This kid was forced to be mature at that young age, kind of sad… kids should be kids and enjoy their stress free time. Teach your kids at young age to not talk bad about other people, and kids like him won’t have to mature at that age
@@truehappiness4U You can't control how other people's kids act, but you can teach yours to be resilient. It's like the mom said, you've gotta focus on what you can control and forget what you can't. I wish I had learned that lesson at his age.
@@dimasreidz48 Nah bro she is a real person. Infact one of the best con artists in history. Her 'prank' is still going on to this time thanks to how it makes it easy for 'them' to control people.
I really love the way his mother gave him her full attention when he told how was his day. She is really supportive. Thank you for teaching me that too
@@hb1949 We will never know the intention for the recording. Who knows if the mother is just like your usual nowadays mothers out there who like to take a video of their kids helping in kitchen and upload it on social media with caption like "my kid helped me with dinner" or something but suddenly her kid told her his problem? But then, who knows if she really scripted this conversation? All i can say, take what can be learned, leave what is unnecessary. After all, if we can learn something from that, it is not a bad thing, at least in my opinion.
The scary thing about bullying is the possible collateral damage it can cause. There's no system to help the victims. One of the worst things that can happen is that the bully comes from a rich family and they get away scot-free. Another bad thing is when the principal downplays the severity of the bullying, saying "They're just kids!!", even though the injuries are obvious. This is what happens in 'all of us are dead', the virus was created by a teacher whose son was bullied, and the principal was like "Come on, they're just kids playing". When the teacher refused to accept that choice, the principal threatened to fire him
Adults that said "they are just kids" never went through bullying. Kids unlike adults don't have boundaries & don't think about things before doing them, this can end up in serious fights. Sometimes these fights end up in the hospital.
Yeah I agree, I don't like that the mother was teaching her son that, that's not a way to treat bullying at all, bullying is NOT to be taken light hearted at all
@@joshuabuchanan1141 you don't know if the mother went to the principal to talk about the problem. Neither if she went to talk to the parents. This doesn't look like a kid being bullyed every single day but like one who received one bad comment once. And I was bullied one year but it is more important to know how not to be reached by the bad words. The bully attacks the person they know is the weakest (maybe just because is the kindest). If I were the mother, and there was a kid who bullies my son, I would go to the school to talk to the teacher and to the parents. But if it didn't work, I would go to pay another big kid to keep my son safe from the other (so things would still be between kids).
Yeah, but instead of “can you control it?”, she should really say “does that depend on you?” That’s widely used technique in therapy, people come thinking the orhers are the cause of their problem, then are made to understand that the only variable they can play if is their own behavior and feelings.
@@zhouzen5172 No, it's EQ, Emotional Quotient/Emotional Intelligence. People can be intelligent but emotionally stunted. Knowledge, wisdom, insight. Some people only have knowledge but not wisdom or insight.
wow! what a wise mom! i would expect something like ignore the haters but she explained it so well and not putting blame on the other kid - people just have different opinions.
THIS! All mothers should use her as an example on how to educate and raise their children. Things you learn at that age will have a HUGE impact on what kind of person you'll become in the future.
Wow, the kid is very mature and what an amazing Mom. She didn't hesitate at all. She knew exactly what to say to make him understand the situation and how best to deal with it
Mom could be sad too but she step back and think further. I really love the interaction and the kid seems pretty calm and polite. Hope we all could learn a thing or two💙
At 26, I still need to be reminded of this. It's so hard when you've done your absolute best, but things can still go wrong. But as she said, there's no point in dwelling over something we can't control. Let's be kinder to ourselves❤
I don't know why bullying isn't taken as seriously as it should be. It leaves a trauma.. scars that do not heal over time. It is a crime against one's self respect and dignity. I hope authorities worldwide start to take serious measures against it
Oh I'm crying. Ur a better mom. I just tell my boys, be nice coz bullied kids tend to target bullies in sch shootings. I need u alive so being kind could save yo life
This an exemple of How much language does engage! Great job of Chinese wisdom, inspiring spiritual values for the Peace that the world badly needs. Xie xie.
