@@MegF142857 That's not true at all... Lots of old couples bicker because they know how far they can push the other other one with their banter. Typically to an outsider it seems rude or like one is being mean but within the couple, a lot of times they are so used to each other's sass that they can give it and take it.
Actually, that statement is not really true. I love Jesse but just like everyone else he has personal struggles and he should get tested for ADHD and have tools to make his life better.
@@kathleenchild I fully agree with that. If Jesse has a chance to find out, he gets a chance to learn why things are how they are. He does not need to change in any way, but he may understand things better. Which might lead to an even better life for him. And if Matt accompanies him along the way, that may lead to an even deeper and richer relationship.
There is nothing wrong with Jesse... Why does he have to have adhd, a label,, for being a sensitive, loving, caring human being, who is in touch with his true self. and says it like it is? Jesse is so refreshingingly real in this world of fakeness, still a young man finding his way, which by the way, is doing a brilliant job from where I'm sitting! So please, we could all learn alot from Jesse, Let's embrace his charm and wonderful character as he is without assuming he needs fixing, testing, or having a label put on him. (This is no way disrespectful to anyone who does have Adhd or similar,, I just feel Jesse doesn't fit into that category!) Keep being you Jesse, I think you are brilliant!! You too Matt! 😊
Just to make myself absolutely clear, I would NEVER say that someone with ADHD has something wrong with them. Taking steps to help himself understand things better isn’t going to change him and make him less Jesse.
Jesse has the ability to make people fall in love with his cuteness and kind nature. Combined with his angelic appearance, this makes for an incredible combo. I'm a relatively new subscriber and this guy immediately caught my attention))))
Both of you need to remember that Jesse has to translate from his head to his mouth every time he speaks English. Watch Jesse in Dutch speaking videos, you will see the difference.
No! Don’t do an intro song! Keep it this exact way! Same background just sit down & talk & answer questions. With horses & stables in the background. We love it!
ADHD or not, Jesse we love you exactly as you are. Your personality is perfect for the job you do. People with ADHD are usually very intelligent and focus on many things at once and are able to go into a lot of detail. You are inspirational. Don't try to change! Matt, don't write cats off too quickly. I was always a dog person until a stray cat moved in with me. I am deaf and I don't hear my alarm clock in the morning, but my 🐈⬛ does and then he wakes me up. He is very loyal and sensitive and has been an excellent companion.
@@Belle-s7c I'd like to hear his reasoning, because if you want to restrict them for a while to just inside or just outside, you can. It is kind of mystifying.
Jesse is so cute when he struggles to get his point across on something and Matt the looks on ur face as he goes through it is so sweet. You can tell that you guys care very deeply for each other....
Matt and Jesse........ Watching the two of you guys is amazing. The way you interact with one another. Comical, funny, and also just so caring. You compliment one another. Soulmates.
I have ADHD too and having a different thinking mind can truly be a gift! Neurodivergent people are super creative and emphatic, they have a big heart and find joy in the smallest things, have unique thinking patterns or solution strategies ❤
I wish I could see the positives more often. Thank you for reminding me. As someone working in tech, having adhd feels like an uphill battle most of the time haha
Yes, everything you said sans ADHD: yet another label for what is unique and quirky...which schooling tries to diminish if not completely eradicate, hence only 20 minute lunch break and 20 minute break for recess in American public elementary schools, very limited arts/crafts, dance, and theater. This agenda of suppression is going to be history soon.
I liked Jesse’s stable, I just love the LAND and pastures much more than the barn. I also like stalls with attached runs so the horses have more space to move around and go in and outside.
I have been following since Matt started thinking of his big move. The more I watch them the more I enjoy their relationship; Jesse has blossomed in front of the camera and Matt is even more relatable. A really adorable couple of guys. 😊
Things I love about Matt & Jesse (JMHO) ❤ - that Matt the big picture thinker is striving to build a life that makes both their hearts happy - that when Jesse used to do competitions he left before medals were announced because he didn’t care where he & his horse ranked, just that they had fun together (they would have to phone him to tell him he won a medal 😅) - that Matt has an amazing eye & can build them a beautiful home & grounds - that Jesse was so worried about his pups losing their “childhood home” 🥹 - that Jesse helps loosen up Matt and get him smiling & Matt helps Jesse by creating a beautiful & organised home that I feel may help Jesse navigate life with less stress - that both of them are just allround lovely human beings
Jessie is right about letting the horse decide if it wants to be inside or out. You could accommodate stallions by providing them with large individual pastures adjacent to their stable. Horses are meant to move and are much happier and healthier if they are free to do so. Love your Unstable series!
Again, I know nothing about horses and won’t ever have a horse, but here I am subscribed. I learn so much about this industry and lifestyle/niche business from Matt and Jesse. Like many subscribed to this channel, I’m really and always impressed by Matt and Jesse. Each of you are so talented in your own right. As a parent, I’d be so proud and happy about your accomplishments, hard work and how kind and ethical you both are. Beautiful on the outside and beautiful on the inside.
