I think it's easy to blame the girl... But it sounds like a lot happened there! We can vouch for Flabba cuz Vele we've known him for years... But the chick really went thru hell ... 💔
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
@@ozemoyaaigbokhalia615 Clearly the lady didn't have self-esteem issues she's not the one who was insecure about not having money or dating a beautiful woman who gets attention from guys. She's not the one who pulled out a knife and said she want rearrange someone's face
You will never understand if you haven't been in that situation. I believe this women in everyway. I've been in a situation where I could have been arrested too, but something in me just said am not that person ,if one has to die rather be me then me being the murderer. We women are not tough like men, dont care what you say Men will always be stronger than us. Red flags are there too, either you choose to ignore them or be madly inlove. All I can say never go back to a relationship that's toxic ,it will end badly Ladies. ❤
My heart breaks every time I see comments saying they believe her. Heartbreaking, and I apologise to men who are being abused but they are called insecure, violet coz they are men... I truly apologize
Thank u my sister I hope u keep on being like this 🙏 and I also apologize for men who represent us in a bad light in ur life ! We as men get blamed for everything even when we are being killed so to hear someone say that especially a woman it means a lot
The fact that she tried to commit suicide shows how unstable she was either from that relationship or past relationships walking away from an abusive relationship may not be easy but necessary.
This is a clear cut crime of passion. I don't believe she intended to kill Flabba. She did however have every intention to hurt him which unfortunately resulted in Flabba's death. Would I then call it an accident? No.
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
@@perculiarwarmth462 and it also doesn’t mean failure. There are many people who moved abroad and are doing really well and they’re comfortable. She would have been in a better off position than in a SA prison.
You have a sub. Found you today after I was doing research on AKA . I was researching Costa. Thanks for the info. I like how you don’t interject yourself into the reporting . Sad to see these young people dying. Keep up the good work Sister.🙏💕
I feel like there were wrongs done on both sides.. I do believe they fought and wrapped each other up.. I don think Flabba was 100% innocent when it came to abuse but murder-wise I don't think the stabbing was a mistake. You cant plunge a knife into someone chest so forcefully that you break a rib by mistake.. The force itself is an intent to do grievous harm. Her story was also all over the place..shes calling Self-defence and at the same time saying it was a Mistake. Sad thing is she can be telling Truth about the abuse.. but because Flabba was killed so violently the favour goes to Flabba. Its like someone trying to justify burning down your House because you.. burnt their clothes. Both Wrong but 1 is way worse.
RIP Flabba ❤️. Cute but Psycho played in my head throughout this video. This was a toxic relationship, two people who didn’t belong together. Nobody can undo what happened that night, unfortunately. Questions....1) 29 year old Married man with a 17 year old? 2) How do three family members die in one year? (PreCOVID.)
@@siyandamazibukoonlife3611 how traumatic. My heart goes out to her though. We’ve all done something in the heat of the moment that we wish we could undo. Hers was just on a grander scale.
Exactly. That’s what I’ve been asking myself and again where did she get all the money for traveling. She claims Flabba was insecure about his financial status,I would like to think she’s the one who was . . .because she’s mentioning it too many a time.
To me it sounds like self defense! What can you do if a man is trying to kill you? If there were witnesses over there, she wouldn’t even go to jail. She would probably be on a probation and that would be it.
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
Woah! She looks damn good for a person in prison. Damn sis, she glowed up well, even got a degree! At least she's still pursuing her goals despite being locked up! Some people go to prison and wallow away their time there!
I cant believe I had actually forgotten about this story. Yazi at the end of the day she is serving her time and we actually dont know what actually happened apart from the fact that flabba died. On a side note - is she really a granny okanye like an "adopted" granny? Thanx for the awesome video!
I think she calls herself a granny bcz her siblings had children and they have children of ther own. Remember shes the only 1 of her simblings still alive
Nice coverage and content , but kodwa mara am i the only who thinks lomama is involved and had played a part in the demise of her son , he was still married with a kid and yet lamama is busy calling side chicks and begging on behalf of her son while umakoti knows nothing and the side chick is way younger that him . Hayi labomamazala 😲nabo . None the less RIP Flabba . Its a sad story shame uSindisiwe lobumnyama obumlandelayo with all her family dead and she becomes a murderer on top of that mistake or not the sad fact is she died by her hands .