Mother gave the perfect scenario.. Not to feel bad because other person underestimate us but on the other side doesn't force other people to have the same opinion as us. 🙌🙌
Mum used a great analogy to teach her son about people with differing opinions, likes and dislikes. It was something he could relate to and easy to understand. Well done Mum. Her son is a smart, adorable and receptive young boy. She and her husband have done a great job raising their son.
Too bad we live in a world having to learn these lessons because bullies aren't punished for their bad ways. It puts it all on the victims to be the better person and build character. Very unfair.
Is unfair, but it is our responsibility to take care of us. Otherwise, most people will take advantage from your situation. It is sad. And I used to think that those persons who took advantage of other were "bad" as I don't do that, at least not at a conscious level. But the truth is that by calling them "bad" I don't resolve the problem. One herself has to be strong enough to keep oneself safe, and then to protect others.
Ignoring the bully is just step one. The next steps will be to ensure we excel despite their tactics and possibly defeat them (mostly). The later steps require courage, skill, manipulation and other complex qualities. But step 1 is foundational and most important.
What's wrong with being the better person and building character? The world is a mess, and until humans evolve consciously it will remain that way. Those who can, should work on being better examples. Adverse behaviour including bullying comes from immaturity that is unrelated to age. Society is still juvenile, so the more people can handle life with grace, the more the world will turn into a better place for all.
It can be beneficial to learn from challenging experiences and emerge as a mentally stronger person. However, it is also important to hold bullies accountable for their actions, as their behavior can have severe consequences. When a child experiences bullying, they may carry the hurt and anger with them, and if left unaddressed, it could escalate to a point where the child takes matters into their own hands, leading to fatal outcomes.
This little boy is going to be just fine as he is going to grow up with incredible wisdom handed down to him from an intelligent, devoted, and loving Mother who has taught him the greatest lesson he will ever learn in life. This boy truly has one amazing Mother. Absolutely loved this story! SCMP never disappoints as their stories are the absolute best!👍🏻❤️😍
Reminds me if my mum. She raised me by herself bring a single parent, so it was a bit tough at times. But there’s really nothing more valuable than wisdom. My mum used to teach me things in a similar way. But I hope she also teaches him how to stand up for himself and his loved ones. Balance in raising a child is necessary. I wish them well 🩶
wow this is amazing it will really help her kid in the future too and I love how she is able to validate his feelings and able to offer a solution that he is able to understand. this is so beautiful I hope that more parents can be like this to their children.
The fact that the mother knew that her son will share the teasing incident with her (and had prepared the camera and spinach to be cut) goes to prove the rapport that has been established between the both of them.
This is what I taught my kids too.. That in life, not everyone we encounter is going to be a friend.. There will be some people who likes us, and some people that don't. And that is perfectly ok because we can then nurture and focus on the relationships that matters.
Bullies will never go away but we must always find healthy ways of dealing with them. This mother is teaching her son that we shouldn’t let others people’s words destroy our souls.
There is lots of bullying in schools today and teachers can't often stop it because it's done when they are not looking. This little boy is very smart the way he is listening to his mom. Beautiful family!
That's a nice mom. I was never bullied before, but I got onto one or two fights when I was younger, mostly with my best friend at the time lol. My father taught me to just defend myself if things got physical, thankfully, it never really got to that point, even when it did, I made friends, I miss those times
Great lesson on how to deal with negative comments. But I wouldn't call that bullying. 4 year olds say wicked things and at age 4 his classmate who criticized his painting might not have intended to make him feel bad - he just didn't know any better. There will be many instances when people would not say positive and encouraging things about our work.
