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Is A Woman There For The Money or Is She The One? | I AM ATHLETE with Brandon Marshall & More

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2020
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    On Episode 9 of I AM ATHLETE the crew learns more about Chad’s new found relationship and Brandon poses the question, “How do you know when she’s the one?”. They dive deep into their experiences with women, money and marriage but most importantly, who they are as men. The conversation turns to football and the long-time Tom Brady and Bill Belichick relationship and how both are fairing while not sharing the same sideline after 20 years.
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  • @ofbgfitness
    @ofbgfitness 3 года назад +2132

    Fred does not waste words. He knows when to listen, when to speak, and it's always well thought out and an appreciated perspective

    • @YTD07
      @YTD07 3 года назад +58

      Thats how we all should converse, you said it perfectly

    • @TeeTee-sp7jv
      @TeeTee-sp7jv 3 года назад +5

      🗣facts

    • @fourthdayofoctober
      @fourthdayofoctober 3 года назад +6

      Love him

    • @tanyamo6525
      @tanyamo6525 3 года назад +29

      I knew there was something I like about him. He stands out. He’s more of the laid back one.

    • @ahrayaahla1
      @ahrayaahla1 3 года назад

      @Timothy Blount 0

  • @DaKidGowie
    @DaKidGowie 3 года назад +1245

    They’re preaching! This mindset really comes with maturity. There was a point in my life where I refused to get married, but as I get older, I’m realizing that having that one person to grow with is more ideal for me.

    • @miquelanderson4657
      @miquelanderson4657 3 года назад +13

      Real talk💯💯💯

    • @alexism.7712
      @alexism.7712 3 года назад +22

      Aww! Good for you, so when's our wedding date. 😭😭 jk

    • @dboy2305
      @dboy2305 3 года назад +17

      Man f all tht

    • @quasiaspeaks6091
      @quasiaspeaks6091 3 года назад

      @@miquelanderson4657 jmkk
      Kk mmmm
      Kmkmjkjj

    • @riverswallows5870
      @riverswallows5870 3 года назад +25

      After how many hearts you've broken , girls you've cheated on , etc.

  • @timiekamaloney1558
    @timiekamaloney1558 3 года назад +677

    Unc Fred don’t have to raise his voice to make a point..that’s grown grown!

    • @briandunmore6030
      @briandunmore6030 3 года назад +7

      All the nosey ASS women on here I see!!!! MEN talk! BYE

    • @baileybutterfly320
      @baileybutterfly320 3 года назад +6

      @@briandunmore6030 Oh please STFU! You’re so disrespectful. This is a good podcast.

    • @Saint_Judah
      @Saint_Judah 3 года назад +2

      @@briandunmore6030 cmon man and brothas wonder why women be losing respect for us

    • @shanellsmith3293
      @shanellsmith3293 3 года назад +3

      I wish they would please stop cutting uncle Fred off.

    • @dawnpratt846
      @dawnpratt846 3 года назад

      Yesssssss 💯

  • @beautifulba_kmay5369
    @beautifulba_kmay5369 3 года назад +726

    Channing was too intoxicated, I couldn’t understand him.
    Fred is a deep thinker and sees things through life experiences.
    Chad is a good listener and is teachable.
    Brandon does a lot of self reflection which helps him see many sides.

    • @aceboogie438
      @aceboogie438 3 года назад +27

      Smh he was definitely saucy lol this conversation would have been more intricate if he was sober

    • @HappinessTheBrand
      @HappinessTheBrand 3 года назад +11

      Yes ma'am, great analysis

    • @okgotit4103
      @okgotit4103 3 года назад +17

      This explains a woman's subconscious thought process. Reading the characteristics and environment of the room. Feeling in touch with her intuition about the traits of each person, ultimately feeling a comfortable command of her insertion about the environment at hand, analyzing the comprising social framework.

    • @Lefthook-poweroff
      @Lefthook-poweroff 3 года назад +14

      But they all what makes this show great tbh

    • @beautifulba_kmay5369
      @beautifulba_kmay5369 3 года назад +6

      @@Lefthook-poweroff no argument here🤷🏾‍♀️ just an observation.
      I enjoy the show, hence why I’m a subscriber🙂

  • @gamboxx
    @gamboxx 3 года назад +719

    “If you gotta think about the money, then you should’ve put ya shoes on faster”
    -Fred Taylor

    • @Gullah_Geechee_Tarot
      @Gullah_Geechee_Tarot 3 года назад +44

      I got it when he said it the first time. You should never continously allow a relationship to evolve if that thought is in the back of your mind. However, when you're chasing lust instead trying to build love you aren't asking the right questions nor seeing the red flags!

    • @mr.harmon6907
      @mr.harmon6907 3 года назад +11

      @@Gullah_Geechee_Tarot Channing didn't get it because he was faded off that drank.

    • @terencioreid5428
      @terencioreid5428 3 года назад +2

      @@Gullah_Geechee_Tarot so basically just trick off if you think she just about the money?

    • @tiffanyharris414
      @tiffanyharris414 3 года назад +1

      Real talk❣️

    • @rdb0819
      @rdb0819 3 года назад +2

      Think about your fortune regardless if she’s the one or not. Not all good things in the beginning end well

  • @omars-qz6rn
    @omars-qz6rn 3 года назад +665

    fred that one uncle who’ll take you out to eat and just give you life lessons

  • @Tee-kc3pn
    @Tee-kc3pn 3 года назад +195

    When my husband and I dated all of his friends tried to convince him that I was difficult because I wasn't with the bs....I was not difficult; I just had a no nonsense approach to relationship games and bs....either we in this together for it to work or we're not and can go our separate ways.

