@Lewise512 it's definitely not a spa 😂 especially when you volunteering get locked up with real mentally disturbed people. She needs some intensive therapy. She just looks to band aid her issues.
I pray this young lady gets the help she needs and can thrive in life. When a relationship is exhausting to the point where you are missing work and it affects your mental health it is a clear sign to let it go. No friends or anything just walk away.
Wasn’t the relationship it was her lol. As an adult woman she couldn’t even get along with her younger sister to the point where her mom has to kick her out, then she checked herself into a hospital no diagnosis then called him to come see her lol, then got mad he didn’t take her stuff to her family after she dumped him lol she is clearly entitled, dramatic, emotionally immature and the worse part she is a teacher. Lord help us. I only someone equally unstable would see her as a victim lol
With her moving in and out of her mom's, boyfriend and grandparents homes, her mom probably got tired of her drama and instability. She could have gone through this before.
This comment should be pinned! Ppl can be so silly! I mean a person can be highly educated and worldly immature if they don’t have a lot of life experience! From the majority of these comments you would think these folks started life as mature adults
I've been living on my own since I was 18. This lady is 25. The problem is these women are babied in life and then when they realize that life is hard, they expect someone else to rescue them. She's not a child, she's an adult. And she better learn real quick that life is difficult otherwise she's in for a lot of trouble.
@@Demonezia You can't and shouldn't expect everyone to have the same experience as you in life. That's one of the biggest problems in America. Everyone thinks everyone else should think and act like them.
U easily to be fooled lol all that was part of her game I can tell she is a problem child. Attitude don’t always comes in a form of being out loud u no
@@Orlandoloc83 her ex boyfriend assaulted her when she said NO to intimacy He is clearly the bad guy here. Please try to have some more compassion in your life dude, especially for victims of abuse
Young lady I’m so proud of you. Everything will work itself out. Life is difficult sometimes and this was a life lesson. Live on your own. Don’t put yourself at the mercy of other people. When you get older you will see this was small in the greater scheme of life. It could have been much worse.
As a woman who is 27, worked with kids and experienced life situations like this - she will be better off than most bc every time she needs strength she will source this situation. Nothing fuels a woman more than refusing to go back to where YOU picked yourself up from & you can see that understanding in judges demeanor.
You would be surprised. Many women in toxic relationships tend to forget how humiliating an experience was and still go back to their ex after some time has passed.
@@wamz9191 forget? Maybe but mostly its denial. No woman wants to accept the fact that she was manipulated or have fallen for an abuser. It's easier to act as if whatever happened didn't and try to smooth it over by starting over, which is a bad decision and false reality. Its best to RUN but not easy because before any abuse gets physical its mental.
@@umungus518The point is, JJ did not listen or even understand what happened here, I'd take my case elsewhere. No one is asking tombe coddled but to be actually HEARD dummy!!
I wish we knew more about this case because it kinda seems like what happened was a physical assault that could have turned into SA (or maybe it kinda did and the guy kept coming back to please her and ensure she will be with him so he knows he can get away with it.). I think her mother did kick her out the second time and there was an even bigger argument than the first time which explains why she decided to move in again with him although she had a fight with him. Sometimes, I wish JJ let us know the info instead of saying "TMI, skip and move on"..... JJ let us know the juice behind the way the mother asked the daughter to leave the first time (which wasn't even that necessary for the viewers) but didn't let us know what really happened with her back there :/
I felt so badly for this young lady. I don't trust the young man at all. I think he was doing some serious lying. I'm glad she is living on her own, away from her Mom and the abusive dude. I hope she is better now, and doing the thing she loves to do.
She’s not stable. If he tried to force you to have sex with him & you did not want to and you were in a safe place why would you call him to come visit. She’s playing dangerous games. Luckily the guy is somewhat mild tempered but she’s trying to push him over the edge where she is. He needs to get away from her. She needs counseling.
She jumped/was thrown from one residence to the next. Her self-esteem is so low that she believes she can live in his place (not pay her share of the rent), and then become uncomfortable when that man wants intimate relations with her. She is the problem - no one else. Her employer needs to have a minder around her and observe her competency/judgement for the sake of those young children.
The plaintiff had some maturing to do. I get the sense that she felt like the victim with boyfriend and family issues happening at the same time. When life throws curve balls you have to stand on your own two feet which in the end is what she did. They seem like two nice people just not ready to be together.
