Funny enough lots of women refuse do wife things until you make her your wife but expect a man to already be doing husband things. And then after that you make her a wife and she’s secured your money and resources that’s when she’ll just completely stop trying altogether. No meeting your needs, she’s gonna start arguments, sex is going to disappear etc.
Highschool did this for me😂 seeing what the ball players were doing to some girls who had bfs when it was a snow day or 2 hour delay was despicable 😢, then be at school hugging and kissing all up on thier bfs, im 31 and still havent recovered 😂😂.
@@quanbrooklynkid7776 college made it worse! 😂 One night I saw a chick step outside her apt like 10ft away from her boyfriend,who was pregaming inside, look over at one of my friends and said "I missed you!" while simultaneously showing he t*ts then lifting up her skirt and showing her thong, then walked back inside like nothing happened....😅 my girl back then was prolly cheating too thinking about it 🤣🤣🤣.
@@CalculatedLife1122 I stg, and college made it even worse, bruh I remember one time this chick walked outside her apt saw my friend said "I missed you" then showed us her breast and pulled down her pants and showed her underwear, all while her boyfriend was 10ft away pregaming in the apt😵💫, it's a cold world my friend.
Lol thats what I always tell people. Especially when friends and family let me down. I'll be like "its okay thats what I expected. I always knew it was just me on this whole planet by myself" 😂
I’m one of the top party promoters in my area and I understand his pain, I mean you try not to project your experiences on to new women you’re with . But once the veil gets pulled from your eyes , it’s hard to put it back. All you can do is pretend that the girl you’re with just happens to different. But in reality they’re all the same.
You can’t trust no woman, especially these days. These modern women are of a different software. Not all, but far too many. If you find a good woman of integrity, then consider yourself Blessed.
Marriage isn’t for everyone, but most women have been programmed to believe marriage is the ultimate goal since a child 🤷🏾♂️. Shit there’s a lot of women that grew up in single mother households. Seeing they moms bring niggas in their home in and out and they never proposed but cheated on them. I’m not saying marriage should be the ultimate goal in life for a woman? But there’s so much more to life than a ring 💍. If you get a ring from a man that’s good, but don’t be desperate 🤷🏾♂️. It really be women in their 30’s panicking with 3 kids wondering “where all the good men?” When they miss they chance to be with a thousand of them cause you didn’t like how they were 💯
I peeped how unloyal most women are as a child. This is why I've avoided relationships ever since. Focused on my career, and it payed off significantly.
@@Donteezylee He means there are certain things that women are naturally inclined to do. Once we experience and see those things with our own eyes then it will make men question whether their wife or girlfriend is trustable.
My ex girl's pops did the coldest sht I ever seen in life. In front of my ex and her mom (his wife) he said, "don't ever get married and don't ever have kids" lol. He was dead serious too and they just stood and stared and didn't say a word lol. As I've grown, I've figured out on my own that marriage esp for a man in the USA is one of the dumbest things you can ever do. It makes absolutely no sense.
@@Sandra-jc2fsit's not that we are not Loyal women meet one guy that does then dirty and judge every other guy off of what that one guy did to them you become bitter now all of a sudden no man fits your standard of what you think you deserve 🤷
I used to be a male exotic entertainer when I was younger. And if men only knew how many women cheat at their bridal Showers. You would never let them have one again.😅 It's waaaaaaay more common than you think. And you're like "Not my woman" yeah your woman, too! Alcohol, horniness and a physique you've probably only seen on tv because your man let himself go once he got you will loosen those legs right on up. Trust me when I tell you.
Crazy that he wants to get married but he’s scared of his spouse cheating yet he’s been the dude women have cheated on their dudes with. Nah you really reap what you sow. I appreciate Bow’s honesty and hope he let’s go of that fear.
It’s not “reaping what you sow” is being famous, attractive, or rich enough to see women in their “rawest form” most men don’t even believe their sweet wife has that dog in them.
He was saying how he’s gonna avoid his karma by not getting married but he doesn’t realize that’s his karma. The lack of trust he has and knowing that he was that dog doing grimey ish with other men’s wives….
Bro I don't even have Bow Wow money or anything near it but some things I experienced with women makes me scared to marry them because their loyalty for most of them is how far your eyes can see them. I've had 2 specific cases I'll never forget & couple of similar but less serious cases, but the two cases I had with women which really made me question women in general are: 1) a woman literally asked me 1am the night before he engagement whether I still want to get engaged to her & how she wants me & I was like: "I'm not ready at the moment", because I didn't want to lie. She got engaged next morning 7am. Can you imagine if I said yes. Tbh I think it was just a shit test from her to see if I really wanted her or was ready to marry her or not. But what really messed me up is that she still wanted to meet after she was married. She got divorced & is remarrying but still doesn't want to cut friendship off so I cut her off to avoid anything bad happening yet she'd still contact me. 2) similar situation as case one but this initially really wanted to be married & there was a point where I was really thinking about marrying her but was hesitant because of the geographical distance. She eventually got married to someone closer to her geographically, which makes more sense & is better for her & me & it takes a lot of stress out of my head because tbh she wasn't a bad person. Eventually, she reached out & she was like: "I got married & wish you all the best," I was some kind of happy because I felt there was a lot of weight off my shoulder, not because her being a bad woman, she was actually a really good woman, but because I knew that geographical distance the relationship was up for failure eventually when I put my rational hat on & put emotions to the side. Yet one thing that I also experienced with her like the first one is she also didn't want to cut off contacts or block me. Even though when I specifically told her block me & I block you so you can fully focus on your marriage to succeed. She didn't block me. Eventually, I did. She ended up reaching me from a different number & was like: "Why did you block me?" I was like: "You're a married woman now. What's the point of even having each others number on our phones, let alone reach out?" I don't know what's with women, but I feel like they're more the players than men. They're more the ones that keep their options open, even when they're married. Men are lucky if they even have a woman in the first place, especially when you're in your early 20s or. But with me soon as a girl I talked to gets married, she's deleted from my life & contacts. But with women, I noticed a lot of them still want to have you around probably in case the man fucks up or in case your things (e.g. dream, goals, etc) work out for you & then they can monkey branch to you immediately. I've seen that in life. Now imagine the men married to the two women in the two cases I mentioned. If I were them & I knew about my woman keeping her options open or even worse still having the man/men she had crush on before I'd divorce her straight away. In that regard, I learned through life experiences that men are the more loyal ones. Women are the real Gs moving silence like lasagne. But that's only till certain age.