    • @princizzraven2000
      @princizzraven2000 3 года назад +1

      Well stated.

    • @AthleticEducation
      @AthleticEducation 3 года назад +1

      I should take this advice with the girl I’ve been seeing for 3 months

    • @monsieurimhim6147
      @monsieurimhim6147 3 года назад +13

      @@AthleticEducation naw brah she said his friends didnt like her because she wasn't with the bs ..unless tbey wanted her to put up with cheating or being abusive ...then what exactly is the bs ? More than likey she a control freak and his friends saw that ..

  • @wildkims2008
    @wildkims2008 3 года назад +86

    as a woman, I really enjoyed this fruitful conversation with these men. No ego, no bravado. just honesty and intelligent self-reflection

    • @accountabilityiskey
      @accountabilityiskey 3 года назад

      Me too!! I almost clicked on another video. I enjoy listening to wise men perspectives.

  • @je39981
    @je39981 3 года назад +707

    As a woman tuning into this it's quite interesting to see serious man talk.

    • @popupboi
      @popupboi 3 года назад +8

      @Stella Vi-ura that the black woman always trying to compete about who has it worse which black men do at least straight black men but I digress.

    • @ramerowalker1862
      @ramerowalker1862 3 года назад

      I admit this lady on my pic left me as a man I wanna grow with her still but I wonder if I had my life together she would be with me

    • @KDbelieves
      @KDbelieves 3 года назад +6

      ​@Chiefs rugby Uganda Marriage is a big commitment. They are sitting down and giving young men advice on one of the biggest decisions of their life. I don't understand what's more serious than that. But I guess we're predictable for having common sense.

    • @KDbelieves
      @KDbelieves 3 года назад +2

      @Chiefs rugby Uganda I didn't say it's the most serious. I said it's one of the most serious, but whatever man. Believe what you want to believe. I don't care to argue with men online. Goodnight.

    • @Getitgirlllll4717
      @Getitgirlllll4717 3 года назад +2

      Girl! Im loving this whole show!!!

  • @Luv2Act87
    @Luv2Act87 3 года назад +1054

    When Fred is talking I’d love less interruptions. Thank you!

  • @c.l.9344
    @c.l.9344 3 года назад +318

    Freds the wise elder statesman. Chad the fun older brother. Channing the crazy uncle. Brandon's the millennial.

    • @chimerefaison9829
      @chimerefaison9829 2 года назад +4

      @C. L. Facts👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @mdotcom09
      @mdotcom09 2 года назад +1

      I don't want Channing as a Uncle... That nigga borderline weird

    • @talkamardesh7562
      @talkamardesh7562 2 года назад +5

      @@mdotcom09 aren’t we all tho

    • @batirtzeurkiaga1716
      @batirtzeurkiaga1716 2 года назад +1

      💜💙💚💛💜💙💚💛

  • @JustaTinyBeanie
    @JustaTinyBeanie 3 года назад +57

    Fred has class and presence. All of them bring the right ingredients to the soup.

  • @Mooknu1992
    @Mooknu1992 3 года назад +509

    I love hearing Fred's perspective! He was NEVER a huge talker, during his playing days. But the brotha's very well spoken, insightful, & always has a interesting perspective! 💯

    • @joshrennie4109
      @joshrennie4109 3 года назад +6

      Really on his presidential take💯

    • @lesleystone7873
      @lesleystone7873 3 года назад +4

      Absolutely!!

    • @DeeFordJr
      @DeeFordJr 3 года назад +4

      Fred dropping some Gems

    • @villyv444
      @villyv444 3 года назад +1

      Please refrain from calling black pepper “well spoken”

    • @tanyamo6525
      @tanyamo6525 3 года назад +3

      I knew there was something I liked about him. He’s laid back; that’s sexy.

  • @shinitajordan2091
    @shinitajordan2091 3 года назад +514

    Find a woman who is not easily impressed. Financially responsible. Spiritual and a lover of not only you but those closest to you. If something is to happen to you. Can you trust that individual to take care of the ones you love most?
    Also, someone that has something going on for self. Driven by own goals and ambitions not someone looking for any handouts or a weekly “allowance”.

    • @markmcdonald8341
      @markmcdonald8341 3 года назад +8

      Facts💯💯💯

    • @insure4cheap
      @insure4cheap 3 года назад +30

      So you’re saying look for Jesus’ mother Mary? Ok got it 👌🏾😂🤷🏾‍♂️✊🏾

    • @Fashionceo
      @Fashionceo 3 года назад +5

      Bingo

    • @godsgirl7201
      @godsgirl7201 3 года назад +1

      ♥️

    • @MrMatthewjohnhackett
      @MrMatthewjohnhackett 3 года назад +14

      Telling a man what to look for in a woman 🚫🚫

  • @terrybrown7510
    @terrybrown7510 3 года назад +77

    My introduction to Fred Taylor has been awesome! Absolutely love his vibe 💯

  • @nightvisiontv1847
    @nightvisiontv1847 3 года назад +51

    “You shoulda put your shoes on faster” so you could run from that situation...damn that shit hit *different*

  • @devious141
    @devious141 3 года назад +77

    Man, Fred articulate, well and soft spoken

  • @Ptah1130
    @Ptah1130 3 года назад +337

    Each partner should inspire each other to be the best version of themselves.

