Harry Chapin - Cats In The Cradle (Lyrics)

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    "Cat's in the Cradle" is a 1974 folk rock song by Harry Chapin from the album Verities & Balderdash. The single topped the US Billboard Hot 100 in December 1974. As Chapin's only number-one song, it became the best known of his work and a staple for folk rock music. Chapin's recording of the song was nominated for the 1975 Grammy Award for Best Male Pop Vocal Performance and was inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame in 2011.
    Harry Chapin - Cats In The Cradle (Lyrics)
    Released: October 1, 1974
    Album: Verities & Balderdash
    Label:
    Elektra
    Songwriters:
    Harry Chapin
    Sandra Chapin
    Producer:
    Paul Leka
    [Verse 1]
    My child arrived just the other day
    He came to the world in the usual way
    But there were planes to catch and bills to pay
    He learned to walk while I was away
    And he was talkin' 'fore I knew it, and as he grew
    He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, Dad
    You know I'm gonna be like you"
    [Chorus]
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
    Little boy blue and the man on the moon
    "When you comin' home, Dad?"
    "I don't know when, but we'll get together then
    You know we'll have a good time then"
    [Verse 2]
    My son turned ten just the other day
    He said, "Thanks for the ball, Dad, come on let's play
    Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today
    I got a lot to do." He said, "That's okay"
    And he walked away but his smile never dimmed
    It said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah
    You know I'm gonna be like him"
    [Chorus]
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
    Little boy blue and the man on the moon
    "When you comin' home, Dad?"
    "I don't know when, but we'll get together then
    You know we'll have a good time then"
    [Verse 3]
    Well, he came from college just the other day
    So much like a man I just had to say
    "Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while?"
    He shook his head and he said with a smile
    "What I'd really like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys
    See you later, can I have them please?"
    [Chorus]
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
    Little boy blue and the man on the moon
    "When you comin' home, son?"
    "I don't know when, but we'll get together then, Dad
    You know we'll have a good time then"
    [Verse 4]
    I've long since retired, my son's moved away
    I called him up just the other day
    I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"
    He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I can find the time
    You see my new job's a hassle and the kids have the flu
    But it's sure nice talking to you, Dad
    It's been sure nice talking to you"
    And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me
    He'd grown up just like me
    My boy was just like me
    [Chorus]
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
    Little boy blue and the man on the moon
    "When you comin' home, son?"
    "I don't know when, but we'll get together then, Dad
    We're gonna have a good time then"
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Комментарии • 280

  • @alley9
    @alley9  2 месяца назад +50

    Who is here in 2024?

    • @CrystaltheAroacekid
      @CrystaltheAroacekid 2 месяца назад +1

      Meee and terrified

    • @JayanMadina
      @JayanMadina Месяц назад

      Me

    • @chrishumphries5201
      @chrishumphries5201 Месяц назад

      👋

    • @Laufer88
      @Laufer88 28 дней назад +3

      I've listened to this song today for the first time at my work in the office...and after reading the lyrics and what's it all about on Wikipedia, I was about to brake down realising that my son is looking at me this way when I get back home from work and continue staring at the phone and quite often saying to him that I'm too tired to play with him...realising what I'm missing and what might expects me when he grows up. Now I know I have to change some things in life while I'm at the first stanza of this very wise, profound and educational song. 🤔😉

    • @coryhutchinson7615
      @coryhutchinson7615 27 дней назад

      this one will always bring the feels

  • @cdfdesantis699
    @cdfdesantis699 Год назад +202

    This song always gives me chills. Don't let the time with the most important people in your life slip by. You can't get it back.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  Год назад +6

      🖤🖤

    • @maxkistner5095
      @maxkistner5095 6 месяцев назад +1

      Fuckin right man! Family is everything!

    • @cdfdesantis699
      @cdfdesantis699 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@maxkistner5095 Right, friend - who would we be without them? Thanks for your reply.

  • @DS-ig6hl
    @DS-ig6hl 3 месяца назад +9

    I feel like we can all relate. The stress of life and parenthood takes a toll.

  • @SanyamJain-ew4xh
    @SanyamJain-ew4xh Месяц назад +1

    This is one of my all time favourite

  • @Lisamarievalerio
    @Lisamarievalerio 4 месяца назад +45

    This has been my dad’s top beat forever and now I know why. His father was NOT a good man and dad was a baseball player and he never went to any games. My dad is honestly the most amazing person I know, not just because of his success in life but because his success as an amazing father and overall human. His father taught him everything NOT to do. Thank God every day for a father like him.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  4 месяца назад +3

    • @sinlobo84
      @sinlobo84 3 месяца назад +6

      Lovely to see people breaking generational trauma

    • @jehovah1ize
      @jehovah1ize Месяц назад +1

      My husband is also an awesome dad.🙏

  • @CelestialAthena
    @CelestialAthena Год назад +57

    Possibly the most beautifully poignant and powerfully-haunting song ever written! R.I.P., Harry Chapin -- you had such a luminous soul!!