Aunt Johnny here: This channel is one of my very favorites! I discovered it when Matt was moving his horse and himself to the Netherlands. I really liked how he showed the whole trip. Then the life you guys have built in these last years is so encouraging. The things you have accomplished (even when the world lost its mind) is just phenomenal! Being a horse owner myself I know full well how responsible you have to be with them. I would not ever change the decision to have horses. Even on the Winter snowy mornings when it is cold, icy and slippery. I always look forward to your videos. The best to you both and Happy Easter.
The ending was the best 🤣 pronunciation is everything. Each time we learn a little more about you both and how two very different people make it work. Good Job!!
Matt's storytelling is very precise. Like looking at a high-quality photograph. Jesse's storytelling is like looking at a beautiful painting. You see it in your mind but also feel it in your heart.
These chatty Podcasts of you are my favourite thing on RUclips at the moment. Love the mix of horse-related, personal and random questions! Thank you for sharing a more private look into your relationship, I feel like we get to know you a lot better through these videos. Looking forward to the next one, hope your April will be wonderful. And @jesse go on a holiday, you deserve it!
You guys really dont have to change anything... You both lighten my evening, I swear Jesse just loves winding you up Matt, and the way you respond back is hilarious and sweet, Keep it simple, real, and exactly how it is...❤
@matt_harnacke questions for the next one: *How are Jesse's grandparents doing? Weren't they sick recently? *Who is most likely to snore: Jesse, Matt, Penny, or Maisy? *The Land Rover is Matt's dream car. Does Jesse have a dream car? *Matt, you clearly love the English stately home/country house style. Which one is your favorite and have you been able to visit it? *Pretend Steve or one of Jesse's siblings has a kid. Who's going to be the favorite uncle? Uncle Matt or uncle Jesse? *What shows are in your Netflix queue? What shows are you not allowed to watch unless you're together? *What are some ways to be involved in the horse world if you don't/can't have a horse at the moment? *Do either of you have any tattoos other than the sun and moon? Do you want more? What would you get? *Have you considered merch that isn't just for horses for those of us who love your channels and want to support you both, but don't have horses? Stuff like mugs, water bottles, shirts, calendars, etc etc?
@Joyfullscroll Nalanta is his web site. I would like to buy a mug with a picture of his horses on it so I can drink ginger tea with them during the "Unstable" podcast.
I wanted to say that I love these one on one videos. Your chemistry is so delightful. It's good to have fun things to share together, but also feel free to do your own thing apart. That makes for a true relationship. Wishing you all the best on this Easter Day from the US.
I feel like a desert, and it is raining. Just absorbing all of what you have to share. Both of you make me smile and focus. Thank you for sharing your lives.
21:28 it’s out Matt, there’s no taking it back, thanks Jesse, and it’s only going to get you more followers and admirers. Lots of us have been following you from the beginning because we knew that.
Nice to see you guys back in the stables again! Jesse, if I didn't already respect and admire you (which I do), your comments about cats would have earned my respect and admiration! You've made me so proud to be a member of your followers! "Why have a cat (if it doesn't do anything)?" "To give it a better life." Perfect answer! Matt - I've used honey and honey-based ointments/salves/creams before. It's not pus - it's the body reacting (healing) to the medication. A good idea, if you haven't already, would be to have your doctor take a look at it, just to make sure the wound is healing properly. (An aside: after seeing how much your horses shed, you're complaining about *cat* hair?!!? Seriously???) I'm jealous of your Paris trip! Enjoy!
Fair point on the horse hair. He forgets dogs shed too. There Are various ways to gather the shedding. (Besides vacuuming. Get a Roomba type to keep on top of the shedding time.)
It is always hard to be in front of a camera....don't sweat the small stuff...just be yourself...Jesse....don't change....Love your videos..Happy Easter
This particular Unstable podcast is pure comedy gold. I have laughed myself silly at the two of you. I just know in the future when you guys have your own property, Jesse is going to have a bunch of barn cats lol. Who wants to bet that Matt will end up liking them, fly-away hair and all?
Jesse, i love how you share your journey with ADHD so openly! It definitely is nothing to be afraid of. I have been diagnosed with ADHD 5 years ago. For me, the ADHD diagnosis has never been a label, but the key to understanding, accepting and loving myself and my diversity, to efficiently work on my weaknesses and even turn some of them into strengths. And to shape my world to fit me instead of the other way around. Never ending process of course 😉 l wish you all the best on your journey!
I wasn’t a cat person, for the same reasons as Matt, until we rescued a cat. We had a 6 yr old rescued dog at that time and they figured out how to get along. Our life was enriched because of her so keep an open mind. If you have pus coming from your open sore, I suggest you see a doctor for antibiotics because it sounds like your cut is infected.
Not unless it's getting worse. The body knows how to heal. The reason we have so many antibiotic resistant bacteria and diseases is precisely because doctors gave antibiotics for things like that.
@cattymajiv if there's pus coming from an open wound you should definitely see a doctor. They can decide whether you can have local antiseptic treatment or if you need antibiotics. Yes, it's true we need to limit antibiotic use where possible, but if you have a nasty infection you will need them - sepsis kills.
