Don't let what you see on social media steer you from doing what it is you know women are attracted to in real life. Women without a shadow of a doubt love and appreciate a man who isn't afraid to make the first move and engage with them because nowadays most guys sit back and wait for the woman to approach and then get upset when it never happens, but it's not in women's nature to do so anyway. In this new world, being a classic man and going up to women you find attractive makes you stand out.
@@realass_me Just start with saying hi to them. Then overtime have small talks with them. It'll become second nature to you in no time. Don't let social media fool you. A lot of these women are pretty chill. If you're cool with them.
Just the other day I was going to the DMV in my city and I saw this girl I thought was cute and I wasn't trying to shoot my shot but I told her I like her curls. Before I left the DMV I was sitting in my car eating a sandwich and she was in a van across the street and happened to notice me, got my attention and then she yelled out the window "can I get your number" Lol. All that happened just from giving her a compliment.
I used to think cold approach was silly. I was always team chosing signal. Then I realized that if I like what I see I must approach. During the conversation I'll be able to tell if she's chosing or not. So we must implement both. Another classic video.
True. But I still think it's a bit silly. I agree if you like what you see go for it. But you don't always have to. I feel I need to see how she moves, her energy before I approach. But I have done cold approaches to and usually the responses are light , positive even when I am getting rejected
My new principle in life is "what's in it for me!?" As a rule, I only speak to women I have an actual shot with, so if I'm not interested or she's not interested in me, then in my Michael Jackson voice "just leave me alone." Treat women the same way they do us, friendzone them w/ no care or concern in mind. A lot of women dress provocatively or look like real life thirst traps in order to arouse you enough to get you to give them the time of day. It never works out when that happens, as she gets validated and leaves the moment you ask her out. Classic bait and switch from a mentally and psychologically unstable person. Sometimes being indignant along w/ charming and educated is the ultimate combo. For instance, if I see a hispanic chick I'll ask "what kind of spanglish are you," even though I know she's hispanic. One of the things about having frame is you risk being rude and still live after to see another day - that's your "social proof." Always present yourself as a high status person, meaning don't walk on eggshells around ppl, be indifferent/aloof, and show that you're not afraid of the environment or those who are in it. Women are highly narcissistic and high in neuroticism, so you're basically dealing w/ someone who overestimates their contribution in life, but at the same time doesn't believe their own hype. The real fun is when they know you're better than them and can't be intimidated at all by them. Regardless of their interest/respect level for you, ppl (esp women) generally will take on your behavioral and personality traits like sponges; men always set the tone. The woman is the lioness and the man is the rawr big lion w/ a mane.
I have an interesting situation with a Sista who I have been dealing with since last September/October. To make a long story short: some weeks after we started talking, she flat-out told me that she wanted to talk to me ever since she first laid eyes on me - but was patiently waiting through the days for me to actually make the approach to do so. And it was at least about 2 (or maybe 3?) weeks before I jumped? She's very-old school with the belief that Man should approach/pursue the Woman. And I honestly felt that if I hadn't approached, I would have missed out on something and wondered hard "what if I had?" in the future. 💯💯💯💯💯
They will always zoom around you like a mosquito if they are interested it's literally up to you if you see that happening to do what you gotta do i just got one golden rule and that's that i don't sh*t where i eat. - The gym and my job are two places i'm strict and i'm not doing any of that dating or talking. - Good video unc.
@@banderas2000 If I am interested it does not matter. I would say if you are going to cold approach, commit to doing it all the way… I have had guys try to cold approach me and abandon ship to avoid possible rejection. When I think about it, I would have given my number to at least half of them if they did not “reject themselves”.
ok. i don't normally cold approach because she knows nothing about me and i know it's a stranger. but when i have even if i sense she may not really be interested i say " im already here might as well ask". in my experience it works a bit better after we seen each other a few times. vs cold.
It works differently for me. When I chase after woman I end up chasing them away However I noticed that when I stop chasing woman and focus on my work and focus on myself, they end up making the first move on me and they get touchy feely with me and rubbing my arms and stuff . It's strange how it works.
