Excellent video! I am shocked by your subscriber count, but I expect a big leap today. Please put a link to your marketing channel in the descriptions of all your videos moving forward. Your RUclips 'channels' page lists your subscriptions. Thank you.
Yeah, it's pretty dismal. I think lack of consistency is partly to blame. I hope to have the marketing channel up by the end of this month. Sorry for the delay but I'm in the process of moving again.
Very well thought-out video Buddy! It answered a lot of questions that were on my mind. Haven't made it out of the US yet but it is in my long term plan. Thanks--Gary
Thanks for the no BS opinions you provide... it's much appreciated and sets your RUclips channel apart from the others! :) I'm a bit surprised to hear you mention that the language barrier wasn't an issue in Thailand, and that it's similar in the Philippines. I know many younger Thai people may have a basic/limited understanding of English, but from a relationship communication perspective, is it sufficient?
@robertcatalano8482 And you're right, Robert. Language does make relationships difficult. Except in bed. Look for my new years Eve day lunch video. You'll see her. Another bat-shit crazy. I'm a magnet.
Think I’d prefer to verify first, then trust..you must’ve stayed in the Nimman area of CM seeing all the young expat backpackers, when there I stay near Kad Farang and it’s a totally different and eclectic group of expats, good luck in Jomtien, got a friend who lives in a condo there..🙏🏻👏🇹🇭
I stayed in Nimman a couple of night at an Air Bnb. Not for me. I was right near the computer plazas across from the moat. The Unique Condo @ Koomueang. Kad Farang would be a bit far for me. I have hip replacements and don't ride motor bikes anymore. Thanks for watching!
Hi Buddy , i have just found your channel and the title appealed to me as I live near CM in Thailand . I am 56 from the UK , my wife is 36 and I have a 16 year old step-daughter. The age gap work well for us as we are very compatible and share the same interests: football , music , movies and nights out. I have also taught her to speak English so we don't have any language issues which was not so at the start of our relationship 7 years ago. My wife also has a full-time job with a Thai Government Agency so she is not wholly dependent on me which is good be it I felt comfortable enough to rebuild our house and I pay for holidays and nights out but all this was and is always my choice. I am living proof that it can work but you just have to be selective and sensible . If you get with the bar girls you only have yourself to blame if it goes pear shaped.
Thanks for sharing your experience and unvarnished opinions. Do you see age-gap relationships among native Filipinos or Thais or is it an exclusively the older expats who are marrying much younger women?
Buddy, having relationships with both Filipina and Thai women I’d say gaining a Trust with Thai girl is the first step. They are not desperate as the Filipinas are. Gain that trust then you have a greatness to the next step. Filipinas it’s more of a given at first into the bedroom. This being said is generalized statement regarding more of a good girl.
If I was your age I would as well. But for me at 66 the cultural difference added to the age factor, conversation would be lacking. Not that I don't get plenty of attention from that age group...
You vlogging guys really need to be careful with your terminology..”Filipina are desperate”. Maybe the provincial poor Filipino trying to escape poverty ..but there’s certainly a class of Filipino that foreigners appear not puncture. My fiancée was a media student ..scholarship two years before her age in a Manila ..on tv ..model and decided on a career in corporate banking for US banks. Yes she’s a rare one but there’s a society in the bigger cities that foreigners have no clue about.
@@TheBuddyShowWorldwide Lol you will not get on the phil’s, your too narrow minded but ya might find a poor province Filipina that will what ya for pension 😂Good luck gramps 👴
I hope to meet a beautiful 30 to 45 year old established Thai or philippina woman. It sounds like this is a good age range as I'm in my 60s and don't feel like I can relate to younger girls. Not judging I just don't think it's for me. I'm not dead yet but in the US if you're over 50, it's expected that you have no more to offer in life. Thanks for the video.