Everyone's minds process thoughs differently. Just because your mind jumps around doesn't mean there is anything wrong. You learn how to control your gifted imagination to solve problems in your way which is the correct way for you.
I am so happy to hear you may resume show training with Emporio. You both did so well in Oct-2022. I think Emporio is really going to enjoy the show circuit where he can strut his stuff and have you focused on him. But I know you have many, many other interests. I love you and Jesse and the way you interact with each other and with your animals.
I love this podcast so much. Your energy is amazing, I love the banter, but also the genuine connection you guys have. I love the mix between personal behind the scenes stories and horse life. The setup is cool, it's honest and just focused on your life. These videos absolutely make my day, thank you for that :)
Matt and Jesse: Thank you. I love your artwork. I’ve had horses in my life as long as I can remember. There is so much feeling in working with horses that is tactile so exemplified by what Jesse does and subtile and controlled with what Matt does. There’s a passion in your art and uniqueness you manifest and control so artistically that it becomes beautiful.
Matt!!!! You treat a cat like a dog and reap the rewards of a loving, loyal animal as a result. I love cats. Mine come when called and are just as loving as a dog would be. As for the hair - make your cat a barn cat - and they will kill the mice for you. Also cats are generally very good with horses and horses like their quiet ways.
I really love this format so much, it's such a nice break from everyday life to just listen to you two chat and have fun! For the next video: Do you have any tips on riding anxiety/ getting more confident with your riding?
Love it like it is and your energy together. You make me smiling so hard and my heart gets so much joy and warmth. So much needed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. It helped so much. ❤❤❤
You just haven't seen the right cat we have had her since birth 15 years she gets bathed and nails trimmed doesn't jump on you or counter she is amazing
Questions for next episode: Would you ever get another tattoo? Favorite vacation ever? Do you Matt, ever introduce yourself with Mattia? Any special plans for the summer? What are your top priorities when it comes to horse welfare and training, and how do you integrate these priorities into your daily routines?
Couples sharing a sense of humor is inspirational. And being truly authentic with each other while still being caring for each other is indeed a beautiful thing to see.
You two are so perfect as a team, each with qualities that the other can appreciate. Certainly had me laughing while just being yourselves. I was thinking maybe if you had pictures of all the beautiful horse facilities and the individual rooms as in tac rooms, et cetera It would help create a really nice visual for both you and us who aren't able to see in our heads, (just a thought). But surprises are nice too. I believe you two would have been friends at school, but the best is that you are friends and partners now, and that's what counts. Always good to see you, wishing you a Happy Easter, and good times ahead.❤️👍
I love you two and really enjoy your videos. You’re both delightful to listen to and always make me smile. Happy Easter Matt and Jesse, hope your day is wonderful. ❤❤
Regarding ADHD, I see a lot of comments saying “no nothing is wrong.” I think that’s a bit negative because there’s nothing “wrong” with being neurodivergent if Jesse is. At the very least he can get evaluated if he feels the need to. And if he were to be diagnosed with ADHD or any other neurodivergent thing, it’s perfectly fine. Please do not diminish people who are neurodivergent! Someone’s mind working differently than what’s considered “typical” is not a negative thing. Their mind just works differently. Please be more open minded!
What a great comment, neuro diversity is not a ‘problem’ it is just a unique individual way of thought process that neuro typical do not understand - I teach many children and adults that are neurodiverse - dyslexia, dyspraxia, autism - these individuals are unique and certainly not at a disadvantage when it comes to training and riding horses 🐴🌅
I just can't love you guys enough!! Your dynamic is priceless and precious. Both of you are gems, Jesse... You are just perfect the way you are.. Do not go get tested 😘 Until next time. LOVING these videos!
I can watch Jesse tease Matte all day. I would be a quiet friend behind the scenes helping out just to watch Matte freak out every time Jesse teases him. 😂😅
Y'all are amazing!! I love the Unstable podcast! I can't imagine doing everything you guys have done in your young lives. I really admire y'all. Bravo gentlemen!!
Matte. Get a pen and look carefully around the wound for redness. Draw a line along the edge of the red. Next morning, check to see if the redness has gone past the line. If it has it means infection is building! Please seek medical help.
As have had a stable in the past, you really must love what you are doing. It is hard work and something is always going wrong. I loved it! My horses were always well cared for and soooooo happy. 😊
Great video guys, I was laughing my head off. I love the complicity you guys have together.. Both of you are lucky to have found each. I admire the relationship you guys have together. ❤❤
"if you think would we have been friends, or ENEMIES?👀" and my mind immediatelly jumped to ✨️oooooooh enemies to loverssss✨️ (all i know is fanfiction sns)
"The drawer opens and the cookies come out!" As a fellow after-dinner grazer, I've never laughed so hard at something I felt so personally attacked by...
