You may not see this, but I want to encourage you by writing it any way, because you are such an encouragement to me. I grew up in a non-christian home, and became a christian as a young adult. I now have three beautiful children, and am trying to raise them in a Godly manner, but have had no example set for me. Watching your videos, and the way that you approach your day with a joyful heart and a spirit of gratitude, has been such as enormous blessing in my walk in motherhood. My three are a little younger than your eldest three so it really feels like God has given me your videos as a beautiful example of a Godly wife and mother who desires to serve her family above herself and chooses to push against the tide of mothers on social media who just complain about their load and talk badly about their kids. Very thankful for you and your channel
It's OK to not always feel positive and grateful. It's ok to sometimes feel tired, overwhelmed or sad. Go easy on yourself mumma, you're doing a great job xx
@@abigailsullivan3078 I never told her to wallow! But you must allow yourself to feel any emotions and then figure out how to deal with them. Nobody ever felt better by pushing feelings under the carpet x
@teeandkids937 exactly, we all need to acknowledge how we feel and then work through it! Being a mum is a blessing but it's also REALLY hard! And that's ok xx
Every mother needs a parent like Zac. It’s amazing that he just knows what you need and just does it straight away. I know it’s what he should be doing and I’m fortunate that my husband is the same but unfortunately not every parent gets that and it’s wonderful to see him being such a fantastic father along with your amazing ability as a mother
I really don’t understand how you manage to keep 4 little kids including a newborn happy and entertained, while cleaning the house, changing the sheets, cooking homemade food, homeschooling and even working (filming AND editing), and all of this being sleep deprived but full of joy ! you must be a super hero somehow. I really can’t imagine doing all of that in one day, especially while keeping my smile, and I only have two children 😮
seriously, its good to keep in mind that this is extremely difficult and exhausting behaviour.....i do wish Delilah had more help when I watch videos like this so she could just relax with the baby
I think she's just one of than women that really loves children. She enjoyes the company of her little ones, and making them happy makes her happy. There's rare but these women exist. I'm not one of them unfortunately, even though I have children. Some women are just made to be mothers and it's wonderful. Last time I was at this channel when she had 2 babies. And she kept telling how much she loves them and enjoys them.
Right? I so find myself feeling bad that I am not like that. I am easily overwhelmed with a small apartment and one toddler. I work part time but have lots of help from my hubby. Still I have a lot of days where my mental health breaks me…
I find people claim that a certain routine works for all babies but honestly... its temperament. Some babies really need to eat more often, more cuddles and more help to sleep. Then some just kind of do it on their own!
Watching you carry around Anna Beth and still parent and teach the other three is inspiring. I'm awaiting my second and get nervous how I'll manage a newborn and 18 month old.
My son was 20 months when my daughter was born. It's tough, but you get into a groove. My son is now a little over 2 and my daughter is 5 months and it *does* get easier. I hope you have the help and support you need, Mama! Love and prayers. ❤
Mine are 17 months apart. I also have a 12 yr old and an elderly father i care for in my home. I panicked the week before my girl was born wondering how on earth it was going to work. Chasing after her climbing running brother after a csection was rough. And he would try to climb all over her when i would feed her. He was just entering into the screaming whining cus he cant communicate well phase. Etc. But you soon find your groove and figure out what works and all of the great moments erase the overwhelming or chaotic ones. He loves her so much now and they are starting to interact and its so fun! You get really good at having a child in each arm while doing other tasks. Also...wraps and carriers! When my toddler is maybe feeling jealous or left out I just throw him on my back in a carrier. It will all be ok! :)
As someone who has 18 months apart with their two kids. It’s hard but so so magical! They’re nearly 3 and 17 months old now and it’s so lovely watching them bond and play together!
Best advice I got with my second. It's ok if the first-born is not at all interested in the new baby at first. After all, babies just eat and sleep and poop. Not very fun if you're a toddler. They'll get closer and bond more when they're older.
Im a fellow vbac mama and it's so beautiful that we have experienced different forms of birth. It allows us to answer questions and help new mamas who are going through things for the first time! What a blessing.
As a Mom of 3 grown men (ages 34,35,36) and a Mom-Mom of 2 (ages 8 & 10) I love watching your journey through motherhood. I started watching right when Theo was born. I find you so sweet and honest. Showing the downs as well as the ups. So many women are so hard on themselves when everything isn't perfect. As someone whose on the other side, I'm here to cheer you on and remind you to give yourself grace, sleep, let the dishes sit, and nuzzle all those beautiful children. You'll never get that time back. I was so worried about every little thing when ours were littles that looking back, I should've made more memories instead of more laundry, more beds made, more dishes washed, etc... Now I spend every moment making these memories with my grandbabies. Blessings to you Delilah and your beautiful family you and Zach have made together. 😊❤
Hi Delilah! Just wanted to let you know that the haakaa's suction still extracts more milk than a let down would which can increase your milk supply. I used it with my first baby every time I fed and it increased my milk supply so bad that I ended up with oversupply which lead to painful breasts and clogged ducts. Also, my baby had lots of gas and bad reflux due to my milk coming out so fast. I know a lot say it just catches milk but it actually does hve a bit of suction to it. if you want to try one that's just a milk catcher, I use the haakaa's ladybug, you just sit it on your bra and it catches all your let down without having a suction (you also have the option to have suction if needed) Just thought I'd say this in case you didn't know already, because from the last vlog you mentioned the haakaa catching just your let down and that at the start you have a lot of supply - which it might be from using that haakaa every feed. Have a good day and sending your family my love ❤
Yes, I second this! My daughter had pretty bad reflux that I believed was a cow’s milk protein sensitivity until I realized I was creating a huge oversupply by pumping. The fast letdown and foremilk overload was too much on her tummy.
