It’s so easy for us to tell someone else to move on and he doesn’t deserve her love. It’s easy said then done. The one left behind in a relationship is the one hardest to heal. I feel your pain sister and hoping you can fully recover your broken heart. It’s better to slowly heal your heart then hoeing around like a lot these other divorces story. Sometimes it can take a life time to heal. But remember to seek happiness while you are healing yourself. Travel can help ease your healing, new experiences will help you fill those heartaches. I applaud you for not seeking for another relationship, you’re such strong and true women. It’s not fair to your or the other person if you divulge in a relationship when you are not healed from your previous marriage. It’s okay to be alone.
Omg lady, people are going to think this was my story. I’m a teacher with an illness, whose ex husband went with other women and didn’t like to argue… but, the difference is I love myself more than you did. I left my first marriage and two years later I met a great guy. There are good men out there who will love you for you. Don’t force your ex to continue a life with you when he no longer loves you. If you don’t want another man in your life, learn to be happy by yourself! I thought you were a strong woman until the end. Stop waiting for him. Live for you and your kids! Good luck to you!
I’m not sure what’s up with those who lay down and sacrifice so much and give everything to the men, trusting men this much is not the right path in life. We women need to have precautions 24/7 even you trust him completely,
@@Kachien292 I was like her. Even his own family members told me it was not me, it was him. I had to come to terms that he didn’t want to be with me anymore. But I left that relationship knowing I tried everything to save my marriage. But I finally realized that I was never happy and didn’t want to keep working at a relationship that I knew was going nowhere. This was after twenty years of marriage, servitude, and unrequited love. So I let go and worked on healing myself. Two years later I met my present husband whose wife had cheated on him too. So I knew we would work out very well. In the end, I had no regrets and am much happier!
He is trash 🗑 🚮. The moment he start looking elsewhere is the minute he stopped loving you. If he truly love you, he would’ve given you his whole heart and not allowed another woman in his life. Love yourself and let him go.
I hope that somewhere within yourself you will find the strength to self care and self love use the 20% he told you to have for yourself and build it to 100%. Your hurting so much and in sonmany ways have so much faith in a broken relationship. I can only say love yourself and make the right decision for yourself. He doesn't deserve you. And you maybe scared of loneliness but don't be afraid you have two strong daughters who loves you unconditionally you don't need him or another man. Take pride in self love sister. Enjoy the world, take trips, explore life. It's beautiful you were like that before him you can donit again. We were born alone and grew up by ourselves you don't need him. Let it go. If your meant to be time will heal and you shall meet again.
These comments are so mean towards this lady. I pray for you sister, may you be happier with him or without him. This is your life and you know it best. I am glad your daughters are fighting for you.
You can be the most righteousness and honest person to a man but it will never win his heart. End of the question. The reason you can’t let go of him because he had loved you dearly and never abused you. That makes hard for u to leave but u have to accept that his heart already left u long time. Let him go sister. You’ll be fine just by yourself. U had a happy marriage for 20 yrs. You’re very lucky woman. Most of the women didn’t get what u get. You’re very blessed!! Go to church to receive peace from God instead of people. Find CMA church near u. God bless u! So sad that he treated u that way but don’t lose hope.
Sister!! I am so proud of you for that you are have a heart of pure 100% gold even though your ex does all these hurtful things towards you but still have the heart to loving him. Please love yourself and move on don’t asking him to coming back to hurting you again!! Once is for all if you’re allowing him to come back to your life, he will eventually hurt you again. Let him be it!! Stay strong and be a good mother for your two beautiful daughters and a great grandma for your grandkids. For the most importance part take a great care of yourself!! The rewards will comeback at you soon from the good seeds! Wish you the best!!
Sister, you need to let this cheater go. He doesn’t love you anymore. If he love you, he would not put you through this pain. He’s regretting the choice he made because it’s not what he expected. Even if he comes back to you, he is not the same man you married. The trust is broken. You can be happy again without him. Focus on Self love and take care of yourself. When men like this find another woman, he will leave you again. What you hope for and what will be reality are very different. Spare yourself from heartache the second time, he doesn’t love you the way you want anymore.
