DON'T CHASE LOVE, DO THIS INSTEAD | TOBI ARAYOMI

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
  • Welcome to another insightful video with Apostle Tobi Arayomi! In this episode, Tobi dives deep into the complexities of Christian dating and shares invaluable advice on how to find "The One." Whether you're single, dating, or considering marriage, this video is packed with wisdom to guide you on your journey.
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Комментарии • 308

  • @joyiordzer2021
    @joyiordzer2021 3 месяца назад +263

    Can someone please like my comment so I will come back to watch this over and over again... Wheew! This right here is good stuff❤

    • @TashaNicolee
      @TashaNicolee 3 месяца назад +1

      Girlllllll

    • @Satandefeated
      @Satandefeated 3 месяца назад +9

      You can just save the video to your playlist

    • @archangel369
      @archangel369 3 месяца назад +1

      Like begger

    • @LiveinGraceDarling
      @LiveinGraceDarling 2 месяца назад

      Save it to a playlist so you can return to it whenever you like.

    • @7Fingers_of_God
      @7Fingers_of_God Месяц назад

      @@Satandefeatedi see people write this often😂😂

  • @Saved.by.Jesus.
    @Saved.by.Jesus. 3 месяца назад +124

    Know God in prayer and fasting before getting married.
    The devil can send you people. Let God show you your wife in prayer.
    The beginning mistakes in life is you did develop a prayer life and a word life. There is much wisdom when you pray 3-5 hours daily and flee from all forms of evil.

  • @abby-bernice
    @abby-bernice 3 месяца назад +60

    This is hands down this best relationship advice video I have EVER watched/heard. SO much wisdom, power, and authority was spoken and shared in this video. Everyone that’s watching and reading this comment, please connect your faith to this video and receive your blessing IJN !!!! Amennn 🙏🏾

  • @empresslyglam5566
    @empresslyglam5566 3 месяца назад +22

    I came to RUclips for something else and ended up clicking on this video. I must say, it's one of the best videos and pieces of relationship advice I've ever seen.

  • @ToffyOlowo
    @ToffyOlowo 3 месяца назад +61

    Prophecy is not a guarantee for success! Character is sooo important. You shall know them by their fruit. The example of Saul drives this point home. Thank you for explaining this so well sir🙏🏾

  • @deelin1911
    @deelin1911 3 месяца назад +15

    Healing is God's responsibility
    Health is your responsibility high wisdom

  • @traffikpictures9848
    @traffikpictures9848 3 месяца назад +37

    Instead of actively seeking love, focus on becoming a person of value and character who naturally attracts others. Desperation repels, while attractiveness and personal growth draw people in.

  • @honeybee4375
    @honeybee4375 Месяц назад +12

    The level of your knowledge is the quality of your choices and the quality of your choices is called CONSEQUENCE. Consequence is the quality of life. Today you are living a consequence.

  • @traffikpictures9848
    @traffikpictures9848 3 месяца назад +7

    Attraction operates on three levels: physical, intellectual, and spiritual. Each plays a significant role in how we perceive and connect with others.

  • @LivinBritNicole
    @LivinBritNicole 3 месяца назад +30

    The first 2 minutes…. A WHOLE SERMON

    • @fumzly
      @fumzly 3 месяца назад

      I know right 🤯

    • @NomsLoots
      @NomsLoots 3 месяца назад +1

      He was preaching 🔥🔥🔥

    • @lilyd47
      @lilyd47 2 месяца назад +2

      I was like "who is this guy"? 😂

  • @princessjd24
    @princessjd24 3 месяца назад +7

    Healing is God's Responsibility, Health is my responsibility🔥

  • @LeeFreud-b5s
    @LeeFreud-b5s 3 месяца назад +26

    Tobi the Lord has truly blessed you with wisdom and a gifted communicator.

    • @irmamike7641
      @irmamike7641 3 месяца назад +1

      Hi there so much to be learned from you Apostle Arayomi
      Good morning to all of you.🙏🇹🇹❤

  • @PracticalChristianWarfare
    @PracticalChristianWarfare 3 месяца назад +49

    Most people need therapy to heal from childhood traumas or divorce and to unlearn unhealthy patterns. But they think just going to church each week is enough. Character is so rare these days.