  • @tednoble4350
    @tednoble4350 Год назад +47

    I'm fortunate enough to have both my parents alive but I have to say, being both a son (and a father to a son) that every single time I miss one of their calls or am too busy to answer this song inevitably plays in my head and it just kills me. I'm really learning not to take things for granted because I don't want regrets to outweigh my happy memories and experiences.
    Take advantage of the time you have because tomorrow isn't promised. To my family, I love you all so much. Sorry for being so personal but I've experienced this for years and want to encourage other people to take advantage of what you have while you have it.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  Год назад +2

      ❤❤

    • @Garrett2783
      @Garrett2783 5 месяцев назад

      Love them.grief we can get thru.its the fing regrets that are haunting me!!!! Burned into my head!

    • @sirianfelixbrightonesquire3247
      @sirianfelixbrightonesquire3247 5 месяцев назад

      Your kids are lucky to have you. I only had one child and she didn’t even make it a year. She’s been gone a year and a half and I’m basically just became a hollow shell.
      I heard this song earlier and wanted to see the lyrics and now I’m sad.
      Tomorrow isn’t promised. So embrace every day.

    • @littlecsswolf6945
      @littlecsswolf6945 3 месяца назад

      No no matter how deeply you love them, or they love you it can all disappear in a heart beat 😢

  • @knivesy
    @knivesy Год назад +221

    My dad sent me this song. Said it made him cry. He traveled a lot for work. Like, A LOT. Even when we were on vacation he was still answering emails or whatever it is he did. He even lived away for an entire year when I was in my teens. Now I see him maybe twice a year.

    • @mmmbbop9351
      @mmmbbop9351 Год назад +46

      I can't imagine a worse hell. I am currently molding my entire life around my little man. I'm poor as hell but atleast I can spend time with him

    • @steveallen984
      @steveallen984 Год назад +12

      I sent this toy daughter this morning and told her it made my eyes leak alot. I traveled from Maryland to Vermont when were growing up in NJ and they grew up so fast on me. Then she moves to North Carolina on me and has her own kids busting her behind to be a great mother. My grand daughter is a spitting image of her as a kid. She sent me a pic of her and I said where did you find that old picture of you I never saw it before and she said that's not me dad that's Aria shes gonna be 8. I hadn't seen them for a couple of years being I was crushed on the job and I couldn't walk for a few years. I had surgery on July 10th and i'm up moving around pretty good considering all my broken bones including my back and neck. My only savior was that it didn't sever my spinal cord or I'd be a quadriplegic as they first believed I spent the first few years in a wheel chair wearing a catheter. But somehow I dodged the bullet and I haven't needed the catheter for a long time and hip surgery eith a total replacement has me walking this month for the first time in years. Better then they know. She keeps telling me to keep fighting it while in therapy. She doesnt realize I really can walk and wait until they get a surprise this X-mas when I knock on their door down in North Carolina without telling anyone I'm coming. Oh crap somethings getting in the eyes again gotta go

    • @ericowen6758
      @ericowen6758 Год назад +5

      I love this song. To me it's like a sad/happy song idk it's hard to describe.

    • @bulkyturnip
      @bulkyturnip Год назад +4

      I'm sure your dad would love to chat on the phone evrey now and the

    • @Leobullet1
      @Leobullet1 11 месяцев назад

      It’s easy to forget how much it created a pit of despair, gnawing at your guts, to be worrying if your next pay check is going to pay the bills or if you can juggle the bills to create a gap when you can afford to buy a new starter for the car or snow suits for the kids.
      When we were still young, trying to build a career that will eventually put the kids through college, help pay for weddings, medical bills and provide enough for a retirement, while still putting food on the table and a roof over our heads, our priorities had to be different.
      That is why, in many ways, the old style of “traditional” family, worked well. There are many women who would love to be the one to raise their own children, not work a job so they can pay someone else to do it for them. There are many men who can contribute more to their family, by earning an income that provides for their family.
      With a more connected, less selfish family structure, the retired grandparents were able to spend time with their grandchildren and fill in the gaps while still having “family” raising the children at all times of the day and night.
      To be honest, there have been many times where I have thought “If I only knew then, what I know now.”, if I had the skills to compromise well enough to make it work, it’s the more traditional family structure that I wish we could have provided for our children.
      The way the majority of us do it now, we are stuck in the routine of filling each roll, half way. Trying to get more hours at work so we can afford to pay the Day Care and still have money for a family vacation that year, but having to take the cash in lieu of a vacation, just to make ends meet.
      I’ve never heard a child, who was surrounded by loving family, complain about not being loved enough or loved well enough, which is what’s at the root of this song. IMHO