Dear sister ! I had been through the same life’s, sister when I listen your story I felt so hurts , it bring me back to remember my old life’s but my ex husband did not treat me and my children’s rights like your ex husband sisters but to me even he treat you nice but he doesn’t love you any mores things had Chang , he didn’t act the same any more so even he treat you nices but he didn’t love you so it’s still hurting in side my heart, because he took all the real life and love that he had been given for you before and now he provides for a different lady then it still destroy your life, but sisters please respect your self, love your self more and more don’t force your self to hold your life for him , please think that he is not your true love , if him love you deep down from his hearts then no matter what had have pen to you or your life , he should be accepted because you two had been building this life together at the beginning so he must be with you , but if him had learn a new different things, a difficult life that him has recive now but him still take it, still accept it,and him continue to provided and love other lady’s and other children’s so you should know that his destiny guiding him that ways or may be his life in the past generations he still own them money’s or own them some things that he has to let you go , because the cursed that god have to divide you two or destroy your good life to fall s parts then let go and for get him, but sister if I were you I have to love my self, treat your self right, even no other men out there for you right now it’s ok, but you need to spend time for your self go vacations, all over the world take a good time to travel to see a wonderful things an amazing things in this world to forget your life in the past and don’t wait for him anymore, if you don’t make your minds to let him go then him will hurt you mores no second marry will safe because I had been all this don’t put you down, and let you down ok felt love you and care for you sisters remember always respect your self.
He's not a txiv tsev but a txiv dev. A real txiv tsev will love you through thick and thin, life and death, rich and poor...only when he recovered your teardrop from the bottom of the ocean is when he'll let go of you.
sister, if you're true to yourself, love yourself enough, you shouldn't hold-on to your pass. our life lives like a river, we should only move forward not backward. forgive yourself, but don't forget who have hurt you, move-on, life is short, cherish those loves you now.
Time to let go. He’s done with you. Learn to let go, it’s not worth fight for. Also you don’t know what disease he is bringing home to you. Love yourself, respect yourself, become mentally/emotionally healthier/stronger for you and your daughters. We don’t need a man to feel complete.
Once a dog will be a dog! He’s now using the children to get back to you only. Don’t go back to him! There’s a reason why you two broke up. If you take him back- sorry you deserve what he did to you!
She's more desperate for him than he is desperate for her. He left her but she is the 1 that didn't put the stop to and keeps telling him my door still opens for you anytime
No wonder he left you!! Where is your self worth? If you don't love yourself, how can you convince someone else to love you? Cut your loses and live the life that you were meant to.....without that cheating dog.
So sad, it is so hard to let go of someone you loved for so long, it breaks my heart because you love him so much but he doesn’t feel the same way!!! Everyone has their own luck, you are the one he lost! He will never find someone like you.
Txhob tos lawm os mog, nws tsim koj tob tob thiab xav ua kom koj tuag nyoos xwb. Tus uas mus lawm tseem los khoos kom yus luag ntxhis xwb ces yus haj yam mob.
Damn this is sad. He had a good life, good wife and wonderful children. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Just water the grass on your side and that's good enough.
He doesn’t love you because you are easy to love. You are always there and succumb to everything he needs and wants, whenever he wants it. Don’t waste your life waiting for someone who doesn’t see your worth. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are beautiful. Open your mind/eyes to other options.
Peb tej niam txiv txawm yuav sib hlub npaum twg ,sib ntseeg siab npaum li cas los txhob cia ib leeg mus nyob ib qho yog sib ncaim ntev ces lub siab yuav hloov mus thiab peb yuav tsum nyob ua ke tsis txhob pub nrug li txawm haujlwm yuav zoo thiab tau nyiaj ntau npaum li cas los txhob ntshaw es tuav ob leeg txoj kev txij nkawm kom ruaj khov xwb
It's a sad story, it's even sadder because the time doesn't wait but that's irrelevant. Once that person cheated on you, he/she will do it again and again and again, keep that in mind.
Lub neej niam txais tog txiv txais nta- ces ua neej tshav ntuj nram qab ha xwb2. Muab txoj kev cuav ua tsis tau tseeb. Kev tseeb ua tsis tau Cuav. Lub sij hawm thiaj qhia tau kev tseeb. Neeg kev xav ces yog ib vuag. Lub Cuav neej tsis tsheej. Cov cuav yeeb, tsis tseeb cawm tsis tau txoj sia-
I couldn't even finish this story. To the woman that sent in the story, if you read this, if he cannot accept some weight gain how is he going to accept or love you in old age? In sickness and in health as they say. I am only speaking because I've experienced something along the same line as this too where my weight gain affected my marriage and how much I was loved in the aftermath. Our physical appearance shouldn't determine how much or how little we deserve. Boys like these are so annoying.
Tus Viv ncaus aw cas yuav nrog kj tu siab ua luaj li o. Txhob tos kj Tus txiv lawm o vim nws siab phem2 rau kj es txhob tos nws lawm mog thov hlub kj Tus kheej nawb mog vim kj Tus txiv nws twb tsi hlub kj li kj hlub nws is mog thov txhob tos nws lawm mog hlub kj kawg li os.
