The story of FLABBA and SINDISIWE MANQELE 😭

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @rue26sae
    @rue26sae 3 года назад +131

    girl i love your show. finally african crime stories. DSTV should call you for these haibo

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  3 года назад +6

      Thank you Rue! Appreciate this babe!😊😂❤

    • @optoms1178
      @optoms1178 3 года назад

      Agreed

    • @djtwitty8296
      @djtwitty8296 6 месяцев назад

      The best crime show by an African I’ve ever came across 🔥🙏🏾

  • @comasthe-lit3926
    @comasthe-lit3926 3 года назад +40

    I think it's easy to blame the girl...
    But it sounds like a lot happened there! We can vouch for Flabba cuz Vele we've known him for years... But the chick really went thru hell ... 💔

    • @hihello7014
      @hihello7014 Год назад +4

      He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.

  • @bibibello2181
    @bibibello2181 3 года назад +38

    Why do women who have their whole beautiful lives ahead of them get mixed up in toxic relationships and not just leave!

  • @DwayzeOnBlaze
    @DwayzeOnBlaze 3 года назад +83

    Only in SA do the paramedics show up 2hrs later & tell you to stop trying to save the person cause it's too late...

    • @buhlenkosi3840
      @buhlenkosi3840 3 года назад +12

      Atleast in South Africa they even show up, in Zimbabwea they don’t

    • @traceydumase
      @traceydumase 3 года назад +9

      @@buhlenkosi3840 Lol Malawi they'll tell you to go pick them up after reporting a hijacking🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @hihello7014
      @hihello7014 Год назад +1

      He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.

    • @DwayzeOnBlaze
      @DwayzeOnBlaze Год назад +1

      @@traceydumase hilarious 🤣

  • @irenekimanyi645
    @irenekimanyi645 3 года назад +62

    Great job! Bingewatching all your videos from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪! Awesome job!

    • @ladysiphiwe9277
      @ladysiphiwe9277 3 года назад +8

      I thought you said "bewitching all your videos from kenya" I thought haibo Kenya!?!?! Mara why????🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @maggienjoki2673
      @maggienjoki2673 3 года назад +2

      🇰🇪 💖 💖

  • @sebolelosishange5219
    @sebolelosishange5219 3 года назад +141

    Stop dating people who have low self-esteem issues

    • @amandanyuswa5103
      @amandanyuswa5103 3 года назад +1

      word!!!

    • @liehash
      @liehash 3 года назад +5

      Period!!!! The moment someone starts emotionally blackmailing you it's time to go.

    • @ozemoyaaigbokhalia615
      @ozemoyaaigbokhalia615 3 года назад +1

      I want to assume you are talking about the lady

    • @loreenseptember
      @loreenseptember 3 года назад

      Thank you, I needed this !

    • @mongikazip
      @mongikazip 3 года назад +3

      @@ozemoyaaigbokhalia615 Clearly the lady didn't have self-esteem issues she's not the one who was insecure about not having money or dating a beautiful woman who gets attention from guys. She's not the one who pulled out a knife and said she want rearrange someone's face

  • @delrosario7453
    @delrosario7453 3 года назад +77

    They should have never been in a relationship where they kept arguing and didn't trust and respect each other

  • @samanthataylor1761
    @samanthataylor1761 3 года назад +65

    Sheee, that mum is so well spoken.

  • @lifewithqueenSolo
    @lifewithqueenSolo 3 года назад +142

    stunning work you did with this video. The quality is far better than our TV channels. May your journalism career flourish.

  • @michellemasehla1545
    @michellemasehla1545 3 года назад +18

    You will never understand if you haven't been in that situation. I believe this women in everyway. I've been in a situation where I could have been arrested too, but something in me just said am not that person ,if one has to die rather be me then me being the murderer. We women are not tough like men, dont care what you say Men will always be stronger than us.
    Red flags are there too, either you choose to ignore them or be madly inlove. All I can say never go back to a relationship that's toxic ,it will end badly Ladies.

    • @Kingkgosi1031
      @Kingkgosi1031 3 года назад +6

      Don't make an excuse for woman that killed a man, sisters! You walked away and she could have done the same.

    • @writingpad7142
      @writingpad7142 3 месяца назад

      @@Kingkgosi1031 But would she have walked away with her life?

  • @mmabathokoloi2518
    @mmabathokoloi2518 3 года назад +43

    My heart breaks every time I see comments saying they believe her. Heartbreaking, and I apologise to men who are being abused but they are called insecure, violet coz they are men... I truly apologize

    • @NoName-mm6gh
      @NoName-mm6gh 3 года назад +4

      Women have a right to be heard but believing what is being said are two different things.