How a one time abused lady became an abuser. Her Spanish boyfriend was clingy n abusive and so she decided to take revenge on any man who tries to love her. Listen to the end and sense how confused and cold blooded she sound...
For some reason I believe her, I don't think she got a fair trial and the sentence doesn't fit the crime .Shout out to the plug-The SAA flight landing in Hong Kong 👌👌👌👌👌Sindi had such a bright future,I'm empathetic and I can relate.
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
@Thandazile Luthuli unfortunately that’s just how things are. I’ve already accepted and made peace with this mindset society has. Growing up I was surrounded by a lot of women (some have faced the most evil experiences you can imagine) and naturally I wanted to take my role as a man and strive to save/help as many women as I can in whatever way I can. Now I’m older and I’ve seen one of my best friends commit suicide because of a false rape accusation, my cousin went through a divorce after finding out that 2 out of 3 of his children aren’t his and his ex wife is accusing him of physical abuse but I know very well that my guy doesn’t even have the will power to slap a dog. I’ve lost the desire to believe anyone now, hopefully god changes my mindset but until then ai.
only in SA where a women who defends herself ends up jailed for it. and when men kill us they get to walk free. but hey, i guess we will never really know what happened in that one room. RIP Flabba, really is a tragedy. And proud of you SIndi for rising from your wrong-doings.
Man kills woman: jail for a life-time, castrate him, let’s riot and hold men accountable #MeToo let’s goo Queens Woman kills man: I’m sorry for what you had to go through Queen, it’s most probably his fault for being in killing range, God gives second chances don’t worry gal Honestly I’m not even mad at this anymore, I’ve already accepted that being a male in today’s society is a disadvantage on its own. Just protect yourselves both men and women.
Yeah it's very unfair which is why I don't identify as a feminist but also I think men right now are suffering the from the decisions that our forefathers made, so just a thought I think you should look into, if men headed the world right there would no need to demonize them the way people do today it's sad but it's a reality that needs to be looked deeper so that we embrace male and female roles again
Then advocate for men. Most women have experienced ill treatment from men so it's not unbelievable when we see cases like these. The same way you crucify all of us when you had one bad experience with a woman is exactly what's going on here. Lots of things have to change. Women & men need to stop fighting. Fight the ill treatment and not the sex of the man. We can't advocate for someone just because he is a man ir she is a woman.
@@benedictsiphelele1055 I spoke about their ages when they first met, not about the murder. You want my opinion on that? She was rightfully punished for her crime.
@@KayNaude non of your bussiness u will never understand..her mother was an alcoholic she never cared for her..she refuse to continue in school..i cared u will will never understand me only God
Women are only defending her because she’s pretty. Pretty privilege is real. If she wasn’t good looking I’m sure most of these comments would be different.
I came across this episode when i wanted to hear this story again wanting to understand what drives a person to stab another person to death. The same thing happened to my cousin this morning, it's still fresh but would appreciate if you follow the matter and case so we get justice for him. He was not a celebrity, it might not trend but someone needs to make noise about it.
Guys people change in other relationships we can not judge her as it may have really happened . I have been into an abused relationship sometimes you just want to escape from that person so anything may happen that you may not even remember the human mind at times is so strong and unbelievable that a woman can take down 4 or more man coz of wanting to escape. I may be wrong yet I believe her man can be very cruel
The fact that people can go to jail, get three meals per day, toilet, clothes, showers, and even get degrees....eh haiii, sounds like paradise 😂💔Why not take all these state resources and buy school kids uniform, feed kids from disadvantaged backgrounds
Maybe his death was a mistake seriously after watching this I meant he followed her she ran away he got his mother involved by getting her back she wanted to leave he stopped her there was a nife somehow which doesn’t belong to her which means it belonged to flaba
Wow... She should have stayed in Ireland Republic . It's so sad how her life has to be like that, she would have managed to persue her dreams or goals.. Now the consequences, the family loss of their bread winner.. l am not judging but that could have been avoided..
