@@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren easy, the man who successfully called you on your bullshit. Youve been in every comment making claims you cant back and now this statement here is you deflecting.
The rage isnt usually toward women specifically. Its anger at the fact that no one seems to take a moment to tell young boys and men how to actually conduct themselves. It's anger at being betrayed and taken advantage of with no recourse or sympathy from society at large. It's anger at being lied to your entire life about what is right and trying to be a good person only for the one person who promised to love and stick with you until death to cheat and fuck you over with no consequence. But MOST OF ALL it is anger because every where you look you see it happening to everyone else. Everything you hear is a lie to your face telling you that you aren't experiencing what you know you are. Everything you feel is framed as toxic and wrong. It is a rage that goes so deep you don't know what to do with it. You have nowhere to put it. You have no one to talk to about it. All you can do is accept that it's there now, permanently, and try to work around it.
This straight up sounds like something a school shooter would say right before they go on a rampage. I think if we paid more attention to this as a society, we could actually solve this gun problem to some extent.
@@PushyMagnet maybe, but only in the sense that it is so widespread that someone who already plans to do that will latch onto it as an excuse. Hundreds of millions of men experience it every year. Only a few choose to go harm others. And they are almost always at the extreme incel end anyway.
@@JACCO20082012 100% agree, but if this is, in fact, the root of the problem, then fixing these societal issues might just be the recipe we need. For example, we can start with changing divorce law to be more fair, giving men more incentive to marry again. I have so many ideas.
Jumped down here to say the exact thing you said. I agree with her script ,but she will never give and lose as much as I have, so she shouldn't have ended with the way she did.
and what is funnier they even try to attach red pill to them somehow,somehow they still think even our masculinity is because of women and again they put it to their attention somehow,men used to lead wars,conquer lands,science,society,buildings,technology all of this was because of men have higher purpose than a woman in life and yet thwy still delusional that we create this red pill because women are first priority in our life,imagine being so stupid they think we struggle from childhood and fight just to set at the end for some chick 😂😂😂
Yeah she started turning her videos into giving men this wisdom that she's gained from: 1. Her 20 something years of life and 2. Having a... wait for it.. BOYFRIEND. Get back to me Honey, when you've been married 5+ years and learned what maintaining a relationship really requires and means. In the meantime, you're just a great on the eyes conservative male pipe dream. Go back to lecturing women... that's a better topic for you to harp on.
she's right. Desire's not given unconditionally, for a woman to feel desire towards you as a man, you first need to tick, witt your behavior, a lot of her subconscious masculinity boxes first - THEN she can perceive you as a potential sexual partner. Most women don't really care all that much about handsomeness or sculpted body, they DO CARE, at awful LOT, about self-esteem, socio-economic status, being confident and ambitious, knowing how to handle rejection, not being intimidated by pretty women, etc etc etc
@@teddyanarchist1162 learn in ur tiny female brain that u pick men based upon shallow, superficial, narcissistic, psychopathic worldviews and we pick mostly based on rational and fair standards. we aren't the same, ur gender is gross and ours is relatively fair
Women are outearning men in major cities. Women own almost half of all businesses in the US and are more likely then a man to open a business in the US. Women are more likely to attend and graduate from college. Women in heterosexual marriage are outearning their husbands. What are men doing? Working less then ever, driving the labor shortage. More women have been working in the American labor force then men since 2019. So yes the average man is not worthy of a wife and childern in a society that commodities everyone and thing. But thats called life. Thats basic evolution. Some men will reproduce and create offspring while the weaker bloodlines will die. As they should.
Now I'm old enough that I no longer give a shit about women's hypergamous, conditional love. Chris Rock was right about women and kids being the only ones loved unconditionally. Now, I do what I want when I want and do what makes me happy and life is peaceful.
Not by me knowing how they operate and their true nature there is no love or respect for them at all and those adorable kids grow up to be just as shit as their mothers or as weak and worthless as their sperm donor fathers
I agree most men think they cannot fix the problem. But I disagree that you’re too old. You’re never too old. Robert Kiyosaki is 76; became red-pill aware a few years ago and is still pushing forward; his wife divorced him and he’s now dating other women. I’m 53. The past 4-years I’ve spent becoming red-pill aware…and I’m not stopping. “F” that…bruh. You can do anything you put your mind to; as long as you are your first mental point of origin. As long as you draw breath.
Hmm. There are couples having sex daily into their 70s. It is never truly too late to change until you die. If you’re really old, you can even get all crazy into health and aging and try to reverse your age as much as possible, some people are extreme enough to do that. There is always something you can do to improve yourself, and there are always worst moves on the board to make. Go focus on something else that is productive and helpful and the anger might go away.
Woman are not a hive mind if you want to know what she wants ask her! If she doesn't know, leave her and find a woman that's grown up and knows what she wants. If you are what she wants that's amazing. If she doesnt want who you are don't waste your time with her. Find someone who will approciate you and communicate with her. No one can read minds, we need to learn how to talk abd also everyone will do it differently. It is hard but relationship even when you find the one are tough and need work ALWAYS.
@@TheMIEProjectImagine that men have a list of possible excuses too for shitty behaviour, we’re just better people and to tryna use them since it doesn’t solve shit. 😂😂 Imagine actually having to do the right thing, regardless of how you feel. 😂
My main issue with this whole relationship epidemic if you will, is that many people in general now see generosity and thoughtfulness as an invitation to walk all over their significant other, that’s why so many men are apprehensive because kindness is perceived as weakness now, I don’t want to play a game of trying to get a balance between kindness and what many refer to as “masculinity” Being a kind generous person isn’t a feminine trait or masculine, it’s simply being a good person to others.
Yeep... God is it tough to navigate both. But you know if you are kind and are expecting be in a relationship then it is going to be a bumpy ride of emotional turmoil. And as you grow old you realize that most women in general (probably just like men) are of no substance. If you control your lust and infatuation it all starts to get clear.
Of course there are some men who are angry but the rest of us just refuse to play the game anymore. Men don't need to be a certain way to "deserve" women's love. They'll be much happier alone, buying a hooker whenever that need arises. That's also cheaper in the long run. Men, don't get angry at women because they don't want to be with a nice guy! If women can't see your worth, it's their loss. Stay true to yourself, and leave those women to become crazy cat ladies.
a hooker is certainly an option, but it´s better to try to have something going on for yourself, have stories to tell, try stuff out, joke around, socialise the way you do with your buddies... just try to enjoy anything life gives you that isnt sex. women are attracted to positivity, and it´s worth it to try to be happy even without the sex reward. plus sex feels way better when you know the other person is actually into you and enjoying the intercourse
I don't understand why people say "cat lady" as an insult. I've seen women decide that by CHOICE not because of no option. What's wrong with having a dog or cats instead of a partner? Is having a partner a measure of success? WILD.😂😂😂
There's no age limit. Even if you are 60+ you can play the game. Get money, and get growth hormones if you are advised by a doctor before you hit adulthood. Blackpill overemphasizes facial attractiveness but completely misses wealth. They are still stuck on the dual mating strategy thinking it's about looks. Get wealthy and don't get married. If you do get married get a prenup.
Tbh nobody was lied to, this generation is just exceptionally soft. Nobody told men if they simp they'd get girls, but men nowadays are softer and slimier because these are easy times for most of us, no hunger, no wars etc. However girls biology doesn't understand this, they'll still be hypergamous and they'll still look for status and testosterone. Even girls tell you we want men who take charge and be leaders and men will still talk to them with shivery voices asking them where they wanna eat. When they say be kind, they mean don't be mean, don't hurt people and not let women walk all over you, I feel no sympathy for men, they did all to themselves. You have hordes of simps turning hoes into millionnaires on twitch and onlyfans now as we speak, who lied to these people? Nobody, they're just bound to be simps.
It’s odd you say that, because last time I checked Billi’s boyfriend appears to be a pretty nice guy. The first short She showed him in he had brought her a glass of water while she was sitting on the couch pantless😂
Dont listen to taurus. Nice guys finish best being single and content. Women love opportunistically, its about what you do for them. You forget that, you get used
I'm angry at my ancestors, who allowed female suffrage and feminism to happen, and i'm angry at the men who perpetuate this state of affairs. Men and women are not equal and that also means they are not supposed to have equal duties and rights. My anger is directed at those who disagree
Maybe this explains why a single parent child is better off with the father than the mother. What she's saying describes what happened with Adam and Eve fairly well. Think about Adam's behavior and Eve's behavior in the Garden of Eden.
First, women are NOT my opponents. Second, the harm is done and cannot be fixed because I simply refuse to take the slightest chance to ever go through that pain again. Think what you want of me.
All wounds heal with time man. I've been where you are and it took like 5 years to get over it but I met someone new and so far so good. Idk if it'll last but it does feel good to have that again
@@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren youre really going to every comment here to simp to men who have lived longer and learned more than you. you dont get to call other men brother while you tell these men to ruin their lives.
“A man worthy of female desire” lmaooo…that’s probably the biggest mistake there!!! A female respect or fears a male with a desire that has nothing to do with them…the moment u focus on them, u end up in the friend zone
Not true. If you're in a space where you've become attractive you can show desire. Especially if it is sexual and not too serious. But a good woman will want someone who is more serious, there just aren't as many today (under 30 anyway) who want that.
women deserve no one but themselves long term. the current crop of females all want rich hot and socially enriched men. there's no way for most men to even find anyone
A great many of us have simply become indifferent. As long as the courts favor, females in family law, and allow injustice towards males, there simply isn’t any point.