Did you miss the part where he grabbed her dress because she didn’t want to have sex? That’s abuse! Like ALL abusers, he has a nice side, but he is still an abuser!
@@LordWaluigi I took it to mean aggressively. But if you take it to mean gently then it only becomes abuse because it was an attempt to force her into sex after she said no. If you disagree, Google sexual abuse. Any sexual contact or advance after the person says no is abuse.
Sounds like to me, that she is blaming everyone (her sister, her mom, and her ex boyfriend) for what's going wrong in her life. She needs to look inside herself and think about the choices that she made, and her self worth.
I will never judge someone who is like the plaintiff is because I have been through that and worse and I could never understand why I would always need to be codependent on someone else but slowly over the years I've learned why and a lot of it was due to unhealed trauma and the feeling of being neglected She just needs to heal herself by herself and she will properly flourish like her mother said. Is very unfortunate that she has to go through this in order to heal herself and be who she's destined to be but this is necessary. I'm sitting so much loving light to her and I pray that she can get through life whole. ✨
I dont eveb remember what she was suing for! 🤷🏾♀️😆 What did she want, the shoes? Or money for going to the hospital? It was an interesting story I guess, but what was she alleging he owed her again? 🤔⏮️
To the young lady, in case she is reading the comment section. I'm sorry your case wasnt fully heard. I'm sorry that you are having a lot of trials right now. Im sorry for the negative comments. You did well to seek help, because the mental health IS part of physical health. It takes a strong person to stand up and say I need help and go to the hospital. God be with you. Some of us get it, as we have been there. Its a road bump but not a concrete barrier. Love you.
While plaintiff was in the psychiatric ward for three days, she fell in love with the resident psychologist who helped her with her mental illness and got her an apartment.
If she is reading this I hope she grew up and learn that dying over makeup is dumb! And that she should listen to her mother when she told her the dude was no good!
He has GOT to stay away from her and learn when to tell her “No”. She doesn’t seem all the way there and she keeps leaning on him whenever she’s in a jam. Block her and move on
He can't take a NO when he wants sex, who wants to have sex with a drunk guy ? Yuck. Good she left him. Sorry she wasn't able to get her things back from him.
@@jean6453 I think there’s more to the story she’s not telling. Why would you want the person who just allegedly assaulted you to come visit you in the hospital? He even said they still talk and are friends. Most people are not going to keep in contact with someone who assaulted them and they filed a lawsuit against
@@jean6453 they both handled the situation poorly. She should of filed a police report and requested a police escort to gather her things. And he should’ve never contacted her again after the incident
Anyone who watches this and cannot see that this lady was truly in pain and hurting, well, I feel for you as much as I do her. I really hope she is doing well now. Sending love to anyone going through mental health struggles, give yourself time, wounds don't heal overnight 💕 Well done to her for checking herself into the hospital. Get the help you need to live a full life, I'll be here cheering you on, much love 💕
That man loved that girl. What little he said during the case and his actions of showing up to the hospital for her, proved he had a heart for the girl.
Plaintiff alleges he put hands on her but she doesn't call the police or file a report. She checks herself into a hospital and has him come visit. She most likely did that as a manipulative attempt to get his sympathy.
I agree with this assessment. Someone assaults you but you don't call the cops? Makes zero sense to me. Frankly, she comes across as very unstable. No way she should be working with children. No way. These schools be just hiring any old body.
Very ignorant comments. A lot of victims NEVER go to the police. People in domestic violent relationships on average return EIGHT times so it absolutely makes sense she called him from the psych ward, especially if she doesn't have family who are emotionally supportive.
@@sweet2sourr You call her a victim. How do we know she's a victim of domestic violence? But even if she is, calling her so-called attacker from the hospital is unhinged behavior. Abuse victims can be unhinged, too. Misery loves company. Prayerfully she got the help that she needed. I can tell by his demeanor that he can't be helped. He gives degenerate vibes. Black women really need to leave these broke dusties alone.
@@HustletoThrive You ASKED for someone to translate that acronym, which is in common usage and readily available to reference on Google, and then you asked me what part of your initial post implied you needed translating. So which of the two of us is out of his mind?
Because a drunk tried to force her to have sex and she needed help to deal with everything ? I think she did the right thing to walk out leave him and seek professional help.