Yes! I find everyone raves about the haaka but no one explains how to use it properly. I used it, but I actually had a really low supply, so the haaka was stealing milk from my son. So when I would switch him onto the side that just had the haaka, there wasn't enough milk for him. I have a lot of guilt about it 😢
Yes the ibclc s i know say it is a breast pump the haaka. It always hurt me to use it. I think with this 3 rd child I m just going to breastfeed and try not to stress out..try not to become hyper focused on pumping early. I work on call so I don't need a supply for weeks and weeks on end. I justbfind breast feeding groups to be kinda stressful in that way...look at my freezer stash..look at my milk fat ...and every baby on earth it seems now has a lip or tongue tie...exhausting.. I hope I don't make it extra difficult again and stress the whole time
I remember those hard days so well. Looking back there was something so cozy about waking up in the middle of the night to feed baby even when you feel so exhausted. You look beside you at your sleeping partner and resent them for not having to wake up too, but it’s so special because everything is quiet and dark and beautiful and you’re spending quality time with your tiny person and they’re going to love you more than life itself and forgive you for anything. Little people are so precious and how lucky are we to get to guide them through life for such a short time before they’re gone. ❤ you’re an amazing, real and authentic momma. You should be so proud.
Aw yes I remember those moments too. As hard as it was I loved those cozy quiet nights with my babies. I loved the quietness of the house while everyone else slept and sometimes I would go outside just to appreciate the stars. I have always been a bit of a night owl though. I also think I was a bit delirious maybe 😂 x
Oh Delilah, I know exactly how you are feeling right now. I’m a mama of 3, with 2 toddlers and a newborn. I’m going to try what you did & just praise God for everything the next time I’m feeling overwhelmed.
Baby number four was big switch up for our family too. It was something that I realized about week 3-4 and I needed to slow way down and just take one task or thing at a time. We were homeschooling also at that time and I realize we personally needed to do more of a slow start. I would add a few subjects in at a time. I needed to learn that special newborns needs and know that I needed to switch things. It was a little uncomfortable to be honest because it was our of my norm...but after about another two weeks I felt more confidence that I knew our newest baby and her needs from mama and family- I could then feel that I could navigate things better. Lots of nursing and reading out loud helped along with playing games or coloring held my bond with the other kiddos. LOTS of grace and peace to you and your journey, Do what feels right for your family. I pray over you and your family that God will provide clues as to what is needed during this sweet yet hard time.
Delilah!! We know you are one tired mama. But please know you don’t have to “do it all” and it’s okay to rest and give yourself some grace. You are truly such an inspiration to me, as I’m a single mom to three. I’m constantly overstimulated and overwhelmed but your gratefulness and choosing to have joy is inspiring. Thank you for sharing your life with us ♥️
I love that you are authentic and honest about your motherhood journey and that you do it in a way that is respectful to your children and takes their privacy into account. I've been following your journey for just over 2 years now and watching your family grow and interact with one another is a beautiful thing to witness. 🧡
My little one had acid reflux and it was more down to her being tongue tied and having a slight dairy intolerance. I had to cut out dairy till she was weaning and then I did the milk ladder with her and now she's fine with it! Xx
I would love a detailed video on how you homeschool while also caring for a newborn! How you plan/prepare the lessons and what your kids do while you’re caring for the baby! I want to homeschool my 3 and 4 year olds but it’s overwhelming to me with a 4 month old
Yes! It’s so important to always remain positive (speaking life) and grateful to God (praying without ceasing with thanksgiving). These two heart postures are not only life-savers for us women but are extremely pleasing and glorifying to God.🤍 Keep up the good work Delilah! You are an excellent mama! Your kids are so blessed to have you! 💕🙏🏽🕊✝️
The feeling of not getting done enough… i’ve known it all too well for months now. I have 4 children too, but the youngest just turned 3 years old. She has special needs and takes a lot of my time, so homeschooling had to adjust to this. We take it slow. Just like you said: day by day, hour by hour. ❤ doing all you can, is good enough ❤️
I have 4 under 7 so I'm right there with you. Thank you so much for your video. Your perspective shift is absolutely wonderful. Thank you for the reminder that mommas set the tone and even though lack of sleep makes me grumpy too...I can choose a happy heart. ❤Thank you so much.
You are the embodiment of living authentically in your highest self. So cool to watch you grow, Delilah. What a beautiful life- thank you for sharing with us.
The purest video!! You are Super hero especially in those hard moments when you share the real raw feelings ❤ as an expecting mom these kind of videos bring comfort and excitement about the love my future holds.
My fourth baby was the same….now she is four and very impulsive girl….I learned a lot of new things….new baby new habits, new personality ❤️ God Bless You and your precious family! Viki from Hungary 😘
Hi! I saw another mom post about her baby developing reflux after using the Haaka because it caused the let down to be too fast for baby to handle. I'm not sure if you're using the Haaka anymore but just thought I'd mention it 🎈❤️
Girl your doing soooooo unbelievably well ! I cannot believe how much you accomplished in this video!!! Every baby is so different my littlest was much like Anna she had so much trouble in the beginning with sleep and restlessness but a year from now you won't even remember how difficult these days really were xxx
Thank you for sharing this vlog! As a mom of a newborn and an almost 2 year old it’s so helpful and encouraging to see how you manage to take care of 4 little ones! My little one is also quite restless and I needed to hear today that it’s not all about more experience but that every child is different and that’s okay
Seeing your older children help you with your newborn just warms my heart. I can't imagine how hard it is, but I'm hoping to have more kids in the future ❤
Regardless of what's going on, younstill approach it calmly and with such grace. William made me laugh, not wanting his overalls put on. I simply love your new bed frame or complete new bed. I hope Anna Beth slept well, allowing you some much needed sleep. 💗💗💗
Love your family so much. Your sweet new baby has the same birthday as my husband who is one of the most wonderful and kind people I have ever met. You are such a shining example! Also JUST yesterday my son would not keep his diaper on and I felt so overwhelmed. It's nice to not be alone!
Perhaps put him in underwear for abit during the day. I wouldn;t want to wear a diaper either. I gave my children breaks from them during the day. Or perhaps it is time to transition. Not sure how old your son is.
I’m grieving not having littles anymore. My youngest is 10. I have been trying for 7 years to have another baby and feel like I need to learn how to be content with my current life stage. I really enjoy watching your story and can enjoy it without being jealous. I choose joy and thankfulness.
My daughter was restless just like that, I found she beniftted from being in the stroller and going for walks outside. I know all babies different but it helped my little one and very thankful it did.
I’ve never commented before, but I have been watching your videos for a few years now- I was so excited when you announced you were pregnant as I had found out a few weeks prior that we were expecting our first. I loved walking through this pregnancy being in the same stages as you, it made me feel less alone. Our little girls actually share the same birthday, August 18th, but I haven’t been able to watch a video since then for the fear that you had everything going perfectly. I was scared I would watch you getting everything done while I’m still struggling just to keep our baby happy and get the laundry done before my husband gets home from work. Thank you for being so real, I was worried I was going to cry because I felt inferior but the opposite happened- I cried because I felt like, once again, I wasn’t alone.