I can relate to Jesse a lot more in how he describes approaching things. His stable description is about function than about style. Airiness & ability for horses to move in / out & space / fields. It's about functionality. Matt is wanting to discuss "architecture & interior design". -- Good idea to hire someone to do things you don't enjoy in your business. I waaay too often did things in my business that I hated. That's not how to live a life. --
Do you both realize how entertaining you are? Both of you have a good relationship and can easily laugh at yourselves in the process. It is good to have your own space to unwind but I think you can do that with your horses. Congratulate yourselves on living in a contained space and still getting along. There are some couples that can't even do that so Kudos to both of you for still getting along. Hope you find a place that you can call your own in the very near future.
My husband and I tested positive for Covid yesterday so I was lying here feeling lousy. I needed a laugh. Thank you for brightening my day. Happy Easter to you both.
@@cattymajiv If you are concerned about other people getting ill, you should stay away from them if you are ill. Period. Doesn't matter if it is Flu, Rhino, RSV or a corona virus.
I work in a hospital. Leave policy is determined by results. My husband is asymptomatic but is a waiter. We don’t want to pass this on to others. And sometimes it’s just nice to know. We have a lot of flu and RSV going around as well.
I am a super fan and have been watching you both for years and this is the first video I have seen where the word ‘gay’ has even been spoken. I am all for people living their lives as privately or as openly as they wish, however, I also feel that positive queer representation is crucial in destroying stereotypes and stigma and being more open also allows you to control your own narrative. I wish you both the best and always look forward to seeing your content. You are both assets to the equestrian world. ❤
This whole video is giving old married couple energies and I love it 😂
Me 2 lol
So entertaining!! 🤣
People keep saying that, but real old married couples don't relate that way or they wouldn't have made it to old married couple (imo).
I couldn't stop laughing. This is so lovely.
@@MegF142857 That's not true at all... Lots of old couples bicker because they know how far they can push the other other one with their banter. Typically to an outsider it seems rude or like one is being mean but within the couple, a lot of times they are so used to each other's sass that they can give it and take it.
Jesse is getting cheekier every episode. I love it! 😄
😂😂
His is Secretly Sassy and I love it!! 😆
Keep rocking the sass Jesse.. our boy is no little grey mouse!! ❤️ ❤️
@@paulamckibben1317 NO,NO HE ISN'T!!!
Jesse, there is nothing wrong with you. You are an angel in human form and you make the world a better place by being just the way you are.
Actually, that statement is not really true. I love Jesse but just like everyone else he has personal struggles and he should get tested for ADHD and have tools to make his life better.
@@kathleenchild I fully agree with that. If Jesse has a chance to find out, he gets a chance to learn why things are how they are. He does not need to change in any way, but he may understand things better. Which might lead to an even better life for him. And if Matt accompanies him along the way, that may lead to an even deeper and richer relationship.
if he feels he would like to get tested he should.👍@@SandraOrtmann1976
There is nothing wrong with Jesse...
Why does he have to have adhd, a label,, for being a sensitive, loving, caring human being, who is in touch with his true self. and says it like it is?
Jesse is so refreshingingly real in this world of fakeness, still a young man finding his way, which by the way, is doing a brilliant job from where I'm sitting!
So please, we could all learn alot from Jesse,
Let's embrace his charm and wonderful character as he is without assuming he needs fixing, testing, or having a label put on him.
(This is no way disrespectful to anyone who does have Adhd or similar,, I just feel Jesse doesn't fit into that category!)
Keep being you Jesse, I think you are brilliant!!
You too Matt! 😊
Just to make myself absolutely clear, I would NEVER say that someone with ADHD has something wrong with them. Taking steps to help himself understand things better isn’t going to change him and make him less Jesse.
Thank you guys again, cant wait for the next questions/topics😂
I wish I was allowed to get Instagram, you are the first person I’d follow! ❤
Question: Will we ever see a video of you riding Chase?
We love you tremendously ❣️❣️❣️❣️
@@LillyCrash Jesse does ride Chase in the video that he and Matt goes out for a ride together
MUCH LOVE TO YOU JESSE! 💌 from Vegas
Jesse, you are totally fine... just be you. The person we all love. So kind and compassionate with your animals!
Jesse has the ability to make people fall in love with his cuteness and kind nature. Combined with his angelic appearance, this makes for an incredible combo. I'm a relatively new subscriber and this guy immediately caught my attention))))
Both of you need to remember that Jesse has to translate from his head to his mouth every time he speaks English. Watch Jesse in Dutch speaking videos, you will see the difference.
Very true,I noticed this right away when he speaks Dutch.😊
Welcome to speaking another language. 😅
Great observation! ❤
You can’t speak another language fluently if you have to translate your thoughts before speaking.
I'm sure they know this 😂
No! Don’t do an intro song! Keep it this exact way! Same background just sit down & talk & answer questions. With horses & stables in the background. We love it!
Agree I just skip intros
Please don’t change anything, I really enjoy this format! You two being a mood for the whole time is everything! 😅
ADHD or not, Jesse we love you exactly as you are. Your personality is perfect for the job you do. People with ADHD are usually very intelligent and focus on many things at once and are able to go into a lot of detail. You are inspirational. Don't try to change!