    • @fogmist1946
      @fogmist1946 3 года назад +4

      Thank u my sister I hope u keep on being like this 🙏 and I also apologize for men who represent us in a bad light in ur life ! We as men get blamed for everything even when we are being killed so to hear someone say that especially a woman it means a lot

    • @Mo-qz8sf
      @Mo-qz8sf 3 года назад +3

      Aybo sisi just cause you see her guilty, should we do the same?

    • @nhloniphongcobo7909
      @nhloniphongcobo7909 3 года назад +2

      Seems most people her think women aren't capable of murder

    • @nontobekoncube8450
      @nontobekoncube8450 2 года назад

      Haibo you are entitled to your own opinion.

  • @thandolwethugama8818
    @thandolwethugama8818 3 года назад +14

    She’s beautiful, definitely intelligent and well spoken . I don’t know about the rest though

  • @mrsoshadabaadman
    @mrsoshadabaadman 3 года назад +33

    This broke my heart. I was a fan of Skwatta and met Flabba three times. I was so emotional when I saw the rest of the members after he passed.

  • @Queenofgoodnews
    @Queenofgoodnews 3 года назад +191

    I don’t know but somehow I believe her! It teaches us to walk away from insecure and abusive men

    • @Thandiz1
      @Thandiz1 3 года назад +6

      I also believe her for some reason.

    • @oratorbrands2185
      @oratorbrands2185 3 года назад +38

      because she is a woman that's the reason.

    • @shayedonsayotv9355
      @shayedonsayotv9355 3 года назад +9

      You are sick

    • @oratorbrands2185
      @oratorbrands2185 3 года назад +10

      @@shayedonsayotv9355 you are sicker

    • @godschild3905
      @godschild3905 3 года назад +38

      She killed him though .
      He may have had his own issues but homegirl is a murderer

  • @zee8353
    @zee8353 3 года назад +58

    The fact that she tried to commit suicide shows how unstable she was either from that relationship or past relationships walking away from an abusive relationship may not be easy but necessary.

  • @Agent-oo7iv
    @Agent-oo7iv 3 года назад +54

    She overpowered him!🤔 I mean, he seemed like a very large man for her

  • @Penny607
    @Penny607 3 года назад +129

    I hate how everything has to be a mans fault!!this has to stop if a woman is guilty then she is.

    • @hellenchoga9922
      @hellenchoga9922 3 года назад +4

      How she pushed the insecurity card .

    • @JaneDoe76664
      @JaneDoe76664 3 года назад

      I agree with You

    • @delrosario7453
      @delrosario7453 3 года назад +1

      She made a mistake to associate with him but she didn't deserve to die either, it was self defense

    • @nicoleharrington9086
      @nicoleharrington9086 3 года назад +1

      Right! SA society always see women as innocent.

    • @Winnerscircle2.0
      @Winnerscircle2.0 3 года назад +2

      @@delrosario7453 it was self defense 😭 Then why is she in prison? So the court is wrong

  • @sandilekhathide8324
    @sandilekhathide8324 3 года назад +47

    This is a clear cut crime of passion. I don't believe she intended to kill Flabba. She did however have every intention to hurt him which unfortunately resulted in Flabba's death. Would I then call it an accident? No.

    • @thabisilehlophe5243
      @thabisilehlophe5243 3 года назад +3

      Love it

    • @hihello7014
      @hihello7014 Год назад

      He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.

  • @siyabongachili94
    @siyabongachili94 3 года назад +41

    "Eeeeh ke Flabba..." rest in power boet

  • @ruuuruusamsr1891
    @ruuuruusamsr1891 3 года назад +122

    If only she went to Ireland and didn’t extend her stay, she would be far in life now ,

    • @thokozanimkhize7617
      @thokozanimkhize7617 3 года назад +6

      Yazi! This relationship was so not worth that opportunity!

    • @danchiengchiengi8581
      @danchiengchiengi8581 3 года назад +3

      Says the people who have never been abroad!

    • @perculiarwarmth462
      @perculiarwarmth462 3 года назад +10

      Lmao leaving abroad doesn't mean success, ask me...

    • @kinglissa2953
      @kinglissa2953 3 года назад +12

      @@perculiarwarmth462 and it also doesn’t mean failure. There are many people who moved abroad and are doing really well and they’re comfortable. She would have been in a better off position than in a SA prison.

    • @kinglissa2953
      @kinglissa2953 3 года назад +3

      @@danchiengchiengi8581 it’s not bad for everyone. Some are doing well. You just don’t see them bragging about it. Moving to any new country is hard.

