As a gay guy I am so happy I don't have to deal with this shit. It's SO much easier to date and even just have a partner when you don't need to worry about gendered bullshit. Dates? Always split the bill unless you're trying really hard to show someone you like them. Sex? Don't beat around the bush, just ask directly. "No" is always an option. "Chivalry"? (Holding doors open, taking coats, etc?) Again, only if you really like someone and want to be nice. I wish straight people (Men AND Women) could take a hint and just treat people as people. It's not the 1950s anymore. We're all human, we all have jobs. Enough unspoken rules and mind-games. Just treat your date like you would treat a new friend.
what irony? if she's never expressed any beliefs that contradict this then this isn't a parody of fake feminists, these are her real beliefs. equality but only when it benefits me. and it's entirely consistent with the way she grasps for any argument she thinks she can use to push a self-serving agenda when she's trying to debate seriously. the only belief she's consistent with is that women should always be 100% free from accountability for anything they do.
@@pancakerepairman "if she's never expressed any beliefs that contradict this then this ... these are her real beliefs" - my dude here never heard of the concept of lying. Amazing.
As a GenX dude, I am stunned by how often and quickly she flicks from being earnest to being ironic and back, and I’m not always sure which is which. I’m willing to roll with it, though, and am here for more
Your channel graced my feed, so I go to your page and this is what I see. Watched the whole thing. This has to be a bit, but the fact that I've MET women who think this way, let alone that they exist separately from my experience out in the world, haunts me everyday.
There’s so much time and emotion spilled on this subject of “who pays”. Firstly, splitting checks just always feels weird on a date or even in other contexts. I feel like if you’ve invited people to an experience then it’s inherently something you want to gift, it’s a gesture. Making that experience or invitation conditional on them paying for it changes the whole experience.
Lol, if someone offers to pay and then tells me theyre put off by the fact that I let them pay, thats a red flag. I never mind footing the bill, but that kind of testing and disingenuity would put _me_ off. That said, I agree with the take! Feel empowered to ask them to pay, ladies! It's a hell of a lot better than playing guessing games, and I reckon you'll probably weed out a lot of misogynists bc theyll start complaining about feminism. Be honest, be confrontational. Ask the awkward questions, and own it!
Yeah same, I often offer to pay 'cause I like doing it, a lot of my friends are broke and it allows me to be cheeky and ask them if they wanna cover the next time, but I'll let someone pay if they offer. The sentiment in the video is just kinda shallow and someone mired in this many levels of social signifiers is too complex for me to build any sort of stable relationship with. This is just a video about how Farha owned herself tbh
I once took a girl on a date to a TGI fridays, but I only had enough money to pay for one person. so I silently watched her eat for 30 minutes before we both went home. yet even I can't help but cringe at this
Not sure why one of your videos showed up in my recommended videos, but so glad it did. Watched several of your videos and they are all great. I love how your mind works and your train of thought. I was hesitant to write a comment because your intelligence, wit, and sarcasm far outweigh mine and I was worried you would detect how inferior I am 🙂 Keep up the great and funny work!
Getting some strong Brittany Venti Vibes. When I say that I mean I can't quite tell why I am watching this video that is obviously meant to troll, because with large amounts of sarcasm and lies is mixed with just enough truth to make you go huh.
I split the bill in my first and only date with a guy In my defence I didn't know what I was doing neither before, during and after the date. It was a learning experience, it served for me to realize how crazy I was
I love your style vids, but tbh nah. I don't mind paying and I think tbh we as women should thrive towards that more. I do think it's more progressive, in the positive sense. I am from the netherlands, where the saying 'going dutch' came from, it's pretty much the norm here. So this sounds a bit foreign to me.
ye Im German and i dont get this video usually i get behind the humor but here she genuinely thinks the guy should pay? Is she owning progressive women here? Makes no sense to me considering her other videos. Some interpreted it as rage bait and as a guy it definitely worked on me if thats the case
I always split or alternate but I dated all genders. The one time I got annoyed was when a guy who I know earns WAY over $100K wanted to split it down to the last 10c we were paying cash and was fiddling with small change, round up cheapskate!
God. I finally tried to make pie crust at home. Through that process I realized how much it was just butter and flour - I had no idea?! So instead of trying to perfect my pie crust technique, I ended up thinking "Jesus - what have I been eating?!" And eating fewer crusted items. Is my life better now? I don't know. I'm just old and I'm going to die so I should probably follow your lead here.
I mean. I can already misunderstand things. That's like, my default position. "Cool smart girl" tells me how to be dumb is just me plus a "cool smart girl" telling me how to be what repulses me
I had no problem till he asked about Netflix and that’s when it got iffy, but that could mean anything, right? Like maybe he genuinely wants to watch stranger things or something
I once had a date that turned out to be a catfish, where she picked out an expensive restaurant, showed up late, and yeah, I didn't even reach for the check, or call her back. The steak was good though...
