The Truth About Age Gap Love: Dating a Younger Man
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Age is just a number. It is about whether you are compatible .
I have dated men 10 years younger and 20 years older. I have been married to the same man for 34 years. I seem to really like men who are 43. The older men like the wonder of opening my eyes to new things. The younger men seem to like being taught new things. I fell in love after 6 weeks to a man that wants to care for me as I care for him. He loves homemade food especially bread. Born to be skinny. I look at a piece of bread and gain 5 lbs.
True love is so hard to come by. . . I don’t think it’s any of my business what the age difference is between two people.
My aunt was 10 years older than my uncle, they were married more than 40 years when unfortunately my uncle died from a heart attack, they had 2 children and were a beutiful family
Fredrique, I was happily married for many years. Ten years after my hubby passed. I met someone, he is 34, I'm 60, and wow. It has been amazing. He is very loving and affectionate. I never thought of seeing someone younger. Ladies' life is too short, so have fun. Love your videos. Sending hugs.
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for your very honest video. I was married to a much older man, my life was hell! Constant criticism, etc. Like you, out with friend, waiting for 3rd friend who never showed up but we met two charming, smart attys while waiting. They were wearing suits, looked older, like your guy, lied abt their age! We started dating, my relationship lasted more than 10 years, people would ask how long we had been married! We never married, he wanted children which was not
possible for me. Younger men have been raised by independent women like us! They have a lot more respect for women than older men. We stayed friends for many years after until he married. For women who take care of themselves, they seek you out bcs no drama, no demands, great physical attraction, no rush to commit, no societal pressures, first a friendship based on mutual interests. Friends, family can be a problem at first. I was 14 years older, if I called him after all these years apart, he would come right back. Women should remember that our life experience is something we earned that money or youth cannot buy. ❤️
Frederique! I was never attracted to younger men, so to speak... I met my husband at work. He did not hit on me. After a few months I attempted to set him up with my girlfriend. He was 14 years younger than me. My mind just didn't go there. He was 29 living on a sailboat with his college roommate, I was twice divorced at 42. One thing led to another. He proposed after 8 months. That was 21 years ago. It really depends on the person. A lot of people I work with in his age group just don't know much about much. My husband is the exact opposite. I never feel like a dinosaur. I am so very fortunate and I never forget how resistant I was to the age difference in the beginning. I'm so happy I took a chance. I always tell you this but you look absolutely breathtakingly beautiful 💚
Aw....same here. My man is 14 years younger than me as well and he is a dream come true and a blessing. My age means nothing to him. I am his 'princess' and that is all he sees.
my other 1/2 is 12 years younger than I am & we have been together 24 years, best man I ever met! Happy Easter gorgeous xx
Love it so happy for you thanks for sharing x
@@veronicaburgess7250 That is wonderful.
24 years is a testament to a great love. 😊
I never looked for a younger man, and yet, here I am my other half is 10 years younger to me, I am 43 now. We met at the office 7 years ago, when I was already divorced. When I found out his age, I wanted to RUN!!! Thank God I didn't. I love him to bits!
MY FIANCE HAS ALWAYS BEEN OLDER IN THE HEAD THAN ME, AND HE IS ABOUT 14 YEARS YOUNGER!!!!
HE KNEW ON SIGHT THAT I WAS"THE ONE", AND THAT WAS OVER 25 YEARS AGO!!!!
DREAMS CAN COME TRUE,!!!!
BEST WISHES, AND HAPPY EASTER TO YOU AND OSCAR!!!!