Such a beautiful, funny, honest video...I also strongly believe that our emotions are contagious and can affect people/ animals/ plants/ everything around us... That's why it's so vital to protect our inner peace and to remain thankful...to rekindle the joy of the heart through prayer... Господ да ви помага и благославя!
This feels so familiar to me. I'm a homeschooling mama of 4 too. My baby is 5 months old and is definitely a needy girly too, especially with sleep. I feel you! You're doing so great.
Your doing amazing. Remember progress over perfection. Some babies are harder then others. My 3rd was way more fussy then my others keep taking it one day, hour minute at a time and remember your exactly what they need ❤ you’ve got this!
I'm not sure if you know, but if you pull the fabric of the wrap onto your shoulders and spears the fabric on your back, it makes it strain on your neck less!
Oh waw a father that is used to new born looks so nice! I'm hopeful my partner will be that confident with our second that is comming. Just go by and take the baby from me that idea sounds lovely!
I hope you got more sleep and rest by now as it's hard, it's so hard to keep positive when you are tired. Mentioning things that you are thankful for is a great idea and I will be trying it myself as it's really easy to get lost in things that don't go as expected during the harder days. 🙏 When watching your video, one thing came to me from my early baby wearing days, I found a great hack for the little ones that don't hold their head just yet. Taking a burp cloth or something, rolling it up and putting it under the top part of the wrap from outside and pulling the wrap over just under their head to support their neck, kinda like a pillow roll that supports their head when needed
loved seeing the harder days because that’s how it really is! You handle it with so much grace, even if you feel like you fell short! I see you mama! Keep showing up, keep giving your best! Praying the Lord keeps you close, reminding you that you are doing your best! Let Him take the rest!
Both my boys needed/still need support to fall or even stay asleep so I totally get you…i love contact napping but sometimes it stresses me out, especially when my 21 month old needs me! My now 3 month old had also problems with mild acid reflux, the baby wrap was life saving and also sleeping on his tummy…
I feel like the Holy Spirit connected us today to have like the same day spiritually! Not that I have a newborn or even 4 kids, just one son who's 2, but I felt you today on the hardship! Thank you for sharing Proverbs 17, really needed to be reminded of that verse today: good medicine of a cheerful heart! Makes such a difference in my family too! God bless 🙏
Don’t feel discouraged Delilah ❤. Every baby is different. And when you have multiple little ones who need you, it can get stressful. But just remember that all those things are temporary. I’m glad that you thought about your blessings in life, rather then becoming overwhelmed with the negativity. It’s very hard being parents. And like they say. Parenting is only hard for those who are good parents ❤
Due with my 2nd in 2 weeks and feeling so nervous to become a mom to 2, I’ve gotten into such a good routine with just one. You remind me babies just need their mama and everything else will fall into place
My little cutie is 4 weeks and 5 days old and I just have to say your videos are so inspiring to me as a first time mummy! I’m literally binging all your content during my breastfeeding sessions (especially helpful during those early morning feeds when I tend to nod off!!) keep up the GREAT WORK!🫶🏻
Delilah you are such an inspiration to me as a mother. I’ve been subscribed to your channel since Eloise was little & and I love your content. My kids like to watch with me because they love watching your kids!🤍🤍
My 9mo loves watching your kids play ❤ He was also very clingy & restless. He had some oral ties that contributed to that, but hes also still just very snuggly 🥰 it does get tiresome so practicing gratitude can be so helpful
You are doing so amazing! You are all such a sweet family. Wondering what kind of oven toaster you have and do you use it in place of having a microwave? I’m wanting to be rid of our microwave due to radiation and was curious if the toaster oven is the way to go or even just using the toaster oven instead of my oven all of the time causing my house to get so warm. I love how real and aware you are. It’s easy to be overwhelmed as mama being needed by everyone, I love though that you realize that and are forgiving of yourself but also try to go back to God and ask for his guidance. ❤️🙏🏻
It really helped my son's acid reflux when I went off of dairy and soy. I actually took him to an allergist to confirm those. He eventually did grow out of that, but it helped when he was very luttle
My son never came out of the needed to be held stage. We only got him sleeping through the night at around 14 months and with that saw 2-3 months of 3/4am wake ups. Even for naps it was contact only. It was soooo hard but seeing how fast it goes now (he’s our first), I feel I’ll be more relaxed next time. I hope anyway. You’re such a wonder woman and absolute amaze everyone! ❤
Delilah you are such an inspiration! wow, 4 little kids & you still manage YT AND homeschool! the Lord is so good.. congratulations on the beautiful family you have created!!! ♥️
Wow… you’re so fortunate that your husband is home to make breakfast, allow you to get ready, help with kids, entertain them and at least to be another adult in the house… I have 4 kids ages 6 and under. My husband works long hours everyday. He’s not home much. So doing everything alone is really really hard.
Wishing you the best, Gods peace and a lot of support of people surrounding you🌸🙏🏽 I cam totally understand what you are telling about your last baby. It could be our daughter: I was hardly able to put her down somewhere, she would hardly sleep at all on daytime and crying a lot. I was overhelmed, she was my first child and now- several months later, its still hard to get her to rest-so much energy and so much joy☀️
I don't think William likes getting dressed. . .haha how sweet. You are getting so much done with a newborn and three more. I feel I stayed in bed most of the first two to three weeks after having my third baby (3 mos. pp). Really impressive. Always love seeing your kids helping you out in the kitchen. All three of mine were extremely attached to me and I had to/have to hold them all the time, but I will say, it has made us very close as they all grow! I think my second was the only one who was okay with being put down for a bit.
Watching your son go for your food after he has already ate and you have spent the morning working is the most relatable thing I’ve ever seen. 😂 never fails
Thanks for being so real. I'm definitely not an expert but as a mom has had two past fussy babies, White noise in their ear helped as well as buying a swing. But you are doing a a great job! Just possible suggestions. And they loved being worn too Also watch her poop if it's weird maybe possibly dairy sensitivity?