  • @reinaldotorres8729
    @reinaldotorres8729 Год назад +55

    The song "Cats in the Cradle" strikes a chord with me as I see myself repeating the same mistakes as my father did. My dad lost his life when I was just 12 due to his job, and I wished things would have been different. I have been fortunate enough not to have gone through what my dad did, but I have repeated his mistake of not being present in my kids' lives.
    As a parent, I now understand the importance of balancing work and family time. However, due to the divorce and the distance between us, I have not been able to see my sons as much as I would have liked to. Time flies so quickly, and I always thought that I would soon have the time to be with them more often, but it has not happened.
    Life has come full circle now as I see my sons doing what my dad did and what I did. They are busy with their lives, just like I was. But now, I am regretting not having spent more time with them, just like my dad regretted it in his final moments.
    Now that my sons are adults, I am always thinking about the mistake I made for not being there for them enough. I understand the impact that my absence has had on their lives, and I am making a conscious effort to be present in their lives now through social media platforms. Although I cannot turn back time, I hope to make up for the lost time and create new memories that we can all cherish.
    My experience is a reminder to all of us to prioritize spending quality time with our families, despite the challenges that life throws at us. Please don't let work or other distractions get in the way of creating lasting memories with your loved ones.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  Год назад +1

      ❤❤

    • @korengrace2274
      @korengrace2274 Год назад +1

      😢😢😢❤❤❤

    • @bigbrother9531
      @bigbrother9531 Год назад +1

      Life's priorities when you're young, regrets when you're old.

    • @wskay1
      @wskay1 Год назад +1

      That's right you treat your parents the same way they treated you when you grow up.

  • @krishanswarup3844
    @krishanswarup3844 Год назад +28

    Very difficult to hold back tears....

  • @sailingdreamfisher
    @sailingdreamfisher Год назад +18

    All new fathers should be given this song at the hospital... It really makes you think

  • @Garrett2783
    @Garrett2783 5 месяцев назад +16

    I miss u papa!! 2 yrs ago n I can't get over it. Wrecked me,lost everything
    My family,job.an unspoken bond that nobody will understand. His first born son!

    • @alley9
      @alley9  5 месяцев назад +2

      Rest in peace ❤

  • @chuckinthetruth1689
    @chuckinthetruth1689 4 месяца назад +15

    I chose to not repeat this vicious cycle. I refuse to neglect my future kids like my dad did me over and over while I was growing up. I made that decision and now I have 3 amazing kids that I cherish. I accept the responsibility of loving them. Glory to God

  • @WealthTracker
    @WealthTracker 3 месяца назад +10

    I've been hearing this song since I was a youth, & loved the melody, but never paid attention to the lyrics until just now... Wow... What a powerful story, a lesson many learn too late...

    • @robinengland8567
      @robinengland8567 3 месяца назад

      OMG same thing with me too! My mind is 🤯

  • @fredvelez6055
    @fredvelez6055 4 месяца назад +32

    This song makes me cry…I had my first daughter when I was 18. I was not there for her. I had a second daughter in my early 20s and I was never there for her because of decisions I made before she was born. It’s painful and I’m profoundly sorry to both of them. I wish I could go back and change the past but I can’t. My biggest regret in life is not being there for my daughters. Nothing matters more than being a Dad. Not money, not love, nothing…I have a 3 year old son now. And it’s been amazing. He fills my heart up when nothing else ever could. I’m there for him. I raise him. I can’t be the guy in this song anymore. To all young fathers: don’t be the guy in this song. It will haunt you for the rest of your life. Your child needs you and your time…and you need them, even if you don’t know it.

    • @littlecsswolf6945
      @littlecsswolf6945 3 месяца назад

      I am a ferocious wolf, cis female, who has loved some amazing women as rom tic partners, and an adopted son-Grown now, although I never got to meet the miracle of him until he was already 14 and with a past if such deep pain and sorrow.

    • @Steve-w5r
      @Steve-w5r 2 месяца назад

      @@fredvelez6055 JESUS forgives you...

