Gabor Maté +: Diederik Exploring the Depths of Identity and Pain
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- Опубликовано: 15 июл 2023
- Gabor Maté +: Diederik Exploring the Depths of Identity and Pain #gabor #healing #addiction #trauma
Join us on a transformative journey of self-discovery and emotional healing with the insightful teachings of Gabor Maté, a renowned physician, speaker, and author. In this captivating series, Dr. Maté delves into the depths of human identity and the profound impact of our thoughts and emotions on our well-being. Through his extensive expertise in addiction, trauma, and psychology, he offers practical tools to enhance emotional resilience and cope with pain, guiding viewers towards a path of greater self-awareness and personal growth. Get ready to explore the mind-body connection, gain wisdom from thought-provoking Q&A sessions, and uncover the secrets to living a more fulfilling and authentic life. #GaborMaté #SelfDiscovery #EmotionalHealing #MindBodyConnection #personalgrowth
In this emotionally expressive RUclips series, Gabor Maté unravels the mysteries of the human psyche, challenging viewers to ponder, "Who do you think you are?" Through candid moments of passionate discourse, Dr. Maté's wisdom shines as he delves into the intricacies of identity, showcasing how our thoughts alone can influence our pain. With a striking visual representation of his diverse expertise in medicine, psychology, and emotional well-being, this series offers a unique blend of profound knowledge and captivating storytelling. Prepare to be inspired and empowered by the transformative insights shared by one of the most insightful minds of our time. #GaborMaté #Psychology #EmotionalIntelligence #Inspiration #Wisdom
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I never heard of Gabor Maté until about 3 weeks ago.....unfortunately,. I'm a 66 years old male with an anxiety disorder since I was 14. I do'n't live in Canada (again unfortunately) but I''m pretty sure mr. Maté could have cured my disorder. This man is a genius.
He doesn’t see patients...and is not a genius. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk is!
He has so much exposure on RUclips and his latest book The Myth of Normal is out now - a wealth of wisdom for you to access which will help you in your journey. Good luck 👍
Gabor has many podcasts that u can check out. I just love him and he's helped me so much.
Agree he is wise and amazing! However, there are many therapists who can help you in your journey to healing. It’s never too late!
You are a lot better off than you were before ❤
It is both sad and refreshing to discover I am not the only one whose childhood left a deep imprint. As Gabor says, it's not just the things that happen to us, but the things that didn't happen that should've happened for us to grow healthy, paeceful, joyful, confident and able to make good choices and live great lives ❤
I had many things happen in my childhood that left me with a very poor self image. The thing that helped me to believe that I am worth something is the word of God which tells me that God loves me so much that He sent His son to pay the price for my failures and sins. He also tells me I am very special and with a purpose in this life. That changed me forever.
Amen to that 🙏❤️
The sudden, supposedly, illustrative video clips are VERY DISTRACTING and often completely unrelated to what the speakers are saying. Whose "brilliant" editing idea was that??😮
@carolgoodman9912. God bless you. I’m a childhood trauma survivor and yes GODS love for me helped me tremendously. He is my real Father. My earthly father devestated me.
@@TRUTHorSTFUI agree ..🙏
@@laraoneal7284 I can relate🥺
Yes, I’m not in recovery, I’m in discovery, of wonder, and delight.❤
This man is wonderful
I absolutely love him
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
He is incredible
They both are 🥰
Class man!! I hope you receive a Nobel Prize Dr. Màte ❤
Yes, l understand we always want to be cheerished and loved.
A great session as usual. I really get a lot from Gabor maté, who seems to act as a guide not a guru. I’m not as warm to Dietrich, who seems to operate more as a guru having an answer for everything. Just my impression. Go Gabor. Thank you. I’m 72 years old, been a heroin addict, and a corporate lawyer. In the past few years been starting to get in touch with what Gabor is talking about and having some healing take place. Thank you all. Also did 20 years of Jungian analysis and study, which was wonderful, and I feel helped me immeasurably, but never got to the impact of my early life trauma which has made a huge difference for me.
Dietrich is filled with denial and suppression and dissociation.
He avoids trauma , talking about trauma, feeling the trauma - and he supports fantasy ideas about love and Rationalizations and Intellectualizations filled with tyranny of shoulds.
Gabor Mate on the other hand is talking about IFS - and that is direct way how to handle trauma. Trauma does not work well with Dietrich mindset of having politically correct judgments and self abusive ideas to change our judgements nor about being perfect and desire to be person who must love all people on this planet in order to be validated.
