Love is Blind 4 Irina on being a "Mean Girl"

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  • Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
  • Hey guys and welcome back to my podcast/channel!! If you are new here please subscribe and give this video a thumbs up!!!
    Today we have on Irina from #loveisblind season 4!! We chat all about how she got casted for Love is Blind and all her best and worst moments that made it on to the show. I wanted to hold her accountable, but also give her a space to speak freely without judgement. We get into some fan questions you guys submitted on Instagram and talk all about the highs and lows and the REUNION! We also chat life in Seattle, what she does for work and her instagram apology video.
    Things we discuss:
    Where does Irina stand with Paul and Micah?
    What was her experience on the show and at the reunion?
    What does she think of Nick and Vanessa Lachey?
    Does she regret the things she said and did?
    Did she get closure with Zach and Bliss?
    How is her mental health since the show?
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Комментарии • 83

  • @kristinaKayShorts
    @kristinaKayShorts Год назад +14

    Irina deserves grace like all of us. She showed up to the reunion and owned up to what she did wrong & I respect that. Great interview ❤

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад +1

      thank you so much kristina ! that is so kind of you

    • @jakestroll6518
      @jakestroll6518 Год назад

      Y’all need to understand reality tv better. Showing up to the reunion ALWAYS reflects well to villains and that’s why they always attend. It forces their victims into a bad guy stance for expressing anger. Its called “trusting the process”. Trusting that slow audiences like yourself will not understand the psychological game played by presenting someone who’s chill juxtaposed against someone who’s (rightfully) agitated.

  • @Evie534
    @Evie534 Год назад +23

    Her behavior was horrible, but people need to stop bullying her on social media. It’s fine to call her out for her behavior, but it’s not OK to make fun of her looks and say vicious nasty things. The people bullying her like that are just as bad as her.

    • @ShiniqamiHime
      @ShiniqamiHime Год назад

      This 100%

    • @patriot-hj5vx
      @patriot-hj5vx Месяц назад

      I think yes people are bullying but it is 100% giving her a taste of her own medicine

  • @RirisTea
    @RirisTea Год назад +21

    Your interview questions were SPOT ON!!!! I've said it before and I'll say it again, Netflix needs to hire you as the host!

  • @ZacharyReality
    @ZacharyReality  Год назад +19

    Hope you guys enjoyed this interview & irinas perspective ❤❤

  • @skinenvybeautybar6756
    @skinenvybeautybar6756 Год назад +61

    I feel like we need to forgive this girl and move on. She’s only 26 years old and this is her time to live and learn. I also commend her for coming to the reunion and apologizing to everyone for her actions. She didn’t have to do it; but she did. Let’s forgive and forget.

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад +2

      love this !!! thank you for watching!!!

    • @RochellB46
      @RochellB46 Год назад

      Awe poor little white girl dealing with the consequences of her actions

  • @UnboundedIndigo
    @UnboundedIndigo Год назад +4

    Hurt people hurt people. She deserves love and understanding so she can heal and grow. The same as we all deserve. Everyone is on their own journey. We all do stupid and unkind things occassionally in our own unique ways.

  • @mjlatham9350
    @mjlatham9350 Год назад +10

    Zach you did a great job with this interview! You’re very good at this

  • @Istandinthesun943
    @Istandinthesun943 Год назад +26

    Irina seems genuinely sorry and embarrassed by her actions. I hope she is finding peace after all of this.
    We need an update on this cousin!!

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад

      omg yes cousin Kevin!! I will be seeing him next week in Charleston !!!

  • @boonnay474
    @boonnay474 Год назад +2

    slayed as always king thank you for delivering us with the content we want

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад +1

      Love you so much!!! Let me know who else you want to see on!!!

  • @Kristin_MommyBreakdown
    @Kristin_MommyBreakdown Год назад +16

    Such a fabulous interview. It feels comfortable and not about interrogating, but rather a conversation of understanding. She should not have been cast if this “experiment” was really about long-term love, but we all know it’s not about love. She delivered on the drama 😆 And her honest answers here are quite endearing.