Pls condifer doing updates to stories, like what happened when she came out... I enjoy yor channel and content very much, keep up the great work sis! 🎉❤
I've been watching your Videos up until now I found one where the woman is a Killer. Starting with the heading It's not like a life was lost. It's more about the murders career. I would love if this story is presented as a murder story where a girl will grow up without a father. Please work on the title too. Also try to find out if physically the Murderer could overpower Flabba.
Hi Kelvin! Thank you so much for your feedback. I highly appreciate it and will definitely work on your grieveances. Please suggest more cases I can do with female perpoatrators.... i have another one coming up in about a week. Currently only have this and zintle unfortunately. I will do better. In terms of thumbnail titles...youtube flags the video if I put works like murder or kill on the thumbnail😔...but I will try make them better too. Thank you again for watching. I appreciate the feedback.
I love these videos at the same time I don't wanna see them because of what has happened to them. And you content will never run out because of the things that happen in this country 😭😭😭
This is a case of a gold digger finding none... she met the rapper and wasnt happy he was married. she met a spanish tourist and left for europe but left him because he was abusive, she then moved to Dublin to pursue her education but somehow contacted the ex rapper and got back with him even though he was not faithful in relationship according to her yet she continued to stay in the supposed abusive relationship. Anyway her 12 years sentence was a joke
We will never really know what happened that day but onething for sure is that.. Sometimes people think the outside of a person is a representation of the inner person.. Rich, poor, famous people are fighting demons.. And also "not being a violent person" does not mean one cannot be toxic or emotionally abusive.. Broken people get a thrill out of toxic relationships.. The fighting, jealousy, constant calling, obsession all mean love to people who never got an ounce of authentic, real love.
You are doing a really good job,your doccies are very informative.however my concern is you seem to tell the stories on the females perspective whether victim or perpetrator is this done intentional?
Thank you for watching Simphiwe!😊❤ I Completely get what you are saying...i will definately do better.In most of these cases I'm led by the information available to the public...eg, in this case unfortunately Flabba isnt here to tell his version. There is only Sindi's...even though the court rejected her version...there is really no other person to tell us what really happened. We can only speculate.
Me neither and I'm a woman. How did she manage to wrestle the knife from him without cutting herself us what I want to know. Also what right did she have to be upset that he flirted when she was the side chick in his marriage to the beautiful Mpho. Such double standards.
This is so sad, crimes are committed by men in SA daily but what sounds like a case of self-defense landed her in Jail, double standards, she had no criminal case prior.
Sad story sad on Flabba’s side cause he felt disrespected ,made less of a man and eventually lost his life….also Sad for Sindi because she was so young and it all ended like that for her😢
girl i love your show. finally african crime stories. DSTV should call you for these haibo
Thank you Rue! Appreciate this babe!😊😂❤
Agreed
The best crime show by an African I’ve ever came across 🔥🙏🏾
I think it's easy to blame the girl...
But it sounds like a lot happened there! We can vouch for Flabba cuz Vele we've known him for years... But the chick really went thru hell ... 💔
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
Why do women who have their whole beautiful lives ahead of them get mixed up in toxic relationships and not just leave!
Only in SA do the paramedics show up 2hrs later & tell you to stop trying to save the person cause it's too late...
Atleast in South Africa they even show up, in Zimbabwea they don’t
@@buhlenkosi3840 Lol Malawi they'll tell you to go pick them up after reporting a hijacking🤦🏾♀️
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
@@traceydumase hilarious 🤣
Great job! Bingewatching all your videos from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪! Awesome job!
I thought you said "bewitching all your videos from kenya" I thought haibo Kenya!?!?! Mara why????🤣🤣🤣🤣
🇰🇪 💖 💖
Stop dating people who have low self-esteem issues
word!!!
Period!!!! The moment someone starts emotionally blackmailing you it's time to go.
I want to assume you are talking about the lady
Thank you, I needed this !
@@ozemoyaaigbokhalia615 Clearly the lady didn't have self-esteem issues she's not the one who was insecure about not having money or dating a beautiful woman who gets attention from guys. She's not the one who pulled out a knife and said she want rearrange someone's face
They should have never been in a relationship where they kept arguing and didn't trust and respect each other
Sheee, that mum is so well spoken.
stunning work you did with this video. The quality is far better than our TV channels. May your journalism career flourish.