I've had a married girl at the job start bringing me lunch and starting up convos on the importance of sex in a relationship whenever we were alone; she kept telling me how she was certain her man was cheating on her. Always felt like she was open to the idea of me smashing if I was down. Same job, chick with a huge diamond ring, catching up to me in the snack machine room when it's just us, hugs and what not. I don't care how innocent, I don't want anyone that's supposed to be down with me getting close to anyone not me. Can also remember coming home from the gym late night one time and offering this girl who was walking a ride, she hopped right in, no questions asked. I asked for her number, somewhere in the convo she mentioned that she was married, which changed my whole vibe. I dropped her off close enough to where she was trying get to and she asked if I still wanted her number. I told her I was good, because I wasn't trying to mess up what was in place. She told me that I was a good brotha and I'd fine the right one for me. In these situations I imagined myself being the dude attached to the female. Never want to be in that spot, you just can't call what these innocent and holy females are doing when out of your presence.
@itonlyhurtswhenyoulie good on you brother. Don't ever mess with a married woman, because it'll not only come back to haunt you but it'll also happen to you when you get married & someone is going to mess with your wife. God is only fair. This is why I absolutely cut them off if they get in a relationship. But I found it eye opening how the cutting off part was eventually done forcefully from my end because they didn't want to cut off contact. Like you said, being attached to a woman like that or even worse having kids with her & being married on paper must be some of the craziest suicidal shit a man can do to himself. That's why vetting them is very important. But I tell you even how good you can be as a man with vetting there'll will always be 1 or 2 that will slip through that sell themselves as a good girl & couple of years down the line or once you locked them down show their true face. Of course, this is not all women & there're good women out there. But I've seen & experienced things like that happening to friends, relatives & the cases that happened to me personally, really makes me question marrying especially a woman from the west. But women back home can also be only interested in getting papers. That's why regardless where you're originally from you still have to vet them. At the end of the day I put my trust in God, because as Muslims we believe: "Good men are for good women and good women are for good men". This is why I try to not mess it up from my end because everyone eventually gets their equal
@itonlyhurtswhenyoulie this is why I laugh when dudes say, "Not my chick," because you NEVER know what your chick does when you're not around. I had one who was cheating on me at choir practice. Yes, choir practice. We attended a mega church that had a basement. My cousin, who happened to be a janitor at that church, caught them.
People have to remember that this man never had a normal life. He’s been in the industry since he was like six years old, he even got the chance to see Pac. He’s not going to have the same mindset as a normal person. In a way, I feel bad for him.
@kennardojames2504 - Dude you are low IQ. He doesn't have a life like a normal person? So normal people don't cheat, this stuff happens to celebrities? It's people like you who will get cheated on without knowing about it your whole life because you live in a bubble.
My story can’t beat this story because it wasn’t the night before the wedding but a few years back I ran into a girl I used to deal with we caught up and decided to hang out it was august we ended up having sex & I haven’t heard from her after that october comes around I see pics on her page of her on her honeymoon with her husband I was so confused because that mean she had to be engaged when we met up & she never told me she was engaged that made me remember how dirty of a game it is out here
Bro I experienced this TWICE!!! one right after the honey moon and one who was asian two days before the wedding..she told me she only is marrying him for security.
Real talk! Marriage is a dead deal for men in these days. Stay single and build yourself spuritually, financially, mentally, physically, etc. No frmale is worth your time and energy unless she's a woman of substance, integrity, and morality. Those are hard to find because they're not "outside ".
In my early days, I was in f*ckships with engaged women, married women, women with live in boyfriends, etc....And I'm not even rich and famous. It is what it is, and I don't blame Bow Wow for never getting married.
Exactly. This is a really good interview and I am glad 2pac wasn't brought up like that in it because I don''t care to hear about someone who isn't here to speak themselves.
Was at a bachelor party in Scottsdale, AZ last summer. Ima just say the bachelorette parties were down for anything and initiating with us more than we were on them. I'm scarred after seeing that
@@charles8803 well you could say that however, he doesn’t seem bitter, angry, broken, or insecure in any way. Dude actually is pretty well composed. I have a different perception of bow wow due to these interviews. So I’m not sure if what you’re saying is even a factor in his life.
I can relate to this. I remember I did something with this chick I met in Vegas, she came to my hotel we did our thing and the next morning she woke up super early. I'm like "where you going this early"? She said "I'm getting married today, can't be late" I'm like "WTF!" Come again? Lol I'm a male nurse so I have more unfaithful woman stories but I'll leave it at that. I'm 40 no kids, never married and don't see it changing. Live life!!
Its actually insane how common it is that so many women end up with men they dont really like because the men that actually like arent gonna settle down, wont commit, wont put a ring on thier finger. Why? Cause the men that they like have options, and if a man has options guess what hes not gonna do👂🏿, he definitely aint gonna settle down. She only gets with the nice guy cause she knows she can have her way with him, she knows he'll give her the wedding etc. Meanwhile shes still fiending for that man that wouldnt take her seriously in the 1st place. Thats why women cheating feels so invasive cause at that point we know for a fact that she settled for us. She never chose us. She settled for what you can provide and not for who you are. Thats the main difference between men and women cheating. When a woman cheats, not only is it emotionally charged but its happening on your dime, under your roof that you paid for. Hell to the nah, you gots to go 😂
Sounds like a double edged sword. When you dump her, you relieve a lot of stress from worrying about all the sht she doing. Yet, at the same time, it brings on a lot of stress when you start thinking about all the shit she dun did (that you never found out about) !
I feel him, I literally had a woman tell me she was going through a divorce just so she could sleep with me. Turns out, they were *happily* married and no divorce in sight.
Let’s just say my perspective on marriage has done a complete 180 in the past couple years, not sure if it’s even worth it considering the times we’re living in. Women are too promiscuous now.
@@naimthydream9732 Nope. Take responsibility for your own degeneracy. It doesn't matter if someone else was going to do it, you are still wrong for YOUR actions.
Honestly realistically speaking most guys are better off finding a decent woman to co parent with if they want kids. Marriage and relationship are done in this age. If you find your unicorn best of luck but we have to adapt to the times.