Wait... Are zoomers back to the norm of men paying for meals? All the millennial women I've gone on dates with have insisted on splitting the bill. I always offer to pay and they always refuse.
Yeah, between dating app culture and the economy going to shit, the younger generation of women went back to gendered payment rules. The men seem not to have gotten the memo
I have many horses and own homes I bought from Saudi royalty. Be my bride. I don't care if I mysteriously die from "food poisoning " after eating a pie, within a year or our marriage.
You did the right thing. It's always appreciative if the woman offers to pay even if I would never let them pay. No matter how bad the date was in the end.
I'm confused by your perspective on this one. Maybe it's my neurodivergence. Maybe it's my having been subjected to the patriarchy my whole life. Maybe it's your double standard? I guess we'll never know. I'm not even sure I haven't fallen victim to Poe's law.
Have you ever considered trying to do stand up for a living? I am not against OF, even if I don't use it, but there are plenty of OF models, and you are actually good at this.
im having such a hard time figuring out what her real opinion is on the matter , personally id never pay for a meal for someone just to have sex cause it feels so fucking crass but like it just feels good to do things for people
RIP the poor fool who inspired this monologue
wdym? guy saved 82 dollars on a meal. coulda been worse
@@hazel-poweryou dont get the point
@@Dylan-hp2le no no, hes right.
@@Dylan-hp2le no you just don't recognise a fiscally responsible king when you see one
@@Dylan-hp2lecare to elaborate?
Me, a gay man, looking upon the strange world of heterosexual relationships: "Werk."
werk werk ELIZAAA
And peggy
~~The Schuyler Sisters~~
me, an aromantic looking at the strange world of any relationships
The deadpan "gay loser" made me laugh out-loud :(
As a gay guy I am so happy I don't have to deal with this shit. It's SO much easier to date and even just have a partner when you don't need to worry about gendered bullshit.
Dates? Always split the bill unless you're trying really hard to show someone you like them.
Sex? Don't beat around the bush, just ask directly. "No" is always an option.
"Chivalry"? (Holding doors open, taking coats, etc?) Again, only if you really like someone and want to be nice.
I wish straight people (Men AND Women) could take a hint and just treat people as people. It's not the 1950s anymore. We're all human, we all have jobs. Enough unspoken rules and mind-games. Just treat your date like you would treat a new friend.
never paid for the girl and never had problems, but im in Germany
As a gay dude this is one of the benefits of being gay
@@janhenrik4170 yup that's diff
@ met up mostly with foreigners though
The Straights are not okay.
vocal fry final boss
red scare pod got nothing on this woman
it's sexy
The teenager boys at my high school are shaking rn
see, this is how you make quality ragebait. take notes, kids.
exactly, you somehow enjoy it too much to start an argument with her
This is my favourite level of irony. At the same time I would never want to be associated with liking this…. anyways i subscribed.
what irony? if she's never expressed any beliefs that contradict this then this isn't a parody of fake feminists, these are her real beliefs. equality but only when it benefits me. and it's entirely consistent with the way she grasps for any argument she thinks she can use to push a self-serving agenda when she's trying to debate seriously. the only belief she's consistent with is that women should always be 100% free from accountability for anything they do.
@@pancakerepairman holy shit you have to be one of the stupidest people alive
@@pancakerepairman hey genius the point of the video was to bait you
@@pancakerepairman "if she's never expressed any beliefs that contradict this then this ... these are her real beliefs" - my dude here never heard of the concept of lying. Amazing.
As a GenX dude, I am stunned by how often and quickly she flicks from being earnest to being ironic and back, and I’m not always sure which is which. I’m willing to roll with it, though, and am here for more
“As the 82 dollar left my phone, my souls left my body”😭😭😭
But just a couple of them. Who knows how vast her collection of stolen souls truly is. 😮
Gaah. My sarcasm detector is totally confused. I think I'd happily be an even worse date.
Ye I don’t know if she’s being sarcastic or not. I’d expect splitting the bill is fine😭😭
Your channel graced my feed, so I go to your page and this is what I see. Watched the whole thing. This has to be a bit, but the fact that I've MET women who think this way, let alone that they exist separately from my experience out in the world, haunts me everyday.
There’s so much time and emotion spilled on this subject of “who pays”.
Firstly, splitting checks just always feels weird on a date or even in other contexts.
I feel like if you’ve invited people to an experience then it’s inherently something you want to gift, it’s a gesture. Making that experience or invitation conditional on them paying for it changes the whole experience.
