I Asked Women Married To Affluent Men How To Know You're Ready To Date An Affluent Man - 7 Signs

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @ayanime_edem
    @ayanime_edem  Год назад +10

    Thank you for watching… How many of the signs can you tick off? 1? 3? 5? 7? Let me know… 🤍

  • @baisinbu98
    @baisinbu98 Год назад +142

    *SIGNS YOU ARE READY TO DATE AN AFFLUENT MAN*
    1. You are no longer desperate. 1:39
    2. You are not easily impressed by his pedigree. 4:29
    3. You are no longer emotionally demanding, needy and clingy. 8:14
    4. You do not feel inferior to him or intimidated by his affluence. 11:25
    5. You are grounded and sure of yourself. 14:14
    6. You are ready to make adjustments. 16:39
    7. You are ready or willing to walk away from it all. 17:40
    Thanks as usual Ayanime. 💯Always on point. 💚

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 месяца назад +2

      Last one! Always be ready to leave if they are NoT classy!!!! It’s not about money!!! 🤦‍♀️

    • @TheBerkeleyBeauty
      @TheBerkeleyBeauty Месяц назад +1

      @@Portia620- Well, if they don’t have money, they’re not affluent.

  • @adegboyegatejumadeademidun7040
    @adegboyegatejumadeademidun7040 9 месяцев назад +19

    This is off topic but i love your blouse, so chic !❤

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  9 месяцев назад +4

      Oh thank you! 🤍 (It’s actually a dress)

  • @SuaveUC
    @SuaveUC Год назад +31

    All points are very VALID. But you see that last point?...its the center of it all. Willingness to leave the relationship if it turns sour. 👍

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  Год назад +2

      Good point… it is the center of it all 🤍

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 2 месяца назад +18

    I ❤ the last point. When an affluent man can feel like he's entitled to treat you any kind of way because of money 💵 you should always remember with your brain, talents, gifts, and skills you can be your own affluent person. Do not allow their material possessions to blind you or wealth. Their integrity, generosity, compassion, and trust should win you over. Appreciate this video and your eyes are stunning queen 👑 lol 😂

  • @aoiaaon
    @aoiaaon 2 месяца назад +8

    I came across this video at the right time as I've been getting thoughts of marrying a prominent man...

  • @shirlsshirls8594
    @shirlsshirls8594 2 месяца назад +37

    Once you have your own money, you'll be less inclinced to date like a desperate woman who has no food at home or need a man to choose you.

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад +19

      It usually amazes me how people often feel that women who desire to date affluent men don’t have money… When in reality, it’s mostly women with money who want this… it’s called consolidation

    • @theupgraded6558
      @theupgraded6558 2 месяца назад

      @@ayanime_edem yeah like are they a model or what? if not, curb your dreams if you aint successful or educated yourself. these men got options with smart/beautiful women who ARE all that. These men want to feel understood in business & whatever they are doing. understand the needs & different lifestyle, rules, secrecy, experience etc

  • @glenbutler9611
    @glenbutler9611 2 месяца назад +35

    Affluence doesn't always equal integrity, wisdom or moral character. I guess in a roundabout way this clip encourages highly valued women to seek qualities beyond affluence.. Ya think?..😬

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 месяца назад +2

      😂😂. Class and money are two entirely different things!!!!

    • @mukaniwatkins2598
      @mukaniwatkins2598 24 дня назад

      Got to include money in the equation too. Morals and character with lesser money don't pay the bills and luxury lifestyle.

    • @glenbutler9611
      @glenbutler9611 16 дней назад

      @@mukaniwatkins2598Good for you! I was really referring to millionaire degenerates like Donald Trump, Jeffrey Weinstein, Bernie Madoff, Sean P Diddy Combs. Hey, whatever floats your boat..

  • @ezinnenwabara6561
    @ezinnenwabara6561 Год назад +6

    Your dress is so beautiful ❤❤❤❤

  • @alexaarrah696
    @alexaarrah696 Месяц назад +2

    I make my own money. I've been in my own since I was 22 grew up poor. I want to live in my soft girl era when I get married hopefully it's a come up. But I make my own money and can take care of myself.

  • @blessinguyeh
    @blessinguyeh 11 месяцев назад +5

    Eyen eka, your videos are so wholesome, I always make sure I catch up with them every chance I get, well done❤️

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much Ufan 🤍

  • @dejachaniah
    @dejachaniah 2 месяца назад +2

    These points are so good! I just walked away from a relationship with an affluent man. It wasn’t aligned. He is now calling and begging me back. I am just ignoring him and focusing on my goals.

  • @chinwejoseph4334
    @chinwejoseph4334 Год назад +4

    Thank u so much ayanime for the video
    Pls do more

  • @ReneeIsReborn
    @ReneeIsReborn 21 день назад +1

    At 4:21 you say you will leave the card linked to your video, signs that show you are desperate in a relationship. I don't see the card and it's not coming up in my search. Will you please share the link? Thank you!

  • @oluebubeemeka2708
    @oluebubeemeka2708 Год назад +6

    I actually enjoyed this video. Thanks for putting this out.

  • @asiamahboatengdeborah2909
    @asiamahboatengdeborah2909 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much, I'm loving your channel ❤
    Please don't stop 😊

  • @dejachaniah
    @dejachaniah Месяц назад

    I love this video 💕When you posted it, I was just starting a relationship with an affluent man (10 months ago). I am moving into the next level of this and it is…either time for us to work through something or walk away from it all. This definitely came up on my RUclips homepage at the RIGHT TIME 🙏

  • @faithobodo9460
    @faithobodo9460 2 месяца назад

    This channel is changing my mindset about going into my elegant era one video at a time. I’m glad I found the intentional woman channel❤

  • @talkswithcookie
    @talkswithcookie 2 месяца назад +2

    Oh my time coming I just left a rapper alone. Wasn’t serious didn’t get passed conversation but I see I’m in the vibration of abundance. I’d rather just a normal person though lol

  • @michaellaanyanwu7989
    @michaellaanyanwu7989 Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing..