Thank you so much! Appreciate you watching!❤
Agreed
Thank you Fatima!!!❤
Indeed
You will never understand if you haven't been in that situation. I believe this women in everyway. I've been in a situation where I could have been arrested too, but something in me just said am not that person ,if one has to die rather be me then me being the murderer. We women are not tough like men, dont care what you say Men will always be stronger than us.
Red flags are there too, either you choose to ignore them or be madly inlove. All I can say never go back to a relationship that's toxic ,it will end badly Ladies.
❤
Don't make an excuse for woman that killed a man, sisters! You walked away and she could have done the same.
@@Kingkgosi1031 But would she have walked away with her life?
My heart breaks every time I see comments saying they believe her. Heartbreaking, and I apologise to men who are being abused but they are called insecure, violet coz they are men... I truly apologize
Women have a right to be heard but believing what is being said are two different things.
Thank u my sister I hope u keep on being like this 🙏 and I also apologize for men who represent us in a bad light in ur life ! We as men get blamed for everything even when we are being killed so to hear someone say that especially a woman it means a lot
Aybo sisi just cause you see her guilty, should we do the same?
Seems most people her think women aren't capable of murder
Haibo you are entitled to your own opinion.
She’s beautiful, definitely intelligent and well spoken . I don’t know about the rest though
This broke my heart. I was a fan of Skwatta and met Flabba three times. I was so emotional when I saw the rest of the members after he passed.
I don’t know but somehow I believe her! It teaches us to walk away from insecure and abusive men
I also believe her for some reason.
because she is a woman that's the reason.
You are sick
@@shayedonsayotv9355 you are sicker
She killed him though .
He may have had his own issues but homegirl is a murderer
The fact that she tried to commit suicide shows how unstable she was either from that relationship or past relationships walking away from an abusive relationship may not be easy but necessary.
She overpowered him!🤔 I mean, he seemed like a very large man for her
Dynamite comes in small packages
Well I did do a little 🤔
The way you pronounce Dublin yhooo Very wrong dublun yhoooo hayi
straight bullshit
I hate how everything has to be a mans fault!!this has to stop if a woman is guilty then she is.
How she pushed the insecurity card .
I agree with You
She made a mistake to associate with him but she didn't deserve to die either, it was self defense
Right! SA society always see women as innocent.
@@delrosario7453 it was self defense 😭 Then why is she in prison? So the court is wrong
This is a clear cut crime of passion. I don't believe she intended to kill Flabba. She did however have every intention to hurt him which unfortunately resulted in Flabba's death. Would I then call it an accident? No.
Love it
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
"Eeeeh ke Flabba..." rest in power boet
If only she went to Ireland and didn’t extend her stay, she would be far in life now ,
Yazi! This relationship was so not worth that opportunity!
Says the people who have never been abroad!
Lmao leaving abroad doesn't mean success, ask me...
@@perculiarwarmth462 and it also doesn’t mean failure. There are many people who moved abroad and are doing really well and they’re comfortable. She would have been in a better off position than in a SA prison.
@@danchiengchiengi8581 it’s not bad for everyone. Some are doing well. You just don’t see them bragging about it. Moving to any new country is hard.
You have a sub. Found you today after I was doing research on AKA . I was researching Costa. Thanks for the info. I like how you don’t interject yourself into the reporting . Sad to see these young people dying. Keep up the good work Sister.🙏💕
❤️🙏
I feel like there were wrongs done on both sides.. I do believe they fought and wrapped each other up.. I don think Flabba was 100% innocent when it came to abuse but murder-wise I don't think the stabbing was a mistake. You cant plunge a knife into someone chest so forcefully that you break a rib by mistake.. The force itself is an intent to do grievous harm. Her story was also all over the place..shes calling Self-defence and at the same time saying it was a Mistake. Sad thing is she can be telling Truth about the abuse.. but because Flabba was killed so violently the favour goes to Flabba. Its like someone trying to justify burning down your House because you.. burnt their clothes. Both Wrong but 1 is way worse.