    • @dwhite8997
      @dwhite8997 3 года назад +7

      Facts! Your comment also entails knowing who you are and where you are headed and effectively communicating that to your spouse.

    • @therealist9853
      @therealist9853 3 года назад +3

      Məny mən don't do this, don't be deceived. Women live to bring out the best in men. Men love to keep you the way you are so he can control you.

    • @raesweety
      @raesweety 3 года назад

      Thats it!!

    • @fracey__1511
      @fracey__1511 3 года назад +7

      @@therealist9853 thats the man you have dealt with not men in general. There are good men out there as well as woman you just have to find them.
      Understanding we are equally important and we have roles to fill though those roles might not always be what we want but It was designed in a way that it works to those who learn how to work it

  • @lenebrantley221
    @lenebrantley221 3 года назад +37

    Fred is what we all need is our lives. He is amazing. I like that Chad didn't want the women before his current relationship to feel less than. That is admirable. Chad love everybody. I love Chad too. He is also amazing man.

  • @KellieLynnBruce
    @KellieLynnBruce 3 года назад +153

    Fred was on a different level!!!!! 🥰 They ant ready!!!!! He preaching!

  • @daynethemayne1851
    @daynethemayne1851 3 года назад +94

    Such an incredible group of guys, the chemistry is just there. Nothing forced, just round table talks w/ the homies. Love it.

  • @mihirkulkarni4714
    @mihirkulkarni4714 3 года назад +164

    Fred is going to be that one grandpa everyone listens to

  • @christopherpaul2938
    @christopherpaul2938 3 года назад +36

    Og fred is always on point, as an og myself, i wish fred would talk more. Because he makes more sense than all of them.

  • @kskskdkdjfnfnfjeeldl833
    @kskskdkdjfnfnfjeeldl833 3 года назад +40

    Best episode yet man! Listening to this episode literally made go buy flowers and fruit for my ol lady. I’m 27 and we have our son. Very inspirational and motivating to be a better black man, husband and father.
    Dallas,Tx!

  • @samgunz1
    @samgunz1 3 года назад +33

    Fred taylor look like he was born an OG ... salute one of the most underappreciated and underrated RBs of all time

  • @michaelhertzman1028
    @michaelhertzman1028 3 года назад +451

    “If you’re worried about that, you should’ve put your shoes on faster” DEAD 💀
    Channing, he meant after you bust, get dressed and GO. Don’t wife her up.

    • @olliesmith4997
      @olliesmith4997 3 года назад +17

      Big fact. Get that nut and get gone!

    • @kwicksand12
      @kwicksand12 3 года назад +32

      I know a saying can go over your head every once in a while but for some reason I thought Channing, of all people lol, would’ve picked up on that one

    • @stacymanson2000
      @stacymanson2000 3 года назад +7

      That was EPIC

    • @jumpstart55million
      @jumpstart55million 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jamessandi4282
      @jamessandi4282 3 года назад

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @siedahwilliams9189
    @siedahwilliams9189 3 года назад +55

    Love the authenticity and genuine dialogue between the fellas. Not everyone will get it or want to get it but this will definitely touch a few!

  • @jessezuber999
    @jessezuber999 3 года назад +8

    I got a uncle that is exactly like Fred. Cool as hell and always knows what to say and when to say it. We need more of him in the world

  • @adrianbutler6378
    @adrianbutler6378 3 года назад +72

    "If you gotta think about the money, you should've put your shoes on faster" 🗣

  • @derekg.4435
    @derekg.4435 3 года назад +169

    Dam this is the only show that has ever made me feel like I'm back in the locker room or even around my teammates who I played ball with having deep, insightful, meaningful and at times comical conversations!!

    • @nathanielhoward7816
      @nathanielhoward7816 3 года назад +10

      Along with All the smoke with Matt Barnes and Stephen Jackson.

  • @aprilhawk9859
    @aprilhawk9859 3 года назад +19

    I soooo enjoy watching Brandon’s genuine vulnerability, Fred’s financial knowledge is so needed and methodical, Chads honesty is refreshing & Channing has NO filter 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @applechai
    @applechai 3 года назад +11

    I love Chad. He is very deep and takes no prisoners. His expressions show how enlightened he is in a spiritual sense. Therefore makes him very balanced in real life. Simple n happy

  • @c.w.1925
    @c.w.1925 3 года назад +39

    “The Money is already there” Fred is a real one 🙌🏾

  • @CWTGD
    @CWTGD 3 года назад +233

    “You should have put your shoes on faster” meaning leave that situation quick as possible

  • @AbaitheyBeauty
    @AbaitheyBeauty 3 года назад +8

    Awhhh Ocho seems genuine and sweet 🥺! I like the fact that he spoke good of his past women and found some positive to say despite the dude with the locks trying to make him find some negative to say. He melted my heart wish him the best

  • @beyhive2167
    @beyhive2167 3 года назад +12

    Fred I can listen to you all day. Smart guy, and Humble

  • @Ptah1130
    @Ptah1130 3 года назад +942

    Women need security and stability. Men need respect and cooperation.

    • @YZ4hunnid
      @YZ4hunnid 3 года назад +63

      this is one of the few generalities that are actually true.

    • @tiffanybloke9076
      @tiffanybloke9076 3 года назад +134

      As a woman, I can say that there is not a living entity on this planet that does not first and foremost require respect, including women.