  • @kampwoods
    @kampwoods 2 месяца назад

    i love that you created a journal and that you are offering your insight from personal experience. thank you.

  • @sweetpeahno6202
    @sweetpeahno6202 Месяц назад

    Queen, did you stop acting? I'm just discovering your channel here and I thought I had seen your face a couple of times in movies before... I actually love your acting and sometimes how funny you can get even when you're trying to act serious.... Loads of love to you ♥️♥️♥️🇬🇭

  • @MartaRosaFlores-t4b
    @MartaRosaFlores-t4b Год назад +62

    I rather make my own money, thanks

    • @margaretjames9775
      @margaretjames9775 Год назад +35

      Hahaha 😂. Make your money and marry up. Thank you

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  Год назад +90

      As you should… over here, we want both…

    • @Liz_S_G
      @Liz_S_G 2 месяца назад

      @@ayanime_edem😂😂😂😂🫡🫡

    • @TheRealKCKay
      @TheRealKCKay 2 месяца назад +15

      Who asked? 😂
      You can still make your own money! 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Jenjenn1111
      @Jenjenn1111 2 месяца назад +11

      Yes, have your own…and get his too!

  • @adjeleyomanyesowah295
    @adjeleyomanyesowah295 Месяц назад

    Thank you ❤
    I tick of all 9. I'm inspired

  • @catherinewangui8784
    @catherinewangui8784 2 месяца назад +1

    Hypergamy for the win! I love your videos ❤

  • @Liviyabassey
    @Liviyabassey 2 месяца назад

    This is awesome 😊

  • @PrincessSharoneyTreasure
    @PrincessSharoneyTreasure 2 месяца назад +1

    All the signs ❤

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 2 месяца назад

    Love this channel❤ Where do you buy you dresses please?

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад

      I often have them made and I also shop from Zara, Mango and some turkey brands boutiques over here in Nigeria carry

  • @swetlanametzler1846
    @swetlanametzler1846 3 месяца назад +1

    Love Love Love this! ❤️

  • @FemalepreneurDaily
    @FemalepreneurDaily 2 месяца назад

    I loved this video so subscribed

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад

      Yay! Glad to have you here! 🎉

  • @lilianizunobi9322
    @lilianizunobi9322 2 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @curlyisconfident
    @curlyisconfident 2 месяца назад

    So good ❤ thank you 🙏🏾

  • @brendaotega6687
    @brendaotega6687 2 месяца назад +3

    I would rather work towards being an affluent woman 😅

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  2 месяца назад +3

      As you should!

    • @agathaunoma6980
      @agathaunoma6980 2 месяца назад +2

      That is very good. However, if you are an affluent single woman, a financially struggling man is not likely to make a perfect partner.

  • @BeulahSylvester
    @BeulahSylvester 2 месяца назад

    Thank you aunty Ayanime ❤

  • @zephomalunga5251
    @zephomalunga5251 2 месяца назад +1

    You guys must also do videos on women being affluent themselves. In levelling up your look, work on finances, travel, your space. In this way, you are not impressed easily by affluence. You are used to being in the circles of affluence yourself. Its OK for women to want to partner with a man not just for finances but rather safety, emotional stability, and companionship.
    A man must never be seen as a career goal🙄

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 2 месяца назад +3

    Why would we be caught up or impressed with status??? 😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. Never impressed me! I want to see the MaN! Moeny means he is more likely to move on and want another woman and not stable as it takes so much class to be dedicated to one person! Rare

  • @glamrgirl33
    @glamrgirl33 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this!
    Can you link the video that you mention around 3:15?

    • @ayanime_edem
      @ayanime_edem  3 месяца назад +4

      Here you go... ruclips.net/video/G8FO3t2o1J0/видео.html

    • @glamrgirl33
      @glamrgirl33 3 месяца назад +2

      @@ayanime_edem thank you! 🙏🏾

  • @agathaunoma6980
    @agathaunoma6980 2 месяца назад

  • @spiritualBaddi
    @spiritualBaddi 2 месяца назад

    💜

  • @laura-yo4es
    @laura-yo4es Месяц назад +1

    Just treat a man with money like a normal man. He's just a guy lmao

  • @frankyavery
    @frankyavery Месяц назад +1

    It's so funny. I remember going on a date with guy and he kept talking about the Porsche that he was driving and mentioned this one name brand bag that he had which was already a red flag for me. ATL men like to try to lead with money but I care about quality. We went from dinner to the movie and I had a motorcycle which is a pain to put all the gear on, drive over and take all of it off and essentially do like a half wardrobe change (which I did mention in passing at some point). Dude didn't even offer me a ride to the next spot. That's when I thought well what is the benefit of YOUR car to ME? Another dude (apparently) lived in like the richest part of town and was hesitant to buy me a drink. Like dude I'm dressed up, I look classy and nice but not overdone, I am a great conversationalist and I'm neither a gold digger nor a pick me. Money talks for you, you don't talk for it. That being said, I have a more discerning eye for provider types now. My last dates with guys have been great and they were mostly great guys, I'm just looking for a bit more compatibility.

  • @angelekereke1307
    @angelekereke1307 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much ❤