My son is now 9mo but he was also very gassy and very clingy for sleep and naps. I found cutting out things like eggs and garlic from my diet helped with his gassy problems. I would highly recommend seeing a lactation consultant asap and possible looking at eliminating some things from the diet to help with the gass. My son grew out of this issue by about 4mo so it's not long lived. Praying for you and your family in this tender and intense season 🙏
I remember the video you guys taking baby El to the house from hospital, it feels like yesterday. She was so tiny ❤. From her to Anne, i am so proud both of you. I was watching you as a 15 year old and scared of the "mom life" and giving birth and extra. Now i am 21 and realized you made sooooooo much less scared of all that. And i will be a wife and mom soon, at least hoping and praying for that. Thank you for giving us content, love you ❤
Best years of your life. You'll look back one day and wish you were here again. Some days it's hard to believe that, but it's true. Also, when my babies had tummy troubles, I found that if I ate a pretty bland diet and avoided any gas-related foods, my babies did better, too. You're doing great!
Definitely try taking her to a chiropractor! Both of my girls were awful sleepers and I WISH I had listened to ppl about the chiropractor earlier on. They are now 2 & 4 and they go for regular appts and it just helps they’re little bodies so much.
Video request: details on how to do quiet time in a way that minimises children coming to bother you... my oldest is 4 and I have not hacked quiet time yet, we had a good run when he was an only child about 2 yo and would play in his room on his own for 20 min.
This is encouraging! I also am about to have my fourth child and my oldest is almost 6 year old. Thanks for the calm reminder today. :) I also love to wrap my babies.
Delilah, I know that you and your family and support are way more experienced that I am with only one little one but I will share anyway. Our son had silent reflux (it was the hardest part of having a little person). He had to sleep upright, would cry and wiggle a round in pain about a 1/2 hour after feeds and try to climb me. If Anna is having a hard time you could try some rest in the car seat or swing sitting upright and talk to the pediatrician. They can help reduce the burning element of the acid, even though the hiccups and discomfort won't stop but it will be so much better for baby and you. Good luck❤
My daughter is 4 months old, and totally didn't like being on her own. The only way my husband could get her to sleep was in her wrap. She just doesn't like sleeping on her own and I don't blame her, I hate sleeping by myself too. Definitely recommend getting one to everyone I know who is expecting a baby ❤
Hi Delilah! I've been following your channel for a while. Your videos are always so inspiring and soothing. I am a doula and wanted to bring up that Annie could be suffering from a mild allergy. Dairy and gluten are the big allergens I usually see in very fussy, more high needs newborns. My daughter (now 2) has a dairy allergy. I cut out dairy when she was 2 months old and started giving her water (Eastern medicine says to half the baby's body weight in ounces from birth! - though Western medicine differs) and she became such a happy, less fussy little gal. Praying for your continued transition!
Sounds like Annie needs to lie on her tummy when she is so unhappy 👶👶👶. I am a newborn night nanny and find this a big help. Not the whole. Isn’t if you are worried about that but while you are watching g her.
Omg my newborn settles when I do this as well! I lie him on my tummy and breastfeed him while he's on his tummy on mine and he settles right away. Accidentally discovered it one time when I thought "maybe my milk is coming in too fast" but ended up not being about the milk at all 😄
3 out of 4 of my babies would only sleep elevated on their side or on their bellies. Reflux made laying on their back miserable. I had to eat the blandest diet.
Well, you're doing pretty good, sweetheart. You know you're a good mother and I know you have a lot of patience and I know sometimes we run out of patience but there's so wonderful to see you and depressed feeding. Is the best that's the best for all babies? Anyway, God bless you and have a blessed. I hope you rest a little bit.❤
Evivo probiotics are fantastic for tummy distress. I nursed for my whole existence during this stage so I feel you. My son was so fussy and never slept so we had to give him reflux medication. The dr said he had silent reflux which is when it’s just kind of stinging their throat but it’s not fully coming up. He was sleeping through the night by 10 weeks with the medicine (per my notes). Frida baby’s “windi” is also a strange and effective tool for gassy backed up babies. I caved and bought the Snoo at 7 weeks as well lol Good luck!!! Having a clinger is definitely not easy but you’ll get through this ❤
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You may not see this, but I want to encourage you by writing it any way, because you are such an encouragement to me. I grew up in a non-christian home, and became a christian as a young adult. I now have three beautiful children, and am trying to raise them in a Godly manner, but have had no example set for me. Watching your videos, and the way that you approach your day with a joyful heart and a spirit of gratitude, has been such as enormous blessing in my walk in motherhood. My three are a little younger than your eldest three so it really feels like God has given me your videos as a beautiful example of a Godly wife and mother who desires to serve her family above herself and chooses to push against the tide of mothers on social media who just complain about their load and talk badly about their kids. Very thankful for you and your channel
Oh wow, I 100% feel you, I am so glad to read this comment and feel less alone ! 🙌
It's OK to not always feel positive and grateful. It's ok to sometimes feel tired, overwhelmed or sad. Go easy on yourself mumma, you're doing a great job xx
It’s not okay to wallow in it though! You gotta snap out of it. She has a great coping mechanism that is Christ centered.
@@abigailsullivan3078 I never told her to wallow! But you must allow yourself to feel any emotions and then figure out how to deal with them. Nobody ever felt better by pushing feelings under the carpet x
@@shueysmissusthis! Sooo much this!!
I wish all moms knew it was ok to feel like crap some days and not enjoy it. It’s normal!! Haha
@teeandkids937 exactly, we all need to acknowledge how we feel and then work through it! Being a mum is a blessing but it's also REALLY hard! And that's ok xx
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Every mother needs a parent like Zac. It’s amazing that he just knows what you need and just does it straight away. I know it’s what he should be doing and I’m fortunate that my husband is the same but unfortunately not every parent gets that and it’s wonderful to see him being such a fantastic father along with your amazing ability as a mother
I really don’t understand how you manage to keep 4 little kids including a newborn happy and entertained, while cleaning the house, changing the sheets, cooking homemade food, homeschooling and even working (filming AND editing), and all of this being sleep deprived but full of joy ! you must be a super hero somehow. I really can’t imagine doing all of that in one day, especially while keeping my smile, and I only have two children 😮
seriously, its good to keep in mind that this is extremely difficult and exhausting behaviour.....i do wish Delilah had more help when I watch videos like this so she could just relax with the baby
I think she's just one of than women that really loves children. She enjoyes the company of her little ones, and making them happy makes her happy. There's rare but these women exist. I'm not one of them unfortunately, even though I have children. Some women are just made to be mothers and it's wonderful. Last time I was at this channel when she had 2 babies. And she kept telling how much she loves them and enjoys them.