Sis, love yourself and don't wait for him. Even if he comes back, he only came back because you are his last choice. Will you be okay with being his last choice? If he left you before, he will leave you again and again. Sis, it's your life and your choice. Love yourself no matter what.
Lady, please as a educator, you should know, no matter how nice you are, how kind you are, how wonderful, how sweet, and what you can do to keep the man if he doesn't want to be keep by you, no matter what you do even if you cut your brain to feed it to him he will not be with you. Keep that in your head and move on. My advice to you is please 🙏 move on, respect yourself, love yourself and you'll be able to find someone who will want to be keep by you. I knows that it's easy said then done, but sister move on love yourself and see yourself worth and beautiful with your beautiful daughter, best of luck.
You are holding onto something that does not exist anymore. If he comes back, high chance he will leave again when finds someone better. Take care of yourself. Don’t live a life that will give u more heartache and stress.
I'm mad that she still waiting for him but I guess if your in her shoes with the history they have...thats exactly how it could feel. I hope things works out for this sister and please stay strong for your health and self love.
Ib cov niam tsev cas tsis saib lawv tus kheej muaj nqes li. Yus tsis hlub yus tus kheej es leej twg thiaj hlub naj. Thaum tus txiv twb qhia kiag tias nws tsis hlub yus lawm los tseem tsis nkag siab thiab thiaj li tau txais txoj kev lwj siab li no. Love yourself. Men only love you as much as you love yourself. If a man loves you, nothing can make him leave. If he doesn't love you, nothing can make him stay. Waiting will never bring him back. Stop living in your dreams and wake up to reality.
Wow, what a strong woman You are. You are a true bride “ love til death part” no mater how urgly your husband has been. I am not sure if he deserves you. May God,
She does not need to find a man who will love her. Why do people always encourage to find another man? She just need to find balance in her life and learn to find happiness without a man. Self love and self healing is all she need.
@@msyngseer5560 you’re right she doesn’t. But it’s harder to move on when you don’t have someone else. And maybe for you, you may not need someone, but for her she may be able to move on if she knows there are better men out there.
Yep. My ex-husband was just like this. I cried months for him, but I'm slowly getting over it. I deserve better. I know better now. ^_^ yalls must be related somehow.
Thov qhuas tus niam tsev no feem ntau cov poj niam yog ntsib txoj kev zoo li no ces lawv ua ib siab lawm Peb cov txiv neej hmong nyias ntse mus nyias ib yam ces thaum kawg thiaj plam 2 tug 3 tug niam tsev zoo. Qhov peb yov tau xav kom meej mas 2 yam 1.Yog Yus yeej muaj muaj nyiaj lawm es tus poj niam tshiab. qub los yus tsis as xaim nyiaj lawm no ces risk los tau thiab. 2. Peb yov tau luj hais tias thaun yav laus tus poj niam twg thiaj li yov so yus pob tw. Thaun zoo li no lawm ces yus thiaj paub txiav txim siab mog tsis li ces nrauj poj niam yuam kev mog. Yog ho xav ua si xwb no los kuj ua yog yus tus niam tsev ua siab loj tau. Lub neej mas peb paub hnub no xwb Tag kis mas ntuj dub ntuj tsaus tsis muaj leej twg twv tau laiv cov yawg Kuv saib ntau lub sij hawm dhlau los tsis hais cov niam tsev los yog cov txiv tsev hmong tau ua lub neej yuam kev ntau leej tau nyob qab choj lawm los xyov cas zoo li sawv daws kawm tsis tiav li poj niam txiv neej los txawv tsis deb yog me nyuam tsis yog yus yug kiag ces 90% yus yeej muaj qhov qias nawb mog ces thaum zoo li ntawd lawm ces txoj kev sib nrauj nyob kiag ntawm tawv rooj nawb mog cov me kwv tij. Ces yov tau kawn kom tiav Ua tsaug
Txoj kev hlub tej zaum yeej yuav tsi nrog yu nyob mu ib txhis os, zoo qhov nw tsi hlub yu lo nw twb qhia qhov tseeb rau yu ce qhov no kuj yog ib qho zoo lawm os
Clearly he’s the love of your life but you’re not his. He replaced you easily and it is time to love yourself. If you open your heart you’ll see that there’s life after him. I’ll say a prayer for you
Tus txiv neej ko vwm lawm xwb yog kuv mam yeej tsis nrog tus txiv neej ko mus lawm vim yog nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm vimli cas koj ho tseem yuav nrog nws mus muab kev hlub thiab kuv pab koj khuv xim koj txoj kev hlub vim li cas koj how tsis hlub koj tus kheej kom zoo.
