Why CHANGE impacts AUTISM and ASPERGERS SYNDROME
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Autism and change can be a recipe for disaster. In this video I explain why change is difficult for people on the autism spectrum and how to help make change for people with Aspergers syndrome and autism more easy. Hey thanks for watching my video *more stuff below, 😁👇🏼 *. 🎥 Watch more of these videos (ASD Help Playlist): tinyurl.com/AW-...
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A big welcome into my life! I am a Dan from the UK and I have Aspergers Syndrome. #Aspergers Syndrome or #ASD is a form of Autism, often referred to as High Functioning Autism or #Autism Spectrum Disorder. I video every day of my life and upload videos for you to come along with me.
I also have help videos for helping people get a diagnosis of Autism or Aspergers Syndrome, and also some advise and help for anyone who is friends, partners or loved ones who suffer from Autism or Aspergers Syndrome and just about anyone on the Autism Spectrum.
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I was diagnosed with ASD (Asperger’s Syndrome) when I was 26 years old, after experiencing life with Autism that was unknown to me for 26 years.
Now I enjoy all things in life with my dog Randell and my girlfriend Naomi, we try and help and educate anyone and everyone on Autism and Asperger’s Syndrome however and wherever we can. I also have a BSc in Chemistry (degree).
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One change in a routine I set out can ruin my whole day! There absolutely nothing I can do about that initial feeling and takes me at least an hour to get out of the funk and realise things aren't that bad but I feel sorry for people around me when this happens.
+Leah Autumn Ot can be really stressful for sure try and stay positive when it happens!
Leah Autumn I get like that too, especially if things aren't done to the predetermined time, but if I can make it up and make up that time some where and get back on track then I'm good.
I'm glad your channel exists as it's very informative.
+drgair1817 Hey thank you! I'm glad you exists because you are awesome!
I feel very disoriented when there is sudden change, like I've been spun in a washing machine.
thank you for your videos, I have just been diagnosed with aspergers and Im trying to figure out all the ways it impacts me, change is very hard for me.
I've recently moved offices and omg the change hasn't been good for me! However your video was really helpful and thank you for being awesome!
Being an aspie female, I really love the fact you also have blue hair, tattoos, ear plugs and piercings like I do. It helps with my attention span haha. And my favorite animal is the caracal. They have such human like expressions I find fascinating.
+EverSays Hey thanks! I love stuff like that!
The Aspie World I'm glad!! Having ADHD as an aspie can literally be the most frustrating thing ever. You have somehow managed to make both attentive! +10 internetz to you. GG WP. :3
I have tattoos am 37 I have asperger syndrome and am struggling dont know how when people are ok with me feeling anxious.
Sometimes struggle to express myself and after I watch your videos I can finally put words on my struggles because they're the same as yours. Thank you 🤗
Yay!! I'm early this time!! :) Love your videos!!
It's true, changes are really hard for me. When my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me without warning, I honestly thought I had to die and had a full-on meltdown. But even small changes can upset me and oftentimes I feel very sorry for the people around me. Thanks for helping me out with this video !!
+Millie Maeve hey! Aw, sorry about that. I am so happy you enjoy my videos!
@@TheAspieWorld Hello Millie, if you change boyfriend, it's a change, but your boyfriend left, it's a change too.
I've been experiencing a lot of change lately, yesterday I had a small meltdown. Last minute changes ahhhh I'm glad you are doing this video 😊
Sometimes i run after change because im impulsive yet im terrified of change. Especially lately. Im à very insecure person. To Much change is going on lately and i have been freaking out. Yet i realise that i Gotta stop freaking out because it's affecting my health so i have to accept that things are going to be crazy and try to think like a chill hobo. Or à peace and love dudette that just goes with the flow. That everything is ok nous matter what. And to keep bringing myself back to these images.
I do the same thing!