  • @gillierob231
    @gillierob231 Год назад +7

    You have a sub. Found you today after I was doing research on AKA . I was researching Costa. Thanks for the info. I like how you don’t interject yourself into the reporting . Sad to see these young people dying. Keep up the good work Sister.🙏💕

  • @kanomorojele4956
    @kanomorojele4956 3 года назад +42

    I feel like there were wrongs done on both sides.. I do believe they fought and wrapped each other up.. I don think Flabba was 100% innocent when it came to abuse but murder-wise I don't think the stabbing was a mistake. You cant plunge a knife into someone chest so forcefully that you break a rib by mistake.. The force itself is an intent to do grievous harm. Her story was also all over the place..shes calling Self-defence and at the same time saying it was a Mistake. Sad thing is she can be telling Truth about the abuse.. but because Flabba was killed so violently the favour goes to Flabba. Its like someone trying to justify burning down your House because you.. burnt their clothes. Both Wrong but 1 is way worse.

    • @LocalEdits_v8j
      @LocalEdits_v8j Год назад

      Stabbing incidents are usually personal. They are emotionally charged, in a state of rage or panic you will do anything to defend your life.

  • @pearll.7876
    @pearll.7876 3 года назад +49

    RIP Flabba ❤️. Cute but Psycho played in my head throughout this video. This was a toxic relationship, two people who didn’t belong together. Nobody can undo what happened that night, unfortunately.
    Questions....1) 29 year old Married man with a 17 year old?
    2) How do three family members die in one year? (PreCOVID.)

    • @siyandamazibukoonlife3611
      @siyandamazibukoonlife3611 3 года назад +2

      May be an accident or something

    • @pearll.7876
      @pearll.7876 3 года назад +2

      @@siyandamazibukoonlife3611 how traumatic. My heart goes out to her though. We’ve all done something in the heat of the moment that we wish we could undo. Hers was just on a grander scale.

    • @ZEE-tt8oc
      @ZEE-tt8oc 3 года назад +4

      Exactly. That’s what I’ve been asking myself and again where did she get all the money for traveling. She claims Flabba was insecure about his financial status,I would like to think she’s the one who was . . .because she’s mentioning it too many a time.

    • @nicoleharrington9086
      @nicoleharrington9086 3 года назад

      Good question.

  • @elenafoleyfoley168
    @elenafoleyfoley168 3 года назад +8

    Such a sad story, God love Flabba and his Family 🙏😥🙏 Excellent coverage of this story 💯 Love and Light to all involved 🌹🌹🌹

  • @keneilwemotiang5075
    @keneilwemotiang5075 3 года назад +54

    I think the background story should tell us something about Sindi. She was somehow a broken person since she didnt have any immediate family alive.

    • @banelemnyaka3456
      @banelemnyaka3456 3 года назад +7

      So...??

    • @Millyletlape
      @Millyletlape 3 года назад +2

      Mxm

    • @kerotsemotale9762
      @kerotsemotale9762 3 года назад +12

      @@banelemnyaka3456 right. like... so? So a 29 year old MARRIED man dating a 17 year old is not a sign of being a 'broken man' just as much

    • @user-xx5hy7nj8o
      @user-xx5hy7nj8o 3 года назад +5

      I don’t have immediate family around. I’m not broken. So I doubt this was the case with them

    • @sharai73
      @sharai73 3 года назад +3

      @@user-xx5hy7nj8o same makes you stronger not broken

  • @Rayray20-e4z
    @Rayray20-e4z Год назад +5

    Its a sad situation and i pray that flabbas spirit is resting well. May all toxic situations be healed.

  • @olla4388
    @olla4388 3 года назад +25

    Young lady .. you deserve to have your own television segment!

  • @thullytyra3671
    @thullytyra3671 3 года назад +55

    She is been through a lot loosing mom, dad and 3 siblings 😭😭😭

    • @smm6526
      @smm6526 3 года назад +3

      She's not the first human being who has been through that, this bum, she looks pure evil...

    • @thullygee1657
      @thullygee1657 3 года назад +1

      Doesn't justify her killing the poor man

    • @sunnyntsanwisi6513
      @sunnyntsanwisi6513 2 месяца назад

      That doesn't give someone license to kill someone

  • @mpumesibiya8899
    @mpumesibiya8899 3 года назад +24

    To me it sounds like self defense! What can you do if a man is trying to kill you? If there were witnesses over there, she wouldn’t even go to jail. She would probably be on a probation and that would be it.

    • @hihello7014
      @hihello7014 Год назад

      He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.

  • @ramaanomuravha8575
    @ramaanomuravha8575 3 года назад +25

    Very detailed information, can explain why did her mother and siblings died in 2008?

    • @Majoyol
      @Majoyol Год назад

      Am also curious how do they all die at the same time?