Google black Americans income 2053 then tell me again we don’t need marriage or relationships smdh but I do understand where you’re coming from it’s tuff out here ✌️
Thats exactly what I've been telling people. I'm not getting married these days its just common sense. Only like 5% of guys found women they are happy with. The other 95% of people in relationships are miserable 😂 I want children though so I guess I'll just have to be a baby daddy. It is what it is
To give a normal persons perspective, I used to work at a cocktail bar running hen parties for the brides to be and their bridesmaids. The things I saw, and experienced put me off marriage completely lol... yeah I'm guilty of going along with some of it 😂
This is why you "CHOOSE RIGHT, & NOT BY MIGHT‼" This means don't choose by "what if” but choose by "knowing" and I don't mean knowing by what your privates tell you but by what your heart and spirit actually say❗💎💯 If you know she a dog, best believe she gonna dog you 🤷🏽♂️
@@CB12345 It actually is. A lot of ppl today aren’t fit for it. You could be a good person, & the person you choose may be the problem or change later on..
@@CB12345 some people used to dating the type of people the like to date 😂! Which is why they not successful! If you a woman who like the bad boys? And had 5 relationships with one? And they never worked out chances are you picked the wrong type of man. When they were men that was the opposite of what you liked and you wasn’t down with it 😂! It’s all about the mindset being open to more than just hood niggas 🤷🏾♂️
Bruh I was literally messing with this chick a few years ago I had did lil sht with her a couple years before but was still talking to her on Facebook and she had this new nga she would post pics with him,etc. But be in chat with Me talking about how he don't be 'hitting it right' and he always tired from working alot hours ,etc. Its her and a few others in the past got me not even wanting a GF anymore(just friends+benefits lol)let alone MARRIED until I'm closer to 50-60yrs old and don't really care anymore.. lol🤷🏿♂️
I've been through stuff like that and man I don't even want friends with Benny's cuz if you ain't careful they'll try and get a baby out of you or come with some drama ! If you you really want 🐈😺 ( not saying this this life one should live ) you better off swingn!) HIT 🎯 AND RUN , SKET AND BEAT 🪘! man it just ain't worth it!
Bro I’m going to tell u from Experience leave that chick alone as men we devalue ourselves and don’t even know it when we even entertain women that’s involved.
Bow speaking that truth that I be talking every damn time. I'm nowhere near as rich as this dude and yet I feel exactly the same way about women and relationships. It's so real out here.
Maybe if men paid more attention to a woman’s character, personality and behavioural history rather than her looks they would be more successful in that department.
Women are all the same. Even the so called good girls. Cellphones and SM made it too easy to cheat and connect with strangers. Relationships are over and done with.
The most important relationship for a man, and a woman, is with Jesus Christ. Then the rest? What seems to be impossible for you without God, Bow Wow, will be possible for you with God.
I can respect a man that knows that he can’t keep his commitment so he chooses not to be married. Then a man that tells a woman he can commit but won’t.
Sex outside of marriage is an ultimate sin saying u won’t get married but having kids you’re depriving them of a structured two parent home which can later cause trauma in the child’s life
@@allaboutcars4835 Welll..."as a non-public figure/broke person" I have no issues getting a woman's attention so I can assume that the attention of a celebrity is magnified x100.
Bow ain’t that talented anyway, the hype and he had a the face to keep his somewhat ok status. It is a decision he made cause he knew he would be seeing a pretty woman everyday , it takes a real man as well as one who is strong religiously and morally to do that.
My man work at a club he had the quit, he said he was begaining to lose respect for women he said they 10 times worse then men and the shit he seen in the club bathroom after closing was totally disgusting
yall might feel like he trippin, but you still not seein from his point of view. ppl sayin “how can he say this & hes a dad now” as if yall overlookin the fact that, even his daughter, was conceived in the same fast lifestyle that he speakin about. which he been livin since he was a child. yall forget this man was a Phenom/Heartthrob in the early 00s. yall think he old news, but these females still choosin him behind the scenes. all he knows is females lustin him, just like his baby mommas did. which he learned to accept & why he moves like a Playa. dont forget, this man was on Death Row with Suge, Pac, Snoop & Dogg Pound at 6yrs old. then under Jermaine “Money Aint A Thang” Dupre from then, til adulthood. IMAGINE the “wives” hes seen get partied by rappers. yall gotta understand why he dont really believe in love/marriage 😂💯
It’s not about age for him. He stated that he doesn’t want to split everything he’s worked so hard for with another woman. A lot of rich men have this mindset and it’s a big reason why many never get married. They just have companions.
The longer you stay single, the harder it is to give up that freedom, peace, solitude, and comfort for someone that has the potential to create the opposite. Especially when you can get the milk without buying cow.
I'll never be in a relationship again going on 4+ years strong I'm better alone, get a friend with benefits here and there. These females today ain't loyal
I had a chick invite me to her house party. Had her boyfriend there too. Me and him was talking until he had to go to work. As soon as he left she was all over me. Alot of women aint sh*t in today times
Man this is nothing but preaching to the choir. what do you think we would grow up from under a rock. I grew up in a Tupac generation and he was the sex symbol to all women this thing just didn't happened with Lil Bow Wow. Tupac add a lot of girls in Chicago after his concert asking me a regular dude on the sidewalk after his concert he was in the lobby. The girls two attractive girls outside on 79th Street on the sidewalk came past me and asked me personally do I know what Tupac is going to his hotel at they didn't know me from a can of paint so what do you think it is like now with all this money given to mediocre rappers😅😅
So it’s safe to say that she’s about to be divorced pretty soon. You know that’s she’s told the story of Bow Wow partying on the same floor as her bachelorette party in MINNESOTA 🤦♂️🙄
“You ain’t gonna hit my wife cuz I won’t have one” 💯
Word
It would have had to been Ciara in his early stages . He too deep in now
@@jaysand962or Angela Simmons
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Yea....They Gon hit his DAUGHTER!.....KARMA!
Having a ring doesn’t make a woman a wife!! A wife begins years before marriage!
Funny enough lots of women refuse do wife things until you make her your wife but expect a man to already be doing husband things. And then after that you make her a wife and she’s secured your money and resources that’s when she’ll just completely stop trying altogether. No meeting your needs, she’s gonna start arguments, sex is going to disappear etc.
I slept with so many married women it's sad
My Grandfather used to tell me that all the time. To this day that is something I always look for. I will remember that until the day it die.