That make me feel reassured, thanks ☺️
A month ago, all the days at 4:00 pm I sat on the couch with my grandmother and I saw a tv show. Then, all of the sudden, the tv show was not broadcast anymore. I was shocked. I was so accustomed to watching it on a certain schedule... I said to my mom and she said that I was so exaggerated. But , I do not know if whatever changes that happened in my life i freak out only because my social anxiety or something more. Even when the old refrigerator was gone, I feel super extrange. So bad that my dream is live to another country and add to that : I will go to be a teacher, I mean I have to work with people and people change and all the environment too.
Thank you for this video and to help me understand how to adapt to change. Keep changing the world.
cats are my favorite, as they are independent..but I identify with elephants...and have for years. They are large beautiful beings who are misunderstood by so many. They are gentle giants that are very caring and intelligent. Many people think that they are just violent beasts. Elephants basically get angry when they feel under attack. I like your hair blue. This is a good video..and SO true. I have a terrible time with change. Once, where I worked, changed the computer program screens for intake information. It messed me up for weeks it seemed. I do the count-down to major things to help organize my feeling inside.
I like cats! They're so adorable and fun to watch 😸❤
I've been watching a lot of cat videos lately
Yes! Haha cats are very funny!
Change is difficult for me, but instead of getting frustrated, I get kind of depressed OTL
My favourite animals are birds, dogs and cats! When I was younger, I had a special interest in Horses, guinea pigs and dolphins, though.
I had a meltdown cause I didn't have a backup plan. I was alone outside the doctors office. My therapist is sick and they didn't tell me I didn't have an appt. Then I kinda went crazy and don't remember. lord, help me. Greatvids!
Some changes is fine. Some changes I can not stand. When I started a new school I felt sick and was having visions of switching back to my old school.
Also taking down Christmas decorations puts me into a spin of depression.
+Bree Krueger YES! Me to its crazy!
Definitely back up plans! I get upset at things that can't be what I'm used to or expected to be. I've learned a lot from being married and my kids it has taught me to deal with it and do my best to deal with it it's not always so simple but the anxiety isn't always that bad for me. Certain changes even with enough notice and even when I am excited can cause me major anxiety like my last major one was a surprise trip to NYC which I love it there but we had to leave our children and the night before I had a full blown emotional panic attack/meltdown and my wife was really taken back by it and wasn't sure what happened but she comforted me and she helped to calm me down. The worry and separation anxiety is always tough for me other things more or less irritate me and sometimes make me very angry but I'm usually able to switch to something to focus on to not worry as much which can be a good thing and I believe it has to do with my ADHD. Keep up the awesome videos Daniel! Yes I would also like to hear about healthy options for eating cause I like a lot of foods but the same foods and can over eat a lot cause I will snack or not eat for hours then be really hungry and cause I eat so fast it's like I'm never full. Perhaps I'm an emotional eater or eat to cope or is that the same thing either way I would like to see a clip on that! Thanks buddy!
You motivated me to get an ASD card to show policeman when I’m nervous and anxiety is at it’s peak
My favorite animal is the llama. Those dudes are just so chill and cool. Plus the baby llamas are the cutest!!! 🦙 🦙 llamas r cool.
I love certain changes like moving and travelling but not other changes like When we stopped having Thanksgiving at Grandmas because my cousin had the bigger house that was aweful, but moving houses/towns is exciting. I think that's just because I did it so much growing up.
Thats Exactly How I Feel, Moving Actually Makes Me Feel Better.... Moving Houses Changing My Room Up I Like It... But When Its A Change In My Schedule Or Routine Or Anything Else Really Ill Have Alot Of Anxiety etc.