  • @maxkistner5095
    @maxkistner5095 6 месяцев назад +8

    Idk why I listen to this shit makes me cry my eyes out and miss my son so much but I love it.

  • @jonathanhill791
    @jonathanhill791 10 месяцев назад +19

    This song is dear to me as a son who lost his farther it is a song about a father's love for his son and a son that Admires his father but not enough time to express what they mean to each other no words can describe that sense of loss only music can

    • @alley9
      @alley9  10 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤

    • @robertmcginness4610
      @robertmcginness4610 7 месяцев назад

      You might like the song:
      How Deep the Father's love for us.
      It's religious. It poignant, but some folks don't care for religion. I love the song! It's not Catholic ( I'm Catholic) but it's very well done. I to lost my father, & whole family @ age 1, as I was orphaned. Went to stranger that didn't want me but my grandfather black mailed them. He didn't want me, but the strangers wanted my 2 sister's. They didn't want or like boys, but my grandfather told them they couldn't have my 2 sister's if they didn't take me. ( you can imagine how that was for me) you couldn't imagine! But this song is a little sad but beautiful, & powerful to me Ana way.
      God love ya! I do in Him.

  • @Biggestpicklefrogfan
    @Biggestpicklefrogfan 6 месяцев назад +6

    2024 realizing i turned out just like him

  • @Celice
    @Celice 7 месяцев назад +3

    Bro I just wanted to enjoy a funky song I found in GTA. Now I'm all in my feels, I never understood the lyrics

  • @Doamino41
    @Doamino41 3 месяца назад +4

    This song always touches my heart. Maybe it's because I never had any kids of my own. Or maybe it's because I could see this happening to me if I did have kids.

  • @Rednaxela_16
    @Rednaxela_16 8 дней назад +3

    this song hits different when you grow up with an absent father...

  • @eternalconsciousness9918
    @eternalconsciousness9918 Год назад +12

    Great irony, need to engage with children while they are young to build present and future happiness.❤

  • @donk5058
    @donk5058 Год назад +12

    One of the most devastating songs of all time

  • @patrickrogers02
    @patrickrogers02 6 месяцев назад +11

    I tell my son i love him 20 times a day. I will never miss anything be does unless I have work. I love him more than life itself!

  • @caseydavies3932
    @caseydavies3932 Год назад +15

    I lost my dad 10 years ago. I had just turned 15. I used to drive around with my best friend blasting this song and she held me while I cried because we both missed my dad. This song will forever memorialize my daddy😣 still makes me cry every time I hear it.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  Год назад +2

      Rest in peace ❤❤

    • @tammeybert132
      @tammeybert132 9 месяцев назад +1

      Casey, remember the good times with your Dad, breath deep to enjoy life

  • @edmdeathmachine
    @edmdeathmachine 10 месяцев назад +5

    I think the song gets sadder when you actually have kids

    • @alley9
      @alley9  10 месяцев назад +2

      true

  • @icecity9971
    @icecity9971 Год назад +9

    I love money. I’m a miami ass ni99a but this song has given me balance to always give him all the time I can because that’s one thing I can never regret or get back.

  • @sharonjensen3016
    @sharonjensen3016 7 месяцев назад +14

    This song is about a father who isn't around to see his son grow up. My dad was around to see me and my brothers grow up, but he's not here to see his first-born son turn 50 this year (Dad died in May 2021, five months before I turned 50) or see his grandchildren grow up. No matter how young or old you are, losing a parent hurts, especially if you're not ready to say goodbye.

  • @coltonbunch16
    @coltonbunch16 5 месяцев назад +3

    I see these comments and realize how lucky I am to have three sons under five years old.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  4 месяца назад +1

  • @bongo9384
    @bongo9384 8 месяцев назад +6

    My father's favorite song, and yet, it's about him. Never met a man so incapable of self reflection in my life. I'm 22 now and want nothing to do with him. When he asked me why, I just played the song and left.

  • @representativeofmexico2007
    @representativeofmexico2007 Год назад +4

    Mf send me this song the only Sunday I couldn't play softball with his team 🙄

  • @sylviaaguilar3067
    @sylviaaguilar3067 4 месяца назад +6

    I listen to this song and it always makes me cry. I have 2 sons and I was a single mom and spent so much time working all the time, I regret dearly of not spending time with them. I feel alot of guilt and I feel like I'll never get over it.

    • @rajK29_
      @rajK29_ 4 месяца назад

      I'm sorry to hear this maam, and I hope you three get more time together here onwards. If you dont mind, how old are they now?