@@ranc1977I agree with you! I can't wrap my mind around his way of thinking. Does he REALLY expect the woman who was sexually abused her WHOLE life, to LIE to herself, that her father did NOT abuse her and is "innocent" and she loves him, when NONE of it is true? Not holding him accountable will also enable him to keep abusing and traumatizing other innocent naive young women.
@@karlamartinez7238 Unlike other forms of psychological disorders, the core issue in trauma is reality.
Bessel van der Kolk
In your mind, in your mind
One foot on Jacob's ladder
And one foot in the fire
And it all goes down in your mind
Living at the bottom of the stairs in your life
Never a smile knocking on your door
The air is blue and so are you
Prehistoric monsters on the floor
Last verse of your last song
And God don't hear dead men
The end of the line is in your mind
And you'll be staying in
In your mind, in your mind
Bone for bone and skin for skin
Eye for eye and tooth for tooth
Heart for heart and soul for soul
Somebody said what is true
Lock it up and close it down
The sound of morning like a dove
High beyond the rattle and roar
Look into the face of love
In your mind, in your mind
One foot on Jacob's ladder
And one foot in the fire
And it all goes down in your mind
In your mind, in your mind
Sunday words are back again
And you'll eat your fun of the middleman's pie
But just a piece you understand
You'll get the rest up in the sky
Praise and glory, wounded angel
Shuffling round the room
Eternity is down the hall
And you sit there bending spoons
In your mind, in your mind
Father, son and holy ghost
Sacrificial drops the pain
On a silver planet cross
Sanctification on a chain
They say redemption draws knives
Storms of silence from above
Stop your ears close your eyes
Try to find the face of love
In your mind, in your mind
One foot on Jacob's ladder
And one foot in the fire
And it all goes down in your mind
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Songwriters: Craig Bernabeu / Mike Burrell
In Your Mind lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
I LOVE the MAGIC between Gabor and Diederik… I LOVE YOU BOTH ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes Garbor a wonderful man and honest😊
Definitely true... thoughts are extremely powerful...I could talk myself sick. Negative thinking helped make me sick.
Your teaching is so profound, so life changing. What a gift from God!
I had a bad gut-feeling when Deirdre said: “…….he didn’t violate you, he did it to your body, and as we aren’t our bodies, he did nothing ( that’s how I understood it )
That’s terrible, we could come to a point when “libertarians”, like Miley, that wants to restrict women’s rights could finally use that idea to simply sustain that there’s no such thing as violation or sexual abuse.” Even if I could agree with the idea that we are more than a body, I have my body to experience it, my gut, my brain, my heart. I think this becomes very clear in Gabors lecture for care givers.
I had a bad gut feeling about Deirdre ALSO! Gabor said that we should LISTEN to our gut feelings, because if we ignore it, we will get SICK, since our minds and bodies are connected. It's quite scary that Deirdre told the woman who was sexually abused her WHOLE life to LIE to herself, and say that her father is "innocent" and she "loves" him, when NONE of it is true! Not holding him accountable would ENABLE him to sexually abuse and traumatize OTHER innocent naive women.
I totally get him & totally understand why ive been chronically ill since 6 yrs old. Wow. He changed my life in less then an hour. Wow. I always had a feeling that this WAS why I've always had issues...now I know its a fact. Thank u from my💜 to yours , Dr. Gabor mate....🙏💗2all😇
This was THE best presentation with Q&A's that I have heard recently.
I had so many aha moments and thoughts becoming awareness that I had to keep pausing the video to write them down.
Thank you so, so much for this gift to life ✨😊🌅✨
Meditation over 5 decades … I reach out with your works today. Sharing this remarkable “true talk” ! Ty 🙏so much 💯for allowing us to learn, grow & Love ♥️♥️♥️🙏❣️
25:19 25:51 Whenever you're upset with somebody, and after you've calmed down, ask yourself with compassion, "Who was I at the moment when that person did/said what they did, that led me to react the way I did?"
Yes, totally agree 👍
agree! good luck getting me to ask myself ANYTHING when my lid's flipped... but when the adrenalin or whatever has subsided a bit, and i realise where i am and it's actually safe, THEN i have space to ask and answer.
Infants know everything is about themselves-a fully awakened state of mind. We watch what we project from inside.
this is one of the best talks in 2023! I have an AHA moments just by listening to both. Thank you!
First time listening to doctor Diederik, very impressive. Always learn something new from doctor mate, I can listen to him many many times.
🎉 thanx guys!