  • @BaDazai
    @BaDazai 3 года назад +38

    Woah! She looks damn good for a person in prison. Damn sis, she glowed up well, even got a degree! At least she's still pursuing her goals despite being locked up! Some people go to prison and wallow away their time there!

  • @thedodoberd
    @thedodoberd 3 года назад +26

    I cant believe I had actually forgotten about this story. Yazi at the end of the day she is serving her time and we actually dont know what actually happened apart from the fact that flabba died. On a side note - is she really a granny okanye like an "adopted" granny? Thanx for the awesome video!

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  3 года назад

      Thanks for watching Andy!
      The granny part is NEWS to us all I'm sure its "adoptive" !!! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @sekoaib
      @sekoaib 3 года назад +3

      she probably had a child when she was young child, like 15 then that child had a child young as well, making her a granny

    • @kamogelokoloane7465
      @kamogelokoloane7465 3 года назад +12

      I think she calls herself a granny bcz her siblings had children and they have children of ther own. Remember shes the only 1 of her simblings still alive

  • @saffair1
    @saffair1 3 года назад +17

    Nice coverage and content , but kodwa mara am i the only who thinks lomama is involved and had played a part in the demise of her son , he was still married with a kid and yet lamama is busy calling side chicks and begging on behalf of her son while umakoti knows nothing and the side chick is way younger that him . Hayi labomamazala 😲nabo . None the less RIP Flabba . Its a sad story shame uSindisiwe lobumnyama obumlandelayo with all her family dead and she becomes a murderer on top of that mistake or not the sad fact is she died by her hands .

  • @ozemoyaaigbokhalia615
    @ozemoyaaigbokhalia615 3 года назад +14

    How a one time abused lady became an abuser. Her Spanish boyfriend was clingy n abusive and so she decided to take revenge on any man who tries to love her. Listen to the end and sense how confused and cold blooded she sound...

    • @Rj-liyolatha
      @Rj-liyolatha 3 года назад +2

      If he remain with first baby mama

  • @mrmkhosana6876
    @mrmkhosana6876 3 года назад +38

    She's clearly living her best life in prison 😏

    • @Millyletlape
      @Millyletlape 3 года назад +5

      Imagine while students are dying fighting for free education

  • @nikitajessen5812
    @nikitajessen5812 3 года назад +13

    Wow I didn't even know Flabba had passed away. May he RIP 🙏
    So glad I came across this channel living it already.

  • @TheAfroGoddess
    @TheAfroGoddess 3 года назад +11

    Muhle uSindiswa yoh! 😍

  • @ayandampolweni17
    @ayandampolweni17 3 года назад +14

    For some reason I believe her, I don't think she got a fair trial and the sentence doesn't fit the crime .Shout out to the plug-The SAA flight landing in Hong Kong 👌👌👌👌👌Sindi had such a bright future,I'm empathetic and I can relate.

  • @bhekisteenkamp7964
    @bhekisteenkamp7964 3 года назад +2

    I wish God could give all the women such strength 💪💪safa kubulawa madvodza kabuhlung

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe 3 года назад +54

    I like these doccie series posts

  • @antheaoneill9342
    @antheaoneill9342 3 года назад +3

    Great job... These videos ruined my whole Saturday... Cant stop watching.. Still in pjs😂

  • @Fallon_rogerz
    @Fallon_rogerz 3 года назад +26

    She looks so good for someone who’s in prison 😩

  • @noluthandomasondo8000
    @noluthandomasondo8000 3 года назад +27

    Um happy she carried on with her studies.

  • @lebogangmokwape33
    @lebogangmokwape33 3 года назад +28

    This relationship was way too toxic for me that's why everything ended up that way

    • @hihello7014
      @hihello7014 Год назад

      He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.

  • @diclick7063
    @diclick7063 3 года назад +12

    Be strong and forgive yourself for not taking the red flag seriously, God bless you. 🙏❤️

  • @thandazileluthuli4037
    @thandazileluthuli4037 3 года назад +64

    We really are a sick society, so a man gets killed and he's blamed for it, wow. The fact remains this girl killed Flabba

    • @PhetoloP
      @PhetoloP 3 года назад +10

      @Thandazile Luthuli unfortunately that’s just how things are. I’ve already accepted and made peace with this mindset society has.
      Growing up I was surrounded by a lot of women (some have faced the most evil experiences you can imagine) and naturally I wanted to take my role as a man and strive to save/help as many women as I can in whatever way I can.
      Now I’m older and I’ve seen one of my best friends commit suicide because of a false rape accusation, my cousin went through a divorce after finding out that 2 out of 3 of his children aren’t his and his ex wife is accusing him of physical abuse but I know very well that my guy doesn’t even have the will power to slap a dog.
      I’ve lost the desire to believe anyone now, hopefully god changes my mindset but until then ai.