I think it would be good of you to make a video about how you do your contingency planning. The reality is that things in this world are always changing and even when one does plan carefully things often don't work to plan or they change.So much is completely outside of our and often other immediately concerned people's control (the weather, supply chains -- as in your garlic bread example, traffic - it's an infinite list). I know I try to prepare my kids who aren't NTs for this -- both by talking about the fact that we can't expect constancy but also by working at having a Plan B and a Plan C. I know that knowing that I have other planned out options lowers my stress and makes me feel (it's an illusion of course) more in control. I hope this helps for autistics in this way, too. I think a lot of non-NTs (I'm using this term because this applies to ADHDers as well as autistics) cannot get as far as making alternate plans just in case -- so it would help a lot if you could break down for everybody how you do that kind of self-preparation. Thanks a bunch for your efforts.
Bats
Secondary school is rough..but your channel helps out. Thank you xD
great advice ,this are the things i also do against change stress
This is very helpful. I have a husband and young dtr who are aspie. Thank you.
+Deborah Larsen Hey no problem!
I don't like change at all but I've had to learn to be flexible due to work schedules. Even then I still do my routine exactly the same way, just time shifted. Anything new thrown in the mix, like having to appear for jury duty for example, just ruins my day.
One exception is that I do actually enjoy moving frequently, and would do it every year if I could. I like the change in environment. Might be because I moved a lot as a kid. Once I have things set up though, it doesn't change unless I realize that the furniture layout could be more efficient or something. I do actually reorganize things from time to time, because I'm obsessed with efficiency and order.
I enjoy dogs. They always make my day better.
I'm 27 years old, still live with my mother at home and can't see myself moving out any time soon, even if I was to get a job after lockdown then I think it would have to be voluntary work to start with to gain experience and build my confidence up before moving on to actual paid work. And even then, when I did get paid work it would probably be a while before I feel like I'd be able to cope on my own living independently, cos there's no way in hell I'd manage it now even if I could afford it lol. However, having said that I do have a purpose in life and have some goals and dreams for the future in work terms, but again it is gonna be a while before I can even think about starting trying that, but at least I do have some hopes for the future I guess.
I hope I'm not the only one still living with her folks at my age though, because house prices are through the roof at the moment and while I do still live at home I help out as much as I can, I pay my mother rent, if I don't have a place of my own after she passes then I will inherit this house from her, I am on benefits to support me because I can't necessarily work due to my mental health and Asperger's, and I do my own grocery shopping, washing, cleaning, laundry, chores, housework, and I do take pride in the fact that I don't leech off of people and am not one of those people who chooses not to work by choice, like just because they don't want to, as I hate those kinds of people who take advantage of the world and sponge off hard working people. So yeah, is anyone in the same boat as me here?
Most aspergers people live with family a survey says your safer
@TheAspieWorld Hi there Dan another awesome video!!!!! I just watched your latest video and commented there, and had to comment again.. You are providing a unique opportunity for people with ASD and ADHD and parent/carers the skills to experience change with the least amount of stress and anxiety. I feel you are ideally qualified to talk about this and the gift of ASD. Keep up the great work I feel a binge watching session coming on.,..watching these scratches a professional itch as I use to work with children with Autistic Spectrum Disorders, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia and ADHD, ADD and had to retire due to my health so thanks again (I'm ADHD ADD too) 😉😁
Thank you! I love the work I do!
First day of school, and to my surprise it wasn't that bad. But still had a few challenges. But looking so more optimistic about this year 💙. My fav animal is dog with no doubt they can just read your emotions I just think it's cool.
+Ellie Lawrence Dogs are the best! Oh inhope school goes awesome!
For example, when there is a temporary change, it doesn't effect the emotion of autistic people. When there is a detour, the bus stop is changed, but it's a temporary change.
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Agreed!
I am mid move and I set up a box of things that I use a lot first and bring them there and set them up. It also helps that I'm very familiar with the place I moved into and have been there many many times before.
Also my favorite animal is the red panda!