    • @laurenelise12
      @laurenelise12 3 года назад +80

      @@tiffanybloke9076 100% agree. I’ve seen this play out, when a man demands respect but doesn’t reciprocate. That’s one thing that absolutely goes both ways. A woman respects a man who treats her as such (value). A man has to create that space for a woman to submit to him (cooperate), and that is founded on trust (vulnerability) and respect. I need to know as the leader that you got me no matter what.

    • @Mikezeyy
      @Mikezeyy 3 года назад +25

      Wouldn’t you say that we all need all 4 qualities?

    • @pinkyharris801
      @pinkyharris801 3 года назад +10

      We need respect to...

  • @mikeshaparks6322
    @mikeshaparks6322 3 года назад +133

    Give Fred an Oscar for his performance... he is speaking FACTS all day!

    • @Israel-nb7ip
      @Israel-nb7ip 3 года назад +5

      Lol...you do realize that Oscar's are for people faking it right? Fred ain't faking anything here or acting a role...just being a real dude.

    • @quadonyawells8380
      @quadonyawells8380 3 года назад

      Is he drunk?🤣🤣🤣

  • @trevorhenderson8916
    @trevorhenderson8916 3 года назад +11

    It’s interesting watching Brandon switch energies depending on the guests. With original guys he’s an emotional, accepting, deep thinker but when Diggs & Jarvis was on he was all cool guy.

  • @douglasrolle5550
    @douglasrolle5550 3 года назад +34

    They need to listen more when Fred talk.

  • @dantheman8152
    @dantheman8152 3 года назад +212

    Look at how she treats you when you face adversity. When you are down, a good woman will encourage and help pick you up!

    • @lakersin556
      @lakersin556 3 года назад +12

      Amen to that.

    • @nicoprincaesar
      @nicoprincaesar 3 года назад +40

      Mine disappeared when I was going through my worst 🙇🏽‍♂️ . So I left her ass . Best decision I’ve ever made 💯.

    • @dantheman8152
      @dantheman8152 3 года назад +4

      @@nicoprincaesar
      Yes sir

    • @eyeheartmusic15
      @eyeheartmusic15 3 года назад +4

      Hit it on the head

    • @remidibeatz8780
      @remidibeatz8780 3 года назад +7

      Real Talk! I Dont Judge a relationship UNTIL I have adversity and see how they respond

  • @Justaguy397
    @Justaguy397 3 года назад +339

    fred knows exactly when to talk

    • @adgee5401
      @adgee5401 3 года назад +7

      The wonders of editing

    • @faku_bibyo
      @faku_bibyo 3 года назад +1

      @@adgee5401 “An unsolved mystery.”

    • @Justaguy397
      @Justaguy397 3 года назад +11

      @@adgee5401 he must be the one editing the footage because he is like that every episode.

    • @jasminem4853
      @jasminem4853 3 года назад +1

      Apart from at the end with the 50/55🤣🤣

    • @cnelly749
      @cnelly749 3 года назад +6

      Old head w/ some wisdom

  • @whatever1495
    @whatever1495 3 года назад +27

    " A black woman who's going to ride and knows what she's wants to do in life" . Building together , not a sponsorship. Going to push each other to our best. Team work!

  • @PoodyFreshcobar
    @PoodyFreshcobar 3 года назад +6

    “If You Gotta Think About The Money Then You Should’ve Put Your Shoes On Faster” !!! Fuccen Woooowwwww That Went Over A Lotta Ppl Heads Fred That Was Amazing & Some Very Thoughtful Insight & Quote Right There That Was DEEP !!!!!! 🗣💯💯💪🏽

  • @rawdogkingzpodcast3841
    @rawdogkingzpodcast3841 3 года назад +84

    When Chad was talking about his lady and helping him with a lil structure and he said i don't think yall understand... he know that chick from the TV show gonna have something to say... shout out to Brandon for keeping it moving 💯

    • @davidcole6568
      @davidcole6568 3 года назад +5

      Exactly where my mind went too.

    • @olliesmith4997
      @olliesmith4997 3 года назад

      What chick from the tv show. You ain’t talking about that overly aggressive girl that was on here that time was it?

    • @olliesmith4997
      @olliesmith4997 3 года назад

      @nomad: oh okay, gotcha lol

    • @Momof2chi
      @Momof2chi 3 года назад +7

      He’s referring to Elevlyn !! We can’t stand her ass!!

    • @nishashawn2021
      @nishashawn2021 3 года назад +9

      Ev said on national TV to this man face it's ok to cheat just wear protection. She provided zero structure

  • @stringerbell1788
    @stringerbell1788 3 года назад +353

    Fred T The Voice Of Reason Has Spoken

    • @therrelllyon196
      @therrelllyon196 3 года назад +8

      He be saying stuff and it goes soooo far over everybody except Brandon’s head... it’s crazy. I love it though cause it reminds me of being around my Un-rich friends....lol

    • @O.W.Smooth
      @O.W.Smooth 3 года назад

      50150

  • @Lilioideae
    @Lilioideae 3 года назад +5

    I saw this on my recommendations and I love it! I love when professional black men talk, it’s refreshing!🙏🏾♥️💕

  • @RZ-vt3bf
    @RZ-vt3bf 3 года назад +39

    "If you start shaking ill throw some money at you" thats so disrespectful lmao but Chad is stone cold 🥶

  • @micaelaharper3585
    @micaelaharper3585 3 года назад +419

    Having faith in God makes everything in life so much more clear including on who to marry

    • @Thowzand_
      @Thowzand_ 3 года назад +48

      And that’s what’s people missing Putting their faith in Jesus cause we all gone die instead of being concerned about money and riches Jesus is all that matters

    • @fernieeg6634
      @fernieeg6634 3 года назад +40

      “Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock.” Matthew 7:24

    • @Thowzand_
      @Thowzand_ 3 года назад +2

      @@fernieeg6634 amen

    • @briandunmore6030
      @briandunmore6030 3 года назад +10

      @@fernieeg6634 Quoting and living are 2 different things alot of women quote scripture but aint living nothing!

