise!
I have been where you are, so I just want you to know, it just keeps getting better from here on out.
Kelly you make me excited to share the light the new year brings !!! Thank you for sharing your excitement!
Awww such a sweet baby!❤ Let's hope this year will be much better! 🙏😊🌻
Girl, the way your dog looks at you……..❤️❤️❤️
I like your hair a lot better pulled back with a bit of a wave ! Very cute
All I can say is Not all heroes wear capes! Thank you, you have NO idea what an inspiration you are ❤️
Thank for that! Reading your comment it hit me hard🤎
The greatest reflection of us truly is our kids! Ray clearly proves just how great of a mother/woman/friend/role-model you are! You're doing a phenomenal job, never doubt yourself! So glad to see you living instead of existing...you deserve it and more! Congrats on the new addition...maybe baby gift DIYs will come out of this too😉🤷🏾♀️You are loved by more of us than you know, Happy 2022 and Stay you❤🙏🏾
You're strong .you got this.2022.
My husband has been suffering from depression for almost 3 yrs. now. He is in a deep depression, he doesn't get dressed anymore, he doesn't shower, he watches the same tv shows & movies over & over. he doesn't hardly even talk to me or anyone else. I noticed last spring that I felt like I was falling into a slump because of him. I spoke with his little sister about everything & she asked me if I had my craftroom set back up since our move. I told her no & that I needed to get that done. I want you to know that at the beginning of all of this I did try to talk to him & get him to see a doctor, he refused, said he was fine. She told me that I have done all I could do for him & I needed to get back to what I loved doing & if he didn't want to join in, then so be it. That's what I did & I feel a lot better, so glad I got my craftroom set up. Made many Christmas gifts, loved it. Now I'm setting my sights on my fist Great Grandchild that will be here in June, excited for that. My own brother suffered from depression for 9 yrs. & he told that it's nothing that I did & that my husband was the one that had to choose to do something. I'm glad he told me that. It was hard explaining to out new neighbors why they would only see him in his pj & bathrobe everyday when he goes out to smoke, but they seem to understand & that makes me feel good. Now I'm setting my sights on my fist Great Grandchild that will be here in June, excited for that.I got back to watching my You Tubes & learning new crafts. Thanks for your honesty through your tough path, that to has helped. God bless & Happy New Year!! Sorry I didn't mean to write a book here.
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LIFE is our greatest gift.
No regret, every experience is important as it gets us to where we are supposed to be 💗 One day at a time💗
Stay well and keep safe
It's your time now, enjoy everyday!!
Si glad to hear you're doing well. Stay positive and continue to spread your joy to us all and we spread it to others. This and you will make a better world. 😊🙏
I love Winnie, she is the cutest furbaby! I can tell she loves you very much the way she stares at you. She's beautiful and so are you! Thank you for sharing all of your creative ideas with us. It's greatly appreciated.
Thank you for sharing and utah not that far away you can always visit I here we have good powder to hope you and your family have a wonderful good year love you
The example of strength you have is a great example for your girls.
Making them strong as well.
God bless you.