Stabbing incidents are usually personal. They are emotionally charged, in a state of rage or panic you will do anything to defend your life.
RIP Flabba ❤️. Cute but Psycho played in my head throughout this video. This was a toxic relationship, two people who didn’t belong together. Nobody can undo what happened that night, unfortunately.
Questions....1) 29 year old Married man with a 17 year old?
2) How do three family members die in one year? (PreCOVID.)
May be an accident or something
@@siyandamazibukoonlife3611 how traumatic. My heart goes out to her though. We’ve all done something in the heat of the moment that we wish we could undo. Hers was just on a grander scale.
Exactly. That’s what I’ve been asking myself and again where did she get all the money for traveling. She claims Flabba was insecure about his financial status,I would like to think she’s the one who was . . .because she’s mentioning it too many a time.
Good question.
Such a sad story, God love Flabba and his Family 🙏😥🙏 Excellent coverage of this story 💯 Love and Light to all involved 🌹🌹🌹
I think the background story should tell us something about Sindi. She was somehow a broken person since she didnt have any immediate family alive.
So...??
Mxm
@@banelemnyaka3456 right. like... so? So a 29 year old MARRIED man dating a 17 year old is not a sign of being a 'broken man' just as much
I don’t have immediate family around. I’m not broken. So I doubt this was the case with them
@@user-xx5hy7nj8o same makes you stronger not broken
Its a sad situation and i pray that flabbas spirit is resting well. May all toxic situations be healed.
Young lady .. you deserve to have your own television segment!
She is been through a lot loosing mom, dad and 3 siblings 😭😭😭
She's not the first human being who has been through that, this bum, she looks pure evil...
Doesn't justify her killing the poor man
That doesn't give someone license to kill someone
To me it sounds like self defense! What can you do if a man is trying to kill you? If there were witnesses over there, she wouldn’t even go to jail. She would probably be on a probation and that would be it.
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
Very detailed information, can explain why did her mother and siblings died in 2008?
Am also curious how do they all die at the same time?
Woah! She looks damn good for a person in prison. Damn sis, she glowed up well, even got a degree! At least she's still pursuing her goals despite being locked up! Some people go to prison and wallow away their time there!
I cant believe I had actually forgotten about this story. Yazi at the end of the day she is serving her time and we actually dont know what actually happened apart from the fact that flabba died. On a side note - is she really a granny okanye like an "adopted" granny? Thanx for the awesome video!
Thanks for watching Andy!
The granny part is NEWS to us all I'm sure its "adoptive" !!! 🤷🏽♀️
she probably had a child when she was young child, like 15 then that child had a child young as well, making her a granny
I think she calls herself a granny bcz her siblings had children and they have children of ther own. Remember shes the only 1 of her simblings still alive
Nice coverage and content , but kodwa mara am i the only who thinks lomama is involved and had played a part in the demise of her son , he was still married with a kid and yet lamama is busy calling side chicks and begging on behalf of her son while umakoti knows nothing and the side chick is way younger that him . Hayi labomamazala 😲nabo . None the less RIP Flabba . Its a sad story shame uSindisiwe lobumnyama obumlandelayo with all her family dead and she becomes a murderer on top of that mistake or not the sad fact is she died by her hands .
How a one time abused lady became an abuser. Her Spanish boyfriend was clingy n abusive and so she decided to take revenge on any man who tries to love her. Listen to the end and sense how confused and cold blooded she sound...
If he remain with first baby mama
She's clearly living her best life in prison 😏
Imagine while students are dying fighting for free education
Wow I didn't even know Flabba had passed away. May he RIP 🙏
So glad I came across this channel living it already.
same here
😂😂😂 You not being serious.
Muhle uSindiswa yoh! 😍
Tooo much
For some reason I believe her, I don't think she got a fair trial and the sentence doesn't fit the crime .Shout out to the plug-The SAA flight landing in Hong Kong 👌👌👌👌👌Sindi had such a bright future,I'm empathetic and I can relate.
I wish God could give all the women such strength 💪💪safa kubulawa madvodza kabuhlung
I like these doccie series posts
Thank you! Will keep them coming!