Matt, don't write cats off too quickly. I was always a dog person until a stray cat moved in with me. I am deaf and I don't hear my alarm clock in the morning, but my 🐈⬛ does and then he wakes me up.
He is very loyal and sensitive and has been an excellent companion.
@@MegF142857 Him saying it in the beginning of the video?
@@Belle-s7c It wouldnt work with other horses where they are all free to move in the same space.
@@Belle-s7c I'd like to hear his reasoning, because if you want to restrict them for a while to just inside or just outside, you can. It is kind of mystifying.
One of the best yet. Authentic. Hilarious. Warm. Please keep sharing Matt & Jesse.
Jesse is so cute when he struggles to get his point across on something and Matt the looks on ur face as he goes through it is so sweet. You can tell that you guys care very deeply for each other....
Matt and Jesse........ Watching the two of you guys is amazing. The way you interact with one another. Comical, funny, and also just so caring.
You compliment one another. Soulmates.
I have ADHD too and having a different thinking mind can truly be a gift! Neurodivergent people are super creative and emphatic, they have a big heart and find joy in the smallest things, have unique thinking patterns or solution strategies ❤
I wish I could see the positives more often. Thank you for reminding me. As someone working in tech, having adhd feels like an uphill battle most of the time haha
Hm, I always thought Jesse seemed more autistic. I'm no docter or anything, just was how he came arcoss to me.
Yes, everything you said sans ADHD: yet another label for what is unique and quirky...which schooling tries to diminish if not completely eradicate, hence only 20 minute lunch break and 20 minute break for recess in American public elementary schools, very limited arts/crafts, dance, and theater. This agenda of suppression is going to be history soon.
Yes,Yes They Do!
I just love how Jesse gets progressively more sassy as these go on 😂
I’m so glad Jesse and Matt seem to have a genuine love for each other and it shows in their talks.
I liked Jesse’s stable, I just love the LAND and pastures much more than the barn. I also like stalls with attached runs so the horses have more space to move around and go in and outside.
Exatcly!
I have been following since Matt started thinking of his big move. The more I watch them the more I enjoy their relationship; Jesse has blossomed in front of the camera and Matt is even more relatable. A really adorable couple of guys. 😊
Things I love about Matt & Jesse (JMHO) ❤
- that Matt the big picture thinker is striving to build a life that makes both their hearts happy
- that when Jesse used to do competitions he left before medals were announced because he didn’t care where he & his horse ranked, just that they had fun together (they would have to phone him to tell him he won a medal 😅)
- that Matt has an amazing eye & can build them a beautiful home & grounds
- that Jesse was so worried about his pups losing their “childhood home” 🥹
- that Jesse helps loosen up Matt and get him smiling & Matt helps Jesse by creating a beautiful & organised home that I feel may help Jesse navigate life with less stress
- that both of them are just allround lovely human beings
Well said! I agree 100%!
Jessie is right about letting the horse decide if it wants to be inside or out. You could accommodate stallions by providing them with large individual pastures adjacent to their stable. Horses are meant to move and are much happier and healthier if they are free to do so. Love your Unstable series!
Again, I know nothing about horses and won’t ever have a horse, but here I am subscribed. I learn so much about this industry and lifestyle/niche business from Matt and Jesse. Like many subscribed to this channel, I’m really and always impressed by Matt and Jesse. Each of you are so talented in your own right. As a parent, I’d be so proud and happy about your accomplishments, hard work and how kind and ethical you both are. Beautiful on the outside and beautiful on the inside.
Giggly Jesse and Matt is the next level of cuteness 😂
Loved the gentle chaos and authenticity of this. It brightened up an otherwise grey UK day!
Aunt Johnny here: This channel is one of my very favorites! I discovered it when Matt was moving his horse and himself to the Netherlands. I really liked how he showed the whole trip. Then the life you guys have built in these last years is so encouraging. The things you have accomplished (even when the world lost its mind) is just phenomenal! Being a horse owner myself I know full well how responsible you have to be with them. I would not ever change the decision to have horses. Even on the Winter snowy mornings when it is cold, icy and slippery. I always look forward to your videos. The best to you both and Happy Easter.
That was a fun chat, Matt has really mellowed and Jesse is more confident, I found myself smiling through the whole thing.
The ending was the best 🤣 pronunciation is everything. Each time we learn a little more about you both and how two very different people make it work. Good Job!!
Matt's storytelling is very precise. Like looking at a high-quality photograph.
Jesse's storytelling is like looking at a beautiful painting. You see it in your mind but also feel it in your heart.
These chatty Podcasts of you are my favourite thing on RUclips at the moment. Love the mix of horse-related, personal and random questions! Thank you for sharing a more private look into your relationship, I feel like we get to know you a lot better through these videos.
Looking forward to the next one, hope your April will be wonderful.
And @jesse go on a holiday, you deserve it!