WHY ARE YOU GENERALIZING. NOT EVERY WOMAN IS THE SAME. Holy shit, you guys are out of your mind, you keep going after the same kind of woman and then ask yourself why you're always getting hurt.
This is fantastic! My whole view on part of this presentation changed when a "girl friend" told me this. "Don't believe for a second that any woman has some mysterious gift she will give you if meet her demands. The truth is to ask this question to a woman: " Just what do you have that I need-besides sex? " This will stop a lot of gas lighting in its tracks."
All the nice guys I've grown up with, are all doing very well for themselves and have quality women in their lives, and all the bad boys I grew up with are still trying to find a loyal woman, and make ends meet. Your focus in life should not be on women, it should be on you, your goals, your health, your career and everything in between, and if you're a nice guy, you'll attract the perfect woman without effort. Let the bad boys have the bad girls, you don't want them anyways.
Yeah i think people are overthinking all of this. Dont be a piece of shit and be someone who you would want to be with and youll be fine, also give people a chance, you’ll probably be suprised
No that's simply not true. These women are with your so called nice guys due to their success. Women are attracted to competence, success and social status. If these men had no jobs they wouldn't have any girlfriends
I'm a nice guy. I met a nice girl, and we threw out the stupid man/woman books, and got to know each other. We've been married for 43 years now. Secret: we do housework together, yard work together, and plan and research large purchases, like cars and stoves.
@@povyourmad785the problem is the internet my man. Everyone thinks they're God's gift to humanity. Constantly looking at Insta and Tinder thinking the next best person is waiting for you. No one is ready to take a risk getting to know the person in front of them. Inflated egos everywhere. Internet sucks.
Red pill is just covering your insecurities and thinking all girls are toxic. We just have the wrong values in this modern world. Kindness is not weakness if it is accompanied by justice. Be kind and be just. Love with all your heart, but also call out any bs. Your love life will flourish.
@Ђорђе Добрић Agreed. Generally speaking, if you go for the flashiest types of girls(young, beautiful, revealing clothes), they are usually insecure and corrupted by all the attention they get. You need wisdom to be able to handle all that attention as a woman, and we are not teaching our girls to be wise. We are teaching them the opposite. So best bet for a man nowadays, go for a beautiful girl with brains, and try to see how she behaves and dresses. A girl with the correct values will not have the need to go clubbing and wear revealing clothes every weekend. Of course, as men we need to stop thinking with our penises, and start having old fashioned, masculine values again. Be protective, strong, respectful, good manners, not a slave to our sexuality.
@@dimitrisleo Go for the combination of great looks and personality mixed with admirable intelligence, that's really all the moto people need in life. We are all attracted to something, physically it could be the face and the body but mentality is truly where it counts if people want to avoid abusive relationships and cheaters, but I mean even if she cheats on you, so fucking what, you gonna kill him or her, people should be way more mature and accept the fact something happened and move on with their lives. There are so many beautiful and smart women that getting pissed over one is just not worth it.
They aren’t mad because they thought they had to be nice, they’re mad that women want them to be assholes and act like skanks. Women have no idea…still men’s fault for wanting something from a woman.
Because your girl should support you even in bad times. When we get married, we say in good times and in bad. But people have destroyed the meaning of marriage, and the vows nowadays are, "I will love you if I get something out of it". We need to wake up and rethink our values.
I see her audience switch up real fast. If she worships men, you all drool over her and say she is wife material. Then she puts a video like this out and suddenly y'all dislike her and say 💩 like you feel sorry for her man. Y'all only like women when they worship you. You don't care about character or anything else.
As a person who had Red Pill Rage for 2yrs straight - and hurting a lot of Women and Blue Pill Guys - after learning THE TRUTH, I really needed this video. ❤️
"Now you know what women actually want" - I'll only ever start caring about what they want when I see that someone cares about what I want. Part of the red pill rage is to realise that you've been conditioned to believe that your needs and feelings are always secondary to those of women.
Never change man. This red pill philosophy is wrong. Women, and people in general react to confidence and respect people who have boundaries and know who they are. If you are kind hearted, be proud of it, put your boundaries(only be with a woman if she is too), and build your life around kindness. Kind hearted doesn't mean weak. You care about people, you are a kid at heart. These are all very rare traits. You just have to learn to respect yourself more and know your worth. Red pill gets some things correct, but in general it's wrong. Most women are not toxic because they are gold diggers. They have been raised wrongly and they have issues. I am kind hearted like you too. I just feel compassion for all those acting toxic. But I also protect myself from that toxicity. Don't fall for the men must be heartless trap. Be kind hearted and strong too. It's a fantastic combination.
Not a dick, but have your own interests, prioritize them to an extent, instead of making your partner your everything, putting them on a pedestal and putting yourself second 100% of the time, and only focusing on her and not have a life of your own. Your life, her life, and the life you two have together, that's what you're supposed to have. Do not be a dick, be nice, respectful, but do not take disrespect, have boundaries and value yourself and your own interests as much or more than hers.
Just take care of yourself and don't worry about the bullshit... Women THINK they own the game these days... Nope... They lose the game if you don't play it. Live life on your own terms...Not Theirs.. And without having to deal with all their bullshit, games and drama.. You can definitely be happy and content.. because now you can focus on Making YOURSELF a Better Man... Besides, ALL they Really Want are the Resources that you can offer them... They don't give a Shit About You... .
have you ever had any friends? if so, dd you know women, as fellow humans, can be friends too, and just enjoy your company regardless of sex? also, did you know that if you´re doing something with your life, have interesting stories and are generally a positive and fun person to hang around, they can even get sexually attracted? actually like you'? the more you know...
@TheAshube9 Been there..Done that...Gave MY ALL !!! And then some..Not just once, But 3 different times...3 Different women.. from 3 Different Places... They ALL had the SAME things in common, which is how I explained it in my 1st reply. Yes, I can be a loving and compassionate man...However, women are on a different Agenda these days and are ONLY out for themselves..and what they can get from men that they can manipulate into giving them what they are after..and when they have drained that man of all he has to offer... They are on to the next...Like Cock-Roaches. Good Women...Yeah, there might be a few good ones left out there, The USERS out number the Good Ones, 10 Fold... but at This Point.. Most men are Better Off just taking care of Themselves... Women have done this... and it's time they learn that not all men are Suckers.
I had a conversation with a random girl and the difference is night and day she stright up told me that she could care less about men. She kept saying men aint shit. I was trying to convince her to try to find a husband like myself and all these girls wanna be independent. Even tho deep down i know she doesn't want that. Some people you cant change but us who are red pilled and have families we need to teach our children gender roles and make the world a better place again good humans who follow the LORD. Look to God for answers. This world is getting more and more messed up. Woman taking trash about the men they are with because they dont understand or know how to take care of them to be able for the man to care for them.
i mean all girls are the same. u share way more similarities to her, she just hates them upfront and you hate them too, u just do not say it up front. ur only trying to find a husband after you've likely been used but idk your age. all girls between the ages of 12-25 are basically getting used by several men and it is fundamentally why no women in the west are worth wanting long term. all of you are pretty much programmed to seek better, and it's borderline psychotic bc u all lie about this, whether it is looks, money or status, ur seeking something that ur holes can find its way to attach to. all that talk about god doesn't change the fact you've texted several men and used them for what they provided, it can be as simple as that which makes women unattractive to me and that's why almost all women are low tier in value. as an attractive man, it's gonna be impossible to find a virgin that is good looking, super sweet, doesn't use you for resources, and is genuinely interested in you. this is why the black pill does indeed enrage me bc women only value you for what you give them, which is crazy to me women talk badly of them men bc they hate that they couldn't get the guy above them in looks/money/status. im sure this is all u chase in men and ur gonna deny it and make it about how god is the most important part of you. embarrassing
You do realise how unstable that makes you sound, right? Listen, attack all you want, it's your life and if you want to spend it being bitter and vengeful then by all means. No one can stop you. But consider this: What if women did not create the lies, but were fed them instead? Do you really think that this is a war of men vs women? Or is there a real, unseen force that is pitting us against each other? After all, feminism was not created by women. We have been lied to and tricked just as much as men. We need to work together, not against each other.
@TheGreatMorningStar I respectfully disagree. I'm a firm believer that as long as one is alive, it's never too late. But you are entitled to your opinion. I hope that you find hope.
mad at what, pay for it once a month to a Chinese massage parlor. or every week for that matter. whatever floats your boat. do that and you'll find you don't even want a gf or deal with the dating scene anymore. because your needs will be met and you can focus on kick ass hobbies and work family and friends
I think you haven't quite understood. The major problem for most people who discover the 'red pill' is that once you understand how women really work, you can no longer respect them. You realize that love is never really genuine; it's just a matter of emotions in the moment. This results in you eventually seeing women as mere sexual objects and nothing more.
Yeah honestly love has become transational now a days. But usually it isn't in your favor. But hey stay conscious and aware to keep yourself safe. It's good to understand how women work.
As a man when you spend so many years on that journey and red pill rage finally happens, you lose the desire to love. This is why so many men have simply given up. We are tired of having to compete for women with little girl entitlement that society coddles. We have peace knowing that we can survive without a woman.
@@tudorm7543no they don't. And you are going to find that out if you get 8months unemployed... You must have had a big Breakfast of Blue pills and Soy Milk befor you wrote that love letter Sir White Knight! Cheri O!