  • @rajjibasan
    @rajjibasan Год назад +40

    what a song which really comes true in everyone's life..... and has a very deep meaning

    • @alley9
      @alley9  Год назад +5

      ❤❤

    • @Shadowsega9787
      @Shadowsega9787 Год назад +1

      😍

    • @nomoyohoo5232
      @nomoyohoo5232 Год назад +2

      Definitely not in everyone's lives. Not even in the majority of people's lives

  • @username33ish
    @username33ish 8 месяцев назад +6

    Used to listen to this in my dad's car on his cassette player now I'm listening to it while watching my son play with his toys music like this is a time machine

  • @absolutemystery372
    @absolutemystery372 Год назад +5

    i never had a father, so this song always seems empty to me.

  • @classifiedlonerider590
    @classifiedlonerider590 Год назад +9

    My Dad was the truck driver in ever since I was old enough to climb in one of those semis that's all I wanted to be. I wanted to be just like my dad. So in 1983 when I got my license to drive a truck that is when my dad retired and he was always asking me when I was going to come home. Yeah this song kicks me right in the feelers

  • @sharonjensen3016
    @sharonjensen3016 7 месяцев назад +7

    This song is about a father who isn't around to see his son grow up. My dad was around to see me and my brothers grow up, but he's not here to see his first-born son turn 50 this year (Dad died in May 2021, five months before I turned 50) or see his grandchildren grow up. No matter how young or old you are, losing a parent hurts, especially if you're not ready to say goodbye.

    • @Ifeeltheneedforspeed1
      @Ifeeltheneedforspeed1 6 месяцев назад +1

      Sadly it comes to us all my friend. I miss my father. This song is so true spend every min you can with your loved ones. No one i promised tomorrow.

  • @huntercoleherr
    @huntercoleherr 11 месяцев назад +3

    I'm so damned lucky. I teach at the school my son attends. I see him every day, and have a very active hand in his education, and will do so until he is a man.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  11 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤

  • @wheelchairmanjon
    @wheelchairmanjon 22 дня назад +2

    This song illustrates that life happens fast life goes by fast so you have to enjoy every moment and enjoy the loved ones while they are here.

  • @ernestgarcia755
    @ernestgarcia755 6 месяцев назад +3

    This song reminds me of my son,
    We spent a lot of time growing up together, and there was a time when we'd gotten older, and I didn't have time for him because of different reasons. One was my car broke down and so many other reasons, now he's gotten a family of his own and so much more going on in his life, I asked if I could come see him and his family, mostly to go fishing with him, because we fished alot when he was young, and I got no reply ,I know it's because of his life schedule, that's ok, because I still love him regardless, and I know he still loves me. It was thru texting about 2 hours ago. I am saddened by him not responding, I do understand, tho. And I will always love my son, even if he stops loving me.

  • @emad8944
    @emad8944 5 месяцев назад +5

    I did a mistake and now my children live without their dad. This song brings me to tears every time. I will never get over this

  • @SOMETHING8U
    @SOMETHING8U Год назад +7

    Love you all! Don’t forget to say hi to your family today even just to check on them! Say hi ❤

  • @jawadkhelil5742
    @jawadkhelil5742 17 дней назад +1

    anagram for Charlie Chaplin one of the best actors/stuntman/entertainers of the 1920's ,1930's and 1940's with such notable pictures as "Modern Times" , "The Kid" , "City Lights", "The Great Dictator" , his Granddaughter Oona Chaplin is going to appear in next year 2025 Avatar: Fire and Ash by director James Cameron (known for Aliens, The Abyss, Terminator, T2, True Lies, Titanic, Avatar,) Peace Next

  • @billyost1479
    @billyost1479 3 месяца назад +2

    Epic song. I'd like to know the background picture. I could walk that path forever.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  3 месяца назад +1

      Photo by Marek Szturc on Unsplash
      unsplash.com/photos/_zLAomPiKsc

  • @pambo68
    @pambo68 11 дней назад +1

    I heard Chapin LIVE sing this lyric "He came to the world while I was away".....which actually sounds more appropriate doesn't it!

  • @timeodaneosetdona
    @timeodaneosetdona Месяц назад +1

    There is an antidote to this feeling, from the most unlikely of places - Vito Corleone from the Godfather (Part 1):
    "Vito to Johnny: You spend time with your family?
    Johnny: Sure, do I, Godfather.
    Vito: Good. Because a man doesn't spend time with his family, (side glance at Sonny, his Son), can never be a real man"

  • @jrculbertson7463
    @jrculbertson7463 6 месяцев назад +6

    May God bless HARRY'S memory 🙏👍💖. He has one helluva LEGACY 🙏👍💖🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @alley9
      @alley9  6 месяцев назад +1

  • @IrishTechnicalThinker
    @IrishTechnicalThinker Год назад +5

    I believe this song the piano man is in purgatory and playing for the dead.