This is me too. We avoided the relationship due to the social taboo. Then there came a day when we both decided we couldn’t live without each other. We are celebrating 18 years together this coming October. More in love than ever. ❤
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WoW…great topic… been there done that and after several divorces I’m 67 (but feel like I’m 47) I’m just looking for someone to enjoy life with without drama… I dated a younger man once in my late 30’s (30 years ago) and yes the intimacy was great but I think we (women) have been brainwashed to think that “it’s not socially acceptable”… and I felt very uncomfortable out in public with this younger man… but times are changing and I think I’m more optimistic about the future which might include dating someone younger than me ❤ I appreciate you and all that you bring to this community.😊 Thank you
Frédérique, my husband is 15 years younger, I’m 55 he is 40, we are together 14 years. We are married.
I have 2 kids, adults we don’t have kids together. He never wanted. Of course that’s in my head that one day he will , but all good s9 far. It was always some prejudice. It’s long story to talk,, but yes women can have and live with younger men.
Almost everyone I know their grandmother outlived their grandfather by 10 years, and those last 10 years were very lonely and hard for the grandmother. I think a 10 year age gap where the woman is 10 years older is nicer, because both partners are more likely to die around the same age.
I would date someone no more than 4 years younger, but not more. That's my humble opinion for me. To each his own.
Great perspective… I’m over 60 and find that l like the energy of younger people. Most of my girlfriends are 10-20 years younger and I’m not attracted to men my age anymore😳🤔
I am 41 and currently in a relationship with a 23 year old who I met through work (we are both postgraduate researchers in health sciences). We have very similar interests, he is intelligent and mature for his age, very responsible and we share a love of music, food and activism. We have both never felt the age difference when we are together and find other people project a lot of their own ideas about what they think of our age gap onto us. We love being around each other and have a very strong emotional and physical attraction. What more is there ?
That's what I'm talking about. Same thing with my wife 18-year difference between me and her. She calls me a grown man stuck in a kid body. Most men my wife's age act like boys they act 22. She says I act 50
Honestly the reason I`ve dated younger men from my thirties and onward mainly after having dated a couple of older men is that in general they are more fun and have more similar interests - love going out, travel, culture and above all do not want a mother or a maid. intelligent, intellectually curious and a neerdy so we have something to talk about. I want someone who not only talks about equality but lives it and is able to communicate in a relationship this means often younger than me but not too young as also too young and there is that drama factor because they don´t know themselves. My husband is younger than me 7 years which I hope also means that he will live longer as in general women live longer than men.
My husband is ten years younger than me. He was 22 and me 32 when we met. Been together 43 years, and now grandparents! If it works, it works.
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Some guy’s innocently think we’re younger! Some older women just look younger. Age doesn’t really matter so long as your energy levels match and you’re both heading in a similar life direction over the next 5 years. I find some people my age who want to become friends with me are too old. They are too eager to age too quickly!
Bonjour Frédérique, comme on dit "l'Amour n'a pas d'âge". Merci pour ce sujet
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I prefer young men, who appreciate me for being me. Older men seem to think I'm going to take of them. (Not happening!).
@@contribution741The proverbial “nurse with a purse”.
_“I’m going to take of them”_
What!?
True love is definitely hard to come by thank you for an honest video ❤ I’m 47 and my husband is 32 when we met it was love at first sight that I wouldn’t trade it for anything!! We have been married now for a year and seeing one another for 3 years ❤you look amazing Frédérique ❤
Thanks for sharing!!
Good for you for "not being a Sugar Mama", I completely agree.
When I was 25 I dated an 18 year old. When I was 30 I dated a 46 year old. Both relationships were beautiful while they lasted. But being in different stages in life can make it challenging.
I'm currently 34 and dating a 39 year old. Being closer in age I think helps, but the connection to the other person should matter more than if they are the same age as you are.
Your honesty is refreshing! Thank you for sharing!
You are so welcome!
39 here and I get hit on by guys as young as 23. Went on a date a couple of times with one and when I told him how long I had owned my house I could see the confusion and the numbers scrambling his brain lol. He thought I was 27 or 28. It might be because I look younger but I hardly get approached by guys my age or older. The young ones are much more brave.