The world is sad. Old men who are not attracted to women their own age, so the relationships they have, are mostly transactional no matter where they go or what they think. But truth be told, what other option is there? Older women might not be attrtactive and to be honest, I don't think they are even particularly attracted to older men either lol. Simple fact is, we are NOT supposed to live this long, to have these weird problems. So we are in a paradox.
The world is not sad, you are sad. But good to know that you consider yourself as the final arbiter of what is true for others. Western women and their ovine adherence to so called feminism and their feeble attempts to emasculate men means they are alone and lonely in their dotage. We are not supposed to live this long? Tell that to Noah. You are the only one in a paradox and your opinions on this are jejune,
@@fruitloops3718 lol I am not pessimistic. I am Asian and I am not deluded like you old guys are. To imagine some 25 yr old is hot for your grey hair and age spots LMAOO It is a fking joke
Subscribed and liked , but I am curious you stated early on in this video about gorgeous women and butt ugly men , no offense intended but you are no Sean Connery and neither am I but I would never call another man ugly .
All those looks you get in Pattaya? It’s not lust or genuine attraction in their eyes. In the best of worlds, she can provide a relationship where you can each do something for each other. Otherwise, that look back you get is a lady looking for a transaction.
I guess you have the inside track to these women's inner thoughts. Your rampant speculation is only that. I will give you that this is often the case but to paint with such a broad brush in every instance is total bullshit. Thanks for watching though.
@@TheBuddyShowWorldwideI own a couple of bars on Soi 6 in Pattaya so I have some inside running but to be honest, it's not a lot. A more objective test is to go to a number of bars, GC's and Agogo's and gauge the level of attention you get. Then go to nightclubs where a lot of 20, 30 and 40 year old guys hang out and do the same test. When a guy gets the attention of a girl such that her eyes follow him as he walks beyond her, look at the guy - he is younger and hotter than us every single time. And there is nothing wrong with that. Just as guys are attracted to young ladies - throughout their life - (there's a reason the top Agogo's have most of their ladies between 20-25) - young ladies are physically attracted to guys of a similar age to them. I didn't think this would be very controversial. But it is true that lot's of guys believe what women tell them about older guys - it's to make him feel good and make him believe what they say. What women do is a much better indicator to a man than what they say as telling lies is a survival tool for women. Go to the nightclubs and see for yourself to see what they actually think.
After putting up with your rambling, distracted, disjointed, inability to make your point, I had to turn you off. Plan it out and be more prepared before making another vid.
Please like and subscribe!
I like that your style is more direct, this is your second video that I watched, you don't pull any punches, that is refreshing.
In the immortal words of Popeye, "I yam what I yam.
" Thanks for watching!
why are Khmer women often left out of the conversation. I find Khmer women so loving, and they will trust you quick, if you treat them well.
Because I haven't met ant Khmer women.
Update...Cambodia is next!
I just subscribed. I just discovered your channel. Very good topics. I look forward to watching more. Thanks from Los Angeles
Spot on Buddy! Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for watching!
New sub, just seen ya on Mike's channel. Your honesty is great.... 2 thumbs up 👍 from Saskatchewan Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you very much, my brother from the north!
Excellent video! I am shocked by your subscriber count, but I expect a big leap today.
Please put a link to your marketing channel in the descriptions of all your videos moving forward. Your RUclips 'channels' page lists your subscriptions. Thank you.
Yeah, it's pretty dismal. I think lack of consistency is partly to blame. I hope to have the marketing channel up by the end of this month. Sorry for the delay but I'm in the process of moving again.
Very well thought-out video Buddy! It answered a lot of questions that were on my mind. Haven't made it out of the US yet but it is in my long term plan. Thanks--Gary
My pleasure Gary, Thanks for watching and commenting!
Thanks for the no BS opinions you provide... it's much appreciated and sets your RUclips channel apart from the others! :)
I'm a bit surprised to hear you mention that the language barrier wasn't an issue in Thailand, and that it's similar in the Philippines. I know many younger Thai people may have a basic/limited understanding of English, but from a relationship communication perspective, is it sufficient?