So sad
Great job... These videos ruined my whole Saturday... Cant stop watching.. Still in pjs😂
Hahahahahaha🤣❤😊💃🏾
She looks so good for someone who’s in prison 😩
Right🙄
Um happy she carried on with her studies.
😂😂😂😂😂
This relationship was way too toxic for me that's why everything ended up that way
He was unfaithful to his wife cheating, also known as infidelity, is when a person in a monogamous romantic relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. Infidelity, however, doesn't have a one-size-fits-all definition.
Be strong and forgive yourself for not taking the red flag seriously, God bless you. 🙏❤️
We really are a sick society, so a man gets killed and he's blamed for it, wow. The fact remains this girl killed Flabba
@Thandazile Luthuli unfortunately that’s just how things are. I’ve already accepted and made peace with this mindset society has.
Growing up I was surrounded by a lot of women (some have faced the most evil experiences you can imagine) and naturally I wanted to take my role as a man and strive to save/help as many women as I can in whatever way I can.
Now I’m older and I’ve seen one of my best friends commit suicide because of a false rape accusation, my cousin went through a divorce after finding out that 2 out of 3 of his children aren’t his and his ex wife is accusing him of physical abuse but I know very well that my guy doesn’t even have the will power to slap a dog.
I’ve lost the desire to believe anyone now, hopefully god changes my mindset but until then ai.
And her family
@@ZEE-tt8oc what do you mean
@@PhetoloP women can be cruel and heartless. Please be careful
Crazy huh!
Thank you for the True Crime channel that I relate to. I usually watch the US,UK and Australia ones.🙏🏿
only in SA where a women who defends herself ends up jailed for it. and when men kill us they get to walk free.
but hey, i guess we will never really know what happened in that one room. RIP Flabba, really is a tragedy. And proud of you SIndi for rising from your wrong-doings.
May Flabba's soul rest in peace.
I love that Sindisiwe is rebuilding her life and acknowledging her wrongs.
Man kills woman: jail for a life-time, castrate him, let’s riot and hold men accountable #MeToo let’s goo Queens
Woman kills man: I’m sorry for what you had to go through Queen, it’s most probably his fault for being in killing range, God gives second chances don’t worry gal
Honestly I’m not even mad at this anymore, I’ve already accepted that being a male in today’s society is a disadvantage on its own. Just protect yourselves both men and women.
🙏
Yeah it's very unfair which is why I don't identify as a feminist but also I think men right now are suffering the from the decisions that our forefathers made, so just a thought I think you should look into, if men headed the world right there would no need to demonize them the way people do today it's sad but it's a reality that needs to be looked deeper so that we embrace male and female roles again
Amen! Women seek equality, yet it seems like they dont want the same equality when it comes to prison time.
I was thinking the same
Then advocate for men. Most women have experienced ill treatment from men so it's not unbelievable when we see cases like these. The same way you crucify all of us when you had one bad experience with a woman is exactly what's going on here. Lots of things have to change. Women & men need to stop fighting. Fight the ill treatment and not the sex of the man. We can't advocate for someone just because he is a man ir she is a woman.
He was 29 and she was 17 . That , that is where the problem started. That’s the case your honour.
Murder justification?
bullshit my gf was 17 she was more abusive ...i was 26
@@benedictsiphelele1055 I spoke about their ages when they first met, not about the murder. You want my opinion on that? She was rightfully punished for her crime.
@@rockazpalace3947 first of all, what is a 26 year old doing with a girl who’s barely out of puberty?
@@KayNaude non of your bussiness u will never understand..her mother was an alcoholic she never cared for her..she refuse to continue in school..i cared u will will never understand me only God
Women are only defending her because she’s pretty. Pretty privilege is real. If she wasn’t good looking I’m sure most of these comments would be different.
Exactly
Where did she get the knife from? From him. So I believe her. Wish her all the best
She is so stuck up. It is all about her. No remorse at all.
Exactly. No accountability
Wow, I'm new to the channel and great coverage of the story. Well done guys.
Welcome, you’ll love it here ❤️
Welcome Vimbai!!! ❤❤❤
Thank you Milani 😭❤🙏🏽 I appreciate you guys!