Good topic, its very relevant to our times
I have always dated younger men. The youngest was 13 years younger than me. I tried dating a couple older me but it was definitely not as much fun. I wouldn’t say no to dating any man because of his age but I think I am also “young” for my age so that is why younger men seemed to be attracted to me.
Interesting topic, Frederique! You look fabulous BTW!! Happy Easter!!
Thank you! You too!
I personally date most guys that are younger than me. I am open to all men, but younger men have a lot of energy and still have curiousity about life. Something that I haven't lost yet either. A few years ago, I dated a med student from Spain, and he was not aware of the age gap. At least how big it was, he was 28 and I was 40. I think he thought I was a few years. He saw my driver's license, and he got scared LOL. Well, we had a good time. I typically don't date men in my 20s any more. Its just too young. I just enjoy men from 34-40 and they are career focused like me, and enjoy life. If I met a mature man, that I feel loves life and takes care of his heath, I would date an older man too. But honestly, they talk about women getting bitter, a lot of older men are so bitter and angry. I don't want to spend a minute of my life with someone who hasn't done the work to grow and learn from life. No gratiitute and positivity is a major turnoff!
A lot of single older men don’t take good care of themselves, look like Santa Claus, and yet still expect to attract a younger Victoria’s Secret model! I wish more older men took better care of themselves.
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Thanks for your videos, I really enjoy them!!
After my divorce I dated younger men and that became my preference for years. However as time goes on they would express the desire to have children of which was not capable nor in my life plan. So the child bearing thing became a thing and I stated trying to date men closer to my age but the majority of them wanted women at least 5 years younger. Even though I have my act together, my own home, good job, in shape, and not bad looking the men my age at the time of divorce (over 40) only focused on my age.
No I'm over 50 and the pickings are slim and men my age or older STILL want a women 5+ years younger.
My opinion and experience is based on my dealings on dating apps. Now I'm in this weird no mans land of dating so to say,
I think there is so much going on in the dating world for both older women and younger men these days that didn’t exist 20 years ago - (I’m a lesbian so I have no skin in this game, it’s just my observations.) Firstly there is such a toxic culture of young women being taught to value money and gifts over everything else via TV shows etc. A man under 30/35 in this economy can’t possibly be expected to have amassed even a fraction of the wealth some girls expect unless they’re born into it, and if they are born into it they’re more likely to marry someone of their own kind and have the more working to middle class insta model types as a mistress. Meanwhile, when my stunningly beautiful mother was still alive and still interested in dating she became jaded and gave up for good before she was 60 sadly, but said she was happier single than she’d ever been! I looked with her at the kind of men of her own age group she had available to her on dating websites, and I always said I felt only a younger man would be right for her as she was just far younger in spirit than the men of her own age. All the men over 50/60, at least that I saw, regardless of what they themselves brought to the table, wanted women no older than 30. Alternatively, in some cases it was clear they really did just want a nursemaid to look after them rather than a partner, and were far too set in their ways and lacking in open mindedness and adventure to be right for someone like my mum. Here in Europe I’d say there’s a lot less of a moral outrage about age gap relationships than there appears to be in the US (providing both parties are well old enough to understand exactly what they’re consenting to and know what they want of course.) Cultural changes have pushed younger men and older women together and as long as both parties are happy and old enough to know what they’re doing, I think it’s surprising that there’s still such a moral double standard about it, but there is. I’m making a few big generalisations here of course, but this is just the cultural landscape I see around me. Because LGBTQ people and indeed many straight European people tend to go 50/50 on dates without a second thought, I actually feel desperately sorry for men in their 20s who are just getting started on their career path who have to get credit cards to afford the type of first dates some women expect and feel entitled to, thanks to unrealistic dating shows based in Beverly Hills or wherever. I can see why some younger men would appreciate the financial independence and realism an older woman might bring to the table and I can’t see why it’s such a big deal to some people.