@@setaripantheon8801 i said some. For instance those who Have pimp.boyfriends. the woman makes more than guy, most of the time She s his income. Also i was talking about those who keep welcoming back abusive parteners/cheaters invoking love. I don t drink Soy milk , i prefer real dairy. And i don t need blue pills either, hopefully never will. As for all the Red pill, blue pills whatever pill non sense just fuck em and the pills 😹a Man s life shouldn t revolve around keeping a woman in love with him or.doing whatever shit they think men should do.
Red Pill does have problems, just like any human in this world. I'm tired of being angry. I got to forgive people who hurt me in the past, and let it go. We all need Grace. Thank you, BRB.
Rule # 1 women that dont believe in god wont follow you either unless you act like satan, which is why you are mad at them because they dont chase the righteous but the wicked. Protect yourself by realizing that and finding a woman who follows morals and not desires
Just because women want a man, just because women find a man attractive, doesn’t mean he’s actually worthy of their attention. There’s a difference. It seems to me women are attracted to strength and the ability to provide, not necessarily to integrity and morality. That’s why I say they can be attracted to him even though he’s not really worthy.
It's not the rage Billie Rae. Rage come and goes. When it's gone what's left is a cold acknowledgement that 'the other side' doesn't care, will not protect you and it will exploit your weaknesses. That our natural urge to provide and protect is the biggest of these weaknesses. That's when we understand it's a futile quest and we switch off. And believe me, we are teaching young men the new rules!
My situation, i have been exposed to too many narcissists. So now I have to screen all people, find out the toxic ones and kick them out. There is only one exception, the work place. I cannot pick my coworkers and boss.
@@edwardcornell1263 that is true but you can drop customers you don’t like. I do fire clearing and permaculture so people are usually very appreciative.
It’s so sad that in 2023 I have to teach my son that if he treats a woman like a nice guy she will think he is weak and eventually resent him but if he wants women to pursue him endlessly he just needs to treat them like they don’t matter! What a f’d up world we live in.
it's only the west. go to Asia and treat them nice. they will latch onto you so hard. you won't be able to shake her off. I'm talking a lifetime of latching lol that Filipina will scrub your drawers by hand. Now that's love
Im a multi millionaire and now that Im RP, I no longer have a desire to use it for women. Im rich enough to attract a 10 but genuine desire has always been my desire and I dont think thats possible for a woman without the money. I dont want to be loved for my money but the truth is thats what they actually want .
@@ilsedemolder3973 but lets say I do become financially well off. I won't want to be surrounded by people who care more about the money I make than for me as an individual. Why would I want to be wealthy to just be surrounded by fake people?.
Men please focus on your education, health, workouts,swimming, saving and investing money and reading good books. Men please be mindful of your actions, reactions, expressions and what you value. Be a better You every day. Do not seek the validation of others. Stay strong and awesome 🏆
Bro the moment you stop caring about them is the moment they'll start running after you, speaking from experience, treat them like you would any other normal human being instead of putting them on a pedestal and watch them chase you.
And happen to fit their triple 6 rule. Yeah... sorry bud but not everyone can fit that definition by virtue of only one of them being something you actually earn.
Yeah the unfortunate truth is when you stop caring it bites you in the ass. They don’t run after you. They move on and find another guy. You stop putting them on a pedestal and start treating them like anybody else. They find another guy that treats them better. No woman chases a man these days. They chase the things a man provides. Women believe they are the prize when in reality, the only prize is the connection that ends up turning into a happily ever after marriage.
Wtf are you on about? I was forever alone when I was young and chasing women, and then when I finally gave up and lost interest guess what? They didn't chase me. The only thing women ever wanted from me was foodie calls, and none of them even came around looking for free food after I started ignoring them. If they started chasing you then you were probably doing pretty good with ladies to begin with.
I'm afraid only a dog can provide that (if you are a man). For 22 years I had dogs, 3 of them, and they healed my heart. Really. I don't know where would I be without them. But having a woman, even if it's just for a while, even if it's extremely conditioned, even if they broke your heart, it's worthwhile. It's part of life, it's part of being a man, it's part of being a human being.
Exactly. So we should find a godly girl, who has correct values, and understands love is all about giving. We all get our love from God, and when we are full with it, we can give some to others.
@@Diaz576 You say God I say Dog (same word backwards). I'm a Buddhist and for us there is no God, but I do believe in dogs. Be that as it may, I do respect your beliefs. We can all thrive together. Have a nice day.
That's pretty dumb, sorry. I get what ypu mean tho, have been there. Not trying = not losing, and if you lost big time before, that feels like a victory. But guess what, not losing is not winning either. If you don't take chances at all, you are never going to win. Pick yourself up brother, and get back in the fight, there are girls deserving of love, you just have to find them.
@silkroad9991 well I'm turning 40 in a few weeks doubt any of the women left are going to be worth the trouble, don't get me wrong if by some miracle a woman shows up and is worth it then I'll put in the work but anything less than that fuck it
@@sethwells1602 That's what I'm saying tho, if a good one is still out there, she doen't put up a billboard, saying she's worth it 😄. For some context, I'm 24, last year, just before proposing, my then gf broke up with me, and as I've foumd out, she was cheating on me for a good 2 months before breaking up. Completelly destroyed my self esteem, and sense of self worth, and I got big into the FnF side of things. I got to working out, but I really distanced myself from women, untill the middle of april. Since then, I've tried my luck multiple times, and I what I've found out, is that the majority of girls are not like the ones on FnF. (I also live in Hungary, not the US, so that could be a major factor, but I don't think it matters that much) I would still advise to try and meet women, and eventually, you'll find one that's worthwile
What I still don't understand is that.... Me, the real me, is kind. I'm a very giving person and I don't seek anything in return. I simply give to just give and I still get betrayed by women in my life.
Notice how she went from "You are right, all of your fears and theories are 100% true." to "It's all your fault, change yourself, fall in line."? Crazy right? Don't simp guys. She's not on our side.
Although learning these things can be extremely painful, I’m grateful that I understand them now. There are great girls out there and I am excited to find the one. Thanks for everything you do.
You truly can’t be happy with another person til you can be content on your own anyway. People chasing relationships constantly are fundamentally unhappy and it won’t ever be fixed.
Funny, maybe I am just too old... But I want NOTHING to do with them. I love your Schtick. I think the younger men out there REALLY need to hear this. I wish I knew this growing up. Now... I'd rather start my day with a good cup of coffee...
I love and understand them. You're unable to think of their perspective and don't inform yourself about how women think and feel. Understanding is love
Thank you I'm not sure that you understand how much I needed to hear that from someone I'm 17 male and had trouble with every girl I dated since I was 15
This is one RUclipsr I can really get on board with! I appreciate the way she views things, I see things the same way. Whether you are male or female, you need to accept responsibility in where you find yourself in life, stop playing the victim and now that you know better, cut ties with toxic, make better choices and put yourself first. And I like that she added the bit about helping the next generation🙏❤️ yes, that is so undoubtedly important
Why do men care so much about what women think anyway? I've stopped caring about trying to be a certain way for other people. I'm a nice guy and happy with it! Am I " overly-nice"? I don't think so, but then, maybe I am. I'm certainly not going to change my personality to please others. ( And, yes, I did care enough to comment! 😂 )
Oh, we do get over it. We learn from mistakes. BUT, here's the rub: why would we want to be desirable to a group who has proven itself as toxic and unworthy of trust or respect?
Alternatively just don't bother; stay single - you'll be wealthier, less stressed and, in the end, much happier overall. Seriously, the vast majority of women are just not worth it.
Im not angry at women using the system to their advantage. I'm mad at the system...or more accurately, the people who refuse to correct the problems with the system.
@@bastairteile Yes, I'll try. For one, companionship. I don't know how old you are, but I assume you're young. 20s maybe 30s. You might think you don't need that, but it will most likely hit you when you get older. Two, a family. Only a woman will provide you with children. A woman will give you respect and admiration, which we men crave. The source of your frustrations are most likely due to not feeling appreciated. A good woman will give you that. Family and children will give you a sense of purpose. When I had my first son, my life changed. I stopped living for myself (an empty life), and started living for them. This gives you a WHOLE new sense of what life is about. Us men need helpers in life and women give us just that. I recently became a Christian (don't write this off), when we hit rock bottom in our relationship. I realized we are all flawed, and that we need guidance in life. The bible gave me those answers. Literally every problem I had was explained in the Bible. When I followed it, things started to fall into place. I still struggle with believing in miracles and all that 'supernatural' stuff that's in the Bible, but the teachings are what got me to believe. Men are supposed to lead the family. Women are a bag of emotions, but that's not a bad thing. They are the best nurturers, and we need them for our children. Trust me, if I was alone with children, they'd be neglected. I just don't have that drive of teaching, understanding, and loving babies as much as my wife. Now, since men are to lead, we need to take responsibility for EVERYTHING! Even when we don't feel like it. Any woman will respect you once you assume that responsibility. Once kids get older, men are to teach them the tough aspects of life, values, and ethics. Both men and women have roles in a family, and they come by nature. Going against this nature will frustrate you and anyone else. When I married my wife, she was your typical modern woman and I was clueless. But I assure you, if you lead with love, you'll change her. We still struggle, but marriage is a long game. It takes literal decades. When you see old couples, realize they went through massive issues, but they stuck with each other, and finally decades later understood what they had to do in order to coexist as a family. It comes with time. This generation wants everything NOW and it will not happen like that. You must see yourself as who comes next after your girl's father. It's no longer her father's job to lead, but yours. Don't see her as your equal but not as your inferior either. See her as someone who deserves and wants to be loved, and she'll return that to you in the form of respect and a home maker. Remember, YOU are the leader, she falls with you in whichever way you lead. If you are a bad leader, she will be a bad wife. It's just something you have to come to the realization of. Don't go against it. I'm sure there are many more that I'm not thinking about, but I hope you find the answers you are looking for. And I would suggest you start with a pastor. After many marriage counselors, the one that helped us was a Pastor. And it's free.