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад +1

      Ahh I love this take!!! Thank you for watching Kristin!!!

  • @Luffy92098
    @Luffy92098 Год назад +1

    thanks for doing this interview Zachary. it seems like your authenticity has made Irina feel safe and comfortable, allowed her to open up and share her growth journey. We are all human, we are imperfect, and have capacity to reflect and grow from our experiences. I think there's more to Irina and she has many layers - yes, she showed bad moments on the show and she is also direct and courageous.

  • @nicolecuritiba
    @nicolecuritiba Год назад +9

    You must identify with her a lot, so you seem to understand her side.

  • @MB-gb2zp
    @MB-gb2zp Год назад +4

    I call complete bs she says it was just one moment in her life but its clear thats her personality. She just gives mean girl energy situation aside. Even her apologies seem disgenuine and has way more excuses than accountability involved. I dont think she deserves hate she needs to live and learn but to act like this is situational and not who she is at her core is complete bs. You can tell by the people she surrounds herself with too all entitled mean energy people and i dont mean just on the show but in her personal life.

  • @kicikicikicikici
    @kicikicikicikici Год назад

    Great interview:) thank you 😊

  • @runnerX007
    @runnerX007 Год назад +2

    one theme I've noticed with Zachary is that he's just plain always KIND. unlike so many other podcasters in the Bachelor/reality TV world who will be kind to someone's face or show empathy towards some while ranting nasty things about others, I've heard Zachary refuse to talk bad about people even when someone else is kind of egging him on, and he is always so positive about everyone--both from the cast and fanbase. It really is refreshing and keeps things FUN and FRIENDLY.

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад +1

      This is genuinely the nicest comment I’ve ever gotten. Thank you so much. I am so happy you see this. I always make an effort to be kind no matter how easy it is to talk trash because I never want to hurt anyone’s feelings!!

    • @runnerX007
      @runnerX007 Год назад

      @@ZacharyReality this comment made my day! Love that you interact with your audience bc the whole thing about podcasts and the like is it feels like a conversation and I love being able to "join in" with the discussion and share my [positive--if I don't like something I believe in just moving on, no reason to leave hate] thoughts with someone who will actually listen. 🙂

  • @jessicav6990
    @jessicav6990 Год назад +16

    unpopular opinion but nothing she did was that bad. people just don’t like her personality because it reminds them of their bullies. jackie on the other hand…

    • @nahova3167
      @nahova3167 Год назад +4

      Nah she was mean to all of the girls and was horrible to Zack but she does seem to be getting better

    • @samarztk
      @samarztk Год назад +2

      Honestly like what did she actually do but laugh and tell Zack he looked like a cartoon character

    • @icanrelate
      @icanrelate Год назад +3

      Being two-faced & laughing at people. That's only a fraction of what we saw. I don't excuse bad behavior. She was disrespectful. People so quickly forget especially since it didn't happen to them.

    • @cdnicole30
      @cdnicole30 Год назад +3

      She thought everything was a game n a joke

    • @icanrelate
      @icanrelate Год назад +2

      @@cdnicole30 exactly...people are so easily swayed

  • @Jsimms1324
    @Jsimms1324 Год назад +6

    It blows my mind how Irina was not attracted to Zack. I guess beauty really is in the eye of the beholder

  • @joellaibe997
    @joellaibe997 Год назад +6

    If not taking accountability was a person 😂
    Very good interview questions though!!

    • @E.T87
      @E.T87 Год назад +1

      Go to therapy and get your accountability there, stop trying to put your traumas on strangers on the internet and tv shows.

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад

      thanks for checking this out !!!!