Right? I so find myself feeling bad that I am not like that. I am easily overwhelmed with a small apartment and one toddler. I work part time but have lots of help from my hubby. Still I have a lot of days where my mental health breaks me…
@@TinaMartinez97 Don’t be hard on yourself. You sound like an awesome mum. ❤
@@lindao1327 thanks for your kind words :)
Williams giggle is everything that's good with the world ❤
I find people claim that a certain routine works for all babies but honestly... its temperament. Some babies really need to eat more often, more cuddles and more help to sleep. Then some just kind of do it on their own!
Watching you carry around Anna Beth and still parent and teach the other three is inspiring. I'm awaiting my second and get nervous how I'll manage a newborn and 18 month old.
My son was 20 months when my daughter was born. It's tough, but you get into a groove. My son is now a little over 2 and my daughter is 5 months and it *does* get easier. I hope you have the help and support you need, Mama! Love and prayers. ❤
Mine are 17 months apart. I also have a 12 yr old and an elderly father i care for in my home. I panicked the week before my girl was born wondering how on earth it was going to work. Chasing after her climbing running brother after a csection was rough. And he would try to climb all over her when i would feed her. He was just entering into the screaming whining cus he cant communicate well phase. Etc. But you soon find your groove and figure out what works and all of the great moments erase the overwhelming or chaotic ones. He loves her so much now and they are starting to interact and its so fun! You get really good at having a child in each arm while doing other tasks. Also...wraps and carriers! When my toddler is maybe feeling jealous or left out I just throw him on my back in a carrier. It will all be ok! :)
And she’s working! Setting up cameras and filming, etc.
This woman is an absolute machine 👏 💪
As someone who has 18 months apart with their two kids. It’s hard but so so magical! They’re nearly 3 and 17 months old now and it’s so lovely watching them bond and play together!
Best advice I got with my second. It's ok if the first-born is not at all interested in the new baby at first. After all, babies just eat and sleep and poop. Not very fun if you're a toddler. They'll get closer and bond more when they're older.
Im a fellow vbac mama and it's so beautiful that we have experienced different forms of birth. It allows us to answer questions and help new mamas who are going through things for the first time! What a blessing.
As a Mom of 3 grown men (ages 34,35,36) and a Mom-Mom of 2 (ages 8 & 10) I love watching your journey through motherhood. I started watching right when Theo was born. I find you so sweet and honest. Showing the downs as well as the ups. So many women are so hard on themselves when everything isn't perfect. As someone whose on the other side, I'm here to cheer you on and remind you to give yourself grace, sleep, let the dishes sit, and nuzzle all those beautiful children. You'll never get that time back. I was so worried about every little thing when ours were littles that looking back, I should've made more memories instead of more laundry, more beds made, more dishes washed, etc... Now I spend every moment making these memories with my grandbabies. Blessings to you Delilah and your beautiful family you and Zach have made together. 😊❤
Hi Delilah! Just wanted to let you know that the haakaa's suction still extracts more milk than a let down would which can increase your milk supply. I used it with my first baby every time I fed and it increased my milk supply so bad that I ended up with oversupply which lead to painful breasts and clogged ducts. Also, my baby had lots of gas and bad reflux due to my milk coming out so fast. I know a lot say it just catches milk but it actually does hve a bit of suction to it.
if you want to try one that's just a milk catcher, I use the haakaa's ladybug, you just sit it on your bra and it catches all your let down without having a suction (you also have the option to have suction if needed) Just thought I'd say this in case you didn't know already, because from the last vlog you mentioned the haakaa catching just your let down and that at the start you have a lot of supply - which it might be from using that haakaa every feed. Have a good day and sending your family my love ❤
Yes, I second this! My daughter had pretty bad reflux that I believed was a cow’s milk protein sensitivity until I realized I was creating a huge oversupply by pumping. The fast letdown and foremilk overload was too much on her tummy.
I have the same and was told by my lactation consultant to lean back when nursing so it eases up the forceful let down.
Yes! I find everyone raves about the haaka but no one explains how to use it properly. I used it, but I actually had a really low supply, so the haaka was stealing milk from my son. So when I would switch him onto the side that just had the haaka, there wasn't enough milk for him. I have a lot of guilt about it 😢
So glad you mentioned that. I am a LLL leader in training.@@k1y2l2e1
Yes the ibclc s i know say it is a breast pump the haaka. It always hurt me to use it. I think with this 3 rd child I m just going to breastfeed and try not to stress out..try not to become hyper focused on pumping early. I work on call so I don't need a supply for weeks and weeks on end. I justbfind breast feeding groups to be kinda stressful in that way...look at my freezer stash..look at my milk fat ...and every baby on earth it seems now has a lip or tongue tie...exhausting.. I hope I don't make it extra difficult again and stress the whole time
the piano music, the soft morning light, the little baby snuggles, I love it all! this is the dream for me in four years from now!
I remember those hard days so well. Looking back there was something so cozy about waking up in the middle of the night to feed baby even when you feel so exhausted. You look beside you at your sleeping partner and resent them for not having to wake up too, but it’s so special because everything is quiet and dark and beautiful and you’re spending quality time with your tiny person and they’re going to love you more than life itself and forgive you for anything. Little people are so precious and how lucky are we to get to guide them through life for such a short time before they’re gone. ❤ you’re an amazing, real and authentic momma. You should be so proud.
Aw yes I remember those moments too. As hard as it was I loved those cozy quiet nights with my babies. I loved the quietness of the house while everyone else slept and sometimes I would go outside just to appreciate the stars. I have always been a bit of a night owl though. I also think I was a bit delirious maybe 😂 x
@@sarahg1735 aren’t we all 😂
Oh Delilah, I know exactly how you are feeling right now. I’m a mama of 3, with 2 toddlers and a newborn. I’m going to try what you did & just praise God for everything the next time I’m feeling overwhelmed.