You 2 are a riot! I enjoyed this "unstable" immensely! More, please. I'm an old lady, nearly 75, but I live vicariously through you. Love you! ❤
You guys really dont have to change anything... You both lighten my evening,
I swear Jesse just loves winding you up Matt, and the way you respond back is hilarious and sweet,
Keep it simple, real, and exactly how it is...❤
Jessie , we love you because you’re so REAL.
So many of us wish we could be like you. It’s pure and perfect!
Jesse you are an angel on this earth! You and Matt are blessed to have one another forever.
@matt_harnacke questions for the next one:
*How are Jesse's grandparents doing? Weren't they sick recently?
*Who is most likely to snore: Jesse, Matt, Penny, or Maisy?
*The Land Rover is Matt's dream car. Does Jesse have a dream car?
*Matt, you clearly love the English stately home/country house style. Which one is your favorite and have you been able to visit it?
*Pretend Steve or one of Jesse's siblings has a kid. Who's going to be the favorite uncle? Uncle Matt or uncle Jesse?
*What shows are in your Netflix queue? What shows are you not allowed to watch unless you're together?
*What are some ways to be involved in the horse world if you don't/can't have a horse at the moment?
*Do either of you have any tattoos other than the sun and moon? Do you want more? What would you get?
*Have you considered merch that isn't just for horses for those of us who love your channels and want to support you both, but don't have horses? Stuff like mugs, water bottles, shirts, calendars, etc etc?
I would love to get a mug!
Oh wow these questions are great. Love how you know and remember little details wohoo
Merch is a great idea!! Xx
On one of Jesse's tours he Does have some types of merchandise. A book, some t-shirts, hoodies and his horse merchandise. All on his web site.
@Joyfullscroll Nalanta is his web site. I would like to buy a mug with a picture of his horses on it so I can drink ginger tea with them during the "Unstable" podcast.
I wanted to say that I love these one on one videos. Your chemistry is so delightful. It's good to have fun things to share together, but also feel free to do your own thing apart. That makes for a true relationship. Wishing you all the best on this Easter Day from the US.
I feel like a desert, and it is raining. Just absorbing all of what you have to share. Both of you make me smile and focus. Thank you for sharing your lives.
Love that ecxample👏😂 thank you!!
You guys are just the best!❤ Everybody is always loving Jesse (they are totally right!) But can we talk a Minute how caring and protective Matt is? ❤❤
Well, this is a lovely Easter surprise! 🐰
YES...KEEP IT SIMPLE! It is most charming in this format. Great job, boys. Love from Aunt Cynthia.
21:28 it’s out Matt, there’s no taking it back, thanks Jesse, and it’s only going to get you more followers and admirers. Lots of us have been following you from the beginning because we knew that.
You guys balance each other so well. Jesse, you are super creative and have such gifts...please don't change 💙🙏🥰🕊
Nice to see you guys back in the stables again! Jesse, if I didn't already respect and admire you (which I do), your comments about cats would have earned my respect and admiration! You've made me so proud to be a member of your followers! "Why have a cat (if it doesn't do anything)?" "To give it a better life." Perfect answer!
Matt - I've used honey and honey-based ointments/salves/creams before. It's not pus - it's the body reacting (healing) to the medication. A good idea, if you haven't already, would be to have your doctor take a look at it, just to make sure the wound is healing properly. (An aside: after seeing how much your horses shed, you're complaining about *cat* hair?!!? Seriously???) I'm jealous of your Paris trip! Enjoy!
Fair point on the horse hair. He forgets dogs shed too. There Are various ways to gather the shedding. (Besides vacuuming. Get a Roomba type to keep on top of the shedding time.)
I think you guys are so good for each other. Your always there for each other in good and bad time.
It is always hard to be in front of a camera....don't sweat the small stuff...just be yourself...Jesse....don't change....Love your videos..Happy Easter
This particular Unstable podcast is pure comedy gold. I have laughed myself silly at the two of you. I just know in the future when you guys have your own property, Jesse is going to have a bunch of barn cats lol. Who wants to bet that Matt will end up liking them, fly-away hair and all?
He'll have them in fancy collars and with Ipods to keep track of them outside. Lol Also the tallest fanciest cat trees.
You two are so wonderful, handsome and excellent horsemen. What a combination! I love how you laugh and joke but keep your minds working.
What wonderful news that you plan on raising foals!
You two are the sweetest people. I adore you both and love that you have each other.
Jesse gives me so much life, love this guy 🫶🏾
I love him,also!!!
smiled through the whole video :) happy easter
Jesse, i love how you share your journey with ADHD so openly! It definitely is nothing to be afraid of. I have been diagnosed with ADHD 5 years ago. For me, the ADHD diagnosis has never been a label, but the key to understanding, accepting and loving myself and my diversity, to efficiently work on my weaknesses and even turn some of them into strengths. And to shape my world to fit me instead of the other way around. Never ending process of course 😉 l wish you all the best on your journey!
That was a great update. You guys were just so natural and love watching you.