It sounds like he was abusive, which was what led her to leave the first time. When she left the second time, she was mostly likely fearful of her own safety and didn't want to admit to her mother she was being abused. Because abusers and their partners often have a codependency, she called him and he most likely tried to convince her to come back. When she wouldn't, he ended up giving her a few things but then kept all the stuff he knew was important to her. Whether or not he tossed it, who knows. That's what ai think happened.
One thing about Judge Judy, she doesn’t care about all that living with a boy/girlfriend situation. She should have went to the People’s Court with this case.
I went through a similar thing in my early twenties but like JJ said - you just have to accept the loss and move on. So much happier for it now. Clothes can be bought, sanity can’t
I worked forca Judge as a bailiff in Family/Divorce court. One of the best lines I heard her say in a case when they were trying to devide up household possessions and were getting pretty petty was "I don't do tupperware."
Some people strive to refuse to be held accountable. A big issue today, you holding people accountable to them feels like you’re assaulting them when all you’re demanding is that they be a responsible and respectful adult.
She checks in the hospital after what she went through with boyfriend. And yet he was the only one to visit. She only called him and not her mom or grandma . Ok lady
The plaintiff has problems and she clearly wants to blame them on everyone else. Maybe she has issues from her mother or whatever, but that is not this man's issue. She needs to get herself together and the whole checking herself into the hospital for 3 days is mad.
Actually it was smart and brave to check herself in if she felt like she was close to having a breakdown or suicidal. The hospital staff evaluated her and obviously felt like she needed to be there for three days.
@testaccount01336 Let's compare makeup, which is realistically worth about $200, to a CAR which coats $30K or a TV which costs $1K+. Fair and balanced comparison 🤪
1. Makeup is expensive. 2. God forbid she loves something. It could be a hobby/passion of hers. It could be the one thing that makes her feel good in a life that she's clearly struggling through.
@@uluruiseI would not sue someone who I accused of trying to force himself on me sexually over some makeup no matter how much I spent on it. If I wasn’t going to file charges then I would cut my losses and never want to look at him ever again. However she called him from the hospital and let him visit her twice while in the psych ward. I think she needs psychiatric treatment. Her actions/reactions aren’t that of a clear minded mature adult.
I remember being in a volatile relationship in my 20s. It was so bad. I don’t think the hospital is supposed to let him see her when you go for a mental health hold. Unless she didn’t tell the staff the truth about who he was.
It sounds like Judge Judy wasn't buying the "he wanted to have sex with me and I didn't" part of the story. I don't think she had to be injured for it to be true. But I wasn't there and I'm not an expert at this stuff. I don't know.
I see why the plaintiff can’t get along with her moms, her 18 year old sister, and now her ex boyfriend. She should have remained staying by herself at her own house and not move in with a boyfriend. Get yourself in order and together.
@@kriokid5870 I think she’s blaming her problems on her moms, her little sister, and her ex boyfriend instead of blaming herself for not getting herself together.
But she is dealing with real life. She was smart to leave a drunk man trying to force sex on her. I think she will get stronger and more independent and have a good life.
Don't know how it is in the states, but here just being "upset" won't get you into a hospital. I'm pretty sure that when its mentioned that she "was upset" they are referring to her being suicidal.
The judge obviously discerns theres something wrong w her. She’s at odds w everyone including her Mother & gets so angry that she admits herself in a mental facility. Chiiiille...He’d better leave her alone.
At least she had enough sense to check herself into the hospital for her emotional issues. Most people in her position wouldn't do that.
She needs therapy. Not a 3 day spa for dramatic women in distress. She literally just didn't have anywhere else to go.
@Lewise512 it's definitely not a spa 😂 especially when you volunteering get locked up with real mentally disturbed people. She needs some intensive therapy. She just looks to band aid her issues.
@@Lewise512u are judging.
she's a big baby
@Lewise512 You sound dumb 🙄 There is nothing spa like about being in a hospital, surrounded by sick people and germs!
I pray this young lady gets the help she needs and can thrive in life. When a relationship is exhausting to the point where you are missing work and it affects your mental health it is a clear sign to let it go. No friends or anything just walk away.
Once she gets clothes and make up she'll have everything she needs to thrive in society.
😂 she got mental health issues she need to work on . I feel sorry for him that he actually dealt with her for so long
@@TheFakeyCakeMaker right she just needs more make up and clothes to thrive harder lmao
@@TheFakeyCakeMaker🤣😂
Wasn’t the relationship it was her lol. As an adult woman she couldn’t even get along with her younger sister to the point where her mom has to kick her out, then she checked herself into a hospital no diagnosis then called him to come see her lol, then got mad he didn’t take her stuff to her family after she dumped him lol she is clearly entitled, dramatic, emotionally immature and the worse part she is a teacher. Lord help us. I only someone equally unstable would see her as a victim lol
She was in the hospital for three days and her mother didn’t come and visit? Much more backstory than what’s being revealed here.