I write something like that here-our polar opposition are borderline personality,nobody yet I don't think knows how far we are even polar oppositions,but a lot yes.And bordi people because they feel chronic emptiness,they feel boredom,lack of sense of direction so they can act very spontaneous,impulsive I could say in reckless manner sometimes,because of all that.They can force situations almost for that,craving for chemical substances like dopamine,adrenaline (they loose quicker dopamine in brain) and sometimes this can lead to catastrophic results- reckless behaviours like gambling or buying something very expensive,over the budget,what is not even needed and those events will have bad domino effect eventually.And me personally but loads of Aspies as well,I love harmony,less chaotic,more smoothly going life style and I need more time to make changes,I will analyse things even over analyse,but rather trying to make good decisions and prepare myself mentally first,using small steps method,not drastically-this can affect NT people as well.When i make changes (my 2 massive where moving my home country-I lived in Germany for about a year and I came to England about 11 years ago as well) finally I tend not to look back,cos I have noticed some people regret or are stuck in past,I rather move on even I do cherish beautiful memories :).If things are out of control,not in my hands like brocken boiler or something on Friday so all weekend I can be withouth hot water,then I try to relax this days,which is still not easy,but is not really healthy stressing ourself when things are not really in our hands and looking for options b or c is good idea or plan b or c,I do that as well.Onether factor is we are so active,our brain is not just active (I wish they will do more studies not just clinical or neurochemical, but purely and more deep with level of energy on those and not to cure with drugs like some wrongly think,but help energy with what? Onether energy in mechanical understanding here,but that's very difficult). So our minds sometimes are not active,but racing,Racing is hard to fall asleep man sometimes,so in conclusion why we don't like changes so much? Well at least if environmental factors or whichever changes happened at least if they are done more gently,slowly I hope we get understanding in that respect from NT.Thank you Favourite animal is hard to say about favourite about many things for me I think,but I love dogs soo much, they are so funny as well,cats,horses,ships,elefants are amazing I love many many animals,awesome creatures.Greetings to You Daniel,have a nice weekend
I always struggled with getting used to my school schedule just in time for it to shift to the next semester or grade. Part time work with a varying schedule was ome of the worst things to ever happen to me.
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I have ASD and ADHD and I think I actually need a certain change/changes from time to time. I assume it's based on my younger childhood which was full of changes all the time.
Favourite animal is the armadillo, love how it curls up in a ball for defense like a hedgehog, but it's armour plated instead (reading the story about a man in Texas who tried to shoot an armadillo and had the bullet bounce back and hit him was great to read!)
Great video, thank you so much for all your tips. thank you so so so so so so much. All my school routine, and what it looks like changed, it feels so weird. especially the fact that I was use to only having girls in my class, now my classes are mixed. and I'm starting GCSE, so it's even more stressful.
The music in the background is messing with me so much in this video. Other than I'm so happy someone has made these videos :)
Love watching these videos :)
I found a way that I deal with situations I don't like or stresses I may come across and it took me ages to work out how to do it, and I'm not sure if it's a good way or a good idea but it makes my life so Calm and tones less stressful as growing up I was always stressed I was always sick with worry, physically and mentally I was a very unwell child due to nobody knowing I was on the spectrum and being forced to be like everybody else, but it wasn't until I started working that I had to find a way to deal with it as I then had nothing around that would comfort me, so I taught myself to almost go into a dream world and pretend that nothing is real it's all just my mind and I'm pretending, so nothing mattered? So if anything doesnt go to plan or ends up different I literally always say to myself ah that's ok, that's just the way this goes, I can do this later or I'll just do this, and treat everything like it's fine doesn't matter. Unless it's a serious thing but for everyday tasks and jobs, I just go with however it goes and taught myself to think that that's the way it's meant to be and that's how it was going to go even if it isn't? Does that make sense?? Haha if you can master it life is so free! Honestly cus everyday becomes so calm and peaceful in the mind :)
Some autistic people refuse to say thank you, because refusing to say thank you is their bad habit. Be careful: "to forget to say" and "to refuse to say", it's not the same.
Hello everyone. Neurotypic people say: It's so easy to say thank you, even if you aren't used to it.
My favourite animals are donkeys, cats and siberian tigers :) and even though I don't know if I have an asd or not your channel is really helpful and I'll try to remember this video before I go on holiday!