  • @jodoraf
    @jodoraf 3 месяца назад +38

    That sugar one is so relatable!! Emotional damageee😂😂

    • @lockedwiththeword
      @lockedwiththeword 3 месяца назад +2

      Not me eating cookies and chocolate while watching, I almost spat it out 😂😂

    • @princessjd24
      @princessjd24 3 месяца назад

      I still esp the chocolates, ice cream, biscuits moderately but I cannot stop.
      As for the other sugars, automatically controlled through the Fasting Days 😅.
      Fasting Days of more than 3 days have helped me avoid/moderate sugar intake...😊

  • @adwoaannan3104
    @adwoaannan3104 3 месяца назад +37

    😂😂😂 the humor amidst the wisdom

  • @felixsyrio01
    @felixsyrio01 9 дней назад +1

    True, I agree with you, Man of God. Everything you have shared here is true. Sugar is killing people, but they don't want to hear it.

  • @eprophil
    @eprophil 3 месяца назад +8

    Omg I just come across this channel. All I have to say is you are amazing sir. When I think I have heard it all. You sir must be protected at all cost. Your words are different.

  • @mariaogunkoya6144
    @mariaogunkoya6144 3 месяца назад +15

    Leadership is very attractive

  • @SheStrategyCo
    @SheStrategyCo 3 месяца назад +24

    i only chase after one- that is Jesus, and all the other things will just follow

  • @jigary
    @jigary 3 месяца назад +46

    I would venture say people (especially women) need to be very wary of people, prophecies, and dreams saying that you’re supposed marry a specific person. Most people (especially women) have marriage, relationships, and relationships with specific people as idols. And their idol is speaking to them and they think it’s the Adonai.. it is not. If you desire marriage first sacrifice it on the altar before Adonai. He will not give you His competition. And if you receive a mate in that state you will have major problems simply because you can’t properly discern what is God and your flesh. Women are particularly prone to deception in this area.

    • @miraculous3073
      @miraculous3073 3 месяца назад +1

      Come on!! Soo good🔥

    • @ko6081
      @ko6081 3 месяца назад +2

      “He will not give you His competition.” Yessssss so true! Lord You are my only number 1!!!

    • @lilyd47
      @lilyd47 2 месяца назад +1

      Hmm hmmm thanks for the nuggets. God bless you 🙏

  • @cavumunkombwe3422
    @cavumunkombwe3422 10 дней назад

    Spiritual,intellectual and physical 3levels of attraction wow

  • @Miranda9Bella
    @Miranda9Bella 3 месяца назад +13

    Yesss the physical, intellectual, AND spiritual, I need all 3 to be in sync 😅and that's why I'm also enjoying my self development season! And thank youuuu for addressing this over weight thing! Maybe it's more in the States idk, but I'm so tired of seeing overweight pastors! It's disgusting! And to me it says your flesh is Undisciplined! Love your clips! Hope to have the opportunity to see you in the states next month!

    • @PfareloRambau
      @PfareloRambau 3 месяца назад +2

      not overweight pastors Lawd !!!!

  • @aurelieb7353
    @aurelieb7353 Месяц назад +2

    After 1:09 seconds of watching this video I had to subscribe.

  • @fragrancedeparadiso443
    @fragrancedeparadiso443 3 месяца назад +3

    Praying everyone who needs to watch this should watch it. Very powerful. May God bless this man of God

  • @tandreas756
    @tandreas756 3 месяца назад +9

    Sugar is a principality

  • @jejo86
    @jejo86 3 месяца назад +4

    Man this is worth rewatching over and over again 🔥🔥🔥💯

  • @abby-bernice
    @abby-bernice 3 месяца назад +5

    When I say everybody, I mean EVERYBODY needs to hear this!! Oh how this word would bless so many souls 🥹🙏🏾❤️. Glory to God!