With her moving in and out of her mom's, boyfriend and grandparents homes, her mom probably got tired of her drama and instability. She could have gone through this before.
@@ivyworth862Legend has it shes working on staying at your place
@@m42037 Ha!!! No ma'am/No sir. Folks know not to even come knocking at my door with that foolishness. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ivyworth862 🤣😂
None of our business
People act like the plaintiff is in her 40s and should be more mature. She clearly had some lessons to learn. We all did in our 20s.
This comment should be pinned! Ppl can be so silly! I mean a person can be highly educated and worldly immature if they don’t have a lot of life experience! From the majority of these comments you would think these folks started life as mature adults
I've been living on my own since I was 18. This lady is 25.
The problem is these women are babied in life and then when they realize that life is hard, they expect someone else to rescue them.
She's not a child, she's an adult. And she better learn real quick that life is difficult otherwise she's in for a lot of trouble.
@@Demonezia You can't and shouldn't expect everyone to have the same experience as you in life. That's one of the biggest problems in America. Everyone thinks everyone else should think and act like them.
If this was a young man, you would not be saying that.
@@osimeon00 Absolutely, I would. Because I had lessons to learn in my 20s as well. As I referenced.
Sound like a 72 hour suicide watch
That's what I thought. The potential thought of being r-ed triggered her
Yup & I've been there before thankful for the help I received. Hoping all is well with her.
or she needed a place to stay
Probably so. Going to a hospital struck me as extreme. Why not go to a friend's place?
This!
Life is cruel and even harder when you don’t have a support system .
well said.
Supreme Fact 💯 ❤
SO true
What a beautiful and courageous woman. I pray she learns her worth and sees how incredibly beautiful and strong she is
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❤ Facts!!
Agree 100 percent
I feel bad for her but this experience will definitely help her to grow wiser and stronger
U easily to be fooled lol all that was part of her game I can tell she is a problem child. Attitude don’t always comes in a form of being out loud u no
@@Orlandoloc83 You see 8 minutes of a person and can tell their entire childhood history?
@@mgray3374 ur childhood determines how u r as a grownup tho
@@Orlandoloc83 you don’t know her though…
@@Orlandoloc83 her ex boyfriend assaulted her when she said NO to intimacy
He is clearly the bad guy here.
Please try to have some more compassion in your life dude, especially for victims of abuse
“If it doesn’t look like you are losing then shut your mouth “ damn 😂😂
God and the D word,should not be in the same sentence
@@purplelove3666 thank you for saying that ❤
@@purplelove3666 sorry for that i gonna delete it . I understand
@@purplelove3666God damn you really mean that??
@@purplelove3666Thank you❤️
My god, my heart really goes out to this woman. There’s so much more in the pain she’s feeling.
Definitely some mental and/or emotional issues going on with the plaintiff…hopefully she is getting the help she needs
Judge Judy should be ashamed of herself! She wouldn't treat her child this way if she was going through a situation like this, so sad 😢
This was insane to watch!
She needs help but he can't help her
She doesn’t know how to get it together.
Normally a 3 day visit for mental health is a mandatory psych ward stay
Love does not hurt. Toxic garbage hurts.
Young lady I’m so proud of you. Everything will work itself out. Life is difficult sometimes and this was a life lesson. Live on your own. Don’t put yourself at the mercy of other people. When you get older you will see this was small in the greater scheme of life. It could have been much worse.
At 0:44 seconds I started crying, I felt her on another level. I get it. She's knows & she's trying so hard. Prayers
Plaintiff has some deep emotional problems.
Agreed and really shouldn't be working around children IMO. Totally unstable head case.
@@freeinghumanitynow that's a cruel thing to say
@@aaliyahpope5541 It's cruel to say that calling her so-called attacker from the hospital is unhinged behavior? Get help. I said what I said. Seethe.
@@aaliyahpope5541 FACTS
Just shows you lack decency.@@freeinghumanitynow
As a woman who is 27, worked with kids and experienced life situations like this - she will be better off than most bc every time she needs strength she will source this situation. Nothing fuels a woman more than refusing to go back to where YOU picked yourself up from & you can see that understanding in judges demeanor.