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Women get married than act single I had sex with so many made me not want get married
Bro wasn’t lying when he said women be making movies in they head lmao 😂
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Facts! 💯
Stg 😭
I've always said if you want to know if your women is faithful, put her around a rich guy with some status. It'll do it every time.
It don't take a rich man. Just a man's time and make her laugh
Most people, regardless of gender, are only as faithful as their options.
I wouldn’t mind if she got a check from him at least lmao but if he fuck for free she’s wild 😂😂
EVERYtime!!
In fact, for some, you can damn near leave her alone around “any” dude and she’ll wind up tapping him.
😹@@alonzosmith485
Highschool did this for me😂 seeing what the ball players were doing to some girls who had bfs when it was a snow day or 2 hour delay was despicable 😢, then be at school hugging and kissing all up on thier bfs, im 31 and still havent recovered 😂😂.
That's crazy... nd im the same age
@@quanbrooklynkid7776 college made it worse! 😂 One night I saw a chick step outside her apt like 10ft away from her boyfriend,who was pregaming inside, look over at one of my friends and said "I missed you!" while simultaneously showing he t*ts then lifting up her skirt and showing her thong, then walked back inside like nothing happened....😅 my girl back then was prolly cheating too thinking about it 🤣🤣🤣.
Those half a days used to get wicked and I’m 26 🤣
@@CalculatedLife1122 I stg, and college made it even worse, bruh I remember one time this chick walked outside her apt saw my friend said "I missed you" then showed us her breast and pulled down her pants and showed her underwear, all while her boyfriend was 10ft away pregaming in the apt😵💫, it's a cold world my friend.
@@CalculatedLife1122What happened after em half days?
What he's talking about can happen to anyone. Fame or no fame.
Right, all he know is fame though
Can and does is two different things
@@aaporter1028damn
Exactly 💯
Facts. The wild shit I did when I was younger gave me trust issues today with women.
Just hearing him describe how women act in relationships gave me a vexation of spirit.
What’s that word mean
@edgarneil
Vexation means angry, sorrow, discomfort
@@nnadichukwunonso9550 thanks
I was in the army for 7 years, I had sex with more women in relationships than single, in multiple countries
@@nnadichukwunonso9550 thanks brother
loyalty isn't about how they act in front of you, but its about how they act when you ain't there...
I feel the same way, you can't trust nobody anymore
lol, never could…
@@reesejohnson2788 dang bro I was just about to reply that
Lol thats what I always tell people. Especially when friends and family let me down. I'll be like "its okay thats what I expected. I always knew it was just me on this whole planet by myself" 😂
I’m one of the top party promoters in my area and I understand his pain, I mean you try not to project your experiences on to new women you’re with . But once the veil gets pulled from your eyes , it’s hard to put it back. All you can do is pretend that the girl you’re with just happens to different. But in reality they’re all the same.
What is it
Juice Wrld was definitely 👉.
I mean You’re mostly right. But some women don’t even be up in that mix.
@r.mariano8118 they're so rare today, they might as well not exist.
Gotta find a woman who isn't into the party/club scene one bit. That's the only chance.
You can’t trust no woman, especially these days. These modern women are of a different software. Not all, but far too many. If you find a good woman of integrity, then consider yourself Blessed.
Your comment got me lmao🤣🤣 because it's true
Yup
Bruhhhhhhhhhh on my soul 🙏🏾
As a woman this was honestly pretty tough to watch. Very honest and I loved that but tough to see it in his eyes how that incident changed him.
Yea because we have always been able to trust men. They don’t deserve to be cheated on, never has. Lol
I'm terrified of marriage. Shit dating period. My head too fucked up
Facts bro 💯
Marriage isn’t for everyone, but most women have been programmed to believe marriage is the ultimate goal since a child 🤷🏾♂️. Shit there’s a lot of women that grew up in single mother households. Seeing they moms bring niggas in their home in and out and they never proposed but cheated on them. I’m not saying marriage should be the ultimate goal in life for a woman? But there’s so much more to life than a ring 💍. If you get a ring from a man that’s good, but don’t be desperate 🤷🏾♂️. It really be women in their 30’s panicking with 3 kids wondering “where all the good men?” When they miss they chance to be with a thousand of them cause you didn’t like how they were 💯
How/why is your head fucced up?
I'm content with being solo as the last dodo
Facts, but everybody wanna be in them messed up relationships 👎🏽😂
I peeped how unloyal most women are as a child. This is why I've avoided relationships ever since. Focused on my career, and it payed off significantly.
I really feel where he's coming from.... honestly, loyalty and trust is as rare as real gold
She was tryna get it out of her systemmmmmm🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I’m so weak omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The thot is in her blood it will never go away 😂😂😊
That’s everybody, but the amount of times he said “it’s tough” explains how hard it is for him for real 😂😂😂
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Bro I noticed that too🤣
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I mean he's on the right side though, gets it easy ...
Exactly. But it seems like men should at some point grow tired of that lifestyle. He still full of lust
This dude said “u aint gone hit my wife cause i aint gone ever have 1”😂😂😂😂
Damn
That’s too real 💯
If your wife had a Bachelorette Party, divorce her IMMEDIATELY!! 😂😂😂
A lot of people skip over this fact. Bro
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Probably getting slapped across the face with 9 inches of limp D, and some.
Same with the men. Cancel the wedding!
@@ecaldwell9 this is true too
If most men really understood female nature they’ll never look at relationships and marriages the same ever again.
Damn
Care to elaborate?
Facts!!! If you know you know
what is female nature?
@@Donteezylee He means there are certain things that women are naturally inclined to do. Once we experience and see those things with our own eyes then it will make men question whether their wife or girlfriend is trustable.
He describing the women a lot of yall chose to marry lmao
Speak for yourself.
@@CB12345seem like he speaking for you
@@CB12345 kicked dogs sho do holler.....
Lmfao your in denile. Put your wife to the test o@@CB12345
@@CB12345 its true your moms probably cheated on your dad too. Theyre all the same. Cold world 🌍
Same Bow Wow same. After being with a married woman it changed my view on marriage, fidelity, truth, honesty. I'm good.
Same here.
@@allaboutcars4835 you just nosey
@@Nvisibleman
Care to share a smidgen of what happened???
It’s therapy for the rest of us.
Dangerous moves fellas.
@@AlphonseWeebay
sounds like you’re saying that they should be careful doing that to someone like you.