Matt "We're going to the olympics" Jesse: "that's not really a holiday" Matt: "well it's certainly not HELL" I snorted my coffee😂😂😂
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I wasn’t a cat person, for the same reasons as Matt, until we rescued a cat. We had a 6 yr old rescued dog at that time and they figured out how to get along. Our life was enriched because of her so keep an open mind. If you have pus coming from your open sore, I suggest you see a doctor for antibiotics because it sounds like your cut is infected.
Not unless it's getting worse. The body knows how to heal. The reason we have so many antibiotic resistant bacteria and diseases is precisely because doctors gave antibiotics for things like that.
@cattymajiv if there's pus coming from an open wound you should definitely see a doctor. They can decide whether you can have local antiseptic treatment or if you need antibiotics. Yes, it's true we need to limit antibiotic use where possible, but if you have a nasty infection you will need them - sepsis kills.
Everyone's minds process thoughs differently. Just because your mind jumps around doesn't mean there is anything wrong. You learn how to control your gifted imagination to solve problems in your way which is the correct way for you.
You two are wonderful together! ❤
I am so happy to hear you may resume show training with Emporio. You both did so well in Oct-2022. I think Emporio is really going to enjoy the show circuit where he can strut his stuff and have you focused on him. But I know you have many, many other interests. I love you and Jesse and the way you interact with each other and with your animals.
You two are hilarious. Enjoy the simple format and the balance you provide to each other. So funny.
It's great that you invite us more into your life and relationship! Happy Easter! 🐇🥚🧡
I love this podcast so much. Your energy is amazing, I love the banter, but also the genuine connection you guys have. I love the mix between personal behind the scenes stories and horse life. The setup is cool, it's honest and just focused on your life. These videos absolutely make my day, thank you for that :)
I would like to see Jesse blindfolded and trying to guess the horses. I think it would be a lot of fun, since Matt already did it. 😁
MATT!! 🤣🤣🤣 your facial expression are so dang FUNNY 🤣🤣🤣🤣 when asking Jesse what his ideal stable would look like 🤣🤣🤣
Matt and Jesse: Thank you. I love your artwork. I’ve had horses in my life as long as I can remember. There is so much feeling in working with horses that is tactile so exemplified by what Jesse does and subtile and controlled with what Matt does. There’s a passion in your art and uniqueness you manifest and control so artistically that it becomes beautiful.
I love these Q&A episodes and your interaction. You both make me smile 😊❤❤
Matt!!!! You treat a cat like a dog and reap the rewards of a loving, loyal animal as a result. I love cats. Mine come when called and are just as loving as a dog would be. As for the hair - make your cat a barn cat - and they will kill the mice for you. Also cats are generally very good with horses and horses like their quiet ways.
My cats have my dog completely under control
this is literally my favourite ep yet!!
Jesse you are amazing just how you are. And you deserve a nice holiday of your own choosing. 😉
You Both are so sweeeet together ❣️ nice to See, that you found each other ✨
I really love this format so much, it's such a nice break from everyday life to just listen to you two chat and have fun!
For the next video:
Do you have any tips on riding anxiety/ getting more confident with your riding?
This was so good, and light, and enjoyable!!! Love all the sass Jesse was giving Matt!!
Love it like it is and your energy together. You make me smiling so hard and my heart gets so much joy and warmth. So much needed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. It helped so much. ❤❤❤
I really love this more and more personal vibe with you. Thanks for sharing all this with us 💕
💗 Thank you so much for doing these, so fun just to sit with you ~ means the world. 🥰🥰💖
You just haven't seen the right cat we have had her since birth 15 years she gets bathed and nails trimmed doesn't jump on you or counter she is amazing
Questions for next episode:
Would you ever get another tattoo?
Favorite vacation ever?
Do you Matt, ever introduce yourself with Mattia?
Any special plans for the summer?
What are your top priorities when it comes to horse welfare and training, and how do you integrate these priorities into your daily routines?
Couples sharing a sense of humor is inspirational. And being truly authentic with each other while still being caring for each other is indeed a beautiful thing to see.
You two are so perfect as a team, each with qualities that the other can appreciate. Certainly had me laughing while just being yourselves. I was thinking maybe if you had pictures of all the beautiful horse facilities and the individual rooms as in tac rooms, et cetera It would help create a really nice visual for both you and us who aren't able to see in our heads, (just a thought). But surprises are nice too. I believe you two would have been friends at school, but the best is that you are friends and partners now, and that's what counts. Always good to see you, wishing you a Happy Easter, and good times ahead.❤️👍
I love you two and really enjoy your videos. You’re both delightful to listen to and always make me smile. Happy Easter Matt and Jesse, hope your day is wonderful. ❤❤
The best-friends-giving-old-married-couple energy reminds me so much of me and my bestie, and I'm living for it
Regarding ADHD, I see a lot of comments saying “no nothing is wrong.” I think that’s a bit negative because there’s nothing “wrong” with being neurodivergent if Jesse is. At the very least he can get evaluated if he feels the need to. And if he were to be diagnosed with ADHD or any other neurodivergent thing, it’s perfectly fine. Please do not diminish people who are neurodivergent! Someone’s mind working differently than what’s considered “typical” is not a negative thing. Their mind just works differently. Please be more open minded!