Txhub cov neeg pheej ua2 dev li ko tshaj yus tsis muaj nqi li los cas thiaj pheej swb cev rau ib tug neeg siab dub siv yus li ko txiv neej tag lawm lod
Yug ob nyuag tug menyuam xwb luag thiaj tsis hlub ne. Yuav tsum yug kom cob leej es yus tus txiv thiaj sov siab dai siab khiav tsis tau ntawm yus mus. Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj lawm os nws thiaj khoo kom txhob ua lwm tus paub.
Me niam hluas its easy said then done ppl fhnk its easy but thnk far and wise before you go back. I know you probably say you’re doing it fr the girls, but you have and now stop putting your happiness on hold. It’s time to do you, you also deserve to be happy. Im sure your kids will understand. Zoo li dej txias npaus siab ntsws lawm ces yuav tsis sov lawm os mog. Best wishes and whtevr decision you make hope its the best.
It’s so easy for us to tell someone else to move on and he doesn’t deserve her love. It’s easy said then done. The one left behind in a relationship is the one hardest to heal. I feel your pain sister and hoping you can fully recover your broken heart. It’s better to slowly heal your heart then hoeing around like a lot these other divorces story.
Sometimes it can take a life time to heal. But remember to seek happiness while you are healing yourself. Travel can help ease your healing, new experiences will help you fill those heartaches.
I applaud you for not seeking for another relationship, you’re such strong and true women. It’s not fair to your or the other person if you divulge in a relationship when you are not healed from your previous marriage. It’s okay to be alone.
Omg lady, people are going to think this was my story. I’m a teacher with an illness, whose ex husband went with other women and didn’t like to argue… but, the difference is I love myself more than you did. I left my first marriage and two years later I met a great guy. There are good men out there who will love you for you. Don’t force your ex to continue a life with you when he no longer loves you. If you don’t want another man in your life, learn to be happy by yourself! I thought you were a strong woman until the end. Stop waiting for him. Live for you and your kids! Good luck to you!
I’m not sure what’s up with those who lay down and sacrifice so much and give everything to the men, trusting men this much is not the right path in life. We women need to have precautions 24/7 even you trust him completely,
@@Kachien292 I was like her. Even his own family members told me it was not me, it was him. I had to come to terms that he didn’t want to be with me anymore. But I left that relationship knowing I tried everything to save my marriage. But I finally realized that I was never happy and didn’t want to keep working at a relationship that I knew was going nowhere. This was after twenty years of marriage, servitude, and unrequited love. So I let go and worked on healing myself. Two years later I met my present husband whose wife had cheated on him too. So I knew we would work out very well. In the end, I had no regrets and am much happier!
He is trash 🗑 🚮. The moment he start looking elsewhere is the minute he stopped loving you. If he truly love you, he would’ve given you his whole heart and not allowed another woman in his life.
Love yourself and let him go.
I hope that somewhere within yourself you will find the strength to self care and self love use the 20% he told you to have for yourself and build it to 100%. Your hurting so much and in sonmany ways have so much faith in a broken relationship. I can only say love yourself and make the right decision for yourself. He doesn't deserve you. And you maybe scared of loneliness but don't be afraid you have two strong daughters who loves you unconditionally you don't need him or another man. Take pride in self love sister. Enjoy the world, take trips, explore life. It's beautiful you were like that before him you can donit again. We were born alone and grew up by ourselves you don't need him. Let it go. If your meant to be time will heal and you shall meet again.
These comments are so mean towards this lady. I pray for you sister, may you be happier with him or without him. This is your life and you know it best. I am glad your daughters are fighting for you.
I’m proud of your daughters fighting for your love and being the strong ones in your dysfunctional relationship. Omg mom learn from your girls!!!
You can be the most righteousness and honest person to a man but it will never win his heart. End of the question.
The reason you can’t let go of him because he had loved you dearly and never abused you. That makes hard for u to leave but u have to accept that his heart already left u long time. Let him go sister. You’ll be fine just by yourself. U had a happy marriage for 20 yrs. You’re very lucky woman. Most of the women didn’t get what u get.
You’re very blessed!!
Go to church to receive peace from God instead of people. Find CMA church near u. God bless u!
So sad that he treated u that way but don’t lose hope.
Sister!! I am so proud of you for that you are have a heart of pure 100% gold even though your ex does all these hurtful things towards you but still have the heart to loving him. Please love yourself and move on don’t asking him to coming back to hurting you again!! Once is for all if you’re allowing him to come back to your life, he will eventually hurt you again. Let him be it!! Stay strong and be a good mother for your two beautiful daughters and a great grandma for your grandkids. For the most importance part take a great care of yourself!! The rewards will comeback at you soon from the good seeds! Wish you the best!!