@@StefanSu91 You make a few assumptions about me, not sure why. I have a daughter in her early 20s, I know what being a father is like. I also know what it's like being in a relationship - I've had 4 mid to long term ones. Congratulations on converting your modern woman, I have zero faith in any of the rest of them. If they won't even listen to what I say without interruption, I'm not going to attempt to save them. Let them embrace their own long term misery. I can be content alone. Companionship - most women can't provide this. They choose to bring headaches and drama instead. Family - I accept they CAN give you this, but at what cost? Do you know the divorce rates and the rate at which Father's win custody? Respect - given that women think the "men are trash" phrase is an acceptable thing to say out loud and write on social media, you're going to have to work very hard to convince modern 304s to respect you. Most don't even know how to do that. Admiration - this is downstream from respect, so forget it. Modern women are incapable of fulfilling their natural roles - they're the worst, most entitled, generation of women that has ever existed. They baulk at the suggestion they should take care of their own children.
My “red pill” moment certainly made me angry, but it was an anger not just for myself but a generation of young men who have been lied to. After years of indoctrination at school, I truly believed that displaying any masculine traits - ambition, competitiveness, taking the lead, showing grit and stoicism - was “toxic”. I believed that I had to suppress that side of me to make way for women because “The Future is Female.” And I became the ultimate people-pleasing nice guy. Not anymore. Since taking the breaks off and embracing my masculinity, my success with women has gone through the roof. Not only that, but people in general treat me with more respect and I feel so much happier in my life. Billy Rae is a fucking hero and we need a lot more voices like her.
Yeah moving on and being cool about it is what landed most guys in "red pill rage". I agree that taking it out on the girl that dumped you won't make things better but it's not a simple matter of get over it and move on, which is why a lot of men just decide to not even bother with dating anyomre. They just think why bother trying to be loving and loyal, when 90% of women today change boyfriends like others change underwear.
Relationships are men tries to be as much as good as possible and don't even get to be loved unconditionally while feeling threaten to loose your girl cuz someone tried harder and they're just better than you.
She’s half right. We shouldn’t be angry that ALL of them lied to us about what they want. We should abandon them like they reject us-and replace them with women that value us. Passport bros.
"Now you know what women actually want." Lol. False. Nobody knows. But what I do know is that I don't give a fck what women want. Not anymore. And THAT makes me happy.
Sometimes it takes a very long time to understand this lesson. But this is very true. If your parents were really gentle people, they wont have explained this, they expected you to either just know or learn by experience, which is the painful way.
Yes, I know what women want, but I still don't know why do I want to outsource my happiness to them when I get no benefit being with them compared to being alone.
Oh no, beautiful young convincing woman... I was lied to, I was made to believe I might be worth being a husband and father, and my youth was wasted. I quit. The market has spoken, I am worthless. Goodbye
Rule #1 : Do not be a simp gentlemen
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Thank you Mr Wick
Said the simp
Simping is what jacked up the dating markets.
Rule #-1 : do not even think about dating
Im dropping the anger but not dropping my guard.
You shouldn't drop your guard. Give people the benefit of doubt but keep in mind that they could still disappoint
This bro. 👌
Always have your guard up for sure,
@@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren dude youre not qualified to speak on anything. Youve been whining in every comment here.
@@Mgtowhonesty and who are you to tell me anything
@@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren easy, the man who successfully called you on your bullshit. Youve been in every comment making claims you cant back and now this statement here is you deflecting.
The rage isnt usually toward women specifically.
Its anger at the fact that no one seems to take a moment to tell young boys and men how to actually conduct themselves.
It's anger at being betrayed and taken advantage of with no recourse or sympathy from society at large.
It's anger at being lied to your entire life about what is right and trying to be a good person only for the one person who promised to love and stick with you until death to cheat and fuck you over with no consequence.
But MOST OF ALL it is anger because every where you look you see it happening to everyone else. Everything you hear is a lie to your face telling you that you aren't experiencing what you know you are. Everything you feel is framed as toxic and wrong.
It is a rage that goes so deep you don't know what to do with it. You have nowhere to put it. You have no one to talk to about it. All you can do is accept that it's there now, permanently, and try to work around it.
A 60 second tiktok clip, by a woman especially, (even if she is generally pretty accurate) cannot even begin to scratch the surface of this topic.
This straight up sounds like something a school shooter would say right before they go on a rampage. I think if we paid more attention to this as a society, we could actually solve this gun problem to some extent.
@@PushyMagnet maybe, but only in the sense that it is so widespread that someone who already plans to do that will latch onto it as an excuse.
Hundreds of millions of men experience it every year. Only a few choose to go harm others. And they are almost always at the extreme incel end anyway.
@@JACCO20082012 100% agree, but if this is, in fact, the root of the problem, then fixing these societal issues might just be the recipe we need. For example, we can start with changing divorce law to be more fair, giving men more incentive to marry again. I have so many ideas.
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As a man, it’s always pure comedy to me when I hear a 20-something girl try to tell me about what masculinity is and what a man is.
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Jumped down here to say the exact thing you said. I agree with her script ,but she will never give and lose as much as I have, so she shouldn't have ended with the way she did.
and what is funnier they even try to attach red pill to them somehow,somehow they still think even our masculinity is because of women and again they put it to their attention somehow,men used to lead wars,conquer lands,science,society,buildings,technology all of this was because of men have higher purpose than a woman in life and yet thwy still delusional that we create this red pill because women are first priority in our life,imagine being so stupid they think we struggle from childhood and fight just to set at the end for some chick 😂😂😂
Yeah she started turning her videos into giving men this wisdom that she's gained from:
1. Her 20 something years of life and
2. Having a... wait for it.. BOYFRIEND.
Get back to me Honey, when you've been married 5+ years and learned what maintaining a relationship really requires and means.
In the meantime, you're just a great on the eyes conservative male pipe dream. Go back to lecturing women... that's a better topic for you to harp on.
@@Rhiarion1973 you really have no clue what women have to suffer. Stop making it seem like you're the only one that's hurt
A man worthy of female desire??c’mon now
she's right. Desire's not given unconditionally, for a woman to feel desire towards you as a man, you first need to tick, witt your behavior, a lot of her subconscious masculinity boxes first - THEN she can perceive you as a potential sexual partner. Most women don't really care all that much about handsomeness or sculpted body, they DO CARE, at awful LOT, about self-esteem, socio-economic status, being confident and ambitious, knowing how to handle rejection, not being intimidated by pretty women, etc etc etc
Yes I’m sure 300lbs Becky really does it for you
@@teddyanarchist1162
learn in ur tiny female brain that u pick men based upon shallow, superficial, narcissistic, psychopathic worldviews and we pick mostly based on rational and fair standards. we aren't the same, ur gender is gross and ours is relatively fair
@@JosePineda-cy6omSo they are more expensive hookers?
Women are outearning men in major cities. Women own almost half of all businesses in the US and are more likely then a man to open a business in the US. Women are more likely to attend and graduate from college. Women in heterosexual marriage are outearning their husbands.
What are men doing? Working less then ever, driving the labor shortage. More women have been working in the American labor force then men since 2019. So yes the average man is not worthy of a wife and childern in a society that commodities everyone and thing. But thats called life. Thats basic evolution. Some men will reproduce and create offspring while the weaker bloodlines will die. As they should.
Now I'm old enough that I no longer give a shit about women's hypergamous, conditional love. Chris Rock was right about women and kids being the only ones loved unconditionally.
Now, I do what I want when I want and do what makes me happy and life is peaceful.
This sounds like the MGTOW movement. That's rough man...
@@infiniterer287 why is that? I've had my three kids and a 20 year relationship/marriage now I want peace and happiness.
@@frankhauptle2744 you’ve been there done that
@@infiniterer287 nothing wrong with a mgtow lifestyle (its not a movement)
Not by me knowing how they operate and their true nature there is no love or respect for them at all and those adorable kids grow up to be just as shit as their mothers or as weak and worthless as their sperm donor fathers
Now I know the truth, but now I'm too old to fix the problem. That's the source of most men's rage.
I agree most men think they cannot fix the problem. But I disagree that you’re too old. You’re never too old. Robert Kiyosaki is 76; became red-pill aware a few years ago and is still pushing forward; his wife divorced him and he’s now dating other women.
I’m 53. The past 4-years I’ve spent becoming red-pill aware…and I’m not stopping. “F” that…bruh. You can do anything you put your mind to; as long as you are your first mental point of origin. As long as you draw breath.
Hmm. There are couples having sex daily into their 70s. It is never truly too late to change until you die. If you’re really old, you can even get all crazy into health and aging and try to reverse your age as much as possible, some people are extreme enough to do that. There is always something you can do to improve yourself, and there are always worst moves on the board to make. Go focus on something else that is productive and helpful and the anger might go away.
@@topdog5252 Yes! Like moderate exercise; better yet, free weights and resistance lifting.