Its not a gift its a mutual experience in order to getting to know eachother. Unless its an escort
excellent ragebait
but it isn’t
It’s isn’t rage bait she is speaking her mind abt the topic what don’t you understand? And did you even watch the vid?
@@ERM-y1u its supposed to be sarcastic.
@@ERM-y1u Buddy they are playing a character. Did YOU understand and watch it?
@@mrmangbro6842 bro i didn’t mean in a MEAN way ( well I didn’t mean to type it in a mean way) and yes I do understand it and I did watch it.
Why is she eating a raw pie?
Performance art
Tbf the part she's eating isn't even raw
Because she's trying to highlight intersectional feminism
Stop questioning women!
Lol, if someone offers to pay and then tells me theyre put off by the fact that I let them pay, thats a red flag. I never mind footing the bill, but that kind of testing and disingenuity would put _me_ off.
That said, I agree with the take! Feel empowered to ask them to pay, ladies! It's a hell of a lot better than playing guessing games, and I reckon you'll probably weed out a lot of misogynists bc theyll start complaining about feminism.
Be honest, be confrontational. Ask the awkward questions, and own it!
True you'll definitely weed out some misogynists
If they offer to pay, I'll let them. Follow it up with "next date is on me then" and you either got a free meal or secured a second date. Easy.
>Feel empowered to ask them to pay, ladies
how can I get these videos out of my youtube feed
Yeah same, I often offer to pay 'cause I like doing it, a lot of my friends are broke and it allows me to be cheeky and ask them if they wanna cover the next time, but I'll let someone pay if they offer. The sentiment in the video is just kinda shallow and someone mired in this many levels of social signifiers is too complex for me to build any sort of stable relationship with. This is just a video about how Farha owned herself tbh
Yeah, I agree. I like to remind people regardless of gender that there’s a difference between Feminism, Misandry, and Misogyny.
all this and somehow the end was still the most disturbing thing
This is some of the most impressive bait of all time, kino
do people not know this is satire
reading these comments and… nope lol
What does satire mean I'm British I don't speak your language
@@Random-sk6hm its some mad ting brudda
i hope it's not ❤
I loved and lived every second of this
The deadpan 😂❤
This is like stand up from 2050
I’ve missed your story times on crack 😂❤
I am so confused.
I love it.
New watcher...You are the best!!! I haven't laughed so much in a long time! Thank you :)
I once took a girl on a date to a TGI fridays, but I only had enough money to pay for one person. so I silently watched her eat for 30 minutes before we both went home. yet even I can't help but cringe at this
This brings me a lot of clarity on dating in general
Amidst her droll delivery, I’m thinking “I’m allergic to strawberries.” Yeah, I get hives. 😂
When did the crust switch to premade LMFAOOOOOOOOOO
had to subscribe after you said i'd rather go to jail than pay 50/50
Hey would have thought you'd have hundreds of thousands of subs already because you're funny and hilarious and humorous af.
Not sure why one of your videos showed up in my recommended videos, but so glad it did. Watched several of your videos and they are all great. I love how your mind works and your train of thought. I was hesitant to write a comment because your intelligence, wit, and sarcasm far outweigh mine and I was worried you would detect how inferior I am 🙂 Keep up the great and funny work!
Getting some strong Brittany Venti Vibes. When I say that I mean I can't quite tell why I am watching this video that is obviously meant to troll, because with large amounts of sarcasm and lies is mixed with just enough truth to make you go huh.
Thank you for another video.
I appreciate your mind, beauty, and word choice.
I split the bill in my first and only date with a guy
In my defence I didn't know what I was doing neither before, during and after the date. It was a learning experience, it served for me to realize how crazy I was
You a making me laugh my ass off😂😂😂😂
I love your style vids, but tbh nah. I don't mind paying and I think tbh we as women should thrive towards that more. I do think it's more progressive, in the positive sense. I am from the netherlands, where the saying 'going dutch' came from, it's pretty much the norm here. So this sounds a bit foreign to me.
ye Im German and i dont get this video usually i get behind the humor but here she genuinely thinks the guy should pay? Is she owning progressive women here? Makes no sense to me considering her other videos. Some interpreted it as rage bait and as a guy it definitely worked on me if thats the case
Thank you for your honesty the future is arti wombs and single heads of households. Good luck with the future comedy tour.
"I always put my card down to be polite but I never once meant it. It is an empty gesture." - Hilarious
i think it is just nice when you are in love with someone to pay for their things sometimes
WE NEED FARHA FRIDAYS
I always split or alternate but I dated all genders. The one time I got annoyed was when a guy who I know earns WAY over $100K wanted to split it down to the last 10c we were paying cash and was fiddling with small change, round up cheapskate!
you are sooo good!