  • @ruthmubwangolo1302
    @ruthmubwangolo1302 3 месяца назад +2

    "Everybody is an experience "Deep

  • @claudineinga848
    @claudineinga848 Месяц назад +1

    I needed to hear this💯 so much wisdom in it. God bless you man of God🙏🏾

  • @eprophil
    @eprophil Месяц назад

    I want to invite this guy to come eat with me and my family. This man needs to be protected at all cost. He is so knowledgeable, what he is saying gives me goosebumps, he is amazing.

  • @The_realAmaka
    @The_realAmaka 3 месяца назад +7

    Was in a big black hole of depression like 3weeks back then I decided to dry fast for 3 days. After that fast I’ve never felt lighter and happier.
    Also, I was in a relationship were we would quarrel a lot about baseless and senseless things that affected us, and my than partner would say that he thinks it’s the devil playing pranks, honestly that statement always irritated me cause I knew that it was clearly a problem of “wisdom is profitable to direct”. We would pray and cast out the devil but guess what, the quarrels increased in capacity 😂😂. I didn’t love myself to let go of that relationship and I felt it when you said we always chase happiness, and healing is peace and that if you’re not good single you probably won’t be fulfilled in a marriage or relationship either.
    Thank you sir, you said a whole lot without mentioning the word love.

  • @simplynyahalexis
    @simplynyahalexis 3 месяца назад +7

    This was so good, it’s a reminder to abide in Jesus. He’s the perfecter. 💕

  • @drsronaldsylviewesley4977
    @drsronaldsylviewesley4977 13 дней назад

    Powerful message Brother Tobi 🕊️🌿🌈❤️

  • @Ikhuoria_Favour
    @Ikhuoria_Favour 28 дней назад

    This is so timely and precious.
    Thank you so much sir for this mindset shift🙇‍♀️

  • @NomsLoots
    @NomsLoots 3 месяца назад +1

    Life is designed to run away from desperate people 🔥

  • @davidadjeman6424
    @davidadjeman6424 13 дней назад

    i love this man of God. Super blessed!

  • @dikatlehotilodi3051
    @dikatlehotilodi3051 Месяц назад +1

    ❤Spiritual ,Intellectual and Physical

  • @cindypearl
    @cindypearl 3 месяца назад +4

    4 min into this video I finally figured out why you look slightly different 😅😅 I thought I was watching Tomi (twin brother) haha...
    God bless you 🎉

  • @Sofiahansen_3069
    @Sofiahansen_3069 Месяц назад +1

    You’ve made my day this is so good please do more

  • @Uellalove25
    @Uellalove25 2 месяца назад +2

    OMG don’t know how and why I stumbled upon this. This is d most realistic videos I have seen. Ahhh may God bless u.

  • @lydiaecclesia1006
    @lydiaecclesia1006 3 месяца назад +2

    God increase your wisdom, it’s so delightful listening to you!
    God bless you,sir.

  • @oliviaosaro3283
    @oliviaosaro3283 3 месяца назад +3

    This video is HARDDDD

  • @LaKymana
    @LaKymana 3 месяца назад +2

    This is so good. The Holy Spirit has been speaking to me about my food habits.

  • @vivianngoato8669
    @vivianngoato8669 3 месяца назад +3

    There is something about responding to God's call and it makes you so beautiful what we call imperfection and all we see is God's glory.I am just I awe and I am wondering what would become of me if I truly respond on God's call.here I am I pondering on my weaknesses like Moses who said I cannot speak.I am forever frustrated😢.
    Listening to you and your brother is giving me a new perspective.

  • @iwuohachidinma8683
    @iwuohachidinma8683 Месяц назад

    The level of insight gotten from this video is indescribable...

  • @cherrydinigo2479
    @cherrydinigo2479 3 месяца назад +2

    wow!! Tobi confirmed the new heart part cause someone told me we can't trust our heart cause its deceitful. im like wait im born again. 😊

    • @SistahJay27
      @SistahJay27 3 месяца назад +1

      Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked: who can know it?