  • @laina6219
    @laina6219 3 месяца назад +4

    I have no comment...i grew up in the 1960's till now. This music brings back old memories and family that passed away. So many things

    • @alley9
      @alley9  3 месяца назад +1

  • @lonlevinholler74
    @lonlevinholler74 Месяц назад +1

    The vicious cycle. I turned into my Dad who turned into my Grandfather.

  • @julieswiss1
    @julieswiss1 10 дней назад +1

    That's the story of many families whose dad works for a living, and it goes from generation to generation.
    💔

  • @davidmckenzie-h9b
    @davidmckenzie-h9b 8 месяцев назад +4

    Song so true to life, real dad brought me in this world and left me with my mom, did nothing! Stepdad raise me, but was abusive to me and mom, but that is life! 65 retired and did good in this life, even with the cards being dealt to me. So be strong people, dont let them get you down! Love the song tho I cry when I sing to it every time. Enjoy this life the best you can!

  • @BenjaminCummins-fv9yi
    @BenjaminCummins-fv9yi Год назад +4

    I remember when my son was little I was a chef I was working long hours I got better Job more money i was off one day boss called me in my son started to cry said i what my daddy my boss said well I said not come in

  • @CeeSparks
    @CeeSparks Месяц назад +1

    Haha. Shrek (donkey singing this) brought me here. 😂

  • @wskay1
    @wskay1 Год назад +4

    My father didn't want much to do with my when I was young and I didn't want much to do with him when I grew up.

  • @omarally7655
    @omarally7655 Год назад +4

    mr peanutbutter brought me here

  • @MarkAlson-l3l
    @MarkAlson-l3l Месяц назад +1

    I and the Father are One John 10.30 Yahshua YHVH only

  • @stacydetwiler1475
    @stacydetwiler1475 14 дней назад +1

    Okay. I don't get it. Kids DO get the flu right?

  • @Ade_1
    @Ade_1 11 месяцев назад +4

    I remember this song from my early childhood always loved it. Many years later when I was old enough I understood the meaning , every time I hear it I remember the few precious memories of being a kid, getting a bit of time here and there with the old man. I've made sure to get as much time as I can with my Son. He's all grown up now living away and I understand the words again but from the other side. My son loves the song too, I guess he's just like me...

    • @alley9
      @alley9  11 месяцев назад +2

      ❤❤

  • @Vernon-gn9wb
    @Vernon-gn9wb 4 месяца назад +1

    It makes the emotions worse once you realize you can properly sing it

  • @johntracy72
    @johntracy72 5 месяцев назад +2

    The theme of this song is to take time to be a dad.

  • @Ifeeltheneedforspeed1
    @Ifeeltheneedforspeed1 6 месяцев назад +3

    1st heared this song growing up in belfast as a kid It was in an advertisement on tv about the troubles in Northern Ireland. How the son seen his father gunned down and that young kid grew up just like the gunman. Really hits home this song been with me all my life.

  • @proven-ff8gw
    @proven-ff8gw Год назад +9

    Loved it

  • @shabaluga
    @shabaluga 4 дня назад +1

    My father passed away in ‘12 miss him a lot still, I have a son who due to custody issues with his mom I didn’t spend as much time with him as I should have. It was time wasted for both of us, he is 19 now all grown up I’m very proud of him, but now life has taken him away from me, he joined the army and was deployed to Kuwait last may he’ll be gone for a year hope to spend time with him when he gets back, I pray for his safe return.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  4 дня назад +1

      It's never too late...

  • @tcolumbusga2963
    @tcolumbusga2963 10 месяцев назад +5

    This song played in my head all day, so I called my Dad, and then listened to this.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  10 месяцев назад +2

      ❤❤

  • @jddean527
    @jddean527 4 месяца назад +9

    I’m so glad I see and work with my dad every day.

  • @JAVIERORTEGON-g2x
    @JAVIERORTEGON-g2x 4 месяца назад +3

    THIS SONG IS SCARY ! I LIVED IT !

    • @alley9
      @alley9  4 месяца назад +2

  • @thecostaexperience
    @thecostaexperience 6 месяцев назад +2

    🖤

  • @proven-ff8gw
    @proven-ff8gw Год назад +7

    Amazing

  • @walterminer4990
    @walterminer4990 10 месяцев назад +4

    I'll be 72 young in a couple months. This song hits exactly what's going on in most people's lives. Hard piece to hear, especially, when it fits!
    Best to ya',,,,!

