You spoke my thoughts here on the matter. I hope your video helps a lot of people with this addiction. Good for you that you chose another way in your life, a fulfilling one! Take care!
no matter how hard i try not to watch it, i always go back. When I do I convince myself that its okay to watch as long as the women in the videos dont look unconsenting distressed or in pain. afterwards i felt disgusted and heavily disappointed in myself and strong guilt. Ive been watching it since i was a young teenager - back then i wasn't aware how harmful it was to the actresses in the videos and i thought i could handle the graphic content. I keep giving in because ill have a fantasy in my head that I want to see and hear. The sexual frustration increases without auditory stimulation and at that moment i push away the mental protests. I gave in minutes ago and when i watched it I didnt feel as strongly aroused as I had before, maybe its because of desensitization to normal "vanilla" sex, im hoping its because my brain is turned off by the likely possibility that the actresses are being violated because they have sex on camera for money not out of personal desire. I dont want to live and think like this, its not me and i never want it to be. I dont want to feel temptation to watch it!! I want to make a full recovery from porn! HELP ME!!!!
behind every addiction is a wrong belief, a fear or a unfulfilled need. it can be really hard to find the true cause behind an addiction, because they may be buried in our subconscious so deeply. if you can't get yourself of porn i would strongly recommend you to get professional help. that is totally ok, no one has to feel shame or guilt for taking help from others.we are all here to help one another! just recently i was at a wingwave (comes out of edmr) coaching, which threats trauma and fears really effectively. i went there because i had the intense fear of failing, which led to premature ejaculation, from which i suffered greatly. of course you can do any other therapy that you find helpful. i would simply suggest you to focus on your beliefs, fears and traumas that lead to the addiction, and not focus on the addiction itself for it is only a symptom of a deeper problem. i know the feeling of disgust towards oneself, as you describe it and it is one of the ugliest feelings to ever experience. you don't deserve to feel like this no matter what you did. you are worthy of healing! i send you strength and willpower! much love to you!
try this: read as much as you can about what porn does to you, to your sexuality and to your health. also read about or listen to what people who stopped watching porn has to say about this addiction and what helped them. there is a app (called brainbuddy - stop porn addiction ) which i found to be very useful. find something that motivates you to stop watching porn (for me this was be freer, have more energy, clearer skin, be happier, to feel love) and remind yourself of this goal, whenever you feel the urge to watch porn. find something to distract you (going into nature is really great, going for walks, or being creative). you can do this! and it will be so much worth the struggle! much love brother!
Sam Young thx man I hope u have really love life I stopped watching it and I think I'm quitting it but for you I will read and instal brain buddy thanks so much
"When you guys watch videos of naked women" Thats sexistic af. U mean that women don't watch porn...? The fact that u just took for granted that this is "something most only men do" is tragic.
i can only talk from my experience, and i don't know any woman that watches porn. I also only know about the effects porn has on the male brain, so this is why i explain it from this point of view. i didn't want to offend you and keep in mind that everything i can say is only an opinion. if it's not your opinion it's not your truth. much love
You spoke my thoughts here on the matter. I hope your video helps a lot of people with this addiction. Good for you that you chose another way in your life, a fulfilling one! Take care!
Great video, thanks for speaking on this topic!
Thank you so much for your honesty and vulnerability🤗😇 god bless you
no matter how hard i try not to watch it, i always go back. When I do I convince myself that its okay to watch as long as the women in the videos dont look unconsenting distressed or in pain. afterwards i felt disgusted and heavily disappointed in myself and strong guilt. Ive been watching it since i was a young teenager - back then i wasn't aware how harmful it was to the actresses in the videos and i thought i could handle the graphic content. I keep giving in because ill have a fantasy in my head that I want to see and hear. The sexual frustration increases without auditory stimulation and at that moment i push away the mental protests. I gave in minutes ago and when i watched it I didnt feel as strongly aroused as I had before, maybe its because of desensitization to normal "vanilla" sex, im hoping its because my brain is turned off by the likely possibility that the actresses are being violated because they have sex on camera for money not out of personal desire. I dont want to live and think like this, its not me and i never want it to be. I dont want to feel temptation to watch it!! I want to make a full recovery from porn! HELP ME!!!!
behind every addiction is a wrong belief, a fear or a unfulfilled need. it can be really hard to find the true cause behind an addiction, because they may be buried in our subconscious so deeply. if you can't get yourself of porn i would strongly recommend you to get professional help. that is totally ok, no one has to feel shame or guilt for taking help from others.we are all here to help one another! just recently i was at a wingwave (comes out of edmr) coaching, which threats trauma and fears really effectively. i went there because i had the intense fear of failing, which led to premature ejaculation, from which i suffered greatly. of course you can do any other therapy that you find helpful. i would simply suggest you to focus on your beliefs, fears and traumas that lead to the addiction, and not focus on the addiction itself for it is only a symptom of a deeper problem.
i know the feeling of disgust towards oneself, as you describe it and it is one of the ugliest feelings to ever experience. you don't deserve to feel like this no matter what you did. you are worthy of healing! i send you strength and willpower! much love to you!
Had you recovered?
I would suggest to watch MASTER OF EARTH, it helped me to start getting a grasp.
very interesting and brave ..thanks
I need help I can't stop watching it!!!!!!!!!!!
try this: read as much as you can about what porn does to you, to your sexuality and to your health. also read about or listen to what people who stopped watching porn has to say about this addiction and what helped them. there is a app (called brainbuddy - stop porn addiction ) which i found to be very useful. find something that motivates you to stop watching porn (for me this was be freer, have more energy, clearer skin, be happier, to feel love) and remind yourself of this goal, whenever you feel the urge to watch porn. find something to distract you (going into nature is really great, going for walks, or being creative). you can do this! and it will be so much worth the struggle! much love brother!
Sam Young thx man I hope u have really love life I stopped watching it and I think I'm quitting it but for you I will read and instal brain buddy thanks so much
you're amazing!
Sam Young no prob I subbed to you tho have good day!
Sam Young well, I have porn and ejaculation addiction
"When you guys watch videos of naked women"
Thats sexistic af. U mean that women don't watch porn...? The fact that u just took for granted that this is "something most only men do" is tragic.
i can only talk from my experience, and i don't know any woman that watches porn. I also only know about the effects porn has on the male brain, so this is why i explain it from this point of view. i didn't want to offend you and keep in mind that everything i can say is only an opinion. if it's not your opinion it's not your truth. much love
Lina Andersson name me one guy you know that has never watched porn
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