You would be surprised. Many women in toxic relationships tend to forget how humiliating an experience was and still go back to their ex after some time has passed.
She seemed like a smart woman to me. This was a fall back but I hope she will quickly get over it and lead a good peaceful life.
@@didistarco4343 I don't know; pronouncing it "kindy-garten" wasn't a great first impression as to her intelligence.
Well said. Having a low point in our lives as a reference is a powerful motivator for thriving.
@@wamz9191 forget? Maybe but mostly its denial. No woman wants to accept the fact that she was manipulated or have fallen for an abuser. It's easier to act as if whatever happened didn't and try to smooth it over by starting over, which is a bad decision and false reality. Its best to RUN but not easy because before any abuse gets physical its mental.
JJ can be so heartless sometimes. I feel bad for that sista. I really hope she learns from this. That look in her face at the end made me kinda sad. 😔
Agreed :((
She's a judge, not a therapist. Youre there to sue for money, not be coddled.
@@umungus518The point is, JJ did not listen or even understand what happened here, I'd take my case elsewhere. No one is asking tombe coddled but to be actually HEARD dummy!!
@@umungus518Be that as it may, it cost nothing to show compassion & a little compassion could’ve been shown.
@@Providedbygeoo youd be better off watching dr phil
Love Doesn't hurt it's the lack of love or other horrible things, horrible people in this life that hurts us
I always laugh to myself when a litigant doesn’t want to give any closing remarks but the cameraman still shows them 😂😂
I just laughed while reading this comment
More so the editors but yeah
What's funny
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Typically yes, but this poor woman was upset and the cameraman kept filming her. They should have left her alone if she had nothing to say.
Seems to be something that she needed to heal from, hope she got the emotional and mental support she needed to be okay on her own.
I wish we knew more about this case because it kinda seems like what happened was a physical assault that could have turned into SA (or maybe it kinda did and the guy kept coming back to please her and ensure she will be with him so he knows he can get away with it.). I think her mother did kick her out the second time and there was an even bigger argument than the first time which explains why she decided to move in again with him although she had a fight with him. Sometimes, I wish JJ let us know the info instead of saying "TMI, skip and move on"..... JJ let us know the juice behind the way the mother asked the daughter to leave the first time (which wasn't even that necessary for the viewers) but didn't let us know what really happened with her back there :/
I felt so badly for this young lady. I don't trust the young man at all. I think he was doing some serious lying. I'm glad she is living on her own, away from her Mom and the abusive dude. I hope she is better now, and doing the thing she loves to do.
She’s not stable. If he tried to force you to have sex with him & you did not want to and you were in a safe place why would you call him to come visit. She’s playing dangerous games. Luckily the guy is somewhat mild tempered but she’s trying to push him over the edge where she is. He needs to get away from her. She needs counseling.
…Weren’t they living together
because she had no one
You want to have sex with a drunk guy who won't accept no ? She is a good person and did the right thing- she left.
She jumped/was thrown from one residence to the next. Her self-esteem is so low that she believes she can live in his place (not pay her share of the rent), and then become uncomfortable when that man wants intimate relations with her. She is the problem - no one else. Her employer needs to have a minder around her and observe her competency/judgement for the sake of those young children.
@@chrispnw2547🎯
Ngl I think judge Judy made the wrong call on this case
Same... he looks like a douchebag
If I checked myself into the hospital every time I got upset, they'd think I was doing a residency.
Lol... nah I think she was thinking about hurting herself
5150
Same
well, she did what was right for her at the time, show compassion not ridicule
Dude tried to sexually assault her
The plaintiff had some maturing to do. I get the sense that she felt like the victim with boyfriend and family issues happening at the same time. When life throws curve balls you have to stand on your own two feet which in the end is what she did. They seem like two nice people just not ready to be together.
Did you miss the part where he grabbed her dress because she didn’t want to have sex? That’s abuse! Like ALL abusers, he has a nice side, but he is still an abuser!
@@eph2vv89only1wayif grabbing a dress is abuse I can’t imagine someone being with you
@@LordWaluigi I took it to mean aggressively. But if you take it to mean gently then it only becomes abuse because it was an attempt to force her into sex after she said no.
If you disagree, Google sexual abuse. Any sexual contact or advance after the person says no is abuse.