    • @alley9
      @alley9  10 месяцев назад +3

      ❤❤

  • @ascar1nthasky03
    @ascar1nthasky03 7 месяцев назад +3

    I can’t listen to this without crying or breaking down. This one hurts so bad. It’s so simple. But gut wrenching.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  7 месяцев назад +2

  • @glorygirllx
    @glorygirllx 4 месяца назад +1

    Came here from bojack horseman s3 ep1

  • @alley9
    @alley9  2 года назад +9

    Who this song reminds you of?

    • @alley9
      @alley9  2 года назад +6

      @Spiral The Dragon 😍

    • @riskianjai2876
      @riskianjai2876 2 года назад +7

      My dad, when i was 5, i once said to my father or dad "Can you stopping work" because i want to spend a time with him, but he only laugh and say "I can't"
      Now, i was 17, i have a big plan to living apart from my parents because i don't want to trouble them, I want to say it to my parents especially my dad, and I can't imagine how he would respond to my plan. I thought it was transition

    • @alley9
      @alley9  2 года назад +4

      Follow your heart bro! ❤

    • @alley9
      @alley9  Год назад +3

      @@riskianjai2876 Hey man, did you figure out what to do? Hope you've been doing nice. Have a great day!!

    • @John-ci8lq
      @John-ci8lq Год назад +3

      It reminds me of me when I'm asking my dad to play with me and it reminds me of my dad because sometimes he says tomorrow or not today.🥰👏❤️❤️❤️❤️💖💖💖💖💖

  • @curtisthornsberry4236
    @curtisthornsberry4236 Год назад +3

    Story time. I never knew my father. Found out i was adopted when I was 19. Took years to reconcile. Was gonna call the man who was my “father” the day after fathers day, found out he passed away a day later. Lifes funny like that.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  Год назад +1

      "Has this world been so kind to you that you should leave with regret? There are better things ahead than any we leave behind." - C. S. Lewis

  • @nerf.miner1
    @nerf.miner1 8 месяцев назад +2

    HI EIGTH GRADERS AT LC ITS GEORGE

    • @joeysmith7296
      @joeysmith7296 8 месяцев назад

      LC? Which LC? And how three weeks ago?
      I go to school where its name is abbreviated into LC

  • @amanacatandhisdog8836
    @amanacatandhisdog8836 9 месяцев назад +3

    This song helped me immensely. We was going that way. My dad had worked a lot when I was young. However I moved close to where my parents lived to be close to them. My wife had left. I remember talking to my dad about this very song saying I didn’t want this fate w him
    My dad just passed and I am sad about that but happy that our ending was very different. These past few years we became very close and friends. Please i urge you to spend time with loved ones. Spend time doing things. I believe you will appreciate that in time I surly did. I am grateful today.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  9 месяцев назад +2

      ❤❤

  • @cte4dota
    @cte4dota 9 месяцев назад +2

    For this song i refuse to drive a Truck.

  • @imnotdone3813
    @imnotdone3813 5 месяцев назад +5

    I sent this song to my son just now. We did spend alot of time together his younger days. I remember walking him to elementary school every morning. He's soon to be 20 he's left the nest so I text him daily but sometimes it takes a while for him to respond. I understand he has alot on his plate and I'm actually proud that he's takimg on the world on his own. But he's my first born son, and no matter how many times I tell him, he won't understand how much I truly love him until he has an offspring of his own. God Bless you, Mathew.

    • @alley9
      @alley9  5 месяцев назад +1

  • @memoryperitore3059
    @memoryperitore3059 2 месяца назад +2

    As a mother now This song makes me cry every time!!!

  • @KaikaiDG
    @KaikaiDG Месяц назад +1

    in the middle made me come here

  • @sofiemint6324
    @sofiemint6324 Год назад +4

    always family first 💗

  • @walterminer4990
    @walterminer4990 7 месяцев назад +2

    When I recieved this notification it brought me back to thinking "I could have called my Dad or other family members one more time"! I could have stopped by to visit more often!. This song can really makes guilt rise in anyone.
    Best to ya',,,,!

  • @jehovah1ize
    @jehovah1ize Месяц назад +2

    Every man should hear this song. My husband is a great dad to our son. He always had time for him. Our son is an adult now but we are still there for him.I wish my father was like my husband is to our son. 🥲

  • @cassconner6023
    @cassconner6023 5 месяцев назад +1

    I made my Son a priority and we were always together doing fun things all the time. Now he is 14 and doesn't seem to want to do anything with me anymore, doesn't even talk much. What can I do? It breaks my heart, we were so close to the point that whenever I left the house he would yell Wait! then run and give me a hug.