Thank you, could not have said it better
Realest comment ever
"Now you know what women want" Yeah, they want everything while simultaneously wanting nothing. And it also depends on day while it doesn't.
How could we know. Even women don't know what they want.
That’s because they have hormones. A whole menstral system to deal with. Imagine having to deal with biological tiredness every single month bro.
Yeah, we'll never find out what they want. They want and don't want at the same time.
Woman are not a hive mind if you want to know what she wants ask her! If she doesn't know, leave her and find a woman that's grown up and knows what she wants. If you are what she wants that's amazing. If she doesnt want who you are don't waste your time with her. Find someone who will approciate you and communicate with her. No one can read minds, we need to learn how to talk abd also everyone will do it differently. It is hard but relationship even when you find the one are tough and need work ALWAYS.
@@TheMIEProjectImagine that men have a list of possible excuses too for shitty behaviour, we’re just better people and to tryna use them since it doesn’t solve shit. 😂😂 Imagine actually having to do the right thing, regardless of how you feel. 😂
My main issue with this whole relationship epidemic if you will, is that many people in general now see generosity and thoughtfulness as an invitation to walk all over their significant other, that’s why so many men are apprehensive because kindness is perceived as weakness now, I don’t want to play a game of trying to get a balance between kindness and what many refer to as “masculinity”
Being a kind generous person isn’t a feminine trait or masculine, it’s simply being a good person to others.
Yeep... God is it tough to navigate both.
But you know if you are kind and are expecting be in a relationship then it is going to be a bumpy ride of emotional turmoil.
And as you grow old you realize that most women in general (probably just like men) are of no substance. If you control your lust and infatuation it all starts to get clear.
Of course there are some men who are angry but the rest of us just refuse to play the game anymore. Men don't need to be a certain way to "deserve" women's love. They'll be much happier alone, buying a hooker whenever that need arises. That's also cheaper in the long run.
Men, don't get angry at women because they don't want to be with a nice guy! If women can't see your worth, it's their loss. Stay true to yourself, and leave those women to become crazy cat ladies.
a hooker is certainly an option, but it´s better to try to have something going on for yourself, have stories to tell, try stuff out, joke around, socialise the way you do with your buddies... just try to enjoy anything life gives you that isnt sex. women are attracted to positivity, and it´s worth it to try to be happy even without the sex reward. plus sex feels way better when you know the other person is actually into you and enjoying the intercourse
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@@thedarkestknight8381 what am I coping with?
I don't understand why people say "cat lady" as an insult. I've seen women decide that by CHOICE not because of no option. What's wrong with having a dog or cats instead of a partner? Is having a partner a measure of success? WILD.😂😂😂
I appreciate her message, but it's impossible to just "get over" 10 years of wasted time you spent doing the wrong things because you were lied to.
And don't recover the house or the money loss in the court.
There's no age limit. Even if you are 60+ you can play the game. Get money, and get growth hormones if you are advised by a doctor before you hit adulthood. Blackpill overemphasizes facial attractiveness but completely misses wealth. They are still stuck on the dual mating strategy thinking it's about looks. Get wealthy and don't get married. If you do get married get a prenup.
stop blaming other people, and take responsibility for yourself
Tbh nobody was lied to, this generation is just exceptionally soft. Nobody told men if they simp they'd get girls, but men nowadays are softer and slimier because these are easy times for most of us, no hunger, no wars etc. However girls biology doesn't understand this, they'll still be hypergamous and they'll still look for status and testosterone. Even girls tell you we want men who take charge and be leaders and men will still talk to them with shivery voices asking them where they wanna eat. When they say be kind, they mean don't be mean, don't hurt people and not let women walk all over you, I feel no sympathy for men, they did all to themselves. You have hordes of simps turning hoes into millionnaires on twitch and onlyfans now as we speak, who lied to these people? Nobody, they're just bound to be simps.
@@kc270352 She literally says in the video that men were lied to our entire lives lmao. He just repeated that.
She's right, women don't want men who don't have control over their own interests, don't let women control you
And I guarantee you most of these hate comments are from “men.” Beta males who are sad and lonely losers.
Yes, nice guys do finish last or never finish at all.
It’s odd you say that, because last time I checked Billi’s boyfriend appears to be a pretty nice guy. The first short She showed him in he had brought her a glass of water while she was sitting on the couch pantless😂
Dont listen to taurus. Nice guys finish best being single and content. Women love opportunistically, its about what you do for them. You forget that, you get used
That last part tho.....
" Or Never Finish at All "
Now that's the kicker right there.
Well done, very well don.
I'm angry at my ancestors, who allowed female suffrage and feminism to happen, and i'm angry at the men who perpetuate this state of affairs.
Men and women are not equal and that also means they are not supposed to have equal duties and rights.
My anger is directed at those who disagree
Women do not love. She said it herself "worthy of female desire". Women want what they want...till something better comes along. This is not love.
Women are the ones who need love. Men need respect above all. Love comes after that. Find God before it’s too late.
men can also come accross something ¨better". that possibility exists for everyone
Maybe this explains why a single parent child is better off with the father than the mother. What she's saying describes what happened with Adam and Eve fairly well. Think about Adam's behavior and Eve's behavior in the Garden of Eden.
They don't love you and it's hard to blame them if you have that kind of f*cked-up mindset.
@@StefanSu91hail Satan
First, women are NOT my opponents. Second, the harm is done and cannot be fixed because I simply refuse to take the slightest chance to ever go through that pain again. Think what you want of me.
You good, you do you homie.
All wounds heal with time man. I've been where you are and it took like 5 years to get over it but I met someone new and so far so good. Idk if it'll last but it does feel good to have that again
You're limiting yourself brother. Every wound can be healed.
Inform yourself about rejection trauma and maybe have a listen to Gabor Maté
@@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren youre really going to every comment here to simp to men who have lived longer and learned more than you. you dont get to call other men brother while you tell these men to ruin their lives.
Just forget them brother you will be judged and called a piece of shit just because you have a dick and balls regardless of what you do or how you act
“A man worthy of female desire” lmaooo…that’s probably the biggest mistake there!!! A female respect or fears a male with a desire that has nothing to do with them…the moment u focus on them, u end up in the friend zone
That hit me wrong too. They still think that they are the prize.
No you don't if you refuse to be put there don't help them don't engage with them at all don't even speak to them unless you have to
@@omnipotentone5628 woman should not be the prize but rather a being to alleviate our needs (i’m talking about hook ups, forget dates)
Not true. If you're in a space where you've become attractive you can show desire. Especially if it is sexual and not too serious.
But a good woman will want someone who is more serious, there just aren't as many today (under 30 anyway) who want that.
women deserve no one but themselves long term. the current crop of females all want rich hot and socially enriched men. there's no way for most men to even find anyone
A great many of us have simply become indifferent. As long as the courts favor, females in family law, and allow injustice towards males, there simply isn’t any point.
Knowing how women operate, how can you respect them? There's no anger, it's just revolting that they conditionally use men.
Up to us to change it.
@Clarence McGlynn how so? Hypergammy- it's in their nature...not really a way to change it. They are always looking for the bigger, better deal.
Y’all need fucking therapy
Well said! Thats the crux of it tbh.
WHY ARE YOU GENERALIZING. NOT EVERY WOMAN IS THE SAME. Holy shit, you guys are out of your mind, you keep going after the same kind of woman and then ask yourself why you're always getting hurt.
This is fantastic! My whole view on part of this presentation changed when a "girl friend" told me this.
"Don't believe for a second that any woman has some mysterious gift she will give you if meet her demands. The truth is to ask this question to a woman: " Just what do you have that I need-besides sex? " This will stop a lot of gas lighting in its tracks."
All the nice guys I've grown up with, are all doing very well for themselves and have quality women in their lives, and all the bad boys I grew up with are still trying to find a loyal woman, and make ends meet. Your focus in life should not be on women, it should be on you, your goals, your health, your career and everything in between, and if you're a nice guy, you'll attract the perfect woman without effort. Let the bad boys have the bad girls, you don't want them anyways.
Bad girl... is just a good girl who got caught.
Yeah i think people are overthinking all of this. Dont be a piece of shit and be someone who you would want to be with and youll be fine, also give people a chance, you’ll probably be suprised
Facts!💯 Great life example and well said👌👏
No that's simply not true. These women are with your so called nice guys due to their success. Women are attracted to competence, success and social status. If these men had no jobs they wouldn't have any girlfriends
Facts, I see that everyday lol. Be good to your woman.
I'm a nice guy. I met a nice girl, and we threw out the stupid man/woman books, and got to know each other. We've been married for 43 years now. Secret: we do housework together, yard work together, and plan and research large purchases, like cars and stoves.
She’s cheating on you. You just don’t know it
@@Justaman24098 We live in a small town. 1700 people. You cant adjust your bra strap with everyone hearing about it.
I get what your saying but that's the 80s things have changed a lot and it's a lot harder for guys to find decent women and vice versa
@@Justaman24098a highly traumatized man right here. You'll be the perfect research subject for my human behavior abnormalities thesis ✅️
@@povyourmad785the problem is the internet my man. Everyone thinks they're God's gift to humanity. Constantly looking at Insta and Tinder thinking the next best person is waiting for you. No one is ready to take a risk getting to know the person in front of them. Inflated egos everywhere. Internet sucks.
Red pill is just _knowing_ the truth, how it is. No need to rage. If anything, stand to the side and watch all of the rage around you
Red pill is just covering your insecurities and thinking all girls are toxic.
We just have the wrong values in this modern world.