    • @memp9786
      @memp9786 2 месяца назад

      As the other commenter here posted the Bible verse, the one who should be telling you (or the thing you should be checking what you’re told against) is the Bible. You MUST read your word for yourself & check others’ words against it. If you’re not sure if a word came from the Bible, you can always google that line to see if it comes up as a Biblical reference/verse. Let God’s word confirm His will, commandments, and statements about whom we are/ are not, and not just the words of any of His servants, including Tobi (or Tomi).

  • @virgygonzalez7312
    @virgygonzalez7312 24 дня назад

    Wow!!!! This really help me!!! Is deep! Thank you apostle

  • @christie9494
    @christie9494 3 месяца назад +1

    The unseen part is what makes the seen part beautiful

  • @gilberttakyi3265
    @gilberttakyi3265 Месяц назад

    This was so timely, thanks for this

  • @themercyedit
    @themercyedit 3 месяца назад +1

    ‘Everybody is an experience’. Word!! 💯

  • @Sophia7711
    @Sophia7711 3 месяца назад +1

    Love this . I pray I will be found by my king

  • @Unveiledtheblog
    @Unveiledtheblog 3 месяца назад +2

    I’ve been happy single it’s been fun!

    • @SistahJay27
      @SistahJay27 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m enjoying my single season as well, it’s very calm and peaceful. 🧘‍♀️🪴🍵🤲🏽⛪️

  • @noordinarygirl3764
    @noordinarygirl3764 3 месяца назад +3

    Change my heart father

  • @nehalmane4734
    @nehalmane4734 11 дней назад

    Royal beauty..

  • @abby-bernice
    @abby-bernice 3 месяца назад +1

    What a POWERFULLLLLL word !!! Hallelujah, I thank God for Prophet Tobi !! 🥹🙌🏾

  • @kehindeadeyeye7190
    @kehindeadeyeye7190 3 месяца назад +1

    I wish i can like a million times. Raw wisdom!

  • @marjeodeyale543
    @marjeodeyale543 3 месяца назад +1

    This is deep, intelligence is attractive❤

  • @DeeTeeJa
    @DeeTeeJa 3 месяца назад +4

    This was too short loved this! Powerful words of wisdom.

  • @justprayer
    @justprayer 3 месяца назад +9

    I'm sending to all the single women at my church

  • @ricardoamesquitajr.7081
    @ricardoamesquitajr.7081 3 месяца назад +2

    Yes please do a video on healthy eating

  • @clairephipps1689
    @clairephipps1689 3 месяца назад +1

    This chat was apt, informative, full of wisdom, understanding, insight, direction, correction..... It was also exceedingly wholesome and fun. 😂I could of sat on the floor in that room and listened ( attentively) for many hours. Thank you Prophet and team. 🇹🇹🎉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. NB: I feel enhanced and edified.

  • @melissadavis9870
    @melissadavis9870 3 месяца назад +1

    I want to watch this again and again 🙌🏾 this was so good and funny lol

  • @Chosenlifestylee
    @Chosenlifestylee 27 дней назад

    Omg!😭 Let me like, comment and share

  • @fidel6269
    @fidel6269 Месяц назад

    This is really excellent!

  • @julietviva7627
    @julietviva7627 12 дней назад

    Gems...

  • @r.samsom
    @r.samsom 2 месяца назад

    Wow wow wow. Wasn’t even looking for this but I’m glad I watched. The wisdom coming out of his mouth makes me want to listen to anything he says all day long. Praise God for this gift, may He continue to use you!

  • @jilljames861
    @jilljames861 3 месяца назад +4

    THIS. IS. SO. GOOD!!!!!!! SO ON POINT, my GOSH!!! I was also dying laughing through so much of it 😂, but it was the absolute TRUTH!!!!! 🙌🏼. The breath GOT ME!!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @IyalooTwapewaN
    @IyalooTwapewaN 3 месяца назад +3

    so insightful,

  • @debakugue2624
    @debakugue2624 3 месяца назад +5

    Increase your intellectual capacity. If you don't have knowledge, you don't have power to change lives. Deep!

  • @sibosibo765
    @sibosibo765 3 месяца назад +1

    This is a lot of work but very necessary. Thank you my brother.