Sister, you need to let this cheater go. He doesn’t love you anymore. If he love you, he would not put you through this pain. He’s regretting the choice he made because it’s not what he expected. Even if he comes back to you, he is not the same man you married. The trust is broken.
You can be happy again without him. Focus on Self love and take care of yourself.
When men like this find another woman, he will leave you again. What you hope for and what will be reality are very different. Spare yourself from heartache the second time, he doesn’t love you the way you want anymore.
Zoo heev li o
Gosh... these men!
What a sad story! Sister aw... hope you will find someone who love you soon.
Koj siab zoo ualuaj os, thov vajtswv foom koob hmoo rau koj mog
Dear sister ! I had been through the same life’s, sister when I listen your story I felt so hurts , it bring me back to remember my old life’s but my ex husband did not treat me and my children’s rights like your ex husband sisters but to me even he treat you nice but he doesn’t love you any mores things had Chang , he didn’t act the same any more so even he treat you nices but he didn’t love you so it’s still hurting in side my heart, because he took all the real life and love that he had been given for you before and now he provides for a different lady then it still destroy your life, but sisters please respect your self, love your self more and more don’t force your self to hold your life for him , please think that he is not your true love , if him love you deep down from his hearts then no matter what had have pen to you or your life , he should be accepted because you two had been building this life together at the beginning so he must be with you , but if him had learn a new different things, a difficult life that him has recive now but him still take it, still accept it,and him continue to provided and love other lady’s and other children’s so you should know that his destiny guiding him that ways or may be his life in the past generations he still own them money’s or own them some things that he has to let you go , because the cursed that god have to divide you two or destroy your good life to fall s parts then let go and for get him, but sister if I were you I have to love my self, treat your self right, even no other men out there for you right now it’s ok, but you need to spend time for your self go vacations, all over the world take a good time to travel to see a wonderful things an amazing things in this world to forget your life in the past and don’t wait for him anymore, if you don’t make your minds to let him go then him will hurt you mores no second marry will safe because I had been all this don’t put you down, and let you down ok felt love you and care for you sisters remember always respect your self.
He said he does not love you anymore but you continue to follow his order. 🤦♀️
Nyob zoo May Leej muam Dai2 siab!!❤️❤️
Lady! You're real true lover and one in a million people. Pray 🙏 for you
Such a great story!!! Life is hard when you're the faithful one. I will be in your shoes if my husband ever leave me.
tus txiv tsev no ua tau txaus hlub kawg li os qhia ncaj li no ces zoo lawm
He's not a txiv tsev but a txiv dev. A real txiv tsev will love you through thick and thin, life and death, rich and poor...only when he recovered your teardrop from the bottom of the ocean is when he'll let go of you.
sister, if you're true to yourself, love yourself enough, you shouldn't hold-on to your pass. our life lives like a river, we should only move forward not backward. forgive yourself, but don't forget who have hurt you, move-on, life is short, cherish those loves you now.
Time to let go. He’s done with you. Learn to let go, it’s not worth fight for. Also you don’t know what disease he is bringing home to you. Love yourself, respect yourself, become mentally/emotionally healthier/stronger for you and your daughters.
We don’t need a man to feel complete.
Ca koj zaj dab neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Ca peb cov poj niam hmoob es tus txawj ntse los yeej khiav tsi dhau txiv neej hmoob lub voj hlua li os yom
Once a dog will be a dog! He’s now using the children to get back to you only. Don’t go back to him! There’s a reason why you two broke up. If you take him back- sorry you deserve what he did to you!
you sound miserable. it's not like the dude took anything, but gave them everything. if your not happy your just not happy
I agree, don’t take back! He is a dirty dog!
She's more desperate for him than he is desperate for her. He left her but she is the 1 that didn't put the stop to and keeps telling him my door still opens for you anytime
Don’t compare human bad behaviors to dogs, dogs are loyal, unlike this human….
@@SunsetBlvd85 agree, this is what l told my husband. My dog is very nice better than human
Kv nyiam kj cov neej neeg heev li os niam laus aw kj mas keej tiag2 li os
vuag cas zaj dab neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj os os tus me viv ncaus aww. kuv mloog xwb twb nrog koj mob siab tu siab lawm os.
Txhob tu siab tej zaum neb txoj hmoo yeej tsuag los txog txij li xwb mog hlub yus tus kheej xwb os
txiv neej ma siab dub tiag2 li tu2 lub siab g xav pib dua neej tshiab vim ntshai2 txiv neej lub siab
Omg this story gives me high blood pressure
Poj hmoob Siab dev os, tsis paub tu siab
Tu me txiv tsev kj tig rov los thov kj tu niam tsev yuav zaum 2 os.kj tu niam txhav qaib tseem to kj mog!!!