Sounds like to me, that she is blaming everyone (her sister, her mom, and her ex boyfriend) for what's going wrong in her life. She needs to look inside herself and think about the choices that she made, and her self worth.
I will never judge someone who is like the plaintiff is because I have been through that and worse and I could never understand why I would always need to be codependent on someone else but slowly over the years I've learned why and a lot of it was due to unhealed trauma and the feeling of being neglected She just needs to heal herself by herself and she will properly flourish like her mother said. Is very unfortunate that she has to go through this in order to heal herself and be who she's destined to be but this is necessary. I'm sitting so much loving light to her and I pray that she can get through life whole. ✨
She's not the victim here. That's the issue.
@@amethystthedarkrai648 she's young, yall are so judgy
I dont eveb remember what she was suing for! 🤷🏾♀️😆
What did she want, the shoes? Or money for going to the hospital? It was an interesting story I guess, but what was she alleging he owed her again? 🤔⏮️
mostly makeup it seems like
Yes ! She needed her makeup to "thrive in society" !
...exactly because JJ barely asked and didn't even look at her evidence so we won't know. Watching this was disturbing for sure.
She looked so sad 😢
She's mourning her makeup.
Plaintiff cannot get along with anyone, even with her own mother. LOL!
She ain’t got it together.
She was arguing with her sister not her mother. Her mother wanted her to leave so as to keep the peace.
They only mentioned 3 people, so how is that everyone?
He said they are still friends….I hope not!!
To the young lady, in case she is reading the comment section. I'm sorry your case wasnt fully heard. I'm sorry that you are having a lot of trials right now. Im sorry for the negative comments. You did well to seek help, because the mental health IS part of physical health. It takes a strong person to stand up and say I need help and go to the hospital. God be with you. Some of us get it, as we have been there. Its a road bump but not a concrete barrier. Love you.
This was 2018 so I wouldn't say she's having a lot of trials "right now."
Beautifully said ❤❤❤❤
I agree, well said.
While plaintiff was in the psychiatric ward for three days, she fell in love with the resident psychologist who helped her with her mental illness and got her an apartment.
If she is reading this I hope she grew up and learn that dying over makeup is dumb! And that she should listen to her mother when she told her the dude was no good!
2:41 the defendant took that to the heart
she sounds really sweet--like an empath--things impact us differently and its hard to bounce back, sending her love and light
Love hurts, love scars, love wounds AND HARMS!!!! 🎶🎶🎶🎶
I believe her. He was petty and threw some away and returned some.
Judge Judy is great she tells it like it is she's real authentic and true and I 💕😘 her
He has GOT to stay away from her and learn when to tell her “No”. She doesn’t seem all the way there and she keeps leaning on him whenever she’s in a jam. Block her and move on
toooo true
He can't take a NO when he wants sex, who wants to have sex with a drunk guy ? Yuck. Good she left him. Sorry she wasn't able to get her things back from him.
@@jean6453 I think there’s more to the story she’s not telling. Why would you want the person who just allegedly assaulted you to come visit you in the hospital? He even said they still talk and are friends. Most people are not going to keep in contact with someone who assaulted them and they filed a lawsuit against
@@alotusinmud Maybe he likes to be publicly humiliated ? I think he is still in love with her. She just wants her stuff back.
@@jean6453 they both handled the situation poorly. She should of filed a police report and requested a police escort to gather her things. And he should’ve never contacted her again after the incident
The plaintiff is a truthful and straightforward lady. She is emotionally weak and this has destabilized her mentallly.
Anyone who watches this and cannot see that this lady was truly in pain and hurting, well, I feel for you as much as I do her. I really hope she is doing well now. Sending love to anyone going through mental health struggles, give yourself time, wounds don't heal overnight 💕
Well done to her for checking herself into the hospital. Get the help you need to live a full life, I'll be here cheering you on, much love 💕
It's obvious that this girl is suffering from severe depression and shouldn't be judged; any mental illness should not be taken lightly.
Just heard a really good quote: in the end, you will have a friend for life or a lesson for life.
Or, that the people in your life, will be there for a reason, a season, or a lifetime....
Meanwhile at the Hospital: sorry we don't have any beds
That man loved that girl. What little he said during the case and his actions of showing up to the hospital for her, proved he had a heart for the girl.
Plaintiff alleges he put hands on her but she doesn't call the police or file a report. She checks herself into a hospital and has him come visit. She most likely did that as a manipulative attempt to get his sympathy.
I agree with this assessment.
