EPISODE 22 | HOLIDAY BLUES , KEKE PALMER, DIDDY & CASSIE IN THE NEWS
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- In episode 22 of "Behind the Likes," hosts Winter and Chy delve into the common challenges of dealing with family drama during the holidays. They offer practical tips and personal anecdotes to help listeners navigate tense family dynamics and maintain their peace of mind during festive gatherings. In addition to sharing insights on family dynamics, the hosts discuss the recent Diddy and Cassie scandal, offering their perspectives on the controversy and delving into the dynamics of high-profile relationships. The episode provides a blend of insightful advice and engaging commentary on relevant pop culture topics.
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I love Chy and how she carries herself during these conversations. She’s very rational and has a good way of giving her input without making it about herself. She seems very down to earth and relatable.
Thank you Chy for keeping it real with the Diddy situation and free 🇵🇸
Can we just appreciate the talent of these two ladies to hold a conversation without awkward pauses and boring subjects… 👏🏼👏🏼. They might not have a degree in journalism but we could never tell that! They are very good at this!… ❤
Wowww I never seen Winter so quiet as she was about the Diddy topic, I wish she would’ve shared more tbh, more people need to come out about the horrible things this man has done! But winter seemed really scared about the subject interesting….
They are a scary family read her books
I agree but I can also understand she is protecting herself and probably her friendship with Justin since she does speak highly of him.
Idk she did say his dad (Diddy) did make her get an abortion when she almost had a kid with Justin but hey maybe she just felt she had nothing to say about that topic.
@@GS-up3hcwhat else did she say besides the abortion
seemed enabling towards the end
How do you relate to someone without somewhat bringing it back to yourself? I’m so in love with this podcast. Keep it up!
i like that chy brought up seasonal depression and how the holidays affect others. i never cared for the holidays because i lost my mom back in ‘04 and my dad recently in april. i just don’t see the point in celebrating anything anymore.
thank you for bringing this up.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that, I can’t imagine losing both parents. You’re so strong, cliche to say but it’s true!! I hope you take time to just be gentle with yourself and do some feel good things for yourself 🙏🏽🫶🏼 you’re not alone girlie 🦋
@@Maetaaaaaa thank you so much🥺🤍 i appreciate that a ton
I'm sorry for your loss....ever since my dad passed, holidays haven't felt the same....especially since his birthday was Christmas...
@@stacie6134 i’m so sorry for your loss too. it’s not easy dealing with this especially during the holidays. hold your head high, we got this!🤍 i’m sending you love and strength through these times🤍
I’m sorry for your loss mama💗 I’m always severely alone during the holidays so I felt this.
Damn Winter looked so uncomfortable the moment the Diddy situation was brought up. Like body language tense, distracting herself w the vape.. I’m sad for her I knew she wasn’t gonna say much about this 😞
However I LOVE how Chy kept her accountable and brought it up regardless
it’s so weird when women care more about themselves and their reputation than other women…like for why. speak your truth
@@abbyz13I think it’s the fear of being attacked for something sensitive to them
@@abbyz13that’s exactly what I thought of her because she’s real quiet about her business being out there but she was just outting ice spice 😂 and got mad when ice told her to get off dick
It’s very triggering for her and I understand that man is something else. He is scary to deal with
Winter played her cards very very smart not speaking on the diddy situation.
winter, i love your transparency today. you had a lot of positive things to say during this episode. you were super optimistic and cheerful. i love this for you!
Yasss Winter!! Congrats on the new boo. I really hope this leads to marriage and all the desires you hold.
sending ❤ to Chy I can see she looks sad, hopefully she feels better and soon she will see the light.
I think Wintrr was definitely walking on eggshells when speaking on Diddy which was disappointing bc she clearly has more to say and does not want to say it
Agreed. Majority of her fans and listeners know abt her relationship with diddy’s son. As she has wrote abt it in her book. But when the topic got brought up the majority of her statement was shifted towards Justin when he isn’t the topic… it was quite honestly painful to hear. I feel like they should’ve just not have brought it up at all if that was going to be 1/2 the view point given that it is two host.
And the part abt bringing up his kids… like wtf do his kids have to do with the trauma that Cassie went through??
Y’all giving sisters different dads with the hair and matching fits loll
This is probably the best podcast I’ve ever seen/heard fr. You know why? Cause it’s so natural and you can tell they are interested in what they’re talking about. It’s not by force ooo!
Clearly we can read the room, winter does think those things are true. Everybody does. Diddy is a evil man with power/money, that’s it that’s all. glad Cassie came out and spoke her truth, god bless her.