Facts. Regardless, you have to approach anyway. It doesn’t matter how you do it, it’s more about taking that initiative and doing it. A good example I have of this is my current gf. She saw me from a far but from what I remember, I made the first move. The rest is history😁 Another dope joint Unc💎💯
i USE to be afraid of HOW I was "approaching" did i do it assertively or timidly? i don't really care about rejection in the beggning. but i would practice at the mall. seeing girls i like approaching. and some it was positive some were negative. but i made me more comfortable . i don't really like cold approach either. so i do sit back and see who is showing signs. i don't mind asking a girl out . the successful ones usually are after we chatted a bit back n forth or due to similar social circles , work , ect. seeing each other daily. but just cold on the st or at the mall that's harder because maybe ur a serial killer lol . depends. but make that move! if she choosin.
A woman pursuing me is a big turn off. Pursuing/shooting your shot at a woman is the equivalent of hunting or fishing. It gives you pride to know that through your skills, caught something that you can feast on. Lastly, just like with men if a woman shoot her shot most likely she’s shooting her shot to ten other guys 🤣
Really good video. Yes this is the reality. Many times a woman won't make it obvious she likes you. The only way you can get the ball rolling is if you take a gamble. Thnx again for another sensible vid.
Very true. That is don't overlooked. Some women don't make it obvious. Or it may even seem like she isn't. But her body language usually gives tells if she has some interest.
Had to come back to this jem to sharpen my blade. I’ve approached hundreds of females but I still sometimes feel a bit of hesitation. Working on that to get to a point where I don’t care at all. I’d estimate im 90% there
Thank you for the knowledge, sir. I’m already deep into the body game; some think I’m getting ready to compete. You've taught me the philosophy of how women think and how to deal with them. You've helped me more than you can ever know with these videos. Thank you!
One thing I've never been afraid of, is approaching a woman, no matter how beautiful she is. I've had a few cold responses, and been ignored, but who cares, as such women would be no good for you in the first place. If a woman likes you, she will usually respond positively when approached. Just make your move.
You do really good videos. This one I cannot gel with too much. I think from certain perspectives this fits the traditional roles. But, I typically have women showing the same assertiveness, aggression, and expressions of desire you say men should. This happens even though I am guarded and rarely show interest first. Nothing wrong with either approach, so long as it’s effective. I find a lot of advantages to the passive approach. And remember every woman was once a sperm, swimming to that egg of course, following their instincts.
I'm currently in the military been in for ten years now and all my years every single one either I'm.tripping or I seen and experience women approaching men they want single or married FACTS
It's not that they don't approach like he stated at the beginning. - You always got some bold ones in between the vast majority of women. - On top of that location matters too there are countless of stories from men about women in the military so that's not a surprise.
@@denzel9455 I feel you these women are from all over the globe different cultures and backgrounds of they seen the man they wanted only God could stop it
Question, dealing with a younger woman here. Every time I text her, she answers quickly and is engaging. However, I am always initiating. We had a first date already and we get along well. I’m just confused. Is she just the type to never initiate or if so very rarely?
@@360undead good advice. Yeah I had messaged her every 3 days or so. When I first planned stuff, she was flaky. So I dropped her for 2-3 weeks and tried again. Magically, she made time. So maybe thats what I need to do. The only reason why I am still trying is because believe it or not, we do have chemistry in person. Regardless, like the reply said, I need to chill. That is a weakness of mine that I am working on. Patients!!
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I needed to read this
fr. like when john dunbar walked solo into the indian village. they respect the bold. so do women.
@@banderas2000 tatunka 😂
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Don't let what you see on social media steer you from doing what it is you know women are attracted to in real life. Women without a shadow of a doubt love and appreciate a man who isn't afraid to make the first move and engage with them because nowadays most guys sit back and wait for the woman to approach and then get upset when it never happens, but it's not in women's nature to do so anyway. In this new world, being a classic man and going up to women you find attractive makes you stand out.
Men still have to take charge, even in situations where women approach.
true. the 8's9'sand10's are way more receptive and friendly EVEN if they are rejecting. u had the balls.
Suppose that he has autism and he struggles socially?
@@realass_me Just start with saying hi to them. Then overtime have small talks with them. It'll become second nature to you in no time.
Don't let social media fool you. A lot of these women are pretty chill. If you're cool with them.