Can’t even imagine what he went through as a child star!
Lol, he had no childhood.
My ex girl's pops did the coldest sht I ever seen in life. In front of my ex and her mom (his wife) he said, "don't ever get married and don't ever have kids" lol. He was dead serious too and they just stood and stared and didn't say a word lol. As I've grown, I've figured out on my own that marriage esp for a man in the USA is one of the dumbest things you can ever do. It makes absolutely no sense.
Dang! 🤣
Seem like all this S*** is scam 🌏
Wow. I’ve had OG’s tell me the same thing. Never in front of their wife and kids though, sheesh lol smh.
@@kennardojames2504yea
. Lol man his ass was fed tf up, i give those men credit cuz women are insufferable its impossible to deal with them forever everyday.
I respect his honesty. 💯
Same Here Dawg
💯
Finding a loyal woman is like finding a unicorn
U'll find ur unicorn someday 🦄
@@motherofdragons33😂😂😂😂
No it's not 😂...get off of RUclips man lol
they dont exist ... PERIOD
More like a needle in a haystack 📖
Loyalty is Absolutely Everything
thats what we want bro.....loyalty
@@LwaziRadebe-gs6ccare you going to give loyalty back? A lot of guys want loyalty but aren’t loyal themselves
@@Sandra-jc2fsit's not that we are not Loyal women meet one guy that does then dirty and judge every other guy off of what that one guy did to them you become bitter now all of a sudden no man fits your standard of what you think you deserve 🤷
@@Sandra-jc2fsas a man I agree with this!
@@jodezod thank you! Nice to know that there’s still men out there with integrity.
Some chick in Minnesota is watching this excited about him talking about her how sick is that
Bingo. He shouldn’t have even bee surprised by the shit.
@@dre.supreme yessir
I live in Vegas now. I see this all the time
I’ve seen it with my own eyes lol
See what ? Engaged white women begging for BBC ?😅
I used to be a male exotic entertainer when I was younger. And if men only knew how many women cheat at their bridal Showers. You would never let them have one again.😅 It's waaaaaaay more common than you think. And you're like "Not my woman" yeah your woman, too! Alcohol, horniness and a physique you've probably only seen on tv because your man let himself go once he got you will loosen those legs right on up. Trust me when I tell you.
I recalled a dude saying that at every party the bride to be cheated.
😂😂 but damn the bride have time for all that ?
Crazy that he wants to get married but he’s scared of his spouse cheating yet he’s been the dude women have cheated on their dudes with. Nah you really reap what you sow. I appreciate Bow’s honesty and hope he let’s go of that fear.
It’s not “reaping what you sow” is being famous, attractive, or rich enough to see women in their “rawest form” most men don’t even believe their sweet wife has that dog in them.
Women do the choosing so the man is innocent
He already said that about himself 😒
He was saying how he’s gonna avoid his karma by not getting married but he doesn’t realize that’s his karma. The lack of trust he has and knowing that he was that dog doing grimey ish with other men’s wives….
@@jboogie722 You simps need to blame the wife they weren't raped
You can only get loyalty and a real friend from a dog not a human! Respect Bow Wow!
Bro I don't even have Bow Wow money or anything near it but some things I experienced with women makes me scared to marry them because their loyalty for most of them is how far your eyes can see them.
I've had 2 specific cases I'll never forget & couple of similar but less serious cases, but the two cases I had with women which really made me question women in general are:
1) a woman literally asked me 1am the night before he engagement whether I still want to get engaged to her & how she wants me & I was like: "I'm not ready at the moment", because I didn't want to lie. She got engaged next morning 7am. Can you imagine if I said yes. Tbh I think it was just a shit test from her to see if I really wanted her or was ready to marry her or not. But what really messed me up is that she still wanted to meet after she was married. She got divorced & is remarrying but still doesn't want to cut friendship off so I cut her off to avoid anything bad happening yet she'd still contact me.
2) similar situation as case one but this initially really wanted to be married & there was a point where I was really thinking about marrying her but was hesitant because of the geographical distance. She eventually got married to someone closer to her geographically, which makes more sense & is better for her & me & it takes a lot of stress out of my head because tbh she wasn't a bad person. Eventually, she reached out & she was like: "I got married & wish you all the best," I was some kind of happy because I felt there was a lot of weight off my shoulder, not because her being a bad woman, she was actually a really good woman, but because I knew that geographical distance the relationship was up for failure eventually when I put my rational hat on & put emotions to the side. Yet one thing that I also experienced with her like the first one is she also didn't want to cut off contacts or block me. Even though when I specifically told her block me & I block you so you can fully focus on your marriage to succeed. She didn't block me. Eventually, I did. She ended up reaching me from a different number & was like: "Why did you block me?" I was like: "You're a married woman now. What's the point of even having each others number on our phones, let alone reach out?"
I don't know what's with women, but I feel like they're more the players than men. They're more the ones that keep their options open, even when they're married. Men are lucky if they even have a woman in the first place, especially when you're in your early 20s or. But with me soon as a girl I talked to gets married, she's deleted from my life & contacts. But with women, I noticed a lot of them still want to have you around probably in case the man fucks up or in case your things (e.g. dream, goals, etc) work out for you & then they can monkey branch to you immediately. I've seen that in life. Now imagine the men married to the two women in the two cases I mentioned. If I were them & I knew about my woman keeping her options open or even worse still having the man/men she had crush on before I'd divorce her straight away. In that regard, I learned through life experiences that men are the more loyal ones. Women are the real Gs moving silence like lasagne. But that's only till certain age.
I've had a married girl at the job start bringing me lunch and starting up convos on the importance of sex in a relationship whenever we were alone; she kept telling me how she was certain her man was cheating on her. Always felt like she was open to the idea of me smashing if I was down.
Same job, chick with a huge diamond ring, catching up to me in the snack machine room when it's just us, hugs and what not. I don't care how innocent, I don't want anyone that's supposed to be down with me getting close to anyone not me.
Can also remember coming home from the gym late night one time and offering this girl who was walking a ride, she hopped right in, no questions asked. I asked for her number, somewhere in the convo she mentioned that she was married, which changed my whole vibe. I dropped her off close enough to where she was trying get to and she asked if I still wanted her number. I told her I was good, because I wasn't trying to mess up what was in place. She told me that I was a good brotha and I'd fine the right one for me.
In these situations I imagined myself being the dude attached to the female.