Someone assaults you but you don't call the cops? Makes zero sense to me. Frankly, she comes across as very unstable. No way she should be working with children. No way. These schools be just hiring any old body.
This and the fact that her mom “kicked” her out is very telling. She probably has been doing this for years.
Very ignorant comments. A lot of victims NEVER go to the police. People in domestic violent relationships on average return EIGHT times so it absolutely makes sense she called him from the psych ward, especially if she doesn't have family who are emotionally supportive.
@@sweet2sourr You call her a victim. How do we know she's a victim of domestic violence? But even if she is, calling her so-called attacker from the hospital is unhinged behavior. Abuse victims can be unhinged, too. Misery loves company. Prayerfully she got the help that she needed. I can tell by his demeanor that he can't be helped. He gives degenerate vibes. Black women really need to leave these broke dusties alone.
@@sweet2sourrand also just so you know a lot of "victims" also lie.
"We're still friends" he says, OMG. This is what we've come to.
Bro lucky he didn’t get a DV charge or a false alligator.
The more reason he should stay away from her completely. He got away with it this time
Yeah, true alligators are much better 😂😂😂
@@friendlypiranha774 Accept no imitations! 🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊
I wouldn’t want a false alligator either.
JJ said "TMI" 😂
Google it. Everyone knows what "TMI" means.
@@crupert23225 please point out what part of my response that insinuated, to you, I don't know the meaning of TMI?!
@@HustletoThrive You LITERALLY said "translate to English", which implies you have no idea what it means.
You are out of your mind.
@@HustletoThrive You ASKED for someone to translate that acronym, which is in common usage and readily available to reference on Google, and then you asked me what part of your initial post implied you needed translating. So which of the two of us is out of his mind?
She was there on a BAKER ACT. That's a 72 hour INVOLUNTARY HOLD for psychiatric assessment. She didn't do that. The psychiatrists did that.
I think they love each other but sometimes it just doesn’t work!🤷♂️
You can tell she is so broken hearted. Poor girl. You know God is talking to you when you find yourself in this kind of mess!
What he did isn’t love
" if it doesnt look like you're loosing
shut your mouth "
@@hopewalker5764
Too bad he doesn’t know that, right?
WE'RE DONE!
i love the idea of a Kindergarten teacher using grammar like:
"I axe him to take my family stuff to my grandmother house to my family house..."
If you want to be heard, dont go to Judy's court.
Wow she is a hot mess… complete disaster how can she take care of any kids…?? 100% disconnected from reality
Because a drunk tried to force her to have sex and she needed help to deal with everything ? I think she did the right thing to walk out leave him and seek professional help.
“We’re still friends” ; “love hurts”. Boy 😂
She was on an INVOLUNTARY HOLD, for 3 days/72 hours for psychiatric assessment.
What a last name she has. 🤣
Sweet young lady God bless her
It sounds like he was abusive, which was what led her to leave the first time. When she left the second time, she was mostly likely fearful of her own safety and didn't want to admit to her mother she was being abused. Because abusers and their partners often have a codependency, she called him and he most likely tried to convince her to come back. When she wouldn't, he ended up giving her a few things but then kept all the stuff he knew was important to her. Whether or not he tossed it, who knows. That's what ai think happened.
One thing about Judge Judy, she doesn’t care about all that living with a boy/girlfriend situation. She should have went to the People’s Court with this case.
Sometimes in relations, things don't always turn out the way we want them to be. And you gotta move on.
She doesn't really seem to function well in society yet she's a teacher. Poor kids
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I went through a similar thing in my early twenties but like JJ said - you just have to accept the loss and move on. So much happier for it now. Clothes can be bought, sanity can’t
She really needed an understanding friend and not a romantic partner. She just wasn't ready for what he wanted...it happens.
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I worked forca Judge as a bailiff in Family/Divorce court. One of the best lines I heard her say in a case when they were trying to devide up household possessions and were getting pretty petty was "I don't do tupperware."
Loving the positivity in this comment section. Neither seem like terrible people.
An abuser never "seems" terrible.
There are other fish in the sea Mytrece.
So she voluntarily committed herself. There’s more to this story and her.
Poor kid. So upset she checks herself into the hospital where the only thing they can provide her with is a bill.
Some people strive to refuse to be held accountable. A big issue today, you holding people accountable to them feels like you’re assaulting them when all you’re demanding is that they be a responsible and respectful adult.
I løv a defendant who knows to take the "doesn't look line you're losing"- advice.