Oh cool!!!
I actually use a morning and evening to-do list now. And I place the things to do in chronologic order so it's more clean. Also it's on my phone so I can just uncheck them at the end of the day and restart the day after.
I have Autism & really struggle with change, I us PECs that helps 👍😀
Yes!!!
I love your channel. I just knew from movies before about asperger and this is great information. Thank you :)
Got a new job and yet it feels like my world is falling apart
I love snakes! because they are so misunderstood, just like ME!
+Roy Adermann I like snakes to!
Omg the horrendous hell I'm going thru after taking a 3000 mile trip (I absolutely love driving) and not being prepared. I'm home now and can't seem to find relaxation in any of my former routines. My head feels like it's going to literally explode. I hope some more sleep helps. Beyond that I have no compass or experience to navigate this. I need to meltdown but its not happening.
Change doesn't usually bother me that much, unless I make plans with someone and they cancel. That really gets on my nerves. Also, my favourite animals are puppies.
I moved a lot as a child due to my dad being in the military so I find that I have a problem throwing things away.
I will move in England next year to live with my English partner there.
I get extremely anxious when I think in the beginning I can't bring with me all my stuff I have here in Italy. It's an obsessive thought...
So I started to imagine me putting all my boxes of stuff in my room and moving all my room with all my stuff in England with telekinesis or something. :D That image in my mind soothes me a lot and the anxiety goes away....but of course, it's not possible so when I return in the "real world" my mind finds the impossibility to bring all my things there, so difficult to accept.
I try to focus on the future when all my things will be there with me. It's not as helpful as when I imagine my whole room with stuff there, but helps. Being Aspie is challenging. ;)
+Eva Mercedesz Henger It is, bit try to relax before and during the move. Moving can be the most stressful experience a person can have.
Love this video am planning to do my own experiences on change
+Gemma Grace cool!
Hello everyone. For them, old habits die hard!
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Thanks for the mention :)
You explain stuff so well (btw its cakemix on insta)
Can you do a video on movies with people on the spectrum
+nicole savitsky Yes! Indeed this video was almost that! Don't worry it is comingS
The Aspie World There's a character in a very popular anime called Jojo's Bizarre Adventures named Jotaro and many people theorize he has a mental illness perhaps on the ASD.
Cainyoyo no I don't love anime but jojo is psycho
Snow Cake is amazing!!! My favorite animals are frogs. I recently had to move (super last minute) and it has thrown me off so much. I've noticed that I struggle with falling asleep and waking up. (Which obviously affects my whole day) My parents have been pretty annoyed about it because I've also had more outbursts. I'll have to give the time table a try. Thanks for the idea!
Fav animals are dogs and turtles, but I love all animals. They’re so cute and adorable.
+Otaku 58 I am the same they are all cute
I love you're vids, but you are always posting while I'm in school!!!
Seriously both our dads have birthdays on Christmas and we both love elephants. Dude get out of my head lol....fellow aspie
I always show these to my freinds if they ask me anything
Change is stressful (especially bad change) but i kinda like change because it seems to give me dopamine and make me more energized and curios (IT might be ADHD that makes change fun)
Hmm that is interesting.
My favourite animals are mammoths 😊 Great video btw. I can totally relate
I love fish because they are relaxing with stress and help me to keep calm :)
I'm watching this because I got new furniture for my room and a new bed and I feel so uncomfortable sleeping in it
This is such a huuge problem for me, ever since my family and I moved out of my childhood home I just cannot get over it. Still feels like it's my real home and I can't seem to accept that it's not anymore. I even dream of the place at least twice a week. It's been 9 years for gods sake!! lmao
It is super difficult some times but we gotta get though it!
Like the song, ch, ch, changes.
sorry, I'm late. I love Foxes. I'm not a fan of change, lol. My 3 year old son, "allows" me to watch your videos, he seems to enjoy you talking. =] thank you, for your videos!
