Hey bud, I notice you often make reference to someone’s race and how it would be more difficult for them. You as a coach, I think it’s completely counter productive to mention that. No man should go out to the dating field feeling like their race is a hinderance, no man should approach a woman while feeling racially inferior. At the end of the day how well your interaction goes has a lot more to do with how attractive you are has a man than your race. Being a minority at time can even work to your advantage, where you can be seen as a novalty
Most of time I spent training and my clients are from the US. To ignore the fact that we face friction as a result of being a minority is to ignore reality, which a good coach should not do. That said, an obsession on race as the only factor, as you correctly noted is also not good. It's important to be aware of the unconscious social barriers, calibrate for it, and move onto other things you can improve.
@@nomercymanagement2316 But he's right. Race is a big factor for (not all but many) women. Some women simply prefer dating within their own race while some like the contrast and novel experience that comes with dating outside it. I consume a lot of content on this matter and even did a bootcamp with one of the coaches in Owen's camp. This guy HighIntegritySkills knows what he's talking about and seems far more masterful on the subject than some other dating coach youtubers I see advising people.
@@HighIntegritySkillsYou are have become my favourite dating coach youtuber. You're such an intellectual and well spoken. And I like that you are not white as you can help men who aren't (like myself) understand and adjust their strategy to picking up white women.
In person approach has always been my favorite way to meet women. It's so much more fun than any other way. Sure, you fall flat on your face sometimes, but sometimes you knock it out the park. Most times though, you just have conversations and connect with people. And sometimes you don't get her that first time, but then you bump into her again one day and she's a little warmer because you were cool last time. It only happens if you have good habits though.
@@jackbramwell3002 why do you think some of the most authentic/knowledgeable RUclipsrs that have the knowledge to help you seem to have lower subscriber counts?
@@Tonyg-fq6ocThe youtube algorithm prioritizes videos which will give instant dopamine hits. The more popular youtubers are the ones that can appeal to a wide audience with editing and video structures that engages the viewers for a short period of time, around 10-30 minutes max. The youtubers with lower subscriber counts tend to actually focus on the content of the videos as opposed to everything else that will generate clicks and viewer retention/engagement. I’m not saying smaller channels don’t also try to generate clicks but what I am saying is that it's not their main focus point.
Boys pay attention, this dude has all the facts in check, i'm playing this game naturally too like he does, he knows a thing or 2 about women, and also make sure to not believe everyone because a lot of youtubers/dating coaches are doing this for money they have hired prostitutes or actors, and some dating coaches can get a certificate of 500 dollars, actually taking your time to learn and connect with females ( learning especially since girls learn about boys since young age ) it will help you greatly, also embrace your masculinity, and be GENUINE.
19:48 What is particularly good about this, which you didn't quite point out, is that he's combining sitting down next to her with saying he's got to go shortly. So sitting there feels less invasive and makes her feel less apprehensive.
LOL 5:49 is Cassady Campbell and he is trolling hard, it's all satire. What's crazy though is how some of his personas actually do work for picking up sometimes, probably because he acts very confident and sure of himself.
Thank you for this amazing educational video. That's true, this skillset is a MUST for a guy. Analysing my behaviour when talking to girls I find attractive I think sometimes I come up as needy and don't have the skill yet to make the conversation flow, like there can be a lot of pauses. In general still struggle with a nice guy kinda behaviours and really scared of asking out girls on a date. It's much easier for me to establish a kind of friendly approach but again I know it's not the way how to do it right. So I really would like to learn this amazing skillset of approaching girls, especially girls I don't know on street who I find attractive. I got really scared and nervous and overwhelmed with emotions that I'm not acting on what I really wanna do and just act on my fear and nervousness, by not approaching. It sucks, really. But the way to grow and learn is only by practicing these skills in real life. I'd like to learn more from you, thank you for these videos, really informative and gives me a "blueprint" of how to approach women (hardest part is to actually follow through these recommendations and not to default to being to nervous, needy or trying to control the outcome)
Todd was boring? I thought his game was way more exciting than any of the other guys, except maybe from the first few examples that were way too over the top.
@@HighIntegritySkills I think he does that on purpose. Like he said, he uses a low energy interaction that is easier to maitain during the interaction. If I'm not mistaken he increases the energy a lit bit only during the approach.
Looks can compensate, but again guy in sunglasses on collage campus - his approach wasn't that great, and the prankster guy weren't looking that good - so there's a lot more to the game then just looks, even though they definitely account for a lot of initial attraction
*Compliments.
Hey bud, I notice you often make reference to someone’s race and how it would be more difficult for them. You as a coach, I think it’s completely counter productive to mention that. No man should go out to the dating field feeling like their race is a hinderance, no man should approach a woman while feeling racially inferior. At the end of the day how well your interaction goes has a lot more to do with how attractive you are has a man than your race. Being a minority at time can even work to your advantage, where you can be seen as a novalty
Most of time I spent training and my clients are from the US. To ignore the fact that we face friction as a result of being a minority is to ignore reality, which a good coach should not do. That said, an obsession on race as the only factor, as you correctly noted is also not good. It's important to be aware of the unconscious social barriers, calibrate for it, and move onto other things you can improve.
NOT THEIR APPEARANCE
@@nomercymanagement2316 But he's right. Race is a big factor for (not all but many) women. Some women simply prefer dating within their own race while some like the contrast and novel experience that comes with dating outside it.