As a mom I teach my children not to be a bully, and I teach them also that if the bully hurt you physically then nothing's wrong to defend yourself. As long as you are not the one creating the fight first then defend yourself.
It takes one to teach and it takes another to listen.
And how a normal Convo is recorded and went to a news channel of China sure😅😅
Come up with that by yourself 🤡
If she keeps at it, she'll never have to do another chore herself.
What do you do with spnich?
If taught well, it is easy to hear.
Whoa, this kid seems so pensive and mature for his age, and obvious to see his mother has a clear influence.
We need more of these kinds of mothers who need to teach some ppl out there
This kid was forced to be mature at that young age, kind of sad… kids should be kids and enjoy their stress free time. Teach your kids at young age to not talk bad about other people, and kids like him won’t have to mature at that age
@@truehappiness4U I'd take a kid as mature as him anytime than an adult who acts like a child whenever they don't get what they want
@@truehappiness4U You can't control how other people's kids act, but you can teach yours to be resilient. It's like the mom said, you've gotta focus on what you can control and forget what you can't. I wish I had learned that lesson at his age.
@@cyan-ida4206 well said!!
Now that is great parenting right there, actually taking the time to teach your child.
Yes, ignore bullying and oppression, let the CCP control you because you can't control them
Great indoctrination being passed down through families
@Bussiness Name he’s in kindergarten what do u expect and what she means by “leaving it alone” is not taking the words to heart
@@bussinessname7717 some forms of bullying could be ignored....not all as obvious
@Bussiness Name Wow, what a way to twist my words. 🤣🤣
yea, taking time to hit the record and reenact the whole thing again and post it, no wonder the kid is ignoring the mom. Superb parenting.
That kid being 2 years old, (by how he cuts that spinach) has helped his mom in the kitchen more than I did in my entire life
The kid is 4 not 2
I thought I was the only one...😳
Since little I have been kitchen-phobic, and now that I'm older, the heat and choping hurts my hands😮.
In what world do you live is that kid a 2 year old to you? I have 2 nephews and 1 niece, that kid's not 2.
That's sad. You should have helped more
@@catrocastre8215 nah, excuses.
I want a mother like her.
Mother Mary is yours to behold ❤ and share. Bless you.
@@FFact483 she is as real as goku
@@dimasreidz48 I laughed too hard at this
@@dimasreidz48 Nah bro she is a real person. Infact one of the best con artists in history. Her 'prank' is still going on to this time thanks to how it makes it easy for 'them' to control people.
@@deleted_account_0530 Yeah that never worked for me.
I really love the way his mother gave him her full attention when he told how was his day. She is really supportive. Thank you for teaching me that too
Convenient there was a camera recording their conversation. Is this normal in China these days?
@@hb1949 We will never know the intention for the recording. Who knows if the mother is just like your usual nowadays mothers out there who like to take a video of their kids helping in kitchen and upload it on social media with caption like "my kid helped me with dinner" or something but suddenly her kid told her his problem? But then, who knows if she really scripted this conversation? All i can say, take what can be learned, leave what is unnecessary. After all, if we can learn something from that, it is not a bad thing, at least in my opinion.
That's such a sweet smart mom!
Not only that hot aswell 🥰🥰🥰
The scary thing about bullying is the possible collateral damage it can cause. There's no system to help the victims. One of the worst things that can happen is that the bully comes from a rich family and they get away scot-free. Another bad thing is when the principal downplays the severity of the bullying, saying "They're just kids!!", even though the injuries are obvious. This is what happens in 'all of us are dead', the virus was created by a teacher whose son was bullied, and the principal was like "Come on, they're just kids playing". When the teacher refused to accept that choice, the principal threatened to fire him
Otherwise known as "life is unfair and that people will be treated based on their wealth and background" every child needs to learn this.
Adults that said "they are just kids" never went through bullying. Kids unlike adults don't have boundaries & don't think about things before doing them, this can end up in serious fights. Sometimes these fights end up in the hospital.