Her beauty hid a calculating monster. RIP Flabba 🕊️💔
I actually appreciate this channel ! 🌸
Thank you Thando!💕
Where is she getting the weave and make up in prison?
Old pictures,
She is referring to the video at the end Zanele...
Obviously the guards are in it to enjoy her too.
I came across this episode when i wanted to hear this story again wanting to understand what drives a person to stab another person to death. The same thing happened to my cousin this morning, it's still fresh but would appreciate if you follow the matter and case so we get justice for him. He was not a celebrity, it might not trend but someone needs to make noise about it.
😢😢 my deepest condolences for your loss
Kuxolo
Guys people change in other relationships we can not judge her as it may have really happened . I have been into an abused relationship sometimes you just want to escape from that person so anything may happen that you may not even remember the human mind at times is so strong and unbelievable that a woman can take down 4 or more man coz of wanting to escape. I may be wrong yet I believe her man can be very cruel
Sad every one makes mistakes and we all deserve forgiveness, Just hope flabber's family also find peace ✌️
The fact that people can go to jail, get three meals per day, toilet, clothes, showers, and even get degrees....eh haiii, sounds like paradise 😂💔Why not take all these state resources and buy school kids uniform, feed kids from disadvantaged backgrounds
That time shes a psychopath who is capable of killing again .
That one time you are like fuck this I am tired let me fight back such happens 😔
Exactly
Exactly
Fight back huh???
@@benedictsiphelele1055 what u gonna do about it. Lmao
Rest in peace flabba hader to be part of ritual
Maybe his death was a mistake seriously after watching this I meant he followed her she ran away he got his mother involved by getting her back she wanted to leave he stopped her there was a nife somehow which doesn’t belong to her which means it belonged to flaba
I love it. African Crime stories.
FLABBA HAD 10000 FLOWS NOBODY COULD BEAT HIM IN THAT
Poor Flabba
How did she afford all those flights? And studies? Share your secret ma'am!
I’ve been wondering the same!!!
Remember all her immediate family members passed on so it may have been money from the life insurance payouts
So she basically went to jail for self-defense? We live in a crazy world
Damn! Crazy right
She’s a murderer. She was innocent and proven guilty
No, the court didn’t accept her version that it was self defence due to the force in which he was stabbed
I love your story telling skills keep it up ❤️
Why would a 29 year old want to be in a relationship with a 17 year old? That is a red flag right there.
Red flag
Because its normal.its been happening since the beginning of time and will happen until the end.plus its all about youth and viability
He got exactly what he was looking for. Dirty paedo
@@charmainekgomotsomokwana5625
She's above the age of consent, there is ZERO red flags
@@charmainekgomotsomokwana5625en values beauty and youth, she was above the age of consent, he did nothing wrong
Wow.. I was hoping to find a Channel for OUR crime stories.. eish.. thanks love..
Happy you finally here...Lucien! 😊💕
Guys domestic violence is really bad. We need to treat women better....
Flabba was not a violent person .....even his ex wife of 20year's say so. . I don't believe this version of story. This lady is just a psycho
I like the way you say Dublin 😄...typical Irish accent
No guys no I believe her .poor girl man
really appreciate your content, we were young when all this happened and we didnt really understand.. keep up the good work
Wow... She should have stayed in Ireland Republic . It's so sad how her life has to be like that, she would have managed to persue her dreams or goals.. Now the consequences, the family loss of their bread winner.. l am not judging but that could have been avoided..
And she's the one who rekindled the relationship with the so called cheater🙄🙄
Sindi stalled her life with this incident
Love her energy.
All the best to her.
Really hate what happened but have to say I admire her courage.
A commission of inquiry to investigate how did she remain the only member of her family?
I was thinking about that too
We have to go to prison first to get tertiary degrees because out here they are expensive uhm
Well said!
Pls condifer doing updates to stories, like what happened when she came out... I enjoy yor channel and content very much, keep up the great work sis! 🎉❤
I remember this story very vividly!
Me too!!!
Yay! Thanks for watching babe!❤😊
I believed Sindi, i still believe that she stabbed him by mistake
Nah
Of course we believe everything women say today
@@prichardgumpo1604 wasn't no mistake tho could have stabbed him in the arm or something but in the chest you know what you are trying to do right?