    • @erick_ftw
      @erick_ftw 3 года назад +6

      @@briandunmore6030 lol there’s a verse for that too

  • @joereitan
    @joereitan 3 года назад +72

    Fred Taylor is so wise. Know when to put your shoes on.

  • @CopperColouredQueen
    @CopperColouredQueen 3 года назад +22

    Just caught wind of this show and im loving these conversations. The group dynamic works. Keep up the great work fellas.

  • @madskillzdc
    @madskillzdc 3 года назад +37

    yall need to interview Marshawn lynch

  • @cjskatesnoway
    @cjskatesnoway 3 года назад +248

    Man these episodes should be an 1hr to 2hrs long, 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 so much knowledge I get from these episodes.

    • @olliesmith4997
      @olliesmith4997 3 года назад +4

      Yes! They definitely need to make them longer!

    • @rome2989
      @rome2989 3 года назад +3

      You need better parents

    • @pizzandoughnuts8762
      @pizzandoughnuts8762 3 года назад +2

      Fiya episode ya I agree need atleast an hour

    • @jacksonquarters3536
      @jacksonquarters3536 3 года назад +2

      BTS footage probably crazy af

    • @Dman4901
      @Dman4901 3 года назад

      Facts they have great teamwork they each different

  • @pg2t725
    @pg2t725 3 года назад +589

    “ I don’t think y’all understand” Chad ain’t tryna have no BM drama😭😭😭

    • @tavarismccarter3458
      @tavarismccarter3458 3 года назад +17

      Rightttttttt🤣

    • @frederickwhite9634
      @frederickwhite9634 3 года назад +10

      Facts!!

    • @deuce21rbdeuce41
      @deuce21rbdeuce41 3 года назад +7

      Came to the comments just to comment on this cause I didn’t feel like typing it but you right on they don’t understand 😂😂😂

    • @jasonx8609
      @jasonx8609 3 года назад +38

      He was worried about Evelyn from basketball wives crying and going off again like she did the last time he mentioned something about his past relationships

    • @chantelnorman1537
      @chantelnorman1537 3 года назад +5

      i dont blame him

  • @thegoat9320
    @thegoat9320 3 года назад +24

    Channing is hilarious 😆. Glad to see these guys healthy after football.

  • @chocolategirl443
    @chocolategirl443 2 года назад +2

    Fred Taylor is so level headed and even keeled, “Balanced”. Love his personality. Ochocinco aka “Sweet Science”. Wears his feeling on his sleeves. Glad to hear you’re growing up. I’m rooting for you. Channing is the odd to everyone’s even (I particularly don’t like to use the words “Devil’s Advocate”). Brandon…Absolute “Brilliance”. Keep up the GREAT work guys.

  • @Kingstyles05
    @Kingstyles05 3 года назад +47

    Channing is funny. "If you start shaking I might throw some money at you." Dude cracks me up sometimes.

    • @samgunz1
      @samgunz1 3 года назад +4

      They need him.. comedic relief lol

  • @lawestphilly
    @lawestphilly 3 года назад +28

    Brandon Marshall thank you for being so transparent.

  • @teresafaulks6909
    @teresafaulks6909 3 года назад +4

    I love me some Chad, and Brandon. You too have me laughing. I love Chad how he speaks how he feels, he's straight to the point and don't care how anyone feels about what he say. I also love how Brandon ask the important questions and how he shows his emotions on certain topics.

  • @Rubyred-rb2fe
    @Rubyred-rb2fe 3 года назад +4

    This was raw...I appreciate the candidness and the willingness to be open and sharing your perspectives.

  • @taurusgoddess4447
    @taurusgoddess4447 3 года назад +367

    I wish Fred can talk more. He has the wisdom.

  • @zainabcamara3415
    @zainabcamara3415 3 года назад +180

    I just really feel men like to downplay the cooking and cleaning role. Caring for the family emotionally, mentally, and physically is not an easy task. Women take the role of turning a house into a home, birthing children (last time I checked a man can’t get pregnant) taking care of the children when the man (ATHLETE) is gone for how many consecutive days? Sometimes weeks? Cooking? Cleaning? Having to take care of herself mentally and emotionally? & y’all say ya want a hustler on top of that? TO ME, take out all finances .. that’s a true hustler at heart Already! The courage, ability, and power to birth children, create a home for your family, cook, clean, love, nurture, and protect us ENOUGH .. more than enough .. Every women doesn’t have financial hustle in her and that’s perfectly fine.. doesn’t have to be your type but that is okay, but I get the vibe where the Brandon guy was tryn downplay it in a sense and I don’t like that.
    Also MOST RICH MEN MARRY WOMEN for image and appearance and then ASK “does she love me for me” well if you didn’t go for women that fed your ego and went for women that challenge you, match your energy spiritually, emotionally, and mentally... helped you grow, guided you, and pushed you to High limits THAN YOU WILL PROBABLY FIND A WIFE THAT ISNT After your coins, but To love your heart and soul! Like the Fred guy said “PUT YO SHOE LACES ON FASTER” y’all men crazy lol ..