Hence this video
Yeah I agree, I don't like that the mother was teaching her son that, that's not a way to treat bullying at all, bullying is NOT to be taken light hearted at all
@@joshuabuchanan1141 you don't know if the mother went to the principal to talk about the problem. Neither if she went to talk to the parents. This doesn't look like a kid being bullyed every single day but like one who received one bad comment once. And I was bullied one year but it is more important to know how not to be reached by the bad words. The bully attacks the person they know is the weakest (maybe just because is the kindest). If I were the mother, and there was a kid who bullies my son, I would go to the school to talk to the teacher and to the parents. But if it didn't work, I would go to pay another big kid to keep my son safe from the other (so things would still be between kids).
“What should we do about things we can’t control?”
“LEAF it as it is.”
😂 oh my gold
#dadjokes
Basically all of the video into this sentence
ok dad, it's time to LEAVE
So funny ha ha
We don’t respect bullies we just learn children fight back the same of them for defense themselves
She’s so focused on him, it’s lovely to see. She’s a great mother.
Not only her son, but me too learn from the mother...
Awesome 👍🏻
Ignore things we can't control... One of the best line for living life happily👍
Yeah, but instead of “can you control it?”, she should really say “does that depend on you?”
That’s widely used technique in therapy, people come thinking the orhers are the cause of their problem, then are made to understand that the only variable they can play if is their own behavior and feelings.
High EQ mom. I wish education teach this.
IQ
@@zhouzen5172 No, it's EQ, Emotional Quotient/Emotional Intelligence.
People can be intelligent but emotionally stunted.
Knowledge, wisdom, insight. Some people only have knowledge but not wisdom or insight.
@@user-ko6op6tw9m audio ppl 😎
I'm really impressed with how the kid is helping his mother chop vegetables while listening to her!
An example to every parent. Your children want to be heard, always.
The fact the kid is cutting spinach like a pro at this age 😱 this mum!
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His not a western kid so what do you expect.
wow! what a wise mom! i would expect something like ignore the haters but she explained it so well and not putting blame on the other kid - people just have different opinions.
exactly! what a great explanation
I love how the mother always keep her head lower to match her son when talking, very inspiring mom
I learned this when I was over 48 years old from reading a stoicism book. What a wisdom the mom has and how lucky the kid is!
What a lesson not only for her son, but to all of us as well. Well done Mom!!!🙏🏼
THIS! All mothers should use her as an example on how to educate and raise their children.
Things you learn at that age will have a HUGE impact on what kind of person you'll become in the future.
Wish someone vould talk to me like this during my growing age.
Never too late for you to share it to your next generation.
Wow, the kid is very mature and what an amazing Mom. She didn't hesitate at all. She knew exactly what to say to make him understand the situation and how best to deal with it
Thank u,dearest mother!!!!
Kid who rely to his mother for his problem, and the mother who guide her child with care and patience.
💯 parenting done right.
Mother teaches his son how to properly cope, how beautiful ☺️
This is so cute! That little boy is lucky to have such a wonderful woman as his mother.
Mom could be sad too but she step back and think further. I really love the interaction and the kid seems pretty calm and polite. Hope we all could learn a thing or two💙
This is the kind of teaching the western kids need now
yes i 100% agree
Exactly 💯
Theyre too busy figuring out what their gender is 😂. Tjey can't be bothered with such nonsense
@@me-fv5xb Is that why the CCP put out an education drive to counter the problem with the preponderance of 'girly men' on the mainland back in 2021?
@@PopulismIsForBottomFeeders oh no, not the ccp 😂
I want to call her mom out of tremendous respect. Being a mother is very hard. She is doing a phenomenal job. ❤
Very encouraging words for a child set by examples. Wonderful mom.
