What to Do When Your Ex Texts You

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Before I get into the specifics about how you should be replying to your ex, let’s first talk a bit about the possible reasons he is texting you.
The most common of those being he misses you.
Though he might not come right out and say so, if you haven’t been communicating with your ex then there’s a good chance he’s missing you. I mean, you were a part of his life at one point, so it makes sense why he may be feeling a bit nostalgic towards you and the relationship.
Men start to miss what they had after they’ve had a taste of life without it. And since meeting new women and making new connections can be tough for them, if this is the case then there’s a good chance that he’s reaching out because he has been thinking about you and is missing you.
If he’s already established that he misses you, then he may be trying to get you back, which is the next reason why he may be texting you.
The next reason your ex may be texting you is because he wants to be friends.
In this case his message will probably be pretty light hearted and friendly. He may choose to share some interesting news with you, or ask how you’ve been or what you’re up to. This message is tricky because it could be a well disguised “I miss you” message, but if he’s throwing out the friend vibe, then that’s likely the case. You should be able to tell after a few more messages from him.
Next is he is messaging you because he wants to make you feel bad, or hurt you.
This is an awful reason to text someone, but if your ex is feeling miserable about the breakup, or has any built up resentment towards you, then he may feel compelled to text you his thoughts. The important thing to remember here is that whatever nasty things he is sending you, he is doing it out of hurt. It’s important that you don’t take these messages to heart, or rebuttal with words that are equally as cruel. Instead know that he probably doesn’t mean what he’s saying, but for twisted reasons making you feel bad makes him feel better… or at least getting these feelings off his chest does.
If your ex is sorry about how the relationship ended, or something that happened while you were together, then this may be another reason for reaching out to you through text.
And the last reason I want to talk about when it comes to your ex texting you is if he is looking for a booty call.
This could be hard to spot at first because he may sugar coat his messages before implying that he wants to hook up, but a big indicator as to if he is booty calling you is the time of his message. Meaning, if he texts you in the middle of the night, or after getting home from the bar, then he could just be messaging you out of sexual desire. Regardless of whether or not you want to rekindle your relationship with your ex, you don’t want to go down this path. If you do, you risk getting hurt, and even if you’re just looking for some no-strings-attached fun, it’s still going to lead to an awkward situation. Just don’t do it.
Now, for when you are wanting to get back together, or are at least open to the possibility, there are certain things you’re going to want to keep in mind when replying to his text messages.
As I briefly mentioned earlier in this video, you’re going to want to send him a positive message. Even if you’ve been devastated since the breakup and feel like life as you know it has ended, you cannot convey that in your text message. If you do, you’ll look desperate to get him back, and even a bit pathetic. That is not the type of message that will make him want to be with you again… and if he was thinking about to get back together with you a downer message may make him change his mind.
What will make him want to be with you is a message expressing how cheerful you are, and how busy you’ve been. Sending the type of message that shows him that your life carried on after the relationship ended and it will let him see that you are a strong, independent woman who doesn’t need a man to complete her. That is an extremely attractive trait.
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Until next time ladies, take care and good luck!