RRRRReeeEEEEE... I had this happened today. Monday short week mow lawn... rains, though 5-10 at 2nd job. Turns out at 3:30... 12-5 was my time. ReeeeeEEEEEE!
My favourite animals are Sharks, especially Blue Sharks, Nurse Sharks and Lemon Sharks. I also love all Dogs especially Border Collies, Labradors Corgies and English Bull Terriers. I also love Kakapo (flightless parrots) and Jerboa (they are like kangaroo mice and are very cute. Saiga Antelope are also really cool and I like drawing them. Also frogs especially glass frogs which are see through so you can see their organs and teeny tiny. I want to spend all of my time on my sofa or in the shower. I feel mostly safe at work at the moment because my two best friends work with me but one is definitely giving in her notice to go to uni and the other has been offered a job elsewhere and I know it is selfish but I had a meltdown when she told me because I might get more shifts dumped on me and they haven't long started working there and I recommended them for the job so worried my Boss will be annoyed that I recommended someone that leaves very quickly and what if the new staff aren't very nice or make me anxious? I think I made my friend upset because she told me she had been offered a job and I said well done but then I said I was worried my Boss would procrastinate finding a replacement and he wouldn't give me too many shifts and then I deleted that because it was selfish and then she said "sorry if I upset you" I told her I had deleted it because it was selfish but she didn't disagree which means she probably thinks I was being selfish too. And I get worried that once I have done one bad thing to someone I have ruined everything.
If I try an make change I end up in a position where I just keep anxiously crying..it's no longer financially viable to stay where I work. But every job inteverveiw I have arranged I have not attended. My current place supports me so well. But I would be so much better off to leave.
I am always caught very off guard when I go to a store and they don't have something and they ask me what would I want instead...
Once, I was writing something to school and my colour stopped to paint. I felt really bad and I starte to cry and hitted my head like twice. THEN MY BROTHER CAME and lend me his coulours but they didn't paint the same. So I finished writing that with his colours but I didn't stop to cry utill a long time later. I had head ache.
I freak out about change all the time. When I wake up in the morning and I'm out of milk for my cereal, I just can't function properly and I don't know what to do. I have changed schools and houses a few times and doing that does not feel good at all.
I know I'm late but: elephants arre great but my favourite is defenetly: the horses
Yeah!
I'm 27 and now started to think that I may be a bit autistic... I really hate when something that I have planned changes or when something doesn't go my way.
I have my own business and I have to do the dishes every morning before I start to work (if I don't the whole day is ruined😅) I have sometimes anger issues and I usually don't know why, something just click.. Every time my family ask why I got mad and I tell them that I don't know why, they just say that I shouldn't be angry then..and that makes me even more mad. I don't like to talk about my feelings, hugs is ok but just by my closest family members, eye contact is a big no no, I have usually nothing to talk about if I'm not interested in it myself... maby I should try to get an appointment at a psychiatrist (sry if my English isn't correct, I'm from Finland so it's not my first language)
My favorite animal is small dogs. My son has that problem. We are having a hurricane starting tomorrow and im not looking forward to having my son home.
My fav animals are rats 🐀,mice🐁,bats 🦇, squirrels 🐿️,possums, and sharks 🦈 and sea turtles 🐢!
Nice job...helpful
Thank you.
Favorite animal is a
BASEET HOUND
long ears low to the ground super loyal I have 3 & they don't let me down in a world where people have.
+Rusty Harvey Aw they sound cute!
The Aspie World thx man! I'll tweet you a pic......
my favorite animal is the frilled dragon
+DragonLuvr Nice!!
My grandma and I may be moving again, and it's too much for me.
I've been forced due to domestic abuse to move house 7 times since 2017.
Pure torture for anyone but for someone who can relate to asd (seeking diagnosis)
Also thanks to unemployment, again domestic abuse related I was then forced during covid to seek entry level jobs. Translation= shift work (combination of day shifts AND night shifts in a care home, different shift pattern every week and find out 3 days be4 what the shift pattern will be. AND then last minute shift changed and being called jn for overtime.