At 26, I still need to be reminded of this. It's so hard when you've done your absolute best, but things can still go wrong. But as she said, there's no point in dwelling over something we can't control. Let's be kinder to ourselves❤
Did anyone notice he is doing house chores... wow... at that age... superb
Kudos to the mom and son
all kids deserve such mom
I don't know why bullying isn't taken as seriously as it should be. It leaves a trauma.. scars that do not heal over time. It is a crime against one's self respect and dignity. I hope authorities worldwide start to take serious measures against it
What an intelligent mother and very rational outlook to look at things.
That is freedom of speech. Kid
If they take your drawing and tear it, that is bullying.
Oh I'm crying. Ur a better mom. I just tell my boys, be nice coz bullied kids tend to target bullies in sch shootings. I need u alive so being kind could save yo life
Those are just words to a child. But he'll understand her efforts, the interaction, and the love.
This an exemple of How much language does engage! Great job of Chinese wisdom, inspiring spiritual values for the Peace that the world badly needs. Xie xie.
Mother gave the perfect scenario..
Not to feel bad because other person underestimate us but on the other side doesn't force other people to have the same opinion as us.
🙌🙌
Every child needs a loving mother with beautiful advice.
I don't even have words for this. Congratulations, mama 🙏
This was so cute! She is very intelligent and he is a little angel!
Respect his mother ; I like her son, very mature.
I think she deserves an award as mother of the year.
Her son should be proud having brilliant mother like her
Pft, my 4 year old self wouldn't have understood anything about that metaphor. 😂 He has such great mama!
Mum used a great analogy to teach her son about people with differing opinions, likes and dislikes. It was something he could relate to and easy to understand.
Well done Mum. Her son is a smart, adorable and receptive young boy. She and her husband have done a great job raising their son.
I forgot where I read this, but this has been my mantra: I'm not money, there are people who are going to dislike me 😂
ahahahah that's actually insightful
O...this is an awesome mantra 👍🏻
Chinese has this saying. You can't force everyone to like you, you're not money
What a patient mother. If me, i will bring my son to karate class.
Too bad we live in a world having to learn these lessons because bullies aren't punished for their bad ways. It puts it all on the victims to be the better person and build character. Very unfair.
Is unfair, but it is our responsibility to take care of us. Otherwise, most people will take advantage from your situation. It is sad. And I used to think that those persons who took advantage of other were "bad" as I don't do that, at least not at a conscious level. But the truth is that by calling them "bad" I don't resolve the problem. One herself has to be strong enough to keep oneself safe, and then to protect others.
Ignoring the bully is just step one.
The next steps will be to ensure we excel despite their tactics and possibly defeat them (mostly). The later steps require courage, skill, manipulation and other complex qualities. But step 1 is foundational and most important.
What's wrong with being the better person and building character? The world is a mess, and until humans evolve consciously it will remain that way. Those who can, should work on being better examples.
Adverse behaviour including bullying comes from immaturity that is unrelated to age. Society is still juvenile, so the more people can handle life with grace, the more the world will turn into a better place for all.
It can be beneficial to learn from challenging experiences and emerge as a mentally stronger person. However, it is also important to hold bullies accountable for their actions, as their behavior can have severe consequences. When a child experiences bullying, they may carry the hurt and anger with them, and if left unaddressed, it could escalate to a point where the child takes matters into their own hands, leading to fatal outcomes.
Every parent must take time to advise like that. I am impressed.
I hope I had a mother like her.
Great mum and lovely son. We need more of this ❤
To not worry about things out of our control; what a profound piece of advice not only for the kid but for all of us.
Children aren’t the only ones who needs to listen to this conversation.
parents should always be the guiding light to their children... to a child, their parents are their world
My late mother also taught me several lessons on this life. I miss her.
Kudos for the mother. To the kid, I wish you well. Being bullied may not just hurt physically but also mentally. I hope it won't take a toll on him.
What a beautiful way she taught her son... It helped me as welll
That's great parenting! Bravo to the mother!