    • @starsnavigate
      @starsnavigate Год назад +1

      @@E.T87what did irina expect when she signed up to be on a reality tv show??? Did she expect strangers went going to speculate her every action? Lmao

  • @Vancouversea1996
    @Vancouversea1996 Год назад +1

    One of your best interviews! Loved getting more insight ❤

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад

      Thank you so much Sydney!!! You are the best !!! Appreciate this!

  • @bennisecreto4933
    @bennisecreto4933 Год назад +3

    💯💯 this is your lane, Zach! You are GREAT at this!!!!

  • @taniahymanb
    @taniahymanb Год назад +1

    Great interview Zack! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Congratulations 🎉

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад +1

      Bank you Tania!!! Hope you are having a beautiful week!!!

  • @ZariV
    @ZariV Год назад +1

    This was a great interview that really made me see Irina in a different light.

  • @melanieb92
    @melanieb92 Год назад +2

    Great interview! I always like to hear from everyone and the “villains” perspective too!

  • @myteaandroses1656
    @myteaandroses1656 Год назад +1

    Such a great interview Zachary!! ♥️☕️🌹

  • @priscimozart
    @priscimozart Год назад +2

    I saw parts of myself on Irina. Like the way she reacted to the meeting by freaking out and becoming avoidant. It was really eye opening. She seems to recognize that she did and said hurtful and stupid things and is trying to grow, so I give her props for that.

  • @ThatGmoney
    @ThatGmoney Год назад +1

    How hard is it for Irina to say “I love attention and I came on to build a platform!” Kaitlyn Bristowe did it and she became super famous. Irina is still rambling because she has to remember a lie. When she gets nasty mail and she pins it back to the people and their childhood. Working with Narcissists that are “improving (recovering very hard for a narcissist but better days for sure). That is what Irina reminds me of. How hard is it for Irina to just say I-love-attention? Everyone goes through it.
    Bet you all that rambling will go away once admitting you were really focused on a fragile self image instead of self value and worthy. Nothing wrong with that. I’m vain and I let everyone know because that is part of my personality besides being caring and focused. Good luck Irina and may you grow up. Not going to happen today. Irina is too guarded, she won’t allow herself to feel shame and the evidence is there when someone insults her, Irina deflects that focuses on their childhood and tries to COMPETE instead she also had childhood problems too otherwise what-is-the-bigger-picture? Why is Irina still being the bully? Only Irina has those answers, but the rambling is based on lack of identity and accountability. Like that one Narcissist getting treatment said to me “I don’t know what I did wrong?” That is what I see with Irina, that lack of self awareness that would make it very hard for me to employ someone like that.
    At the same time, 26. That will take it’s time. Do I believe in Irina, absolutely. I hope she is in therapy.

  • @mariatangled
    @mariatangled Год назад

    Great interview! First time seeing you

  • @michelem.saumberfield1743
    @michelem.saumberfield1743 4 месяца назад

    I give Irina credit for not messing around with Zach and breaking his heart....and also making it harder for Bliss when she and Zach finally got together. Because she wasn't just treating him like a fling, at least Bliss doesn't have picturing them in her mind.

  • @samified86
    @samified86 Год назад +12

    I am proud of her for showing up to the reunion, more than Jackie did. And at least she’s apologizing and taking accountability, again more than Jackie she never apologized for attacking Marshall’s sexuality yet wanted an apology for him taking a low shot back at her.

  • @noneya1238
    @noneya1238 Год назад +2

    I thought she was terrible, but nothing to hate her for. I was looking to hear her side of the reunion and all she did was lie and make excuses. I don't think she cares, she sees this as a joke, can't stop laughing, come off a lil cray, but to her defense it's just a show and not that serious, which is why she should just tell the truth and I would have at least repected that. But good for her for not running and talking, even if it isn't completely genuine.

  • @mjlatham9350
    @mjlatham9350 Год назад +4

    I agree. We need to accept her for being unsure and making mistakes. She’s human. I understand that it all came at her so fast and probably her head was spinning. Zack is happy. Irina apologized. We can all move on and let them be.