Baby number four was big switch up for our family too. It was something that I realized about week 3-4 and I needed to slow way down and just take one task or thing at a time. We were homeschooling also at that time and I realize we personally needed to do more of a slow start. I would add a few subjects in at a time. I needed to learn that special newborns needs and know that I needed to switch things. It was a little uncomfortable to be honest because it was our of my norm...but after about another two weeks I felt more confidence that I knew our newest baby and her needs from mama and family- I could then feel that I could navigate things better. Lots of nursing and reading out loud helped along with playing games or coloring held my bond with the other kiddos. LOTS of grace and peace to you and your journey, Do what feels right for your family. I pray over you and your family that God will provide clues as to what is needed during this sweet yet hard time.
Delilah!! We know you are one tired mama. But please know you don’t have to “do it all” and it’s okay to rest and give yourself some grace. You are truly such an inspiration to me, as I’m a single mom to three. I’m constantly overstimulated and overwhelmed but your gratefulness and choosing to have joy is inspiring. Thank you for sharing your life with us ♥️
Theo and Annie seem to be developing a special bond. Oh my heart . . . Big brother holding baby sister was a beautiful thing to see.
Thank you for posting a hard day and keeping it real ❤ motherhood is both beautiful and challenging. You are doing a wonderful job ❤
I love that you are authentic and honest about your motherhood journey and that you do it in a way that is respectful to your children and takes their privacy into account. I've been following your journey for just over 2 years now and watching your family grow and interact with one another is a beautiful thing to witness. 🧡
Delilah and Zach AMAZE me with their Patience. So much Grace, so much Love! 💕
My little one had acid reflux and it was more down to her being tongue tied and having a slight dairy intolerance. I had to cut out dairy till she was weaning and then I did the milk ladder with her and now she's fine with it! Xx
I would love a detailed video on how you homeschool while also caring for a newborn! How you plan/prepare the lessons and what your kids do while you’re caring for the baby! I want to homeschool my 3 and 4 year olds but it’s overwhelming to me with a 4 month old
Yes! It’s so important to always remain positive (speaking life) and grateful to God (praying without ceasing with thanksgiving). These two heart postures are not only life-savers for us women but are extremely pleasing and glorifying to God.🤍
Keep up the good work Delilah! You are an excellent mama! Your kids are so blessed to have you! 💕🙏🏽🕊✝️
Hang in there mama! You’re doing great! We are 7 weeks away from 4 under 7 ourselves and your videos have been so encouraging to me🙏🏼
The feeling of not getting done enough… i’ve known it all too well for months now. I have 4 children too, but the youngest just turned 3 years old.
She has special needs and takes a lot of my time, so homeschooling had to adjust to this. We take it slow. Just like you said: day by day, hour by hour.
❤ doing all you can, is good enough ❤️
With baby #2 being born Thursday (!!!) these videos are so helpful to remind me what life with a newborn is like. ❤
I so look forward to Tuesdays when I know a video will be out ☺️
William is still so mischievous and I’m here for it 😂
I have 4 under 7 so I'm right there with you. Thank you so much for your video. Your perspective shift is absolutely wonderful. Thank you for the reminder that mommas set the tone and even though lack of sleep makes me grumpy too...I can choose a happy heart. ❤Thank you so much.
You are the embodiment of living authentically in your highest self. So cool to watch you grow, Delilah. What a beautiful life- thank you for sharing with us.
Be still. Live naturally, and be still. Tis the season. All will be right. Much love
Grateful
The purest video!! You are Super hero especially in those hard moments when you share the real raw feelings ❤ as an expecting mom these kind of videos bring comfort and excitement about the love my future holds.
this was so calming and peaceful. Praying for your postpartum journey, that it is full of joy and Gods peace.
My fourth baby was the same….now she is four and very impulsive girl….I learned a lot of new things….new baby new habits, new personality ❤️ God Bless You and your precious family! Viki from Hungary 😘
Hi! I saw another mom post about her baby developing reflux after using the Haaka because it caused the let down to be too fast for baby to handle. I'm not sure if you're using the Haaka anymore but just thought I'd mention it 🎈❤️
Thats very interesting. I loved the haaka but that makes sense something like that could happen
@@lydiacollins9018 I also thought it to be interesting and perhaps helpful to some mom's. Worth investigating! 💕
She's such a sweetie ❤ I take all of my babies to my chiropractor after their born, it helps with a ton of random symptoms and it's super gentle
Girl your doing soooooo unbelievably well ! I cannot believe how much you accomplished in this video!!! Every baby is so different my littlest was much like Anna she had so much trouble in the beginning with sleep and restlessness but a year from now you won't even remember how difficult these days really were xxx
Thank you for sharing this vlog! As a mom of a newborn and an almost 2 year old it’s so helpful and encouraging to see how you manage to take care of 4 little ones! My little one is also quite restless and I needed to hear today that it’s not all about more experience but that every child is different and that’s okay
Seeing your older children help you with your newborn just warms my heart. I can't imagine how hard it is, but I'm hoping to have more kids in the future ❤
Regardless of what's going on, younstill approach it calmly and with such grace. William made me laugh, not wanting his overalls put on. I simply love your new bed frame or complete new bed. I hope Anna Beth slept well, allowing you some much needed sleep. 💗💗💗
Such an inspiration. watching this at 2am while my fussy newborn sleeps on me and reminding myself how blessed I am
Love your family so much. Your sweet new baby has the same birthday as my husband who is one of the most wonderful and kind people I have ever met. You are such a shining example! Also JUST yesterday my son would not keep his diaper on and I felt so overwhelmed. It's nice to not be alone!
Perhaps put him in underwear for abit during the day. I wouldn;t want to wear a diaper either. I gave my children breaks from them during the day. Or perhaps it is time to transition. Not sure how old your son is.
I’m grieving not having littles anymore. My youngest is 10. I have been trying for 7 years to have another baby and feel like I need to learn how to be content with my current life stage. I really enjoy watching your story and can enjoy it without being jealous. I choose joy and thankfulness.
My daughter was restless just like that, I found she beniftted from being in the stroller and going for walks outside. I know all babies different but it helped my little one and very thankful it did.