    • @ZEE-tt8oc
      @ZEE-tt8oc 3 года назад

      And her family

    • @thandazileluthuli4037
      @thandazileluthuli4037 3 года назад

      @@ZEE-tt8oc what do you mean

    • @thandazileluthuli4037
      @thandazileluthuli4037 3 года назад +5

      @@PhetoloP women can be cruel and heartless. Please be careful

    • @swavy.gino1
      @swavy.gino1 3 года назад

      Crazy huh!

  • @ZEE-tt8oc
    @ZEE-tt8oc 3 года назад +17

    Thank you for the True Crime channel that I relate to. I usually watch the US,UK and Australia ones.🙏🏿

  • @kerotsemotale9762
    @kerotsemotale9762 3 года назад +8

    only in SA where a women who defends herself ends up jailed for it. and when men kill us they get to walk free.
    but hey, i guess we will never really know what happened in that one room. RIP Flabba, really is a tragedy. And proud of you SIndi for rising from your wrong-doings.

  • @NalediGoldinah
    @NalediGoldinah 2 месяца назад +1

    May Flabba's soul rest in peace.
    I love that Sindisiwe is rebuilding her life and acknowledging her wrongs.

  • @PhetoloP
    @PhetoloP 3 года назад +42

    Man kills woman: jail for a life-time, castrate him, let’s riot and hold men accountable #MeToo let’s goo Queens
    Woman kills man: I’m sorry for what you had to go through Queen, it’s most probably his fault for being in killing range, God gives second chances don’t worry gal
    Honestly I’m not even mad at this anymore, I’ve already accepted that being a male in today’s society is a disadvantage on its own. Just protect yourselves both men and women.

    • @gracelouis198
      @gracelouis198 3 года назад

      🙏

    • @kgabomolele3346
      @kgabomolele3346 3 года назад +4

      Yeah it's very unfair which is why I don't identify as a feminist but also I think men right now are suffering the from the decisions that our forefathers made, so just a thought I think you should look into, if men headed the world right there would no need to demonize them the way people do today it's sad but it's a reality that needs to be looked deeper so that we embrace male and female roles again

    • @twane881
      @twane881 3 года назад +4

      Amen! Women seek equality, yet it seems like they dont want the same equality when it comes to prison time.

    • @anitariphnus4181
      @anitariphnus4181 3 года назад +1

      I was thinking the same

    • @nontobekoncube8450
      @nontobekoncube8450 2 года назад

      Then advocate for men. Most women have experienced ill treatment from men so it's not unbelievable when we see cases like these. The same way you crucify all of us when you had one bad experience with a woman is exactly what's going on here. Lots of things have to change. Women & men need to stop fighting. Fight the ill treatment and not the sex of the man. We can't advocate for someone just because he is a man ir she is a woman.

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude 3 года назад +348

    He was 29 and she was 17 . That , that is where the problem started. That’s the case your honour.

    • @benedictsiphelele1055
      @benedictsiphelele1055 3 года назад +12

      Murder justification?

    • @rockazpalace3947
      @rockazpalace3947 3 года назад +19

      bullshit my gf was 17 she was more abusive ...i was 26

    • @KayNaude
      @KayNaude 3 года назад +23

      @@benedictsiphelele1055 I spoke about their ages when they first met, not about the murder. You want my opinion on that? She was rightfully punished for her crime.

    • @KayNaude
      @KayNaude 3 года назад +91

      @@rockazpalace3947 first of all, what is a 26 year old doing with a girl who’s barely out of puberty?

    • @rockazpalace3947
      @rockazpalace3947 3 года назад +8

      @@KayNaude non of your bussiness u will never understand..her mother was an alcoholic she never cared for her..she refuse to continue in school..i cared u will will never understand me only God

  • @babymajor9518
    @babymajor9518 3 года назад +12

    Women are only defending her because she’s pretty. Pretty privilege is real. If she wasn’t good looking I’m sure most of these comments would be different.

  • @portianhlapo3023
    @portianhlapo3023 3 года назад +7

    Where did she get the knife from? From him. So I believe her. Wish her all the best

  • @tinad721
    @tinad721 3 года назад +24

    She is so stuck up. It is all about her. No remorse at all.

  • @vimbaimangwiza5343
    @vimbaimangwiza5343 3 года назад +14

    Wow, I'm new to the channel and great coverage of the story. Well done guys.

    • @milaniinalim3357
      @milaniinalim3357 3 года назад +1

      Welcome, you’ll love it here ❤️

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  3 года назад +1

      Welcome Vimbai!!! ❤❤❤
      Thank you Milani 😭❤🙏🏽 I appreciate you guys!