“Painters never know what time it is”
Just as wise of an observation as the rest of them 😂❤
“Get rid of your shits everyday! “Love it!
Thank you! This entire talk and Q&A are absolutely brilliant and helpful. I'm in the process of starting a therapeutic practice and seeing that the entire practice is mostly for me to learn, what I need to learn, puts an entirely new twist on it. It turns it into a work of devotion to serve the "reason why I am here in this life". Or in spiritual terms, it's Bhakti and Dharma. Seeing it that way, may actually give me the heart to go through with it and stop being a coward and feeling unfit to do this kind of work.
"Who do you think you are?" is really a great question to bring awareness into our wrong identification with thought patterns, personae inside our psyche and nervous system.
For so long I have been governed by all the stresses and fears that my body has. Even just noticing, that it is the body having a stress/fear reaction, and not I - I am really only watching it happen - is tremendously helpful. Not acting upon it, not getting into mental reactions to the body's experience, is hard practice. I'll keep going with it.
I have narrowing if spinal cord too and deterating disc desese I am in pain 24 7 1:35:21
Mind blowing!
You are awesome, truly...I have been watching your videos in depth...You know what You know. . The comprehensive Knowledge..,The Experience.. and lastly, the Wisdom..Wow..
You are magnificent..:). I Take my hat down, I admire all that You have done to achieve a goal in going back to the source...And also, thank you for sharing it with all of us!! Thank You!!!
The tears are overflowing and that is welcome. I was confident of being on a right path for myself and then a situation brought be to fear and dread to the vulnerable child that was always there beneath the surface. Who I am ... doesn't look pretty but I am thankful that I am not alone. Thanks
Omg, that is so mind-blowing! Literally, a light bulb went off when you said that my inner child is what gives me fear of my uncertainty and i need to work on it. Thank you!
The Creator is within 🙏
Dont invalidate and blame the victim..!., Dr Mate n Dietrich...🙏
I don’t think they did, they’re going a step farder by trying to take the victim out of the mental place the conflict puts them on.
Thoughts and identity are imagined. 💞
So impressed by this man. Such a powerful example we can all learn from.
especially when he mentions Trump in negative light???
@@johnmcalpine253
I'm sure he recognizes the man's pathology like any intelligent person. In fact, he operates almost exclusively from his "id" which is more associated with one's shadow self than light. Trump paints HIMSELF in a negative light simply by lack of self-awareness and being Trump.
This was so Amazing and powerful! Thank you❤
Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for this intimate and deep approach.I believe the right things will find US when we are ready for them and that can only mean i am ready to understand many whys in my life esp from the space of my vulnerabilities....no more blame and shame to avoid discomfort but the pure attunment to the self to see the truth of the reality the way It really is....I am ready for the next level to burst my narcissistic bubble to connect❤
Reminds me of the book The New Earth 👍🏻 this video breaks it down really well
Who puts these odd videos in between the comments that don't resonate with the content? In any case I am always happy to see Dr. Gabor's
videos.
Subtitles are also totally wrong. Annoying but what can we do about it?
Absolutely fabulous
These teachings are so spot on.
I would like to send to my ex/addict if
only his mind was open to learn.
I have learned so much, there is hope with an open mind. Thank you Dr M
It is IFS. It is newly discovered cure for trauma (2021).
It works for anyone gone through narcissistic abuse and is stuck with panic and triggers.
Thank you
Pain is part of life, suffering is optional 🎉
Exceptional!
Luv this, thank you ~
This guy understands trauma very deeply.
The word is “challenge”. 🙏♥️❣️
54:07. Amazing AMAZING MIND BLOWING thank you,🤯
Good for you
Yes indeed, but we are 100% allowed to set personal boundaries, especially for people who act inappropriately toward us 😊😉
If u beat up inside. & lonely as heck, get a kitten or a dog & love them, they r safe , 🐾💝🐕
amazing
Acceptance of what I can and cannot control. Gotta dig into our own minds and past perceptions to do this. The 12 steps helped with this. Knowing I am loved is so important. Knowing God gave His son Jesus for ME is so very helpful in this. Knowing I am useful in this old world is very important. Knowing God doesn't make junk proves this to me, it also helps me love you too.
42:55 What IS the purpose of meditation? To get a clear idea of and notice what I'm actually thinking, so that I can identify the feelings associated with a particular thought pattern.
Who would choose the awful things some of us experience in life? I have difficulty digesting that. Sometimes. a set of life experiences set you up to experience much of the same in your relationship because you are subconsciously always trying to win the approval of the caregiver who first denied you as a child. And to give up on that would be too much like giving up on that dream that you are worthy and loveable, despite what you have been led to believe.