I loved this topic. I am currently attracted to a younger man and I have been debating whether I would date him. He is very attentive to me when I see him but I think he is cautious and not sure if he is ready to date yet. It does take a lot of courage but maybe it's better to take it slowly. thanks for sharing your story. I do not like the term cougar either.
I don't like the term cougar myself, it's like a woman being hunting for younger men for sex, that's not what it's about. Lots of men do prefer women being older than themselves cause of the stability, less drama etc and many women would prefere a younger man cause he's less prejudiced than older men, more open minded maybe and so on. A win win situation!
To find anyone that you can connect with at any time, age or age difference is a wonderful happening. 🎉🎉🎉 older or younger friends. Older or younger relationships. It's not every day one finds a great connection. ❤🎉❤
So true!
I saw a speed-dating event that advertised some theme nights and one of them was "Cougars & Cubs." It's so offensive to label a woman as a "cougar." I emailed the company to ask them if they had a themed night for the other way around (younger women & older men), and I suggested, "Old Goats & Lambs," haha Did not get a response but I can honestly say that when I attend speed dating events, many of the attendees are 10-15 year older than the maximum suggested age.
"The older and wiser woman for them!"
Bonjour Frédérique, no younger men for me… too much mentality difference. I always prefer a little older men. At my 49 I am not looking for men more than 5 years older but surely not younger.
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I would love that, but RUclips demonetised the video so I’m a bit careful now 😳
When I was 31 I dated a 21 years old. He was in the military so it didn't work long term because we both moved and we weren't interested in having a long distance relationship. It was amazing while it lasted! ❤ I'm 47 now and newly divorced. A 32 year old co-worker really wanted to take me out. I just can't. I have 2 kids now. I don't want to "just have fun". I have other responsibilities now. But it's super flattering! 😊
Love this video, I had my experiences as well, in the end I married. A wonderful gentleman 8 years older.
Wonderful!
Like you, I can't stand the cougar description, since in ALL cases I know, it's always been the man who is the aggressor. I've had several relationships with younger men, and always went into them assuming they were short-term, which was more my thinking than theirs! But several friends have gone on to marry their younger men. Sometimes, the man has an "old soul", often the women are young at heart, whatever works. Honestly, I look at most men my age and think wow, "no way", not so much looks (think Pierce Brosnan ❤) but in their attitude and outlook. In the end 'love is love' one of the last of life's mysteries 😅❤
I always love the different topics you mention each time. With this particular topic I think it all depends on the individual as everyone is different. Personally myself I wouldn’t be interested in a man a lot younger than myself but that’s me. 🙂
Thanks for sharing!!
My husband and I are 12yrs apart and get along fantastic.
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I always dated younger men! Till now! I am 56 now!
First time he was 13 years younger! Second time he was 24 years younger. Now my husband is 5 years older! I feel like I am not alive!!
Many people condemn such relationships. But I will tell you something!! Being with younger man makes you alive and younger!!
And can cause a lot of headache too!
Good for you x
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A lot depends on the size of the age gap and financial difference. When there is a massive discrepancy between the two: millionaire versus average or below average salary then it’s suspicious no matter the gender of the couple. Also the maturity of the two folks involved. I have a friend (49) dating someone 7 years younger than her, yet he’s so immature he might as well be 20+ years younger and yet another couple I know have a 10 year age gap and he’s definitely on her level: intellectually, emotionally and in every way a great team and he’s not looking for a mother figure, so always depends on the people involved. However, I do find being in different life stages can be a problem.
My husband is 5 years younger. And I don't feel any difference between us because of the age. I'm living my best life with him.
I prefer younger men, they want to be active and stay in shape and do fun things. Dated a guy 7 years older than me, he was 50 yet always taking a nap! And that was not code for anything. 🙄
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I don't know about all those factors. In my view there are two main reason for this attraction: financial stability (older single women are usually mentally stronger, financially established in life and are not looking for a man to provide that sense of security for them) and "mommy issues" (so many men subconsciously need a mother rather than a partner).