  • @gundomatumba191
    @gundomatumba191 Год назад +3

    Her beauty hid a calculating monster. RIP Flabba 🕊️💔

  • @thandomabizela860
    @thandomabizela860 3 года назад +4

    I actually appreciate this channel ! 🌸

  • @rojamillerover
    @rojamillerover 3 года назад +20

    Where is she getting the weave and make up in prison?

  • @GwenMats
    @GwenMats Год назад +5

    I came across this episode when i wanted to hear this story again wanting to understand what drives a person to stab another person to death. The same thing happened to my cousin this morning, it's still fresh but would appreciate if you follow the matter and case so we get justice for him. He was not a celebrity, it might not trend but someone needs to make noise about it.

  • @dumimaphumulo5064
    @dumimaphumulo5064 3 года назад +3

    Guys people change in other relationships we can not judge her as it may have really happened . I have been into an abused relationship sometimes you just want to escape from that person so anything may happen that you may not even remember the human mind at times is so strong and unbelievable that a woman can take down 4 or more man coz of wanting to escape. I may be wrong yet I believe her man can be very cruel

  • @thatobadela418
    @thatobadela418 3 года назад +8

    Sad every one makes mistakes and we all deserve forgiveness, Just hope flabber's family also find peace ✌️

  • @simphiwemahlangu4300
    @simphiwemahlangu4300 3 года назад +9

    The fact that people can go to jail, get three meals per day, toilet, clothes, showers, and even get degrees....eh haiii, sounds like paradise 😂💔Why not take all these state resources and buy school kids uniform, feed kids from disadvantaged backgrounds

    • @headhonchotheone9041
      @headhonchotheone9041 2 года назад

      That time shes a psychopath who is capable of killing again .

  • @pulengmokoena4625
    @pulengmokoena4625 3 года назад +8

    That one time you are like fuck this I am tired let me fight back such happens 😔

  • @michaelsomahashi2020
    @michaelsomahashi2020 3 года назад +6

    Rest in peace flabba hader to be part of ritual

  • @allswellgcwensa9925
    @allswellgcwensa9925 3 года назад +4

    Maybe his death was a mistake seriously after watching this I meant he followed her she ran away he got his mother involved by getting her back she wanted to leave he stopped her there was a nife somehow which doesn’t belong to her which means it belonged to flaba

  • @quincykiptoo712
    @quincykiptoo712 3 года назад +3

    I love it. African Crime stories.

  • @mthunzimhlongo660
    @mthunzimhlongo660 3 года назад +5

    FLABBA HAD 10000 FLOWS NOBODY COULD BEAT HIM IN THAT

  • @Kalo2511
    @Kalo2511 2 года назад +7

    How did she afford all those flights? And studies? Share your secret ma'am!

    • @YY6301
      @YY6301 Год назад +2

      I’ve been wondering the same!!!

    • @beyond_9-5_dreams
      @beyond_9-5_dreams Год назад +3

      Remember all her immediate family members passed on so it may have been money from the life insurance payouts

  • @mongikazip
    @mongikazip 3 года назад +10

    So she basically went to jail for self-defense? We live in a crazy world

    • @lindokuhle80
      @lindokuhle80 3 года назад +1

      Damn! Crazy right

    • @KashTau
      @KashTau 2 года назад

      She’s a murderer. She was innocent and proven guilty

    • @nsovograce-c2o
      @nsovograce-c2o 8 дней назад

      No, the court didn’t accept her version that it was self defence due to the force in which he was stabbed

  • @stephanienamboa7195
    @stephanienamboa7195 3 года назад +5

    I love your story telling skills keep it up ❤️

  • @ThandsTV
    @ThandsTV 3 года назад +41

    Why would a 29 year old want to be in a relationship with a 17 year old? That is a red flag right there.

    • @charmainekgomotsomokwana5625
      @charmainekgomotsomokwana5625 3 года назад +1

      Red flag

    • @ronn3988
      @ronn3988 Год назад +2

      Because its normal.its been happening since the beginning of time and will happen until the end.plus its all about youth and viability

    • @Impossibly_gorgeous
      @Impossibly_gorgeous Год назад

      He got exactly what he was looking for. Dirty paedo

    • @kirkpatrick7475
      @kirkpatrick7475 Год назад

      ​@@charmainekgomotsomokwana5625
      She's above the age of consent, there is ZERO red flags

    • @kirkpatrick7475
      @kirkpatrick7475 Год назад

      ​@@charmainekgomotsomokwana5625en values beauty and youth, she was above the age of consent, he did nothing wrong

  • @luciensylvester5534
    @luciensylvester5534 3 года назад +4

    Wow.. I was hoping to find a Channel for OUR crime stories.. eish.. thanks love..