@@idlybye5002True, at some point we have to release the expectation of being loved by people incapable of loving us. Being able to separate our worthiness from their rejection of us takes a hell lot of work but the only way out of psychic pain of an unloved childhood😢
Didn't Dr Gabor Mate say that it's only a choice when you're conscious of there being a choice? Say you didn't choose anything before the age of 6, but later you can choose to go back to a bad emotional state before you were 6 and essentially relive that bad experience over and over or you can not
@@idlybye5002 one liner statements like you are offering, where you are placing an absolute condition on what is a very complex subject, always come across as being overly simplistic. Place conditions on your own healing, by all means, but don't place those same conditions on the healing of others.
1:13:07 Dr Mate interrupted so unexpectedly. I wish Dierek could finish his speech. 😢
around the 52nd minutes ,Diederik implying that the experience and interpretation of some one is not more valuable than any interpretations from others who didn't have the experience discussed seems a form of denial to me of the necessity to identify to some degree with our body...we are not pure spirit for a good reason, if the integrity of our body is threaten of course we interpret it as a threat...yes of course then to expand our horizon and try to learn from the experience of being threaten is a good thing but I maintain that we need to keep identify with our body too, the body is the one who let us know what is threatening by pain
Great point.....the body speaks....its our gut feelings
43:37 " I have chosen every single thing in my life, the good and the bad, to BE in my life. " ACTUALLY, I DO NOT agree with that because that negates the random element in life, in the universe, and in other people.
Remember Einstein' s quotation : Random Is the signature of God,". No conflict then, all Is randomly right!!!!
I can't get over how great you look for your age. My mother was born only two years before you (I think?) Well she was 82 last week. You look and act 30 years younger tham her! She also believes the war, being in the womb, when bombs were going of, has made her an anxious troubled moody (even narcissistic) woman all her life. She lost her own mother, my grandmother, a year after i was born in 1977 due to a long term brain tumour. I imagine that was something to do with the war or maybe even childhood trauma. Wow, maybe, we have all been affected by childhhod trauma it seems 🤔
Your post is sensational...you now have your TRUTH X
Gabor Mate MD PhD🙏
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Hi
Thanks for all this wisdom in sharing your thoughts, your insights and your way.
How is it possible, that the people we love deeply and we feel connected to (parents, children, partners) - are triggering us most and strongly?
Because they are also damaged its a cycle so if you're a parent don't pass it on I guess thats the only solutions but then I know easy to say than done -- I have no concrete solutions just be aware of the pattern good luck to your journey hope for the better❤
47:09 As much as your overall message resonates within me, thinking/believing that EVERYTHING IS A LESSON JUST FOR ME is ludicrous and self centered. Sometimes shit happens cuz shit happens in life. The universe is NOT THAT RIGIDLY ORGANIZED and DEFINITELY NOT centered around each one of us. There's a VERY HEALTHY element of RANDOMNESS in life and the workings of the universe. Thank God that the Creator left that in! 😅
I also don’t always agree with Mate.
But as far as God being our particular Savior, I believe that God is infinite and thus able to know us individually, and we can live in his presence moment by moment. I believe in Jesus Christ, and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. I just wanted to share that hoping to encourage you.
There’s also a devil, demons, cruel people. The key thing is that Jesus is with us through the hard times. We can forgive, and if necessary distance ourselves from group people, and we can resist Satan. We can fight our own evil tendencies, and find forgiveness on the daily as we walk with Christ.
Also, I got to be honest… I’m not listening to this video after I’ve read some of the comments about the content. I don’t think I subscribe to his ideas that a victim chooses abuse. Weirdness.
@@cleob9956 I think they were saying we choose how to react to the abuse, not that we choose the abuse.
25:53 just tagging a time for someone later
Thank you for posting this
27:28
LOL “my thoughts alone can cause me pain” good one
I was taught a few years ago I create my own pain,, once I accepted this I stop it
1:32:32 This apparently MAGIC trick of asking WHO'S THE "I" THAT'S HAVING THIS PAINFUL EXPERIENCE, is interesting and "I" will definitely need to experiment with it and give it more thought! 😊 That's IF "I" remember. But who is this "I" if not me?! And who will be doing all this thinking and wondering about who this "I" is if not me....or I......or WTF!