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад

      love this take!!! thank you so much for watching this!!!

  • @nader85021
    @nader85021 Год назад +7

    I hope she already did perfect match season 2. Thats the only way she can move on from her disastrous showing at LiB S4.

    • @ZacharyReality
      @ZacharyReality  Год назад +1

      I think will see her on Perfect Match season 3 lol. She said she wasn't doing season 2 in this interview!!!

  • @Kathynkaite
    @Kathynkaite Год назад +3

    I'm not mad at anyone's behavior but hers... It's ok I'm over it now ..but it really seems she was bullied before.. this is clear behavior of a person who went thru bullying.... The start to bully them selves

  • @E.T87
    @E.T87 Год назад +1

    Don't let people on the internet have yousit in the shame if a mistake you have made. You are not responsible for anybody's trauma,let people deal with whatever triggered them while watching the show.
    You got to see yourself in ways you are not proud of,work on it be better and enjoy life.
    You are NOT a bad person,you have shown enough remours. You could have been Jackie and choose not to care but you showed up and owned up to what you did. 30 yr olds went to the show desperate to meet partners,you are young; date and enjoy the growth.

  • @chantellybeanz
    @chantellybeanz Год назад

    I’m conflicted about Irina. I think it’s just because I feel like, is she being genuine or is it just because she’s being called out that she suddenly feels bad?

  • @jjhibo
    @jjhibo Год назад +14

    nothing about her is real.

  • @evamoreno8909
    @evamoreno8909 Год назад +1

    Don’t give her any air time.

  • @Linda-ey4ez
    @Linda-ey4ez Год назад

    She's so fake, saying when she saw him she felt cheated. Bro you went to Love is blind what did you expect that the door would open and you would see your exact type physically?. Zack is a handsome man, i hate that she speaks about him like he is one ugly human. She's not even all that with million holes on her face. She's mean and a bully.

  • @reflectsonlife
    @reflectsonlife Год назад +1

    She just seems like an immature-for-25yo who got out ahead of her skis by going on a reality show about marriage. Ppl who are angry should blame Kinetic for casting her, not Irina for being miscast. Like Shake, she's just on the wrong show.

  • @notstevelam
    @notstevelam Год назад +2

    lets face it. we all know irina went on the show to have fun which is what MOST NORMAL PEOPLE would have done if they were asked. its the weirdos who go on the show to 'find love' and get married 'sight unseen' who have the real issues.

  • @Lolorenae
    @Lolorenae Год назад

    I am going to say something controversial. It's not her fault she wasn't attracted to zach. Personally, with the singing and the nerd factor. I'm not into it. Im just not attracted. He is however, amazing and kind and loveable. But for the right person. Bliss was that person. If irina wanted to just gain fame from the experience, she would have lead him on just to get more screen time. She told him her truth. Not in the best way, but she did.

    • @Linda-ey4ez
      @Linda-ey4ez Год назад

      She led him on by accepting his ring, throughout their time in Mexico it was him asking her if they should split. She would say negative things about his physical look but wouldn't end their engagement. He had to do that for them.

  • @tomicasreview3087
    @tomicasreview3087 Год назад

    We are going to forgive you.

  • @michellegirau8136
    @michellegirau8136 Год назад

    You can tell she is a narcissist but that doesn't mean she deserves the horrible stuff people say to her and she deserves happiness like everyone.

    • @E.T87
      @E.T87 Год назад

      Narcissist🙄🙄 just learn a new word,at this point your like have named everyone narcissists.

    • @Evie534
      @Evie534 Год назад +2

      There’s no way to tell if she’s a narcissist without knowing her in person or being a psychologist and meeting with her in person. People way over. People way overuse use the term narcissist these days.

  • @haxellprincess5082
    @haxellprincess5082 Год назад +5

    This was a pretty good interview. I just hope they don’t get Irina on perfect match she doesn’t deserve a second chance on tv