    • @shirleyowens9936
      @shirleyowens9936 3 года назад +11

      I couldn’t said it better

    • @tamarphillips2449
      @tamarphillips2449 3 года назад +8

      Well said lady! And I’m so happy you broke it down, for those that dk how much we really sacrifice for our family.

    • @fracey__1511
      @fracey__1511 3 года назад +8

      I think both men and woman downplay each other roles which leads to so many problems of thinking the other person has an much easier role but we are all in the same boat and because our view is from the boat we do not know what the view looking from outside looks like. If we developed and a genuine interest in each other and allowed one another to be vulnerable and talk about the deepest things that wound us in relationships we would have a much better understanding that everybody is equally important to each other a lot would be accomplished through this understanding
      Frustration comes when someone thinks the other person got what they didn’t get when in reality we all go through tribulations life crushes us differently but essentially we are all crushed.
      “Compassion” if we understood the significance of this word we would treat each other differently

    • @Trinlove
      @Trinlove 3 года назад +1

      Yea that whole boss money hustler trope is fine it just ain’t me i like to nurture and grow myself emotionally

    • @electricman68
      @electricman68 3 года назад +1

      No wife of a professional athlete in the NFL cooks and cleans. This isn’t the 50’s. Save for birthing kids, there’s next to nothing these women do to keep a home. There’s someone paid to do all that.

  • @mswestmoreland11
    @mswestmoreland11 3 года назад +17

    Fred gives good knowledge. Listen to Fred.

  • @irismcdaniel3410
    @irismcdaniel3410 3 года назад +6

    You have to allow yourself to be in uncomfortable situations to grow. Situations that's not gone kill you now, but you have to be uncomfortable to prosper

  • @begoodtoyourself9051
    @begoodtoyourself9051 3 года назад +111

    3:34 "if you start shaking I'll throw some money at ya" I'm done🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @youngprophet5138
    @youngprophet5138 3 года назад +287

    At the end of the it’s about why you’re attracted to the girl and what she offers. Most men just look for the baddest female. But if you want a long healthy relationship you have to look for more than someone you enjoy having sex with.

    • @areezyisg95
      @areezyisg95 3 года назад +18

      My situation and it’s hard cause you choosing lust over love at the end of the day and that a mans weakness

    • @ondt6411
      @ondt6411 3 года назад +11

      Sex is a very big part of the relationship though I'm sorry but it is physical attraction does matter a lot

    • @ryanamari2233
      @ryanamari2233 3 года назад +28

      @@ondt6411 a physical attraction may get you there but if it’s all that keeps you there it’s not a relationship it’s sex or an entanglement of the bodies

    • @naimalee1046
      @naimalee1046 3 года назад +7

      Young Prophet • Exactly what a lot of men doesnt understand still..

    • @carmenmich
      @carmenmich 3 года назад +11

      True and a lot of men don’t realize some of these women are studying them. Also, {major point} social media is a sales pitch. These “baddest” types set of their social media and captions to pitch and lure men. These guys forget that spirituality is trending. All of these girls can talk about crystals and sage or whatever they think most men are into or whatever is popular. It’s not real most of the time.

  • @malkiakay7583
    @malkiakay7583 3 года назад +4

    As a female i love this conversation I’m glad that they are doing this to give their perspective and advice this is love real talk

  • @BabeBGirl
    @BabeBGirl 3 года назад +19

    Channing getting to much hate he’s a good relief to the conversations to make them easier.

    • @sanroqueboy6012
      @sanroqueboy6012 3 года назад

      Are u channing? Lmao

    • @AmateurAthleteAllDay
      @AmateurAthleteAllDay 3 года назад +2

      He also cares about the young athletes getting it right so he has a heart. People don’t notice that.

  • @philliph6248
    @philliph6248 3 года назад +96

    They aint listening to Fred he droppin jewels

  • @andrewt013
    @andrewt013 3 года назад +60

    this is the most perfect combination of personalities

  • @tiarasiobhon
    @tiarasiobhon 3 года назад +20

    Fred is wisdom! Love this discussion as a woman listening.

  • @bernardtim1776
    @bernardtim1776 3 года назад +2

    I knew as a young man that I had to have a wife early in life....my parents are still married(53 years). I've been married it will be 27 years in July and I don't even know where the time went. I would not be where I am without her. We've had our problems like anyone else, but she has clearly been a great reason I'm doing as well as I am. Glad to see these young guys headed down the right path with the way they view women, because how you view women is important to deciding what kind of woman you will end up with.

  • @MissAlomo
    @MissAlomo 3 года назад +103

    Fred was CORRECT when he said HEADACHE, and it was not offensive. It's easy to lead when someone just follows without knowledge or conflict/contention (The dependent woman). An independent woman will ask questions, sometimes even give unsolicited input, yes even submissive kingdom women, however, that headache can be seen as a good challenge, because she's able to hold you accountable, especially if the man see's her as an asset and not a liability...
    & Fred's question was not thoroughly answered when it came to the compromise on the relationship as an athlete or how to know she's "the one"

    • @whatiswe
      @whatiswe 3 года назад +21

      Perhaps she will be a headache for a man who doesn’t appreciate an independent freethinking woman. She’s a challenge for a man who appreciates going toe to toe with her who’s in the same mind set.