Kindness is not weakness if it is accompanied by justice.
Be kind and be just. Love with all your heart, but also call out any bs. Your love life will flourish.
@@dimitrisleo Heck, when you're kind to certain types of women, that's the only thing you'll ever need (provided they are attracted to you of course)
@Ђорђе Добрић Agreed. Generally speaking, if you go for the flashiest types of girls(young, beautiful, revealing clothes), they are usually insecure and corrupted by all the attention they get.
You need wisdom to be able to handle all that attention as a woman, and we are not teaching our girls to be wise. We are teaching them the opposite.
So best bet for a man nowadays, go for a beautiful girl with brains, and try to see how she behaves and dresses. A girl with the correct values will not have the need to go clubbing and wear revealing clothes every weekend.
Of course, as men we need to stop thinking with our penises, and start having old fashioned, masculine values again. Be protective, strong, respectful, good manners, not a slave to our sexuality.
@@dimitrisleo Go for the combination of great looks and personality mixed with admirable intelligence, that's really all the moto people need in life. We are all attracted to something, physically it could be the face and the body but mentality is truly where it counts if people want to avoid abusive relationships and cheaters, but I mean even if she cheats on you, so fucking what, you gonna kill him or her, people should be way more mature and accept the fact something happened and move on with their lives. There are so many beautiful and smart women that getting pissed over one is just not worth it.
@@dimitrisleo
low tier male advice. u get zero women
Dont listen to this girl. If she had wisdom and the right to give advice she would be wearing a ring. It says a lot about her character
Being married or unmarried says something about your personality??? What nonsense is this smh 😒
What ?
How about we “drop the rage” when women take accountability for all the problems they create?
assuming everyone is the same.. or in b&w never works out g.
Word brother!
Don't hold your breath
yikes let’s not talk about men starting wars and domestic violence and rape lol
They aren’t mad because they thought they had to be nice, they’re mad that women want them to be assholes and act like skanks. Women have no idea…still men’s fault for wanting something from a woman.
I feel sorry for her boyfriend.
Because your girl should support you even in bad times.
When we get married, we say in good times and in bad.
But people have destroyed the meaning of marriage, and the vows nowadays are, "I will love you if I get something out of it".
We need to wake up and rethink our values.
She's got those crazy eyes on her don't feel sorry for her boyfriend let him learn the hard way tough love is the only way people learn
Oh now that men are mad at woman for what they’ve become, we’re not allowed? Huh same old stuff!!
I see her audience switch up real fast. If she worships men, you all drool over her and say she is wife material. Then she puts a video like this out and suddenly y'all dislike her and say 💩 like you feel sorry for her man. Y'all only like women when they worship you. You don't care about character or anything else.
Boyfriend's.......Hookups.......Situationships.
With this chick's attitude that [ S ] is VERRY important.
Her body count is probably insane.
Theres 3 people in your analogy. Hero, villian, and antihero that doesnt care what yall do anymore.
As a person who had Red Pill Rage for 2yrs straight - and hurting a lot of Women and Blue Pill Guys - after learning THE TRUTH, I really needed this video. ❤️
"Now you know what women actually want" - I'll only ever start caring about what they want when I see that someone cares about what I want. Part of the red pill rage is to realise that you've been conditioned to believe that your needs and feelings are always secondary to those of women.
My masculinity deters predators
I’m just kind hearted and fall in love really easy T-T I don’t wanna be a dick for a women to live me
Just remove your heart, you'll be fine.
Don't be a dick, be better
Never change man. This red pill philosophy is wrong.
Women, and people in general react to confidence and respect people who have boundaries and know who they are.
If you are kind hearted, be proud of it, put your boundaries(only be with a woman if she is too), and build your life around kindness.
Kind hearted doesn't mean weak. You care about people, you are a kid at heart. These are all very rare traits. You just have to learn to respect yourself more and know your worth.
Red pill gets some things correct, but in general it's wrong.
Most women are not toxic because they are gold diggers. They have been raised wrongly and they have issues.
I am kind hearted like you too. I just feel compassion for all those acting toxic. But I also protect myself from that toxicity.
Don't fall for the men must be heartless trap. Be kind hearted and strong too. It's a fantastic combination.
Not a dick, but have your own interests, prioritize them to an extent, instead of making your partner your everything, putting them on a pedestal and putting yourself second 100% of the time, and only focusing on her and not have a life of your own. Your life, her life, and the life you two have together, that's what you're supposed to have. Do not be a dick, be nice, respectful, but do not take disrespect, have boundaries and value yourself and your own interests as much or more than hers.
@@sudenluola2241
ur still a simp no matter howu try to stir it
Just take care of yourself and don't worry about the bullshit... Women THINK they own the game these days... Nope... They lose the game if you don't play it. Live life on your own terms...Not Theirs.. And without having to deal with all their bullshit, games and drama.. You can definitely be happy and content.. because now you can focus on Making YOURSELF a Better Man... Besides, ALL they Really Want are the Resources that you can offer them... They don't give a Shit About You... .
have you ever had any friends? if so, dd you know women, as fellow humans, can be friends too, and just enjoy your company regardless of sex? also, did you know that if you´re doing something with your life, have interesting stories and are generally a positive and fun person to hang around, they can even get sexually attracted? actually like you'? the more you know...
Real Talk, Very well explained.
@TheAshube9 Been there..Done that...Gave MY ALL !!! And then some..Not just once, But 3 different times...3 Different women.. from 3 Different Places... They ALL had the SAME things in common, which is how I explained it in my 1st reply. Yes, I can be a loving and compassionate man...However, women are on a different Agenda these days and are ONLY out for themselves..and what they can get from men that they can manipulate into giving them what they are after..and when they have drained that man of all he has to offer... They are on to the next...Like Cock-Roaches. Good Women...Yeah, there might be a few good ones left out there, The USERS out number the Good Ones, 10 Fold... but at This Point.. Most men are Better Off just taking care of Themselves... Women have done this... and it's time they learn that not all men are Suckers.
Don't use it for good, as good guys finish last. Embrace the villain arc and exact revenge
Rule#0: Never ask the fish how to fish, ask the fisherman.
Hhhhh do you think human is fish
@@Sukunasenpai-p4n it's a metaphor big brain
I had a conversation with a random girl and the difference is night and day she stright up told me that she could care less about men. She kept saying men aint shit. I was trying to convince her to try to find a husband like myself and all these girls wanna be independent. Even tho deep down i know she doesn't want that. Some people you cant change but us who are red pilled and have families we need to teach our children gender roles and make the world a better place again good humans who follow the LORD. Look to God for answers. This world is getting more and more messed up. Woman taking trash about the men they are with because they dont understand or know how to take care of them to be able for the man to care for them.
i mean all girls are the same. u share way more similarities to her, she just hates them upfront and you hate them too, u just do not say it up front. ur only trying to find a husband after you've likely been used but idk your age. all girls between the ages of 12-25 are basically getting used by several men and it is fundamentally why no women in the west are worth wanting long term. all of you are pretty much programmed to seek better, and it's borderline psychotic bc u all lie about this, whether it is looks, money or status, ur seeking something that ur holes can find its way to attach to. all that talk about god doesn't change the fact you've texted several men and used them for what they provided, it can be as simple as that which makes women unattractive to me and that's why almost all women are low tier in value. as an attractive man, it's gonna be impossible to find a virgin that is good looking, super sweet, doesn't use you for resources, and is genuinely interested in you. this is why the black pill does indeed enrage me bc women only value you for what you give them, which is crazy to me
women talk badly of them men bc they hate that they couldn't get the guy above them in looks/money/status. im sure this is all u chase in men and ur gonna deny it and make it about how god is the most important part of you. embarrassing
If me being a good man makes me finish last then women should change
Why coz you say, indivuality. It means people have different tastes, thoughts, opinions etc, everything. They don't have to change for you sor.
Nothing wrong with attacking the sources of lies that destroy people...
You do realise how unstable that makes you sound, right? Listen, attack all you want, it's your life and if you want to spend it being bitter and vengeful then by all means. No one can stop you. But consider this: What if women did not create the lies, but were fed them instead? Do you really think that this is a war of men vs women? Or is there a real, unseen force that is pitting us against each other? After all, feminism was not created by women. We have been lied to and tricked just as much as men. We need to work together, not against each other.
@TheGreatMorningStar I respectfully disagree. I'm a firm believer that as long as one is alive, it's never too late. But you are entitled to your opinion. I hope that you find hope.
Well put. Nicely stated.
I'm way past that point, I'm in the black pill rage phase
Walk away from your rage, it will do nothing for you.
@@CD-vb9fi nah, made a lot of good music with it. Pain is a motivator, rage is the the motivated. Stay pissed
mad at what, pay for it once a month to a Chinese massage parlor. or every week for that matter. whatever floats your boat. do that and you'll find you don't even want a gf or deal with the dating scene anymore. because your needs will be met and you can focus on kick ass hobbies and work family and friends
@@EthanRadell🙌🙌
I think you haven't quite understood. The major problem for most people who discover the 'red pill' is that once you understand how women really work, you can no longer respect them. You realize that love is never really genuine; it's just a matter of emotions in the moment.
This results in you eventually seeing women as mere sexual objects and nothing more.
doesn't sound like a problem to me. just pay for a massage with a happy ending. cheapest date you'll ever go on
Me changing my attitude won't do a thing to protect me from a court system designed to destroy me if I get married.