No wonder he left you!! Where is your self worth? If you don't love yourself, how can you convince someone else to love you? Cut your loses and live the life that you were meant to.....without that cheating dog.
Txhob siv koj lub sij hawm tos tus txov neej lim hiam li ko lawm os
Let’s him go, don’t make anymore excuse to keep him.
Ca tu siab ua luaj li o zaj dab neeg no na
This man is a manipulative man. Don’t listen to him. Let him go!
Don’t wait for him, sister. He made it clear that he doesn’t love you anymore. If your love/marriage is so great then why did he cheat and leave you?
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Omg lady love yourself sssshhh!!!
Ka liam o me niam luas aw tu siab tiag2 li o
Ntuj awsssss....txiv neej tag lawm tiag lau yom lawv.
Tus niamTsev aw
Koj tus txiv tshua hlub koj thaum koj zoo2 xwb, tsis yog kev hlub tiag os
Tus neeg luag tsis hlub ces luag yeej tsis hlub os mog txob tos rab riam ntawv los tua koj lub siab dua lawm
So sad, it is so hard to let go of someone you loved for so long, it breaks my heart because you love him so much but he doesn’t feel the same way!!! Everyone has their own luck, you are the one he lost! He will never find someone like you.
Txhob tos lawm os mog, nws tsim koj tob tob thiab xav ua kom koj tuag nyoos xwb. Tus uas mus lawm tseem los khoos kom yus luag ntxhis xwb ces yus haj yam mob.
Damn this is sad. He had a good life, good wife and wonderful children. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Just water the grass on your side and that's good enough.
Tus niam tsev koj siab zoo tshaj li os
Wow sister you have such a forgiving heart! I compliment you on that.
He doesn’t love you because you are easy to love. You are always there and succumb to everything he needs and wants, whenever he wants it. Don’t waste your life waiting for someone who doesn’t see your worth. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are beautiful. Open your mind/eyes to other options.
Peb tej niam txiv txawm yuav sib hlub npaum twg ,sib ntseeg siab npaum li cas los txhob cia ib leeg mus nyob ib qho yog sib ncaim ntev ces lub siab yuav hloov mus thiab peb yuav tsum nyob ua ke tsis txhob pub nrug li txawm haujlwm yuav zoo thiab tau nyiaj ntau npaum li cas los txhob ntshaw es tuav ob leeg txoj kev txij nkawm kom ruaj khov xwb
It's a sad story, it's even sadder because the time doesn't wait but that's irrelevant. Once that person cheated on you, he/she will do it again and again and again, keep that in mind.
This is such a sad story, I really hope you can move forward and not wait for someone who don’t love you anymore.
Me viv ncaus aws yog koj tseem tos rov yuav koj niag txiv liam2 ntaw dua thiab no ces kj tseem yuav rov mob zaum 2 ntxiv os mog.
Lub neej niam txais tog txiv txais nta- ces ua neej tshav ntuj nram qab ha xwb2. Muab txoj kev cuav ua tsis tau tseeb. Kev tseeb ua tsis tau Cuav. Lub sij hawm thiaj qhia tau kev tseeb. Neeg kev xav ces yog ib vuag. Lub Cuav neej tsis tsheej. Cov cuav yeeb, tsis tseeb cawm tsis tau txoj sia-
I couldn't even finish this story. To the woman that sent in the story, if you read this, if he cannot accept some weight gain how is he going to accept or love you in old age? In sickness and in health as they say. I am only speaking because I've experienced something along the same line as this too where my weight gain affected my marriage and how much I was loved in the aftermath. Our physical appearance shouldn't determine how much or how little we deserve. Boys like these are so annoying.
Gosh, men can’t love women because they changed but women can still luv men even though they changed…why is that?? Men are just horrible!!
Sister, Koj tus txiv tsis hlub Koj tiag os, es tsis txhob tos nws txoj kev hlub lawm. Yog nws hlub Koj 100% li koj hlub nws ces txoj kev hlub yeej tsis muaj leeg twg los hloov tau tus yus hlub. Vim nws twb yeej tsis muab 100% kev hlub rau koj naj. Tso tseg txoj kev hlub thiab nco nws os. Mus pib lub neej tshiab, yeej tseem muaj tus zoo txiv tos Koj. Nco qab ntshoov tias kev hloov yeej zoo dua nawb.