I consume a lot of content on this matter and even did a bootcamp with one of the coaches in Owen's camp. This guy HighIntegritySkills knows what he's talking about and seems far more masterful on the subject than some other dating coach youtubers I see advising people.
@@HighIntegritySkillsYou are have become my favourite dating coach youtuber. You're such an intellectual and well spoken. And I like that you are not white as you can help men who aren't (like myself) understand and adjust their strategy to picking up white women.
In person approach has always been my favorite way to meet women. It's so much more fun than any other way. Sure, you fall flat on your face sometimes, but sometimes you knock it out the park. Most times though, you just have conversations and connect with people. And sometimes you don't get her that first time, but then you bump into her again one day and she's a little warmer because you were cool last time. It only happens if you have good habits though.
Your channel deserves more views and attention, great in depth analyzations.
I appreciate that!
I forget to smile sometimes, which definitely doesn't do me any favors. Smiling the right way is very important. I'm working on it.
Bro Alex was so good and that prankster was so funny, he really got me there 😂
Really surprised you have under 10k. Watched a few videos and your knowledge and thoughts are very in depth. Keep it up :)
@@jackbramwell3002 why do you think some of the most authentic/knowledgeable RUclipsrs that have the knowledge to help you seem to have lower subscriber counts?
@@Tonyg-fq6ocThe youtube algorithm prioritizes videos which will give instant dopamine hits. The more popular youtubers are the ones that can appeal to a wide audience with editing and video structures that engages the viewers for a short period of time, around 10-30 minutes max. The youtubers with lower subscriber counts tend to actually focus on the content of the videos as opposed to everything else that will generate clicks and viewer retention/engagement. I’m not saying smaller channels don’t also try to generate clicks but what I am saying is that it's not their main focus point.
Non PC stuff - and still rings true . I get it. And it is on general- true / authentic
Boys pay attention, this dude has all the facts in check, i'm playing this game naturally too like he does, he knows a thing or 2 about women, and also make sure to not believe everyone because a lot of youtubers/dating coaches are doing this for money they have hired prostitutes or actors, and some dating coaches can get a certificate of 500 dollars, actually taking your time to learn and connect with females ( learning especially since girls learn about boys since young age ) it will help you greatly, also embrace your masculinity, and be GENUINE.
Really like your videos. You seem like a really wholesome guy too. Thank you, man.
That Opto one is great. 😄 Note that she actually agreed to it, after her class.
19:48
What is particularly good about this, which you didn't quite point out, is that he's combining sitting down next to her with saying he's got to go shortly.
So sitting there feels less invasive and makes her feel less apprehensive.
Good observation!
LOL 5:49 is Cassady Campbell and he is trolling hard, it's all satire. What's crazy though is how some of his personas actually do work for picking up sometimes, probably because he acts very confident and sure of himself.
Dude you are a pro.. Great breakdown
cool haircut Jiovanny
wow this guy rly knows this stuff
Thank you for this amazing educational video. That's true, this skillset is a MUST for a guy. Analysing my behaviour when talking to girls I find attractive I think sometimes I come up as needy and don't have the skill yet to make the conversation flow, like there can be a lot of pauses. In general still struggle with a nice guy kinda behaviours and really scared of asking out girls on a date. It's much easier for me to establish a kind of friendly approach but again I know it's not the way how to do it right. So I really would like to learn this amazing skillset of approaching girls, especially girls I don't know on street who I find attractive. I got really scared and nervous and overwhelmed with emotions that I'm not acting on what I really wanna do and just act on my fear and nervousness, by not approaching. It sucks, really. But the way to grow and learn is only by practicing these skills in real life. I'd like to learn more from you, thank you for these videos, really informative and gives me a "blueprint" of how to approach women (hardest part is to actually follow through these recommendations and not to default to being to nervous, needy or trying to control the outcome)
I vibe most with Todd and Juan’s style
36K cold approaches???
Holy shit!
That's a century worth of experience if you do one cold approach per day.
If it’s obligatory to make a couples TikTok channel in the West, book me the red eye to Manila 🤣
First dude looks like Nikki Sixx from motley Crue lol
I had no idea some guys were this catastrophically clueless
43:29 synopsis
So many cringe interactions 😬
Never say 'quick question'. That's what those annoying salesmen outside shopping centres do, and it's real repellent.
Todd was boring? I thought his game was way more exciting than any of the other guys, except maybe from the first few examples that were way too over the top.
In an old video Todd said himself that's his game can be boring but his technicals are good so it covers for it.
@@HighIntegritySkills I think he does that on purpose. Like he said, he uses a low energy interaction that is easier to maitain during the interaction. If I'm not mistaken he increases the energy a lit bit only during the approach.
Coaches pay the women to respond well, so guys will pay.
The second Cam Newton outfit looking dude… Max Cringe
Most of the video are pranks
These first 6 minutes have been painful. I can't imagine being that socially unaware lmao
Yikes.
This really makes me see women's side of things. 😬
Good looking = Good approach
Ugly = Bad approach
Saved u 40 mins of ur life
100% true
Looks can compensate, but again guy in sunglasses on collage campus - his approach wasn't that great, and the prankster guy weren't looking that good - so there's a lot more to the game then just looks, even though they definitely account for a lot of initial attraction
another one of these brain dead comments 😂
Basically, and it's important to realise this, 'game' is for guys who are 6 - 7's.
Below that, game doesn't work.
Above that, you don't need it.