Never want to be in that spot, you just can't call what these innocent and holy females are doing when out of your presence.
@itonlyhurtswhenyoulie good on you brother. Don't ever mess with a married woman, because it'll not only come back to haunt you but it'll also happen to you when you get married & someone is going to mess with your wife. God is only fair. This is why I absolutely cut them off if they get in a relationship. But I found it eye opening how the cutting off part was eventually done forcefully from my end because they didn't want to cut off contact. Like you said, being attached to a woman like that or even worse having kids with her & being married on paper must be some of the craziest suicidal shit a man can do to himself. That's why vetting them is very important. But I tell you even how good you can be as a man with vetting there'll will always be 1 or 2 that will slip through that sell themselves as a good girl & couple of years down the line or once you locked them down show their true face. Of course, this is not all women & there're good women out there. But I've seen & experienced things like that happening to friends, relatives & the cases that happened to me personally, really makes me question marrying especially a woman from the west. But women back home can also be only interested in getting papers. That's why regardless where you're originally from you still have to vet them. At the end of the day I put my trust in God, because as Muslims we believe: "Good men are for good women and good women are for good men". This is why I try to not mess it up from my end because everyone eventually gets their equal
@itonlyhurtswhenyoulie this is why I laugh when dudes say, "Not my chick," because you NEVER know what your chick does when you're not around. I had one who was cheating on me at choir practice. Yes, choir practice. We attended a mega church that had a basement. My cousin, who happened to be a janitor at that church, caught them.
A lot of women cheat to get payback on their cheating husband.
Tupac knew wat was up when he made wonder why they call you bitch. . And scandalous 😂
With GOD You can find the right Woman.
Christians get divorced too
Absolutely!!
Then what happen to Adam with God he made a dumb choice
😂😂😂
If god cant save these women(Eve) what make yoy think you better then god.
Man I got a whole new respect for bow straight up best quote ever "U not going to hit my wife cause I'm not going have one" unqoute
And you think that’s slick.that shit sounds smart to someone that’s stupid!
No such thing as a wife in this country anymore... you're renting harlots now.
@@KtotheG”Harlots”😂😂😂
@@KtotheGexactly its very sad im going on 25 single and happy as ever social media covered up 15% of true women out here.
People have to remember that this man never had a normal life. He’s been in the industry since he was like six years old, he even got the chance to see Pac. He’s not going to have the same mindset as a normal person. In a way, I feel bad for him.
Why? If thats his life he doesnt know any better. He just knows that.
@@tridentfx2443female nature is female nature period.
Having no morals is female nature???i don't understand you
Accountablity for women bu then You said shit like this@@kcdabeast09
You’re the type of guy getting played like in the story he shared.
@kennardojames2504 - Dude you are low IQ. He doesn't have a life like a normal person? So normal people don't cheat, this stuff happens to celebrities? It's people like you who will get cheated on without knowing about it your whole life because you live in a bubble.
I'm here to hear what he had to say... I can't help but question his honesty, FOREVER, knowing of his random lies.
he’s telling the truth about yall
My story can’t beat this story because it wasn’t the night before the wedding but a few years back I ran into a girl I used to deal with we caught up and decided to hang out it was august we ended up having sex & I haven’t heard from her after that october comes around I see pics on her page of her on her honeymoon with her husband I was so confused because that mean she had to be engaged when we met up & she never told me she was engaged that made me remember how dirty of a game it is out here
The game is dirty when you choose the wrong woman or vice versa
@@righteousmasculineyea
Bro I experienced this TWICE!!! one right after the honey moon and one who was asian two days before the wedding..she told me she only is marrying him for security.
@@MrC.M.B. scandalous behavior from these women
@@MrC.M.B. u can just about look at some women and the man they are with a see that they marrying them for security
I made out with a woman at the club 1 day before she got married. She had the head gown on and it was her Bachelorette party 😂
Hahahahahaha she prolly had just blown someone hahahahaha dam sucka
Proud to be a scumbag?
Real talk! Marriage is a dead deal for men in these days. Stay single and build yourself spuritually, financially, mentally, physically, etc.
No frmale is worth your time and energy unless she's a woman of substance, integrity, and morality. Those are hard to find because they're not "outside ".
In my early days, I was in f*ckships with engaged women, married women, women with live in boyfriends, etc....And I'm not even rich and famous. It is what it is, and I don't blame Bow Wow for never getting married.
This young man speaking facts the simple things in life is what it’s about !
Exactly. This is a really good interview and I am glad 2pac wasn't brought up like that in it because I don''t care to hear about someone who isn't here to speak themselves.
@@CB12345right! Art need to stop that shit! If he wanna ask anybody a million and Pac stories it should be Snoop
FACTS💯
@@CB12345damn
I rock with bro, but he changes his reason for not getting married every year lol. You won’t get married because you love the lifestyle you’re living
That’s probably because, there’s so many reasons not to get married…
@@reesejohnson2788 I was gonna say that there are a lot of reasons why you shouldn't lol
Its 2024 and you think that its only one reason why men dont want to get married? Comical
Because every year he finds more reasons to not get married to these hoes…simple
This!😂
This hit different when you can relate to his mindset
facts brother, facts
This the realist shit eva bow, no lies told brutally honest 💯
But telling Nelly to marry that girl 😂
😅😅 this part
Ashanti different though!
Ashanti a different breed
@@darnelldarden9429she’s only famous
@@PreeminentbrandsNet
You serious or you trolling?
Was at a bachelor party in Scottsdale, AZ last summer. Ima just say the bachelorette parties were down for anything and initiating with us more than we were on them. I'm scarred after seeing that
The common man cant get love, loyalty or respect either.
He gon be married within the next 5 years watch 😂
Married and cheating
He was turned out by his mom and everyone else he idolize
Nah
@@charles8803 well you could say that however, he doesn’t seem bitter, angry, broken, or insecure in any way. Dude actually is pretty well composed. I have a different perception of bow wow due to these interviews. So I’m not sure if what you’re saying is even a factor in his life.
I can relate to this. I remember I did something with this chick I met in Vegas, she came to my hotel we did our thing and the next morning she woke up super early. I'm like "where you going this early"? She said "I'm getting married today, can't be late"
I'm like "WTF!" Come again? Lol
I'm a male nurse so I have more unfaithful woman stories but I'll leave it at that. I'm 40 no kids, never married and don't see it changing. Live life!!