Many younger people have excellent English. More adults than I was expecting have manageable English and far better than my non-existent Thai.
@robertcatalano8482 And you're right, Robert. Language does make relationships difficult. Except in bed. Look for my new years Eve day lunch video. You'll see her. Another bat-shit crazy. I'm a magnet.
Thanks Buddy
You're very welcome, thanks for watching!
Think I’d prefer to verify first, then trust..you must’ve stayed in the Nimman area of CM seeing all the young expat backpackers, when there I stay near Kad Farang and it’s a totally different and eclectic group of expats, good luck in Jomtien, got a friend who lives in a condo there..🙏🏻👏🇹🇭
I stayed in Nimman a couple of night at an Air Bnb. Not for me. I was right near the computer plazas across from the moat. The Unique Condo @ Koomueang. Kad Farang would be a bit far for me. I have hip replacements and don't ride motor bikes anymore. Thanks for watching!
Also that if you find a thai women(Or a Philip women), in the city (And a city like a Jomtien) there are if not 95% westernized they are going there.
Thanks for watching. That isn't my experience. I've never met a woman in SE Asia that reminded me of an American woman. I can't speak to Denmark.
Hi Buddy , i have just found your channel and the title appealed to me as I live near CM in Thailand . I am 56 from the UK , my wife is 36 and I have a 16 year old step-daughter. The age gap work well for us as we are very compatible and share the same interests: football , music , movies and nights out. I have also taught her to speak English so we don't have any language issues which was not so at the start of our relationship 7 years ago. My wife also has a full-time job with a Thai Government Agency so she is not wholly dependent on me which is good be it I felt comfortable enough to rebuild our house and I pay for holidays and nights out but all this was and is always my choice. I am living proof that it can work but you just have to be selective and sensible . If you get with the bar girls you only have yourself to blame if it goes pear shaped.
Well said, Andy! Thanks for watching. And yea, once a bar girl, always a bar girl.
Thanks for sharing your experience and unvarnished opinions. Do you see age-gap relationships among native Filipinos or Thais or is it an exclusively the older expats who are marrying much younger women?
Thanks for watching. Yes, it is very common throughout SE Asia. Asians respect age and experience (and obviously money).
Buddy, having relationships with both Filipina and Thai women I’d say gaining a Trust with Thai girl is the first step. They are not desperate as the Filipinas are. Gain that trust then you have a greatness to the next step. Filipinas it’s more of a given at first into the bedroom. This being said is generalized statement regarding more of a good girl.
Yes, as we have often discussed, Steve.
Pretty darn good summary. But I'm 37 and I've chatted pinays 30 plus but they are all tore up from other relationships ect. I'll stick to 18-30 range.
If I was your age I would as well. But for me at 66 the cultural difference added to the age factor, conversation would be lacking. Not that I don't get plenty of attention from that age group...
@@TheBuddyShowWorldwide The only really good conversations I've had is with ofw's. Loyalty is more important to me.
There was a 7 year gap for me when I was in the Philippines
Thanks for watching!
I love the Buddy Show
My girlfriend is 82, and, like any guy - I am super happy. Age gaps really work.
If you say so.
That’s called a fetish lol 😂
You vlogging guys really need to be careful with your terminology..”Filipina are desperate”. Maybe the provincial poor Filipino trying to escape poverty ..but there’s certainly a class of Filipino that foreigners appear not puncture. My fiancée was a media student ..scholarship two years before her age in a Manila ..on tv ..model and decided on a career in corporate banking for US banks. Yes she’s a rare one but there’s a society in the bigger cities that foreigners have no clue about.
Yeah, it's all about you.
@@TheBuddyShowWorldwide Lol you will not get on the phil’s, your too narrow minded but ya might find a poor province Filipina that will what ya for pension 😂Good luck gramps 👴
hola amigo
Hola Wayne!