I lasted 3 months before I found another job with a routine then RAN!!!!
So much burnout at that care home. Days off involved sleeping 15 hrs and very little else. It was also between 40-50 hours. Didn't realize just how burnt out I was untill I left and can relate to other videos also 😊
I've learnt most of what I know about Aspergers from your channel - well researched, informative, encouraging. You present well - eloquent, with ease of manner and always engaging:
BUT
I find your earrings and lip ring offensive that it took me ages finally to subscribe. You are a good looking chappie and if you are a role model to others please just be natural rather than unedifying. Mothers like myself would be eternally grateful.
Hi. Thank you so much for all your videoes and links posted. It has been very useful. I have a son that is being tested for autism but hasn't been diagnosed yet. We are now living in Norway and I have a dream to study in Denmark, but I feel very uncertain in regards of my son as he might have autism and if he would cope with moving for 3,5 years while I am studying. I don't want to be selfish but this would be like a dream come true for me. He is 8 years old. What would be your advice on this? Is this too much of a change for him? Thank you so much😊 kind regards, Lisa.
If you use the word "quit" is better than "change". Autistic people doesn't want to change place, I think that it's because they doesn't want to leave from their old place, they got an obsession, it's not because it's a new place.
An obsession may increase or reduce, one day.
Last week my mom came home from work and said we were going to have a overnight guest that night (my aunt sisters flight got canceled) I had never met her and because it was so unexpected we didn't have time to clean the guestroom so she had to sleep in my sisters room and they had to change the sheets and they use my extra pair sheets I was freaking out and having a meltdown because it was so unexpected, I didn't know the lady, and when we have guest they sleep in the guest bedroom and use a certain pair of sheets
My favorite animal is turtles! I have a water turtle and his name is Eddie 🐢🐢🐢
Stand where couch was or sit mind I sit on floor as it never changes
My favorite animal is a Eagle, because i can fly above the world and glide over everything and be free no one can touch me.
I have Asperger's,changing to a new school and I am freaking out 😲😲😭😭😣😣😫😫😵😵
Spider because there so stil, and patient (unlike me)
I've recently been layed off of a job, so I'm now looking for a new one and starting college to study counselling in September. All this change seems quite overwhelming as I'm used to having a routine as we were all friends but at the same time I get bored with my routine, do you feel the same?
Callum Page Yeah I guess that's kind of how I experience it
Trapped by routine I want to change from yet find the idea of change overwhelming? Yeah, totally get it.
👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌 aspies rule xx
Anyone else on the spectrum obsessed with sharks? I've been obsessed since childhood and I need a buddy to obsess with me! 🦈
+Minty Oh cool animal
I am!
👍🏻 I love sharks I have a tiger shark tattoo on my arm it's awesome!
Yes!!! I've found my people! I would love to see your tattoo. I plan on getting a great white tattoo as soon as I have the funds.
Minty sharks are awesome
I get upset when something changes, but I don´t care about routine :)
John Pascale It happens to me too. If my mom wants to change something, she has to tell me in advice if she wants me not to meltdown
@@AlejandroRoldánRopero Buenos días
Alejandro. Depende el autismo está fuerte o débil. Por el autismo fuerte, si alguien le hablado de cambio de escuela más temprano, él está triste más temprano.
I quit a job once because my project manager changed. I just couldn’t handle it.
+Alisha L Yeah it is hard.
im getting a new dog and i dont like it, i think its because my dog just died and we are already getting a new one
i didnt have enough time to grieve
Hello everyone. Refusing to change place, there are 2 cases:
1. They worries if the new place isn't suitable for them.
2. They has an obsession with that place, so they don't want to leave or change place.
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Hello everyone. Obsessive-compulsive disorder and autism is almost the same.
Neurotypicals don't like change either.