    • @MissAlomo
      @MissAlomo 3 года назад +13

      @@whatiswe thank you for obviously not reading to comprehend. I’m not going back and forth. The only reason Fred, reworded his statement is because people are easily offended. Exercising can be a headache when you’re chilling and comfortable but it doesn’t mean it’s not worth it or beneficial. Good day.

    • @CoNVertibleJay
      @CoNVertibleJay 3 года назад +1

      what's your IG Yvette

    • @MissAlomo
      @MissAlomo 3 года назад

      @@CoNVertibleJay IG @MissAlomo

    • @KellahBeatzOfficial
      @KellahBeatzOfficial 3 года назад

      I agree with you Yvette

  • @Symonewiththesports
    @Symonewiththesports 3 года назад +276

    This is literally the podcast I have been waiting on! "I don't believe in leg tattoos" LOLLL

    • @1illone
      @1illone 3 года назад +9

      Lol.... just go to a local barber shop in the hood....you'll love it...

    • @anthonypressley3105
      @anthonypressley3105 3 года назад +1

      LOL! I know rite LOL!

    • @Symonewiththesports
      @Symonewiththesports 3 года назад +4

      Definitely need more barber shop like podcasts lol

    • @rctecopyright
      @rctecopyright 3 года назад +2

      That moment when you scroll down and read a comment the exact moment the video says the phrase commented...
      Bliss 👌😩

    • @Symonewiththesports
      @Symonewiththesports 3 года назад

      @@rctecopyright LOLLLL

  • @shantep1592
    @shantep1592 3 года назад +5

    Chad was right to be careful about his response because we know WHO would've been cryin on a video on IG 😂. I felt that when he said he found someone to provide him with structure. Sometimes that's one of the main things it takes to make him better IMO

  • @ThePrinceOfEl
    @ThePrinceOfEl 3 года назад +5

    I like these types of talks with men because alot of us didn’t have a lot of men/ fathers growing up

  • @BLACKNIGHTCODING
    @BLACKNIGHTCODING 3 года назад +98

    Yes!! I agree with Fred on having a go-getter partner when you have money. If all she wants to do is go shopping and get shoes and bags but isn't contributing to the making of money then she ain't worth it to me. I can buy a cook and a housekeeper but a hustler/go-getter is priceless.

    • @GaryWilliamsJr
      @GaryWilliamsJr 3 года назад

      Agreed, especially on that last line

  • @jeromegilbert9237
    @jeromegilbert9237 3 года назад +449

    They need longer episodes

    • @3xFelon
      @3xFelon 3 года назад +18

      Fr! . ..I start laughing next thing u know it over

    • @mariek6715
      @mariek6715 3 года назад +6

      fred knows exactly when to talk

    • @King_Marzz
      @King_Marzz 3 года назад +1

      Fact!

    • @imreh4562
      @imreh4562 3 года назад +1

      This is literally the podcast I have been waiting on! "I don't believe in leg tattoos" LOLLL

    • @youngharrio
      @youngharrio 3 года назад +1

      Exaaaaaccccxtttttlllllyyyyy!?!?

  • @DopeRN
    @DopeRN 3 года назад +14

    I'm not a millionaire. I'm a registered nurse working on my second masters. I'm financially secure, but when dating I'm thinking about if he's real or trying to ride my coattail. So, I absolutely understand and agree that money plays a part in the dynamics of a relationship. I'm in the midst of starting a business as well, so there is a lot at steak. I think understanding who you are is paramount as well. I don't need a millionaire but let's meet and make it happen. Good show guys!!

    • @ejay2075
      @ejay2075 3 года назад

      What do you call financially secure? Does the bulk of your income come from a job? If so you aren't financially secure as you think

  • @tenille2529
    @tenille2529 3 года назад +3

    So so appreciative of this conversation amongst brothas. This discussion is necessary for the culture. ♥️

  • @bronzedbeauty3713
    @bronzedbeauty3713 3 года назад +13

    The chemistry is so organic. I look fwd to each episode. You guys are hilarious.

  • @nazzc7777
    @nazzc7777 3 года назад +16

    This is awsome ... you want a woman who wants you but don’t need you ... there is a difference n we sometimes settle or want to act the fool and get that girl who needs you .. till u can’t provide anymore n then she bounce to the next man 😂

  • @TrentonPrimus
    @TrentonPrimus 3 года назад +3

    What Channing said about his wife has always been my mindset.. and my wife is exactly like that

  • @rjdriver88
    @rjdriver88 3 года назад +199

    Fred was clear: the independent woman gonna give you headaches cuz she ain’t putting up with all that BS.
    Idk why Brandon had to put his cape on.

    • @cmjones223
      @cmjones223 3 года назад +28

      Cause he felt attacked lol. His woman probably falls into that independent category.

    • @rosestephen6789
      @rosestephen6789 3 года назад +27

      I'm with Fred! It's all good with women getting there education and working but when your mindset is I can do me then that women can become a problem. There's nothing wrong with getting your things as a woman and being dependent on your husband. Y'all are one depending on each other.

    • @rjdriver88
      @rjdriver88 3 года назад +39

      @@rosestephen6789 I felt Fred was correct in his original statement because they were specifically talking about young NFL players, who don’t have a reputation for being faithful. So if you ain’t ready for that, avoid the independent woman.