Can the Filipinas cook good. One can only eat so much lechon and adobo
That’s true. I dated one and the only food she cooked is rice and chicken adobo. In couple days I was sick of it.
I hope to meet a beautiful 30 to 45 year old established Thai or philippina woman. It sounds like this is a good age range as I'm in my 60s and don't feel like I can relate to younger girls. Not judging I just don't think it's for me. I'm not dead yet but in the US if you're over 50, it's expected that you have no more to offer in life. Thanks for the video.
Honestly, women in their 40s are clamoring for foreign men our age in Thailand. They've kind of gone to seed by that age in the Philippines.
a 30 to mid 40`s and you are in your 60`s. ? what is wrong with ladies 50 to 60 ?
Why go for 60 when you can get 50? Why go for 50 when you can have 40? It’s a sliding scale 🤷🏻♂️ mine just turned 21 😉
Your very handsome. You have a kind face.
do u wear glasses? hahahahaha
The world is sad. Old men who are not attracted to women their own age, so the relationships they have, are mostly transactional no matter where they go or what they think. But truth be told, what other option is there? Older women might not be attrtactive and to be honest, I don't think they are even particularly attracted to older men either lol. Simple fact is, we are NOT supposed to live this long, to have these weird problems. So we are in a paradox.
The world is not sad, you are sad. But good to know that you consider yourself as the final arbiter of what is true for others. Western women and their ovine adherence to so called feminism and their feeble attempts to emasculate men means they are alone and lonely in their dotage. We are not supposed to live this long? Tell that to Noah. You are the only one in a paradox and your opinions on this are jejune,
Good answer Buddy. I don't think people should be categorized to begin with. And I really dislike the pessimistic attitude of this guy.
@@fruitloops3718 lol I am not pessimistic. I am Asian and I am not deluded like you old guys are. To imagine some 25 yr old is hot for your grey hair and age spots LMAOO It is a fking joke
Subscribed and liked , but I am curious you stated early on in this video about gorgeous women and butt ugly men , no offense intended but you are no Sean Connery and neither am I but I would never call another man ugly .
So? What does what you would do or not do have to do with me? That's why it's called The Buddy Show.
All those looks you get in Pattaya?
It’s not lust or genuine attraction in their eyes.
In the best of worlds, she can provide a relationship where you can each do something for each other.
Otherwise, that look back you get is a lady looking for a transaction.
I guess you have the inside track to these women's inner thoughts. Your rampant speculation is only that. I will give you that this is often the case but to paint with such a broad brush in every instance is total bullshit. Thanks for watching though.
@@TheBuddyShowWorldwideI own a couple of bars on Soi 6 in Pattaya so I have some inside running but to be honest, it's not a lot.
A more objective test is to go to a number of bars, GC's and Agogo's and gauge the level of attention you get.
Then go to nightclubs where a lot of 20, 30 and 40 year old guys hang out and do the same test.
When a guy gets the attention of a girl such that her eyes follow him as he walks beyond her, look at the guy - he is younger and hotter than us every single time.
And there is nothing wrong with that. Just as guys are attracted to young ladies - throughout their life - (there's a reason the top Agogo's have most of their ladies between 20-25) - young ladies are physically attracted to guys of a similar age to them.
I didn't think this would be very controversial.
But it is true that lot's of guys believe what women tell them about older guys - it's to make him feel good and make him believe what they say.
What women do is a much better indicator to a man than what they say as telling lies is a survival tool for women.
Go to the nightclubs and see for yourself to see what they actually think.
After putting up with your rambling, distracted, disjointed, inability to make your point, I had to turn you off. Plan it out and be more prepared before making another vid.
STFU and make your own videos. Feel free to never watch my videos again.
If you didnt like his video, why didn't you just disappear and never watch him again
You are so rude and childish.
Gross
Ah, another cultural hegemonist heard from. Or perhaps you meant twelve dozen. No, that would require cleverness.