I've been watching your Videos up until now I found one where the woman is a Killer.
Starting with the heading It's not like a life was lost. It's more about the murders career. I would love if this story is presented as a murder story where a girl will grow up without a father.
Please work on the title too.
Also try to find out if physically the Murderer could overpower Flabba.
Hi Kelvin! Thank you so much for your feedback. I highly appreciate it and will definitely work on your grieveances. Please suggest more cases I can do with female perpoatrators.... i have another one coming up in about a week. Currently only have this and zintle unfortunately. I will do better. In terms of thumbnail titles...youtube flags the video if I put works like murder or kill on the thumbnail😔...but I will try make them better too. Thank you again for watching. I appreciate the feedback.
@@theplug_truecrime you take criticism very well and that will help you flourish your art 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
There was a lot of biased in this video
These toxic relationships never end well...don't know why people can't just break up
Obsessed with your channel ❤️
❤😍🙏🏽
I love these videos at the same time I don't wanna see them because of what has happened to them. And you content will never run out because of the things that happen in this country 😭😭😭
This is a case of a gold digger finding none... she met the rapper and wasnt happy he was married.
she met a spanish tourist and left for europe but left him because he was abusive, she then moved to Dublin to pursue her education but somehow contacted the ex rapper and got back with him even though he was not faithful in relationship according to her yet she continued to stay in the supposed abusive relationship.
Anyway her 12 years sentence was a joke
We will never really know what happened that day but onething for sure is that.. Sometimes people think the outside of a person is a representation of the inner person.. Rich, poor, famous people are fighting demons.. And also "not being a violent person" does not mean one cannot be toxic or emotionally abusive.. Broken people get a thrill out of toxic relationships.. The fighting, jealousy, constant calling, obsession all mean love to people who never got an ounce of authentic, real love.
Damn she’s the only remaining one💀💀💀
I know right 😱💔
The trauma of being the only living in the family and killing a person by mistake. Eish. She was going through the most
@@lesegoyv and the fact that she tries to commit suicide and she failed...
Sad hey 💔
She needed time to heal period! Moving away was not gonna make pain disappear
You are doing a really good job,your doccies are very informative.however my concern is you seem to tell the stories on the females perspective whether victim or perpetrator is this done intentional?
Thank you for watching Simphiwe!😊❤ I Completely get what you are saying...i will definately do better.In most of these cases I'm led by the information available to the public...eg, in this case unfortunately Flabba isnt here to tell his version. There is only Sindi's...even though the court rejected her version...there is really no other person to tell us what really happened. We can only speculate.
@@theplug_truecrime I appreciate your response and being candid
I dont beieve SINDISIWE 'S VERSION🤷🏽♀️
me too, we've heard stories from his friends and girlfriend that Flabba was not a violent person. Only God knows
Sindisiwe is a psycho tht turned Flabba's life up side down until he died
@@zodwavanyaza3838 she only has to tell the truth of what so the family an be at peace
Me neither and I'm a woman. How did she manage to wrestle the knife from him without cutting herself us what I want to know. Also what right did she have to be upset that he flirted when she was the side chick in his marriage to the beautiful Mpho. Such double standards.
What a narcissist? No remorse whatsoever!!!
But in the another hand guys, please stop women and child abuse, please!!!
Kahle Steve Harvey 🚮
@lucky Thank you Lucky🙏 I'm even scared to date now after I got beaten in my first and last relationship.
This is so sad, crimes are committed by men in SA daily but what sounds like a case of self-defense landed her in Jail, double standards, she had no criminal case prior.
Well the judge didnt blv her version...and theres a reason why. Some of the things she said dnt mke sense to me either
Can you cover Precious Ramabulana story please
Sad story sad on Flabba’s side cause he felt disrespected ,made less of a man and eventually lost his life….also Sad for Sindi because she was so young and it all ended like that for her😢
No it did not. Watch her interview with MacG. She's out on parole and is an intern at a law firm
We all make mistakes every single person does.
Absolutely
But would you say the same thing if it was the other way round???