I was never attracted to younger men. Once, by incident, a much younger and very attractive man approached me and I decided to give it a try (he was 36, I was 49). It was awful! At first he was interested and enchanted but only for short time, then he started very quickly to treat me like a crap. He said he is planning to have family and children and with me that obviously is not going to happen so it gave him the excuse to treat me like a piece of shit on his shoe. I escaped all that pretty fast, I am at age when I don't tolerate any of that no matter how attractive man is. If you can't respect me and treat me like a human, and have at least common decency towards me, then "good bye!". Don't have time for that. However, after that I never want to date younger man ever again.
Thank you for sharing your story.❤
You are so welcome
Hello, Frédérique, thank you for presenting your research on why younger men are attracted to older women and your own personal experience! I would like to be in a relationship with a younger man because men my age (early 70’s) are much “older” in their energy, their interests, they’ve given up, had lifelong bad health habits and it’s caught up with them. I on the other hand have been active all my life, I dance, love music, love the outdoors, love speaking other languages, I’m very active and fit, and I want to travel and explore other cultures. Although younger men sometimes flirt with me, I don’t have the guts or confidence to flirt back because I’m 20 to 30 years older. The culture in the US is very focused on youth. I quit coloring my hair and it’s a lovely “salt and chocolate” color. Right or wrong, I don’t love the idea of coloring it to attract a younger man. Love your content!😘
Do you have any plan for travelling?
I am GenX, about the same age as Frederique. Older men (Boomers) were so sexist and sleazy, I could never date them. I think growing up in the sexual revolution really warped them, so I often dated younger, because the younger guys had a much more respectful attitude towards women.
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Boomers is a massive time span
Since my divorce in the 80’s I’ve almost only dated much younger men. I’ve always looked a lot younger than I was too. Older men tend to be much more controlling (reason for my divorce) and that is a deal breaker for me. I’m now 75, never remarried, and not particularly interested in finding any man. At this age I think they are only looking for a nurse or a purse. I have definite trust issues. 😂
Hi, I am 60 years old, married for the second time.
My second husband is 15, 5 years younger than me.
We are together as couple almost 18 years, 14 years in marriage.
He never wanted to have his own children, he is and always was a perfect older friend for my four children.
Now we have 3 grandchildren already and we love them together.
We started as best friends and this " "friendship" takes 23 years already. ❤️
Sometimes it just happens. I'm in relationship with a man who is 10 years younger but I won't let it become serious. I was looking for older guys but they don't notice me, didn't notice me when I was much younger either.
I love this we have to talk about it more and more great job sweetheart ❤it has been okay for men you know what I mean so Bravo bravo bravo 🎉🍾
Depends. Cant help thinking about Demi Moore with Ashton Kushner. If the man will eventually want children, this is a problem. Also not all younger men are mature enough for an older womam. If it works for both, and there is honesty about expectations, why not.
Thank you so much for sharing your memorable moments with us Frederique! This video was fun and insightful at the same time! And yes! Bravo for creating your boundary while it came to finance. I totally agree with that one!
Love from India!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Frederique you look great -- glasses !
Great topic. I hate geberalizations. My first husband was 4 years younger. He made me feel so old. My currebt bf is 6 years older. So etikes i think he is too tired. I think age differences can work but the couple must love abd resoect each other and not care dbout societal pressure. And, again, any geberalizations are dangerous, although they are good to keep in the back of the mind.
I love younger guys. I’ve had a great time with them. Why is an older woman given a derogatory name but an older guy is a he man? Just live and enjoy
This was very enjoyable. I am in my mid fifties and have recently received messages in my online dating account from men in their late twenties and thirties. I think a man in his 20s is out for me but considering responding to a man in his 30s. I just don't know tho. 20 year age gap? Might have to try a date at least.