@@Dazz9 I do better when I notice something on her
Just the other day I was going to the DMV in my city and I saw this girl I thought was cute and I wasn't trying to shoot my shot but I told her I like her curls. Before I left the DMV I was sitting in my car eating a sandwich and she was in a van across the street and happened to notice me, got my attention and then she yelled out the window "can I get your number" Lol. All that happened just from giving her a compliment.
It can really be that simple. Many women just need an opening.
aha nice.
Ima try this out. Thanks for the free game
I used to think cold approach was silly. I was always team chosing signal. Then I realized that if I like what I see I must approach. During the conversation I'll be able to tell if she's chosing or not. So we must implement both. Another classic video.
Yup. Regardless, you have to approach anyway. Most women aren’t going to walk up to guys and talk to them. It’s how it is fr
True. But I still think it's a bit silly. I agree if you like what you see go for it. But you don't always have to. I feel I need to see how she moves, her energy before I approach. But I have done cold approaches to and usually the responses are light , positive even when I am getting rejected
My new principle in life is "what's in it for me!?" As a rule, I only speak to women I have an actual shot with, so if I'm not interested or she's not interested in me, then in my Michael Jackson voice "just leave me alone." Treat women the same way they do us, friendzone them w/ no care or concern in mind. A lot of women dress provocatively or look like real life thirst traps in order to arouse you enough to get you to give them the time of day. It never works out when that happens, as she gets validated and leaves the moment you ask her out. Classic bait and switch from a mentally and psychologically unstable person.
Sometimes being indignant along w/ charming and educated is the ultimate combo. For instance, if I see a hispanic chick I'll ask "what kind of spanglish are you," even though I know she's hispanic. One of the things about having frame is you risk being rude and still live after to see another day - that's your "social proof."
Always present yourself as a high status person, meaning don't walk on eggshells around ppl, be indifferent/aloof, and show that you're not afraid of the environment or those who are in it. Women are highly narcissistic and high in neuroticism, so you're basically dealing w/ someone who overestimates their contribution in life, but at the same time doesn't believe their own hype. The real fun is when they know you're better than them and can't be intimidated at all by them. Regardless of their interest/respect level for you, ppl (esp women) generally will take on your behavioral and personality traits like sponges; men always set the tone. The woman is the lioness and the man is the rawr big lion w/ a mane.
@@mikewhite8848 big facts homie. Imma steal that you have to match a woman’s audacity.
I have an interesting situation with a Sista who I have been dealing with since last September/October.
To make a long story short: some weeks after we started talking, she flat-out told me that she wanted to talk to me ever since she first laid eyes on me - but was patiently waiting through the days for me to actually make the approach to do so. And it was at least about 2 (or maybe 3?) weeks before I jumped? She's very-old school with the belief that Man should approach/pursue the Woman. And I honestly felt that if I hadn't approached, I would have missed out on something and wondered hard "what if I had?" in the future. 💯💯💯💯💯
They will always zoom around you like a mosquito if they are interested it's literally up to you if you see that happening to do what you gotta do i just got one golden rule and that's that i don't sh*t where i eat.
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The gym and my job are two places i'm strict and i'm not doing any of that dating or talking.
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Good video unc.
not gonna catch a case and fuck my money up
This is so true…There is nothing more attractive than a guy taking the initiative and engaging.
Do you prefer cold approaches or after you have gave him that greenlight
@@banderas2000 If I am interested it does not matter.
I would say if you are going to cold approach, commit to doing it all the way… I have had guys try to cold approach me and abandon ship to avoid possible rejection. When I think about it, I would have given my number to at least half of them if they did not “reject themselves”.
ok. i don't normally cold approach because she knows nothing about me and i know it's a stranger. but when i have even if i sense she may not really be interested i say " im already here might as well ask". in my experience it works a bit better after we seen each other a few times. vs cold.
Women wanting simps, nothing new
Masculine Energy 🐺⚡️ take the initiative gotta go for it
It works differently for me. When I chase after woman I end up chasing them away However I noticed that when I stop chasing woman and focus on my work and focus on myself, they end up making the first move on me and they get touchy feely with me and rubbing my arms and stuff . It's strange how it works.