I agree that for you knowing that you are love, first you have to see the layers of ego identification or program, like Carl Jung said, until you don’t make conscious the unconscious this is going to direct your life and your are going to call that destiny
I'm not well-versed in Jung, so you're saying Jung said we should not strive to make the unconscious conscious or the opposite? Could you please explain further? Thanks.
genius!
No, he isn't...he is not right about everything...just an ordinary human who experienced a lot of trauma.
A difficult childhood, difficulty with social interaction, looking after a parent with dementia - constantly in pain all over. Doctors are completely uninterested and I've no idea how to calm my system to reduce the stress and pain.
Listen to Dr Sarno "heal your back pain" and dr. Howard Schubiner "unlearn your pain"
Hope you get better, are in same place and just learned about those...
@@faaj8028 So sorry to hear you have similar difficulties 😞. This life tests us in so many ways. I will watch the suggestions with interest - thank you so much. 🙏
I agree with the message ultimately. I definitely think we need to update the language by now because some people who really didn’t understand/ harmfully unskillful at Life used those words to their advantage. This is a very very dangerous message in the wrong hands so I am extremely thankful that Gabor Mate clarified the base of safety is the place to start.
the reason why we talk about positive or negative emotions is clearly because of the experience of pleasant emotions and unpleasant emotions. This is not to say that all emotions are important informations.
Is there an email address to contact, i would like to visit this center
Gabor you look happier and more appeased as of lately
Do u think he reads the comments?
😢 please help. I have a friend who is going through a rough time now. His sister basically committed suicide he has blood clots, high blood pressure. He’s post polio and he has other health issues. He’s my friend and I love him but I am not in love with him, and I told him I needed to take a break. He is now threatening to stop his medication. His supplements kill himself and his dog. I’ve told him to please not hurt the dog. She hasn’t hurt anyone and I would take her as soon as I can, if that would make his life first easier, please help me. What can I tell him? What can I do? And he’s also going through so much financial stress. I am helping him now and I will continue to help him.
Recommend this Japanese story book called Nisshitsu. It's a wisdom powerbomb
who is the other person?
Jesus saved the chiefist sinner amongst us me❤
Was this one a little Foofie La Las?? 🤔 I mean did that man just say that if you just Identify the Abuse, Suffering, Pain as kind of like "someone else's". That it will just basically disappear from your Own Physical, Psychological, Emotional Experience??? 😐
I love Dr. Mate, I have listened to so many many hours of his talks, read his book. To be honest though, Diederik, who I have never come across before, I am not likely at all to explore any further, he comes very close to what I would describe as spiritual bypassing.
@@StoryHealer
Yes, I was referring to thee other guy. Dr. Mate is Great. but the other feller... 🤷♀
It’s so funny when he takes the mike away
How does this supplication help in knowing who we are as human beings?
"I seek forgiveness from Allah, there is no deity except He, the Ever-Living, the Self-Sustaining, the Most Merciful, the Most Gracious, the Owner of Majesty and Honor. I ask Him to accept my repentance, the repentance of a humble, submissive, poor, miserable, needy, weak, and dependent servant who does not possess any benefit or harm for himself, nor death, nor life, nor resurrection. Then you say:
O Allah, I seek refuge in You from a soul that is never satisfied, and from a heart that does not humble itself, and from knowledge that is not beneficial, and from a prayer that is not raised, and from a supplication that is not heard. O Allah, I ask You for ease after hardship, relief after distress, and comfort after hardship. O Allah, whatever blessings we have, they are from You. There is no deity except You. I seek Your forgiveness and I repent to You."
@ 34:00 ... believe it or not, that's a "Christian" concept and teaching.... that we should say, in those moments, "this is happening FOR me, not _to_ me"
....God works all things out for our *good*
The Kundalini serpent just had to reveal who is running the show! 🚩
Some words of wisdom here but also words of confusion, for example, on the one hand a lot of talk about the body-mind connection on the other hand saying that the self is seperated from the body. Of course a person is abused when the body is abused! Otherwise rape and murder etc wouldn't be crimes against a person!
Saying that you should confront your inner fears etc and then turning around saying you should surpress your feelings and ignorer them and living in an a world of your imagination where you never were abused and and the person who violated you suddenly are innocent! This is not a healthy way of dealing with abuse! The correct way of dealing with it is to acknowleadge it, work through it, if possiblw talk about it with the person who have hurt you and and finally choose to forgive those who have hurt you! That's the way to freedom! Not pretending that it didn't happened!
It is very confusing when Dietrich says that our Self cannot be abused.
IT can.