What great advice! " If id doesn't like like your losing, shut your mouth"!
She checks in the hospital after what she went through with boyfriend. And yet he was the only one to visit. She only called him and not her mom or grandma . Ok lady
The plaintiff has problems and she clearly wants to blame them on everyone else. Maybe she has issues from her mother or whatever, but that is not this man's issue. She needs to get herself together and the whole checking herself into the hospital for 3 days is mad.
Hospitals aren't hotels. They don't check you in just on your say-so. Somebody in the ER thought she belonged there.
Actually it was smart and brave to check herself in if she felt like she was close to having a breakdown or suicidal. The hospital staff evaluated her and obviously felt like she needed to be there for three days.
There are some serious mental health issues here. JJ was less than compassionate.
Glad majority who have actual decency and value can see she's struggling.
JJ clearly understood that plantiff is a 25 year old failure to launch. "I love my makeup"
told me 99% of what I needed to know about her personality.
If you didn't know makeup is pretty expensive. Would you say the same about a car or tv.
@testaccount01336 Let's compare makeup, which is realistically worth about $200, to a CAR which coats $30K or a TV which costs $1K+. Fair and balanced comparison 🤪
1. Makeup is expensive. 2. God forbid she loves something. It could be a hobby/passion of hers. It could be the one thing that makes her feel good in a life that she's clearly struggling through.
@@uluruiseI would not sue someone who I accused of trying to force himself on me sexually over some makeup no matter how much I spent on it. If I wasn’t going to file charges then I would cut my losses and never want to look at him ever again. However she called him from the hospital and let him visit her twice while in the psych ward. I think she needs psychiatric treatment. Her actions/reactions aren’t that of a clear minded mature adult.
@@anndeecosita3586facts
imagine her teaching kids, sad world
I remember being in a volatile relationship in my 20s. It was so bad. I don’t think the hospital is supposed to let him see her when you go for a mental health hold. Unless she didn’t tell the staff the truth about who he was.
It sounds like Judge Judy wasn't buying the "he wanted to have sex with me and I didn't" part of the story. I don't think she had to be injured for it to be true. But I wasn't there and I'm not an expert at this stuff. I don't know.
He’s definitely abusive. His attitude is disgusting.
JJ shut those tests down immediately. 😂 no time for sentimental bs; stick to the facts
That guy dodged a bullet.
NONE of her family visited her in hospital now THAT says a lot just a drama queen
it says that she has a TOXIC ass family and thats that. It's not uncommon. Wth is wrong with yall. It says NOTHING new in these crazy 2024 streets.
All my years of watching judge Judy, i learned SHUT your mouth unless asked. lol. You don’t know if you’re losing or winning till the end.
This guy dodged a bullet getting her out of his life.
I see why the plaintiff can’t get along with her moms, her 18 year old sister, and now her ex boyfriend. She should have remained staying by herself at her own house and not move in with a boyfriend. Get yourself in order and together.
But if she did that, who else could she blame her problems on? She seems anemic to holding herself responsible. 😬
@@kriokid5870 I think she’s blaming her problems on her moms, her little sister, and her ex boyfriend instead of blaming herself for not getting herself together.
She is gonna go back. It is unfortunate.
She is the problem he isn', three days in the hospital no physical injury is insane
Maybe she was having an emotional breakdown. No one knows.
Off to a crappy start. At least no kids involved
This girl does not know how to deal with real-life.
But she is dealing with real life. She was smart to leave a drunk man trying to force sex on her. I think she will get stronger and more independent and have a good life.
She will be ok😢 lessons of love is never easy.
JJ is like me, all the whining ain't gonna cut it.
I’d like to just go check in to the hospital when I’m upset … I had no idea you could do that
Don't let them give you anti depressant
It may not end well!
Don't know how it is in the states, but here just being "upset" won't get you into a hospital. I'm pretty sure that when its mentioned that she "was upset" they are referring to her being suicidal.
You can't. The staff will assess whether they think you should be admitted. There is obviously a lot more to her story.
@@purplelove3666
Too late. I’ve been on them for years. Currently I take 4 different ones every day 🤦🏻
I hope she will be ok. One day at a time.
Waterworks in 3.. 2.. 1..! 😅
The judge obviously discerns theres something wrong w her. She’s at odds w everyone including her Mother & gets so angry that she admits herself in a mental
facility. Chiiiille...He’d better leave her alone.