She lost me at she doesn’t think he’s a person and people make mistakes…
Hey y'all! I was hoping Winter would speak on the Diddy situation. I was wondering if you ever met him and if you ever saw some shady stuff. Girl, I'm nosey.
If you read winters first book, she talks about a man that sounds just like diddy and he is disgusting!
I think he made her get an abortion
You just must’ve not read her first book 🤭
She def met him …. She dated his son off and on for a long time and if I remember the story correctly he was the one who told her to get her abortion . She knows some stuff for sure
@@icypiscesbrimhm, and winter has mentioned Justin on here a few times, In the earlier episodes. Didn’t he have one of his “girlfriends” also have an abortion years ago? Diddy is a dirt ball.
The fact I been saving this since Wednesday to watch today while im getting induced ugh it was hard not to watch before then but I needed something to pass the time in labor and I love my girls big winny and chy chy
Congratulations on the baby
@@melissa-fv6cr thank u
I personally like the way Winter talks about herself. Tbh, most of the topics are big news ( meaning I know the details) so I’m here for their collective opinion and context (aka their stories or experiences) give that perspective. This is exactly how I talk with my bestfrannd so I understand the flow. With every episode, Chy and Winter are putting out some authentic and personal context🤍
This is my first Thanksgiving without my dad and my mamaw. They passed away 3 months apart, and my mom tried to organize something. My siblings decided last night that they couldn't come at the last minute. Foods already made, table settings are out, and its frustrating that they're doing this. But I've learned i have to accept that its not my job to chase them so they come see our mom. But im making a pie right now and I got all this food ready and more to cook. So im gonna cook it anyways for my mom and we can have a low key happy Thanksgiving without others trying to make the day about them alone. We can celebrate my dads life and my beautiful mamaw, and if someone else decides that they want to join us, they can. I'll welcome them with open arms because this day isn't about me. I hope everyone has a Happy Thanksgiving and for those that dont celebrate i hope they have a really great day ❤❤❤
So disappointed in Winter. Diddy has kids, but Cassie was someone’s kid too!!! She was only 19 going through this shit! She was a young woman and robbed of her 20’s. He didn’t think about her family why should we think about his kids? They need to know the truth about their father.
Exactly! People be so “pro women” under CONDITIONAL TERMS. I have supported Winter for yearsss! Shit is corny as hell.
Dang winter didn't speak on the Cassie and Diddy situation. Because she still wants Justin and hopes to one day be apart of the family. I understand, though. Maybe one day she will realize she doesn't need him to be happy. Sucks, because I was really looking forward to what she had to say about the situation.
Or maybe she’s scared..
@@MD19853 or maybe it's just my opinion...
I honestly love it all ! The way y’all are doing the podcast it’s very raw and don’t feel forced or fake don’t change !
chy looks AMAZING! love the hair. sis is glowing.
Wow I can’t believe I missed the signs in this episode regarding Chy’s breakup. I love you Chy, you got this 💕.
Winter is such a Taurus! Lol I’m the same way. Always relating to myself and finishing ppls sentences. So strong and outspoken lol I love y’all.
yessss lol when she gets called out for something i'm always like she's just being a taurus frfr
it just doesn’t look good on chy lol
I totally felt what Chy was saying when she was talking about having a deceased parent during the holidays. The holidays were so significant growing up, and the last few years without my mom during the holidays have been pretty rough.. But as I started tear up about it, winter goes “masturbation” and I am literally crying laughing 🤣😭 anyway I normally don’t comment on RUclips videos but I wanted to say thanks for making me smile during this time 😂
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It’s Winters old lady voice that always gets me 🤣🤣
Chy be like I’m not gonna talk about it and then starts talking about it and winter face is so funny LMAO.
HAHAHAHAHAHAH y’all leave chy alone she is not homophobic she just be feeling comfortable enough to speak her opinions openly that’s why I love this podcast because winter and her be given the truth there’s no fakeness here, they just say what comes to their head and I fuck with that heavy
The Bsimone and Megan drama summary : They both have different purposes . Sometimes things just arent meant to be .