Tus Viv ncaus aw cas yuav nrog kj tu siab ua luaj li o. Txhob tos kj Tus txiv lawm o vim nws siab phem2 rau kj es txhob tos nws lawm mog thov hlub kj Tus kheej nawb mog vim kj Tus txiv nws twb tsi hlub kj li kj hlub nws is mog thov txhob tos nws lawm mog hlub kj kawg li os.
Sis, love yourself and don't wait for him. Even if he comes back, he only came back because you are his last choice. Will you be okay with being his last choice? If he left you before, he will leave you again and again.
Sis, it's your life and your choice. Love yourself no matter what.
Damn sister, you are too pure he doesn't deserve you. I hope you find it in your heart to find happiness. Praying for you.
make yourself your priority. stop wasting time on selfish men. Good luck sister.
Niam tais aw luag hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub luag li ntawv xwb mas mog
tus muam koj siab zoo kawg xav tias ntshe poj niam hmoob mes kas siab phem no ua cas haj tseem muaj cov siab zoo li koj thiab ntxim hlub dhau lawm os
Hau ntiaj teb no ca yuav muaj tej tug txiv neej siab phem ua luj
Lady, please as a educator, you should know, no matter how nice you are, how kind you are, how wonderful, how sweet, and what you can do to keep the man if he doesn't want to be keep by you, no matter what you do even if you cut your brain to feed it to him he will not be with you. Keep that in your head and move on. My advice to you is please 🙏 move on, respect yourself, love yourself and you'll be able to find someone who will want to be keep by you. I knows that it's easy said then done, but sister move on love yourself and see yourself worth and beautiful with your beautiful daughter, best of luck.
Wow cas yuav tu siab ua luaj lis os😩😩😩
You are holding onto something that does not exist anymore. If he comes back, high chance he will leave again when finds someone better. Take care of yourself. Don’t live a life that will give u more heartache and stress.
I'm mad that she still waiting for him but I guess if your in her shoes with the history they have...thats exactly how it could feel. I hope things works out for this sister and please stay strong for your health and self love.
Peb hmoob cov zoo txiv tsev ces yeej ntshaw poj nrauj ob ceg li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
Ib cov niam tsev cas tsis saib lawv tus kheej muaj nqes li. Yus tsis hlub yus tus kheej es leej twg thiaj hlub naj. Thaum tus txiv twb qhia kiag tias nws tsis hlub yus lawm los tseem tsis nkag siab thiab thiaj li tau txais txoj kev lwj siab li no. Love yourself. Men only love you as much as you love yourself. If a man loves you, nothing can make him leave. If he doesn't love you, nothing can make him stay. Waiting will never bring him back. Stop living in your dreams and wake up to reality.
Wow, what a strong woman You are. You are a true bride “ love til death part” no mater how urgly your husband has been. I am not sure if he deserves you. May God,
You need to find a man who loves you. Stop thinking about him and think of yourself. You can still find someone who loves you.
She does not need to find a man who will love her. Why do people always encourage to find another man? She just need to find balance in her life and learn to find happiness without a man. Self love and self healing is all she need.
@@msyngseer5560 you’re right she doesn’t. But it’s harder to move on when you don’t have someone else. And maybe for you, you may not need someone, but for her she may be able to move on if she knows there are better men out there.
😭😭😭😭😭Cas pab koj mob siab ualuaj os me viv naus aw..thov Vajtswv tswj koj lub siab os mog.💔💔💔💔
Yep. My ex-husband was just like this. I cried months for him, but I'm slowly getting over it. I deserve better. I know better now. ^_^ yalls must be related somehow.
True love never fade is always renewed
Applaud you lady. True love.
Tus2 siab li os lawv aw
Thov qhuas tus niam tsev no feem ntau cov poj niam yog ntsib txoj kev zoo li no ces lawv ua ib siab lawm
Peb cov txiv neej hmong nyias ntse mus nyias ib yam ces thaum kawg thiaj plam 2 tug 3 tug niam tsev zoo.
Qhov peb yov tau xav kom meej mas 2 yam
1.Yog Yus yeej muaj muaj nyiaj lawm es tus poj niam tshiab. qub los yus tsis as xaim
nyiaj lawm no ces risk los tau thiab.
2. Peb yov tau luj hais tias thaun yav laus tus poj niam twg thiaj li yov so yus pob tw.
Thaun zoo li no lawm ces yus thiaj paub txiav txim siab mog tsis li ces nrauj poj niam yuam kev mog. Yog ho xav ua si xwb no los kuj ua yog yus tus niam tsev ua siab loj tau.