  • @neomalapane983
    @neomalapane983 3 года назад +3

    Guys domestic violence is really bad. We need to treat women better....

    • @viwenamntu1335
      @viwenamntu1335 3 года назад

      Flabba was not a violent person .....even his ex wife of 20year's say so. . I don't believe this version of story. This lady is just a psycho

  • @weightlossjourneywithtebog6801
    @weightlossjourneywithtebog6801 3 года назад +3

    I like the way you say Dublin 😄...typical Irish accent

  • @lumkajacobs7724
    @lumkajacobs7724 3 года назад +6

    No guys no I believe her .poor girl man

  • @wongesisslake934
    @wongesisslake934 Год назад

    really appreciate your content, we were young when all this happened and we didnt really understand.. keep up the good work

  • @yollandahmagubane3938
    @yollandahmagubane3938 3 года назад +8

    Wow... She should have stayed in Ireland Republic . It's so sad how her life has to be like that, she would have managed to persue her dreams or goals.. Now the consequences, the family loss of their bread winner.. l am not judging but that could have been avoided..

    • @elsiemarian2074
      @elsiemarian2074 3 года назад +1

      And she's the one who rekindled the relationship with the so called cheater🙄🙄

  • @thandomvimbi1558
    @thandomvimbi1558 3 года назад +2

    Sindi stalled her life with this incident

  • @wendy7915
    @wendy7915 3 года назад +4

    Love her energy.
    All the best to her.

    • @bonniemanana8858
      @bonniemanana8858 3 года назад +1

      Really hate what happened but have to say I admire her courage.

  • @sibusisomagagula3633
    @sibusisomagagula3633 3 года назад +3

    A commission of inquiry to investigate how did she remain the only member of her family?

  • @mwashumaNM
    @mwashumaNM 3 года назад +9

    We have to go to prison first to get tertiary degrees because out here they are expensive uhm

  • @Mimz123
    @Mimz123 Год назад

    Pls condifer doing updates to stories, like what happened when she came out... I enjoy yor channel and content very much, keep up the great work sis! 🎉❤

  • @milaniinalim3357
    @milaniinalim3357 3 года назад +11

    I remember this story very vividly!

  • @nolufefezukelwa8700
    @nolufefezukelwa8700 3 года назад +38

    I believed Sindi, i still believe that she stabbed him by mistake

    • @swavy.gino1
      @swavy.gino1 3 года назад +4

      Nah

    • @prichardgumpo1604
      @prichardgumpo1604 3 года назад +6

      Of course we believe everything women say today

    • @swavy.gino1
      @swavy.gino1 3 года назад +5

      @@prichardgumpo1604 wasn't no mistake tho could have stabbed him in the arm or something but in the chest you know what you are trying to do right?

  • @kelvinnzuza3892
    @kelvinnzuza3892 3 года назад +6

    I've been watching your Videos up until now I found one where the woman is a Killer.
    Starting with the heading It's not like a life was lost. It's more about the murders career. I would love if this story is presented as a murder story where a girl will grow up without a father.
    Please work on the title too.
    Also try to find out if physically the Murderer could overpower Flabba.

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  3 года назад +3

      Hi Kelvin! Thank you so much for your feedback. I highly appreciate it and will definitely work on your grieveances. Please suggest more cases I can do with female perpoatrators.... i have another one coming up in about a week. Currently only have this and zintle unfortunately. I will do better. In terms of thumbnail titles...youtube flags the video if I put works like murder or kill on the thumbnail😔...but I will try make them better too. Thank you again for watching. I appreciate the feedback.

    • @fennyshapwanale
      @fennyshapwanale 3 года назад +1

      @@theplug_truecrime you take criticism very well and that will help you flourish your art 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @viwenamntu1335
      @viwenamntu1335 3 года назад +1

      There was a lot of biased in this video

  • @nyikonkuna8964
    @nyikonkuna8964 15 дней назад

    These toxic relationships never end well...don't know why people can't just break up

  •  3 года назад +3

    Obsessed with your channel ❤️

  • @mpumilanga2409
    @mpumilanga2409 3 года назад

    I love these videos at the same time I don't wanna see them because of what has happened to them. And you content will never run out because of the things that happen in this country 😭😭😭

  • @nuraweyteh3164
    @nuraweyteh3164 3 года назад +2

    This is a case of a gold digger finding none... she met the rapper and wasnt happy he was married.
    she met a spanish tourist and left for europe but left him because he was abusive, she then moved to Dublin to pursue her education but somehow contacted the ex rapper and got back with him even though he was not faithful in relationship according to her yet she continued to stay in the supposed abusive relationship.
    Anyway her 12 years sentence was a joke

  • @koketsophalane3915
    @koketsophalane3915 3 года назад +8

    We will never really know what happened that day but onething for sure is that.. Sometimes people think the outside of a person is a representation of the inner person.. Rich, poor, famous people are fighting demons.. And also "not being a violent person" does not mean one cannot be toxic or emotionally abusive.. Broken people get a thrill out of toxic relationships.. The fighting, jealousy, constant calling, obsession all mean love to people who never got an ounce of authentic, real love.