Facts. Regardless, you have to approach anyway. It doesn’t matter how you do it, it’s more about taking that initiative and doing it. A good example I have of this is my current gf. She saw me from a far but from what I remember, I made the first move. The rest is history😁
Another dope joint Unc💎💯
i USE to be afraid of HOW I was "approaching" did i do it assertively or timidly? i don't really care about rejection in the beggning. but i would practice at the mall. seeing girls i like approaching. and some it was positive some were negative. but i made me more comfortable . i don't really like cold approach either. so i do sit back and see who is showing signs. i don't mind asking a girl out . the successful ones usually are after we chatted a bit back n forth or due to similar social circles , work , ect. seeing each other daily. but just cold on the st or at the mall that's harder because maybe ur a serial killer lol . depends. but make that move! if she choosin.
A woman pursuing me is a big turn off.
Pursuing/shooting your shot at a woman is the equivalent of hunting or fishing. It gives you pride to know that through your skills, caught something that you can feast on.
Lastly, just like with men if a woman shoot her shot most likely she’s shooting her shot to ten other guys 🤣
So ur the one thats fuckin the game up for us
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Really good video. Yes this is the reality. Many times a woman won't make it obvious she likes you. The only way you can get the ball rolling is if you take a gamble. Thnx again for another sensible vid.
Very true. That is don't overlooked. Some women don't make it obvious. Or it may even seem like she isn't. But her body language usually gives tells if she has some interest.
Had to come back to this jem to sharpen my blade. I’ve approached hundreds of females but I still sometimes feel a bit of hesitation. Working on that to get to a point where I don’t care at all. I’d estimate im 90% there
Thank you for the knowledge, sir.
I’m already deep into the body game; some think I’m getting ready to compete. You've taught me the philosophy of how women think and how to deal with them.
You've helped me more than you can ever know with these videos.
Thank you!
A key intangible of a man's sex appeal
One thing I've never been afraid of, is approaching a woman, no matter how beautiful she is. I've had a few cold responses, and been ignored, but who cares, as such women would be no good for you in the first place. If a woman likes you, she will usually respond positively when approached. Just make your move.
I wish I had someone like you growing up in my life 💪 thank you
You are absolutely correct
You do really good videos. This one I cannot gel with too much. I think from certain perspectives this fits the traditional roles. But, I typically have women showing the same assertiveness, aggression, and expressions of desire you say men should. This happens even though I am guarded and rarely show interest first. Nothing wrong with either approach, so long as it’s effective. I find a lot of advantages to the passive approach. And remember every woman was once a sperm, swimming to that egg of course, following their instincts.
That egg & sperm thing is really important touch
That Analogy is a great example , is analogy the right word to use
Loved the video. Excuses must not be a part of a man’s psyche
I'm currently in the military been in for ten years now and all my years every single one either I'm.tripping or I seen and experience women approaching men they want single or married FACTS
It's not that they don't approach like he stated at the beginning.
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You always got some bold ones in between the vast majority of women.
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On top of that location matters too there are countless of stories from men about women in the military so that's not a surprise.
@@denzel9455 I feel you these women are from all over the globe different cultures and backgrounds of they seen the man they wanted only God could stop it
This video is gold Uncle Rom lmao preciate all the gems you drop fa real
That was helpful , masculine energy and go for it ⚡
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Question, dealing with a younger woman here. Every time I text her, she answers quickly and is engaging. However, I am always initiating. We had a first date already and we get along well. I’m just confused. Is she just the type to never initiate or if so very rarely?
you need to back off and chill out dude. the phone is for setting dates, not chatting with a penpal. it's not attractive
@@s0ckpupp3t I'm very dry when texting. We'll talk in person.
@@s0ckpupp3t Oh yeah for sure. I don’t pen pal with her. On that note though, I have made the decision to back off and give her space. Still learning!
@@360undead good advice. Yeah I had messaged her every 3 days or so. When I first planned stuff, she was flaky. So I dropped her for 2-3 weeks and tried again. Magically, she made time. So maybe thats what I need to do. The only reason why I am still trying is because believe it or not, we do have chemistry in person. Regardless, like the reply said, I need to chill. That is a weakness of mine that I am working on. Patients!!
@@s0ckpupp3t That's actually pretty good advice. A lot of people don't realize that in-person interactions beat everything
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Yeah but don't seduce her if you are not like that. Start a conversation or react on what she's giving.
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Huh? 😂
A man won't be able to start the car. Without putting the key in the ignition slot. She's not going to reach out from the passenger side and do it for you