God. I finally tried to make pie crust at home. Through that process I realized how much it was just butter and flour - I had no idea?! So instead of trying to perfect my pie crust technique, I ended up thinking "Jesus - what have I been eating?!" And eating fewer crusted items. Is my life better now? I don't know. I'm just old and I'm going to die so I should probably follow your lead here.
fav shitposter
FARHA FRİDAYS 😢
i need to sub this is so funny
Omg you’re back! I’m so happy!
"As the 82 dollars left my phone, my soul left my body" - Farha
82$ on the first date?! Where I live people go usually for a coffee or a walk through the park, or something like that on a first date 😅
I mean. I can already misunderstand things. That's like, my default position. "Cool smart girl" tells me how to be dumb is just me plus a "cool smart girl" telling me how to be what repulses me
I had no problem till he asked about Netflix and that’s when it got iffy, but that could mean anything, right? Like maybe he genuinely wants to watch stranger things or something
Lol I doubt it
@pprmiaminhoaa well never know until it happens, but we don't want to find out if it does. Best to just stay safe unless it's someone you fully trust
Wanting to genuinely watch Stranger Things is insane, I'd rather take the risk with the unprotected sex.
Get on OF if you just want to say what you really think.
I once had a date that turned out to be a catfish, where she picked out an expensive restaurant, showed up late, and yeah, I didn't even reach for the check, or call her back. The steak was good though...
i like this dude - he's a chad
I love you as much as any gay guy can love a woman he has never met. Please never change. Lol
Wait... Are zoomers back to the norm of men paying for meals? All the millennial women I've gone on dates with have insisted on splitting the bill. I always offer to pay and they always refuse.
Yeah, between dating app culture and the economy going to shit, the younger generation of women went back to gendered payment rules. The men seem not to have gotten the memo
I think this is mostly satire
She is BACK 💜
God, I miss Farha Fridays
Farha its been 10 months since you last posted, but to me it feels like its been 8 months.
So all I gotta do is pay $82 to hit?
Ben & Jerry's "Oat of This Swirled" is a gift. Please give a try and think of this comment.
What a fun, wry piece. Love it!
The mind-games women play are terrifying.
But yea him letting you pay was wild. You two actually seem like a good fit.
Bro you need to learn what sarcasm is 😭
the perfect comeback
Finally i was looking for something to watch for bed time!!!
I love your everything!
i love your takes so much
How come Bo Burham gets a Netflix special and you don’t?
every word of that disjointed, insane diatribe got me so bricked up
Love this personality
as a guy, hey this is a little mean * cutely likes and subscribes* i still love this channel though
Oh my god i fucking love you you're my role model
Can you do another video.thanks.i will wait
MY QUEEN FARHA POSTED I LOBE YOU 💞💞
I have many horses and own homes I bought from Saudi royalty. Be my bride. I don't care if I mysteriously die from "food poisoning " after eating a pie, within a year or our marriage.
You did the right thing. It's always appreciative if the woman offers to pay even if I would never let them pay. No matter how bad the date was in the end.
Next video: yourw take on 50/50 please in detail please
You’re hilarious
i love ben and jerry’s too
🤣
How’d you not laugh at “then I’m telling him that he’s a gay loser.”
am I the only one who Realized how many Cooking Techniques she got Wrong ??
So when's the second date?
Awww it’s so cute
I had to look up 'hinge category'...And i didn't find it.
MUCH LOVE FROM NYC ❤️ 🚂
wait is the pie already baked?
Eeww, you're right I think the crust is still raw 😮
What does ranthrow mean?
Ran through. As in ran through by a bunch of other guys first.
@@CognizantDissident Ohhhh. Got it. Thanks.
I'm confused by your perspective on this one. Maybe it's my neurodivergence. Maybe it's my having been subjected to the patriarchy my whole life. Maybe it's your double standard?
I guess we'll never know.
I'm not even sure I haven't fallen victim to Poe's law.
"I thought you'd wanna pay, yk, bc you're a feminist" gave me the feeling of being possessed by a ghost
bro…did you even get any crust in those bites😞
SHE BACK!!!!!! AND BETTERR!!!!!!!
Have you ever considered trying to do stand up for a living? I am not against OF, even if I don't use it, but there are plenty of OF models, and you are actually good at this.
Brilliant
Did she get tanned or different lighting?
I don’t get the split it joke
LONG LIVE FARHA FRIDAYS
Have you ever considered being a lesbian
im having such a hard time figuring out what her real opinion is on the matter , personally id never pay for a meal for someone just to have sex cause it feels so fucking crass but like it just feels good to do things for people
She lives!
This is how pies work
why would anyone