What a great comment, neuro diversity is not a ‘problem’ it is just a unique individual way of thought process that neuro typical do not understand - I teach many children and adults that are neurodiverse - dyslexia, dyspraxia, autism - these individuals are unique and certainly not at a disadvantage when it comes to training and riding horses 🐴🌅
I just can't love you guys enough!! Your dynamic is priceless and precious. Both of you are gems, Jesse... You are just perfect the way you are.. Do not go get tested 😘
Until next time. LOVING these videos!
The BEST home remedy for wounds comes from NZ - Manuka Honey - also for horses.
Love having the horses stick their heads out to say hi. For instance, Chase was welcoming us today. 🤗♥️🇨🇦🤓
I can watch Jesse tease Matte all day. I would be a quiet friend behind the scenes helping out just to watch Matte freak out every time Jesse teases him. 😂😅
Y'all are amazing!! I love the Unstable podcast! I can't imagine doing everything you guys have done in your young lives. I really admire y'all. Bravo gentlemen!!
Matte. Get a pen and look carefully around the wound for redness. Draw a line along the edge of the red.
Next morning, check to see if the redness has gone past the line.
If it has it means infection is building!
Please seek medical help.
... and make sure your anti-tetanus vaccination is up-to-date (especially around horses)!!
He just did an update on insta today and it looks a lot better so it's not a worry
Thanks ... good to know... pretty nasty-looking after nearly two weeks.@@choco3424
@@choco3424thank you for the update.
Oh, Matt, the cat will rule the dog!! They will be friends in the end 😊😊 Most barns have both and they are just fine...you crack me up🤣
As have had a stable in the past, you really must love what you are doing. It is hard work and something is always going wrong. I loved it! My horses were always well cared for and soooooo happy. 😊
Great video guys, I was laughing my head off. I love the complicity you guys have together..
Both of you are lucky to have found each. I admire the relationship you guys have together. ❤❤
You make my day so much sweeter. I hope I can watch your videos until I drop dead - I need a steady dose of Jesse+Matt. Auf Wiedersehen ❤️
"if you think would we have been friends, or ENEMIES?👀" and my mind immediatelly jumped to ✨️oooooooh enemies to loverssss✨️ (all i know is fanfiction sns)
The fanfic brainrot is real… (Ao3 being down was my downfall)
Are there fanfics about them? I can't find any😢
@@julim.9973 I sure hope not… Feels very wrong to have rpf about them 😅
@@julim.9973 let's write some 😀😀😀😀
"The drawer opens and the cookies come out!" As a fellow after-dinner grazer, I've never laughed so hard at something I felt so personally attacked by...
That was a great, relaxed Q & A. I loved it all! Thanks for sharing x
I can relate to Jesse a lot more in how he describes approaching things. His stable description is about function than about style. Airiness & ability for horses to move in / out & space / fields. It's about functionality. Matt is wanting to discuss "architecture & interior design". -- Good idea to hire someone to do things you don't enjoy in your business. I waaay too often did things in my business that I hated. That's not how to live a life. --
Do you both realize how entertaining you are? Both of you have a good relationship and can easily laugh at yourselves in the process. It is good to have your own space to unwind but I think you can do that with your horses. Congratulate yourselves on living in a contained space and still getting along. There are some couples that can't even do that so Kudos to both of you for still getting along. Hope you find a place that you can call your own in the very near future.
My husband and I tested positive for Covid yesterday so I was lying here feeling lousy. I needed a laugh. Thank you for brightening my day. Happy Easter to you both.
Why test? It won't make anything different.
@@lieke9460 Um, so that you can avoid giving it to others, so that vulnerable babies and old people don't die from it! Duh ! ! !
@@cattymajiv If you are concerned about other people getting ill, you should stay away from them if you are ill. Period. Doesn't matter if it is Flu, Rhino, RSV or a corona virus.
I work in a hospital. Leave policy is determined by results. My husband is asymptomatic but is a waiter. We don’t want to pass this on to others. And sometimes it’s just nice to know. We have a lot of flu and RSV going around as well.
@@rlesourd7680 which is fine to pass ofcourse.
Jesse, we love you just the way you are❤
Thanks for this Easter posting. Videos showing your interaction as a couple are my favorite.
. Hello from El Paso , TX
You are so nice. I laughing the whole time. Happy Eastern to you and all the people arround you
I am a super fan and have been watching you both for years and this is the first video I have seen where the word ‘gay’ has even been spoken. I am all for people living their lives as privately or as openly as they wish, however, I also feel that positive queer representation is crucial in destroying stereotypes and stigma and being more open also allows you to control your own narrative. I wish you both the best and always look forward to seeing your content. You are both assets to the equestrian world. ❤
Exactly my relationship with them and I couldn’t have said it better. “Family” follower from 🇿🇦🏳️🌈
Omy you 2 are so funny 😂 I love these vlogs and I love your relationship ❤
OMG 😂😂😂. We are already 3 mins and no questions answered and its off the rails……I love it 🤣
Haha funniest couple therapy session ever.