Can’t get enough of this pod 🔥 love how you guys touched on family topics especially since the holiday is here and also adding in like “ hot topics” with diddy ! Wintrr def knows but sometimes saying nothing is better then saying anything at all !
i love chy so much this podcast would be nothing without her 💗
I hate comments like this. It’s a backhanded compliment. Spread love and positivity, not praising one when there are two!
ghosting isss emotional abuse!!! it’s not said enough. love you ladies, great episode as usual🩷
I respect that you have loyalty with diddy's son and since you know him in real life its difficult to speak on but I really encourage you to read that lawsuit in its entirety because diddy is a monster and he will probably be going down very soon and its not all about the money! If it was just for money she wouldnt have went public with her information! Cassie wanted her truth to be told and sacrificed the money she was offered to NOT go public, to take less and be able to tell her story. The allegations in that lawsuit are hardly allegations because that poor woman was only able to put what she had receipts for in it. Please don't support Diddy and be a girl's girl!
Maybe Diddy, the parent, the father, should had worry about what his kids are going to think about him and his actions, it's not Cassies or people talking about it job to protect his kids.
I miss both of you hi chy
Winter, you look so good this episode ❤🎉
Winter don’t want her car blown up 😂😂😂
Wow, I am in tears!!! Thank you so much for standing with Palestine. I love this podcast and appreciate you both so much for standing on some real business ❤️❤️
Winter just be so real with it lol 😂 “I didn’t graduate highschool” 😂😂
I don't see how Wynter being honest about her experience/thoughts with Diddy could affect those kids even partially as much as what was already put out in the lawsuit, but I do understand her wanting to protect her relationship with Justin and not say too much.
I think she’s being respectful to Justin. She does love him.
lmfaooo when winter said "as soon as you get a baby daddy shit just start happening" i screamedddd "SERIOUSLYYYY!!!" lmfaooo that's literally when my life took a mf turn to hell!! 🤣🤣😭🤣
I love Chy 🩷 she seems so sweet and humble
winter has my whole personality, it’s scary, damn🎉
Thank you guys sooo much for speaking on Palestine. I love you guys!!!! Free Palestine til its backwards!!!!!
Winter, it was classy and mature the way you responded about the diddy situation.
Love all the topics, chy makes me laugh every time just because of her southern personality and my thoughts goes to winter for being strong and standing her ground.
Can we also normalize some people being okay with being alone on the holidays? Some people like their peace , they don’t wanna be around the toxic fake family members. Gotta stare at your sister and her abusive husband , your brother his 5 baby mamas and all their kids. I love myself and my down time. I come from a big dysfunctional family …
winter , you have to stand on it if you’re going to mention it - you have a platform and this was your moment to be transparent about the diddy situation , you mentioned it in your book briefly your encounter with him . i know there’s more you know .. be on the RIGHT side and speak on WHATS RIGHT . otherwise what’s the point in having such a platform that is centered around keeping shit real ? i expected more .
If anything she excused him a little too much for me. “Know what you signed up for.” And “people make mistakes” huh
she spoke on her encounter BRIEFLY (about a paragraph) in her most personal book yet … what makes you think she’s going to share anymore on her podcast? she probably knows more however that’s not our business respectively & if we don’t like it then we can click off.
If anything she probably can’t speak on it entirely
I've said it before and I'll say it again I love the both of y'all! I love getting to see personal sides to the both of you! Keep shining 💜
A fan called in on the Armon Wiggins show while he was discussing the Diddy story and basically mentioned your story
Yes! I noticed that too
So protect the abuser when he has children?! Ok got it 😒🤦♀️ Winter your reason to no speak or comment speaks volumes as well.
I feel like if you have read Winter’s book you could understand why she doesn’t want to talk about Diddy. I just feel sad seeing her so uncomfortable during the topic.
Always a good day when the girls drop ❤️🔥
Y’all gotta understand winter isn’t speaking up because Diddy is clearly shown to be a very dangerous person. I’m sure she wanted to speak up but she was involved with the guys son she doesn’t want to be a target. Cmon now let’s think about this
THANK YOU
The way Winter said “You not, we the same. I agree” LMFAOOOO no but fr though 😂💯
I love winter but I’m disappointed that she is too scared to speak up on diddy.
When Chy said if we can’t grow together we are gonna grow apart girl def get that this year
I’ve been the type to ghost/avoid ppl without telling them “hey I’m cutting you out of my life”. Not all are emotionally mature to handle that conversation but I’ve learned it’s best to keep your peace by at least saying “I told you so”.
Not me running across this video then binge watching all the BTL passed episodes. AND i made sure to sub to the new channel 💜 love yall crazy asses
I love y’all! Look forward to the podcast always. ❤
Look forward to this podcast every week!