  • @journeytodevelopher
    @journeytodevelopher 3 месяца назад +3

    thank you for this and let me get to the gym right neow

  • @leslieeva7375
    @leslieeva7375 3 месяца назад

    Amen!
    Foods to eat “for life”, please and thank you!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @JOI.with.an.i
    @JOI.with.an.i 3 месяца назад +2

    Can you talk about how we can test people in friendship and relationships.

  • @olawonder247
    @olawonder247 23 дня назад

    Everyone is an experience. Am I a blessing or a lesson? Deep though. 5:02

  • @Blackboi51
    @Blackboi51 Месяц назад

    So much wisdom in one video

  • @julietviva7627
    @julietviva7627 12 дней назад

    So good.

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 3 месяца назад

    Like how you give useful counsel in a healthy and funny way in God's grace.

  • @jodoraf
    @jodoraf 3 месяца назад +2

    Wow so much wisdom has been spilled in this video🔥🔥🔥

  • @AciroSarah
    @AciroSarah 3 месяца назад

    This is the best deep conversation and advice l have heard since l was born God bless you Apostle

  • @katherinekamaria
    @katherinekamaria 3 месяца назад

    This is too much good knowledge and wisdom and comedy in one sitting! Lol! 🙏🏽☺️

  • @preciousomoleye
    @preciousomoleye 3 месяца назад +3

    Hmmmm
    This is what I have been learning lately as well.
    I have stopped looking for the one, instead I have decided to work on myself and keep growing both spiritually and character-wise

  • @stephaniesmith4121
    @stephaniesmith4121 3 месяца назад +1

    Apostle I love the humor. Thank you.

  • @maureenmaimbo
    @maureenmaimbo 2 месяца назад

    This hit me hard in all areas of my life…Ohh God please make more videos on how to become better ❤️

  • @mercymercy4316
    @mercymercy4316 2 месяца назад

    I love the wisdom and a bit of humour in there.

  • @simply_bernice
    @simply_bernice 3 месяца назад +1

    Screams wisdommmmmmmmmm

  • @saharaseven7036
    @saharaseven7036 Месяц назад

    So true. Leadership is sexy. Couldn't put it better

  • @dikatlehotilodi3051
    @dikatlehotilodi3051 Месяц назад

    ❤develop who I'm on the inside

  • @PriscillaTitus-iw9bh
    @PriscillaTitus-iw9bh 3 месяца назад

    I havent even finished watching yet and all of this is so good👏🏾👏🏾

  • @atinuke579
    @atinuke579 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you prophet, you're a rare gift

  • @dikatlehotilodi3051
    @dikatlehotilodi3051 Месяц назад

    ❤Appetite for KNOWLEDGE

  • @Tytler_fo
    @Tytler_fo 3 месяца назад +8

    The neck submits to the head, it turns it. Submission is power😮

  • @Peterlovesgarage
    @Peterlovesgarage 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much for this timely and overdue wisdom for the body of the church to hear!!

  • @BerserkNBA
    @BerserkNBA Месяц назад

    What about visions brother, regarding love and marriage? Received in prayer specifically?

  • @bakkygistchannel2918
    @bakkygistchannel2918 3 месяца назад +5

    I like the rumour so I am gonna share it 😂😂

  • @olamijioyenuga780
    @olamijioyenuga780 2 месяца назад

    Words of Wisdom and Impact 🔥

  • @dikatlehotilodi3051
    @dikatlehotilodi3051 Месяц назад +1

    ❤ Reputation

  • @isabelcronje1351
    @isabelcronje1351 3 месяца назад

    Wow Amen Prophet well said many blessings 🙌 thank you for sharing wisdom

  • @blessings28
    @blessings28 3 месяца назад +1

    Amen Apostle Tobi to all that was said! Would also love to hear your video on what to eat as well. Thanks for helping us single ladies get it together!

  • @seneiyagachuhi4054
    @seneiyagachuhi4054 3 месяца назад

    Wisdom and on point, much love from kenya

  • @dikatlehotilodi3051
    @dikatlehotilodi3051 Месяц назад +1

    ❤Similitude