Yeah honestly love has become transational now a days. But usually it isn't in your favor. But hey stay conscious and aware to keep yourself safe. It's good to understand how women work.
Wait talking trash on good dudes but yet complain where's the nice guys at the modern female of the west 😂😂
yea that's red pill talk. you're not gonna find a woman that doesn't consider you an atm or sexual object with that attitude.
As a man when you spend so many years on that journey and red pill rage finally happens, you lose the desire to love. This is why so many men have simply given up. We are tired of having to compete for women with little girl entitlement that society coddles. We have peace knowing that we can survive without a woman.
Imagine thinking women love men unconditionally...
Some do. It just so happens that it s s the wrong guy for them and in the worst time :)) but who are we to judge ?
@@tudorm7543no they don't.
And you are going to find that out if you get 8months unemployed...
You must have had a big Breakfast of Blue pills and Soy Milk befor you wrote that love letter Sir White Knight! Cheri O!
@@setaripantheon8801 i said some. For instance those who Have pimp.boyfriends. the woman makes more than guy, most of the time She s his income. Also i was talking about those who keep welcoming back abusive parteners/cheaters invoking love. I don t drink Soy milk , i prefer real dairy. And i don t need blue pills either, hopefully never will. As for all the Red pill, blue pills whatever pill non sense just fuck em and the pills 😹a Man s life shouldn t revolve around keeping a woman in love with him or.doing whatever shit they think men should do.
@@setaripantheon8801Wow. Talk about being a troll.
@@setaripantheon8801 my fiance does. It happens.
Red Pill does have problems, just like any human in this world. I'm tired of being angry. I got to forgive people who hurt me in the past, and let it go. We all need Grace. Thank you, BRB.
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@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Get a life.
Rule # 1 women that dont believe in god wont follow you either unless you act like satan, which is why you are mad at them because they dont chase the righteous but the wicked. Protect yourself by realizing that and finding a woman who follows morals and not desires
Brother they are all fucked. You havent found one either and you won't. They are too far gone
Just because women want a man, just because women find a man attractive, doesn’t mean he’s actually worthy of their attention. There’s a difference. It seems to me women are attracted to strength and the ability to provide, not necessarily to integrity and morality. That’s why I say they can be attracted to him even though he’s not really worthy.
It's not the rage Billie Rae. Rage come and goes. When it's gone what's left is a cold acknowledgement that 'the other side' doesn't care, will not protect you and it will exploit your weaknesses. That our natural urge to provide and protect is the biggest of these weaknesses. That's when we understand it's a futile quest and we switch off.
And believe me, we are teaching young men the new rules!
Very good. Yes I've learned a boatload aftrr a 26 yr marriage and the next one is going to treat me way better.
You’ve learned nothing
@@BobbyHiII I think it was sarcasm and if it wasn't then may his poor soul be at peace.
It's not about how they treat you, it's about how much they respect you for not budging on being yourself as a man
No woman will threat you like a king dude try a shemale maybe caN work
Ah another red pill
No problem, now that i know the truth, i just give up from trying on women.
Authenticity is always better than showing a shell of the man you are.
I took the red pill 5 years ago, I am now 17. I don’t expect anything from a woman, I just know how to behave
If you’re still worried about being “worthy” of a woman, you aren’t there yet.
2'000%!
She must have smoke some pure Disney Princess Fairy dust to say that BS!
My situation, i have been exposed to too many narcissists. So now I have to screen all people, find out the toxic ones and kick them out. There is only one exception, the work place. I cannot pick my coworkers and boss.
Find a niche in the economy where you can be self employed and be your own boss.
@@williamburke9947 at that point, your customers become your boss.
@@edwardcornell1263 that is true but you can drop customers you don’t like. I do fire clearing and permaculture so people are usually very appreciative.
Don’t listen to a woman’s dating advice.
Word!
Wow. So you’d rather be nice pathetic loser than an actual masculine man? Your funeral
Very, very Spot on.
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what did she say that was incorrect?
It’s so sad that in 2023 I have to teach my son that if he treats a woman like a nice guy she will think he is weak and eventually resent him but if he wants women to pursue him endlessly he just needs to treat them like they don’t matter! What a f’d up world we live in.
it's only the west. go to Asia and treat them nice. they will latch onto you so hard. you won't be able to shake her off. I'm talking a lifetime of latching lol that Filipina will scrub your drawers by hand. Now that's love
Im a multi millionaire and now that Im RP, I no longer have a desire to use it for women. Im rich enough to attract a 10 but genuine desire has always been my desire and I dont think thats possible for a woman without the money. I dont want to be loved for my money but the truth is thats what they actually want .
It makes me angry because now I know I will never be loved. And I cant be in love with someone knowing they only love me for money.
You're probably not financially well off so i wouldn't be worried in your case.
@@ilsedemolder3973 case and point, women want money above all else and use men to get it.
@@ilsedemolder3973 but lets say I do become financially well off. I won't want to be surrounded by people who care more about the money I make than for me as an individual. Why would I want to be wealthy to just be surrounded by fake people?.
@@ilsedemolder3973Gag em💋
When I look at these comments, sometimes I think cis hetero men are truly pathetic, the self pity is alarming.
...women...can't live with em, and you can't live with em.
I have a friend that says “Can’t live with em, Can’t shoot em”
So if you want to be worthy of a woman, don't treat her nicely. Treat them like dirt and they'll stick to your shoe
thats right
@@kc270352 It's sad more than anything. "People accept the love they think they deserve"
You will die alone
@@terken8454 🤣
@@terken8454 Lol I'm just teasing. She said don't be nice in the video that's all
Angry? Nah, it's called indifference, ¿why would we have to solve a problem that they started? Deal with the consequences.
Men please focus on your education, health, workouts,swimming, saving and investing money and reading good books. Men please be mindful of your actions, reactions, expressions and what you value. Be a better You every day. Do not seek the validation of others. Stay strong and awesome 🏆
Bro the moment you stop caring about them is the moment they'll start running after you, speaking from experience, treat them like you would any other normal human being instead of putting them on a pedestal and watch them chase you.
And happen to fit their triple 6 rule. Yeah... sorry bud but not everyone can fit that definition by virtue of only one of them being something you actually earn.
Yeah the unfortunate truth is when you stop caring it bites you in the ass.
They don’t run after you. They move on and find another guy.
You stop putting them on a pedestal and start treating them like anybody else. They find another guy that treats them better.
No woman chases a man these days. They chase the things a man provides.
Women believe they are the prize when in reality, the only prize is the connection that ends up turning into a happily ever after marriage.
Wtf are you on about? I was forever alone when I was young and chasing women, and then when I finally gave up and lost interest guess what? They didn't chase me. The only thing women ever wanted from me was foodie calls, and none of them even came around looking for free food after I started ignoring them. If they started chasing you then you were probably doing pretty good with ladies to begin with.
@@grennhald exactly
I stopped caring about people years ago, I don’t have anyone chasing after me, nor do I want people chasing me. F people
Unconditional love is the only love worth having.
I'm afraid only a dog can provide that (if you are a man). For 22 years I had dogs, 3 of them, and they healed my heart. Really. I don't know where would I be without them. But having a woman, even if it's just for a while, even if it's extremely conditioned, even if they broke your heart, it's worthwhile. It's part of life, it's part of being a man, it's part of being a human being.
@@shanaqbaimuru only God can give us inconditional love bro
Exactly. So we should find a godly girl, who has correct values, and understands love is all about giving.
We all get our love from God, and when we are full with it, we can give some to others.
@@Diaz576 You say God I say Dog (same word backwards). I'm a Buddhist and for us there is no God, but I do believe in dogs. Be that as it may, I do respect your beliefs. We can all thrive together. Have a nice day.
That doesn't exist. Except maybe from your parents and family members.
That hero/villain bit was simple, but oh so insightful.
I think it's pearl's qoute...
Ignore the fact that in media, women tend to go nuts for villains even more than heroes
Drop the rage go your own way, don't worry about a womans desire and inbrace your awesome masculinity.
A hero and a villain have the same painful backstory. That’s deep.
Spoken by a girl as an example in Male dating advice...
Let's take that with a Shovel of Salt okay!
Yea I'm just staying single till one of two things happen one I die (which is more likely) or two people start acting like a mature adult
That's pretty dumb, sorry. I get what ypu mean tho, have been there. Not trying = not losing, and if you lost big time before, that feels like a victory. But guess what, not losing is not winning either. If you don't take chances at all, you are never going to win. Pick yourself up brother, and get back in the fight, there are girls deserving of love, you just have to find them.
@silkroad9991 well I'm turning 40 in a few weeks doubt any of the women left are going to be worth the trouble, don't get me wrong if by some miracle a woman shows up and is worth it then I'll put in the work but anything less than that fuck it
@@sethwells1602 That's what I'm saying tho, if a good one is still out there, she doen't put up a billboard, saying she's worth it 😄. For some context, I'm 24, last year, just before proposing, my then gf broke up with me, and as I've foumd out, she was cheating on me for a good 2 months before breaking up. Completelly destroyed my self esteem, and sense of self worth, and I got big into the FnF side of things. I got to working out, but I really distanced myself from women, untill the middle of april. Since then, I've tried my luck multiple times, and I what I've found out, is that the majority of girls are not like the ones on FnF. (I also live in Hungary, not the US, so that could be a major factor, but I don't think it matters that much)
I would still advise to try and meet women, and eventually, you'll find one that's worthwile
@@silkroad9991 maybe but I'm not counting on it
@@sethwells1602 Fair enough.