I’ve never commented before, but I have been watching your videos for a few years now- I was so excited when you announced you were pregnant as I had found out a few weeks prior that we were expecting our first. I loved walking through this pregnancy being in the same stages as you, it made me feel less alone. Our little girls actually share the same birthday, August 18th, but I haven’t been able to watch a video since then for the fear that you had everything going perfectly. I was scared I would watch you getting everything done while I’m still struggling just to keep our baby happy and get the laundry done before my husband gets home from work. Thank you for being so real, I was worried I was going to cry because I felt inferior but the opposite happened- I cried because I felt like, once again, I wasn’t alone.
Such a beautiful, funny, honest video...I also strongly believe that our emotions are contagious and can affect people/ animals/ plants/ everything around us... That's why it's so vital to protect our inner peace and to remain thankful...to rekindle the joy of the heart through prayer...
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This feels so familiar to me. I'm a homeschooling mama of 4 too. My baby is 5 months old and is definitely a needy girly too, especially with sleep. I feel you! You're doing so great.
Your doing amazing. Remember progress over perfection. Some babies are harder then others. My 3rd was way more fussy then my others keep taking it one day, hour minute at a time and remember your exactly what they need ❤ you’ve got this!
U are an amazing mother🌷 such a joy to see this! So blessed
I loved how real and raw this vlog was!! You have such a beautiful life, Delilah! I know it can be hectic some times but it is truly beautiful!
I'm not sure if you know, but if you pull the fabric of the wrap onto your shoulders and spears the fabric on your back, it makes it strain on your neck less!
I so love your Videos 😍 so calming and relaxing. Cant wait to snuggle my newborn in march😁
Oh waw a father that is used to new born looks so nice! I'm hopeful my partner will be that confident with our second that is comming. Just go by and take the baby from me that idea sounds lovely!
I hope you got more sleep and rest by now as it's hard, it's so hard to keep positive when you are tired. Mentioning things that you are thankful for is a great idea and I will be trying it myself as it's really easy to get lost in things that don't go as expected during the harder days. 🙏
When watching your video, one thing came to me from my early baby wearing days, I found a great hack for the little ones that don't hold their head just yet. Taking a burp cloth or something, rolling it up and putting it under the top part of the wrap from outside and pulling the wrap over just under their head to support their neck, kinda like a pillow roll that supports their head when needed
loved seeing the harder days because that’s how it really is! You handle it with so much grace, even if you feel like you fell short! I see you mama! Keep showing up, keep giving your best! Praying the Lord keeps you close, reminding you that you are doing your best! Let Him take the rest!
Easy tip for your Haaka! I put mine in a mug and it prevents it from falling. Congrats on your new little one, I'm due for #2 in a couple months!
Both my boys needed/still need support to fall or even stay asleep so I totally get you…i love contact napping but sometimes it stresses me out, especially when my 21 month old needs me! My now 3 month old had also problems with mild acid reflux, the baby wrap was life saving and also sleeping on his tummy…
I feel like the Holy Spirit connected us today to have like the same day spiritually! Not that I have a newborn or even 4 kids, just one son who's 2, but I felt you today on the hardship! Thank you for sharing Proverbs 17, really needed to be reminded of that verse today: good medicine of a cheerful heart! Makes such a difference in my family too! God bless 🙏
Don’t feel discouraged Delilah ❤. Every baby is different. And when you have multiple little ones who need you, it can get stressful. But just remember that all those things are temporary. I’m glad that you thought about your blessings in life, rather then becoming overwhelmed with the negativity. It’s very hard being parents. And like they say. Parenting is only hard for those who are good parents ❤
Beautiful family!! You and Zach handle everything with such love and grace!! Wishing you all of Gods blessings!!
Due with my 2nd in 2 weeks and feeling so nervous to become a mom to 2, I’ve gotten into such a good routine with just one. You remind me babies just need their mama and everything else will fall into place
Your videos always seem to calm me and bring me joy. Thank you for that
My little cutie is 4 weeks and 5 days old and I just have to say your videos are so inspiring to me as a first time mummy! I’m literally binging all your content during my breastfeeding sessions (especially helpful during those early morning feeds when I tend to nod off!!) keep up the GREAT WORK!🫶🏻
Delilah you are such an inspiration to me as a mother. I’ve been subscribed to your channel since Eloise was little & and I love your content. My kids like to watch with me because they love watching your kids!🤍🤍
My 9mo loves watching your kids play ❤
He was also very clingy & restless. He had some oral ties that contributed to that, but hes also still just very snuggly 🥰 it does get tiresome so practicing gratitude can be so helpful
You are doing so amazing! You are all such a sweet family. Wondering what kind of oven toaster you have and do you use it in place of having a microwave? I’m wanting to be rid of our microwave due to radiation and was curious if the toaster oven is the way to go or even just using the toaster oven instead of my oven all of the time causing my house to get so warm. I love how real and aware you are. It’s easy to be overwhelmed as mama being needed by everyone, I love though that you realize that and are forgiving of yourself but also try to go back to God and ask for his guidance. ❤️🙏🏻
Delilah ❤ I am SO happy for you that you got the birth you prayed for-your mothering inspires me❤❤
Hold her as much as you can so precious and only little for a short time xx
Thankfulness is so powerful. Thanks for sharing!
It really helped my son's acid reflux when I went off of dairy and soy. I actually took him to an allergist to confirm those. He eventually did grow out of that, but it helped when he was very luttle
Yes, a mother has such a powerful influence over her home! Proverbs tells us she build up her home! Praise the Lord, be encouraged sister!
My son never came out of the needed to be held stage. We only got him sleeping through the night at around 14 months and with that saw 2-3 months of 3/4am wake ups. Even for naps it was contact only. It was soooo hard but seeing how fast it goes now (he’s our first), I feel I’ll be more relaxed next time. I hope anyway. You’re such a wonder woman and absolute amaze everyone! ❤
Delilah you are such an inspiration! wow, 4 little kids & you still manage YT AND homeschool! the Lord is so good.. congratulations on the beautiful family you have created!!! ♥️
Delilah, you are so goals and so inspiring! I admire you so much with how calm and patient and what a wonderful and beautiful family you have! ❤
Wow… you’re so fortunate that your husband is home to make breakfast, allow you to get ready, help with kids, entertain them and at least to be another adult in the house… I have 4 kids ages 6 and under. My husband works long hours everyday. He’s not home much. So doing everything alone is really really hard.