    • @nato8787
      @nato8787 5 месяцев назад

      people grow up

    • @cassconner6023
      @cassconner6023 5 месяцев назад

      @@nato8787 doesn’t mean you have to like it.

    • @nato8787
      @nato8787 5 месяцев назад

      @@cassconner6023 yeah i know but you cant make him be like that with you again

  • @4ipuzik
    @4ipuzik 9 месяцев назад +3

    Still gets me as a son and as a father

  • @tomevans4402
    @tomevans4402 3 месяца назад +1

    Great and sad

  • @riversidesagkeeng30
    @riversidesagkeeng30 6 месяцев назад +2

    Out of my 50 years of life my Father only told me once he loved me & was proud of me he never said it again he passed 10 years ago glad he told me before he left this world

    • @alley9
      @alley9  5 месяцев назад +2

      Rest in peace ❤❤ Let's say it to the ones we love before we go :)

  • @MRMarioFan1-rg3qd
    @MRMarioFan1-rg3qd Год назад +2

    This brilliant fantastic awesome amazing lovely 😍❤😀😊 Song 🎵❤😀😊 Is in The GTA Video Game 🎮 GTA5 on the Radio 📻 Station Los Santos Rock 🪨🎸 Radio 📻

  • @suzanne1430
    @suzanne1430 4 месяца назад +1

    I kept putting off going to see dad...my husband was going to take a couple of days off and drive over there...I'm in houston he and my stepmother live in Mississippi...it's not too far.....we planned on going but then I got the call from my stepsister that he had a heart attack...a million things rolled through my mind I was just about to ask for the hospital and room number but then she said...they couldn't revive him.....I felt an immediate disconnect inside...a feeling I've never felt in my life...god I'll never forgive myself....how could I let so much time go by without going to see him.😢😢😢💔💔💔..why did I do that.😢

  • @noahderstand
    @noahderstand 6 месяцев назад +1

    Every relationship we begin will end one day. Friends, lovers, family, neglect, abandonment, death are part of the equation. No exceptions. Your recovery could start now but it won't in the past. Make sure to express your love. Be there in the room with those who know you well enough. Be prepared always for the inevitable but love with a full heart. It hurts no doubt about it. You have to love in spite of it.

  • @LadyOmenesa
    @LadyOmenesa 5 месяцев назад +1

    then!!!!!

  • @diane-cx1eo
    @diane-cx1eo 6 месяцев назад +2

    Life is too short make time for your loved ones..I just lost my brother yesterday

    • @alley9
      @alley9  6 месяцев назад +1

      Rest in peace ❤️ how are you feeling?

    • @diane-cx1eo
      @diane-cx1eo 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you alley9 I'm ok but as I listen to this song my dad never had time for me. I know my brother is in Heaven he as a Christian..thank you God Bless

  • @ValeDXC
    @ValeDXC 10 месяцев назад +4

    This song teaches all of us a lesson

    • @alley9
      @alley9  10 месяцев назад +2

      true 🖤

    • @johntracy72
      @johntracy72 5 месяцев назад

      That lesson take time to be a dad.

  • @Goofygoober_84
    @Goofygoober_84 Год назад +6

    Sad song 😢

  • @Attacksloth_32
    @Attacksloth_32 2 месяца назад +1

    My dad was always there for me even though he had busy nights. He'd find time to play road hockey with us, put up Christmas lights, sit and chat on the patio. He was goofy as heck and joked about everything. Today, I use his example as how I treat my own son.

  • @dennycraig8483
    @dennycraig8483 9 месяцев назад +1

    We always think we have all the time in the world, but children grow fast,especially when you are constantly trying to provide. Assuming that is what is important. Love & time is more important. I’ve met my dad once in 47 years. I promised myself never to be like him.

  • @valfera10
    @valfera10 5 месяцев назад +1

    Except for the part of having kids, it's kinda like me and my dad. We lived apart for 27 years of my life but he tried a lot to come and hang out with me.

  • @oldsilver6035
    @oldsilver6035 Год назад +3

    The bedeviled cat's in the cradle ❤🌟🙏🎁🇺🇲👄

  • @miaeomundosilencioso3108
    @miaeomundosilencioso3108 2 года назад +15

    It reminds me and my grandpa :)

  • @PiperCox-zj5th
    @PiperCox-zj5th Год назад +3

    Best part about kids adds sustenance