I met my husband when I decided to go on vacation alone because I was done with men. I was 50. He hit on me. He was 32. We have been together almost 20 years.
LOVE THAT TOP ON YOU!!!!❤
I agree! Frederique, you look fabulous! 🤩
Is your top from Amazon, by chance?
Thanks it’s from witchery an Australian brand
Your glasses!! Love them! Where did you get them?
Oscar wylee
Thank you, Frederique, for sharing this spicy little story from your life. As a 43-year old divorced mother of a wild teenager I don't think I want to go back to my youth with an underage lover. Personally, I'm not sure that such adventure could pay off in the long run. I hope that my son will continue to connect to peers his age, too. Who knows, I might be narrow-minded.
Yes, narrow-minded. Try understanding that a great connection no matter age is very difficult to find.
I have to tell a funny story: a friend and I had a appointment with one of her businesspartners. He was in his late 60. My friend was 54, I was 45. The Man told us normally he only goes out with women under 40, but the two of us are still beautiful, so it is okay, that we are this age. He expected that we are very thankful that he pays us attention.
My friend and I looked at each other and started laughing and couldn’t stop anymore. The poor man didn’t understand.
We „old“ ladies had at this time very sexy young lovers…. (You know the time after getting divorced…).
You raise a lot of good points, and I mostly agree, yet as a mother of a 24 year old son, I would be VERY upset if he was dating a woman old enough to be his mother. I would wonder if I failed as a parent in some way, thinking he has " Mommy Issues", and it would be a real struggle for me to have a positive relationship with her. My gag reflex is triggered just thinking about it. Just being honest.
❤ you, Frederique
I love your white shirt. Where did you buy it?
It’s an old one
I think it is ok unless there is a generational difference, because more than 15 years, it is a whole new generation. Age difference between 5 to 10 years is ok and I talk by experience. I married a man that was around 20 years older and I had to skip a lot of my age normal activities. parks, gatherings, travel etc. I have to skip a lot of things, that now I miss. I do not advise any person to marry a person older or younger than 10 years difference. Maybe a few marriages can survive, but one of them have to give up too much, to make the other happy. Unless the OLDER ONE HAVE A LOT OF STAMINA, DO NOT DO IT
A girl shouldn't have to defend her decision, but even the other way with an older man, people are so judgmental. Ask me how I know.... I think that whatever works, works. I'm a live and let live kind of person. I must admit if I were involved with a younger man, I don't know that I would take it very seriously for myself. There are studies showing that most "gold diggers" are male, not female as is assumed. That would stick out in my mind. Also, when a woman is involved with an older man there are others thinking that they will fill the slot at some point down the line. It can get rather ugly.
I dated a man 10 years younger lasted nearly 3 years
The whole relationship was exciting, so much energy, so sexy (mechanic 😂)
As of the age gap I couldn’t see it as something serious , he could I couldn’t
Different stages of life I had a whole lot more at risk financially
Lovely memory though and I’d certainly do it again as older men seem dull #uk
Happy you still Stick to your click click click.😂
You are terrific.
My ex- husband was only one ! year younger than me. Shortly after we got married, he started to call me " old " . He refused to take me to his friends saying you are too old for them. Finally he left me and remarried to 15 yrs younger girl. Oh well ...Conclussion - there is no rule .
Honestly me I prefer older women, much older women. My wife is 48 I'll be 31 at the end of the year We have two kids older women are much more understandable not to mention The intensity level with older women It's easy to navigate and you keep things interesting by having the same flow of chemistry
thank you for sharing x
My husband was 15 years younger than me. I'd never again date a younger man. It was constant pressure to look younger, regarded as "old" by his friends and I simply couldn't be myself. If one is an attractive woman, I think one can extend "looking young" into your very early 50 s, then unless you are JLo, making looks a full time occupation with money to match, ageing really does set in. If your younger man is an attractive younger man, in most cases, the pressure isn't worth it one bit. Peace is a far better goal.