    • @rosestephen6789
      @rosestephen6789 3 года назад

      @@rjdriver88 cool

    • @gamboxx
      @gamboxx 3 года назад +1

      @@rjdriver88 📌

  • @stormeagle5050
    @stormeagle5050 3 года назад +9

    In an era where podcasting is becoming redundant, this is one of the better podcasts to emerge within the last 2-3 years. Salute to the brothas!!! 💪🏿💯

  • @danareed6481
    @danareed6481 3 года назад +3

    "If you gotta think about the money, you should've put your shoes on faster" Preach Fred!!

  • @trooptroopie8200
    @trooptroopie8200 3 года назад +2

    Brandon gets us...he understands what women expect from men , want from men, and what women need from men, and knowing that makes women give men what they want, need, and expect from us.

  • @cubant2258
    @cubant2258 3 года назад +52

    Yooo Fred was wild with that question to B Marsh "did you compromise or did you settle" bruh are you trying to get my man divorced 🤣😂😂

    • @nellydavis7645
      @nellydavis7645 3 года назад +7

      That’s a question maybe Brandon need to ask himself.

    • @Fashionceo
      @Fashionceo 3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @cubant2258
      @cubant2258 3 года назад +2

      @@nellydavis7645 yh but you have these convo away from the camera 😂

    • @nellydavis7645
      @nellydavis7645 3 года назад +3

      @@cubant2258 he needed to ask it.. if they are keeping it real.😂

    • @JohnnyO0333
      @JohnnyO0333 3 года назад +3

      Deadass I was thinking the same thing! Lmao

  • @dusthue
    @dusthue 3 года назад +66

    Love can not be in a club. Love in a Club is Lust. That’s for most people.

    • @terencioreid5428
      @terencioreid5428 3 года назад

      The club unholy a bit we not perfect but that's most definitely a challenge spot to go far with someone

  • @El_Kyro_Loco
    @El_Kyro_Loco 3 года назад +17

    That dam FAMU jacket chad wearing 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥶🥶🥶🔥🥶🔥🔥

  • @PoodyFreshcobar
    @PoodyFreshcobar 3 года назад +3

    “I Am A Bully & I Do This For A Living” Prolly One Of Da Best Underrated Quotes Of This Episode !!! 🤣💪🏽💪🏽

  • @bjanell399
    @bjanell399 3 года назад +156

    We see you Chad representing Florida A&M University Rattlers.

    • @Blassie.P
      @Blassie.P 3 года назад +11

      Yooooo that FAMU Sweater dope AF I need that 🔥🔥🔥🐍🐍🐍

    • @davidnoble4450
      @davidnoble4450 3 года назад

      @@Blassie.P lhp.com ✊🏿

    • @Blassie.P
      @Blassie.P 3 года назад

      @@davidnoble4450 Good looking fam...

    • @yazzk2612
      @yazzk2612 3 года назад +2

      My Fam Played for Hampton in ' 96 and FAMU was in their opponent in the Circle City Classic in Indy, IN in 1996 again. I loved FAMU's Band and I wanted to attend FAMU but didn't. One of my biggest regrets in Life til this day...

    • @stretch273
      @stretch273 3 года назад +1

      No doubt that shit fresh bro I’m a huge sports fan o have plenty of attire like that I have every team ncaa, mlb, nba, nfl, soccer hockey I got it all I got mine from fanatics my buddies can’t afford it because their wives are spending all their money😂.

  • @Junior_1124
    @Junior_1124 3 года назад +37

    I think this relates to all relationships regardless of economic status.

  • @chloethemessenger
    @chloethemessenger 3 года назад +3

    It’s so refreshing to hear grown men be so real and so raw. I love this side to mature men💕 Great discussion on marriage. I wanna see a part II 😎

  • @divadeb1907
    @divadeb1907 3 года назад +1

    Nice to hear these men break it down, I've been single for 12 years cause I'm grinding everyday I dont go out with a man cause of their money I have my own money, we need to build together!!!! Loyalty is everything to me!!!!!

  • @croweziec
    @croweziec 3 года назад +175

    These group of guys come with the real.

  • @Ptah1130
    @Ptah1130 3 года назад +8

    Communication, Compromise, Compassion, Consideration, Cooperation= 5Cs are the key Ingredients to a respectful and healthy relationship.

  • @IAmSomaliChannel
    @IAmSomaliChannel 3 года назад +25

    Guy in yellow, your wife is so lucky ❤️ Lord if youre listening 🙏🏽 hear me out because I didnt know this mentality even existed in Men

    • @jawannbooker6126
      @jawannbooker6126 3 года назад +6

      It took me a while in life. Me and my wife been through a lot. But I pretty much carry Brandon Marshall’s perspective. I had to figure out with who I was. I understand my insecurities now so I can controls my temptations and I treat her like a queen because now I trust myself.

    • @Twkout
      @Twkout 3 года назад +1

      She don’t deserve him she stabbed him

    • @neham2056
      @neham2056 3 года назад

      @@Twkout he beat her up, it was self defense.

    • @kingofgames4054
      @kingofgames4054 3 года назад

      Those guys are probably in your friend zone

    • @IAmSomaliChannel
      @IAmSomaliChannel 3 года назад

      @@jawannbooker6126 You live, you learn, you grow... thats beautiful 💕

  • @kjhardy1988
    @kjhardy1988 3 года назад +2

    Man fred is the man I swear in all the categories his words is thought out and power.. I can definitely relate to fred

  • @derrickvinson5338
    @derrickvinson5338 3 года назад +7

    “We mess up sometimes bro” Fred that’s how you end a good show!! Much respect ✊