I really want the other stories. You peak my interest
Yeah bro I work in security but my nurse friends have told me the wild stories about how them married women get down
That’s disgusting
So you have sex with strangers. Sounds Iike you’re a part of the issue
Its actually insane how common it is that so many women end up with men they dont really like because the men that actually like arent gonna settle down, wont commit, wont put a ring on thier finger. Why? Cause the men that they like have options, and if a man has options guess what hes not gonna do👂🏿, he definitely aint gonna settle down.
She only gets with the nice guy cause she knows she can have her way with him, she knows he'll give her the wedding etc. Meanwhile shes still fiending for that man that wouldnt take her seriously in the 1st place. Thats why women cheating feels so invasive cause at that point we know for a fact that she settled for us. She never chose us. She settled for what you can provide and not for who you are. Thats the main difference between men and women cheating. When a woman cheats, not only is it emotionally charged but its happening on your dime, under your roof that you paid for. Hell to the nah, you gots to go 😂
Sounds like a double edged sword.
When you dump her, you relieve a lot of stress from worrying about all the sht she doing.
Yet, at the same time, it brings on a lot of stress when you start thinking about all the shit she dun did (that you never found out about) !
I feel him, I literally had a woman tell me she was going through a divorce just so she could sleep with me. Turns out, they were *happily* married and no divorce in sight.
Let’s just say my perspective on marriage has done a complete 180 in the past couple years, not sure if it’s even worth it considering the times we’re living in. Women are too promiscuous now.
Bow wow is 36 still looking 25 he has aged very well.
I agree with Bow Wow 1000%…I’ve been with so many married and taken women, how could I possibly trust one?
Married women are the easiest but I refuse to play that game because im not looking to wake up to. 357 in my face
If you knew beforehand, you are part of the problem
@@salj.5459 Not really because if I didnt do it, the next man will…The problem is the women…We can only do what that women is allowing us to do.
@@naimthydream9732facts
@@naimthydream9732 Nope. Take responsibility for your own degeneracy. It doesn't matter if someone else was going to do it, you are still wrong for YOUR actions.
I cant knock dudes who want to be married or already married, but we cant say EVERYBODY'S supposed to get married.
These are his words, his truth his experiences right wrong indifferent his alone. #LetMeHoldYou #LikeYou
Back at you brother ❤️✊🏿💋 1:25
Honestly realistically speaking most guys are better off finding a decent woman to co parent with if they want kids. Marriage and relationship are done in this age. If you find your unicorn best of luck but we have to adapt to the times.
Google black Americans income 2053 then tell me again we don’t need marriage or relationships smdh but I do understand where you’re coming from it’s tuff out here ✌️
Thats exactly what I've been telling people. I'm not getting married these days its just common sense. Only like 5% of guys found women they are happy with. The other 95% of people in relationships are miserable 😂 I want children though so I guess I'll just have to be a baby daddy. It is what it is
To give a normal persons perspective, I used to work at a cocktail bar running hen parties for the brides to be and their bridesmaids. The things I saw, and experienced put me off marriage completely lol... yeah I'm guilty of going along with some of it 😂
Like? 🤣🤣
@@Raquib25 he shagged a whole lot of brides to bes,lol
So you ain’t shit either. Got it
This is why you "CHOOSE RIGHT, & NOT BY MIGHT‼" This means don't choose by "what if” but choose by "knowing" and I don't mean knowing by what your privates tell you but by what your heart and spirit actually say❗💎💯
If you know she a dog, best believe she gonna dog you 🤷🏽♂️
Them ❄️ 🐰 be like that 💯 u could've been the average joe 🤣
It’s tough dating no matter who your are. I have too many trust issues.
No it isn't. The only people who make dating hard for themselves is the individual themselves. Not others, unless they just like terrible people.
@@CB12345 It actually is. A lot of ppl today aren’t fit for it. You could be a good person, & the person you choose may be the problem or change later on..
@@CB12345 some people used to dating the type of people the like to date 😂! Which is why they not successful! If you a woman who like the bad boys? And had 5 relationships with one? And they never worked out chances are you picked the wrong type of man. When they were men that was the opposite of what you liked and you wasn’t down with it 😂! It’s all about the mindset being open to more than just hood niggas 🤷🏾♂️
@@CB12345seems like it
Bruh I was literally messing with this chick a few years ago I had did lil sht with her a couple years before but was still talking to her on Facebook and she had this new nga she would post pics with him,etc. But be in chat with Me talking about how he don't be 'hitting it right' and he always tired from working alot hours ,etc. Its her and a few others in the past got me not even wanting a GF anymore(just friends+benefits lol)let alone MARRIED until I'm closer to 50-60yrs old and don't really care anymore.. lol🤷🏿♂️
I've been through stuff like that and man I don't even want friends with Benny's cuz if you ain't careful they'll try and get a baby out of you or come with some drama ! If you you really want 🐈😺 ( not saying this this life one should live ) you better off swingn!) HIT 🎯 AND RUN , SKET AND BEAT 🪘! man it just ain't worth it!
These 304s be for the streets man
Bro I’m going to tell u from Experience leave that chick alone as men we devalue ourselves and don’t even know it when we even entertain women that’s involved.
Might well not get married at all if u wait that long 😹
Loool the smugness 😒
Bow speaking that truth that I be talking every damn time. I'm nowhere near as rich as this dude and yet I feel exactly the same way about women and relationships. It's so real out here.
There are heaps of good women out there .. don’t let stories like this fool you about real women
Congratulations ladies. You winning!
Maybe if men paid more attention to a woman’s character, personality and behavioural history rather than her looks they would be more successful in that department.
Women are all the same. Even the so called good girls. Cellphones and SM made it too easy to cheat and connect with strangers. Relationships are over and done with.
Bow speaking real facts
It’s tough NOT being famous giving it all to one woman being a regular person. I can only imagine lol.
😂😂😂😂😂
LOLL
Exactly 😆😆
Exactly!
It’s a lifestyle change to reach that next level, he’s not ready understandable it takes some guys longer.
Wow, that's real talk. MUCH RESPECT. 💯
The most important relationship for a man, and a woman, is with Jesus Christ. Then the rest? What seems to be impossible for you without God, Bow Wow, will be possible for you with God.
I can respect a man that knows that he can’t keep his commitment so he chooses not to be married. Then a man that tells a woman he can commit but won’t.