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe 3 года назад +24

    Damn she’s the only remaining one💀💀💀

    • @michiganplaits6678
      @michiganplaits6678 3 года назад +5

      I know right 😱💔

    • @lesegoyv
      @lesegoyv 3 года назад +15

      The trauma of being the only living in the family and killing a person by mistake. Eish. She was going through the most

    • @michiganplaits6678
      @michiganplaits6678 3 года назад +5

      @@lesegoyv and the fact that she tries to commit suicide and she failed...

    • @bonniemanana8858
      @bonniemanana8858 3 года назад +1

      Sad hey 💔

  • @positivevibesonly3095
    @positivevibesonly3095 3 года назад +1

    She needed time to heal period! Moving away was not gonna make pain disappear

  • @simphiwemkhaba8530
    @simphiwemkhaba8530 3 года назад +12

    You are doing a really good job,your doccies are very informative.however my concern is you seem to tell the stories on the females perspective whether victim or perpetrator is this done intentional?

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  3 года назад +14

      Thank you for watching Simphiwe!😊❤ I Completely get what you are saying...i will definately do better.In most of these cases I'm led by the information available to the public...eg, in this case unfortunately Flabba isnt here to tell his version. There is only Sindi's...even though the court rejected her version...there is really no other person to tell us what really happened. We can only speculate.

    • @simphiwemkhaba8530
      @simphiwemkhaba8530 3 года назад +3

      @@theplug_truecrime I appreciate your response and being candid

  • @phelokazisibiya8587
    @phelokazisibiya8587 3 года назад +36

    I dont beieve SINDISIWE 'S VERSION🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @sekoaib
      @sekoaib 3 года назад +1

      me too, we've heard stories from his friends and girlfriend that Flabba was not a violent person. Only God knows

    • @zodwavanyaza3838
      @zodwavanyaza3838 3 года назад +2

      Sindisiwe is a psycho tht turned Flabba's life up side down until he died

    • @sekoaib
      @sekoaib 3 года назад

      @@zodwavanyaza3838 she only has to tell the truth of what so the family an be at peace

    • @trutru720
      @trutru720 3 года назад +4

      Me neither and I'm a woman. How did she manage to wrestle the knife from him without cutting herself us what I want to know. Also what right did she have to be upset that he flirted when she was the side chick in his marriage to the beautiful Mpho. Such double standards.

  • @FeistyGES
    @FeistyGES 3 года назад +3

    What a narcissist? No remorse whatsoever!!!

  • @luckytshabangu9013
    @luckytshabangu9013 3 года назад +5

    But in the another hand guys, please stop women and child abuse, please!!!

    • @benedictsiphelele1055
      @benedictsiphelele1055 3 года назад

      Kahle Steve Harvey 🚮

    • @nontobekoncube8450
      @nontobekoncube8450 2 года назад

      @lucky Thank you Lucky🙏 I'm even scared to date now after I got beaten in my first and last relationship.

  • @frankytalks7941
    @frankytalks7941 3 года назад +17

    This is so sad, crimes are committed by men in SA daily but what sounds like a case of self-defense landed her in Jail, double standards, she had no criminal case prior.

    • @kamogelokoloane7465
      @kamogelokoloane7465 3 года назад +1

      Well the judge didnt blv her version...and theres a reason why. Some of the things she said dnt mke sense to me either

  • @rojamillerover
    @rojamillerover 3 года назад +2

    Can you cover Precious Ramabulana story please

  • @sandrasrose9715
    @sandrasrose9715 2 года назад

    Sad story sad on Flabba’s side cause he felt disrespected ,made less of a man and eventually lost his life….also Sad for Sindi because she was so young and it all ended like that for her😢

    • @beyond_9-5_dreams
      @beyond_9-5_dreams Год назад

      No it did not. Watch her interview with MacG. She's out on parole and is an intern at a law firm

  • @mongidube
    @mongidube 3 года назад +23

    We all make mistakes every single person does.

    • @lunsas
      @lunsas 3 года назад

      Absolutely

    • @mmabathokoloi2518
      @mmabathokoloi2518 3 года назад +2

      But would you say the same thing if it was the other way round???