Shiyi is very lucky to have Lingyi protecting her from all the vipers in the Xu family. He defied his mother's wishes in order to bring her home. Shiyi is very strategic with her words. She nudged Lingyi just enough and now he's going to start questioning Lianfang's behavior. It's a great strategy because now he's going to question the guards that were suppose to guard his wife. It's a matter of time before he finds out the truth.
It was in vain that Lianfang did not heed Shiyi's warning. "The Peonie is much more fragile than the plum blossom." Shiyi is a strategist. She was a child when she had to take responsibility for her life and the lives of the people she loved. Too much depended on her mind, observation, endurance and decisions. Qiao is a spoiled child who knew no rejection of anything. Shiyi's wrong decision put the health or life of her loved ones on the line, for Lianfang it would be an unfulfilled whim. Shiyi always relies on himself, Qiao relies on others. Shiyi notices the little things. Linyi is a prime example. In a very short time, she managed to figure out his character. She took advantage of this knowledge to nudge him in the right direction. Lianfang has known him since childhood, but prefers to live by his own idea of him, rather than getting to know a real person. It is noteworthy that he never hid his character and beliefs. An open book, just read it carefully. Only after all nobody wants to read.
Ella es muy inteligente, estratega y suave con las palabras con lo cual él sabe como puede ayudar. El es muy gentil cosa poco común en una época donde la mujer valía menos que nada. Solo moneda de trueque.
Indeed, he is not indifferent to Shiyi. Indicative is his reaction to her fall on him. Notice how he holds his hands when catching. He does not try to hug her, the position is as if he is afraid to touch her (left hand). He averts his eyes and begins to examine the walls and ceiling of the wagon after he helped her sit up. A little strange behavior for a husband towards his wife, especially without prying eyes. It seems that he was embarrassed by his own feelings. When Shiyi fell on him on the first night after the wedding, he was clearly annoyed (he lectured on behavior). When he caught Lianfang, he was absolutely calm and indifferent, he held his hands so as not to touch (this is understandable, a man cannot touch a woman, unless she is his wife, daughter or sister). Shiyi is his wife, what's the problem. There is no sedition, even if he hugs in public. I think the problem is that, unexpectedly for himself, he saw a woman in her. Before that, he considered her a child (and her behavior for the first two nights only confirmed this), but now everything has changed. By her actions, unwittingly, she changed his perception of her: she argued with him from a position of equal, did not hesitate to put in place (given her age and dependent position - boldly), showed rare discernment when the question touched his feelings. Even in matters of manipulation, Shiyi is a virtuoso: Linyi did not even realize that she did it. Controlling a man without suppressing his will is a rare gift, but in combination with her age and a complete lack of experience ... Concubines try to achieve something by exchanging benefits for the body. At the same time, they do it so clumsily, trying to bring him down to the level of a male who is not able to control his actions at the sight of a female, that they only humiliate him. They don't even understand it, especially Lianfang. Mother presses on her son's respect and duty to his family, Yuanyang pressed on guilt and the same duty. In both cases, the manipulation is so blatant that it adds neither mental comfort nor self-respect to him. Not surprisingly, he always ran away from the house. Shiyi made it so that HE HIMSELF made the decision she needed. She made him feel like a guardian and a man. True, the latter is rather a side effect obtained on the basis of his experience of communicating with other women in the family, which she did not count on at all.
For one thing she might be concerned that one of the woman in the harem arranged it. Shiyi isn't interested in getting her husband's favor like the rest of the women, but how she acts in the harem affects how people will treat all those under her care, so she has to play her hand carefully in order to protect and since she isn't scheming to earn her husband's favor she's hoping that if she minds her own business the other women will mind hers. Chinese harems have hierarchy systems, women will literally kill each other in order to advance their rank and position.
I guess its more likely because women in that time if get kidnaped by man, they will get slander to be sleep with other man or considered cheating on the her husband, that will embarassed the whole family and will make shi yi get divorce by her husband or even more get punished.
@@finlord4941 Same here. My culture is quite like this back home. If a woman is kidnapped, raped, or even rumoured to have a connection with a non-relative man, that woman is forever humiliated by the public. Till the early 1990's, they even to show heroically of hero/heroine forcing the rapist to marry his victim so that her 'honour' is protected. In some movies, the parents are shown sympathetically commiting suicide if their 'honour' can't be saved.
Because women were blamed for being not being able to protect themselves even though it was not their fault. Families would rather a dead wife than a living wife who had the possibility of being impure. She was just protecting herself and her maid.
Pinkrise0910. Please understand that in the Asian culture face/pride/honor are very important. You must maintain a certain standard. It's beyond us to understand how strong a cultural part of their life it is. Think of the Brits hanging on to the monarchy for no more a reason than it's a habit. What they are used too. Slowly changing, thank God!
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Shiyi is very lucky to have Lingyi protecting her from all the vipers in the Xu family. He defied his mother's wishes in order to bring her home. Shiyi is very strategic with her words. She nudged Lingyi just enough and now he's going to start questioning Lianfang's behavior. It's a great strategy because now he's going to question the guards that were suppose to guard his wife. It's a matter of time before he finds out the truth.