Her voice sounds calming
This little boy is going to be just fine as he is going to grow up with incredible wisdom handed down to him from an intelligent, devoted, and loving Mother who has taught him the greatest lesson he will ever learn in life. This boy truly has one amazing Mother. Absolutely loved this story! SCMP never disappoints as their stories are the absolute best!👍🏻❤️😍
Reminds me if my mum.
She raised me by herself bring a single parent, so it was a bit tough at times.
But there’s really nothing more valuable than wisdom. My mum used to teach me things in a similar way.
But I hope she also teaches him how to stand up for himself and his loved ones. Balance in raising a child is necessary.
I wish them well 🩶
Smart mom
wow this is amazing it will really help her kid in the future too and I love how she is able to validate his feelings and able to offer a solution that he is able to understand. this is so beautiful I hope that more parents can be like this to their children.
Love how she explained to her child i hope more mothers like her..
My son is autistic,,I wish I could have conversation with him like this...this kid is very lucky to have her as his mom,,likewise..
The fact that the mother knew that her son will share the teasing incident with her (and had prepared the camera and spinach to be cut) goes to prove the rapport that has been established between the both of them.
Very convenient
This is what I taught my kids too.. That in life, not everyone we encounter is going to be a friend.. There will be some people who likes us, and some people that don't. And that is perfectly ok because we can then nurture and focus on the relationships that matters.
Most people in the US need this Mom. We teach ourselves to try to fix each other. It is very toxic.
I learned something valuable today. Thank you Miss. You're a blessing.
Ignore them, was the problem bullies will see as a challenge and do whatever means to see your reactions
This mother needs to teach the whole world because there are people who clearly don’t respect each other’s opinions
Well done mom!
This is so sweet! am I the only one tearing up over here?
This is what we need!!! Such positive humans
My parents used to tell me to ignore bullies. It's terrible advice. It's been decades and I still haven't recovered.
Bullies will never go away but we must always find healthy ways of dealing with them. This mother is teaching her son that we shouldn’t let others people’s words destroy our souls.
I'm in real need of advice at this moment about a conflict and you know what, thank you to this mom for helping me too ❤
Such a sweet lucky boy
And all this with her son helping her out. ☺️
This is so cute. I wish this video existed a couple years ago so I could’ve sent it to my younger cousin when she was being bullied. Love u, cuz. ❤️
Wow, shes cool mom!
There is lots of bullying in schools today and teachers can't often stop it because it's done when they are not looking. This little boy is very smart the way he is listening to his mom. Beautiful family!
This kid is amazing.
Beautiful! Blessings to this beautiful mother and her lovely son. ❤
whoa she just taught her son the essence of stoicism
What a wise mommy! I definitely am going to show this clip to my daughter. ❤
Such parents are blessing to have
What an excellent parenting....
Giving a powerful message for kid
And she taught him to use knife at th very young age.
❤❤❤❤
Aww.. Such a nice mother.. I wish I had someone like her😞❤❤🙏
Yes,we have to leave the things that we can't control..Thanks to this mother and the universe!!🙏😊
That's a nice mom. I was never bullied before, but I got onto one or two fights when I was younger, mostly with my best friend at the time lol.
My father taught me to just defend myself if things got physical, thankfully, it never really got to that point, even when it did, I made friends, I miss those times
Her lines inspired me too
Great lesson on how to deal with negative comments. But I wouldn't call that bullying. 4 year olds say wicked things and at age 4 his classmate who criticized his painting might not have intended to make him feel bad - he just didn't know any better. There will be many instances when people would not say positive and encouraging things about our work.
As a mom I teach my children not to be a bully, and I teach them also that if the bully hurt you physically then nothing's wrong to defend yourself. As long as you are not the one creating the fight first then defend yourself.
The mother seemed really well educated and influencer so the kid and parents and teachers need to teach em this kind of manners from the beginning.
Great kid and great mom.