Happy thanksgiving! Thankful for Behind The Likes 🥰
I’ve never missed a podcast! 💕 Love y’all, sending you both blessings & happy holidays ✨
It’s more like you ask them a question and they start to answer and then you flip it to you and don’t let them finish
when chy was talking abt her relationship was so funny and real I wish her prosperity. Winters lil speech to her after was so fucking cute. Love them
No, I agree with the trigger thing. Bc people “cancel” celebs just for talking about things that trigger them. Like it’s exhausting to try your hardest not to trigger everyone.
Yesss Free Palestine!🇵🇸🇵🇸Love this episode
i wish winter talked about her experience moreee but i get why she didnt also
Y'all are my FAVESSSSSS I love this podcast
We loved the guest
, we love you girls 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🤍🤍🤍🤍
Chy looks like a Barbie 😭💗
Great video! Y'all you should do a video that elaborates more on ghosting, and why it's so bad. I've been ghosted years ago, and to this day it hurts.
Honestly so thankful for ya’ll - - Winter and Chy I don’t know either one of you- Joe Rogan always says it took years before he caught a real stride with Brian redban - - look how your interview opened up Heather and then she AND T continued the biracial support oh and Jaideyn too!! Just keep doing you
I would like to see chy in a movie like mean girls and be the Regina George wearing that hairstyle
Lol “omg that’s triggering me” hahaha winter your hilarious. Love ya girl
I totally understand Winter and her issues with her dad's family and not knowing them and not having that relationship. They never made an effort to get to know her. They knew that she existed and she was their family. I've gone through the same with my dad's family. They know who tf I am and who my kids are but do they try? Nope. My dad don't even try so I dare one of them to say something if I don't go to my dad's funeral 🤷♀️
I loooove the matching white😍😍
You right it's my 3rd thanksgiving without my cousin and it just seems to get harder and sadder
I loveee how winter was uplifting chy! You are who you surround yourself with! You both bad bitches. Keep this shit rolling .
Winterr for sure signed a diddy NDA .. it’s the first time she has no comment on something 😂
I am not in an NDA beloved. I just don’t owe anything to anyone I don’t want to talk about.
@@WinterBlancoall these comments and you respond to this one.. okay girl
Agree wholeheartedly with the tiptoeing around triggers! Thats not your responsibility.
I can understand Winters point of view with his kids but those are HIS actions. He went and did all these evil things to all these people knowing he has KIDS and it cannot be in the dark forever. It was HIS responsibility… Not winters, not Cassie’s or anyone’s to make sure those kids aren’t hurt by his actions.
I’m sorry but I never seen winter so uncomfortable like she is here when talking about diddy. She is a very keep it real kinda gal and she scared here. Diddy scares me. Something is off with that man. Period.
In her book she mentions how she was brought to a hotel and Diddy had a talk with her and made her get an abortion
@@cksmai right ?!? Shit is wild af.
PERIOD Winter knows in the Bay we fuck w/ Palestine! The Palestine community is huge here. Free Palestine 🇵🇸
I love the love you two have for each other 💖
Been for this current eventsss cause this past week was like SHESH
Can you read your book on audible that would be cool asf cuz I don't like reading books but I love listening to them.
What’s wrong is wrong, diddy is disgusting & wrong. We all know he did that shit
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm…. Winter you could’ve and should’ve spoke more on diddy without insulting Justin and his siblings. You’re well spoken enough to do that.
Let me start by saying the both of you look amazing 🫶 I related to this episode on so many topics from wanting to get closer to your family on the holidays! Not saying much on Palestine and what’s going on bc I am also truly not educated on the topic. Ik we all hope & pray for the violence to end. What really got to me was the end of the topic with the friend ghosting… currently going through that RIGHT NOW. I felt like I was there with you guys today lol can’t wait for the next episode ❤
Aww.. so I am familiar w Winter but don't know her friend speaking "not in any rude way at all" but today was my 1st time watching ya'll w blue face BM and it was a whole vibe. So clicked for this video. W all that said what her friend said at around "16:05" def hit home for me nd needed to hear her words nd esp Winter's response as a good friend.. so RELATABLE on all areas of life.. love this Podcast
The ads were crazy this time tho
Chy looks so good 😍😍😍
Love how real you guys keep it ❤
Chy looks so mf good ! As always but especially this ep
Lol winter is basically what we mean when we say everyone knows but they don’t say shit smh
love yall ! me and bff inspire to be on yall level lmao
16:12 the moment she said that it went to ads-
y’all are one of the 1st duo podcasts i thought of when know for sure broke up 😭😩