But you'll have babies!lmao
He’s rich that’s the biggest blessing in life
Sex outside of marriage is an ultimate sin saying u won’t get married but having kids you’re depriving them of a structured two parent home which can later cause trauma in the child’s life
@@righteousmasculineTrue, how on Earth can a man find a loyal woman these days. Lots of church women are skanks too.
@@righteousmasculineis it better than them never being born?
Married men do it all the time.. and even when they are married. Nothing really surprises me.
It really ruins the whole idea of marriage sadly
So women haven't been doing it while the men where doing it?
I know it's hard to date as a public figure. You already don't know what their true intentions are amongst other things.
@@allaboutcars4835 Welll..."as a non-public figure/broke person" I have no issues getting a woman's attention so I can assume that the attention of a celebrity is magnified x100.
@@MrBrandon330
You kind of switched the subject matter from INtentions to ATtention, but yea I hear ya.
thats why celebs like kendrick lemar , russell westbrook & dame lillard married their high school sweet hearts , they were there since the beginning
I completely get it.@@TopFlightSecurity415
Bow ain’t that talented anyway, the hype and he had a the face to keep his somewhat ok status. It is a decision he made cause he knew he would be seeing a pretty woman everyday , it takes a real man as well as one who is strong religiously and morally to do that.
Marriage don’t mean damn thang
Exactly, but these idiots still keep getting into relationships and marriages with these untrustworthy broads. Simps, I tell ya. 😂
Damn
It means a whole lot to God, but to us…. We take it so it so lightly unfortunately.
Thats light....Women doing Waaaaay worse than that at them bachelorette parties
Bow Wow plays Glorilla and Lil Mama as well! That’s why he’s always MIA Lmfao 😂 I can’t unsee that shid
My man work at a club he had the quit, he said he was begaining to lose respect for women he said they 10 times worse then men and the shit he seen in the club bathroom after closing was totally disgusting
They was sleeping with the staff? Lol
The loyal ones look like Precious & make a mean potato salad.
Lol
yall might feel like he trippin, but you still not seein from his point of view. ppl sayin “how can he say this & hes a dad now” as if yall overlookin the fact that, even his daughter, was conceived in the same fast lifestyle that he speakin about. which he been livin since he was a child. yall forget this man was a Phenom/Heartthrob in the early 00s. yall think he old news, but these females still choosin him behind the scenes. all he knows is females lustin him, just like his baby mommas did. which he learned to accept & why he moves like a Playa. dont forget, this man was on Death Row with Suge, Pac, Snoop & Dogg Pound at 6yrs old. then under Jermaine “Money Aint A Thang” Dupre from then, til adulthood. IMAGINE the “wives” hes seen get partied by rappers. yall gotta understand why he dont really believe in love/marriage 😂💯
They can’t see it cause they’re blinded by jealousy.
@@J3R3MI6damn
😂😂😂😂😂 Bow Wow wildin but TRUE!
The life you live is not a blessing - which is why you are not blessed with the simple things in life.
Recognize the difference.
Mmmmmmm. I like that.
Bow you still in your 30's, wait til you hit the 40's you won't even think the same. Never say Never. 😂😂
It’s not about age for him. He stated that he doesn’t want to split everything he’s worked so hard for with another woman. A lot of rich men have this mindset and it’s a big reason why many never get married. They just have companions.
I'm 48 and think the same way bow wow do about women single is the Best life for me
The longer you stay single, the harder it is to give up that freedom, peace, solitude, and comfort for someone that has the potential to create the opposite. Especially when you can get the milk without buying cow.
🧢
Most married men end up single anyway once kids are grown, single and broke by way of divorce
Come to Nashville and you'll see it every night 😂 I'm just the Uber Driver
I'll never be in a relationship again going on 4+ years strong I'm better alone, get a friend with benefits here and there. These females today ain't loyal
Damn
Sin dont make sin any better.... seek Christ
A woman will NEVER love a man how he loves her. A woman's love can fade but a man's will last a lifetime
Umm no
Where do you guys learn this bs 😂 Get of those red pill channels bruh
That's why in the Bible it says she must be taught how to be a wife.
@@olgalabadie3024damn
@@olgalabadie3024it’s true though
I had a chick invite me to her house party. Had her boyfriend there too. Me and him was talking until he had to go to work. As soon as he left she was all over me. Alot of women aint sh*t in today times
If you’re reading this I wish nothing but wealth and health all 2025
Hushup
You too brother
@@phutiseanego2854 Thanx bro
Man this is nothing but preaching to the choir. what do you think we would grow up from under a rock. I grew up in a Tupac generation and he was the sex symbol to all women this thing just didn't happened with Lil Bow Wow. Tupac add a lot of girls in Chicago after his concert asking me a regular dude on the sidewalk after his concert he was in the lobby. The girls two attractive girls outside on 79th Street on the sidewalk came past me and asked me personally do I know what Tupac is going to his hotel at they didn't know me from a can of paint so what do you think it is like now with all this money given to mediocre rappers😅😅
Damn
Good that he actually telling the truth about how this shit is! 👌
So it’s safe to say that she’s about to be divorced pretty soon. You know that’s she’s told the story of Bow Wow partying on the same floor as her bachelorette party in MINNESOTA 🤦♂️🙄
That’s her fault
What's the video called
Ain't no telling how long ago that's been, she's safe lol
LoL. That was the first thing that came to my mind, too. 😂😂😂
I’m guessing she already got caught with other black men and he already got caught watching and jerking it hahhahahahahaha
This is a great interview yo no cap
Thats not all women its lots of God fearing married women that wouldn't even look at another man
Honestly we know this but that's only about 2% of women left in today's time
Lmao yea ok
True
Not in America
That's true
Minnesota stand up I’m in Minneapolis 😂
This the same dude who agreed to date Mena 🤣🤣😂😂
He was younger and dumber at that time.
That was no more than a few years back 😂
@@akeemalston7506 so he’s now dumb 😂😂😂😂 and no longer dumber lmao
Y’all keep tabs too much who tf is mena
Yeah he told her to leave her man and she instantly did 😂
I think Erica has something to do with the way his views are
I’m not even famous and run into this in Vegas easy. They throwing the 🐱. Subconsciously I think this is why I question marriage for me.
At least he admitted that he's friendly and loves women vs "You're insecure, I can't stop them from talking to me!" 😂