Wishing you the best, Gods peace and a lot of support of people surrounding you🌸🙏🏽 I cam totally understand what you are telling about your last baby. It could be our daughter: I was hardly able to put her down somewhere, she would hardly sleep at all on daytime and crying a lot. I was overhelmed, she was my first child and now- several months later, its still hard to get her to rest-so much energy and so much joy☀️
I don't think William likes getting dressed. . .haha how sweet.
You are getting so much done with a newborn and three more. I feel I stayed in bed most of the first two to three weeks after having my third baby (3 mos. pp). Really impressive.
Always love seeing your kids helping you out in the kitchen.
All three of mine were extremely attached to me and I had to/have to hold them all the time, but I will say, it has made us very close as they all grow! I think my second was the only one who was okay with being put down for a bit.
Watching your son go for your food after he has already ate and you have spent the morning working is the most relatable thing I’ve ever seen. 😂 never fails
Thanks for being so real. I'm definitely not an expert but as a mom has had two past fussy babies, White noise in their ear helped as well as buying a swing. But you are doing a a great job! Just possible suggestions. And they loved being worn too
Also watch her poop if it's weird maybe possibly dairy sensitivity?
Kayla Buell in her vlogs walks around with a portable white noise machine and it does help her newborn sleep!!!!
My son is now 9mo but he was also very gassy and very clingy for sleep and naps. I found cutting out things like eggs and garlic from my diet helped with his gassy problems. I would highly recommend seeing a lactation consultant asap and possible looking at eliminating some things from the diet to help with the gass. My son grew out of this issue by about 4mo so it's not long lived. Praying for you and your family in this tender and intense season 🙏
I remember the video you guys taking baby El to the house from hospital, it feels like yesterday. She was so tiny ❤. From her to Anne, i am so proud both of you. I was watching you as a 15 year old and scared of the "mom life" and giving birth and extra. Now i am 21 and realized you made sooooooo much less scared of all that. And i will be a wife and mom soon, at least hoping and praying for that. Thank you for giving us content, love you ❤
Best years of your life. You'll look back one day and wish you were here again. Some days it's hard to believe that, but it's true. Also, when my babies had tummy troubles, I found that if I ate a pretty bland diet and avoided any gas-related foods, my babies did better, too. You're doing great!
Definitely try taking her to a chiropractor! Both of my girls were awful sleepers and I WISH I had listened to ppl about the chiropractor earlier on. They are now 2 & 4 and they go for regular appts and it just helps they’re little bodies so much.
Omg I think I’m addicted to your vlogs
I keep coming every hour to check if u posted
Love you ❤
Video request: details on how to do quiet time in a way that minimises children coming to bother you... my oldest is 4 and I have not hacked quiet time yet, we had a good run when he was an only child about 2 yo and would play in his room on his own for 20 min.
This is encouraging! I also am about to have my fourth child and my oldest is almost 6 year old. Thanks for the calm reminder today. :) I also love to wrap my babies.
Delilah, I know that you and your family and support are way more experienced that I am with only one little one but I will share anyway. Our son had silent reflux (it was the hardest part of having a little person). He had to sleep upright, would cry and wiggle a round in pain about a 1/2 hour after feeds and try to climb me. If Anna is having a hard time you could try some rest in the car seat or swing sitting upright and talk to the pediatrician. They can help reduce the burning element of the acid, even though the hiccups and discomfort won't stop but it will be so much better for baby and you. Good luck❤
Reminder that you are in a season of waiting, you don’t have to do it all ❤ the house can be a mess, the food can be easy, I know this feeling well!
My daughter is 4 months old, and totally didn't like being on her own. The only way my husband could get her to sleep was in her wrap. She just doesn't like sleeping on her own and I don't blame her, I hate sleeping by myself too. Definitely recommend getting one to everyone I know who is expecting a baby ❤
Theo taking care of his little sister. So cute
Your vlogs bring me peace! I love them and your family! I also really love your house!! You inspire me!
Hi Delilah! I've been following your channel for a while. Your videos are always so inspiring and soothing.
I am a doula and wanted to bring up that Annie could be suffering from a mild allergy. Dairy and gluten are the big allergens I usually see in very fussy, more high needs newborns. My daughter (now 2) has a dairy allergy. I cut out dairy when she was 2 months old and started giving her water (Eastern medicine says to half the baby's body weight in ounces from birth! - though Western medicine differs) and she became such a happy, less fussy little gal.
Praying for your continued transition!
This is my favorite vlog of yours so far! ❤ So real and beautiful!
Oh my goodness, such a lovely challenge from one mum to another. I love watching your vlogs x you're doing a great job momma!
Wow! The editing on dinner was so satisfying to watch. Good job!
Sounds like Annie needs to lie on her tummy when she is so unhappy 👶👶👶. I am a newborn night nanny and find this a big help. Not the whole. Isn’t if you are worried about that but while you are watching g her.
Omg my newborn settles when I do this as well! I lie him on my tummy and breastfeed him while he's on his tummy on mine and he settles right away. Accidentally discovered it one time when I thought "maybe my milk is coming in too fast" but ended up not being about the milk at all 😄
3 out of 4 of my babies would only sleep elevated on their side or on their bellies. Reflux made laying on their back miserable. I had to eat the blandest diet.
Well, you're doing pretty good, sweetheart. You know you're a good mother and I know you have a lot of patience and I know sometimes we run out of patience but there's so wonderful to see you and depressed feeding. Is the best that's the best for all babies? Anyway, God bless you and have a blessed. I hope you rest a little bit.❤
Thank you for sharing a very real look at what life with 4 littles is like. ❤️
Williams laugh is just the cutest ❤
I can watch the clips of William running around for 100 times. Those previous giggling moments!!
Evivo probiotics are fantastic for tummy distress.
I nursed for my whole existence during this stage so I feel you. My son was so fussy and never slept so we had to give him reflux medication. The dr said he had silent reflux which is when it’s just kind of stinging their throat but it’s not fully coming up. He was sleeping through the night by 10 weeks with the medicine (per my notes). Frida baby’s “windi” is also a strange and effective tool for gassy backed up babies.
I caved and bought the Snoo at 7 weeks as well lol
Good luck!!! Having a clinger is definitely not easy but you’ll get through this ❤
Hi, could you give us ideas of quality one to one time with the kids? I am looking for more ideas! Thanks! ❤