I couldn't think of anything worse. Usually, the older person will have money or be famous. Not for me. There is no harm in looking but to get involved no.
Could you speak on good bra. I’m 40c and have trouble finding bras to fit. Comfort around the house means removing bra immediately.
I just had a breast reduction, it is life altering.
Yes great subject I have been wearing sports bras for way too long and am trying to get back into bras that give me a figure (I feel like my breasts are starting to morph into my belly) 🤦♀️
Noted
Agree with you 💯
Bravo!
I don't think you mentioned money and property. I became very popular the moment I bought my house, even had a quick marriage offer from a younger man with a daughter (no, thanks!) Older women will be more settled financially, probably own their home outright, and may come across as a very easy target to manipulate, take advantage of, rob, especially if they're needy or lonely. I don't care about relationships or sex, I'm 58 and happy that all that is behind me, I'd love good friends of the opposite sex, but that's all. And I'm not a nurse with a purse either so I am not interested in men of any age who don't look after their health, body and diet.
My husband i 7 years old younger than me❤
Cher has money..anybody will date her! 5yrs. either way is my cutoff...haven't had a "date" in over 10yrs. It's a joke after a while . Hate the drama.
Been divorced & single for 40yrs. was married for 11yrs.
Some men just want someone to take care of them instead of vice versa so they find an older woman because they know the power dynamics are off.
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As consenting adults, people can what they want. However, I don’t think being with someone more than 10 years older is that advantageous biologically, energetically, psychologically or spiritually unless they are marrying for money. Research does indicate that many women do marry older men for money, but have a boyfriend on the side. There are those who have a type of fetish toward old and wrinkled, but that is a tiny percentage of the adult population. Ultimately to each their own, but no messing with children!
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Wow congratulation to the topic u chose . It has different aspect.
For temporary it can work. For long term not.
It can work while they re attracted to each other.
As Characters they can match at any ages. The the look of the women is very important to the guys! Its overvaluated.
If one is about 20 another about 30 both are looks great there are attraction so it can work. If they are about 30 and 40 its similar.
Yes of corse they tell nice words to take into bed the lady cause its easy sex with no complication. But then what they say and what they do are not in paralell. They say she looks amasing but they dont want to marry that woman!
These guys search their lifepartner so much who will give birth to their kids and they can create a family together. They re not silly. Even they are fooling young women too if they want to take them bed. To say nice things thats the easiest way to get a woman no need big effort to put it.
The most important is to know its just fun. But i dont beleive that people can separate soul from body.
Many younger guys just use elder women to polish his ego. They got a lot of negative feedback from younger rude girls and the elder ladies preise them if they are well done something so they use the elder women just to boost their ego.
Maybe u were lucky that younger guy but normally they re not a big king in the bed. They have porn illness. Or videogame addiction or in many situation they dont know what is the correct bahevior, attitude to the life. They have " green ears" Elder man can be better in the bed and have many skills about the life. They had many experience and they learn that pretty body is not everything.
But its biology, everybody are attracted to younger nicer people. I was thinking why the nature created aging and i got that answer that attraction must stop between people they go ugly by aging to not have kids too late to not be able to grew them up. If a 70 years old people had the same look like 20 and they have baby and they would die at 80 who would grow up that child?
Anyway Frederiqe, do u know that u" pulled out the match" at the elder men if they watch ur video hearing that a younger guys have better potential in bed?! XD Never mind, they think the same inverse.
So we would be happy if we hear more video about different woman/ man situations.
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It's creepy . More than twenty years, either way, is yucky.
I will date a younger man only when I can't date an older man who is still young :)
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it turns out they
are still kids ,- been there done that ,-- took me 32 years to get out of his narcissist cage . be careful Ladies..
I don't like old men
I think that big of an age gap is DISGUSTING🤮🤮
Don’t splash us, please …
11 years older than my husband 22 years and still great
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