It was in vain that Lianfang did not heed Shiyi's warning. "The Peonie is much more fragile than the plum blossom." Shiyi is a strategist. She was a child when she had to take responsibility for her life and the lives of the people she loved. Too much depended on her mind, observation, endurance and decisions. Qiao is a spoiled child who knew no rejection of anything. Shiyi's wrong decision put the health or life of her loved ones on the line, for Lianfang it would be an unfulfilled whim. Shiyi always relies on himself, Qiao relies on others.
Shiyi notices the little things. Linyi is a prime example. In a very short time, she managed to figure out his character. She took advantage of this knowledge to nudge him in the right direction. Lianfang has known him since childhood, but prefers to live by his own idea of him, rather than getting to know a real person. It is noteworthy that he never hid his character and beliefs. An open book, just read it carefully. Only after all nobody wants to read.
Ella es muy inteligente, estratega y suave con las palabras con lo cual él sabe como puede ayudar. El es muy gentil cosa poco común en una época donde la mujer valía menos que nada. Solo moneda de trueque.
@@Irynash11 she is worse than a slow-witted person😂
Handsome and Beautiful couples 😍👍
Traduzir para o português do Brasil por favor
Seven is THE BEST. Her roles here as Shiyi is like night and day compared to Jinxia in Under the power
Ella nunca hará de chica débil y sumisa😂😂
好看
I love shiyi and Maguires
👍👌✌️👏❤️
Dorama como se llama el dorama gracias
馬拖著這麼沉重馬車又戴著人好殘忍
擔心🐴的負重😂 好心人一生平安
is Marquis jealous ..... of Shinyi's comments about man being careless...
Oh
Indeed, he is not indifferent to Shiyi. Indicative is his reaction to her fall on him. Notice how he holds his hands when catching. He does not try to hug her, the position is as if he is afraid to touch her (left hand). He averts his eyes and begins to examine the walls and ceiling of the wagon after he helped her sit up. A little strange behavior for a husband towards his wife, especially without prying eyes. It seems that he was embarrassed by his own feelings. When Shiyi fell on him on the first night after the wedding, he was clearly annoyed (he lectured on behavior). When he caught Lianfang, he was absolutely calm and indifferent, he held his hands so as not to touch (this is understandable, a man cannot touch a woman, unless she is his wife, daughter or sister). Shiyi is his wife, what's the problem. There is no sedition, even if he hugs in public. I think the problem is that, unexpectedly for himself, he saw a woman in her. Before that, he considered her a child (and her behavior for the first two nights only confirmed this), but now everything has changed. By her actions, unwittingly, she changed his perception of her: she argued with him from a position of equal, did not hesitate to put in place (given her age and dependent position - boldly), showed rare discernment when the question touched his feelings.
Even in matters of manipulation, Shiyi is a virtuoso: Linyi did not even realize that she did it. Controlling a man without suppressing his will is a rare gift, but in combination with her age and a complete lack of experience ... Concubines try to achieve something by exchanging benefits for the body. At the same time, they do it so clumsily, trying to bring him down to the level of a male who is not able to control his actions at the sight of a female, that they only humiliate him. They don't even understand it, especially Lianfang. Mother presses on her son's respect and duty to his family, Yuanyang pressed on guilt and the same duty. In both cases, the manipulation is so blatant that it adds neither mental comfort nor self-respect to him. Not surprisingly, he always ran away from the house. Shiyi made it so that HE HIMSELF made the decision she needed. She made him feel like a guardian and a man. True, the latter is rather a side effect obtained on the basis of his experience of communicating with other women in the family, which she did not count on at all.
@@Irynash11 😍😍 😊 😊 I
What episode is this
ep12
What's the drama name..?
the sword and the brocade that name of drama
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I don’t get why you wouldn’t tell your husband you were kidnapped ? It doesn’t make sense .
For one thing she might be concerned that one of the woman in the harem arranged it. Shiyi isn't interested in getting her husband's favor like the rest of the women, but how she acts in the harem affects how people will treat all those under her care, so she has to play her hand carefully in order to protect and since she isn't scheming to earn her husband's favor she's hoping that if she minds her own business the other women will mind hers. Chinese harems have hierarchy systems, women will literally kill each other in order to advance their rank and position.
I guess its more likely because women in that time if get kidnaped by man, they will get slander to be sleep with other man or considered cheating on the her husband, that will embarassed the whole family and will make shi yi get divorce by her husband or even more get punished.
@@finlord4941 Same here. My culture is quite like this back home. If a woman is kidnapped, raped, or even rumoured to have a connection with a non-relative man, that woman is forever humiliated by the public.
Till the early 1990's, they even to show heroically of hero/heroine forcing the rapist to marry his victim so that her 'honour' is protected. In some movies, the parents are shown sympathetically commiting suicide if their 'honour' can't be saved.
女子在外過夜，在那個年代的道德觀，是會惹人非議的，所以別説的好。
Because women were blamed for being not being able to protect themselves even though it was not their fault. Families would rather a dead wife than a living wife who had the possibility of being impure. She was just protecting herself and her maid.
Pinkrise0910. Please understand that in the Asian culture face/pride/honor are very important. You must maintain a certain standard. It's beyond us to understand how strong a cultural part of their life it is. Think of the Brits hanging on to the monarchy for no more a reason than it's a habit. What they are used too. Slowly changing, thank God!