What he tries to tell is about having authentic Self - when something traumatic happens - we will eventually heal and we will eventually die and our body will no longer need money or food and our soul will be safe. But right now - when we need to pay rent and when it is important that we are not homeless and out in the cold - it is really crappy advice to tell us about our transcendent soul - since this information does not help at all, and in fact it adds to unfair injustice that we experience with trauma.
On the other hand Mate Gabor is talking about IFS.
IFS is about total validation about who we are and what we think and feel.
Extreme example is : if we believe we are Martians, then ask ourselves why we are not green in skin. IT is about total validation.
Dietrich was alcoholic and he was neglectful father. That is why he relies on tyranny of shoulds and self abuse.
Everyone else - most of people - we are not anti-social. We are not serial killers. We are not monsters. In fact - we are agreeable and empathic and we have high moral and ethical standards which cause us trauma and pain since we try to be perfect and not harm abusive people and their feelings - so we end up being last in life. IFS teaches us to stop self abuse, to stop adding up more political correctness and to stop magical thinking about loving everyone - since we dedicated our whole life in understanding abusive people and minding their anger mood swings and fixing them. IFS tells us to accept and validate ourselves and not add any more rules and obligations as Dietrich tell us that we must love all people - since we are flooded with them.
He must love all people - since he was anti-social monster all his life.
Everyone else who is not neither narcissistic nor psychopathic - really need to trust own gut and start to believe own voices to cut contact with toxic and abusive people and really allow ourselves not to love them anymore at all to the point that we do not care anything about them at all.
-As a little child you don’t have a choice!!!!!
I still agree with Gabor, and definitely not with Deirdre.
If your Statue of Liberty is actually me and with me, I suppose you most probably either near the India or Australia continent? Haha😂 Australia looks like a huge landmass.
You really should not rely on AI to do your subtitles, there are many i.portant mistakes that fundamentally change the meaning of Gabor's talk!
People say the United States of America has human right but when I want to give this sentence to comment with other people at RUclips but they block me.
The Vatican want to put an office inside Viet Nam. In via versa an office of Vietnam inside the Vatican or an office of Religious Union inside the Vatican.
You really need to catch up cause we are going nuke¡ Hahahaha 🤣
Well myself hates Donal Trump.
If your luggage is being lost 40% of the time, you might want to switch to Southwest Airlines.
This is all I hear about true happiness about true compasionate lives is the majority of failures in life is abuse of a sexual manner done at the hands of the childs care takers is the care takers chose to be the sexual abuser. All these wonderful very educated people have some of the greatest recovery plans for the true victims. My sugestion is to change laws of all lands and change them that sexual predetors with capitol punishment. Will that stop sexual abuse abuse,NO. But, its a start. I do not agree that societies should reward sexual abusers with the office of political leadership.
41:33 Traumatized that baby just for stock footage
That's a different perspective that is not necessary true or helpful.
I don’t agree with the white man. He’s never been sexually abused and it shows
You guys come across as a little too high and mighty within your true brilliance, which does not make my eyes shine. ... What about speaking more about trusting one's own judgement to take you out of being in the face of danger? You should have spoken more of that. You gotta feel safe in yourself to trust your own judge meant. I think you need to say that more specifically tas a priority o really get across what you're trying to say.
One incident, what about thousands of incidents; i don't feel this is the whole story, what works for one person doesn't work for another: AA saying!
00:54: I don't entirely agree with that. Saying "I am not the body" to someone who continues to endure daily abuse and adding "I love the perpetrator" is declared suicide immediately after these sentences are uttered. It is also a bad message, in the sense of: anyone can do anything and inflict pain on a person, because this person is not the body. These are negligent statements for both a victim and the perpetrator. In a sense, a person's suffering is trivialized. I tend to share the thesis of Mr. Mate, Gabor, whose processing of the past offers a different path that feels good, but which can only be untied if a certain traumatic event does not continue to happen in the present
Diedrich, you should be ashamed for what you said to that patient. You minimized her experience and seemed to not grasp that the damage was not done only to her body but also to her soul. Her young soul, as it existed then, was annihilated and she has had to spend a lifetime searching for it.
I want him to get a divorce!!!!! MARRY ME DR GABOR MATE...YOU HAVE SAVED MY LIFE XXX
I am sure a lot of women would like to marry Dr. Gabor 🙂
@@jasmineglein3721 I wouldn’t..too self absorbed.
Sad turtle
Omg you been jere ao long and you didnt know i am Christ?? Haha all the kies grew up already. I also grew up already. You dint recognized the huu from Goonies?