Lub neej mas peb paub hnub no xwb
Tag kis mas ntuj dub ntuj tsaus tsis muaj leej twg twv tau laiv cov yawg
Kuv saib ntau lub sij hawm dhlau los tsis hais cov niam tsev los yog cov txiv tsev hmong tau ua lub neej yuam kev ntau leej tau nyob qab choj lawm los xyov cas zoo li sawv daws kawm tsis tiav li
poj niam txiv neej los txawv tsis deb yog me nyuam tsis yog yus yug kiag ces 90%
yus yeej muaj qhov qias nawb mog
ces thaum zoo li ntawd lawm ces txoj kev sib nrauj nyob kiag ntawm tawv rooj nawb mog cov me kwv tij.
Ces yov tau kawn kom tiav
Ua tsaug
Cheating and divorced is only a one way high way. No detour no turning back.
Niam tsuab teev koj zajneej neeg nos ua kv kuas muag pob thaum pib mloog kiag lawm os cas txiv neej siab phem luaj os 😭
There is someone else out there who will love you the way you love him. Good luck.
I can't live like this 😭 cut the ties sister,
My heart aches for you
Txoj kev hlub tej zaum yeej yuav tsi nrog yu nyob mu ib txhis os, zoo qhov nw tsi hlub yu lo nw twb qhia qhov tseeb rau yu ce qhov no kuj yog ib qho zoo lawm os
Gosh all these stories makes me not wanna get married lmao. Life time commitment to someone who you may never really know.
Clearly he’s the love of your life but you’re not his. He replaced you easily and it is time to love yourself. If you open your heart you’ll see that there’s life after him. I’ll say a prayer for you
Sister aw!!!!! Yog koj tseem tos yuav nws rov qab thiab ces koj npam lawm mog cas nws twb tsi nyiam koj lawm los koj tsi muaj hlwb li na
Tus txiv neej ko vwm lawm xwb yog kuv mam yeej tsis nrog tus txiv neej ko mus lawm vim yog nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm vimli cas koj ho tseem yuav nrog nws mus muab kev hlub thiab kuv pab koj khuv xim koj txoj kev hlub vim li cas koj how tsis hlub koj tus kheej kom zoo.
Tus neeg twb tsis hlub koj thiaj txhob txwm khiav tawm ces txhob hais tias tseem tos hlub nws dua. Cia nws mus raug tsim mob txaus, kev tws, nws mam nco khuvxim koj xwb. Txawm los yeej tsis hlub koj, hajyam mob siab ntxiv, zaum 2 ces mob stroke los yog tuag kiag xwb.
Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on...
txhob tos nws lawm nawb mog
Txhub cov neeg pheej ua2 dev li ko tshaj yus tsis muaj nqi li los cas thiaj pheej swb cev rau ib tug neeg siab dub siv yus li ko txiv neej tag lawm lod
Tu siab heev li kuv noos tsi tau li os cas kuv yuav hlub koj ua luaj li os
Wow!!. Ua cas yuav ua rau kuv ntshaw nej tej kev hlub ua luaj.
Yug ob nyuag tug menyuam xwb luag thiaj tsis hlub ne. Yuav tsum yug kom cob leej es yus tus txiv thiaj sov siab dai siab khiav tsis tau ntawm yus mus. Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj lawm os nws thiaj khoo kom txhob ua lwm tus paub.
Me niam hluas its easy said then done ppl fhnk its easy but thnk far and wise before you go back. I know you probably say you’re doing it fr the girls, but you have and now stop putting your happiness on hold. It’s time to do you, you also deserve to be happy. Im sure your kids will understand. Zoo li dej txias npaus siab ntsws lawm ces yuav tsis sov lawm os mog. Best wishes and whtevr decision you make hope its the best.
Ua cas neb lub neej yuav coj tau txawv ua luaj nej cov neeg ntse na.Tsis txaus ntseeg li
😭😭😭txhob to lm o tu me niam tsev aw
Tus txiv neej coj phem tsis ncaj li nws, sister xa Koj tseem tos naj. Yog Kuv ces ntshe nws twb los tsis ti Kuv lub tsev nawj. Move on
Ib leeg muaj ib txoj kev nyuaj siab. I hope you are able to move on one day. He doesn’t deserve your love.
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Mloog los2 kua muag o 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sister aws ua ib siab os. Tus yuav hlub koj ces yeej tsis txeej siab rau koj li. Luag tsis hlub lawm es luag thiaj li mus lawm. Txiv neej muaj ntau yog tsis yuav txiv lawm los dai koj 2 tug ntxhais xwb os mog.
Please do not wait for him. When if you don't find another lover, love yourself.
100 1000 leej los tsis tu siab zoo npau koj lawm tu niam koj xav yog lawm vim koj tsis tau ua phem rau koj tu txiv