What I still don't understand is that.... Me, the real me, is kind. I'm a very giving person and I don't seek anything in return. I simply give to just give and I still get betrayed by women in my life.
And thus we conclude?
Those were the wrong women
@@BWater-yq3jx eff them
This comment section need more therapy and less self victimization
Notice how she went from "You are right, all of your fears and theories are 100% true." to "It's all your fault, change yourself, fall in line."?
Crazy right? Don't simp guys. She's not on our side.
Although learning these things can be extremely painful, I’m grateful that I understand them now. There are great girls out there and I am excited to find the one. Thanks for everything you do.
I think Im just gunna stay single👍
You truly can’t be happy with another person til you can be content on your own anyway. People chasing relationships constantly are fundamentally unhappy and it won’t ever be fixed.
honestly, smart idea. only thing women love is the bag.
I think I'm just gonna keep being gay.
@@philoby_angry_cat9840 club rainbow people always want to insert themselves into dating paradigms you have nothing to do with. 😒😑😔
@@philoby_angry_cat9840nice of you editing to it being a choice tho! 👍
Funny, maybe I am just too old... But I want NOTHING to do with them. I love your Schtick. I think the younger men out there REALLY need to hear this. I wish I knew this growing up.
Now... I'd rather start my day with a good cup of coffee...
You cannot love and understand women.
If you love them, you do not understand them.
If you understand them, you can't love them.
True
Spot on man👌🏻
I love and understand them. You're unable to think of their perspective and don't inform yourself about how women think and feel.
Understanding is love
@@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren take the redpill
@@dominikk4841 i don't need the red pill I know how reality works
Thank you I'm not sure that you understand how much I needed to hear that from someone I'm 17 male and had trouble with every girl I dated since I was 15
This is one RUclipsr I can really get on board with! I appreciate the way she views things, I see things the same way. Whether you are male or female, you need to accept responsibility in where you find yourself in life, stop playing the victim and now that you know better, cut ties with toxic, make better choices and put yourself first. And I like that she added the bit about helping the next generation🙏❤️ yes, that is so undoubtedly important
Why do men care so much about what women think anyway? I've stopped caring about trying to be a certain way for other people. I'm a nice guy and happy with it! Am I " overly-nice"? I don't think so, but then, maybe I am. I'm certainly not going to change my personality to please others.
( And, yes, I did care enough to comment! 😂 )
Oh, we do get over it. We learn from mistakes. BUT, here's the rub: why would we want to be desirable to a group who has proven itself as toxic and unworthy of trust or respect?
Pure wisdom!
Women don't desire me anyway. I'm told to be myself. If being yourself alienates people, what can you do?
Fuck em. Put them down at every attempt. Stay pissed
Just remember, defend yourself the same way they attacked you.
Alternatively just don't bother; stay single - you'll be wealthier, less stressed and, in the end, much happier overall. Seriously, the vast majority of women are just not worth it.
Not 'drop the anger', 'drop the anchor'.
Im not angry at women using the system to their advantage. I'm mad at the system...or more accurately, the people who refuse to correct the problems with the system.
"Now you know how to be a man worthy of female desire."
Why would I want that ? What do I get from it, other than headaches and drama ?
Sad life experiences you’ve had. Find God.
@@StefanSu91 Can you answer the questions I posed ?
What benefits does a man get in a relationship?
@@bastairteile Yes, I'll try. For one, companionship. I don't know how old you are, but I assume you're young. 20s maybe 30s. You might think you don't need that, but it will most likely hit you when you get older. Two, a family. Only a woman will provide you with children. A woman will give you respect and admiration, which we men crave. The source of your frustrations are most likely due to not feeling appreciated. A good woman will give you that.
Family and children will give you a sense of purpose. When I had my first son, my life changed. I stopped living for myself (an empty life), and started living for them. This gives you a WHOLE new sense of what life is about. Us men need helpers in life and women give us just that. I recently became a Christian (don't write this off), when we hit rock bottom in our relationship. I realized we are all flawed, and that we need guidance in life. The bible gave me those answers. Literally every problem I had was explained in the Bible. When I followed it, things started to fall into place. I still struggle with believing in miracles and all that 'supernatural' stuff that's in the Bible, but the teachings are what got me to believe.
Men are supposed to lead the family. Women are a bag of emotions, but that's not a bad thing. They are the best nurturers, and we need them for our children. Trust me, if I was alone with children, they'd be neglected. I just don't have that drive of teaching, understanding, and loving babies as much as my wife. Now, since men are to lead, we need to take responsibility for EVERYTHING! Even when we don't feel like it. Any woman will respect you once you assume that responsibility. Once kids get older, men are to teach them the tough aspects of life, values, and ethics. Both men and women have roles in a family, and they come by nature. Going against this nature will frustrate you and anyone else.
When I married my wife, she was your typical modern woman and I was clueless. But I assure you, if you lead with love, you'll change her. We still struggle, but marriage is a long game. It takes literal decades. When you see old couples, realize they went through massive issues, but they stuck with each other, and finally decades later understood what they had to do in order to coexist as a family. It comes with time. This generation wants everything NOW and it will not happen like that.
You must see yourself as who comes next after your girl's father. It's no longer her father's job to lead, but yours. Don't see her as your equal but not as your inferior either. See her as someone who deserves and wants to be loved, and she'll return that to you in the form of respect and a home maker. Remember, YOU are the leader, she falls with you in whichever way you lead. If you are a bad leader, she will be a bad wife. It's just something you have to come to the realization of. Don't go against it.
I'm sure there are many more that I'm not thinking about, but I hope you find the answers you are looking for. And I would suggest you start with a pastor. After many marriage counselors, the one that helped us was a Pastor. And it's free.
Chinese massage parlors. you won't want a gf anymore. more time for hobbies family friends and work. you're welcome
@@StefanSu91 You make a few assumptions about me, not sure why.
I have a daughter in her early 20s, I know what being a father is like.
I also know what it's like being in a relationship - I've had 4 mid to long term ones.
Congratulations on converting your modern woman, I have zero faith in any of the rest of them. If they won't even listen to what I say without interruption, I'm not going to attempt to save them. Let them embrace their own long term misery. I can be content alone.
Companionship - most women can't provide this. They choose to bring headaches and drama instead.
Family - I accept they CAN give you this, but at what cost? Do you know the divorce rates and the rate at which Father's win custody?
Respect - given that women think the "men are trash" phrase is an acceptable thing to say out loud and write on social media, you're going to have to work very hard to convince modern 304s to respect you. Most don't even know how to do that.
Admiration - this is downstream from respect, so forget it.
Modern women are incapable of fulfilling their natural roles - they're the worst, most entitled, generation of women that has ever existed. They baulk at the suggestion they should take care of their own children.
if you are reading this, please look up “chris rock unconditional love”. truer words have never been spoken
"A hero and a villain have the same painful backstory." Good line there!
Simple fix, stay single. Good luck ladies, you caused it.
Lol it’s too late for most of these guys. That’s where their rage is. Wasted time, wasted money they’ve spent their lives being used.
My “red pill” moment certainly made me angry, but it was an anger not just for myself but a generation of young men who have been lied to.
After years of indoctrination at school, I truly believed that displaying any masculine traits - ambition, competitiveness, taking the lead, showing grit and stoicism - was “toxic”. I believed that I had to suppress that side of me to make way for women because “The Future is Female.” And I became the ultimate people-pleasing nice guy.
Not anymore. Since taking the breaks off and embracing my masculinity, my success with women has gone through the roof. Not only that, but people in general treat me with more respect and I feel so much happier in my life.
Billy Rae is a fucking hero and we need a lot more voices like her.
A generation? More like a half century
Yeah moving on and being cool about it is what landed most guys in "red pill rage". I agree that taking it out on the girl that dumped you won't make things better but it's not a simple matter of get over it and move on, which is why a lot of men just decide to not even bother with dating anyomre. They just think why bother trying to be loving and loyal, when 90% of women today change boyfriends like others change underwear.
1. Don’t be a simp
2. Villain arc
3. Make immense progress
4. I have no enemies
Relationships are men tries to be as much as good as possible and don't even get to be loved unconditionally while feeling threaten to loose your girl cuz someone tried harder and they're just better than you.
"Now you know what women want"
lol
No, we don't. Women don't even know what they want.
Another option is realizing that women are just not worth the trouble.
Yes men too
@@Sukunasenpai-p4nwhat trouble do you have? Other than being provided for everything in a platter?
She’s half right. We shouldn’t be angry that ALL of them lied to us about what they want. We should abandon them like they reject us-and replace them with women that value us.
Passport bros.
Keep the anger. Don’t use it to attack the other side. Just keep enough of it to give you the walk away power.
I just use my anger to beat the shit out of the women that reject me
"Now you know what women actually want."
Lol. False. Nobody knows. But what I do know is that I don't give a fck what women want. Not anymore. And THAT makes me happy.
Sometimes it takes a very long time to understand this lesson. But this is very true. If your parents were really gentle people, they wont have explained this, they expected you to either just know or learn by experience, which is the painful way.
Yes, I know what women want, but I still don't know why do I want to outsource my happiness to them when I get no benefit being with them compared to being alone.
Let's be clear fellas, there's a big difference between nice guys and good men.
Oh no, beautiful young convincing woman... I was lied to, I was made to believe I might be worth being a husband and father, and my youth was wasted. I quit. The market has spoken, I am worthless. Goodbye
That was a great meaningful thought at the end. I really needed it.